Things They Don't Tell You About Marriage - Men's Perspective | FT Kibunjah, Ben Cyco & Shiv Simani

Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to the season THREE of Best Kept Secrets.
On this episode, our host Sharon K speaks to Ben Cyco, Shiv Simani and Kibunjah on things they don't tell you about marriage: Men's perspective.
Please let us know your thoughts in the comments and don't forget to share, like and subscribe!

[@moraaogaro8590]

Shiv has a very calm Aura....really balanced out the energy in the room .. loved it

[@kuislittleworld2909]

Ikr! such a nice energy 😌 ✨️

[@edinahkendi9871]

Ben stays hilarious 😅😅😅 such a wholesome episode.. we're giving Sharon her flowers cause this season she really ATE with all the guests and topics

[@bestkeptsecretspod]

❤

[@mercycherono5378]

​@@bestkeptsecretspod😂❤😊fvf

[@mercycherono5378]

Y❤😂🎉😊❤🎉😊

[@wanjikunjuguna8650]

Is it me or Shiv sounds like he could be Dr. Love 🤔😅

[@lubimo9810]

When i see Ben, I'm guaranteed to laugh😂😂😂

[@wangarinyambura9797]

Sooo refreshing to hear men speaking highly of their wives ❤❤ kibunja ni G 🤣, Ben is just a comedian 🤣🤣, and then something about Shiv's voice that makes you just want to listen to him more and more 🤩🤩

[@estelschannelec8790]

Loved this episode,men glorifying marriage and giving their wives credit to them being wholesome humans contrary to the negative marriage narrative out here...this was great Sharon

[@Sintamei_]

"Sometimes i threaten her with kwashiakor!" Ben 2023😂😂

[@pinto5297]

Nmecheka yangu yote.. atleast someone else understand that 😂

[@Sintamei_]

Ben is so funny 😂 his sense of humor is it! Looking good girl❤ loved the face beat

[@greatness23FL]

The way sharon is preparing herself vicariously through this and previous segments with her guests❤❤❤I am here to see you grow in your marriage and motherhood on God and Love. I am learning as well before I get there....thank you Sharon ❤.

[@ednamakori2967]

Great episode! My POV is I don't think that women are homemakers. I think we are trained to be homemakers from childhood . If boys were trained in the same way as girls, they would also be homemakers. Being a homemaker is not an intrinsic trait, it is taught.

[@gracemumbi6219]

Totally agree. We're damned by the "culture" & "society".

[@olivekabisa2914]

Get you someone who looks at you the way Ben looks at Shiv.

[@carolinenjoroge1195]

Kibunja really loves Esther.and He is right you keep pursuing your wife❤❤

[@naxiz_kenya2805]

That's so true but how do you deal with a wife who's decided to give u hell morning to morning most of the time for reasons you have zero idea of.

[@carolinenjoroge1195]

@@naxiz_kenya2805 communication talk to her and know what is wrong most people project what they are feeling inside and therapy also helps alot

[@nellyonserio896]

They are literally soulamtes❤❤❤

[@carennangila]

Loving this .This really makes singles appreciate marriage. Positivity and learning. This guys are hilarious 😂 😂

[@moraaogaro8590]

Esther....you were truly chosen for such a time as this 😂😂😂

[@imungukalevera8671]

We have had an episode with men only. When you had Mantalk on what gives men the ick. So refreshing to see more content where men are speaking highly of women and in genuine self reflection too. Love it.

[@marywairimu8060]

Exactly in season one.we had Eli and Oscar let's help our girl keep track. ❤

[@bestkeptsecretspod]

Haha it completely slipped my mind. Thanks for the reminder ❤

[@marywairimu8060]

I could watch this over and over again. Wise men to be emulated right here 👏

[@RosaliaShiweva]

What a powerful way ..💗💗💗 the openness in this episode thanks 🙏🏾

[@natiesown]

Just catching up on this episode this morning!❤️❤️ Thank you so much for this, this was such a heartwarming episode! I love how the men were speaking so positively and lovingly about their wives❤️✨

[@PearlAjuna-od7qe]

This has been such a lovely episode. Generally actually, this podcast gives such calm vibes that I absolutely love❤. You can really tell that Sharon is really living in her purpose with this. I LOVE IT!

[@stephniek]

Best episode so far, the panel was amazing 🎉

[@nkathapamela5703]

It's a beautiful day 😍😊,,this is an amazing piece

[@user-tx3tw7pt6x]

Couldn't miss this for anything with Ben cyco in it I knew it was going to be lit

[@lucyrose1782]

Ben akiwa,lazima ucheke 😅.

[@risperkariuki1459]

Amazing conversation. thank you.

