This Blind Date Did NOT Go How We Assumed | Tell My Story

It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
Now tell YOUR story. What do people assume about you?
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[@Ryan-bx4br]

"I exclusively date black women. The lord created one specific person for me and I believe she is black." -Things Not to Say on a First Date 101

[@katheriner10]

I was so hoping she would ask why, like what on earth could make you think that God wants you to marry a black woman???

[@yourlolibabe]

i LOST IT I CANT 😭

[@ShanteRoxxane]

Ryan 9312 EXACTLY! Strange man.

[@joyh4]

The guy is immature and full of fetish

[@NYCRhythm]

Such a weird concept! How is that diversity? And why did he lead her on?? Wolf in sheep’s clothing

[@skerple94]

"I'm an actor/model/magician" ...slow down there, Miranda Sings...

[@tiramclachlan7844]

skerple94 I thought this too 😂😂

[@FoksiiLejdi]

skerple94 hahahhaahah you made my day

[@justsmile9340]

yess im crying, i love this

[@kaylaglass9531]

majitchen 😂😂😂

[@ninamalik8071]

skerple94 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@violetrose335]

In other words, he is unemployed and broke.

[@asiasierra5239]

Violet Rose 😂😂😂

[@luczjanbhenggre7545]

At least he didn't say "KZbin finesser."

[@Ikekel]

Doesn't change the fact that He still doesn't like her but go off...

[@jac.quezzz4495]

@@merian4938 You don't believe she's attractive, but ok !

[@dequasha16]

D E P R E S S I O N wowwwwww

[@smallardresumereply6482]

He not attracted to her physically, I think he's looking for more of the bohemian , earthy , artsy type of black girl .didn't help he said it twice. She's a med student so I think in the long run they would clash ,she's more structured and he's the go with the flow type. Just my 2 cents

[@ritahahahaaha]

✔✔✔

[@kittycartoon4173]

exactly!

[@jesuschristreturn1882]

He his the one that's not attractive at all. Why people fall for some long hair? His face is not manly , and seems arrogant , cold. She is the sweet kind spirit .

[@smallardresumereply6482]

@Creole Chicken thanks for pointing that out.

[@JustCallMeJaane]

Creole Chicken 😭😭

[@hiteshitta8986]

I'm living for the day when someone guesses the name correctly

[@Asic14GT]

Hiteshitta I guessed a name correctly ones her name was Vivian I guessed it cause there was a girl in my school named Vivian and they looked alike

[@myvisualdiares]

Get some Tibetans there and they'll most likely guess it right LOL

[@kateoleary5507]

Nice Potato 700th like

[@lucatenki]

Hiteshitta same

[@marybible8511]

Hiteshitta same

[@laelladickerson5905]

When he said " I exclusively date black women" I cracked up. I thought he was about diversity lol

[@dalenanguyen8684]

Believing in diversity and having preferences are different. I could be more into Asians, blacks, Mexicans, or any race. It doesn't make me racist it just means I have a certain type of person I prefer to be, of course you can't have it ALL. You can believe in diversity and respect all lives but, can still have a preference to what you want in a lover. I haven't watched the whole video and maybe, he took it in a weird way. I hope you have a great day! Edit: Then again he did say exclusively, he may just be more picky.. 🤷‍♀️

[@wesday3652]

I feel like that's what he was talking about when he said diversity. Like, he was using 'diversity' as a more subtle way of saying he doesn't want to date another white person.

[@LotharOfTheHillPeople]

So if he had said, "Well, I only date WHITE women - so no thanks!" you would be cool with that?

[@estherraji]

When he said that it made me cringe

[@lynne4865]

I'm dead

[@yogalekshumimarimuthu2173]

Moral of this story: Be yourself and don’t try too hard to impress a guy...

[@alikinyannyan9135]

And trying not too hard to impress a girl neither lol 🤣👌

[@noneya1238]

How? She was herself. Do you know thr real her or what?

[@Jeffrin_]

@@noneya1238 It was pretty evident the woman was trying too hard! She seemed desperate almost.

[@noneya1238]

@@Jeffrin_ She tried hard how?

[@theovercomer7032]

Well, I used to see that girl talking, acting... she s a very energetic and courageous person.

[@Quadcast88]

“I believe God made one person for me and I believe she’s Black.”’ the hell?

[@cmyy2j]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@elisabethsanon7393]

WTF🤣🤣🤣

[@hanselbeckfordjr7530]

I heard this crap like "Really mfer?" SMH!

[@emzaltoju]

Yeah wtf

[@blablacu]

but when a woman says that you really dont care, right?

[@hii4811]

IMAGINE how awkward this was without the music

[@Pun1Sh3r_360]

You're comment should be the top comment 😂🤣

[@princessum.4338]

Haha I always wondered that!! The music actually does help the situation.

[@MoonofTris]

Like icarly

[@saylorwerthington7971]

😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@GoodbyeScar]

Hahahahahahhaha I can't 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ItsDarcey]

''I believe in diversity, its important to me''. 7 minutes later- ''I only date black women''

[@human_like_cat124]

ItsDarcey 😂😂😂

[@user-eu8wz1mr1l]

ItsDarcey that same thing got me lmao

[@jillm5243]

I totally missed that lmao

[@AtLeastITriedGames]

yes, yes!!! Imagine if he said "I only date White Women". I don't think they would put a guy who says that in the video!

