THIS DISCUSSION NEEDED TO HAPPEN! (THIS GOT DEEP!)

[@HalfAndJai]

Thank you guys for stopping through! Don’t forget to subscribe and like this video guys! WE F***ING LOVE U GUYS!!!

[@keithforgie8717]

I am first nations both parents went through res natives schooling but we don't after all the hate , why can't you look at two spirits

[@jayminer8773]

I don't deem it as racist to say "black" couple but, it's unnecessary to add race to it. Y'all are awesome! Good vibes! 💥💥

[@stevezrofsky8577]

Would the Black love conversation be taking place if you and your love were from say, Detroit. Where the melting pot is only 2 races. I ask because I'm from Los Angeles where the melting pot is so big and many races

[@ScottC33]

We love you guys

[@susanruggero426]

We love y'all too.

[@Wemfs]

We gotta stop focusing so much on race as a society. Love is love, no matter the race.

[@2RGGrannyJeff]

Facts.

[@mpls6124]

💯

[@mccord207]

💯

[@jeremyhitchcock9182]

Exactly.

[@titanent]

for real

[@davidatrout]

I’m a 59 year old white conservative guy in the south. Y’all are a beautiful and inspiring couple. I really enjoy listening to and learning from your conversations. You have been a source for my learning and education about a variety of subjects and especially around race issues. While I don’t necessarily agree with race labeling in many cases, I think that whatever it takes to develop healthy, loving relationships and families in any community of people, and in y’all’s case the the African American community, is a good thing. Family is so important in the development and health of communities. We have come a long way in improving race relations, but there is still a LOT we can do. Y’all are definitely doing your part to talk about issues in an honest and loving way. Keep doing you!! Thank you for the time and effort you put in to your content.

[@santosmadrigal3702]

Get over yourself already ... Really ? Now more than ever humanity is so ... Everybody is everybody ... So " black " people are an untouched speashise ?

[@bigcountry9486]

@@santosmadrigal3702 written by santos madrigal lmfaooo

[@santosmadrigal3702]

@@bigcountry9486 words of a Hillbilly Redneck Mexican . Hmmmm . Were are my people ? In your neighborhood ? Let me guess . You got that information from your cellphone ?

[@stevenbridge6961]

I was in an interracial relationship. I'm white and my girlfriend was black. I was preparing to marry her and her parents made her leave me. I asked why,what was it I did that they felt was wrong so I could maybe try to rectify it and they told me to my face I couldn't because it was that I'm white. Her mother told me she'd never let her daughter date a white person and had a bunch of other colourful language for me that I won't repeat here. Their daughter didn't like it but ended up listening to them. I treat people as individuals so it didn't change my opinions about anyone or anything. I know that's just my story and its therefore anecdotal but I just thought I would throw it in the conversation.

[@andyfletcher3561]

Similar situation for me in high school. We never got close to marriage, only managed a few dates. We were getting very close, I was mad for her and though we were far to young, I was thinking she COULD be "the one". Then we started getting the threats, including death. Me from the Black guys, and her from the White girls. Folks that wouldn't have anything to do with either of us under any other circumstance, and that in itself was a large part of why we even found each other in the first place. I wish we both could have been stronger, even if it never went anywhere...

[@stevenbridge6961]

@@andyfletcher3561 ya man i get what you mean. We didn't really get much from others. A few of her black friends had issues with it but kept it to themselves. My friends and family were good. I'm mixed race. White and native so she would come to different native events with my family and me. I wanted to do family stuff with her but for obvious reason we never did.

[@andyfletcher3561]

@@stevenbridge6961 Yeah, I'm White, and she was Black. Which is what was truly puzzling about, as Like I said, it was White girls that wanted nothing to do with me before, or after, that were bugging her, And Black guys bugging me, who otherwise wanted nothing to do with her. That in itself was perplexing as she was stunningly beautiful.

[@jackiekent8720]

So sad that we have people of all races that are prejudiced and I never noticed it until I moved to Vegas. My parents never dictated to me what race I could date. I treat people how I want to be treated and I believe you should have a mix of friends we can all learn from one another.

[@stevenbridge6961]

@@jackiekent8720 totally agree

[@joycewelsh3876]

This was a great discussion today. I, also, have never heard someone say "black love" or "white love". As a white woman in her 60's, I remember going to a mostly black school in the 1960's. Nothing was ever mentioned in any class about race. My father (a white man from the deep south) was a butcher in a black neighborhood for many years. His customers loved him so much and he would stock items just for them that I had never heard of or eaten. My late husband and I lived in a multicultural neighborhood and all the neighbors loved one another well regardless of race. When my husband became ill, a black gentleman across would shovel our walk in the winter and cut our grass in the summer without asking. I feel so fortunate that we had experiences with all sorts of people and we all loved one another. Sorry for going on so long but I so appreciate that you brought this up today and it gives me hope knowing that as you learn you are in turn teaching us about things we would never have thought of. Shout out to Mia for being such an intelligent young lady. You've raised her well.

[@quentindillon953]

They didn't mention it for it was already known.Blacks would not speak so freely around whites about what whites did to them whether it was man,woman or child.Please lets be honest with ourselves.

[@Stewartsmom0]

As a white woman, I would never feel comfortable saying "white love"..I don't like labeling different skin tones..Love is love and we are all humans from the same God. 💖

[@RitaMae13]

Well said.

[@inspectorclouseau8056]

Yes

[@susanruggero426]

Amen, Kim

[@daveo8684]

Well said sister

[@mpls6124]

💯

[@samanthamccloskey6369]

I’m not gonna lie. When I hear phrases like “black love” or “a beautiful black couple” or even “black pride”. One of the first things that come to mind for me as a white woman is ‘wow I could NEVER say that.’ Every other race is encouraged to feel pride in their community. Except white people we are encouraged to feel shame for ours. 🤷‍♀️ just how I feel. I love your deep conversations. Jai has so much empathy and consideration. 👏 always thinking outside the box.

[@quentindillon953]

So you feel indifferent when non white people engaged in such talk But you have to know white is normalized on a daily basis.Would love to continue dialogue if you up for it.

