Would She Still Date Him After He Says This....?? | Tell My Story, Blind Date

It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to guess their partner's interests and past experiences based only on their partner's appearance. When they learned their partner's real answers, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
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[@Bobby9W2]

Black and white are not ethnic backgrounds wtf xD

[@aileraguilar3976]

Malte right!!

[@kashmalik4166]

How should they know their ethnic backgrounds? Whites and blacks have been in the US for 300-100 years. They're ethnically mixed and the only way to subcategorize them is to make them do a DNA ancestry test. Besides, no one is 100% a certain ethnicity, we're all mixed.

[@deb1920]

If your ancestors were slaves, it's damn near impossible to know your actual ethnicity. Going far back enough, it would be dependent on your ancestor's owners keeping good records, since you know...those black people were property. And white people in America a lot of times know their ethnicity, but they don't care enough to state it sometimes. I'm sure she knows whether she's Irish or English or something.

[@aileraguilar3976]

deb1920 you still have DNA regardless of the previews past

[@deb1920]

Ailer Aguilar Yeah, which you have to pay for. Think about that. There's millions of people in this world that just know what their ethnicity is. And then there's a sector of people who have to pay to find out. Black people should make it a priority to get DNA testing so they can answer a question on a KZbin video? There's bunch of more important things to spend your money on.

[@BryannACrystal]

The moment she started talking, I was over it.

[@kyrathecubone783]

Bryanna Crystal same

[@vizengwa]

She seems both open-minded and closed minded idk what it is

[@aurora-vd3ij]

Bryanna Crystal why?

[@BryannACrystal]

She immediately came off entitled and judgemental. Her facial expression when she saw him just rubbed me the wrong way.

[@seanwatkins2259]

ur putting too much emphasis on race , learn not to see the world in black and white. shes entitled to not like black men

[@victoriarodriguez3323]

Bring him back! He obviously deserves better.

[@jukenz5417]

Exactly

[@gojeta1999]

There was nothing wrong with her, she just said she didn't like traditional roles

[@victoriarodriguez3323]

gojeta1999 ok well I meant that he should have at least another chance of finding someone because he seems like he deserves so much and I never said anything was wrong with her or even mentioned anything about her responses.

[@XanderRcage]

doesnt know what emo is............ok have fun....with your r&b music video boyfriend for like 2 months max

[@aliaman291]

why do you say that? as if she was such a horrible person. She was just being herself, ain't nothin' wrong with that.

[@taufique2003]

Im a straight guy,but even i can admit Phil was way out of her league

[@Anudorini-Talah]

What a typical NA comment. Gay virgin wanna be prick, she’s the bad one if u didn’t notice already

[@jovo21]

@@Anudorini-Talah lmao what? He said nothing about the guy being "the bad one"

[@LightYagami-ik1cg]

@@Anudorini-Talah sjw head ass reread his comment nothing like that was even said. You don't get points for the attempt

[@taufique2003]

Urukosh ! I think i worded my comment a bit retardedly. I was saying my man Phil was too good for her. Your comment also did completely mindfuck me tho

[@wiseguy240Winston]

If you mean looks wise then no she's not that attractive to me.

[@francischarlet6768]

He seems like he's looking for a partner in life.. She seems like she wants to live and experience everything.. I don't see this as a match .. or a happy ending one :D

[@foxyboop4164]

Well, her parents were hippies lol

[@KDD8]

How did she walk to the chair and sit down if her eyes were closed? Da fuq is this sorcery?

[@francischarlet6768]

Hakasauars I was wondering this as well !!

[@mrjoundma]

Francis Charlet he seems like a pretty basic "man"

[@francischarlet6768]

mrjoundma We all look for different experiences and have different goals.. he is who he is and she is who she is.. there are no scales from good to bad.. just people looking for another. I believe that journey allows us to discover ourselves and choose a partner who is aligned with us..

[@bye230]

He's 31??????? I thought he was like 23..damn...

[@mintgreenoor]

black don't crack

[@MissVioletSage]

Noor A. I knew some moron would reply with that. So original 🙄Yeaaa sure, nonblack people age. lol pleassse. I guess Whoopie Goldberg is good looking to you. 😂 black people age just as much- if not worst. And the woman get obese. Too many stupid cheesy stereotypes. Ignorance. Smh.

[@lolalovesyou5123]

CrystalMoon when you are a salty white person I guess you could say that

[@lolalovesyou5123]

CrystalMoon what....you are technically the hater since you got so salty and couldn't stand that black people age gracefully. All I said was that well I guess that's what salty white people say....why are you mad?? Because you know it's true.

[@lolalovesyou5123]

CrystalMoon and I live in England are you speaking American English?? What's a GED?? And no I'm working class. And I don't hate white woman....I just hate ignorance and jealousy. Why on earth would I say 'yeeeess' it's a bit strange.....I'm a black african....when I get excited I say something in my own language....and oxygen gives me life... Why on earth would I go on birth control...I'm only 19. I'm not on welfare. I work part time and study at university. Studying a bsc. How about you??

[@RashmikaLikesBooks]

He's so handsome oh my gosh. And I like how relaxed he is, comfortable in who he is.

[@fellowcitizen]

He didn't seem comfortable to me. Oh well.

[@danguzuz]

might have been calm on the outside. Storm on the inside

[@execrated-bythem1583]

Rashmika Likes Books he is not handsome at all you stupid.

[@Anthonydu01630]

Eazy_Lifeb TV sound jealous lol

[@heleninfante7204]

@@execrated-bythem1583 he is super cute what

[@kathrynh.3515]

a lot of people dont seem to realize that opinions on roles in marriage greatly affects the entire thing. there's no way it would work out if there weren't an understanding.