[@ChosenVessel82]

ItsDarcey he believes in diversity meaning he likes it and his diversity is black women. There are a lot of men and women who are attracted to a specific race in a dating couple manner, but still find other races attractive but just couldn't see themselves marketing them. That doesn't mean they are ugly, just not for them.

[@samanthaghost3215]

He totally played this especially telling her he only dates black women. He got her hopes up and then let her fall flat on her face.

[@rodneyw51]

Lol

[@shahermyonez6647]

Yeah what's her Instagram? She cool fr

[@sparkythancztwise]

Hey Samantha, yep, you saw it. I have noticed the others in comments who have the sense for the flags. Those of us who have been down the garden path (or thrown in the dungeon maze) enough by this type, abused enough (or observed enough) of this pattern of behavior. We recognize those by the visceral "ew" felt when witnessing the behaviors of people who are habituated to this type of covert sociopathic conduct.

[@hanselbeckfordjr7530]

You saw the setup for the fail huh? LOL

[@heatherhussler6709]

His current girlfriend is black...

[@stormj8947]

THE GIRL IS BEAUTIFUL, HAS AMBITION TO BECOME A DOCTOR, SHE'S A BOSS👍💞💞

[@MaccyMoose]

This guy deliberately got her hopes up omfg that “I said I wouldn’t date you at first BUT, after talking and getting to know you.. I still wouldn’t”

[@HasSalute]

Caitlin Macdonald he was being ethical and honest

[@anandkumargupta3351]

Exactly ....i was also thinkin that

[@mysteryfan8874]

If at the beginning when both open their eyes, one of them just gets up and leaves, how awkward would that be?

[@blueapplegirl1]

Omg exactly my thoughts... When he said "BUT" instead of "AND" I was totally thinking he's gonna say he would date her.

[@saraab.6733]

I think when they say that last phrase they have like a script they need to follow. Meaning, they have so say the word "BUT" to keep it interesting, no matter what they chose. Thats what they do in other videos, they always say "but"

[@gnm825]

I knew he messed up when he said sharrice

[@graishawnlandry6558]

Y070doe lol

[@em-pu3hv]

Y070doe lol same

[@MegaCadette55]

Y070doe atleast it is not Keisha lol

[@navarinpirachai3127]

666th like heyyy

[@kaoutarbouchmal683]

hhhhhhhh made my day

[@baileyandthejets6240]

"I need someone who believes there's something out there because I am Christian" "When you're dead you're dead"

[@ashaasaju4172]

BB Bailey yeah that didn’t make sense to me either

[@homehelpheart7440]

I know it's not right to laugh about the situation, but when she said that I was like wait. Wait girl! You're a Christian! But now I realize she was talking about reincarnation which is a totally different thing from the spirit going to heaven when we die

[@fabulouslifeinchrist1349]

It confused me too. I thought seven day adventists believe in an after life. I mean we maybe dead until the rupture but the soul does not die and still gets to worship God....like dreaming in a way....then the rapture and heaven if someone believes in the Lord.

[@shaniel3618]

no she meant that when you die you die. then God comes for a second time and comes to bring you to heaven. she believes in an afterlife but not in the terms of when you die you automatically become someone or something else. don’t do my girl lmaoo y’all know what’s he meant.

[@janyia3388]

BB Bailey fr😂

[@ShopGurl96]

A Christian magician? The hypocrisy jumped out

[@Anieckieee]

Magicians use stage tricks and illusions. That's different than actual magic. So no, no hypocrisy

[@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587]

LMAO

[@delighteddinodoughnuts2626]

Lol

[@S_T_fania]

@Lotus Aguilera dont talk if you dont know

[@MEUltra]

treneé LMFAO

[@valorantlegendgod]

"Actor, model, magician" in other words unemployed

[@Abcdefghijk920]

Alice Greyheart the sad truth. The struggle. 🤣😭

[@YooTooLoB]

Alice Greyheart 😭😭😭

[@inprogress5210]

It's a struggle

[@ItsHaneEefah]

Alice Greyheart 'in other words' 😭😭😭

[@sumayyahhabib9156]

Alice Greyheart or that life just isn’t for everyone😂😂😂

[@Moonlit.Monique]

“I only exclusively date black women.” And I oop-

[@xo_.musicloverxo]

what's wrong with him saying that????..

[@markellak2389]

xoescapethrumusicxo because it's not like only black women have the mental qualities he wants! ...Except if he just like the way they look.

[@ThatGuy-yk1ey]

Markella k Markella k Well all he said is that he thought god wanted him to date a black woman. Not really anything about their mentality or how they look.

[@AR-oc2cl]

@@ThatGuy-yk1ey How would he know that God wanted him to date a black woman? What a weird thing to say. She should have rejected him on that alone.

[@ThatGuy-yk1ey]

Severn Daichi Well it was just his belief, don’t diss people on that.

[@SS-hb3ct]

He wasn't physically attracted to her. Nothing wrong with that.

[@jasminedevich3182]

Yeah but he should not have played her like that...making her think that they would be a good match because he only dates Black woman.

[@victoryomietimi2646]

@@jasminedevich3182 I don't think he led her on, I think he was being sincere and truthful

[@jasminedevich3182]

@@victoryomietimi2646 I still don't agree but I respect your thoughts on it. Thank you for being respectful in your response because with being online and sharing your thoughts can come with it straight up hate and disrespect so thank you for being respectful.

[@undertheblood31]

I think he is getting hate because he said God created one woman for him...Believing in God is and what he has for u.