[@samanthamccloskey6369]

@@quentindillon953 what do you mean “white is normalized”? I don’t understand that.

[@brcage]

True

[@brcage]

@@quentindillon953 What you've stated is illogical.

[@quentindillon953]

@@brcage Tell me why?

[@bettyariga2789]

I’m a Asian woman and never heard of black love . However , I enjoy watching half and Jai because of the respect and love that is projected . Good Vibes … Mia is beautiful ,thoughtful and honest . It gives me hope for the next generation.💕

[@danfitch4881]

Jai Mia Half if America had 100 more of you 3 we would see racism in America disappear in a single generation. I know that many young black folks think like you, they just meed to get vocal and start educating their circle of influence with the same powerful love that you show every time we see your videos.

[@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji]

Beautifully stated 🕊❤️🕊🪶🪶🪶

[@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji]

@@danfitch4881 yes yes yes! 🍃💚🍃👵🏽👋🏾🪶🪶

[@dianegoldeneye7363]

Never heard this before. Usually just -- couple.

[@jimmybob7028]

Ya... keep hoping. So far, "hope" hasn't worked in 60 years. Liberals/Democrats hold blacks down/back. STOP VOTING DEMOCRAT!! "hoping" don't do shit.

[@LoveBites1279]

I’m a white man and I don’t get offended when I hear “that’s a beautiful black couple”. You two are a beautiful couple, has nothing to do with race though. I absolutely love the both of you because you’re smart, funny and compassionate. People need to get over the past and look toward the future. Much love to you both.

[@livinglife8333]

All goes back to, “Do unto others as you would have done unto you.” Treat all people how you want to be treated. Judge every person on their character not their race, religion or sexual orientation.

[@christilehman-starr4428]

Yep

[@flubber1557]

Indeed. Its what we call the golden rule where I work and we teach it to kids all the time.

[@chrisporter7984]

Honestly, these types of conversations are what will move the country forward. Traditional media only highlights the things that divide us for the clicks so thank you for being part of the solution!

[@robertakline9785]

To be completely honest, I feel it takes away from the praise or compliment as soon as you add any preface be it Black, Latino, White, ect. I believe you two are an amazing couple. The fact you are black is a physical description of you and has nothing to do with how I see you as a wife and husband. We are so brainwashed the physical characteristics supersede the simple facts. Yes, this is a conversation we need to have. Love you!

[@nancypparsons2818]

Very well said!!!

[@FabienMathey]

I agree. Why do we now need to divide love, couple/marriage etc by colour, by gender or anything else? It is very beautiful to have love! No need for additional segregation here ;)

[@coudgeb]

Well said & couldn’t agree more

[@realmenistries2904]

That young lady is very impressive. You don't see wisdom and character like that in the younger generation very often.

[@thesonnen447]

I'm of a mixed race family so every love/couple looks just as common to me. What's beautiful is closeness, loyalty & respect that you can tell some couples have. Basically, true love.

[@2apocalypse-X]

There are so many races and ethnicities in my family as well, Black, French, Japanese, Hisanic/Latino, and many others, and I couldn't be more proud.

[@marsjam4117]

I'm white. My step dad is Asian. My triplet sisters are half Asian. My step mom is black. My brother is half black. All my nieces and nephews are black. We have a very interesting family 😁

[@laurensorensen5789]

Love you guys!!! These last couple years have been really hard. I've never discriminated and never thought I'd bought into stereotypes and always tried to remember MLK to judge by character, and nothing else. But then all of a sudden I'm hearing constantly that I'm born racist, evil minded, and when I tried to voice my opinion that we should all strive to be better and do better at loving our communities, I got disowned and cancelled by family. I don't understand... I love your videos and the happiness you bring to my life. Hearing your efforts to love everyone give me hope that I'm not alone and I'm actually part of a majority that are just trying to love. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@hannahgraham1739]

Agree with your daughter! I’m so over the emphasis on race! If I saw a beautiful couple regardless of skin color I’d be like “wow! You are a good looking couple!” We are all made equally in the image of god

[@marythornhill9491]

Amen again!

[@quentindillon953]

You can be over race but is it over you?

[@scratchpenny]

@@quentindillon953 It takes more people rejecting the old racial concepts for it to dissipate. And we slowly see that happening over time, with each new generation. There still might be incidents where race is a factor, but the idea that we must base our lives around these archaic concepts about race is unhealthy/regressive. Many arguments that continue to support these false racial concepts are born out of fear. People say things like "I'm black because society says I'm black" or "you know you'll be treated differently since you're black," and other similar statements. And if it's being done for those reasons/fears, then it's a form of bondage that must be broken by each individual. But, as for society, there is a good argument that racial tensions and issues would lessen if we spent less time focusing on them. For example, it would be beneficial if the government and other large institutions stopped using the slavemaster's definition of race in America. It's not scientifically accurate nor reflects group differences very well. It's okay to account for differences, such as ethnicity and/or genetic makeup. However, continuing to frame everything using the slavemaster's racial lens is a disservice to everyone as it perpetuates those racial 'types' forever.

[@quentindillon953]

@@scratchpenny I get it but not talking or focusing on the problem is not healthy for black people because most people biases becomes normalized.Thats like having a hole in the roof of your home and saying just because I don't think about that hole it well overtime fix itself in time So forgetting overt racism only becomes covert rascism which is far more harmful.

