I'm a housewife too..but my husband buys me anything that I wish..he won't blame, insult or disrespect on me for being only a housewife. Cz he knows how much effort I gives on them..that's priceless to me
@VasanthKumar-sm3ft4 жыл бұрын
Well u r d luckiest women in d world
@aseenailyas57463 жыл бұрын
My hus also like this
@samurdhifernando79183 жыл бұрын
@@Watercode1469 😇🙏🙏
@srikarnreya83863 жыл бұрын
U r luckey
@oceanofcompassion30493 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is lucky 😫
@Gurgaon574 жыл бұрын
To handle a house, kids, husband any many other things is also a job.. A women who is not working also needs love, care and respect.. Don't discriminate between working and non working women..
@ask2assistgroup5674 жыл бұрын
NICE THOUGHT MAM
@Katk114 жыл бұрын
exactly,and you know what? sometimes woman who stay at home is working more then a man who goes to work!
@bidishamallick8584 жыл бұрын
Actually every women are working.... Some are paid... Some are not paid.. that's where the difference lies...
@roadrunner32324 жыл бұрын
...in many middle class families the wife is completely dependent on the working husband who thinks that he has all the rights to spend his money in whatever way he wants (drinking, movie, gambling etc). But thinks twice to give an extra hundred rupees for groceries...
@roadrunner32324 жыл бұрын
housewives are not appreciated for the amount of work they have to do. There was an informal study done in the US that showed that if you did end up paying a housewife/home maker in a proportional way, it works out to about $100,000/yr. So, instead of looking down on homemakers, just appreciate their hard work
@Shashankkumar1164 жыл бұрын
In most of the cases men seriously disrespect wife's for not earning money
@subham99vlog4 жыл бұрын
@Amandeep Wahi this is the mkst accurate answer u have given !! My cousin dipped his wife not to go out for job and earn money , he adjusted amd compromised heras an housewife ... And after 1 year She finally thought i should consider him as an ATM but not as an true love !!
@bhav17234 жыл бұрын
Yup
@gigigirl14534 жыл бұрын
@@subham99vlog she don't think he is her ATM he made him a ATM by himself by not giving her to work everybody have their expensive and their needs if you need something she have to lie on him because she is not working you lol duped and if she is not working how she will get those things which she won't ask or she have to ask to her f****** husband it's better that a wife earns by her own self not lying on husband's shitty thing 😏😴
@2011abhirup4 жыл бұрын
@Unmesha Meher actually most of the typical men who belong from middle class families are physico type off😊they never know how to be happy with those whatever they have
@DineshYadav-fx7mt4 жыл бұрын
@Shweta Kumthekar yes its true, its better to ask the girk what she wants and will be comfortable with. I earn pretty good and while looking for girl i had very clear thoughts i want a housewife who would love to stay in a joint family. I brought this upfront though all girls well educated declined as expected, but still its better rather than making someone bend to your will find someone who is already comfortable. I found a girl semi urban background who also lives in a joint family educated but willingly wants to be housewife. Takes time but one can find such person where people dont have to sacrifice and you have same beliefs.
@rajaniposhetti66993 жыл бұрын
I m a house wife and my husband is a software engineer. I used to feel same like this earlier. But not anymore. My husband loves me a lot and respects me. He always says managing house is the great work than all professions. He introduces me to his friends proudly. Takes me to other nice places on weekends so that I don't feel leftout and alone. He buys me whatever I wish for. But I know my limits too. I won't force him to buy very expensive things which we cannot afford. Marriage works only when both partners understand and respect each other's feelings.
@angelic.v2 жыл бұрын
Thankgoodness Yes we hype women like u 😍😍 my goal is to be a housewife only
@starbusttweety2 жыл бұрын
What you used to do before kids? Were you also a software Developer?
@ashithasteffi81712 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@ashithasteffi81712 жыл бұрын
@@starbusttweety yes it also matters cause if the wife is rich too the guy does what ever she wants
@saisworld68682 жыл бұрын
Lucky u..
@user1.2__.__3 жыл бұрын
1:54 husband is going through financial crisis and wife is supposed to UNDERSTAND it? Dude seriously , Husband is INCAPABLE of sharing his problems with his wife. That is the problem here.
@sharad73403 жыл бұрын
Exactly even I don't nthink of buying a tshirt of 2400
@user-du5cs1vs7d4 жыл бұрын
Women who don't have a source of income shouldn't get married because such women get blamed and harassed by the husband. So ,women need to get a job and do all household work and take care of kids . While the man does only his work / job. Great lesson learnt. (Sarcasm intended) This is misogyny in disguise. Would these men even wash their plates ,take care kids for a day ,do their own laundry even ? Or take turns in doing house hold chores ? They expect women to do it all by themselves and work and earn and take care of them too.
@sulakshana17704 жыл бұрын
Well.said
@roadrunner32324 жыл бұрын
Exactly .. crap video .
@Jyotisharma-df7nv3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@phoebeaurora78543 жыл бұрын
What a fitting reply , well said sympathetic panda
@Rishabh-Dev3 жыл бұрын
Husbands also participate in house chores dear. Not all men are the same. A man of culture and moral values is hard to find.
@Gurgaon574 жыл бұрын
I dint like the ending that she started blogging.. Means to get respect and love from husband, a women should start earning.. What is this mentality..
@nakter61234 жыл бұрын
I m 100% agree with you
@tanjinarahman35904 жыл бұрын
You read my mind... I don't like the ending at all... Being a housewife is not bad that one has to start earn to respect themselves... Without any payment, without any expectation, without any returned honour they just keep us supporting, taking care of us and home... Is it a little thing!!!
@swetakhare66504 жыл бұрын
Yes u r right
@evinvoj23094 жыл бұрын
I have the same feeling
@pluviophile12764 жыл бұрын
Me too
@fadumafaduma53764 жыл бұрын
They want a wife who cooks cleans, looks after children and in-laws. Dropps kids to school, prepares his lunch , his needs and works full time, list goes on on on. Selfish those man that don't respect their wife's.. Wife also needs once a week days off, she is human
@tintunbirha4 жыл бұрын
My wife has been doing all that you listed above for the last 40+ yrs. She is always there, for not only for us, but also the extended family. AND she never has had the time to earn money the way we do. But the house and the whole family cannot function without her. Her human dealing skills are so high that she is put up in front where we are not sure of our selves. As regards earning money, we once counted the money she saves in managing the house not to speak of the happiness she spreads. Nothing better than a cultured hindu housewife who knows all the traditional knowledge ( medicines, totkas, etc) even though we laugh at her but grudgingly admire her when she proves to be right most of the time.