[@pure_zed]

Having an opinion on marriage is fine. What is not fine, is saying you want to be a free bird say all this stuff about not wanting to be controlled and then saying "but I like the guy paying for dinner though...". Like, do you see how backwards that is? She preached equality, then back peddled into what is convenient for her.

[@gachavideos1319]

Ωmega Yes cause she has her type and she has an opinion.

[@briannayourfellowarmy491]

Peppa,what are you doing on this persons profile picture

[@Bb-lk4ox]

@@pure_zed saying what she likes is fine versus what she believes in for important aspects. I can say I like TV but I dislike wasting time. And certainly, I don't want a slacker for a groom. She's not harming him for saying she doesn't want to be "the supporter" for marriage, vv. Edit, spelling

[@Ljounieh]

Yup

[@joyyu7753]

she shouldn't feel like it's weird for her to have different thoughts on marriage that is untraditional, everyones unique and their road to happiness is as well.

[@NateProctor]

Joy Yu that's exactly right. She knows what will be best for her.

[@missfashionator]

Joy Yu she wants to feel special and quirky

[@nouhaila2983]

Joy Yu Ik this is random but this comment has 666 likes illuminate or whatever confirmed

[@gabriellarodriguez5275]

Joy Yu no one is saying or expecting that. the way people feel is not always what is how it is

[@joyyu7753]

we miss you harambe

[@Haleymichellewilburn]

These people are not compatible at all. He seems so nice and laid back, he will find someone amazing for sure.

[@scoobertdoobert9988]

And so will she. She seems so nice and intelligent.

[@JiFan]

Yup, he will find ME...! :)

[@grildrago]

you have to be a little picky about this stuff~ not everyone is your ideal or compatible

[@greenjosh75]

something tells me she's the selfish inconsiderate type that will end up bitter and alone.

[@syamimsalleh3519]

spac lee Not necessarily

[@eiril]

Tbh I don't see anything wrong in her. Nor the guy. And I think she acted that way cuz she felt nervous. Excessively laughing is normal then. They both seem like nice people tho😊

[@barborabrychtova7444]

i can't agree as she's an actress

[@eiril]

@@barborabrychtova7444 I feel I've seen several actors laughing out of feeling awkward or weird in situations as well before.

[@eiril]

@@barborabrychtova7444 I get what you mean tho

[@ofadetergentsud]

Tbh I wouldn't date either of you.

[@neverland436]

I agree with your point of view and don’t understand why people are hating on her so much. I mean they don’t even know her, they just watched a 8 minute long video and decided “I don’t like her because she doesn’t romantically like the guy I’ve never met before in my life.” Honestly people calm down!

[@annap4743]

The faces she does be making is she ok?? Omg this controversy over my grammar I will be getting bodyguards and an agent just so you know if anyone wants an autograph 👽

[@Anudorini-Talah]

Not until you get some social manners, first things first@SofaSlyngel

[@GamingCentral79]

I think I just *died*

[@MrManny77]

@SofaSlyngel lmfao my sentiments exactly.

[@MrManny77]

@@Anudorini-Talah social manners? We're on the internet dickhead

[@davidpfeifer9489]

Anna p Nice attempt at English and humor! Keep trying, it gets better

[@evaoliveira8407]

I'm not emo but I'm pretty sure emo music isn't just "guys with guitars", we can describe almost every type of music by saying that generic meaning.

[@RockeraMJJ]

Indeed :)

[@foxyboop4164]

I was thinking like folk music or funk or anything with a guitar player!!

[@julianna6486]

nilleheltne yeah but don't call it emo music lol it made me cringe

[@julianna6486]

nilleheltne yeah but don't call it emo music lol it made me cringe

[@estherduncan]

spongebob swag pants no!

[@Lchantilly]

"oldies" Is not a type of music..... It's like your favorite type was the newies

[@aHUGEmistake]

Rosalila this comment should be at the top.

[@lalalamae5755]

+Rosalila condescending...

[@meggank6678]

Google "oldies music" :*

[@ayoabiodun2324]

no

[@haniyukumi289]

it's like classic music

[@infinitelillyflower8058]

The awkward “smile” she gave him when they both opened their eyes was so hard to watch😬

[@zoharborage6609]

She likes white men

[@lilladycn]

She rolled her eyes smh

[@phillipcarrigan3219]

Hi there

[@colouredlioness2199]

Ya.. it was sad

[@penguinan2456]

Bruh she looked 35 yrs old and he looked 23..lets be honest

[@OnlyRealsht]

You can tell she was not attracted to him at all... that look gave it away. People can speak but her face spoke louder.

[@zionakinjide650]

she's into rugfed white dudes.

[@loopymomy2532]

Yea I could see that. She looked like she could friendzone him.

[@TheMontegonian]

Yeah, I picked up on that. Probably more into guys with her same last name.

[@stevel8270]

Yeppp. Instantly gave it away.

[@dreadxplayzs7849]

I actually think she would've dated him,she was laughing so much which is a sign of happiness but she is weired,he deserves better.

[@ioanacristina3319]

It's cristal clear, they did not connect at all and strongly doubt they liked each other...

[@firstnamelastname6525]

Ioana Cristina Of course it wasn't going to work out. He is an adult and she is a child.

[@whydoyoucare9203]

Boner Kill She didn't say anything childish, she just didnt really click with him.

[@jennaspence9994]

I died when he said "emo like having a breakdown" 😂😂😂💀💀💀

[@smolfrank4273]

Jenna Spence same 😂

[@brucenatelee]

I love deathcore breakdowns...

[@briarrandolph307]

666th like, but no one cares. like if you agree.