[@caramel9244]

Great topic, ideas & content! 👌🏾

[@mercywakithinji]

Mmm... Great conversation... Its nice to hear that guys appreciate our orderness.. Let's keep the game up gals❤

[@oliveshioko5025]

Such a wholesome episode 👌...loved it❤❤

[@twentytwo3840]

Uuuiii shiv is so fynn❤

[@rosechepkorir7709]

😂😂true but was the uuui necessary

[@andrewkifee381]

Women always want what they can't have

[@joangathoni1783]

Love how they are starting sentences... My wife....my wife...🥹🥹

[@dorineojodo5927]

Know thyself.....know thy spouse

[@nyamburaroseanne7286]

Lakini Ben and banter same Whatsapp...I loved the conversation

[@JerryNdururiJW]

This is the first time i am watching anything from this channel and all i can say is, What a way to end the season!👏👏👏

[@bedandbreakfastpodcast]

Such a lovely conversation

[@throughallthings1148]

Hii episode ni fire,we have learnt alot and can we just talk of how this guys are appreciative to their partners,may GOD HELP US GET SUCH PARTNERS🙏🙏🙏

[@anjelinethiongo423]

Aaaawwwww such a beautiful combooo ... Heeey Sharon your podcast is just it 🎉❤

[@greatness23FL]

26:37 love when shiv said it is A HEALTHY THING....❤❤❤let that sink in 💯💯 😂😂😂🔥nmekumbuka Kuna ex nlikuwa naye alikuwa anaishi kama wild animal....nliturn up na pillows ju zake alikuwa ametupa kwa wardrobe zimechapa khae mem can survive ...iyo ya windows na curtains wololo tusianze I had to drag him to kamukunji we shopped for curtains and towels nachukuwa za white anapiga nduru😂😂adi pegs eiiii men...he comes home anapata nmepika na nmeenda wueeeh wuehh thanks to the roaming chef alikuwa anaona vitu ziko out of this world 😂😂😂💯🔥💯men love a good meal na usidanganywe usipikie your man

[@mercykeli]

I enjoyed this episode more than the Ladies one. I like listening to men who are in touch with themselves and value women without the weird school of thought that makes some men think that that makes them weak. If you know how to love your woman, she will make you the most happiest man ever.

[@brayomwangi8826]

How did Ben not speak in Kikuyu today😂😂😂 good vibes 🎉🎉

[@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood]

Such a beautiful conversations . Your wives are beautiful crowns on your heads. Endeleeni kuwapenda vizuri

[@nellygatwiri6481]

Hello i have been listening to your podcasts,and most are on how people heal from cycles, friendships and many things which i learn alot,my request is would you kindly help us have guests who can as well discuss about how they grew up in a good environment maybe with good role models,friendships, parents,maybe work and how it shaped who they are today and how they are doing life positively,like kuwe na a difference of what we listen 😮😮

[@hibogetikali7996]

😍😍😍😍😍😍 and we are here ☺️☺️☺️ #1 viewer

[@rosemarychege4992]

Season 3 has been so wholesome and amazing. Loved it so much. Big up Sharon ❤

[@mmbonestacy3189]

This was so informative Sharon thanks for the good content.You just earned other subscriber❤🥂

[@marymuiru2907]

This episode was amazing❤ lakini Ben😂😂 he is always funny

[@gracemumbi6219]

Why do men have a problem introducing their wives by their names? Kudos to the two guests who did it unprompted - I'm impressed!🎉🎉🎉

[@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood]

Interesting observation 🤔

[@CYNTHIACHEPTOO-cn2hc]

❤❤❤ i love this

[@SimoneMuthoni]

Sharon you look so good ❤❤

[@JoMburu]

Hii episode imenionyesha naishingi kama mwanaume. 😁 Great episode.

[@Wandia_bobo]

😂😂😂broooo

[@emmamutash]

This is one of the episodes I've enjoyed watching..... I'd love to see more of Ben, he's so real and his sense of humor is top notch....does he have a channel?

[@sarahnyambura1634]

Watch joyride

[@YvonneGideonsKe]

Yes he does! The joy ride podcast utapenda....

[@maryalicewamaitha4525]

Ben is so funny..right from introduction

[@ThrivingMentally]

Watching Tom Cruise alafu unajiangalia...quite hilarious

[@mwanjeri737]

hii nayo nilikuwa nimengoja

[@SaintMohair]

hey thanks for the episode can we know the names of the name or their social media handles. Thank you

[@k3ygvrv]

i always go thru the comments of most of these podcasts and its 99 percent women commenting, I always want to comment but I feel some typa way. Let me say sth today, I'm a 27 yr old man but I've never been in a long term relationship all my life. I tend to think and believe that I was not made for monogamy, my question to men is, how do yall manage to stay with one woman? yall never get bored of them?