@panash63 жыл бұрын
@Faduma Faduma I totally agree with you. Being girls , we have witnessed it. many men humiliate wives. Women may not work due to household stuff or to give time to kids n responsibilities. Unfortunately, many men take huge arrogance in it. My X husband works in Dubai. Soon after my marriage he started torturing me saying "he is the king. He earns " n I do not so I do not deserve him. He left me soon after that giving some casual reasons.
@ananyade96413 жыл бұрын
You all are looking only at one side of the coin.. not all families have great husbands and in laws..many torture their DILs.. this problem increases when she is a housewife.. imagine a girl got married to a family and gets ill treated... if she is financially independent she can boldly move out of that house else it's very difficult no matter what others say... a working woman can take decisions easily in financial matters.. if case of health issues she can support.. if something happens to the husband she can single handedly take care of herself and her kids... when there are so many pros why to step back from working for yourself? Study well and get a job.. even if your husband in laws doesn't support you in household work... earn enough to take help from outside.. most housewives suffer from low confidence... cleaning and cooking can be managed with a bit of help from others.. if anyone has the slightest option to earn she shouldn't step back.. also if your parents need your help ever...you can support them financially with your own money..
@greenvalley78924 жыл бұрын
Maintaining a house n making it a home.Its priceless..
@brienneoftarth18064 жыл бұрын
@ramu charvik Haha This is a trap of few men n women and patriarchial system which they created which ultimately act as a trap to both
@Ebunoluwa134 жыл бұрын
@ramu charvik Are you dumb or just dumb? Btw not many men do house work as well as a job and even the ones that do only do minute not majority or even half. If the wife was earning how much would they have to pay the maid, the nanny or daycare, the cleaner, the cook, the dobi if they have no washing machine. The nurse if and when a child is sick, the teacher if they have a child that would be doing extra classes because the mum isn't available. Wether there is competition or not ALL of these things are jobs that people get paid for outside but housewives do for FREE. Also what does competition have to do with having a job? Jobs with no competition can also be just as stressful, so is being a housewife. I dont even need to ask your gender from this reply. Absolutely ridiculous
@jagritisingh77274 жыл бұрын
Yes no body understand n realize this thing...
@gopalhatwal72454 жыл бұрын
For maintaining house money is needed..will u pay???
@chemistryboosterc86213 жыл бұрын
Bt nobody cared
@anonymozanonymouz93233 жыл бұрын
As long as an woman is financially dependent on her husband, parents,son,daughter or anyone else she will not perhaps get real respect from them and even from her own self may feel less self confidence. They may outwardly say without her the home bound duties will suffer ,she is the real hard worker etc and praise her but somewhere in a corner of their minds they may perhaps have that feel that she has no income on her own and dependent on them.Though she does lot of household chores yet without money even that maintenance is impossible. Leave alone husband or society not treating her with respect or valuing her home bound duties with appreciation. In today's times many women are well educated. Doing household chores alone is not enough to get real self respect and self confidence from her own self . Women should always stand on their own legs earn legally atleast some money ,atleast some legally approved part time job and also learn to manage their income. Husbands and/or other family members should support the working women by sharing household chores and other house duties. This is my personal view.
@starbusttweety2 жыл бұрын
You are right and you know what I have seen is housewife is a dying species. Nowadays majority of women work even after kids.
@anonymozanonymouz93232 жыл бұрын
@@starbusttweety i have read comments by some women saying that their husbands never question them.and spend money on them all the time fulfil all their wishes etc etc . That they do so much work at home take care of elders etc etc etc Today there are thousands of working women who efficiently manage their profession and do all that.And their husbands share household responsibilities. The feeling of working and earning ourselves ,putting to use our education ,that feeling of contributing financially to the family, that satisfaction of being a part of service towards outside people to the country and being a part of social fabric is a special feeling. Only those who have experienced it would realise ,understand and value it. Note : Some home maker women seem to have a feeling that working married women neglect their household duties children elders at home etc. That's not true .They seem to be really good at that as well. And Not all home makers are doing their household duties properly. There are some home maker women gossipping around ,watching television serials and neglecting household duties,elders ,fighting with them etc Also when children are grown up they would value the working mothers more .,because they seem to feel proud that their mothers are working women. No offence meant to anyone who is not a working woman plus home maker .
@starbusttweety2 жыл бұрын
@@anonymozanonymouz9323 How many women according to you return to work after kids?
@anonymozanonymouz93232 жыл бұрын
@@starbusttweety Most married women who value their professional contribution, who are eager to get back to work, would return to work 6 months to after an year of having kid. (May be another year or so for some.) But those who had earlier worked mundane without that special feeling might not feel like returning to work. Some women even if they want to return to work ,may not have a conducive environment at home ,not supportive husband's or good cretch facilities nearby etc to take care of kids. .In such cases they may become full time home makers. Let us not forget that even then , they seem to have some options to be self employed at home or do part time jobs from homes. Some women in their own ways may try to justify and give reasons for becoming full time home makers. These are generally those who themsel ves dont want to do any job at all. Therefore due to such various things the percentage of women returning to work seems difficult to predict as it seems to vary as per the places like in tier 1,tier 2, tier 3 cities,towns,sub urban, rural areas,villages etc. We have to have enough real statistics about that Note:By saying justifying i dont mean to hurt anyone who chose to be home makers.Its their lives their choices .I am aware that I have no right to comment as to whether being home maker is right or wrong. Expressing my personal views. that's it
@lilangelishanvi86593 жыл бұрын
This is still one type of the story... There are homes where people humiliate housewives without facing any financial issues... Even they crush their career in the name of kids, family and then do their humiliation...
@meenatiwari34683 жыл бұрын
Same here
@jesusbewithusalways3 жыл бұрын
It's happening everywhere
@prachishinde14183 жыл бұрын
Same here
@kukukiduniya90823 жыл бұрын
Same here no one care how feel her
@Colours-s9k3 жыл бұрын
Same here at the middle age they want that women should work or give support him in force
@nmedics9523 жыл бұрын
i have experienced it . as long as i was working it was fine as soon as i left the job (that too because of his pressure ) i was made to feel as i am good for nothing . The words he used , still make me slip into depression . Gave me many sleepless nights and made me think even to take extreme steps.
@devapriya54593 жыл бұрын
Don't worry . sister..take care of yourself and your parents..they will be happy by seeing you living happy..