[@dreadxplayzs7849]

@@undertheblood31 Bible says to not mix with thy neighbor meaning interracial relationships was frowned upon or was a son bit what do I know 🤷‍♀️

[@Phoenixspin]

I really didn't see these two together.

[@cocoabear925]

Same.

[@behabtwa]

nah, goldielocks comes across as a player

[@Animbating]

'I see you more as a friend' means 'I don't find you attractive enough to get turned on' which a nicer way of putting it. She's gorgeous and funny so he missed out though.

[@inkeriananas]

Animbating Or he just didn't feel the spark. Happens all the time.

[@iBeFloe]

H said how important his faith was, so I'm sure at that part he friended her.

[@ARMY_TRINI]

she dodged a bullet, he seems real problematic....lol and that's me describing him it nicely

[@MegaCadette55]

didierrnt fo real.he is trouble

[@JiFan]

Yeah he's got issues fo sure :p

[@thebonifiedlady111]

I hate these type of experiments. The look in her eyes when he said he would not date her just broke my heart.

[@MizzLilLaffyTaffy]

Bitch I almost cried she looked hurt

[@Nani.101]

Debbie Debbie yeah, based off her backstory it seems like she might have grown up being the "best friend" all the time

[@demon8278]

Debbie Debbie SPOLIER

[@marikaalpis9037]

* spoiler alert *

[@5dollarfootlongs451]

Debbie Debbie right

[@ambitchiousasmr4443]

5 minutes in and you just see his whole demeanor change. She was so intrigued by everything he said, he seemed like he just wanted to get it done and over with.

[@daughteroftheking3220]

I thought I was the only one. I love how we know how to read the room.

[@kellysimone4495]

“I just sense like a friendship type of vibe between us” lmao that’s him basically saying he’s not attracted to her physically 😂

[@ms_ch]

"I only date black women" GIRL, DARLING, RUUUUN!

[@kennyforshort]

Mishelle Ch. like Get Out!

[@coloritgreenbehappy]

lol this is exactly my reaction!

[@danielguzman4259]

Spoilers lol

[@fayyineegemeda196]

Help my girl before she hits the sunken place!!

[@IvySweetVenom]

May I ask why? I honestly don't know. Is that bad? I am Hispanic btw

[@cantbebless]

When he said that he only dates black woman I went from "Awwwww this would be a cute couple" to "Girl you better get yourself out of there right now"

[@RoyalPayne1979]

duhitzblessing lol

[@malucos00]

duhitzblessing I cringed so hard

[@shevy_shev93]

duhitzblessing GET OUTTTTTTTT

[@sheasullivan6602]

Oh same!

[@DanishCamp]

"I don't go for looks".....later..... "I only date black women" Weeeeell alrighty then!!........

[@briannagalindez4384]

Basically what he said is "when I first saw you I did not find you attractive". This is why he dropped the friend bomb on her. SMH!

[@yvonnenoel7206]

Well, sad but true. He may be attracted to black women, however, she was not his type. There is nothing wrong with that. He may have appeared very weird, but he was honest with her.

[@yvonnenoel7206]

@Snow White , I feel you 💯, but the TRUTH, will ALWAYS be the TRUTH, anyway you spin it! Good day,!

[@minmin4842]

Nothing wrong with that

[@mimitora8291]

So why you shake your head? Will you date an unattractive person? You should see her current gf, she is cute

[@a.goldenone]

This woman is drop dead GORGEOUS!

[@stipidman93]

nope

[@m.w.3256]

@@stipidman93 YES!

[@TheTwilightShadow69]

I feel like he let her on more than he needed to. He didn't have to mention that he only dates black woman to a black woman sitting across from him on a blind date... Made her think he was interested.

[@myusernamesmellsodeosyours4204]

Go copy and paste IDIOT! RIGHT? 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🙍‍♀️🙍‍♀️

[@jodyleyman469]

I agree.

[@iamkhaleesi9103]

He's just an asshole and he looks untidy

[@OrtensGrabbar]

Can we hit 1k likes?

[@cathyrojas2121]

Honestly like why would one mention that when SHES BLACK AND YOURE ON A BLIND DATE smh

[@39abc93]

she handled it like a boss.

[@allycake8415]

39abc93 i wanted to like ur comment but it was so nice 888 even ughness

[@misskiya]

Everybody mad at him cause he doesn’t want to date her cause he said he dates black women exclusively. He kinda set her up for failure when he said he only dates black women. That made her think he was into her. Nevertheless, He’s entitled to NOT be attracted to every black woman that crosses his path. She’s just not his type of black woman.

[@rodneyw51]

Black women worship Whiteboys always pushing them on a pedestal!!!

[@jasminedevich3182]

That's the point though he lead her on and that is NOT cool its low and pathetic...She's a beautiful young med student and he's a handsome arrogant man who doesn't seem to have an idea of where he's going and might be unemployed...it wasn't that he may not have been attracted to her that's the problem its the way he did it. He was a arrogant jerk about it because he lead her on.

[@lindagordon981]

@@jasminedevich3182 I don't think he lead her on because he made the statement that he dates or only dates Black women. Black women might be his preference but not ALL Black women. I do agree that he could have let her down easier but if you've watch other videos in this series I'm sure you know that this is how things are done. Also, honesty is the best policy I would rather know the truth than have someone "pretend" to be into me.