[@senawasgehtsiedasan6127]

Jenna Spence same😂

[@reyshaananda6907]

same😂

[@erinmcinerney1772]

girl no T, no shade.. but using a shampoo bar from Lush doesn't make you a hippy

[@autumnbray8790]

erin mcinerney she’s not claiming to be a “hippy” also she mentioned many reasons why she’s a hippie.

[@autumnbray8790]

erin mcinerney you can be hippy, but you can’t be A hippy

[@tanyasinha810]

lmfao

[@Asdfgqedfglo]

erin mcinerney wait what...? When did she say she uses a shampoo bar from lush...? And the hippie can use a shampoo bar or “normal” shampoo if they want, the shampoo they use doesn’t determine if there a hippie or not..

[@kaz61189]

She said kinda

[@kfox5301]

He's 31 and she thinks his first concert was John Legend?

[@kg3mtg751]

Lmaoo

[@kimberlymboyo29]

Like bruhhhh🙄👀💀

[@BeeJaySounds]

Why are Americans are so obsessed with "races"???? For an european this is so weird

[@jUjU-gg4bx]

Jay Sim yeah true...

[@onioncries1593]

Jay Sim ikr?? so obsessed with race and with having, idk, summer bodies? hair, makeup, clothes, everything. and we just do whatever we want

[@ninatsoutsanis951]

truee

[@wesday3652]

Obviously, it's weird for you. You live in a mostly homogeneous country. You couldn't understand it because it's not something you've ever had to deal with.

[@marimikkola906]

Tap Water europe ins't homogenous. there are millions of people from all races who have immigrated to europe. we europeans just aren't obsessed with race and we dont talk about it all the time like americans PS. Europe isn't a country you stupid

[@aclassact3099]

That black dude was super nice. Like damn so gentle.

[@kryptikknowledge1501]

A Class Act wish you smiled :(

[@meiwnnss0710]

Your profile pic lmao

[@elijahdelp2893]

Makes sense. He grew up with his mom. Women tend to be more gentle, especially a mother.

[@RubyXIII]

Semper Fi they do beat their children more like it’s a higher chance of abuse in women I believe

[@solus8685]

Yung XTerrorrr III lmao since when

[@vkriptic-yt9905]

Daughter: Dad Dad: Yes honey Daughter: I’m lesbian Dad: Oh ok Daughter 2: Dad Dad: Yes Daughter 2: I’m lesbian too Dad: GOD does anyone around here like boys!!! Son: I do

[@olletagtstrom7804]

nice ctrl c ctrl v manouvres

[@ihaveoneeye5317]

Or copy paste

[@insidious714]

The 90’s gamer lmfao

[@biggchungas5220]

HAHAHAHAHAHA IM DYING CALL AN AMBULAMCE

[@savannaviolets8381]

vKriptic- YT i likes this

[@insertnemesio1734]

at least she's honest they're both great people, they're just not meant for each other and that's okay

[@kaleabrowning1637]

Reasons why she’s rude • rolls her eyes • avoids eye contact • laughs in his face when he asks to date her

[@gntaiga]

it was awkward for her. Some people have a different way of dealing with awkward situations.

[@thecommenter2295]

When did she roll her eyes

[@Ghost-gm3jr]

Yes agree

[@sara_daria2]

She seemed really nice in my opinion. Plus when she laughed it was more of a flatered laugh. Like she was thanking him for saying that. Also rolling your eyes isnt rude

[@csmmurphy425]

laughing is a natural reaction to being nervous or uncomfortable

[@TheMoolimoo]

....they really aren't clicking....

[@CoTyyy]

UGANDA

[@yokaismiley]

BRUDDA, SPIT ON DE FALSE QUEEN!

[@sownheard]

CLIK CLIK CLIK Spit on the no believer

[@Bunsy_01]

QUEEN QUEEN QUEEN

[@sphi3022]

Guys stop it's a dead meme

[@Bobthebuilder594]

The lady was not rude at all. It genuinely looked like they were both having fun.

[@hatemkamel6039]

When she said she grew up in a farm, I knew this would go wrong

[@ebsii9031]

Underrated comment😂😂😂😂

[@MsPepperlips]

Hahaha

[@ArgusticDunbar]

Yo. I read this and chuckled. I'd have laughed out loud but I am at work and don't wanna be looked at as weird.

[@seaweed6668]

What could go wrong?

[@DarkNight-fj5cc]

Could you please spare some time of yours to explain this view? I'm actually curious to know the reason.

[@zarsace]

Why is she closing her eyes. She walked to him. I'm guessing she walked there with her eyes open.

[@brandonf6174]

that's what I don't get lol

[@Ayveh]

Lol I noticed that too.... unless they directed her which I doubt since she seemed to walk quite normal.

[@brandonf6174]

I remember talking to you in another comment section a while ago. We meet again. Impeccable taste in youtube videos

[@stephanieann6622]

I've noticed when you're in a open room and you get to see the room before it's easy to walk with your eyes closed. They could have let her examine the room before hand so it's easier to walk but, you could be right too.

[@yannaa6365]

I just noticed that lol😂

[@usurib]

If Steph Curry, Metro Boomin, & the Weekend were born as one.

[@minks.solenoid]

Hunxer lmao

[@minks.solenoid]

I was thinking of curry

[@usurib]

I think its like 80% Curry & 20% Metro.

[@mskrash_]

Hunxer YESSS I WAS THINKING THAT SAME THING

[@usurib]

Lyriq Williams lmfao right ?

[@noyoudidnot3513]

I've read the comments before watching the video and thought this was going to be a cringe fest because of all the comments that said the woman was being rude. She wasn't, at all, imo. I think they're both very nice people, though I can see why some would think that. In her defense, no one is entitled to date anyone just because they seem nice or they look attractive. Like most things in the world, relationships aren't black and white, some work and some don't. Even the nicest persons break up, that's just how it is. Just my two cents.

