Things We Learnt While Being Single | Our Journeys in Singleness ft Jules and Lydia K M- Part Two

Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to part two of The Best Kept Secret Podcast. On this episode Jules, Lydia and our host Sharon share their Best Kept Secrets on things they've learnt while being single and what their journeys in singleness looked like.
Please share YOUR best kept secret on singleness in the comment section.
Thank you for watching.

[@lilianwangeci8162]

I heard someone say that self work does not guarantee a relationship. There's no man waiting at the end of your healing journey, so work in yourself without the expectation of finding a man at the end of it all.

[@annwamuyu8560]

Do what you can, leave the rest to God. You can do yourself justice by finding help and healing but you can't give yourself a mate but you can rest at knowing that God has this fully in control for you.

[@KateNM]

Self work is for you. You become a better person and you are able to have or foster a healthy relationships with the people around you, it doesn't have to be romantic.

[@SateyianMary]

whoooaaa🤯🤯🤯

[@the.victorgeorge]

So true. A relationship is not the sign of healing, it's just one of the results/outcomes of healing

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

I sincerely appreciate how Sharon is able to mention God in many of her points(secrets)and even quote scriptures without fear or shyness or whatever. I love that.

[@liznyokabi4639]

Me too

[@bettybkengole7380]

me three...

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

@@ZendayaGuard hiyo ni yako

[@the.victorgeorge]

I once heard Sarah Jakes Roberts say that relationships come with distractions, and you can't avoid those distractions. But you have to ask yourself, Is this distraction actually Construction or Destruction? Depending on your relationship, being distracted might actually be a good thing, for example, being with someone who distracts you from self-sabotage or procrastination and encourages and helps you to pursue your purpose. In such case, that distraction is actually construction.

[@dianamuthee2469]

I love this 💯

[@sonniemwatha8935]

I love Sarah Jakes Roberts😊

[@joylindamunyiri9333]

I learnt that God knew us before conception, meaning He already had a purpose for us. So if He planted the desire for relationships and marriage in you, then trust that at the right time He will make it happen.😌

[@carol76798]

I've missed Julia's wisdom😭😭. Imagine a podcast with Julia and Lydia..feels like the names rhym even😂😂

[@patiencebarasa550]

You guys have really really helped me! Thank you so much. Jules the vulnerability to share your authentic experiences has built me in many ways, Lydia your wisssdoom😊, Sharon your sweet gentle self...ahh!❤❤❤ kila mtu apite na love heart moja hapo😅

[@beloncekamz2821]

Summed up perfectly❤

[@angelamwandanda8333]

My word for 2023 is Rest. So just like Sharon, I had to find rest in all the things I was actively trying to make happen on my own strength and ending up with undesirable or repetitive results (in other words the cycles) and letting God do what he does best, because I was FINALLY exhausted. And now in this season I am now resting. It is hard, unfamiliar, liberating, peaceful and a whole bunch of other things. I wish all of you ladies the very best in whatever season you're each in.❣

[@DeDollyshow]

I totally agrees!

[@edinahkendi9871]

Gurlllll this💯

[@katherinewachira7794]

Totally agree....side note though..You were the icon of our times!iykyk... We appreciate you Angela!

[@angelamwandanda8333]

@@katherinewachira7794 ❤️ 🙏🏽.

[@melissagitts]

I absolutely resonate with everything you just said. Rest has been a season I've been in for quite some time now, and I'm glad to have passed through the unfamiliar, unsure..not very certain moments not to mention (deep moments of aloneness/loneliness).. eventually it becomes all worth it. ❤

[@viviennedebra4919]

Jules is so authentic.❤. Everything she says is relatable 😊

[@wangarikariuki6522]

The Bible quote you were talking of Sharon is Jeremiah 29:11. For sure, God’s got our backs, if only we’d surrender and trust in Him and His timing

[@HowIsYourHeartPod]

In the trenches right now but this conversation is giving me hope to healing. I can’t wait to be comfortable in my own company. Thank you ladies ❤🙏🏾

[@vanessakj6261]

Hey babe,things are going to okay. I'm in the pits too but i know everything is going to be okay.

[@W-NJERI-MUTHONI]

Jules is the vibest vibe in the history of vibes. Thank you Sharon for bringing this together.

