THIS INFLUENCER BREAKUP IS A MESS … rachael kirkconnell exposes matt james

Rachael Kirkconnell is finally breaking her silence on what really went down between her and Matt James! After nearly four years together, fans were shocked when Matt announced their breakup-especially since they were just seen together hours before. 😱
In this tell-all, Rachael sits down with Alex Cooper on Call Her Daddy to reveal the real reason behind their split, from relationship red flags to the heartbreaking moment she was blindsided.
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[@PrativaGovender]

If he was so religious and didn't want to live her, he should have also been celibate. Hypocrisy

[@gladysflournoy4555]

There is no way he is religious. If he was religious he would date with the intention of marriage (no sex) period. He went the route WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE!!!! No religious person date for four years fornicating, living with a person and traveling together and then dump her because she is emotional because she is on her period and having not having a good day. It is truly something wrong with that picture, I am happy she told her story because it exposes him, not to be a bad person but so that both of them can learn and grow from the experience.

[@sweet2sunshine]

Right!? Also it’s so ironic because religion (at least the Christian one) doesn’t prohibit cohabitation specifically, it prohibits sex before marriage. The fact that someone isn’t celibate but says living together is going too far is humorous.

[@loriduffecy9205]

@@PrativaGovender true dat!😆... she was young and star struck ...she will meet her soulmate 💕

[@RDCFemmes]

@@sweet2sunshine but the bible says :Can a man carry fire next to his chestand his clothes not be burned? So it is foolish to think that you can live together and not fall into sexual sin. the Bible also says :Abstain from all appearance of evil

[@babyyoda2745]

omg exactly

[@frey4421]

This is ridiculous. He went on a show pretending to be looking for a wife and then decided he "wasn't ready" and then wasted her time for 4 years! What? The whole point of the bachelor is to get married and put in that full commitment. He's weird and also giving Austin Mcbroom vibes with his content and social media personality.

[@bluehibiscus502]

🤣🤣🤣

[@aprilclover2429]

@@frey4421 , he’s not weird. He’s struggling with his sexual identity. It is hard, especially for a man, particularly for a Black man to come to terms with being gay. It isn’t a choice for most men.

[@loriduffecy9205]

True dat😊​@@bluehibiscus502

[@SupernaturalLove100]

His content/personality ain’t like Austin at all. Austin wasn’t even really religious like that lol.

[@kayleesykes2739]

@@SupernaturalLove100I think you’re misunderstanding. The way Austin took zero accountability and blamed Catherine and made passive comments about how she was an inadequate partner.

[@Karla-ns7kx]

I could be wrong but it comes across like he’s been wanting to end things for a while and instead of just manning up and being honest, he picked a fight over something stupid and then gaslit her about being ‘too emotional’ and used it as an excuse to end things. I feel like a lot of guys do this type of thing tbh

[@aprilclover2429]

@@Karla-ns7kx , especially when they’re in the closet.

[@aprilclover2429]

@@Karla-ns7kx , yeah, she was a beard.

[@cataguti0]

Gaslighting

[@Allegra7545]

@@aprilclover2429thought the same thing! 😅

[@aprilclover2429]

@@Allegra7545 , he was in bed with his male roommate.

[@sydneyburton6046]

The instagram post was awful, but more importantly how he broke up with her was absolutely horrific. You can’t tell me that wasn’t planned. Somehow you conveniently break up with her the last day of the trip right before her flight. That was manipulative and extremely concerning if that’s how he treats a 4 year relationship with someone he claimed to love. I feel for Rachael, but she’ll be so much better in the long run.

[@kasekgasek6214]

T

[@Blackraregem]

So what y’all white women think every black man supposed to love you and hate black women bish

[@Blackraregem]

Shut up, Becky

[@Barlibee]

It always sucks but it’s just best he broke up with her. Now she has no baggage and can flourish without worries about her partner.

[@shiitaklee]

Should a racist flourish???

[@monz]

Off topic, but it’s unbelievable that The Bachelor took 18 years before they cast a Black male lead.

[@aprilclover2429]

It is more surprising that they finally had one!