[@lindagordon981]

@KiyaCherrae totally agree with what you said that just because he said he dates Black women doesn't mean he dates ALL Black women he comes across...that's a very inane assumption. He has preferences, and maybe that preference is light-skin Black women or someone who is less curvy. Who the heck knows. The bottom line is that he wasn't physically attracted to her. I think it hurt her feelings but she should think of it like this, at least he was honest and personally, I would rather have a guy be honest than lead me on and break my heart. Been there, done that and it's NOT a good feeling.

[@yvonnenoel7206]

@@lindagordon981 , I wholeheartedly concur. I think initially, she may have been hurt, however, once she plays back their interactions, I think she will be very thankful, he rejected her. He comes across as very weird to me.

[@frejahietikko4109]

2:04 When you're writing a test and you actually know the answer

[@skykorzen10101]

Frejaaa H how does this comment only have 2 likes i almost choked LMAO

[@godsbabeborn-again5945]

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@shalihapado7071]

😂

[@Mariama.Mamiwata]

Underrated comment 😂😂😂

[@deniaridley]

LOL

[@aikikaname6508]

And yet this woman is taking her rejection more maturely than 99% of the comment section 😂

[@claudiiiiiia]

Aiki Kana me she is so nice

[@frostyfrosty6745]

😂😂😂

[@Hejdbsbjs]

Aiki Kana me what is my I have an Elsa are you blowing up like I like I like the way I like I like the time where you at I got a hold of the world answer

[@mmmfun77]

Aiki Kana me totally

[@michelledenise6934]

That's just cuz she was being filmed!

[@amyleahparkinson]

I JUST WANNA REACH THROUGH THE SCREEN AND GIVE HER A BIG HUG AND TELL HER SHE DON'T NEED NO AARON

[@EDKsurly]

me too!

[@moses9953]

A-aron

[@maddyr846]

Why does it matter? He doesn’t need to like her, it’s not your life so back off. He doesn’t sense a relationship vibe between them and that’s his choice.

[@ShanteRoxxane]

Lmao @ "she don't need no Aaron." That's hilarious, honestly.

[@natashao0517]

I respect his honesty... he just wasn’t attracted to her.

[@liselautenbacher]

Honesty? So did I miss the part where he actually said "I'm not attracted to you"? :D

[@pamelaclary3801]

He wasn’t!

[@househead67]

if he's "been saved since he was 5", how is he a "magician" when God speaks against sorcery aka "magic"?

[@househead67]

@Patrice Brown absolutely.

[@lornes7526]

Good question. I wonder if feeding thousands with a few loaves of bread and fish falls into the category of sorcery or majic?

[@DSBaker95]

Lorne S that is considered a miraculous or divine act of God. Not magic or sorcery.... which is humanly divined (divination).

[@Pikachu-qr4yb]

@@DSBaker95 oh lord lol 🙄

[@shalommary7681]

🤷🏽‍♀️ right! tf?

[@Kayla-tj5qn]

the ending was hard to watch omg

[@jj-vf7wm]

Kayla you mean cringe

[@allieschwarz8023]

+Kayla Hard to watch because he's insulting her for no reason (why not say "yes" to a date unless the other person is actively offensive?) , but I'm so glad they're not going out. He's condescending and arrogant, but because she finds him physically attractive (I assume he's better-looking in person) and because at a surface level it seems like they share some spiritual values, it's easy to see that she would have had a hard time rejecting him. That would have been a problem because when someone is distracted by trying to win Mr Wrong, she might not notice that Mr Right is directly in front of her.

[@PrincessJayEze]

Kayla I know I was shocked I was like 😀😲😧🙁😕

[@SIXTYZmusic]

You are saying he should date her because she didn't insult him?

[@eugenedelacroix8567]

I feel bad for her😕

[@robinmaurya619]

Damn, the way the title was written I thought a fight broke out or something 😒

[@nickyd993003]

Robin Maurya Same.

[@angelicapickles1135]

The "tittle"?

[@robinmaurya619]

Angelica Pickles *I meant title... Sue me 😒

[@berryhunnybear]

same lmao

[@ectasia]

i thought they were exes

[@ellionainthismf9378]

That thumbnail did them dirty 🤣🤣

[@Ginanotfromitaly]

Lol! Real real dirty..

[@YellaRoseBliss]

😂😂😂

[@anonymouslinqe7401]

i did not expect him to say: i would still not date you. so shocked! he gave very mixed messages. The more they were revealing things about themselves i got so convinced they would go out straight after the show.

[@letseatgrandmaaaa]

This seems so embarrassing omg I would die. She just put herself out there and he said he wouldn't date her and now she looks sad. I'm crying 😭

[@Khvost_]

Hey let's be honest she was not that sad! And yes they might become good friends=)

[@letseatgrandmaaaa]

Добрый День you could see the pain in her eyes lolol 😂 idk rejection scares me

[@Khvost_]

me too. And you are right I can see pain, but it could've been worse, he did find the right words=)

[@iBeFloe]

Anayah Well she should've known he would've said no thanks after she said she wasn't a Christian.

[@jamieloyola]

iBeFloe what? She did 4:16

[@Magerquark]

I think it's weird when someone says, "I ONLY date a certain race" because you can find your soulmate in anyone

[@rachelvaughan9417]

I know. That really threw me off.

[@mistyminnie5922]

ikr

[@janaishahart5937]

exactly. i just got some weird vibes tbh..