[@scratchpenny]

@@quentindillon953 My point is not about ignoring verifiable racism and discrimination. Rather, my point is that the grand narrative approach about racism and embracing the old racial designations don't benefit us. On the contrary, it harms actual progress by building racial narratives through strong emotions that may not be accurate. As Alex Haley admitted about 'Roots,' he gave "his people a myth to live by" rather than the complete truth. And whether one is black, white, or other, people start believing these myths/narratives without ever knowing if they are verifiably true. And that perpetuates a false reality (bias/stereotypes/etc.) from one generation to the next, thereby continuing the internalized racial problems within all peoples. So the framework of how race is defined and used in our society, most harmfully when inaccurate, plays a significant role in how we perceive racial problems. And can anyone rightly claim that the slavemaster's definition of race, still used in America today, accurately represents the differences within and outside our race? One must start in objective reality if one wants to produce a measurable change for themselves and for others. Thus, instances of racism and discrimination claims must be verified and proven through causal evidence. Otherwise, we get an endless loop of internal bias/beliefs primarily driven by subjective feelings and perceptions rather than actual verifiable proof. And since subjective feelings change from one person to the next, you can't rely on them to effectively improve society through policy/decisions/regulations. So the discussion must be objective to avoid the false narratives, lies, grift, emotionalism, etc., that come with discussions of race. Maybe a better way to put it is not that we shouldn't focus on issues relating to race but that we should do it more accurately through objective measures. The current approach seems to be failing us.

[@asizasandoval9945]

"Noone is preventing you from doing anything..." - YES!! Preach young lady!

[@janicemercuri9559]

60 year old, white woman here. I’ve never thought about any color love when I see any couples. My take on any relationship is speaking to others about their relationship. I was having a conversation with a friend, she’s black, and her ideals in her marriage are the same as mine. We love and respect our husbands. We understand how hard they work to support and provide for their family. We do for our husbands ; we make sure their clothes are washed and ready, we have a meal on the table, we get their coffee and lunch ready for them in the morning. I’ve been married for 32 years, she’s still in the honeymoon stage with her current husband and we agree that date nights are very important in a relationship. And I must say, I love your conversations. I’m so happy I found your channel. Keep it going family.

[@sarahk9759]

Love that you brought your daughter in the conversation. She is so bright and beautiful and she is very level-headed. So encouraging for the future!❤❤❤

[@daveroberts9051]

Excellent topic! I have had the “battle “ with my family members who are stuck in the “box” but think they are living for themselves when they are actually angry about something that has not happened to them. It’s sad actually because they are actually trapped in bondage, in their minds.

[@abrotherslegacy1001]

We all on this rock together. God says to love thy neighbor. Imagine how beautiful this world would be if every human just followed that concept. Keep bringing us the great content. Love y'all.

[@ddunnum]

My wife and I were married almost 31 years and we held hands everywhere we went. We enjoyed seeing other couples that had that demonstrated that kind of love. My wife went home to be with the Lord a year ago. Now I cherish seeing couples regardless of race, have that kind of love for one another. Even better if they love the Lord. That kind of a relationship should be cherished. It is an example that should be thought well of. God bless you all.

[@soulfireonfire6423]

Great comment to the subject being discussed. Sending love to you in regards to the passing of your your best friend and love if your life! You were blessed to be able to experience what so many never do! Love and Peace always V

[@reneshumaker8328]

I believe that all races have good people that show love, joy, and happiness. And that to me is very beautiful. People from opposite races showing one another love and respect is absolutely gorgeous!!!!

[@brianbrooks1285]

I'm a White Southern Christian Conservative. born and raise deep in the mountains of western NC! I love seeing couples in love no matter what race they are! I can't see how it could be called racist at all. So, when you walk around in public be proud of who you are and enjoy the person that walks next to you! Your skin is as good as mine and I'll do my part so that you won't forget that! So, keep on smilin' and tell your daughter she's got a good head on her shoulders!

[@ambera.7668]

I appreciate you guys and the topics you bring up. People need to be more open minded in general and I think it's great that you have these conversations. Much love and respect to you all. 💜

[@irishmick4278]

You all are good people and I enjoy watching your Episodes. All the power to you.The both of you are very respectful to each other and I know that takes a lot of work and it may not always be as nice as it is on your shows but you can tell that you genuinely respect each other. That is so powerful 4 children And children do so much better in life when they see their parents work together, care for each other, And laugh together. I don't like how society today seems they are trying to develop a wedges between people based on their race. That blows Because I personally judge people on their character And it's not our diversity that makes us strong it's our unity. So if you're ever in Orange County California please let me know, It would be great to meet you And take you out for a drink some food, whatever sounds good. Take care White Irish Guy

[@shermanmerryman203]

Love is love regardless of race. I am native American and my wife (35 yrs) is black. Regardless of race I believe the younger generation does not recognize, understand or even know what true deep love for another person is

[@cathyharville7226]

Thank you for this discussion! I totally agree! It totally makes me smile when I hear that! But, I also agree with the young lady! We need to stop making race a factor!💕💕💕

[@ph-273]

I grew up in the 70's and 80's and I am a mixture of hispanic & white. I look all white though, but both of my parents families never said black love, white love etc. For example my neighbors were a black married couple, but I never looked at them other than Dewayne & Netta and how wonderful they were to be around at 11years old. I ended up becoming their babysitter and stayed the night on the couch if they came home late from the Jazz club. They were so in love and just a beautiful couple. My parents were going through a divorce at that time so I found myself spending alot of time around Dewayne & Netta and learning so much. I loved being around a married couple again as my family was falling apart. I wish I knew how they were, I'm in my 50's now and I always think of them.

[@AVToth]

I've been married for 45 years and while we've been called a beautiful couple, we've NEVER been called a white couple. After 20 years people still would ask us if we were newlyweds. For me personally, what draws my attention isn't so much the couple's color but how they look at each other, it's all in the eyes. I haven't seen many black couples who have that look, that look that tells the world they deeply love each other and have for a long time. A couple that you can tell by their motions that they have been "in the harness" together. They sort of anticipate the other's movements, emotions, speech. It seems to be increasing in the black community, and that makes me feels good just because seeing ANY couple with that love look gives me a little inner happy giggle. To answer the question about black love. At the time, I just have my inner happy giggle and feel like you do when you are a kid and see Grandaddy kiss Granny, that little frizzle of happiness. Later on, you know how you replay the day in you're head, then I think more about the details. That's when I think about what they looked like, what they were doing, where I was. Does that make any sense?