[@Blackraregem]

Why are you surprised Becky? This is your society your ancestors oh yeah, know it’s slavery and hatefulness interracial, and everything white

[@Carolineismightyfine]

TRUE

[@cicii4132]

Fr!!! I don’t watch it but please tell me it’s more diverse now???!

[@ladyhexton3773]

@@cicii4132mmmm no😅 they’ve had more POC contestants, but as far as I know there’s been 1 Black male lead, 1 Black female lead, and 1 Asian female lead

[@MonkeysinaBarrel1]

this is my biggest fear in a relationship... wasting my time

[@NeedMoreCoffeeOG]

It's kind of inevitable, you can't be inside the other person's head so you never know 100% for sure. That's why it's so important to keep your own goals, hobbies and friends in relationships.

[@Young4eva121]

@@NeedMoreCoffeeOG Agree 🙏💯

[@karenayers6793]

There are no guarantees. I don't understand the thought process that if you spend X amount of time with a boyfriend/girlfriend, that you HAVE TO marry them because you put in all of that time. For real? I'd rather chalk it up to. . .we gave it the 'ol college try, but we're not meant to be together forever. Then, I'd go on to meet my forever person. What's the problem? I'm looking for true love, NOT look-at-my-watch love.

[@candicem8931]

Unpopular opinion: he found someone else he has interest in and the breakup/post is to show himself available.

[@AB-mx1de]

Sadly this is definitely possible.

[@JJ-1866]

my thoughts exactly

[@duranca]

But, of course!

[@aprilclover2429]

@@candicem8931, probably a guy.

[@digitalmila]

It's so hard to wrap my head around people that do this...

[@tophluck98]

She was so sweet & respectful to him over the course of the entire episode, even though she's been hurt. Seems like such a good person

[@monz]

She has a really legit point that if he has a problem with her tearing up over dinner, how would he handle other more emotional situations down the road? Emotional intelligence in men is SO IMPORTANT! 👏

[@katieggg100]

Agreed! Also you don't even require a high level of emotional intelligence in that situation, it's just basic human empathy 😭

[@aprilclover2429]

@@monz , White women tend to be fragile. She was overly emotional.

[@MiniMexii]

@@aprilclover2429she said she was on her period. Some people just get emotional during that time

[@Ashley-mq2vd]

​@@aprilclover2429 lmao. Generalizing an entire race based on your experiences with a few members of that race is weirdo behavior. Imagine i you said "black women tend to be angry" or something whack like that. I'd be wrong right?

[@aprilclover2429]

@ , I said what I said. And, there is truth in it. I live in a White community in a predominantly White household. I have close, White women friends. Not all White or Black women are the same. But, I can imagine a White woman crying over a restaurant choice much more easily than I can imagine a Black woman doing so. The truth is not hate. There are cultural differences. No shade intended.

[@summerorta9779]

i knew he was a freak back in his season. thanking people for saying they are in love with him and kissing with eyes open every single time was all i needed to know. lol

[@naomiw2000]

“Thank you for sharing that” my boyfriend and I still quote that

[@aprilclover2429]

@@summerorta9779 , he was in bed and a bathtub with his male roommate. Dude is gay!

[@aprilclover2429]

@@summerorta9779 , dude is gay!

[@RayOfLetsatsi]

What was he supposed to say when the feeling wasn't mutual?

[@naomiw2000]

@@RayOfLetsatsi Why don’t you ask him?

[@katelynn33040]

I’ve never even seen the bachelor yet here I am

[@angeli8833]

Lmaoo same, I don't know much about a lot of these videos that she puts out, but I always watch emm

[@siphosethumxenge7848]

Hay shame, inoba sikubuze singa yiqondanga? 🥴

[@crownonpoint]

I have no clue who they are but I'm always down for a SPILL SESH video 😊❤

[@cicii4132]

Same 😂 never watch the bachelor but here I am invested in the tea

[@tlo11738]

Literally same lol

[@a.robare]

I was in a relationship like this, where I did not want to DISAPPOINT my man. I was worried because I could tell he was pulling away. I guarantee you she got upset at dinner because she could feel he was already losing interest. My heart breaks for her. I hope she finds healing soon.