[@evelyneprincess9072]

Where have I been??Its only today I am finding this and i love it!❤

[@valentinengare3022]

I absolutely loved this! ❤❤❤ Thank you ladies

[@_wawira]

This is real therapy. Thank you girls❤

[@DeDollyshow]

Wherever I see lyd I pause and watch and now Jules! My day is made, I love your channel Sharon weldone

[@mercypeter402]

This podcast is really amazing 😊..Shout out to Jules for always being vulnerable ❤❤❤...This three ladies are doing an amazing work with helping us grow.❤

[@debbykabiru7991]

Jules is a breath of fresh air yaani! Thank you ladies for this convo

[@sheisimmaculate682]

Oh how i love these ladies❤️❤️ Thankyou for this!

[@Kiptuibrenda]

This has been so insightful, enlightening, inspiring, beautiful and so wholesome❤

[@kalonducarolyne1295]

Thank you so much for part two ladies❤ I really related when Sharon said that sometimes you thrive when you are alone and you should use that time to achieve the things you want for yourself🤗

[@K_essie]

watched part 1 today and I already feel I belong in this channel.... Love you guys😘

[@beloncekamz2821]

Hapo sasa😄💃🏿. Lyd: "There is beauty in every season"💯. Therapeutic conversations 😊. Lyd, Jules and Sharon collabo we never knew we needed🔥. Good vibes❤

[@sharonirungu2092]

This episode was gems on gems on gems. I've taken notes. Thank you ladies

[@kenolyronn6726]

It’s like you all read my mind. Loved it.

[@wanjiku_her]

Currently in my single ,loving on me era🤗 thankyouuu for sharing your journeys ❤ Looove you ladies The episode is booomb❤🎉

[@Murathimii]

Wow! I just needed this ❤ love you all .

[@liznyokabi4639]

Shout to these women full of wisdom.Sharon is a goddess

[@sellahchabe1248]

I have enjoyed this conversations.Am 32 and yes at times being single sucks 😞 but yoh there is so much to be grateful for.Let me enjoy and be happy in this season.This episode has just made me happy 😁.

[@emmahnjoki7839]

You a woman is in love when she talks about how her relationship with partner has impacted her positively.

[@faithwambui9283]

Loved this!!❤

[@wambuinderitu2461]

Wow 😊 that was a nice topic.. today it's my first time watching n i love it ... Sharon your voice is calm and clear i love it

[@wambuinderitu2461]

i have really enjoyed the conservation .you girls are just open and vulnerable❤❤😊

[@carol76798]

Sharon's last point🎯🎯🎯🎯. Where I am at in life. So much growth

[@wambuimwangi9988]

Jules(followed and loved her from over 25)and Lydia(followed and loved her from EBRU) thanks for this and i have now discovered another lovely soul Sharon 💗💗

[@nellynjenga5568]

I have loved listening to these amazing and knowledgeable ladies when I am being intentionally single. The honesty and vulnerability is IT for me.

[@carolkasyoka9862]

This conversation is amazing. I am learning to enjoy and be content in the season I am in and know that I am enough and I bring something valuable to the table.

[@WanjikuDaniels]

Wow!! What an episode big up gals

[@janestarmugure]

Thanks Jules for telling us about check ins

[@Joyjoan800]

am so into you ladies, you're ladies of power

[@lilianwanjiku2242]

Favourites women/content creators all together 🤩🤩

[@kamasakamullah617]

I love this podcasts.

[@cyrahfelistas5648]

Beautiful conversation God bless you ladies

[@parieagan1938]

This was straight up therapy

[@quickstepcyber9354]

that was an awesome episode.. i have learnt a lot

[@yvonnemukiri119]

Thank you so much ladies... I'm currently single and like Sharon said I was idolizing marriage but after watching this trust Yu mee it's my time to rest... let's God do his part I'm going to b contented with myself... and life goes on Thnkyu once more....jeeez I came across this episode yesterday and I guess this is what I was waiting for..... it's time for me to understand there's season in life

[@liliannyakate4503]

Ist tym to watch ths Lov it... Great job

[@julietandekwa8771]

Yaani you guys have really taught me alot.. Jules n Lydia are just a vibe.. Jules am looking for you gal❤❤❤👏👏👏👏Good job Sharon

[@tetaumuhire2376]

OMG I'm so glad I saw this thank you All i really learnt

[@lilianmwai8805]

Enjoyed listening to you all

[@sellahchabe1248]

My take away is there is beauty in all seasons of life ❤.