[@tiacalhoun3841]

Makes perfect sense

[@raineyj560]

You said it in the most romantic & beautiful terms but it's not increasing, it's always been there. ❤️

[@stevenprobst4917]

You all are great and love seeing a young family discuss such relevant topics. I love hearing that this in not just a conversation that happens around our dinner table. As a member of the human race I'm so sick of the labels, and identifiers that we assign to ourselves that attempt to make us unique but have been used to divide us. The idea of you are either agree with me or you are against me is ripping apart the fabric of our society. I pray that we can all let go and heal from the things that have happened to us in history and as importantly what we have done to each other in our own lives to scar each other. Thank you for being a voice of reason and civility in this time!

[@stephaniethompson4592]

Race has nothing to do with love in my opinion but I agree you 2 are a beautiful couple and I love to watch the love here on the Half and Jai family ❣️

[@superrhombus1]

Again, much love to you and yours Half and Jai!!! You guys are real and need to be heard by all!!! Your discussions affect all of us and teach open mindedness and love! Good vibes ❤️

[@SodoMojo22]

Love watching you two (and guest). Keeping it real, always comforting to listen to like minded people.

[@rickycook1967]

I have heard black love and I’m British , you have to understand the meaning of it which as you pointed out is about broken homes and missing parents , you have a beautiful chemistry between yourselves and it is alluring to others , some people rub you up the wrong way and you’ll never like them , I personally would like you as friends or neighbours etc , for me you’re an epitome of what people should be like , continue being real and enjoy life ❤️

[@rachelcampbell9733]

I am glad to see any couples and families together. I think it is nice to see couples love each other and families that have both parents and how much happier the kids are with both parents. But I have noticed commercials will not show a white couple now, it is really rare to see that now one tv. It is always mixed race or black couples or any other color together but a white couple is hard to even find on TV. Statistics are actually changed to the point that most households do not have both parents. I think it should just be "how nice it is to see love and families growing together" without worrying about what race the people are. I know without God in the home marriages cannot really last because no matter the race you have to cover your spouse with grace. Because we are made to love each other but we struggle to overlook the other's faults and see their needs. So we have to be willing to decide to show love and show kindness to reach other. I firmly believe that fathers are so important to the outcome of their kids. I have been married for 26 years and it is a beautiful thing but it is not always easy. But we have to choose to grow together and to include each other. That is part of what I love about watching you together. You are growing together. That is beautiful for any couple and family.

[@HL-qc5rd]

You cannot expect change unless you are willing to change yourself! People cannot just expect change if you continue to do the same thing. These discussions need to happen if we expect things to change. You 2 are great

[@adrabruzzese7610]

You guys are a beautiful couple because I see your genuine affection for each other. That is a rare thing in couples of all races. I can understand an older black person being excited to see you two in a loving relationship and saying you're a beautiful black couple, but I would just say beautiful couple.

[@flopofshame2582]

It wasn’t that long ago that black families were forcefully torn apart. So I think the connections black families have today are super important and super strong for that reason. I grew up in city with a high school named for the founder of the KKk, so I didn’t grow up feeling connected to my white race. I often was envious of the strong connections that the black families in my neighborhood had and wished I wasn’t white. I wished I had a family that would even want to have a family reunion( never had one in my family ever). Black love is strong because it was forged in adversity and it is something to notice and strive for no matter the race.

[@chrispritchard3463]

I’ve never heard that said until now. That being said, honestly, it sounds strange to me to color love. Love is blind. Thank GOD! Because I’m an ugly somebuck and my wife is gorgeous! Love you guys! Keep it going!

[@ohmightywez]

You made me laugh! I bet your gorgeous wife fell in love with your sense of humor. My husband makes me laugh better than anyone else.

[@wellwouldyalookitthat]

Lol silly

[@chrispritchard3463]

@@ohmightywez lol thank you! Life gets boring if you can’t laugh at it.

[@BM-hb2mr]

Ya , I was trying to word it, but the same here. . I'm from a southern place in Missouri and never heard it and I travel all over the US, maybe not paying attention or I just don't hear it

[@chrispritchard3463]

@@BM-hb2mr hello neighbor! Oklahoma here!

[@flash1660]

I feel you can say whatever you want but for me I love to see people love each other and when I do see it I tell my wife those folks love each other and I smile real big ! You two love each other and I think you are a great example for ALL of us !

[@rachelcampbell9733]

One of my favorite quotes from an old movie. This woman said to another woman meant as an insult, "You are very broad-minded" and the younger woman turned and said to her, "that is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me." 😉

[@superrhombus1]

And Jai, you have one of the calming voices ever! When you talk it feels like a hug ❤️.

[@georgeeads8689]

Wow!!! You all breached a very sensitive subject. I am proud of you for having the courage to do that. I am a white male and I was raised in the south and I am 65 years old. I was not raised to be racist or biased toward anyone for any reason. In my day the schools were still segregated. I believe love is love. It is the same for all people. If I heard someone say black love my first thought would be why do they want to separate themselves from everyone else. Hypocrisy is in all races of people. I do not have a problem with mixed race couples. I believe the mixing of the races is what will bring about a big decline in racism. I say it that way because I do not believe racism will ever end. There will always be those who hate because of race. I do see a lot of blacks who blame their problems on the whites but I also see a lot of blacks that have been very successful in life and do not understand why other blacks blame whites. Being called an Uncle Tom. If anyone takes the time to read the book Uncle Tom's Cabin it is a story denouncing slavery and racism. Being called an Uncle Tom is actually a compliment. I do want to ask a question. Why is it ok for a black to call another black the N word but not ok if other races, especially whites, to do it??? Whether it is said with an A at the end or an ER it is still the same nasty derogatory word. Just my thoughts. Love your channel and videos.

[@sarahk9759]

I wondered the same thing. If it's so offensive, why use it at all? Nobody should use it.