[@stephw.7874]

This same exact thing happened with me too!! 💯

[@myplaylists6310]

I literally just went through this. Peter Pan syndrome and the entitlement of these men is beyond me

[@sofief2671]

Same! It’s been almost 5 years with him and he dumped me over an all on the phone. Insane.

[@myplaylists6310]

@ WAIT SAME! We were together three years and had just gotten back from the holidays with his family and it went lovely then he broke up with me on the phone!

[@meganclow6959]

Matt really saw the Zach Bryan breakup instagram backlash and decided he wanted some

[@whims6278]

Idk anything about these people but it seems like he was just looking for an out. Which its like dont gaslight her about it just man up and admit youre done an and then you wont be the bad guy. We need to focus on teaching boys and men how to communicate their feelings properly because its a disservice to them and to those they date.

[@likeymyself]

I knew he was trash when he publicly shamed her about the racist stuff on the finale…. Then got back with her.

[@julietteSoul]

They never broke up , that was for afr show.

[@OctoberGirl16]

@@julietteSouland yet he sat there on that stage in stone cold silence and let her get all the hate.

[@julietteSoul]

@@OctoberGirl16 Yes he did.

[@kateedid]

as someone who dated a very religious guy whilst not being super religious..it gets messy. they can hide behind excuses of their religion because it’s a touchy subject, or you just don’t understand it enough to ask questions

[@AJK-ns5mm]

can i ask what religion im trying to prove a point to my friend 😅

[@evas1968]

He's not religious. He would not have treated her that way if he was religious

[@kateedid]

@@evas1968 …a lot of religious man treat women that way unfortunately. not saying all of them, but quite a bit. being religious does not always make you a better or kinder person

[@melodybyrne2786]

I feel like im watching my own breakup unfold through them. Matts actions/words are so similar to my ex's who fell out of love with me & couldn't see a future but couldn't let us go. Hoping Rachel can heal from this, it hurts feeling so blindsided after believing you would have a future with the person you love.

[@NoNameNumberTwo]

If you’re looking to get married, don’t date someone for four years-that’s way too long.

[@NoNameNumberTwo]

The only exception would be if you’re in high school or college.

[@PBEs-wf4er]

Yup

[@cindylannie870]

It is a red flag that when he picked her he didn't want to purpose and not ready 4 years later. Another red flag.

[@girleyreds11-11]

His reason for breaking up with her about crying over dinner and being worried about her emotional responses that's something you do with somebody you've been dating for a month or just a few weeks and you're thinking you know what is it going to be a long road I don't think I'm going to like the results of this is not how you treat a woman you've been with for 4 years

[@rina908]

He didnt want to move in for "religious reasons" but I bet he had no issues having intercourse before marriage though 🙄 🚩

[@TheJelloash]

I honestly feel like it’s just a real life messy breakup, and not everything needs to be in the public for us to have an opinion. She tried, he tried, no one is perfect, we don’t know the full story.

[@karenayers6793]

There's no better way to know if someone is "your person" than to travel with them. Just that one example of her crying because the restaurant she chose was disappointing IS a red flag. I'm sure that's not the first time something like that has happened in 4 years. It sounds like he needs someone who is stronger. The bottom line is, they're not married and they don't have any kids. He has the right to say. . .I DON'T THINK OUR RELATIONSHIP CAN GO THE DISTANCE. Isn't that the purpose of dating? I don't think you should get married just because it's been 4 years and your followers require you to say "I Do." He did her a favor. She may not see it now, but when she meets HER PERSON and they have children, she will understand why this happened.

[@tmbrad1288]

This is why you don’t envy people on social media. Especially couples.

[@DEICPACITO]

Her crying for the restaurant being a let down was super weird but that being basically the reason for the break up is crazy

[@derangedone13]

Was it Blake Lively's wedding? 😂

[@hollyannxo7656]

Nah he got into someone else and told the other woman he was going to leave his current girlfriend and then had to make a public post so the other woman knows he was serious. Sad 4 years wasted for that poor girl.

[@lizzbruce]

I honestly love episodes like these so much🤧 I had no idea who these people were 11 minutes and 59 seconds ago and now I feel like an expert. Storytelling skills on 1 million.