[@laibarashid9305]

Shakes hands *HAHAHAHAHA* It was nice to meet you *AHHAHAHAA* 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Mae-xi2is]

the guy is cute

[@Threejjw]

bingsu i agree

[@0mfx5]

bingsu he looks like j cole

[@Lauren-nr4th]

bingsu ikr

[@carlaheiser3309]

I thought the same thing...and carries himself well

[@leaphillips7684]

Hah

[@dakotad7062]

He seems chill. I respect him

[@haironyourscreen4287]

Dakota Degenhardt hehe

[@madisongoodwin184]

Hair on your screen i fell for that 😂😂😂I thought an eyelash was on my phone

[@thebrothamoe3213]

Hair on your screen bruh I blew on my phone 6 times till I realized what happened

[@nastigyal152]

yet he thinks women should do what their men want them to do just because it makes em feel better about themselves

[@lastmanstanding7155]

Nastigyal That's not what he said.

[@neverland436]

Honestly I understand her point of view. Honestly I don’t think she’s rude at all. I have a weird smile/laugh and that always makes others feel like I’m being rude and I also hate eye contact.

[@nhunguyenphan1998]

Never Land SAME.

[@shadows1531]

Me too , she was not rude at all, she was enjoying it , just like me

[@youtuber-nx5en]

Sameeeeeee!!!!!

[@ashleyburries1822]

Both nice people! Just very different from each other 💚

[@pamz2497]

Why is everybody hating on her! You definitely don't want to see that a woman has an opinion and expresses it. She wasn't rude at all, and she was just honest about her values. On the other hand, the guy lives in the 19th century.

[@NateProctor]

Pamela Zamora thank you!! Good god. She knows who she is and that threatens people, particularly when it comes from a woman.

[@thiruvetti]

You dont have to pull down a guy to elevate that girl!

[@musingsofajay387]

he doesnt. hes just staing thats what he has seen that has worked. it doesnt mean that hed be uncomfortable if a woman shared th responsibilities of providing. we dont know that.

[@jobr0012]

Nate Proctor of course someone has to pull gender bs into this.

[@scoobertdoobert9988]

one could also say between the two, it's obvious who knows what they want and has a clear set of values, goals, and path in life

[@aquamarine3699]

Haha I was thinking this could get awkward of someone said i would not date u.

[@Jakesullyy]

Stephie Shen this girl want live-in relation

[@sapphirediamondgirloffire2818]

Stephie Shen YOU GIVED THE ANSWER AWAY I HATE YOU jk

[@misskat7437]

She said no because they didn't agree on anything. He said yes because he thinks she's beautiful. I say that because he overlooked all their differences. I'm in my 30s, and for myself it's easy for me to want a second date because I find the person attractive and I have a tendency to idealize them instead of focusing on who they really are. If you have nothing in common, that isn't setting a foundation. I'm currently working past these issues. =-)

[@zainabzubair1797]

You can't sit with us- Actually Meggan, I can't sit anywhere. I have Haemorrhoids

[@MrJanfm]

most. unrated. comment .ever

[@zainabzubair1797]

@@MrJanfm AHAHAHA that's the first time I'm getting that so I feel very honoured lol But seriously, it's vines that are underrated.

[@MrJanfm]

@@zainabzubair1797 Rip vine :(. Also, you should be honored. It's a role on for the worthy ones only.

[@mohamedyassine1551]

Ma man dodged a bullet.

[@jojothehobo9171]

Victoria J omg shut up

[@arunkumarchandrasekaran2653]

@@jojothehobo9171 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shmoist2678]

@@jessicanewman4956 nobody cares 😃

[@joydamabel596]

I don’t get why people are being rude to her in the comments

[@sameerjones5051]

@@joydamabel596 Same

[@queens9561]

I am still waiting to some to say "No I won't date you" 😒

[@3CulosGordos]

she did

[@cheri8832]

queen s Umm SHE SAID NO

[@Lol-pe5ck]

queen s b

[@jeremycordoba1516]

Wow, she seems, she enjoyed to reject him🤷🏻‍♂️

[@Gottaloveliving]

Yeah she was mean, laughing it up like it was all just some dumb joke

[@Sophie-vw5ol]

I think she "laughing it up" just because she was a bit nervous to tell him that. It's understandable in such a situation. I had the feeling she's a very loud person who laughs a lot and in every situation, like me. So it wasn't meant to be rude

[@jeremycordoba1516]

@@Sophie-vw5ol that could be posible, yeah why not? 🤷🏻‍♂️ But in front of 14 million ppl its like,🤯😭💔

[@SaravanjaSteele]

@@Gottaloveliving - She said she was an actor at the beginning. This was just to get something for her reel, guaranteed.

[@dreadxplayzs7849]

@@SaravanjaSteele she's an actor?means she has no job and gets money from Daddy still,not cool at all.

[@lenasyona2834]

This video shows how important to know and understand each other before dating

[@17DeeSusie]

He's so handsome.

[@SarahSmith-qj4uz]

Susie Dee yesss

[@itsyagirlindica3505]

right!

[@izebelle8200]

He had a point, she just dismissed a chance to know someone before even trying. Going on a date someone is not marring them, not even being in a relationship. He was nicer than her.

[@devolvedfemale]

Ize Belle lmao well isn't that what the series is about in the first place

[@scoobertdoobert9988]

I mean that's pretty subjective. For me personally, I don't know why you would waste someone's time going on a date when you clearly don't want to be together. They both want different goals in life, and I don't see a problem with that.