[@cynthiamgrooms8195]

I’m 62 & white,& grew up the Same in the South. Not completely on board with Half’s explanation, especially since I was taught Love is Blind…to color & different abilities/disabilities, & physical appearances. With a divorce rate of 50%, Any successful & happy couple should be celebrated,& open & honest about sharing their experiences & wisdom of how they’ve survived in even More Love & Respect for each other, with the upcoming generations!!! As for the “N” thing, I’ve been told,& heard it from several people on Social Media, that it’s black folks Reclaiming,& turning such a hurtful & negative word into a positive.🙄I call BS on That big time,& have No doubt Somebody planted that into their thinking as well, as a Constant reminder in claiming perpetual Victimhood. Only black folks get away with using it, just like only black folks get away with Rapping about hateful “N’s” killing each other, degrading & banging their women as Hoes & Sluts, killing police officers, Glorifying Gangsta life with a road to prison or coffins, all while pumping their bodies with illegal drugs they’re dealing & buying. In my elementary years, we were tasked to look up the definition, write down Everything,& then use it to describe someone Other than a black person. I can’t quote it word for word now,& have no idea if Webster has also changed that definition, like they have other words to appease the PC & SJW’s, but it was Anyone who wasn’t clean, who lived in subpar housing conditions,& were uneducated aka Societal Throwaways, no matter their color. It also listed a derogatory slang word used on black folks as the Last of definitions. White Appalachian folks fit the main definition, & Trailer Trash is just a nicer sounding phrase that hurts folks just as bad. MY questions are, as Perpetual Victims of Slavery, how they’ve come to think All white people owned slaves, when it was maybe 1%,& how did All white people fight to Keep slavery when there’s Evidence of Many white folks(even from the South), who died or permanently disabled, fighting in part, to end slavery, throwing their own families further into poverty? And How do they reconcile Supporting Child & Adult Slave Labor Today, that their Athletic Heroes playing a Game, use to make higher profits in our Capitalism Country, that’s gotten too many of their children Murdered in the process of Stealing their”Merch”? These Very Rich Game Players, driving Very expensive cars, living in Multimillion dollar mansions Far from the “Hood” they grew up in, Constantly Remind their fans that they are Oppressed & Victims, but not One or One of their teams, have opened a factory Here, to employ the Victims, bring them dignity through work, & lifting them from poverty, making their “Merch”!!!

[@user-ii4zf5iq3t]

This is what is needed. By the time you have a news media intermediary they mess everything up. Open Dialogue is the only way, give and take. If some of us sound mad to you, so what, let's talk and find the common ground. Great attitude. If I ever say anything it is never to belittle or hurt anyone. We've waited for you to heal. We've waited so long and only want the best for everyone. This is not a dress rehearsal.

[@deltason5159]

"White Love"? That does hit different than hearing a black person saying "Black Love". I'm a white man, and hearing "Black Love" doesn't offend me. I understand that a black person could be put off if they heard "White Love". I do have a question that I've asked myself for a long time. Where did the whole black and white thing start? I'm a white guy, but my skin isn't actually white. I have never met a black person whose skin is actually black. I know that is a loaded question, and it isn't meant poke fun at anyone. What do y'all think? I have enjoyed watching your channel, and y'all sharing your journey. ONE PEOPLE ONE LOVE

[@ladysiciliana466]

I wish I was getting notifications when you guys go live. This discussion was so important and I'm sorry that I missed it. There is so much to say about this topic that I couldn't possibly write it down without getting finger cramps...lol. All I'll say right now is "Thank You" for having it. I hope you don't get a lot of backlash from haters. BTW...Mia is beautiful & very intelligent. God Bless You All!

[@melissahaley3283]

Just keep being you...from a 50ish old woman white from East Coast Canada..keep learning....love your channel. Look up Beaver Harbour NB...slavery was against the law...at one time only place on east coast of North America...

[@robbinrasmussen3060]

As a white woman I just have to say that sometimes it's disheartening to hear words like our community and our people. I believe we are all in this crazy world together and we have to stick together. Thank you for the having this discussion. No matter what color skin you have, we have hardships. Let's take care of each other.

[@flinx649]

yep

[@markwilson7439]

We have to shine a light on all violence as you stated A light that shines, not a spot light that allows darkness to stay so close to the edge of any situation.

[@debbiegartin1598]

Anytime I see a couple that loves and respects each other, it makes me feel good. Black, white, green, purple I don’t care. Is that your daughter? What a smart, beautiful young lady!

[@indianagirl9199]

Love the conversation and that y'all are open to other people's opinions while still speaking your truth. Keep being y'all and do your thang.❤❤

[@jayjordan7104]

I've taken it as a positive thing, something that brings about smiles and I'm all for that. Once at a party, a grandma said it and then gave me a little nudge and asked me if I was jealous and wanted some of that. Wink and a smile moment. The only time I've done the uncomfortable shuffle was when a gentleman said it and then gave a long hard look at his nephew...who was married to a white girl. PS...whoever raised this young woman deserves a damn medal. She has got a head on her shoulders and can go some places. I've a son who is single bout her age....he's white though;)

[@catcruickshank5503]

I compliment anyone I want to see a smile from. When I see any couples together in public being happy and clearly in love, I smile. Being in love is a wonderful feeling and I'm happy for the couples.

[@thestokesmenchannel]

Being from a proud European background, I can definitely shed some light on this. Euros speak in terms of heritage pride, and color isn’t a tagline to everything we say or do. For instance…… I’m 1/3 Italian, 1/3 German and 1/3 Spanish. I can honestly say in my entire life, I nor anyone in our families have said “ We are proud White Germans/Italians/Spaniards”, our pride is in our background/heritage. Perhaps encouraging fellow family members to search their genealogy, and research your heritage, traditions, celebrations and things that make you unique. For instance……… I’ve friends and coworkers from various different regions of Africa, some of their differences are slight and some are vast. The differences between folks from Nigeria and those from the Ivory Coast. So to give you a straight forward answer(my wife is Latina and her family agrees), saying “Black Love” isn’t offensive/racist/passive aggressive, other cultures just don’t understand injecting color into everything as a point of pride. My wife is from Ecuador, and has a deep pride in her culture and a loving connection with fellow Latino as I do with my Italian brothers and sisters. Although she is a proud Latina, there’s a healthy fun camaraderie with her friends from Puerto Rico/Spain/Brazil/Mexico and Argentina. This is the exact same camaraderie we Euros have between each other. In short, put aside the crutches of color and embrace your heritage. Ask yourselves, what makes my family unique amongst blacks(American, African or otherwise)? It’s not color, that’s your commonality🤔. Love your channel, do a series of videos on your genealogy and you’ll be surprised at the treasure your heritage has in store for you. 💪🏻🇪🇸 💪🏻🇮🇹 💪🏻🇩🇪

[@davidpaulk5658]

Black americans are OBSESSED with color because they are the most racists. It's obvious. Why people are afraid to say I dont know. They constantly project calling whites racist but they ain't fooling me.