[@dissipatedcloud]

A Bachelor couple didn't last?? I am shocked.

[@racheldugan-campbell9074]

Feel awful for her. Everything she went thru for him. For nothing. Ugh.

[@emiliamorgan5052]

This reminds me so much of my recent breakup. We were together over 3 years, living together over 2, had cats, talked about eloping and planning on marriage. Out of the blue breakout where he says “I’m not his person” and packed up all his stuff and was gone the next day. Totally blindsided.

[@MindfulMya]

I feel for her. I hope she finds someone who will be respectful and properly communicate. It sounds like he was emotionally immature and was unable to commit fully and wasn’t in it. Doing the work is hard. It seems like she did a lot. I hope she heals, knows she’s worthy and the next relationship she’s in will be real.

[@AB-mx1de]

Watching the show I agree, he came across as struggling with commitment, of any kind. He struggled to find connection. His father was not in his life and his coming on the show was messy.

[@tehethatssotrue]

he always seemed sooo fake to me

[@JJ-1866]

I haven't followed The Bachelor in a while but I remember Matt always being very immature, indecisive and struggling to take responsibility or be an adult. I feel for Rachael but I'm also happy she dodged a bullet instead of marrying it.

[@kybifox13]

Not involved with the bachelor franchise at all, just love your channel. But also I am excited for Rachel. She is going to feel so much relief and peace now that she doesn't have to walk around on eggshells being gas lit, having to apologize and keeping track of her score to "qualify" to be his wife. Speaking from experience.

[@89MrsPerfect]

Oh my god, like I just listen to this story over my airpods and oh my I got the biggest flashback, goosebumps from my Ex🙂🙃 it seems narcissistic people are really all the same. You go girl! I know its hard but you got this🎉 someone better will come and you will see what was waiting for you all along🫶🏼 People of this Kind should just stay single and far away from us nice people! I was punished everytime I cried or had a bad day. One sentence that got down to my bone was: „i do not tolerate this behavior and u are not coming with me. You are going to stay at home and think about your actions.“ It happend quite often.. Dont let ever do people stuff like this to you!

[@cliobhabie]

This season was why I stopped watching the show. They both didn’t deserve each other and they both don’t take accountability for anything

[@kmo3066]

HE POSTED IT 2-3 HOURS AFTER?!?

[@phoenixplays7167]

He seems a lil 💁🏽‍♀️

[@alainabarnes7527]

Hate to say it but yes I agree

[@okok-uc8hi]

See how he acts with Tyler Cameron

[@Scj940]

Sounds like he stayed with her for the opportunities until he couldn’t stand it anymore. Tbh, the community would have never let him forget he dated a person who went to that kind of party. It was never going to work out. And now it’s back firing on him for giving her a chance. Idk I think Karma had her way with both of them.

[@aprilclover2429]

@@Scj940 , his mother is White! What community? Matt’s best friends are White. That party wasn’t a big deal for him.

[@bradleyclarke8515]

@@aprilclover2429 hes black as well and the slavery themed party is not a "white community" thing its a southern racist celebrationso his family being white doesnt mean shit, they are saying since hes also black poc might not feel that it will would work if she didnt have basic human respect and understanding how it is so bad. that party is a big deal, saying it isnt is how people say epstein island doesnt matter, it just doesnt matter to you. and if matt had reacted negatively, even thought antebellum parties are innherently racist(its celebrating a time when racismt is 'good', cmon)people would call him bad guy for being mean to a nice pretty rich white girl on tv while she prob cried. evryone throughout the states is taught these things im white from california and i know how gross that info was.

[@aprilclover2429]

@ , Matt lives in a White world! He had to call her out because it was racist. But, Matt didn’t really consider Rachael racist or he wouldn’t have chosen her. It wasn’t a deal breaker for him. Think like a man for a minute; a Black man. Most Black men who prefer White women are not going to throw a pretty, sweet , White woman who went to a racially offensive party under the bus! It wasn’t a Klan rally and she apologized. An adoring. demure, WW who is willing to suck his black 🍆 trumps attending a plantation themed party. Real talk. Now, think like a closeted Black man who is more comfortable with WW and who has a White mother. He is not gonna throw a sweet, pretty, sincere, White woman under the bus who appears to be the perfect beard! She went to a racist party but that doesn’t define her and she’s remorseful, so let it go.