[@jayal5771]

Ize Belle what you see is illusion . In view weeks,...

[@izebelle8200]

I really think it depends on how you see dating. I personally believe going on ONE date with someone is not a waste of time. You get to know a new person whether you go on a second date or not. Now, if you think knowing people is a waste of your time, then that's you. I don't think is good or bad, though, as someone said previously, it is pretty subjective. and to be clear when I said that she was nicer than him I meant it about her attitude.

[@whateveryh2119]

If she doesn't want to date him, she doesn't have to, no matter what the reason. He isn't "nicer" than her, it wouldn't be nice of her to go on dates with him if she didn't want to.

[@andrelaurent9607]

she said she likes mountain man 😂😂😆; lol is she looking for a caveman or something.

[@charlottekayy8387]

thats what I thought lol

[@givenmahlangu3869]

Maybe she wants a bush-man

[@Avratin]

No, probably just a guy who likes outdoorsman ship, camping hiking etc. She might just be describing the lumberjack look which she might be after.

[@maxlavoie576]

No because a caveman would have “traditional” marriage concept going on, but GOD NO, NO GOOD FUCKN MAN WOULD WANT TO BE A LEADER, PLEASE NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@kiaratheexplorer4]

yes

[@elizabethhurtz5522]

I love how they basically just answer as themselves for half of the questions

[@_k.g]

Damn, Phil seems like a really nice genuine guy, and cute too 👀

[@cheeseball4791]

Daumier Smith I didn't really like his thoughts on the "roles" in marriage. Like do whatever you want and whatever you are passionate about.

[@81094aj]

cheeseball 47 I think he only said that because he was asked that particular question and he had to answer. Any answer except what the girl gave would be somewhat sexist. I might have written, the role of the man is to be the protector and the role of the woman is to be the organizer.

[@jakefromstatefarm1315]

Daumier Smith he looks like a artist tho

[@leovongrimmenstein7051]

As i see women equal to men I don't think that there are typical roles for each gender. That's like stone age-thinking. The one who earns more should go to work, when you got children. But that's not a general rule. I am unable to relate to your decision to date this guy. But I guess we still need these women who rather take a man who is athletically trained even though the only "muscle" that's good to have trained is the brain nowadays.

[@Kate-ne1xn]

He does!

[@arealmadrid007]

He dodged a bullet

[@ani9514]

no he ran towards it, but the bullet chose not to hit finally

[@Barkinful]

more like she dodged a bullet

[@feartheghus]

Hass Adam doesn’t make him racist you bigot.

[@feartheghus]

Delilah Lah how did she dodge a bullet?

[@slvrangel22]

I kind of thought that too. There are plenty of women looking for a man like this. He is a good catch. So why get involved with a woman who will be finicky and mostly concerned about having everything her way. I'm not sure she is good for any man. There is nothing wrong with wanting to not lose yourself in a relationship, but she doesn't seem like the type willing to compromise at times.

[@alexakrznaric886]

he’s gonna find someone great to match him one day, he has nothing to worry about.

[@pleasantlydrifting6663]

She seems like she was rejecting him from the beginning. They didn't click at all

[@ednah31]

She made me feel so uncomfortable throughout the video

[@tomadams3528]

Only real man feel that way.

[@thefabulousoogabooga6410]

Because... she feels super uncomfortable

[@cee57]

Why I'm so confused. Cause she smiled a lot?

[@joydamabel596]

She was really nervous and tried to cover it up with laughter

[@mariog1490]

She’s gay

[@iman9499]

cultural/ethnic background is "black", "white"!? emo "is like guys with guitars"!? loooool this girl doesn't know what she's talking about at aaaall..

[@teteleanna9464]

Mndlss Imaan she's dumb 😂

[@meggank6678]

you're amazing.

[@rachaelross3450]

Mndlss Imaan She is American (I believe). Backgrounds are black/white in America. And idk what emo is.

[@RogersIreland2001]

Rachael Ross emo is like avenge sevenfold and stuff like that

[@raccooncity2627]

Rachael Ross Backgrounds in American are white and black? That's really inaccurate as America is a mixing pot of races.

[@mino3d1]

I ❤️ her laughter, it is so fresh and that simple thing makes her beautiful, he was very sport after she got her answer of not dating him 👍🏻

[@JoeCnNd]

Comments lighten up on the girl. She wasn't that bad.

[@TORRIE__]

She literally laughed in his face lol That was hella rude

[@Sixundergr0und]

TORRIE. Crazy mayo

[@hannahvincent7119]

I think it was like uncomfortable laugh

[@Billzloveschelsea]

It's more rude you said 'Lol'

[@seaseagirl5298]

It looks like she's a nervous laugher. She laughed a LOT when she got to a point that she didn't like socially.

she didn't.... she did naaaat

[@rahulm2827]

she literally said "i changed my decision baaa hah ahah haha"

[@Joseph-fb7cb]

TIME PLEASE

[@natalieramirez979]

Rahul M fivv

[@faith2003]

Rahul M actig like shes beter like tf shes annoying and white af

[@hannahsv2373]

Rahul M sooooo true

[@noname-kf2ez]

Faith ikr

[@neumannstudents683]

3:13 when he’s like “ you’re not like having a breakdown or sumtin?” IM DEAD

[@1800JCful]

Is this what people talk about on a first date? I'm almost 24 and never been on a date, lol.