[@gracegift7994]

Trauma robs you off imaginations hahaha thank You ladies ❤❤❤

[@user-go6rc1sp4v]

It was definitely worth listening to.. 😊

[@eunicendirangu4804]

Number one to comment ❤🎉 20 mnts in🎉🎉🎉

[@rahabmuiruri5232]

Jules is amazing and authentic❤

[@angies.8912]

I appreciate the time I have now, more so for myself. Building my life the way I want it for Me, when seasons change am okay with what I have done for myself... Be content with where you are and keep building yourself, particularly for a woman... Incase it's gonna remain that way then atleast you are genuinely happy with what you have created for yourself (physically, emotionally,spiritually, financially) Great conversations❤

[@oliviakorir3388]

Julez wherever you go we shall follow you 🤩🤩

[@somegirlinsouthernafrica961]

This Blessed me

[@valentinengare3022]

.and I love Jules laughter .😂😂

[@gracewanjiru4858]

As a single person, having the knowledge that its relationship that fails not a person, it make it easier not to pressure oneself with waiting to be with a person.

[@riyahshamar2222]

What does self work and self love look like . Please give us a video on that Sharon.

[@everydaywithcindy..3310]

In my intentional single error🦋am learning alot❤❤

[@virginiashyzo7509]

Love this woman Jules

[@vanessakj6261]

Jules is so wise!

[@sharonshanaga9069]

Its the season to be in🤗

[@hakayi9130]

You are all so insightful. Different strengths combined. What a beautiful thing to behold.❤

[@prettybeckiehbeccah4441]

Everyone needs to experience time of his or her own 😊😊

[@jaydeedoc]

The way she calls "Season" is so cool..

[@jacquemwemathecoach]

Don't chase what's next just rest and allow God and enjoy yourself ofcourse

[@itsmusaN]

Im struggling to get Jules podcast..love this ladies ❤

[@ndaebwalilian8443]

Me too😢

[@sincerelysylviaK]

Jules and Lydia I love the Collab. Thank you Sharon for inviting them❤

[@user-yq8dp6oy6n]

beautiful ladies thanks for vulnerability and sharing your insights. Subscribed. just a quick question. What was the sentence julia said in another language in the last episode? It wasn't Swahili for sure. Something that rhymed. I've heard her say that in o25 ad well. Are these ladies and O25 all the same kenyan tribe? Curious. Beautiful and smart ladies. Enjoyed the conversations. Need to finish watching this episode tomorrow.

[@hlobsiledlamini6516]

This came up just in time. I've been in a relationship for 3yrs now n it got so tiring in the last two months such that I craved being single..to me this is a confirmation that I have to break free from the entanglement

[@keshieywanjiru4474]

I'm here for jules 😍

[@annwamuyu8560]

You girls are amazing.... would you recommend me a therapist?

[@missinjairu1448]

❤Daaamn

[@anna.ke.]

Oh how I love me some insight,some good riddance... thank you ❤

[@Mitchell-Mercy.]

❤❤❤

[@user-el8ro4hj7n]

Being single really sucks and the fact that people don't beleive that you can be beautiful and single sucks more

[@fezilesithole5882]

8 years later, many failed talking stages, it is only now that I have come to accept that I am the common factor here and to step back and do proper introspection. I would always get into a relationship when I’m lonely, once I realise it’s not perfect I would bounce so I had to take accountability for my toxic traits and stop chasing the idea I had of relationships and marriage. I am genuinely happy here and I hope it lasts. I hope I stay here for a while😊

[@jeniffernjeri9119]

❤️❤️🥰

[@jecintakagai1397]

❤

[@jacquemwemathecoach]

Jules, why are you defining me? haki. I found someone after not dating for two years, and they were well packaged and i thought he was the one little did i know it was just a packaged toxic person and that was my awakening call.

[@elleakenya]

Sharon bring more Godly centered content I have followed you for years you always mentioned God

[@joynerwali408]

I found this interaction/experience beautiful is so many ways...❤🤍...