This Happened On Our WEDDING NIGHT!! |virginity, expectations, being scared |

Hello Beautiful Souls!
In this video, we speak about our wedding night expectations, building intimacy for the first time. As Muslim couple, I think we have to be more specific when it comes to marriage preparation and I think it starts before even the wedding day!
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[@kvontanner9550]

This makes a whole lot of sense. I think its very important to discuss the wedding night before hand so thinks dont start out awkward.

[@juhisaleem]

Yes, and it shouldn’t go outside of being respectful.

[@cmclimax]

Thank you letting the viewers know the importance of getting to know one another and the etiquette BEFORE and AFTER a wedding take place. Growing up here in America, unfortunately, it's about a metaphor of "driving the vehicle" and putting miles on the vehicle before buying (marriage) the vehicle.

[@juhisaleem]

Thank you 😊. I love how you put that. And I agree the western society has really messed up the ideology around relationship/ marriage.

[@darkmatter2295]

Love this video! It can be such a taboo topic in the muslim community but I really like how you guys both speak about it in a matter of fact way! Thank you!

[@juhisaleem]

Thank you! That’s exactly how I wanted someone to talk about it to me so I’m glad that is the case! 😊

[@Araalimedia]

It's not a taboo

[@MuftiUbaidullah-Awal]

I pray so Allah gives the makers of this vid proper guidance and forgive them for misleading Muslims into thinking that sex and lust are important part of Religion. Those who watch the video are going to think having sex with their wives is a part of worship, and as a consequence, they will face terrible hardship in this world and the next. If they become the reason for their suffering, then you, as the maker of the video, would also end up suffering like them in black sites, where innocent Muslims are being tortured only because they were framed by non-Muslim mercenaries for fake crimes. Marriage and sex are never the objective of life for Muslims. Loving Allah is what matters. Loving God, loving humanity is what matters. Some people marry and then get heart broken. Many people stay single and are in love with their Creator. Allah is their everlasting friend. Even if someone finds marriage to be necessary, he or she should not convince everyone to marry just because we think it is right. Mariam the daughter of Imran was single. Asiya has the worst husband in the world which was close to not having a husband. Yet Allah loved them the most. Indulgence in any sort of excessive pleasures is counterproductive for human beings. Believers were not sent to this world for enjoying luxuries. We were created to worship and obey Allah and His Messenger. Our Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) lived by this principle, and even though he could have become very wealthy by doing a lot of business, he chose to remain in poverty until his death. Due to our own indulgence, and following the practice of the non-Muslims and getting obsessed with sexual activities, there are thousands of Saudi Arabian youths, Kuwait youngsters, Qatari men and women, elderly entrepreneurs from Oman and Bahrain, and even scientists from Indonesia and Malaysia, Africa and India, are now being most severely tortured in CIA’s Bush-era interrogation programs, that are until today, operating in secrecy in many European countries. People are leaving Islam in hordes because they are disgusted by our obsession with sex. Did you ever see a Christian priest or a Jewish rabbi uploads such shameless video? Who do you think Allah will allow into paradise? Muslims are being warned by Allah to be sensible. In addition to the Guantanamo Naval Base in Cuba, there are black sites located in Afghanistan, Lithuania, Romania, Poland, Thailand, Bulgaria, Norway and even in Canada, where hundreds of innocent men, women and Moslem children are taken and electrocuted and sexually assaulted by American, British and European guards. This is happening because too many Moslems are now obsessed with intercourse and carnal enjoyment, and are constantly online searching for ways to enjoy conjugal life. We must be focused on Islam, and following the real path of Sunnah. So let everyone be religious, without focusing on love for spouses and obsession with happiness in this life. We were created for the afterlife. Not for finding happiness and love here in this world. The obsession with love for humans is sometimes the reason many women and men become completely broken both emotionally and physically. We came to this world to love our creator and serve those people who are helpless and in far more worse situations than us. We came to this world to help every orphan, heal the sick and ease the pain of refugees and poor people and to serve humanity. Our purpose of life shouldn’t be marriage, love, money, degrees, fame etc. so let preach the real purpose of this life to everyone instead of deluding ourselves with hopes of love and happiness, because it is rather selfish to focus so much on oneself and one's own happiness especially when that happiness is a mirage and is truly not real happiness. Let’s not encourage others to become obsessed with the idea of love and relationships when the world is suffering and those helpless people need every bit of help, we can give with our body heart and soul. Having sex non stop is not part of Deen, because in those black sites, Moslems who were tortured and released never complain about not being able to have enough sex anymore.

[@nazifatashfia7168]

Jazakallahu khairan for making a dua at the end. May Allah bless those of us, who are patiently waiting, with a righteous spouse who will be coolness of our eyes. May Allah keep your marriage strong and filled with love and save from evil eyes. MashaAllah tabarakallah.