[@MelodyXpierce]

Glad I'm not the only one. Almost 21

[@loopymomy2532]

18 here, same

[@clairebear5113]

The marriage questions and sexism questions always ruin it

[@amberthompson6948]

Claire Bear Exactly, n what really sucks is that u don’t get to see their true feelings about how they feel until you’ve conversed a bit n r hopeful, only to hear all the right words up until, so u didn’t want kids, why, that’s what you’re supposed to do...n then it’s like yep, there was that other shoe! Lol. After watching a few of these, I think I’ve changed my mind n am happy to stay the bridesmaid n NOT the bride...lol😉✨🤙🏻🌺💋

[@morganstaker4928]

But they are necessary in a relationship. You must find a middle ground with your partner about important things.

[@edpotter1170]

i think they're important. if one person wants kids and the other doesn't, why would they still give it a chance? would you expect one to give up their dreams or something? maybe they could change their mind eventually, but what if they don't? life is short, there would be many other potential partner that would happily accept you and your conditions.

[@gutnerd]

or it is actually what would 'make it'. its all how your mind chooses to perceive things optimism wins over pessimism

[@zionakinjide650]

it depends on what you want and what your expectations are...If you just want to go with the flow, these sort of questions are irrelevant, but if you want something serious, they are very very important..again depends on where you are at and what you want and ready for..Life could be less complicated if we so make it so.

[@SuperMrHolmes]

She seemed kind of like a low-key psychopath anyway. I think he deserves a better woman.

[@moonstonegachalove6044]

1:17 seemed off to me. She acts really weird

[@cajjesra269]

She just likes to have fun and is kinda spoiled #FWB...he said she looks like someone to have a good time with..#headshot

[@cagataydogan957]

Absolutely right

[@iBeFloe]

Moonstone Gacha Love Wtf people can’t act silly??

[@igreatbritishweather]

What no she didn't lol

[@abhimorningstar]

The guy is in his good times..... I mean.. If u wake up midnight, It will be horrendously terrifying to find a gal laughing beside you for no reason😉

[@joydamabel596]

I feel like people are giving Megan a hard time in the comments. She seemed really nervous to be and tried to cover it up with laughter. She just doesn’t want a traditional role. And there is nothing wrong with that. I’m sure they will both find someone else worthwhile.

[@killwgiles1617]

They aren't a good couple I hope they don't agree

[@ashleyshim2078]

killw Giles lol

[@SB-kw4gu]

killw Giles Same i don't think they'll connect

[@hannahbrooks4275]

killw Giles I feel like your being rude beacuse there is a white woman and a black girl I definitely think 💭 so

[@katiebrewer5822]

Hannah Brooks they're definitely not discriminating honey🙄 maybe they LITERALLY mean they don't seem like a good match???

[@kierajoy4318]

Hannah Brooks shut up please it's not about race it's about them!!!

[@orando15]

She's more liberal when it comes to gender roles while the man was more conservative. You could automatically tell when he said "provide & support", she was like ughhh.

[@ceciliasalazar8279]

Zeynep Yılmaz It's called "traditional way of living" it's NOT sexist, some people like conserving those past manners, others, just don't stay that way, please, just cause' the man has that kind of thought, doesn't mean he's sexist.

[@Kenin2000]

where do you live??

[@ceciliasalazar8279]

Agatha jay Yeah that was what I was trying to say :)

[@ceciliasalazar8279]

Zeynep Yılmaz in my case I'll like that both could do whatever they want, but I know there's thousands of ways of living, that are way different than what I want, and I respect that :)

[@charlottepage2333]

Zeynep Yılmaz a partnership your equals take turns looking after the kids you both provide take turns cooking, my mum is a single mum of two and she did all that it would be good if she had a little help you get me?

[@bruktefera8831]

We jus gonna ignore how she called herself an actor👀

[@sonicnendez]

It’s an equality thing now. Both genders being actors

[@queenabri2315]

When she said *Actor* I was like: Do you mean *Actress* ?👀

[@drniravkumar9891]

@@queenabri2315 doesn't actor also mean actress lmao?

[@dreadxplayzs7849]

It means she doesn't have a steady job,she's a hippie.

[@kskitchen-fw7uy]

He seems so chill and lovely

[@NissanSkyline901]

Him explaining why he likes to provide also has a selfish undertone, because his reasoning was that it makes him feel better about HIMSELF. This is putting how it makes him feel over how it may make the other person feel, and this can lead those people to hold it over the other person's head and shame the other person for being ungrateful. Some people like to be pampered and provided for all the time, and some people like to pamper and provide all the time. Others prefer to share and have a more balanced relationship and just don't really like to be pampered all the time. That's not to say you still can't do nice things, but a more equal balance of it often works better for those people. It's not to say he is wrong and she is right, or vise versa, but it's important to know going into it if the other person would prefer an equal balance or would prefer having the other person be more of the provider, and it's just about respecting the other person and what they want, and if it doesn't work for you, then it's best just to part ways and move on. I know there are plenty of guys who will say a woman like her is bitchy because those women don't want to adhere to the typical gender rolls in a relationship and just be provided for all the time, but this often comes from the fact that the guys feel like they lose some power over the woman and it makes them feel more insecure about their masculinity. This goes back to the point about how they make it about themselves and how it makes them feel rather than taking into consideration how it makes the other person feel.

[@NateProctor]

Kevin Kauffman extremely well put. Totally agree! It's a selfish tactic couched in generosity.

[@lunade13]

Kevin Kauffman Exactly! And the way one is raised seems to have an impact too, raised in an unstable family can make you seek more traditional relationships in which the partners role is very clear.

[@MirrorMei]

Agreed!

[@snowpuffxx]

I think what he was trying to say is that being "a provider" is the way he knows how to show love, based on his past experiences he has learned that when you love someone, you do these "provider" things for them. It makes him feel good when he able to show a woman he loves her by paying for stuff and "providing for her". He isn't necessarily doing it to just boost his ego and one-up his woman, and I think it's important to remember that what's been shown here is just one slither of the conversation and we shouldn't be quick to make assumptions :)

[@infinityx89]

news flash, human beings are naturally selfish. Anyway you slice it, actions are done bc it ultimately makes you "feel good" abt it.