[@bradleyclarke8515]

@@aprilclover2429 he lives on earth near some white people lol this is not a white world thats so dumb he could not call her out she would have been made the victim everyone knows that

[@TB20275]

@@bradleyclarke8515 thank you for saying this. im taken by how many folks are in the comments just ignoring this detail about the party. I couldnt understand liking it after it was exposed she went to such a party then goes on a show with a half white half Black man as the bachelor.

[@phoenixromer7100]

As someone who’s just been through a breakup similar I think it’s a two way street and we don’t know what’s happened behind closed doors. I was treated a similar way in the end but I also caused a lot of trouble in the relationship and he couldn’t handle that anymore

[@squakingnugget7413]

Its either he never really wanted to be with her and just liked the attention or its giving a bit of emotional abuse… For her to say she constantly felt like she was apologizing and had to be quiet because she wanted to give him space and is afraid he’d snap at her again, thats the beginning of most emotional abuse on a partner. My ex did the same thing and the thing is these situations, you wont realise what it truly is until you’re out of it and either spoke to someone or tried to find your own clarity of things

[@ThestuffthatSaralikes]

I like how he was real about proposing: “too soon, wanna have a relationship first?” But she got pooed on in this situation

[@kristenmichel82]

GIRL WERE WEARING THE SAME SHIRT YOURE SO CUTE

[@spectre9340]

love that for you honestly

[@CarolynMata-x1l]

MAYBE just maybe crying at dinner was “overreacting” (I get it) but she dodged a bullet with this guy.. I don’t wanna blame her emotions on being on her period bc god forbid we wanna make our men happy but I can’t help but think it probably heightened the emotions that much more & for him to be upset with her for crying is absolutely crazy. He might have been with her for years but it just seems like he didn’t really like her which is unfortunate bc he really led her on :(

[@OctoberGirl16]

@@CarolynMata-x1l what she didn’t mention but very much could have played into her heightened emotions is the fact Matt had been saying they were going to get engaged… then took her off on a spontaneous trip to her favorite city. It’s quite possible she thought he was going to surprise her with a proposal that night… only to discover not only was he NOT proposing but he couldn’t be bothered to put any effort into their dinner for that night …. and then actually broke up with her for feeling emotional about the whole thing.

[@Dayo_kid]

One thing I want to call on is for men to be more empathetic with their woman for things that actually don’t matter. How can you hold a woman’s emotions against her especially when it’s like, cool no one’s dying, so be the one to show her it’s all alright?!. Let her be a crybaby and show her an option where she doesn’t have to be one and can just go with the flow sometimes. I feel so bad for her cause I know some ungracious good guys that have so many good things about them and tolerable flaws but then they are so ungracious , letting the smallest things come between themselves and their loves. It’s so hurtful being on the other side of that because they don’t know how horrible that is, to be so close to everything you want and he conflates the things that doesn’t matter and is adamant on being stubborn, adamant on not seeing your good because if your “ sooo good I bet I can find someone else that’s so good and doesn’t have your annoying flaws” although no one’s perfect :(!

[@olivergarrick1175]

This interview was way more interesting than most episode of the bachelor , haha

[@audrey6528]

I went to unfollow him only to find out I was never following him 😂

[@katm7255]

Right sentiment

[@AB-mx1de]

😂😂😂

[@OctoberGirl16]

@@audrey6528 same!!

[@bbxo_]

I just found out SHE was the racist girl from bachelor.. AND THAT is when he continued to have the upper hand.

[@trishkit5295]

She’s not racist

[@bbxo_]

@@trishkit5295 there’s photographs, kitty.

[@bluehibiscus502]

@@trishkit5295 Well, what is she, & you???

[@aprilclover2429]

@@bbxo_ , most White people are racist to some degree. I would not label Rachael as a racist for attending an offensive party in her youth. Rachael chose to pursue a relationship with a biracial man. She was willing to have biracial children. Dating a Black man is not a flex for a White woman in the south.