@nusratafrin62072 жыл бұрын
Same
@PobitroMon2 жыл бұрын
Leave him ! He is a red flaggg... He doesn't deserve a priceless queen like you 👑
@diptibhunia95814 жыл бұрын
I don't work but my husband give me more respect than any other lady in his life and he always said u go shopping or u brought any thing dont see how much it's cost Because i earned means it's our money not my only
@jayasree20334 жыл бұрын
U r lucky
@diptibhunia95814 жыл бұрын
😊😊😊
@Ifat_p074 жыл бұрын
You are really very lucky❤
@swetakhare66504 жыл бұрын
Very lucky
@aishumalli154 жыл бұрын
Ur really the luckiest woman
@aritraroy68493 жыл бұрын
Financial problems will never go away if one tries to handle it by earning more money. It takes discipline, self realization and other spiritual practices to get addressed. I know many people will opine otherwise but in today's life there are may habits that one follows that in turn lead to financial crisis or challenges. Prioritize, prioritize and prioritize your urges and needs and develop a control mechanism over spending.
@nadiratabassumpapri46394 жыл бұрын
Maintenance of a family is the hardest job ever... If it was a paid job, housewives' salary was the highest.... And some fool people don't understand it
@athensmajnoo36614 жыл бұрын
I have been doing that free, thankless job for 36 years, I am still taking care of my mother in law who is in her 90s.
@nadiratabassumpapri46394 жыл бұрын
@@athensmajnoo3661 why thankless?
@athensmajnoo36614 жыл бұрын
@@nadiratabassumpapri4639 because my mom in law has never ever acknowledged my service, she thinks I have to serve her, because her son ( my husband ) has fed me for free all these years. ( I dont work outside and earn money)She has even mentioned it often. And we have been staying with in laws from day one of our marriage to this day.
@nadiratabassumpapri46394 жыл бұрын
@@athensmajnoo3661 wow..what a payback u got... 🥺
@Ebunoluwa134 жыл бұрын
@@athensmajnoo3661 Sorry but you also allowed it to go on for this long. You should've showed her you worth. People treat you how you allow them to
@thisthathindi64414 жыл бұрын
They say we are a family, to work for family is a women's responsibility! And they forget a women is also a part of the family and she also needs that respect, help, support and care!!
@shivinnya80914 жыл бұрын
It's not easy to do job when you have to take care of in laws and children and also husband. Don't even hv time to take care herself. I dont think u thought about that
@prometheusd57034 жыл бұрын
Truee
@subham99vlog4 жыл бұрын
And this vdo is also for such in laws who doesn't help their so called bahu!!
@khushiparmar18434 жыл бұрын
@@subham99vlog everybody helps each other don't be in ur dreams
@subham99vlog4 жыл бұрын
@@khushiparmar1843 u r contradicting the above comments reply!!
@purvigajwani89174 жыл бұрын
True but no one understands
@Cakehyderabad3 жыл бұрын
*dont make it look as if the woman at home was only contributing to expenses. many women dont get any time even to rest, forget a job. managing a home is not easy. its very time consuming and tiring. try it for a day, then u will realise that both men and women are working really hard already to run a home*
@FunplaywithAdvik3 жыл бұрын
I so relate to your words!
@Mukta2283 жыл бұрын
There are several things wrong with this video. But most importantly, in any relationship, it's never a good Idea to assume what the problem is and start solving it without even talking about it. The first step should always be communication.
@sahu27613 жыл бұрын
Hiiiii 👍9321453677
@ghazalaysha62713 жыл бұрын
And when your husband thinks that communication leads to fights so just avoid it at all😞
@iffat35473 жыл бұрын
i'm a doctor,married, due to covid and some family issues i am not working now and suffering from severe depression. When u don't work,people will find slightest issues to remind u that u r not contributing economically. Even eating brings guilt. Waiting for this time to end.
@snigdhasamanta3653 жыл бұрын
Hold on my friend.....you are not alone
@ghazalaysha62713 жыл бұрын
I have the same story suffering from severe depression and only eating brings guilt to me too😞
@suma30123 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone…hang in there!
@NPPREMA3 жыл бұрын
Some of us have the responsibility of looking after the elders too apart from cooking, cleaning, managing children etc. Frankly, there is no time for anything else. In this video, the take away still boils down to "you should earn money" . It's just not possible for some of us because it calls for an investment of time and support from the family (doing their own chores) which we do not have.
@anulakshmi26323 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right 👍
@debolinachakrabarty73583 жыл бұрын
No matters whatever you do....but money is everything & nobody is going to support you lifetime....people gets tired when they support someone financially....and at last they just quit...so do or die....but find ways to make your own money ....
@yashodhas83213 жыл бұрын
in my case inlaws insults behind me because of not earning.... so I can see 2 faces of her ... she is not satisfied with whatever I do ... life is hectic sometimes....
@thisthatwhat3 жыл бұрын
I m not working but my husb really respects me. He buys me everything n nvr humiliate me ever. He appreciates my cooking even though i rarely cook. He even orders food for me while i am at home alone. Ur wife is not ur slave to do the housework n support u financially. Think them as ur life partner, ur better half. N live life meaningfully.
@panash63 жыл бұрын
@TheKsnzul I have witnessed many men humiliate wives. Women may not work due to household stuff or to give time to kids n responsibilities. Unfortunately, many men take huge arrogance in it. My X husband works in Dubai. Soon after my marriage he started torturing me saying "he is the king. He earns " n I do not so I do not deserve him. He left me soon after that giving some casual reasons.
@thisthatwhat3 жыл бұрын
@@panash6 sorry to hear this. I think he doesnt deserve u. Such kind of man doesnt deserve to get married at the first place. Love should exist between the couples if not no point living together under one roof.
@panash63 жыл бұрын
@@thisthatwhat he left me very easily There was no romance. Not anything. His point was - I should do job n I should invite his friends for dinners. Thats it. Thats thr marriage defination of his. But even there should be time given. I was newly wed n gone to Dubai for the very 1st time. Within 15 days, he started complaining that u don't hv job when he was earning alomst 2 lakhs per month.v
@usernameback1460 Жыл бұрын
Ok So what do u do u don't earn u don't cook u are just a bojh on this planet and your husband is a chu*tiya paying for a ra*ndi like u
@sumrrankoul4803 жыл бұрын
Same in my moms case too🥺. She is taunted, blamed not only by family memebers but also by relatives too. Rt now i m jobless and I fear of the same 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺. Its better to be unmarried rather than this torture.Realley plz a housewife deserves same respect as a earning women🙏
@aishus59333 ай бұрын
Did you find a job? I'm also unemployed. Sacred to get married...