[@MrProfessorLightyear]

If J.Cole and The Weeknd had a child

[@kndymal]

MrProfessorLightyear dude I have the exact same picture haha

[@kreepykitten451]

imnotkennedy why?

[@glamourgirl5906]

MrProfessorLightyear ikr

[@vcastro0276]

MrProfessorLightyear omfg

[@lol-kv5nf]

MrProfessorLightyear Woah :0

[@rumbellefever]

I think they were both cute....!!!!! I also think that one needs to experience things with different people before settling down. Have fun..do things with different people. If it happens, it happens....!!! Have fun, learn from others... don't have regrets.

[@fellowcitizen]

I usually don't like vlog experiment people, but I like these two. Good luck, fellas :)

[@mofohole]

I saw her vein popped when he said she's a bartender. But he's 50% right since most of the "actors" are bartenders anyway

[@ProfessorFatMan]

Dennis .L She was internally triggered lol

[@GrayWoIf]

Jo Zolei I'm a theater major but I agree acting is my hobby sure I'm majoring in it in the future id like to teach drama to kids but until then would not say my profession is "acting" I know damn well I'm a waiter and that's how I pay the bills.

[@playlistsonly9632]

Dennis .L 900 likes

[@dadokoundoul6336]

I don't know if that was a big bang theory reference or not but I like it

[@twinklesunrise]

phil has such an attractive deep voice

[@BellyBro]

All Phil's do! Idk why. It makes no sense. Have you ever watched Philip DeFranco? You'll see what I mean.

[@janleng2983]

BellyBro What about DrPhil? ;))))

[@BellyBro]

Jan Leng still

[@claudiaalexandra9164]

twinklesunrise i

[@giveawaynation909]

twinklesunrise x

[@ema511]

Bring him back! Also introduce a question about the zodiac signs - it’s cheesy but still fun to know

[@rrrrrkkkk]

He looks on 21 And he is very cute She has an adorable smile

[@DannyBoy443]

You think he looks like he's in college?!! You need to go to a local college lol. He looks 27/28.

[@nikw3683]

"black" and "white" is not an ethnic background...

[@nolifenoprob7822]

Gabi Jones black and white aren’t ethnicities theyre races

[@afrozzz5634]

@Gabi Jones black isn't an ethnicity lol, it's a race. If you're thinking of African American then yes, that's an ethnicity.

[@sugariedreams2707]

its not, it's a way to describe skin colors. There isn't a black ethnicity, there are African Americans.

[@fellowcitizen]

plus it was meant to include cultural background

[@tyran5550]

@Gabi Jones there is no one black culture....

[@fficiallyella4947]

4:30 jeez this girl keeps rolling her eyes😂 be careful they might get stuck back there!

[@pablosmith5190]

b r o k e n - are you sure, because I'm pretty sure the eyebrows didnt raise that much

[@chivisrodriguez9610]

@b r o k e n rolling her eyes or not i still dont like her...

[@sameerjones5051]

@@chivisrodriguez9610 OK? No one cares 😂

[@ritakapia7140]

Øfficially Ella LOL

[@rileywhatts3002]

WAIT, why does everyone dislike the girl?, she seems so nice and friendly?

[@sidkandeveera4441]

lol...good to know I am not the only one. The guy seems really cool, but she was sweet too. Just seemed like different personalities. It seems like its a bit fashionable these days just to hate on white people especially if they seem like they may be not high.

[@poojabhandaari]

Man! I want this guy in my life. He is so emotional and supportive. I love him. He has the most adorable smile in the world.

so you want a soyboi?

[@kirabrennan4156]

Does she know caucasian and white are basically the same thing?...

[@Assassins6688]

no they are not the same thing asians and caucasians are having a white skin color but caucasians have a different appearance look than the asians

[@rosaespinal7698]

Moataz Alzhree..They are the same thing. Black, white, Asian. those are the categories used commonly in slang.

[@annikennr4686]

Asians aren't described as white

[@lDerpedl]

Cau·ca·sian North American white-skinned; of European origin.

[@lDerpedl]

I just copied and pasted that. The "North American" part probably does not matter. But Caucasian is pretty much white.

[@jamesonian90]

He was a nice guy, but it was weird how all the things he guessed about her were just things that he liked, wanted, or thought himself. He had a hard time thinking from her perspective.

[@kemunapeace2441]

James Smith Yeah... i definitely got the impression that he was everything she feared. And she got the answers she needed to see that. I actually like her personality. He didn't express anything from what I saw and showed no real interest in her.

[@annaflore7098]

I really liked them, especially the way they approached each other's differences

[@hippiearab]

everyone talking about how hot the dude is and how much of a loss it is for her... no, not everything is based on physical appearance smh.

[@DonEkz21]

They are basing it on looks and personality

[@DannyBoy443]

Loss for her?! She saved herself. Smart woman. I can tolerate interracial. But black men dating beautiful white women is a deal breaker. I hate it.

[@alinjo4421]

La Porta D what ? 🤣

[@DannyBoy443]

Jo Alin What was hard to understand about what I said? It’s taste relax

[@alinjo4421]

La Porta D no it’s racist you idiot

[@thatgirljo2119]

He's cute. that is all.

[@bells561]

Jolisa Brewster yep he is 👏🏿

[@victoriablabla7230]

Jolisa Brewster Yes but when he says the man has to be the leader he's not cute anymore 😂

[@joni41396]

Spirit Libre why? lmao

[@michaelgaran9626]

I personally think that guys and girls should not have to be out into roles in a relationship and I certainly don't think guys should pay for meals especially on the first date.