[@hainzsolomon172]

Sam Brown something really shady about that,

[@tarableday]

Sam Brown 100% agree like why exclude a huge part of the population before even getting to know them... its almost racist? but i do understand how you can find physical traits that are more common to people of certain races attractive but still like y tho

[@Missthatgirl634]

People getting mad at dude - hey he likes who he likes - he wasn't attracted to her - that's life.

[@sandyknowles5638]

truth

[@witchplease9695]

Then he shouldn’t have claimed to like Black women.

[@UglyFux]

@@witchplease9695 so he has to like ALL of them? I like guys of different races too but I wouldn't date one I found unattractive or incompatible.

[@karmicobsession1636]

@@witchplease9695 so of you like black men you have to like all black men? Since when

[@krimmy8459]

It was so obvious that she liked him but he didn't like her cause he literally didn't laugh at any jokes.

[@user-jj1rc7qd1f]

she seemed so hurt my heart ached for her. girl, you're freaking beautiful. I LOVE YOU

[@mostwanted973]

Alfalfa Jones that’s funny asl but damn that was rude Lol

[@user-jj1rc7qd1f]

@Alfalfa Jones i agree. some people do lie instead of facing the truth, but i honestly think she's beautiful. and she sounds really interesting. and maybe that dude just wasn't interested in her and didn't actually care about her looks. if you think that someone isn't attractive, doesn't mean everyone feels the same way.

[@Ana-vs2pw]

N.W.A. Troll exposed. You must be a racist white person. Pathetic... Leave black girls alone with your racism and hatred 👊🏾

[@ShanteRoxxane]

Sarah Ahmed Girl she will be fine. She probably dodged a bullet. He seemed weird.

[@ShanteRoxxane]

N.W.A. You wish. Most black Women don't like white boys in the least.

[@bktm]

Favorite quote- "I don't have friends I have family" "I wouldn't date you but I think we could be great friends"

[@peacelovemotivation8366]

Family-zoned

[@nicolemarie9875]

BigBen right friends with benefits 🙄

[@raquelrose2080]

BigBen lmaoooo good catch

[@whatsinsidemysteryohh4945]

Same

[@summerlush77665]

@@peacelovemotivation8366 Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

[@rhondac.891]

Sis was giving him all her personality. Definitely friend vibes

[@Victory.In.Jesus95]

“When I die, I can’t wait for Him to say “well done, good and faithful servant” Amen! That warmed my heart so much 🙌🏻

[@thelimey351]

Then you're a fool, he's a piece a narcissistic piece of s**t...

[@mk4881]

I rather serve society than some maybe existing entity somewhere “up there”

[@krishnasye1599]

@@thelimey351 why?

[@thelimey351]

@@krishnasye1599 He was extremely unpleasant to her, there was no need to say that initially he wouldn't date her and he was far too happy about dumping on her as his final decision. He clearly loves himself sooooo much...

[@m.w.3256]

His answer was heartfelt! It said to me how much he loves God and to be used by Him!

[@hi-mq3qt]

Aaron looks like the typical single white dude who runs a Christian summer camp.

[@soupdumplingss6399]

Haha true

[@abby073]

TBH

[@lordsith952]

Emmy Vera 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Cloudy_Woudsy]

Emmy Vera TRUE

[@naturetrips2044]

😂yesssss

[@HauteCarmen]

idk, that dude kinda gives off a weird vibe. she deserves better tbh

[@HasSalute]

Dude she’s ugly asf obviously who the hell would date her

[@nikolinadobreva4898]

Everyone is weird in their own way but both of them are damn beautiful ❤

[@aminsh3843]

@@HasSalute She's in med school and she has strong moral principles,The dude's an almost 30 year old magician and he's a Jesus freak!(He wanted her to follow his lead,And he wanted to be a good servant of God!!!).Something is wrong with him,His smile freaks me out,Like seriously didn't he give you a sociopath/Killerish vibe?!?!??! Funny thing is he said he cares so much about diversity yet he also mentioned that he'll be only dating black women just to tease her.

[@HasSalute]

Dreamer sh I know but I'm being ethical

[@Flora0966]

brenton. Vibe what a word..

[@talyagelfand7934]

this one makes me so uncomfortable

[@Putri-ani]

Same

[@niny3678]

I don’t want to keep watching cause the comments already told me everything I need to know.

[@averykippes1462]

i wanna hug her she looked so down at the end.

[@nattalieelkington4158]

Avery Kippes me to girl let’s go give her a hug

[@idkjustcomments6254]

Meee. Tooo

[@dxayslay3510]

Avery Kippes aww I wanna cry I feel like she should have said nonshe deserves wayyyyy bettet

[@johngalvan8805]

Avery Kippes same

[@karenmarsh917]

I feel for her. She was very bubbly and smiled. It's his loss.

[@NINJABDUDE]

wow the clickbait title was actually true.

[@rumzis9967]

NINJABDUDE well if it's a click bait it's fake, if it's true it's not a click bait, just making that clear 😊

[@masonrogers4343]

Fr I was watching this and I was like wow, I got clickbaited. Then I finished watching like wtf.

[@meganrecker6894]

Lmfao

[@magdalenasri8426]

This woman really inspire me..im medical student and get bullied in my university cause of my face and dont have friend..and i cant look pretty and cool..this words really fit to me..thank you girl..