@biggboss97802 жыл бұрын
Housewives are HOME MAKERS, That is also hell lot of work. Raising children and mentaining house is task of intelligent people. I feel housewives are the most intelligent humans
@biggboss9780 Жыл бұрын
@Bharani Bharani why a housewife will marry a househusband lol..a working woman will want a househusband
@biggboss9780 Жыл бұрын
@Bharani Bharani but logic says that only. If one person is homemaker other will be the breadwinner. If working woman are breadwinner their husband should be househusbands
@hemaarya52364 жыл бұрын
Not all men will be ok with this kind of thing. A man's ego will never allow the woman to move ahead, that too to sit and earn from home, whereas he himself is struggling in metro, bus or bike , slogging around to meet his job commitment. So if a woman earns to support her husband also, she will be blamed.
@urooj76213 жыл бұрын
As I know him very well I truly appreciate all the father's, husband and brothers of every country who works very hard for there family needs
@luckyreddy3603 жыл бұрын
Husband and in-laws should pay salary for housewives
@syashmisvlog94053 жыл бұрын
Very true
@arunareddy89173 жыл бұрын
Baby we not work for money. Just seva.
@swetakhare66504 жыл бұрын
These days many people want their wives to do a job only to show off to the society that they are also modern & their females are educated and earning fir chahe ladki ka man ho ya na ho ..they always make pressure to do something , they always taunt females that their value is nothing if they can't earn . This is our modern society .👏🙄😏
@subham99vlog4 жыл бұрын
Who told u that husband's forced them to do?? It's their choice what they want to do and what they don't want to do !! Modern generation doesn't care about what others or societies thinks!!
@swetakhare66504 жыл бұрын
@@subham99vlog sab ek jaise Ni hote but bahut log aisa krte Hain . maine dekhe Hain aise log isliye bol rhi hu
@saritapaul18694 жыл бұрын
@@swetakhare6650 yes there was a rishta who wanted a bride like that who will earn and show off.
@subham99vlog4 жыл бұрын
@@saritapaul1869 dekho jinko job karna h unko karne nhi diya jaata aur jinko karna nhi h unko forcefully karaya jaata h !! Hypocrites societies mein jee rahe h hum sab😂😂
@yourvegchef21393 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@food_weeds_4 жыл бұрын
I have seen so many cases where a highly qualified girl is forced to leave the job and stay at home. I mean what's the point of marrying an educated girl when you only want her as a trophy that you can keep at your home as a status symbol
@ayomiisan3 жыл бұрын
Yes this is my moms story-
@zaharanashiraz21723 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the timely message!
@starbusttweety Жыл бұрын
I have seen nowadays men want working woman+ housewife. If wife is working then they dont like the fact that their wife cant cook, do other household chores and take care of kids. If wife does not earn then they find it difficult to run house with single income because of very high cost of living. Most men will not take their non working wife seriously and will disrespect them. So they expect their wife to earn, cook, do other household chores, produce kids and take care of them because mothers are primary care givers. In other words they want ladoos in both hands. Still I have seen women spend more time in household chores, cooking and childcare even if both husband and wife are working and home and kids belong to both.
@abhiam184 жыл бұрын
Wow! When the wife paid electricity bill the husband was happy..... nonsense! If wife is a working woman what is the contribution of a husband in the house chores ?
@roadrunner32324 жыл бұрын
No contribution as usual .. she has to do everything and then go to the office.
@abhiam184 жыл бұрын
@@roadrunner3232 yes, I agree with you.
@starbusttweety3 жыл бұрын
Yes of course.... To be honest working wife/daughter in law is a one woman solution. Indian in laws and husband need a girl who is well educated, earning a handsome salary, gives her salary to her husband and in law not to her parents who made her capable of earning, should cook for these lazy creatures, only girls' parents have to bear the expenses of wedding ceremony, should take care of kids, should attend guests, should take care of in laws and husband even if they are not supportive, respect in laws and husband even if they treat you next to slaves and blindly obey her in laws' and husband's commands. Indian men and in laws are modern when it comes to having a well educated and a working wife but conservative when it comes to cooking and kids. Also where the hell is financial independence if your in laws decide what you should wear, whether you should visit your parents or not. Nowdays men just manage office but women manage office, household chores especially cooking, kids and deal with disrespectful in laws.
@abhiam183 жыл бұрын
@@starbusttweety Yes absolutely true. I think girls should agree into marriage constitution only if they are going to be in nuclear family otherwise spinster option is the best. Work hard, buy a house & enjoy the life.
@yashaswiniramesh15624 жыл бұрын
True and I've already started to work online. It has made my husband a little confident for him to take up new commitments
@prashantkatariya56704 жыл бұрын
What type of work u r doing. Please tell
@yashaswiniramesh15624 жыл бұрын
@@prashantkatariya5670 teaching
@deepthitoonz4 жыл бұрын
@@prashantkatariya5670 hi, looking for online opportunity?
@kalaivani12533 жыл бұрын
What type of online job u do....pls tell me...
@gigigirl14534 жыл бұрын
My mother is a housewife I see how she work day to night without getting paid but I think nobody can see her hard work what effort she puts in the house because if for one day your mother is not there she go somewhere out then you will see what happened of the house she is there and what value she put in the house nobody can see that all the efforts of a housewife actually nobody can see that ... and even some husband have this problem to disrespect their wives they don't value them at all and specially when the wife is uneducated or she don't take stand for herself she don't say something to him he totally disrespect her or even in front of people and this thing is totally wrong ...... I want to be always independent in my life and I would like to say this to all young girls please be independent in your life don't be dependent on any man rather it can be your father brother or your husband be independent on yourself and spend on whatever you want nobody will judge you because it's your money..... I know some feminist haters will going to say oh one more feminist didi shut your mouth and f**** somewhere ... Those who say wrong things about feminism are not believe in equality because feminism means equality if you don't believe in equality you don't deserve to stay in this world get out ...
@srividyagoud46504 жыл бұрын
Though earning n doing house work woman is been taken for granted..still disrespected!!!
@yogeshanilchaudhari4 жыл бұрын
A guy knows what was his moms role in his life..so wife can remind him of it in a cool way.
@jayasree20334 жыл бұрын
Does that mean one way or other,a house wife should earn for gaining respect?What if she wishes to do household works and takes care of the house and only likes to be a better home maker? Doesn't she deserve respect in that case?
@SaimaKhan124 жыл бұрын
But why does she need to just take care of husband , children, family !!! She is a wife not a slave! And both the husband and wife got married (not just wife)...so I think both of them should share the responsibilities of household work as well as earning🙏❤️ WOMEN ARE NOT ONLY MEANT TO DO HOUSEHOLD WORK, NEITHER ARE MEN MEANT TO BE THE BREAD EARNERS ONLY
@binny2804 жыл бұрын
@@SaimaKhan12 but what if a housewife is not educated enough to get a job? Does that mean she doesn't deserve respect?? Not all women can manage house and job together. Every women deserves respect, working or non-working.