[@Prosperity23846]

You're yet to find the one you love. Once you get her loyalty will be automatic

[@k3ygvrv]

@@Prosperity23846 question, does 'the one' exist? what if she dies, or goes to live in a far way land? will I forever remain single?

[@tafadhalijiheshimu6229]

Hii akili chemsha supu.

[@jamesmwangi7710]

😂😂😂

[@elsieabilaabilamusic980]

This is just a collective thinking.give yourself some little more time n try some new values like honesty n trust n self respect ul see that you are not built to be a certain way but this are habits one picks up and lives by them N yours maybe a thirst /lust problem that you can try to address buy asking yourself why go fr a woman, give her fake promises only to break them. I believe what you should do in polygamy,let your plans be known beforehand when you start dating. If you find it uncomfortable to do this trust me you are still a boy, afraid to be rejected but yet deceitful at heart. Not sure who would like a co-wife or concubines though 🙄 but try. Maybe a few . All the best otherwise endelea kugrow kidogo uwe na independent thinking then make a decision 🙏🏾. All the best .

[@jobshubafrica]

38:42 ben anaangalia shivs aje😂❤

[@teresitamoraa7998]

Weweee😂😂😂

[@furahathestar]

Ben😅😅😅authenticity🔥🔥🔥

[@buyletugandalimited2118]

Mambo ya character development 😂

[@Wandia_bobo]

🎉🎉🎉

[@Muciistudio]

Great episode but Shiv shouldn't have been here. It kinda feels like he's not on the same page

[@user-ud1ej5xp9x]

Good episode but difficult to follow with the mix of local language.

[@gamwani]

Sharon K got married????

[@zeitgeist254]

I wonder if Shiv should be here considering the rest of them men are literally newly weds.

[@wambuiwanjiru9392]

Is shiv and doc love the same person,?

[@SuhailaKoki254]

❤❤❤❤🎉🎉

[@moraaogaro8590]

Aki Ben 😂😂😂😂

[@user-qf9qd8pl8b]

Ben is so unserious 😂😂😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️

[@jacintakamula2524]

Aki Ben 😂 This guy is so hilarious 😅

[@naxiz_kenya2805]

But i have a question, why is it very difficult for women generally to just see white as white, instead of arguing and arguing, argue about the argument then come around n agree that its white. When a brother keeps quiet, y'all start another argument of its the way you were saying white that i didn't like. Ok babe, then so thats all you have say. Jesus christ most of us men have no clue what we meant to do or say. Sometimes a hug or good sex would work but sometimes brother is confused n they just saythis piece of nag aint worth it. So maybe you guys can handle such a topic for us folks to understand

[@carolinenjoroge1195]

You guys forget to eat?😭

[@TopChoiceTilesDecor]

Lies haki 😂😂😂

[@Its_Arsenath]

😂😂😂

[@carolkageni1168]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@carolmutua5266]

Definitely not me😂 I live to eat. I'm always thinking about what i'll have for my next meal.

[@kali4nia816]

They don't tell ya marriage is a scam😢live ya life unapologetically .

[@carolinenjoroge1195]

God didn't create Scams and marriage is His

[@elsieabilaabilamusic980]

​10 nil 💪🏾💪🏾

[@evamwende3416]

Heal

[@kali4nia816]

It's 2024 Africans...wake the fk up...jesus is a joke,find yoyr own black GOD.

[@wanjiku.ngotho]

Ben get chapstick jameni 😭😂😂

[@ranzakinyanjui8946]

😂😂

[@arnoldmudavadi1195]

Is it me ama hawa wanadanganyw😂😂

[@dianaatieno1564]

Dem umeekaaa aje surely 😢na camera man anafocus tu😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@lubimo9810]

Wewe toa negativity hapa🙄🙄

[@Prosperity23846]

That's the only thing you've picked from this conversation?!?!?! That's crazy!! I hadn't even noticed it. Kwani amekaa aje???

[@throughallthings1148]

there is a better way to place your statement ,yes her sitting position is abit off maybe next time she should look at her posture

[@larafungaming3374]

It's the dress that's not long enough unfortunately

[@janegicheru973]

Hahahhaha mapaja wazi....nakuelewa kabisaa

[@Offthetrack_ke]

This are slayking men, bring real men

[@hellenamedia3470]

?????

[@Prosperity23846]

Remove your toxic masculinity here and continue being with men who have mentality ya 19th Century

[@larafungaming3374]

Tutakusupport ukiwaleta kwa podcast yako

[@nadetteskitchen]

Sharon, this has got to be one of your best episodes yet. Ive learnt that marriage is indeed a good thing and a big shout out to these wonderful men. How you spoke of your wives, yhooo mad respect for all of you. 🫡