[@heiditimmons7756]

The second she started talking, "I'm looking for someone who can be the peanut butter to my jelly" she's so sweet!!! I love her

[@faithirismacilvaine2499]

I really didn't like him. "God created black women for me" 😂 "Friendship vibe" She'll find someone much better

[@misschaney9245]

No flippin' kidding... She rocks, his personality falls FLAT with those statements.

[@clothingandfreedom]

Sounded more like a fetish.

[@minikanami]

Before the blind date: "Diversity is very important to me." 6 mins later: "I've only dated black women."

[@johnwilliamsjr.5629]

minikanami This right here is the best comment.

[@xyriusd832]

minikanami well what I got he was talking about diversity as a whole for this planet, But romantically he's attracted to black women. just like some men are crazy attracted to blondes or others only like tall women. so I personally don't see anything wrong with what he said or feels.

[@hel0vespinky]

"I exclusively date black women" I feel like he only dates the light skin racially ambiguous women with long curly hair not the dark skinned women with short 4c hair

[@DiaryofGee]

Nah, I really don't think he felt something with her tbh. Firstly, he want someone to love christ as he does and like, so someone who's interesting, and arsty. I really think he meant any type not specifically light skins, cause idk he would consider that black, lmao.

[@keiracarmichael9430]

Nope, his new girlfriend is a darker-skinned thinner, natural haired black women. They have a KZbin channel so I guess he really do like black women. Just not the one in this video. I don't mean to be rude, she is pretty but her bottem lip and obvious wig (hence why he kept looking at it) seemed kinda distracting to him unfortunately.

[@chillinebony]

@@keiracarmichael9430 what's their channel called?

[@selenalamothe997]

@@keiracarmichael9430 facts whats their channel?

[@DiaryofGee]

As well as Christians, no interfaith relationships eheh.

[@franktalk2585]

Sad but obvious! He liked everything else about her, but wanted someone better-looking. We use words like 'energy' to cover up hurtful truths.

[@daughteroftheking3220]

Bingo she was giving him all the personality and he wasn’t into it we could tell

[@MrLasveguinhas]

"I only date black women and she has to be religious" * *Religous black woman enters the room* * "Yeah, I wouldn't date you"

[@wesguitarguy9536]

I know hes like those girls "I want a guy just like you... but not you." wth

[@makairinervin9269]

MRVEGAS 😂😂dead!

[@enviedshark6635]

Lol, it's not as though he has a two-item checklist. There's other things he probably considers, like common interests, chemistry, sexual attraction, etc.

[@0111ulquiorra]

She wasn't cute enough for him

[@etoiledemer2048]

MRVEGAS me❤

[@meghna617]

"diversity is very important to me" "i exclusively date black women" make yo mind up son

[@meaganveronica94]

lmao thats what im saying

[@sawanoberai6105]

*refuses in the end*​

[@yoanna8239]

I have just cringed to capacity at this guy

[@Blue8spiral]

Doesn't he mean in the world we shouldn't be afraid of mixing?

[@avabentley670]

Meghnaaa I️ know right!

[@musaazi87]

He's not attracted to her . Period point blank.

[@cocoabear925]

Nice young lady BUT she tried too hard and made it obvious that she'd say anything to win him over! She acted desperate. She wasn't being honest with him when it came to religion and from then on she put on a front. For the record, according to her she does NOT believe in an afterlife... her initial words. To me, he told her he dates black women so she wouldn't feel like he turned her down because she's black. He's actually in a relationship currently with a black woman. He made the right decision. I'm surprised she was surprised when he rejected her. She was a bit too forward as well and kinda annoyed me when she mentioned white men having a fetish for dating black women. For everyone that's knocking his looks and his profession... just STOP already. He wasn't attracted to her LIVE WITH IT!! If he felt like they weren't compatible we should all RESPECT his decision. It wouldn't have worked out anyway. In my opinion, she was more drawn into him for his looks more than who he is as a person. Her "Would date you" answer really annoyed me as well. P.S- Don't act like y'all are attracted to EVERYONE you see!!!

[@cocoabear925]

@@noblestar7742 gotta keep it 💯

[@VR-oy3fu]

Wow. You spoke very honestly and analytically without freaking out right away, and I agree with what you said. Kudos to your intelligence.

[@cocoabear925]

@@VR-oy3fu thank you😊

[@everneyjones1768]

girl shut up.

[@Clau574]

Exactly, that irritated me as well. And the fact that she played along everytime he had an answer with condescendent assumptions. First I thought she was playing along to analyse him better but her final answer proved me wrong.

[@mckenziemeikle4910]

"I only date black religous women." *Black religous girl enters the room* "Yeah I wouldn't date you." xDD

[@combattant4832]

McKenzie Meikle That doesn’t mean anything lmao. I only date black boys too that doesn’t mean I would date any black guy who would come to me or something xd

[@TheTwilightShadow69]

Good copy and paste idiot

[@danesook]

Well not all religious black women are the same. It's ridiculous to assume he would date literally anyone who fits that very basic description.

[@zaytube4499]

XDDDD😂😂😂💀💀💀

[@LuBre]

Hint: not every black religious woman is attractive. She clearly isn't, at least to his eyes.

[@thynguyen911]

she's cute but when she said she was a med student I was like damnnn! her attractiveness just skyrocketed 😍 dude missed out

[@JiFan]

He was too shallow to see! And I guess he felt threatened her intellect was gonna outshine his goddamn hair maybe! :p

[@ADShine2022]

Erica Young thank you ❤️

[@dinakarassane4123]

Erica Young ikr I was like DANGGGG

[@hentaishogun1160]

Erica Young ohh shut up.