@SaimaKhan124 жыл бұрын
@@binny280 I think you do a job without even being educated...You can start your business (like selling homemade food) And Yes every women deserve to be respected but the thing is about Self-Identity...And to be honest No women want to just sit at home and take care of family (it's just that they may be raised by their family in this way and they develop this thinking that Yes I'm a Woman, my responsibility is to take care of my family and all those things which I don't even want to say!!!) #peaceout
@SaimaKhan124 жыл бұрын
@@binny280 And why is there a need to MANAGE HOUSE for women!!! Is it written somewhere or is that so a woman get married to herself so that the responsibility of MANAGING HOME is solely her's???? This is nothing but a kind of shit mentality of society...
@binny2804 жыл бұрын
@@SaimaKhan12 I'm not saying that managing a house is only women's responsibility. I'm talking about giving respect to a women who is not working.
@parsisimran40954 жыл бұрын
it's not that easy ... everything possible in videos, dramas and movies...not in reality...but thanx for such motivational and positive contents...Thank you so much🙏👍
@kameswaranskeesan4 жыл бұрын
I don't know how you are giving the right content at right time in my every situation.. all your videos are much valuable If you are found of Tamil the Search for the Films director Visu.. you are equally growing towards in his path thanks for giving a valuable videos... God Bless You team..
@see2saw3 жыл бұрын
My mother in law made fun of me in front of her friends for not having a job on our housewarming day..i was managing my twins kids and home....now i do have a job(3rd job ..1st left to get married and 2nd to have kids..) But now they compare me with others who earn better. They will always find reasons to belittle.. I have stopped giving them power to do that now..
@madhurigowda57823 жыл бұрын
U also compare her with other mother in laws...
@sonagold91453 жыл бұрын
@@madhurigowda5782 g hahahahah nice idea
@naomineo86483 жыл бұрын
This whole concept of being a house wife whose only job is to cook, clean, laundry, baby sitting, this is wrong. These are called chores not work, chores are meant to be done by everyone, every single member in the home(except old people and kids) can take turns and cook food for the family daily, every individual must do his/her own laundry and clean the utensils used by themselves, and of the couple have kids, both mom and dad can take turns to look after baby, if we do this then there will be no need for women to be "house wife" and our workforce will increase and also family income will grow
@bhawnarajpoot3464 жыл бұрын
Yes me too feeling same as her
@partnering4success1064 жыл бұрын
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@sreejap55344 жыл бұрын
@@partnering4success106 sir, I want some online opportunity for earning, can u help
@deepthitoonz4 жыл бұрын
@@sreejap5534 hi sreeja, started working on your online opportunity?
@sreejap55344 жыл бұрын
Not yet sir
@partnering4success1064 жыл бұрын
@@sreejap5534 call me at 9899993730
@erifzd14 жыл бұрын
Well..not everyone can do blogging or videos No offense btw
@shivanis5654 жыл бұрын
Agree
@sanjuktaartster4 жыл бұрын
Sorry but no offence there is always scope of learning at any age ... If one truly truly wants to do something no one can stop them .. So if you just say I can’t do it .. of course you will be never able to do.. One has to start somewhere and be consistent...
@Nick5ee4 жыл бұрын
No issue , find something else What can you offer to this world then charge for it
@VasanthKumar-sm3ft4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@ghazalaysha62713 жыл бұрын
@@Nick5eethen I might charged my own husband and laws because they are the costumers
@lakshmip24183 жыл бұрын
If a homemaker was eliminated..just think about the expenses a man would have to incur..say in a city like Bangalore where I live Maid 2500 Nanny for 2 kids 18000 Cook for 2 times 6000 Tuitions 6000 Care taker for parents 12000 to 15000 If u keep a 24 hr maid say about 25000 but cook and tuitions again will have to kept separate. Now dear men, the total is about 40000 to 50000 . Plus something a wife does exclusively for a husband.just out of love..which is chargeable outside...thus moral of the story A homemaker also earns money if we look it at this way....every penny saved is every penny earned..
@bavanimahendran19783 жыл бұрын
Before marriage i worked n earn money lots of time to take care of myself, after marriage stopped working , with my two kids i just take care of them m husband n laws i have no time to take care of me not taking proper food , not drinking water also life was changed .
@peteryuhanna3 жыл бұрын
Yes.....This is the Love of a wife...
@ravijeeverma87610 ай бұрын
A husband will always and always take care of his wife irrespective of whether she is employed educated. A sucessful wife generally will insult and demean her husband when husband is financially weak.
@Gupta510224 жыл бұрын
Make a vedio on which type of work a housewife can do...If not much educated what can she do...
@deepthitoonz4 жыл бұрын
Hi Manshi, you are planning to do something?
@Gupta510224 жыл бұрын
@@deepthitoonz no idea what to do.but want to do something
@sreejap55344 жыл бұрын
Yes, I want to do something
@aj-kl1hz3 жыл бұрын
well mansi ji aap apna cake ka ghar se business kar sakte cookies shayad aap koi aachi recipe bana lete honge u can start ur own lunch services do teen log milke .wo aap ghar se delivery start kar sakte anything u can do lot of options are available. kahi business men education nahi hai not much but they are hiring educated people. Bas problems ye hai ki family end se support nahi ya to success nahi hoga to himmat nahi hoti agar aapke family end se support hai aap try kijiye may be aap bahut bada business set karle aage jake
@christine39413 жыл бұрын
Still not an excuse to disrespect the wife.
@ushajamadar14054 жыл бұрын
There you are...!! I am in same boat now.. I was working and now I am not.. Just because of baby...and i am facing same problem but i can't manage time due to baby... But anyways thanks for this video... I'll definitely solve my all problems but right now my kido is important for me.
@gayatriverma17404 жыл бұрын
I also feeling the same no job no respects.
@roadrunner32324 жыл бұрын
Ask him who is going to take care of the baby if you go to work ? Isn’t that his baby too ? Don’t let him disrespect you .
@deepthitoonz4 жыл бұрын
Why not work on online businesses which you can start doing from home by taking care of your baby parallely?
@ushajamadar14054 жыл бұрын
@@deepthitoonz I am doing already but it's not going well, I think business is like...not my cup of tea.
@supriya19583 жыл бұрын
Even thought ladies are earning....they are not given respect it's true.......