[@marlenareynolds1090]

Im was born in Poland and im a proud Pol.. like you said its heritage and family . Race dont mater to me love is love and i love people. We are brothers and sisters no matter what. Family

[@sandramcclain5030]

I feel like we will never understand each other as long as we let race define and divide us. I'm white and so enjoy watching you guys. I love the good vibes you guys give. The way you talk, interact with each other, and share yours views is no different than my family. We have common ground. We all have struggles within our races but in the end we just want to live life, enjoy our families, and do good for others. The color of one's skin or cultural differences shouldn't define a relationship with anyone. It's character, the heart of a person, and respect that sparks a relationship. And you are right about ration thinking, it's key to uniting instead of dividing. I personally would not insert race into describing you or anyone else as a couple for fear of being labeled as a racist by some. So see that's a struggle for me as a white person, being conscious of trying not to offend anyone or being labeled something that I know I am not. It shouldn't be that way for anyone. God bless you both and your family!! You are truly a lovely lovely couple!♥️

[@jenniferbeckcom8945]

Beautiful family! Those smiles are stunning 😍

[@lorriejensen5020]

An open and educated mind helps us come together. I don't want to waste time hating one another. It's not worth the time or energy. Seeing a couple together, I like to watch the eyes. If you see a couple out in society. They're laughing and smiling, but the most telling to me is when you see the love in their eyes. Who wouldn't want that! Only found your channel about a month ago. It's been a pleasure growing with you.

[@shellinsight1756]

This was a beautiful and inspiring conversation. Forward thinking forever 💞

[@peggykunkel9180]

This was a good conversation. It astonishes me that you would get any hate for your content or reactions. You always approach things with love and fun. Thank you for sharing.

[@marshahavemann2107]

You seem like such a loving couple and family. I’ve said this to different couples I know and respect. I’m white married to a white man and of ten kids from my family one is married to a Filipino, one to a Nigerian, and one to an Iranian. Will be happy when this country becomes completely mixed so we can hopefully get over the hostilities.

[@Aries41474]

I absolutely loved this discussion. Communicating is so healthy. Keep doing it & keep sharing! ❤️

[@Kevin-tj4rz]

Hey kids glad to see your in good spirits.. Watching the journey and the reaction to that reality check.. the good book says the TRUTH shall set you free..

[@lindaadame2580]

Good evening Half & Jai, thank you for your conversations and I encourage your search and quest to elevate. In an answer to your question, I'm an American Mexican, and amongst mexicanos, we don't include our race when admiring anyone, their relationships or their marriages. It's just not something in our community. I grew up in an all black neighborhood and did notice that black people often pointed out race. I believe it's a learned behavior that's created negative barriers, perhaps as a wall of protection. Just like all cycles, it takes a brave step to allow yourself to heal and change those behaviors, views, beliefs, verbage. No one can do that for anyone else. I feel you all are on a very good path. God continue to bless you all. 💙

[@jaysonoconnell1429]

I'm white, so this is kind of an outside-looking-in perspective. I take it as, there is such a stigma against full black families in this country that the concept of black love is a form of taking y'all power back, and it's inspiring to see. I've actually thought this while watching your videos before because y'all gorgeous.

[@maryhunt1098]

I love this conversation. I grew up in a very diverse city and moat of my siblings married other races, so we've had similar conversations about race. Race was never allowed to be uses an an excuse for their successes or failures. Their choices decide the life they live.

[@audracrawford8836]

When we all stop putting each other in specific boxes is when we will all come together as humans and love one another equally regardless of race, religion, or gender♥️

[@lagatha1037]

nothing in this conversation has a damn thing to do with gender…….

[@audracrawford8836]

@@lagatha1037 it was just a broad statement regarding how people treat one another.. sorry if it offended you..

[@lagatha1037]

@@audracrawford8836 Y’all just push this trash into any conversation, as if it really is a legitimate issue. I will always be offended by your arrogance. You must be one of those GROOMERS, I have heard of. Shame on you. There are two genders. Male and female. Their genes don’t lie. Deal with it.

[@ljmiller272]

You are all three wonderful people. That's all I see. I have cried with you every time you've cried. I love the way Half tends to your tears too. I have watched your videos all day. I'm new but I'm hooked. Jai you warm my heart with your facial expressions when something opens your eyes. I am old enough to be your mama and if I had a daughter I would want her to have your smile & your heart. I believe God has his hands on you and Half, I know you two can make a difference.

[@iwatchyoutube9610]

I'm white. If I heard a black person say "That's a beautiful black couple" my first reaction would be to think that the person who said it was wanting black people to stick to their own and I wouldn't like that and yes, as soon as you include race in the statement it's racist. I do really see Half's point though about the "absent father" stats and I do also feel happy for strong black families as I think we need more of that and less single mothers(of all races). If a white person said "That's a beautiful white couple" I'd feel the person is definitely racist in a "bad" way. Let's just leave the race thing out of it as much as possible apart from looking at stats that can help us understand and progress.

[@soulfireonfire6423]

So you would be assuming and unconsciously submitting to the social conforms (because the entire society of all countries. (to a certain extent regarding generalizing “ entire societies,” have all been brainwashed) that because one references the color of one’s skin or their nationality that it’s racist! Why? He just explained what it refers to or his opinion or how ever you want to look at but the fact is, his words didn’t present anything that could be considered to be racist!

[@scratchpenny]

@@soulfireonfire6423 Agreed. I don't think it necessarily means the person who says that is racist, as it doesn't imply anything about other races, nor is it malicious. However, I think the OP is partly correct because this is 'racialist' behavior. In other words, a person who makes those kinds of statements is embracing the old racial concepts and reinforcing them, whether or not that is their intention.

