I'm an oversea Chinese, married 25+ years to a none-chinese lady... marriages require mutual respect and understanding. To get married and settled -down, is our own choice. Anyone held a gun an forced you to marry? As a husband, it's an our responsibility to provide our family, wive, if no possible, with the best things. It's also very immature and unwise to disclose any shortcomings of our wife or our family openly. Teach and guide her with pattience and wisdom. Hopefully you read this and it has positive impacts for you as a more mature-thinking person😎✌️