[@okok-uc8hi]

I want to know why she thought it was any better for her to run to calm her daddy and air herself out like a victim! We need Matt to come out so we can do a true cross corroboration!

[@MakeUpPrincessx3]

Thank gosh you made this video. I had no idea who is girl was yet I wanted to watch the CHD ep since everyone was talking about it

[@RaelinAyala]

You make awesome videos, and your down-to-earth nature is admirable.

[@K._M]

Spilly is feeding us good!! These have lately been the only KZbin videos I watch immediately after posting. Ps did you see hasan from twitch reacted to one of your Blake/justin videos and called you a journalist lol

[@s.d.9543]

Ladies, a man is rarely going to initiate the breakup. You are going to have to do it when the relationship stalls. SHE should have broken it off much earlier.

[@spectre9340]

I know it's the classic misogynistic dismissive comment but like....I feel like she was that emotional _because_ she was on her period Sure, she was frustrated and stressed out about dinner not working out for them but like, that whole ordeal coupled with hormonal imbalance would explain the crying You'd think he would be more understanding w her if they've been together for a while already Edit: In agreement w another commenter, she could probably feel like he was pulling away at that point (hence why she was constantly worried that she was bugging him or would make him upset) and he was just looking for an excuse to break up (conveniently on the last day of the trip)

[@NeedMoreCoffeeOG]

Not everyone has emotional symptoms around their period.

[@kennethiavail1719]

Man that’s messed up. This is what causes people to not open up to others. I hope her heart does heal for the next man who I hope will love her.

[@gracicarli]

I hated him so freaking much because he reminded me so much of my ex who is an actual narcissist. Just hearing about this was so triggering. I knew what was going on every time I saw them pop up. His immature, performative, look at me behavior was all too familiar... You could see it on her face. She’s been gaslit for four freaking years. It’s gonna take her the rest of her life to recover her trust in herself. Tell her it wasn’t her and had trouble with accountability. I hope she’s able to do it..😢

[@oe5801]

EYE dont feel bad for either of them. This is the same lady that got exposed for dressing up as a slave master for halloween. Lol the fact that he STAYED with her told me everything I needed to know about him.

[@minhothehoexx6011]

9:24 I KID U NOT ME AND MY EX BROKE UP TOO BC OF “these qualities” HE WAS CONCERNED ABT, IM GETTING PTSD LOL BC A LOT OF THIS I SEE IN MY TOXIC RELATIONSHIP I HAD

[@minhothehoexx6011]

MY EX ALSO SAID THAT HE WANTED TO GET MARRIED MULTIPLE TIMES AND THEN ALL THE SUDDEN HE DIDNT HOLY FUCK

[@christinecole6565]

I got notifications from two different news outlets about this! I had NO clue who they were

[@LaurenB-m4c]

Her videos are so concise

[@claireh8125]

He did her a favor. Better to waste 4 years instead of 5 or more. He said he should be ready to propose after 4 years and he’s right. Also if he’s so religious why were they having sex?

[@SareenaBrangman]

I think he wanted to have fun with Rachel and never saw her as a wife.

[@aprilclover2429]

@@SareenaBrangman , I think that he wanted a cover girl.

[@Teampayn3]

I’d love to hear his perspective. I think we sometimes forget that it takes time to truly know if our partner is the person we want to spend our lives with. In fact, I wish more people took years to figure that out rather than rushing into decisions. Instead of seeing it as wasting someone's time, perhaps both individuals gained valuable lessons from the experience-ones that will help them grow and carry forward into their next relationship.

[@NeedMoreCoffeeOG]

As someone who isn't American this is an honest question if anyone feels like answering. I know the history of plantations, so is the correct thing to do to only leave them as museums because of their history? Are there other types of buildings that are like that as well?

[@TheQueenOfCheba]

There are plantations everywhere in the south. And honestly America doesn't preserve those sites like they should because they are used for weddings and events still. It's disgusting. Blake Lively had her wedding on a plantation.

[@katm7255]

@@anikarose9457not exactly. Many plantations are not preserved as museums. They are privately owned and people rent them for parties and weddings.