@priyanka5633 жыл бұрын
...Infact men can be very disrespectful to wives for not earning..whether there is a financial crunch or not...money is never enough...life goes on ...time lost...nd when u realise your knees arent strong enough
@smita19933 жыл бұрын
You are living in a dream....atleast in india...and for housewife
@archie_verma4 жыл бұрын
Very nice video, I am now in exactly the same situation as that house wife
@deepthitoonz4 жыл бұрын
Hi Archie, same situation in the sense planning to start something to support your family w.r.t finances?
@nancyverma62384 жыл бұрын
nijo jonson in most of your stories, the female part only chances its character n everything becomes on track, what u wanna msg ? is most of the time its female, who have to understand their as well as others behaviour, it think so its everyone's responsibility. Plzzz script the stories with responsibility, bcoz at the end many r getting influenced. tku , i hope u will try to understand.
@Jyotisharma-df7nv3 жыл бұрын
Seriously , I also noticed this pattern
@lilangelishanvi86593 жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@truptitahiliani23593 жыл бұрын
Absolutely True 👍
@athirajoy78233 жыл бұрын
Xactly...this too is in a way that the female has to do the house hold chores along with part time job...House hold chores are not one part's responsibility...Both has ro share .it...Sharing is caring....I feel this video very misleading!...There's another video of him, about a guilty working women, who struggles to handle the house hold chores, looking after children along with work...In that case, the climax was very funny...The female is going to resign and the head of the company, who is also a female, just advices her to go outing on weekends, to have dinner outside on those days...etc...After hearing the advice, this 'guilty' female is getting very happy, and with smiling face, she just returns home...Very pathetic video...it's...I don't understand what that video is conveying!...Seeing all these many are getting mislead...Patriarchial videos!!! All these videos are about how to continue patriarchy!...pathetic!
@evinvoj23094 жыл бұрын
These men who disrespect their wifes should search for information about a price of hiring a woker for house chores, celaning cooking and so on.. Its quite expensive at least in my country. These kind of men think theall house keeping its done by it self.....
@suveds19004 жыл бұрын
The most important thing u forgot hire a nanny, tution teacher for kids n see...
@debarshidasgupta93583 жыл бұрын
Huabands should understand this, what a housewife does could never be done any other person and measuring it in terms of monetary value is foolish
@deekshachaudhary76132 жыл бұрын
R u kidding me right now. This is so messed up story. U guys are saying for depressed housewives they should try to become a working woman then she will be fine. Whoever mom's not earning out there don't judge your value on how much you earn or you earn or not. You should be happy you should be enjoying whether you are earning money or not. You got a lot on your plate girl. You are already doing more than required.
@rajanisuvarnad29232 жыл бұрын
I m house wife i taken term insurance and life cover to my husband ,my household activity so tough i have no time to do other job
@sirishagottipati24614 жыл бұрын
Wow... We should support husband in some cases financially
@deepthitoonz4 жыл бұрын
Hi Sirisha, good to know. May I know how you are supporting or planning to support?
@indianvloggerbristi64553 жыл бұрын
@@deepthitoonz what kind of job u provide
@swetakhare66504 жыл бұрын
So you mean to say that if a housewife wants to get respect & love she should start earning at any cost ...but why .?....being a housewife is also a very tiring job , why people underestimate a housewife ,why everyone wants money only ...I literally don't like this kind of thinking . Housewifes should get respect & love., They do most of the work so that everyone in the house do their work easily actually housewives are the lifeline of a house . Please respect all those housewives . I think every nonworking housewife should get little money from.their husbands as their salary and it should be a law .
@tharaarvindh14514 жыл бұрын
Well said
@padmakumari29414 жыл бұрын
V true dear, but I don't think any man will accept this law becoze most of them think that after marriage they got a life long servant without any pay even in the form of love, care and attention, and can do anything they want to enjoy themselves with the excuse that they are giving her food and shelter to live.......only my humble request is to the boys one who want to marry pls. Don't get into marriage with this belief, it will save two lives.
@tharaarvindh14514 жыл бұрын
@@padmakumari2941 very very true... It puzzles and bemuses me that still misogynistic thoughts are soo rampant in men. 😕🤨🤨😏😏😒😒
@roadrunner32324 жыл бұрын
housewives are not appreciated for the amount of work they have to do. There was an informal study done in the US that showed that if you did end up paying a housewife/home maker in a proportional way, it works out to about $100,000/yr. So, instead of looking down on homemakers, just appreciate their hard work .
@tharaarvindh14514 жыл бұрын
@@roadrunner3232 exactly... It's time Courts acknowledged and come down heavily on dose who harbor misogynistic ideas.
@atharvasawant45684 жыл бұрын
Who said she is not working, working means only earning money ,no !
@shifsenorita19004 жыл бұрын
This is the reality which all women in our locality who is facing disrespect, disheartened, by becoming a housewife,even their husbands treat badly because she is not earning first set your career then go to married.....
@nehajaiswal2290 Жыл бұрын
Yes i am like that too a housewife and mother. He also respect me. Taking care of child is also a profession.
@GoodVibes-yj4sb9 ай бұрын
Muft me roti nhi khani chahiye par
@Anonomus0075 ай бұрын
Tere ma or behan bhi kha rahi hongi or tu bhi kitne salo se kha raha hai😂@@GoodVibes-yj4sb
@shoebkhan56694 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for this amazing video , I really like your videos ...
@dr.s37503 жыл бұрын
Yes..so many women r struggling facing all these...being a doctor because of my health i couldn't go for clinics...after my marriage.!! I know the pain...
@lidiyaal16283 жыл бұрын
Beautiful teaching through video bro. May God bless you.
@samurdhifernando79184 жыл бұрын
Great attempt..so meaningful 👍👍
@luttuz3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the motivanal talk sir.. really appreciate your work.
@akshuization4 жыл бұрын
Wife should manage all house work, husbands family, look after him, his parents, kids.. husband has one job that is giving financial stability if he can't do that then I say he shouldn't get married at all..
@beautifulworld77124 жыл бұрын
S ur right
@beautifulworld77124 жыл бұрын
Nowadays its bcm fashion in the name of equality...if daughter in law doesn't earn money the whole inlaw family ll treat her like dustbin ....