[@juhisaleem]

Ameen, ameen! Wayakum 🥰

[@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke]

Salam, I am a teacher at Darul Quran WasSunnah and a member of the Sharia Board of New York. I also educate pupils at Pennsylvania’s Quran schools. And I am also married, so I feel it is incumbent upon me to enlighten some people about the proper way to discuss marital relations. I cannot tolerate hearing jargon from ignorant people when they talk about marriage, lust and sexual activities and use prophetic traditions to spread misguided principles. It makes me angry when I see people use sharia and Islam to fulfill their own carnal desires. For several years, I have been teaching Islamic Jurisprudence in Islamic establishments in NY, including in Darul Quran WasSunnah and I have been leading tarawih salaah since the age of thirteen, and now am an Imam at Hedaya Masjid. Unfortunately, Jahili and ignorant ones dare to tell me that I am speaking against Quran and Sunna, when I try to educate them about the true purpose of life. I believe I am more qualified to discuss this topic than most people who are posting here. Marriage and sex are never the objective of life for Muslims. Loving Allah is what matters. Loving God, loving humanity is what matters. Some people marry and then get heart broken. Many people stay single and are in love with their Creator. Allah is their everlasting friend. Even if someone finds marriage to be necessary, he or she should not convince everyone to marry just because we think it is right. Mariam the daughter of Imran was single. Asiya has the worst husband in the world which was close to not having a husband. Yet Allah loved them the most. Indulgence in any sort of excessive pleasures is counterproductive for human beings. Believers were not sent to this world for enjoying luxuries. We were created to worship and obey Allah and His Messenger. Our Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) lived by this principle, and even though he could have become very wealthy by doing a lot of business, he chose to remain in poverty until his death. Due to our own indulgence, and following the practice of the non-Muslims and getting obsessed with sexual activities, there are thousands of Saudi Arabian youths, Kuwait youngsters, Qatari men and women, elderly entrepreneurs from Oman and Bahrain, and even scientists from Indonesia and Malaysia, Africa and India, are now being most severely tortured in CIA’s Bush-era interrogation programs, that are until today, operating in secrecy in many European countries. People are leaving Islam in hordes because they are disgusted by our obsession with sex. Did you ever see a Christian priest or a Jewish rabbi uploads such shameless video? Who do you think Allah will allow into paradise? Muslims are being warned by Allah to be sensible. If we not become chaste and pure, then Allah will remove Iman from our heart and replace us with some chaste non-muslim.

[@user-bt4pk2oc1v]

I think the human anatomy point was so true! People really dont know how the body works so its important so that you can talk about it.

[@juhisaleem]

So true!! It’s so cool to learn as well!

[@shakeraali2033]

Always nice to see Hamza! You guys did a wonderful job taking about such a delicate topic! More videos with Hamza and Idrees please!!!

[@juhisaleem]

Aw thank you! Will do inshallah more coming soon!

[@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke]

Muslims must live purely according to the Prophetic lifestyle. Believe me, Allah does not need us to worship and obey him. He will readily convert chaste non-Muslims into Islam and make them enter the eternal paradise, rather than those filth-sniffing Muslims who twist Islamic laws to satisfy their dirty and disgusting lusts. May you never be able to convince other Muslims to indulge in lustful activities with your ignorant speech and cause them eternal torment and harm. May Allah remove you from Islam before you can manipulate of destroy the lives of any other Muslims with your irresponsible words. A Moslem is never permitted to have sexual relations with a spouse without the explicit intention of procreation, no matter how ill the spouse is or how old the wife is, because Allah controls everything in the universe. Never is a Moslem permitted to objectify his wife, or approach him or her with the sole intention of fulfilling physical lust. Because all the sin and sickness in the universe starts from treating the spouse as an object of desire. This is how every previous sinful nation got destroyed. They used woman to fulfill their carnal lust, and then went to men, and then groomed children to abuse them, and then they started violating the sacred family bonds. It is imperative that Moslems have control over their desires. Being a strong Moslem does not mean one who is physically energetic but rather one who has the capacity to shun away from sinful activities. A Moslem is capable of fighting against shameful desires and lust, therefore he or she must never engage in any lustful or selfish encounters. Two billion Muslim in the world. but there is scarcely anyone strong enough to fight carnal desires. Instead of expressing willingness to better themselves, most Muslims are trying to use Islam and marry beautiful women, claiming it is sunnah, but they forget that the purpose of our existence is to worship and obey Allah alone and follow the noble path of our prophet, who spent his nights in prayer and days in fasting. Humans should be able to possess their feeling, and control their passions. Do not become a prisoner of your lust, Otherwise, every blessing you have will be squandered. People like that lose it all. Being a prisoner of your passion will destroy you. A dog does not understand what is clean or not, and he lets his urges and senses to tell him what to eat, and if humans become like animals and eat each others filth and excrement, God will remove faith from the heart and reduce him or her to the status of animals. Moslems scholars all agree that any other sexual acts that does not lead to procreation is totally banned.