[@mariissaak]

She looks so much like Rebecca black!!

[@kiana9941]

I haven't heard that name in ages

[@mariissaak]

@ I just saw an interview of her on a podcast and to me they look sooo similar. Both stunning!

[@silkyhoneymoonavenue]

had me at the plantation party. i don’t feel bad for either of them.

[@Bri-bo4yt]

Literally

[@biblestudybaddie]

YUP

[@kemyiadukes5869]

Thank you someone with some sense

[@Coffeetime1991]

This is a publicity stunt, Matt loves his snow bunny, he might come back with a proposal and maybe a reality show 😂😂 y’all are way too gullible

[@vanessaowiredu2983]

They didn’t get back together months later.. they got together a week after the finale !

[@miracleyorkies4212]

.1 year....MAYBE 2 to get engaged. After that MOVE ON. To Matt: NO ONE IS PERFECT. LEAST OF ALL YOU.

[@OliviaMartinez-l3c]

Wow, this is truly awesome! You should be proud!

[@PrincessOceanna]

Im a little freaked out because I see a lot of qualities Matt has in my partner... I don't even know how to leave at this point and I'm just continuing to let myself be bulldozed.

[@trishkit5295]

Yuck… she deserved way better than that… he has put her through hell over and over… I unfollowed him… he disgusts me… man up…. Would Tyler Cameron pull that crap?! No!!!…love you Rachael! Hang in there baby girl! You will be so thankful in the end I promise!!

[@Danny-ii6jn]

Imagine caring about a racist’s feelings 😂😂😂😂

[@eriree1270]

i don’t care for rachel bc of her whole “old south” party, but it’s actually diabolical that he did that to her. and even more diabolical that he strung her along for no reason. boys are wild

[@girleyreds11-11]

My favorite movie entire world is Gone With the Wind I've seen it like 45 times I kid you not I can work for word recite the lines I love the fashion one of my most favorite classes in college was antebellum America because it was about how we rebuilt after the violence we created amongst ourselves you know a whole house divided cannot stand I like to learn about the aftermath and how we built ourselves back up again and what that history was about it's not because I like the fact that people died in the Civil War and not every slave got their freedom right away one of my most favorite history subjects to learn about is the Civil War it's not because I'm four slavery if anything if someone tells you their favorite war was the Civil War you should be like okay then they're against slavery because the civil war was won by people who wanted to stop slavery I remember as a kid one of my favorite dress up things will be to wear those hoop skirts and things like that were possibly the most recognizable fashion trademark of that time frame does that mean since I was a little kid I was a racist you people need to stop oh wait a minute I use the term you people I must only be talking about black people know anyone with the opinion is a you person and you people need to back off the fact that just because somebody got a photograph taken because I wanted a beautiful backdrop and a beautiful backpack with flowers and a sun setting happened to be on a property that 200 years ago was a plantation then you know what I don't know nothing about the Bachelor or all these people but you know what I will say I'm wrong if you guys have proof that the party she went to was them doing that time. But also involving African-American people their dress up as slaves and servants then I'll have a problem with the party at the party was littered with white folk dressed up in the 1800s regalia talking about people calling him the n-word then yeah I'll have a problem with the party otherwise people you need to calm down and by people I mean people with the opinion I don't care what you look like I think that's another problem we all have lately I don't give a s*** what you look like I don't give a good goddamn s*** what color are your skin is I judge people on their opinions they're morals and their actions I don't give a good goddamn crap if your red purple blue black white or brown

[@aprilclover2429]

@@eriree1270 , he’s gay! Duh!’

[@Hoppy_is_a_bunny]

I have no idea who these people are yet I’m completely invested in this video

[@GlowySweetFabulous]

LMAO I thought this dude was a food influencer. I see his videos on Instagram of him eating at different spots. 😂 I saw her with him. I had no idea this was the Bachelor couple.

[@keeksfrmAZ]

Don’t feel bad for either one of them🤷🏾‍♀️

[@saphire2214]

Yup! They deserved each other.

[@AboveTheNfluence]

This! 👌🏾

[@kyrstencarlson8660]

She's gorgeous she'll find better

[@marieneu264]

I bet he has somebody else on his radar…

[@aprilclover2429]

@@marieneu264 , a man?