@RamRam-gs1so4 жыл бұрын
Problem is that that this society wants women to earn outside but also do all 🏠 chores , I mean working at home n then also earning outside , I also faced similar situation when my sasu ma insulted me for not earning n studying at home ( though I was just 20 then ) , though I did not use to live at her house , all my expenses were payed by my own family , I felt so bad at that time , today such people want a daughter in law who would work at home but also earn for them ,
@beautifulworld77124 жыл бұрын
@@RamRam-gs1so ya first they were taking bribe before marriage by bride parents bt this new generation demanding after marriage also by daughter in law in the name of equality 🙄 n also manage home bt for men only job equality should be applied for both for home management
@RamRam-gs1so4 жыл бұрын
@@beautifulworld7712 there should be only two options :- 1: Every member of the house should do his work on his own ,work should be equally divided , yes occasionally they can take help if needed ( too young n old people are exempted from this ) ,or 2: if all household chores to be done by one single lady then she should get salary for it ,
@roseberry9403 жыл бұрын
Money money money and nothing else 😔😔😔😔
@jeevi7hills7693 жыл бұрын
Omg wht a man u r Thank you sir I'm damn struck badly with the family lot of problems Im searching fr job and I ll sort out all the issues and I ll come back to u sir Thanks again for these wonderful videos
@cicisingh35153 жыл бұрын
I hate when men push their wife or even gf not to work.. Then when wife spends money, he complains.. First off, if husband is having any issues financially or any other. He should be able to share it with his partner. So she’s able to understand that it’s not her. Secondly, not even only online. As far as in America, if you have car and license (with your car insurance) you can even sign up for Uber or doordash.. all these apps which we use to order take away. They also make pretty good money. I started by driving Uber myself, then when I had the money I got my trucking license and now I’m earning more then enough to take care of my family, my monthly expenses, and myself...
@sewaniguria73323 жыл бұрын
Now a days every girls should earn money .. It's helpful for other...
@Shada123-q2d3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this valuable motivation 👍🏻🙏
@shree45232 жыл бұрын
Hi thanks for this video at present I'm facing this problem I'm very fed-up of this ,thanks onces again
@koukuntlakalyani3 жыл бұрын
But not able to find what we can do online ,plz share some website s or link which we can believe on them 🙏🙏🙏
@susan52553 жыл бұрын
Really very interesting .very essential for this generation .
@madhabidutta75173 жыл бұрын
I want to do something but I don't know how to do the steps
@AnjaliGautam-tk8fm3 жыл бұрын
Ultimately the result is that of this story if you are earning then we will respect you otherwise Will blame you for all expenditure......in starting it was looking so well but ending not well sry people
@CrazyBoy-up2cu3 жыл бұрын
மறக்கக் கூடாத விதிகள். 1) மூளை தான் உண்மையான பாலுறுப்பு. 2) மூளையை மயக்காத வரை பெண்ணின் உடலில் இன்பம் நிகழாது. 3) மனைவிக்கு எது பிடித்திருக்கிறது என்பதைக் கேட்டுத் தெரிந்து கொண்டு செயலாற்றவும். 4) மனைவிக்குப் பிடிக்காத எந்த வழி முறையிலும், உச்ச கட்ட இன்பத்தை நிகழ்த்த முடியாது. 5) கணவனின் செயல் மனைவிக்குப் பிடிக்கவில்லையென்றால், முன் விளையாட்டுக்கள் போதவில்லை என்று பொருள். 6) இங்கே சொல்லியுள்ள படி, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச் செய்தால் எப்படிப் பட்ட பெண்ணின் மனமும் இக்கணத்திற்கு வந்து விடும். 7) ஆகவே, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச் செய்ய சிக்கனம் கூடாது. 8) மனைவியின் உடல் எவ்வாறு எதிர்வினை ஆற்றுகிறது என்பதை விழிப்புடன் கவனித்த படியே செயலாற்றவும். 9) குறிப்பாக மனைவியின் சுவாசத்தைக் கவனித்த படியே செயல் படவும். 10) செயல்படும் விதத்தை மாற்றிக் கொண்டேயிருக்கக் கூடாது. 11) வேகம் என்பது வியாதி. எனினும், உச்ச கட்ட இன்பம் நெருங்கும் வேளையில் வேகத்தைச் சற்றே அதிகரிக்கலாம். 12) வேக மாற்றத்தை மனைவியின் மூளை அறிந்து விடக் கூடாது. மனைவிக்குரிய இன்பம் நிகழும் முன்பாக கணவன் தன்னுடைய இன்பத்தைப் பற்றி எண்ணிக் கூடப் பார்க்கக் கூடாது. 14) பகலிலேயே ஒரு குறிப்புச் செயலின் மூலம் தெரிவித்து, மனைவியின் மூளையில் ஒரு எதிர்பார்ப்பை உருவாக்கி விட வேண்டும். 15) இன்பத்துய்ப்பு ஒரு தவம். ஆகவே, நேர அளவுகளை நிர்ணயித்துச் செயல் படக் கூடாது. 16) எடுத்தவுடன் முக்கிய பகுதிகளைத் தொடக் கூடாது. அதே போல, எடுத்தவுடன் லிங்கத்தைப் பயன்படுத்தக் கூடாது. தனியொரு லிங்கத்தால், மனைவிக்குரிய எந்த இன்பத்தையும் வழங்க முடியாது. மனைவியை வற்புறுத்தி இன்பம் துய்க்கக் கூடாது. 18) நாவையும், விரலையும் பயன்படுத்த ஒரு போதும் தயங்கக் கூடாது. ) இன்பத் துய்ப்பின் போது, ஆணாதிக்கவாதியாகச் செயல் படக் கூடாது. துய்ப்பு முடிந்தவுடனே கழிவறை நோக்கி ஒட்டம் பிடிக்கக் கூடாது. 21) மாதாமாதம் ஈடுபடும் முறைகளை மாற்றிக் கொண்டே இருக்கவும். 22) படுக்கையறையில் ஐந்து வயதிற்கு மேலான குழந்தை இருக்கக் கூடாது. 23) அரவம் கேட்டால் ஆணுக்கு இன்பம் நிகழ்ந்து விடும். மனைவியின் இன்பம் நழுவிப் போய் விடும். 24) நல்லுறவு இல்லாத போது தான், பாலுறவு முக்கியம். 25) உச்ச கட்டப் பாலின்பம் உருவாக்கும் அன்பையும், அதிசயத்தையும் வேறெந்த மந்திரத்தாலும் இல்லற வாழ்வில் ஏற்படுத்த முடியாது. அன்பை உருவாக்குவதில் இன்பத் துய்ப்பிற்கு இணை எதுவுமே இல்லை. 27) வறண்ட பாலுறவு பகையை உருவாக்கும், உயவுப் பசையோடு நடை பெறும் பாலுறவே அன்பை உருவாக்கும். 28) வாய் துர்நாற்றம் ஆகவே ஆகாது. 29) படுக்கையறை பூஜையறையைப் போலச் சுத்தமாக இருக்க வேண்டும். 30) முன் தூங்கிப் பின்னெழுவதை வழக்கமாக்கிக் கொள்ளக் கூடாது. 31) எண்பது வயதிலும் பெண்ணுக்குரிய மதனபீட இன்பம் நிகழும். 32) கணவனால் எந்த வயதிலும் தன் மனைவியைப் பால் ரீதியாகத் திருப்திப் படுத்த முடியும். 33) தன்னம்பிக்கை உள்ள வரை லிங்கம் சாயாது. லிங்கம் சாயாத வரை ஆண் எடுத்த காரியத்தில் தோற்க மாட்டான். 34) காதற் தசை நார்ப் பயிற்சியை இருவரும் தினம் தவறாமல் செய்யவும். 35) ஆழமான, நீண்ட, ஆசுவாசமான சுவாசம் மிகவும் முக்கியம். 36) துரித ஸ்கலிதம், விந்து முந்துதல் ஆகிய இரண்டின் விரோதி ஆழ்ந்த சுவாசம். 36) மந்திரச் சொல்லைப் பயன்படுத்திய படியே இயங்கப் பழகவும். 37) ஒன்றுக்கு இரண்டு முறை நுணுக்கங்களைப் படித்துக் கொள்ளவும். 38) பெண்ணின் பால் மண்டல படங்களை மனதில் பதித்துக் கொள்ளவும். 39) மது, புகையிலை போன்ற போதைப் பழக்கங்களை விட்டு விட வேண்டும். 40) அதற்குச் செலவளிக்கும் பணத்தை, ஊட்டச்சத்து மிக்க உணவை உட்கொள்ளப் பயன் படுத்த வேண்டும். அதன் மூலம் பாலாற்றலை வளர்த்துக் கொள்வதோடு, கொலைகார நோய்களிருந்தும் தப்பிக்கலாம். ஆயுளையும் அதிகரித்துக் கொள்ளலாம். 41) இன்பத் துய்ப்பு என்பதை ஒரு மணி நேரத்திற்கும் குறைவாக முடித்துக் கொள்ளக் கூடாது. 42) பாலுறவைப் பற்றிக் கீழ்த்தரமாகக் கருதக் கூடாது. 43) பூஜைகளின் போது, வாக்குவாதங்களுக்கு இடமளிக்கக் கூடாது. My WhatsApp number 9944558815