[@nancypparsons2818]

Thank you for being so open, and helping people of all races keep an open mind. Such a great example of parenting and respect for one another!

[@C-Russ]

Half and Jai!!! What up?! Love you guys man! God bless you and your families a million times!! 😎🇺🇸

[@hamblinta]

Personally, this is the first time I’ve ever heard the term “black love.” I don’t take it as racist but it does represent one more way we’re still separated. I would say you all are a beautiful couple and in this day and time that’s getting harder and harder to find (regardless of what color your skin is). But, I do realize that our cultures are different in the way we see things, which is one of the reasons I like you guys and your channel so much. Your daughter (am I right about that being your daughter) is a very wise woman in how she views things!

[@deborahwalker306]

Amen that this conversation can be had with honesty. Love God and the rest is easy.

[@samdemings9820]

I love what you all had to say. I'm Hispanic (Mexican) and I have to say when I hear people say " we need to have more attention on Black issues" is that all we ever seem to hear is about Blacks and White issues. Meanwhile the only time people care about Mexican Americans is about getting more cheap labor across the border or Cinco De Mayo.

[@lillianmaybriggs5358]

I’m not Mexican, my Uncle Jessie was born and raised in Mexico City. He was the youngest of 9 and the only boy. A family from Detroit vacationed there every year and they sponsored all 9 kids for immigration. Uncle Jessie came to the states at 23 was naturalized at 25 meet my mothers sister at 27 and married her at 29 buried his wife at 60. My family, including his 12 kids are military or married to military, so we are spread out all over the country. At the age of 78 Uncle Jessie could no longer live alone. All of the kids would take him in to live with them but he would always find a way to go back to Detroit. Finally he told them to put in in assisted living as long as it was in Detroit. He passed at the age of 84 in his beloved Detroit. That is the Uncle and godfather that raised me every summer to give my parents a brack on having to deal with all of my crap. I miss him every day. And then there are the cousins and grandkids of 6 other so called minority people. In my family they are identified as LOVED.

[@raineyj560]

But have Mexican experienced over 400 years of enslavement??? Your issues are as important but black ppl will always be considered lesser than than any other race & that is something we need to admit as well

[@lillianmaybriggs5358]

@@raineyj560 the black person that thinks they are less than will be. The same as any other race. The PERSON THAT KNOWS THEIR OWN WORTH IS PRICELESS.

[@jennylynn8314]

That's so true. I don't really know Hispanic issues. I never hear them. But I'd like to understand. It's a shame any focus is on race. In large part, I blame the media. They push what they want to divide us.

[@samdemings9820]

​@@raineyj560Well I guess when your own people sell you to anyone buying that can be a problem for them. My country was invaded a few hundred years before Africans were sold to anyone but Muslims. My people were enslaved and slaughtered in the hundreds of thousands. That same slavery is still going on today all around you. Comedians make jokes about how my people are still slave labor. People laugh that we are the ones working in the fields picking everything from cotton to the fruits and veggies you buy in the store. People get mad when the slave owners are busted and the slaves rounded up and sent back to Mexico, only to be smuggled back to get a new menial job at less than legal wages. The news tells everyone that we do the work no one else wants to do which is why we need to keep the borders open. Need them slaves to keep your hotels clean and the shelves stoked. You worry about someone looking at you wrong while Hispanic women and children are being sold into prostitution and killed if they resist? Oh you probably never hear about hat right? Well I have family on both sides of the border and we hear about it EVERY DAY.

[@BlackieNuff]

25:05 "Misconturbited and Misconscrewed" LMFAO!! I love that!

[@talmarie2970]

I really wish we would just stop using colors as adjectives when referring to people or their actions. Their use just seems to be dividing. I see a beautiful couple consisting of 2 unique people. I watch you because of your personalities... which are great, btw. I really believe the vast majority of people relate to each other on an individual basis and don't pay attention to stereotypes. I believe that by classifying something as either black, brown, white or any of the other colors describing skin or race ... especially in something a universally human as love...does separate and divide, which by saying it with the color distinction is the intention.

[@wynona3383]

As an elderly white woman hearing you talk about black love, I didn’t feel any racism. Then I thought if someone used the term white love, it seems to be a bit racist. But is it? Great talk, thank you! You have done a great job with your beautiful, intelligent daughter, be proud! It’s up to each of us to educate ourselves to the truth, check everything, open our minds! I love watching your videos and witnessing your growth and enlightenment. We should all do the same. Thank you!

[@kinjakahn]

race is most important to racists.

[@mikeballard3962]

You guys are awesome, using your platform to bring people together rather than divide us!

[@pamh2697]

I love that you have these introspective conversations. Your skin color was treated as less than for a long time in this country. I feel like some of that was internalized. If you're constantly told what you can't do, or that no one will give you a chance, you have to fight hard not to accept that and give up trying. If you've got a family or friends that encourage you consistently, the story will turn out differently. Media, music, politicians, CRT all tell the first story and ignore the second one.

[@danieldietsche2954]

Loved this honest conversion! I am 60 years old white man, and feel that we are now stepping backward from the progress that had been made between the races. We are individuals first! We need to judge people for the ‘content of their character’, not race. Love you guys!

[@timdrake220]

Love is love and it is beautiful in all of its iterations. To answer the specific question about "black love"...I think it is a celebration of people that are proving stereotypes to be wrong. Not all race subjects are racist and celebrating positivity within a race/community can change a lot of attitudes.

[@robertuhl8817]

50-year-old white dude, much respect for your beautiful family putting out this dialogue. Much love. We our all the creation of our God. We as he said must love all our brothers and sisters. Once again, shout out to that beautiful smile.

[@crsounddoctor4937]

Personally, when I see a nice couple interacting, my compliment has always been they're a beautiful couple...It's not about color, race, ethnicity, etc. Love is love, society needs to stop using those labels...