[@emmimation4599]

Erica Young lol more like he dodged a bullet

[@niluseneviratne9828]

I do appreciate that he was being honest at the end. That's something people don't do these days

[@shannonswift2233]

As someone with a lot of personality whose been friend zoned by & conformed to dry guys personalities, this one hit me like a brick wall.

[@sandyknowles5638]

i feel that

[@Putri-ani]

😅

[@usebitchutefightcensorship1982]

He DOUBLE rejected her by building her hopes up for nothing with that "...but after I got to know you" line. I'm dying.

[@kellyford9279]

They say that for the show, she said the same thing but you may not have noticed it.

[@usebitchutefightcensorship1982]

Kelly Ford You're right, I didn't notice. He dragged out his answer a tad longer though.

[@elieaoun8535]

He’s a actor model and a magician She’s in med school She’s gonna look back at this video and be like thank gooood

[@artformentalhealth642]

shu ennak lebnene :P

[@majohn43]

Elie Aoun lol

[@iamamoth]

Exactly 😂

[@richardxu4340]

100%

[@jimis1992]

He is a magician. Nuff said

[@dianespearman8080]

She’s so pretty!

[@aporodagon7663]

He: "diversity is very important to me". Also he: "I only date black religious women"

[@alyssajohnson9714]

So we’re not gonna talk about how she is beautiful?

[@NATASHAHAHAHA]

she seems so fun!! :)

[@0MGitsRayRay]

she is soooo fuckin beautiful. bubbly, funny, has a big personality and seems confident as hell. i think the dude was intimidated by her independence and seen it not to fit the whole "serving God" thing. that was a big red flag when he said that lmaoo.

[@lanjicucksmoke3034]

@@0MGitsRayRay whatever makes you sleep at night.

[@omrumoner772]

They are both so pretty

[@mitsunekikamisun111]

@@stevengreen5289 *lmao*

[@luckylovesyou25]

Do people seriously not like her? I mean, I was getting amazing vibes from her. I absolutely ADORE her personality, and I hope that’s not the reason he turned her down. I would love to be her friend because she seems like the kinda gal who would motivate you and pick you up when you’re down and tell you you’re worth it. I hope I find someone who’s like that😊

[@ADShine2022]

Gabriella Verdigets thank you ❤️

[@ADShine2022]

My friends tell me I’m The eternal hype man

[@jette279]

Adanma Nwachuku You are such a cute girl :)

[@poshgirl4545]

I liked her but not for him

[@Red_Fox8]

Well, if you like her then most of people here will not agree with you.. Why! She is overconfident with no real visible qualities, turn off intro After life.. no, yes, I meant!!! Not attractive but that's different from one to another

[@dakotamcclure6844]

when he said im a magician i was like "dam he good af made his chances disappear then even brought them back out in the end lolololol

[@kisha4184]

Wow I would never signup for this.

[@tyreemarable3326]

This woman dodged a bullet fr He literally has the job description of Miranda Sings......TF!😂😭🤣💀

[@lolamyatt9745]

Tyree Marable THATS WHAT I THOUGHT

[@secant]

Tears are streaming down my face 😭

[@kristinmarkussen9016]

omg hahahhahaha

[@kaydenptak4562]

He’s a magichan

[@Ti-hp8eb]

He's unemployed

[@thepolishpanda3227]

"Diversity is very important to me." "I only date black women." ??

[@aphextwinpeaks13]

Exactlyyy

[@BERSERK3RPLAYS]

The Polish Panda I think because he’s white,so ‘black’ would be diverse to him if you get what I mean.

[@zdzisawarybak3286]

still tho :///? da heck

[@fancyelisa8436]

Yeah boy!

[@oniyabrown4903]

Omg yes

[@mross35]

As an adventist myself I understand what she ment, we believe that when one dies they go to the grave and remain there until the return of Jesus Christ. (1st THESSALONIANS 4:16)

[@spookedmgooked9123]

i feel like i know her. she radiates friendliness. i love her personality so much.

[@RichTake]

I am black myself and find it kinda off putting, him basically saying he only date black girls because he believe that's what God has for him. That's just weird.

[@haruyoshi8403]

OptimistHunter Reel True.

[@17yogabbagabba]

I don't see it as weird. No different from him only dating white men and feeling like God wants him to stay with "his own kind". It's okay for men, other than black men, to have a preference for black women. It doesn't have to be weird or be a fetish.

[@cheetahgirlfan32]

I agree!

[@AC-gx2nj]

She is smart, funny, charming and gorgeous..his loss.

[@AgroFro]

Gorgeous? Loss? To be blunt, she's not that attractive but she isn't hideous. But Make up can work wonders. Other than that, she's cool. I'm sure he'd find better real soon

[@AgroFro]

Hannah Gray Which is why I say she isn’t attractive and some say she is

[@queenmari99]

Fr. She is so pretty. Anyone who thinks otherwise most likely expects someone with the basic features that are what you see in models or such

[@gwendolinhoffmann6021]

Yegroid you literally said “she’s not that attractive” as if it is a fact and not just your opinion

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

@@AgroFro All my life I've seen plain or unattractive white women placed on a high pedestal simply for being white and skinny. So more power to the chubby black girls getting desired too.