[@lulshorty1894]

yea I agree

[@annabambamjerky]

7:05 - he was about to say "Just for the fun of it" 😂😂😂

[@DannewK]

Anele Malinga omg yes hahaha and she didnt notice coz she dumb :D

[@keyontehill7335]

DannewK She just sat there smiling and nodding yeah you know she dumb

[@DannewK]

The G.O.A.T nahh. i think she srlsy not the smartest. look after she laughs but she didnt laugh it of she just laughs coz thats her style to show that somethings funny

[@keyontehill7335]

DannewK True

[@AnnebelBuntOnline]

Yeah he did but I think he didn't mean it in a wrong way. Just, because he thought she was a nice person. So not like, dating her to get a relationship. But dating her in a way of, just doing fun stuff together

[@onlythereal3233]

The girl was toxic.

[@andrelaurent9607]

Smexii Tutorials honestly I found her very unattractive, is like she is so boring right.

[@effimero7035]

Nah. She's smart and sexy. She's like, the perfect type of woman.

[@sara_daria2]

How? Literally how can you figure that out from a 8 minute video? You cant, duh. Leave her alone

[@onlythereal3233]

Sara lmao your that irrelevant that I didn’t even get a notification from your comment 😂 I’m a week late lool

[@sara_daria2]

@@onlythereal3233 you*re 😂

[@sara_daria2]

I dont know why people hate her so much honestly i think she's really nice.

I agree I like the comments that because she doesn't like him that means she is racist. i mean WTF? whats wrong in finding people of your own colour attractive?

[@murdering.]

No Chemistry. 💔😕

[@pettyx008]

exactly I wonder what he was thinking saying he would date her

[@IBelievenevermind]

ElenaThe Goat you a girl?

[@errin7959]

" The role of a man is the do his thang and the role of the woman is to do her thang"😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@Anudorini-Talah]

You are lost beyond help Victoria, you cheated by breaking into someones privacy and therefor itll take loooong loong time until you get a real men on your side again, good luck on that, kid@Victoria J@@jessicanewman4956

[@morganstaker4928]

Urukosh ! Will y’all stfu and get a room

[@emoturnitintoavscohangout504]

Yeah cause literally why would the man be the leader? Men aren't the kings of the world the wife should be the leader cause the wife is the one that literally gave birth painfully. Men aren't the leaders since they don't go through what we go through. That's sexist

[@nicksmith7192]

@@emoturnitintoavscohangout504 Social norms and social pressures have made it so that men feel resppnsible to protect and provide for the family. This type of idea is not sexist, and it has been this way since the dawn of time. Men generally do put most of the food on the table for their familiea around the world, and having that general idea that they provide for the family is not at all hiding the fact that women are just as valuable in the family. To say that women should be the leaders instead of men is sexist. Either party can be the leader, depending on who brings home the money, and supplies for the family, that's just what it is.

[@nicksmith7192]

@@emoturnitintoavscohangout504 also you don't go through what we go through either. Like putting up with people who are ignorant and fail to realize how hypocritical they are. Sounds familiar doesn't it?

[@user-cy1im8lm2x]

She is so right in her perspective girl is no necessary ly be supportive and man be a provider perspectives or thoughts need not to be same to be in love

[@whatshername3158]

he looks soooooooo sweet and calm and tolerant.she looks like the type of woman who would have random scary meltdowns,have weird sexual tendecies and cheat on him constantly(thas my psycho grain of salt lol).WHY did they make them meet up?they're clearly worlds apart

[@mikamarie7118]

I would date him he seems so sweet!

[@g34r739f]

Amber Foley , I too would

[@abdirahmanwarsame8643]

I wont because I am a man

[@saraelabd4958]

Yes actually

[@cecirogalski228]

Amber Foley same

[@pettyx008]

@@abdirahmanwarsame8643 You would

[@spschol]

Legend has it she's still laughing to this day

[@josephbarthley]

Which Legend was has it

[@gaston.831]

Haha

[@artymunoz5060]

He seemed way to good for her honestly She clearly was the type to date men to have her fun with them and then breakup with them Him stating how he had his heart broken shows he’s a man who is seeking a genuine person and that he’s rare and will eventually find that one special person

[@armandizz4156]

I fell so bad for Phil like he seems so nice

[@_hijabieinthe6ix309]

So since there not a "perfect match " can I be on for next week episode with the same guy .

[@user-le2es5ux3x]

Sasha Macaan omg

[@ChelseaPlays]

Sasha Macaan lol

[@manubei3574]

With me

[@user-os4nk]

Dead LMAOO GURL CHILL

[@cheetos567]

lmao!!!!!

[@isaiahcastro5897]

Does anyone not see this guy as like a character in club penguin

[@madikin]

Isaiah Castro OH MY GOD YOU'RE RIGHT..

[@_knickerbocker]

Isaiah Castro 😂😂😂

[@KP-hy8sc]

RIP Club Penguin 🐧😭😤

[@robertsmelody2072]

WHAT??? CLUB PENGUIN ENDED?????

[@nap.of.the.earth...]

Isaiah Castro it's the eyes😂😂

[@jacobandersen6075]

Meggan: "All that being said I feel like such a hypocrite because I do love being taken out, I like a guy paying for it.” Phil: “SHOCKERRRR!!!” Me and you both bro.

[@paolamusiclover]

He’s so fine, I would’ve definitely said yes. I understand the whole sexist questions answers but I don’t think he meant it in the wrong way. It was just how he was raised and it didn’t seem like he would force that on someone.