[@maryamkj9038]

That's why kotoba or getting Islamicly married before the wedding hugging and kissing and holding hands would make it so much easier and its like cute dating period of time

[@juhisaleem]

I agree! We had the Islamic marriage and the wedding on the same day. So we still treated after wedding like the dating phase very cute Alhumdulillah.

[@maryamkj9038]

@@juhisaleem Alf mabrook habibti❤️

[@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke]

Numerous Iraqi and Afghan prisoners who were tortured sexually and forced to eat feces by their American guards admitted that before their arrests, they used to have lot of sex with their wives. Some of them admitted that after watching some European pornography, they experimented with new style of sex, within the halal boundaries but now they realized that because of those indulgence, Allah made them prisoners in American secret prisons where their children were sodomized before their eyes and American soldiers assaulted their wives in order to force them sign false confessions. Keep in mind that every time you indulge in sexual pleasures think you will get punished severely for it unless you are already shedding blood and sweat in the path of Allah like the companions of the prophet and all sahabas. They did not spend their time exploring ways to have sex. The Prophets companions stayed away from their wives for twenty or thirty years at a time, in far away nations, trying to make other people Muslims. There were Sahabas who never consummated marriage after the wedding night because they were called on to help Muslims. If you don’t want to get tortured and abused in black sites and Gitmo, then please avoid overindulging in sexual activities. Think for every act of pleasure how much pain you will get in return. Trust me, the thousands of innocent Muslims in Guantanamo Bay prison and American black site jails are constantly being assaulted, and forced to have the most disgusting sex with other inmates. Many freed Muslims also said their wives and children were kidnapped along with them and raped by the guards until they died from the abuse. If sex interests Muslims that much, then there are hundreds of black sites where American guards are waiting to commit the most vile acts on prisoners- more than anyone could want in a lifetime. It doesn’t matter if you are innocent or not, the thousands of Muslim and Arab and Pakistani prisoners in US jails were all framed for crimes they never committed. Certain European Christian mercenaries blew up the World Trade Center and framed innocent Muslim youths for it, and they are languishing in American and British jails. They are being sexually assaulted constantly and they are forbidden from fasting and praying and forced to make pornography videos for the guards. And all of this is legal under non muslim laws because suspected terrorists have no rights under the constitution. I have spoken to a few of the released Muslim prisoners and they all swore they have no desire to engage in sexual acts with their spouses, halal or otherwise. They had enough sex and abuse for a lifetime. They had been assaulted by the guards thousands of times. If Muslims try to indulge too much in sexual pleasures, then they are definitely going to be facing such deadly consequences in this world. Allah will not give you Jannah for free. Non muslim People who have free sex are going to end up in Hell fire for not believing in Allah. You can’t expect to go to heaven and also indulge in all the enjoyment of this world. When American guards made an Arab man assault his children in prisons, he did not feel enthusiastic about sex anymore.

[@shakeyboo28]

Back for another like and another comment !! Very important topic in our ummah !!

[@juhisaleem]

Thank you 😊

[@terhasiaintneverseen2prett694]

Amazing couple

[@juhisaleem]

Thank you 😊

[@bijou5038]

Crazy 2 of photos really?for what photo in Islam is no allowed and Islam wedding it doesn’t take even 1 hours

[@wandaasgarali1737]

Masha Allah

[@juhisaleem]

❤️

[@user-oy7ro7uy8v]

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[@georgiayoung9124]

I love this. And I’m not familiar with Muslim. I’m watching vids that are speaking of women in incredible pain, swollen, bleeding for days??? What??

[@juhisaleem]

Thank you! Muslim just means someone who follows the religion of Islam. That may be some women’s experience. I think it’s really important to take it slow. It’s not suppose to hurt or be very painful. If that’s the case then speaking to a medical professional is important!

[@Zeitaluq]

Maybe because various Muslims are way conservative interpretation that can create the inhibitions and lacking psychology in wedding night. Not suggesting people go bonkers but there may be a middle ground not getting carried away before a faith marriage. A lot of Muslims do Masters degrees get in to 30’s and 40’s and never marry simply cannot get comfortable with opposite gender.

[@juhisaleem]

I can see what you mean. I think that’s why it’s nice when supportive family is involved to make it more comfortable.