[@eddiejohnson8306]

Love the quote to the question: One of the most important purposes of life is "SERVING GOD" AWESOME ANSWER

[@ealyp1]

Their personality mix that’s such a beautiful thing

[@leilakhattab3935]

she's so charming, i want to be her best friend

[@NicoleWhoLived]

Leila Khattab I went to high school with her and she has always been this lovely, warm, and accepting. She's awesome.

[@Marcotheg]

This woman could be my wife lmaoo

[@irvingsolano2749]

Leila Khattab I was your 666th like

[@leilakhattab3935]

woah what in the world? how did this get so many likes??

[@woodsprite007]

Because I think she portrays herself as fun and sassy and yet intelligent with morals and values and I feel like she probably treats her friends with respect and loyalty. I don't think there's any superficial-ness vibe, so I think a lot of people can pick up on that, and a lot of people would want to hang out with her. And I think a lot of men would want to date her too, she seems like a good catch, One that they can bring home to meet their mom.

[@gianna9615]

“But after we talked and got to know each other, I still wouldn’t date you”

[@prurose8939]

Flex Squad I know right

[@nmnation4923]

That's so rood to say tho

[@hillsongirl1]

her first expression face!!! wow. she couldn't hold it back. so easy to read

[@samanthaknight8584]

After watching this for the 2nd time, I completely understand why he wouldn’t date. It was deeper than seeing her as a friend. I’m pretty sure there was more to the story but it’ all good!! They will both find the right one that suits them! 👍

[@etainoc7371]

"Diversity, diversity diversity" "I exclusively date black women"

[@Mzmissy215]

...doesn't mean every single 1

[@Amnesia94]

• • • O'Connor • • • 😂🤣

[@ernestogonzalez032]

Yeah I was just like this bro likes black girls God ain't tell him the bootie did

[@dreadxplayzs7849]

Dude looks like he's into California blondes,I knew he was done with her once she started saying how beautiful he was over and over again,that was over doing it and it got akward for him and he was turned off the second time she said it so desperately.

[@FaithfulOfBrigantia]

To be honest... This went exactly as I expected.

[@FaithfulOfBrigantia]

@thecrazykdramaaddict What happened.

[@FaithfulOfBrigantia]

@thecrazykdramaaddict She would date him He would not date her.

[@FaithfulOfBrigantia]

@thecrazykdramaaddict He looks considerably more attractive than her.

[@yeiyei3869]

Ricardo Costa Santos I disagree. They both look okay. He is okay looking and she is pretty. He is not that attractive. He okay.

[@FaithfulOfBrigantia]

@@yeiyei3869 Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so I can't argue with you.

[@tonyallen3138]

To be honest this was based more on than just looks. I believe they’ll both find someone to date in the future, that entices their masculine/feminine respectively.

[@mckinneychica2]

She will be just fine. Smart, driven and kind. The right dude is out there.

[@kitt-tt9nd]

I think he didnt want to date her because he wanted to be a controller. She seemed very independent, smart, and outgoing. Seemed like one of those controlling youth pastor weirdos. Edit: she was outshining him. She will find someone!

[@srilekhak1717]

Exactly

[@wanda01141]

Definitely she will find someone great

[@user-ut7wi1if9q]

I sensed that vibe but I couldn’t put into words but this is exactly it thank u.

[@chocolategirl]

No you're the weirdo here🤣🤣🤣

[@roqfortt]

you got all that from a 10 minute video huh?

[@caseyshirota3979]

I wanna hug her after seeing this She seems so sweet

[@hanselbeckfordjr7530]

Good LAWD- the gas face she put on when he broke the news to her LMAOOOOOOOOOO

[@Omggbellaa]

Put her with a different guy!

[@projektbrot]

isabellaelizabeth13 yesss, she is so cute :)

[@MaryThiboudeax]

Yes, she's seems like a great catch!

[@leannamctier2943]

isabellaelizabeth13 she does seem like a good catch but also in reality she was trying to hard

[@chuwbaca663]

Leanna Mctier She was trying to hard by being herself? What?

[@meidei8461]

Leanna Mctier "too"

[@SassyQ87]

Damn why do I feel like he led her on? Lmao like he was flirty and all

[@jesuschrist3165]

classic woman thinking it's flirting ONLY when an attractive guy is being nice. if he was ugly you probably would've said he's creepy lol

[@averagelife5449]

Jesus Christ he literally said this thing about black women i mean come on this was totally misleading

[@LLLadySSS]

SassyQ87 was he? Idk

[@janabeyrem3643]

I GOT LED ON

[@amybukouras5179]

Jesus Christ he's not attractive to me lol

[@channaneal9541]

This was a good one. Both were attractive, but looks alone; they didn’t seem like a good match. She didn’t seem very confident in herself and although values were somewhat the same, their lives were totally different. And in the end, he wasn’t attracted to her.

[@likeitornotmike]

This was one of THE most hilarious videos I've ever seen. LMAO!!! Can you say NOT WINNING??? LMAO!!!

[@vanessao2808]

The fact that shes a med student and his a "model" just saved her from having to pay for his date everytime.

[@adjuax]

Good it is apparent he is not worried about money. I know some women who wouldn't pass up such money

[@madisone3623]

💀💀

[@calliemrr4355]

I mean students are usually broke too lol

[@Saifkhxn]

He is a magician he can get money

[@pubgcliiipsmore4382]

Nessa Blessings Hey, can you please sub to my channel, if you do I will sub back, if not that’s fine 😁 KZbin is my dream and in always wanted to become a successful KZbinr, so please sub if you’d like to