@sanika212 Жыл бұрын
I just believe every person should work. Not just because you shouldn't trust your partner but you never know what may happen in you life. You will have to be independent cause there is no life without money. Delusional things can be said but realistically we all need a job and money to survive
@zaarahirfan56743 жыл бұрын
Wow, so she shares your burden and has started earning for you. So what about you? Have u started sharing the household chores and kid's studies? Its people like you who have made our lives miserable in the name of financial crisis. Earning, managing all household chores, wanting to mark a place for ourselves in this world!!! I am seriously tired making others happy. I feel I lost myself in all these meaningless stuff. It is not the real me who is living
@athirajoy78233 жыл бұрын
Perfect comment .....Patriarchial video.!
@captianhydra17124 жыл бұрын
Whether she is earning or not you are not supposed to disrespect her in the name of money
@roadrunner32324 жыл бұрын
Yes.. don’t understand the video at all . She’s your wife .. why disrespect her ?
@sunitaawatimath60763 жыл бұрын
Nice I too also searching a online jobs like a data entry bt now days frauds cases that's why I keep quiet
@sriramulapriyanka98264 жыл бұрын
Hi can u plz make a video on secrets between husband and wife and rights of a wife and difference between wife and his mom because my husband and his mom and grandmom doesn't give any rights to me as a wife even I don't have rights to select my son's name
@pavanan13284 жыл бұрын
Same here
@kok71294 жыл бұрын
@srira. You can give respect to them but don't give up your rights.
@roadrunner32324 жыл бұрын
Stand up for yourself.
@Genuine3083 жыл бұрын
Ty so much for ur suggestions bro...
@AbhishekSingh-ff6gs4 жыл бұрын
This type of video giving ❎Negative feedback and view for the indian society
@itskvani3 жыл бұрын
It doesn't mean every women have to earn to support her husband or herself. She has given Up her whole ambitions to raise a family. If both men and working women respect that, it's enough. Also in-laws see working and non working daughter in laws differently..It's one's wish to do what she feels needs the most. The children also enjoy stay at home moms for a while and when they grow up, they ridicule their own mothers for not working ..they don't even understand..it's such a tough job to be available for everyone 24/7 and still doesn't have freedom to do whatever she wants
@shalupaswan13064 жыл бұрын
Ohk a good concept on how to come out of a smaller issues on families/marriages by simply supporting her husband financially. But I am worried about those womens who face problem more than just disrespect, like physical/mental abuses, violence etc. Treat her like another person who deserve respect even if she is housewife. Even a housewife faces lot's of problems on home like household maintenance, handling childrens/In-laws etc. What if she talk with her husband exactly the same like shown in video above on issues she is facing in home. Even If women is working she has to go through such problems on different issues, because man always think they are working more than women. We need to think differently and from both perspective. My canclusion on this scenerion are- For Man- Plz tell your women about your problems, shouting on her is not a solution. If you simply tell her about whatever issues you going throught she will definitely understand, womens are sensitive, handle her with care, even a small appreciation will make her proud in her life. For Women- If your man is not behaving as expected plz. try to understand and find out the reasons behind his abnormal behaviour and try to support him mentally, emotionally and if needed finnancially. (Suggestions above are in General circumstances)
@rfgw79033 жыл бұрын
Yes.. I am a housewife & my husband & my mother in law disrespect my daily for this. Now I have a daughter n sometime I think would she respect me or not? Please suggest me what I can do for earning. I really need to do something for my daughter & most important for my self respect.
@mehrajunissa12052 жыл бұрын
Try teaching
@utkarsapilla61803 жыл бұрын
8k current bill 2k shirt.. this is a loooooootttyy during financial issues...many people they tend to show their frustation on the person on their loved ones like if something little bad happened with them, they burst. If wife understood and reduce expenses, she may not feel that way. It's even nice that she understood later and decided to help.
@santoshikalavala96173 жыл бұрын
Yes its common and real
@chintandd4 жыл бұрын
Still, this story also tells that if Wife earn than only husband can be happy. I DONT THINK SO...Well, see our Parents and Grand Pa..they were only earner in house and still very happy. Its all about sacrificing stupid desire (foreign trip, 2nd car, Diamond earrings, Club membership, Few parties, Pubs etc.)
@ashlenelobo83814 жыл бұрын
I am also going through the same thing especially when supplies are over in kitchen, electricity bill etc. I am a good cook. I want to do something but my husband doesn't encourage me when I tell him about my ideas. What should I do.
@padmakumari29414 жыл бұрын
You can become a U tuber by doing cooking vedios dear