[@gildahattabaugh4342]

I'm a 68 yr old white woman. I've followed the 2 of you for a long time. I just love the both of you and do not think about your color. What I see is a sweet, loving, funny, supportive couple. I think the 2 of you are sooo adorable. I just think of you as "Half and Jai." Color has never came to my mind! I do wish more young couples treated one another like the 2 of you do. You actually remind me of my daughter and son-in-law. Sometimes when my daughter calls, I'll tell her I'm listening to my reaction videos and she replies "are you watching "Half and Jai?" I just don't think about color, just your sweetness!

[@timmeier2001]

Most men would not comment on a couple no matter what color they were. I think it's more of a woman thing. I personally just say you look great together. I don't think there needs to be a color involved. Sometimes you see two people and they just match they don't even have to be the same race.

[@daniellegoldsmith9782]

I'm probably going to comment more than once as I watch this so I don't forget what I want to say. First of all, thank you for having this conversation. I just started watching your channel and I LOVE what you give us. It's so needed. You are making a difference. Please know that. You may upset some people, but you're speaking truth and that is beautiful. As far as Jai's question about "black love" ... I've never heard that expression. Granted I'm a 58 year-old white woman, but ... lol. That being said, I discovered you all last night while my husband was already sleeping. Today, I told him, "I want you to watch this new couple I found on KZbin. They are awesome." I told him a bit about what I'd watched and I said, "I just love their energy. They are an amazing couple expanding their minds and you can tell that they are so in love And it's obvious that he absolutely adores her, he is so sweet with her." It wasn't about "black love" for me. (Whatever that means.) It was about the true love and dedication and respect you all have to each other as husband and wife. I mean ... Jai put lotion on Half's elbows in the middle of a vid because he was ashy ... lol. So, while I don't feel that the term "black love" is racist, I don't know that it is necessary to describe love with a particular race adjective. It's just love and respect and admiration for each other and what you each bring to the table. Black, white, Asian, Hispanic ... whatever. What y'all have is a dedicated relationship built on a deep love you feel for one another. I think sometimes, people come up with phrases like this to foment racism. Just my take.

[@chadswanson2295]

When we continue to label things with racial identifiers it perpetuates the idea that we are not equal but vastly different. We have unique experiences but we need to recognize we are more alike than we are different. Love you guys and how you lean into tough conversations. What a beautiful example you are setting for your kids and others.

[@miguelcunanan9855]

Amen. Btw I'm usually the approaching-insufferable-level of wall of texts. Like this sentence. Amen, man.

[@erynn013]

Thank you all. I very much appreciated you letting us be a "fly on the wall" for this conversation.

[@roosterslounge1697]

If I saw you to walking down the street and I had to say anything it would be damn you guys it was really good together I would not put the word black in it I wouldn’t put the word green blue or yellow I would just say U2 as individuals look like a good couple

[@jimlynch4336]

I enjoy you as people, as funny/smart/thoughtful/entertaining people. Please keep it up!

[@jamill9290]

Never been first till now

[@jessicacantrell9847]

The bad thing about statistics is it doesn't show when the dad isn't in the home due to jobs. I grew up with my dad around maybe 2 days a month because he was a construction worker for a international company. My mom was both my parents as far as I was concerned, yes his job kept us right above poverty but he could have done that and been home with us.

[@dusangolo2371]

What a great video! Compassionate and deep. Something one of my closest friends told me was that growing up as black man felt like he could never take a deep breath and he couldn't figure out why. Eventually people kept telling him "its because of that person or those people" and it developed that anger inside him until he walked around with it all the time. It got to the point where that anger was all he had and made it so that every single decision he made was out of anger whether it was life, love, work, etc. That always stuck with me for some reason. Anyway, thanks for the great video! Looking forward to the next episode

[@kanteannightmare]

As the offspring of interracial couple and the stuff they had go through (which was pretty mild considering earlier times) it does strike me as odd that people still want to put everyone in a box. It makes it easier to make sense of the world when everything's in it's little box but the world isn't like that. Love is above color, love is above blood, we all know this but it's safer to stay with what you know (with your tribe and it'ss way of thinking) but especially as Americans (Christians before that if you are of the faith) we have a duty go beyond that, "to love the lord your God, and to love your neighbor as yourself...is the way to eternal life".

[@richardkeel4875]

I also like to mention that your guest hit it on the nail "Let It Go". Morgan Freeman was asked how do we stop racism? His answer was "Stop talking about it". We are all in this together. Let's act like it. We are all brothers and sisters, Gods children.

[@nlholdren]

I’ve never commented on KZbin before. This is a great conversation! In my experience, as a white man who grew up in a very conservative area, I never experienced bigotry against anyone based on what we are now calling “race”. We are all of the same race. We only differ in ethnicity based upon where our ancestors originated. That being said, I grew up and joined the military and fought with all walks of life and sadly, the majority of the bigotry I encountered were increasingly from minorities. I can honestly say that throughout my life, from high school on, my white friends and I have had discussions about how difficult it is to truly make strides in the right direction as a nation when the minority groups vote against their own interests and ostracize any opposing viewpoints. In my experience, most of the white people I’ve met around the world have all expressed frustration about being treated as, and called, racist by minority groups when we’ve spent our lives trying to help and support progress. Real progress, not handouts and welfare type policies but actual opportunities to improve. No one can ever prosper on welfare because it’s designed to keep people dependent. Real prosperity is when they step out of your way. God bless! Love is love period. Love is spiritual and of God. The spirit is not racial. Only human beings recognize such trivial differences in what accounts to nothing more than skin color and certain other physical attributes. Love is of the spirit and thus is above all Earthly matters. I’m sorry this is so long. Lol. I’ll sign off now. Love you guys!

[@DavidSmith-xh5ou]

Beautiful interaction from such a loving caring couple .

[@duckedup]

'Misconterpited' Is my new favorite word 😅 I kid! haha, great video and conversation, you are great honest people and positive voices the world needs!

[@dmarquis75]

This is called good parenting. Thank you for sharing.

[@nel-aka-birdlover6207]

I just love you guys! Simply put y'all are great. Been a fan for years and have seen how the conversations have changed and you're going with the times. Nothing but love ❤️

[@CARMENPEREZ-nv2ge]

Your family looks United and cohesive. I hope it is so. Blessings!