[@aprilclover2429]

@@marieneu264 , 👨

[@nochso6835]

This is crazy! I remember when it got leaked that she was at the plantation parties. I thought this guy would have ended it then...he must be a weirdo to have continued this

[@aprilclover2429]

@@nochso6835 , why would he end it with her over her attending a plantation party? I knew that he.could get past that.They had already gotten to know each other.

[@nochso6835]

@aprilclover2429 It's OK not to get it. Just keep in mind that it was a bad decision to continue then, as proven now.

[@aprilclover2429]

@@nochso6835 , it had nothing to do with her going to a plantation party. Matt was in bed with his White roommate! He’s not tripping on Black consciousness ! Matt broke up with Rachael because he couldn’t follow through with the charade. Rachael was a beard.

[@aprilclover2429]

@@nochso6835 , she was a beard! That was more important to him than an embarrassing party decision.

[@jessicajojp]

i didn’t watch this right away because it said influencer only to realize you’re talking about the bachelor franchise. you should consider renaming ❤️❤️

[@aliciameow1945]

Unfortunately, it’s always a guy named Matt.

[@butjay11]

I feel bad for Matt, having to deal with such nonsense. She said she observed many red flags but just brushed them off. Those were her mistakes. Communication is the key, and you shouldn't just settle because the sex might be good or you enjoy being in a relationship. If someone's heart isn't in it, you know. Always trust your instincts and gut feeling they're there for a reason.

[@luishernandezzzz]

Bachelor has not been the same since they fired chris. I said what I said

[@itsxmonique]

@@luishernandezzzz YESSSSSSSS AGREE! ):

[@sadietorrio]

TRUE

[@shandiinking8809]

YES SIR 😩

[@Lolo4lulu]

hmm maybe he shouldn’t have been racist? the show has been trash long before he left. no one believes in these couples anymore, we watch for the train wreck.

[@Yickaa]

So glad that racist loser is gone 🙌🏾☺️🥳

[@ailynnmckae1130]

She’s hardly a victim. They’re both just as toxic as each other

[@kiana9941]

The relationship started out toxic with her being outwardly racist and he only picked her to prove society wrong that she's a "good person", and stayed as long as he did being everyone said it was not going to last.

[@giesslechen]

Is not a Red flag if you're sleeping separately and unmarried.

[@sundayk875]

Matt's first choice was Sarah Trott i think..she left and he went for Rachel.

[@نيشا-د2م]

I have no idea who those people are but nice video 😂

[@BradleyJasonGomez]

Did Elon Musk just abandon Doge coin and make his own XAI308K coin? WOW this guys a genius lol

[@a1ntcry1noveru]

They both seem awful

[@beepboop_99]

Yesss I’ve been waiting for this!!

[@winterrbabyyy]

so he wasted years of her life and clearly emotionally manipulated her then she cries at dinner he breaks up with her saying he doesn’t think she’s a good wife 😭smh so stupid

[@lounamhb]

the real question is why this girl is talking to all of us about her relationship of 4years he realized that he couldn’t be with this girl for the rest of her life, and y’all are mad at him for that y’all sound so dumb

[@laisanibale2154]

I really don’t see Matt is for Rachel, He doesn’t look matured, Rachel you will find someone better and care for you, you were just waisting your time with Matt, glad you two broke up., you stayed together for 9 years and no engagement???. , that’s show something.

[@16960734]

This sounds like a normal ass breakup minus the ig post

[@TB20275]

Pretty shocked to see how many people liked either of them in these comments. Its a reality show, most of the couples don't last. She wasn't his person and He wasn't hers. Social media gives you a glimpse of the good times (probably manufactured for content anyways). We did not live with them. I also couldn't get over her attending that antebellum party in college. If young POC children can experience racism, a college aged white woman is old enough to know better 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@melissaresto7008]

Wow what a narcissist he is. He literally wasted that poor woman’s time. And the fact he lied to media and her. He was using her for money and clout cause as long as they were together they got to go on trips and eat anywhere. Smh how dare he use religion as his excuse for immaturity