THIS IS HARD | DITL of a SAHM of Two 2 and Under

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[@MeganAcuna]

Gosh I wish I could give every single one of you guys a hug! Thank you so much for your sweet comments and encouragement. I'm happy to report that things are looking better in the last few days and we're only struggling with the first feed of the day now! For everyone who expressed being in a similarly difficult stage: I hope it gets better for you soon! You're doing a great job and we're all in this together 💛

[@brookemartinmacapagal5026]

Honestly, I’m so grateful for this. We have been in such a chaotic stage of life and it’s been tough feeling like everyone else has it all together. I never want to see others struggling, but it helps to not be alone. So thank you.

[@KileanRodriguez]

Rowan’s little voice is EVERYTHING

[@melissathorpe6011]

Don't apologize for not being positive. You being real and showing the hard parts and sharing how you're really feeling helps SO MUCH. I was getting teary just knowing that I'm not alone with the chaos of 2 kids and being a business owner. It's HARD. And I appreciate you sharing your realness!

[@oliviacartwright4869]

This vlog felt refreshing in a way. Everyday isn’t perfect and while I never want to see you struggle, you seem more relatable when you also share the bad days. On another note, it was so fun seeing Rowans little personality shine through! He is so polite too 💖

[@MeganAcuna]

I'm always so proud of his manners!!!

[@OdetoAbode]

I just got through a nursing strike a month ago. It was TORTURE!! I'm so sorry y'all are going through that. Here's what worked for me: I literally went topless for days. I held baby topless at every opportunity. Baths together, cuddles together, anything with baby as undressed as possible. No pressure to nurse unless they are asleep. Just keep it constantly accessible. Eventually, my baby started rooting around again and showed interest in latching. I had to really stop offering it, because every time I did it resulted in screaming. I made sure she always ate, either with dream feeds or bottles and pumped milk. Kept things very relaxed and pressure free (I mean I faked this because inside I was dying). I think what I did is called a "nurse-in". I hope it ends for you soon!!!

[@Lauren-yq3ds]

What wonderful advice!

[@StefanieandKameron]

I honestly appreciate the real/raw stuff because that's what I'm going through. Seeing moms looking like they have everything together tends to make me want to stop watching because it's hard to not compare my experience with a seemingly perfect one. So don't feel bad about being real, mama! It helps us all feel less alone!

[@MeganAcuna]

Thank you so much for being so sweet and kind about this!

[@HeyJessica]

Thank you for showing what momlife often looks like. It helps me feel less alone.

[@JenLizette]

Rowan is by far the only kid I could be almost as equally obsessed with as I am with my own son! He’s the sweetest!! I just love him!

[@maiab5856]

“It’s scone” *disappears* sent me 😂

[@TeaAddict]

Megan, your positivity is only made more powerful by showing that some days, you struggle too. You'll get through this season xx Also, Rowan is just THE cutest little dude oh my goodness!! ❤❤

[@shazza47]

Rowan melts my heart he is so sweet and his singing was so lovely.

[@30sumfin]

This content is SO important. In the world of social media perfectionism, its so important we see that you experience the hard days just like us. You are doing amazing, this time will pass and it won't always be this hard.

[@MeganAcuna]

Thank you sweet friend 💛

[@kaitlinross4348]

Megan, seeing your hard days actually help me more than a “positive” vlog would when I’m going through it myself!🫶🏻

[@MeganAcuna]

We're all in this together!

[@rushanamiethas963]

Sounds like Juniper is going through a growth spurt as well as a regression... mental growth spurts are a killer... the don't know what is happening with them and neither do we, everything around them is very overwhelming and they become over stimulated easily... Skin to Skin is key to overcome this, bathing with baby, doing baby wearing and just slowing down and giving her all the attention... let her sleep on your chest, be kind to yourself mom, you got this... currently sitting with my 3rd baby, 5weeks old... your birth vlogs got me through my birth this time around, you are such a gem... love from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@racheljulianna8503]

Thank you for this vlog and being so honest with us. Sometimes it’s hard as a mother to have bad days and feel like nobody else is having them. So for me this was super helpful to watch. ♥️

[@Adoptivemomx2]

Hang in there Mama. One suggestion I have is, have you considered that maybe she has an ear infection? Just bc sucking could be hurting her ears. Also, MAY be why she is up a lot and not wanting to lay down? Just a suggestion. I know when my little one didn’t want to eat she did have an ear infection. (She got them a lot when she was younger) I’m not a Dr so please just take this as you want, just trying to help one mama from another! You’re doing a great job! 😘

[@SB-et6dp]

That’s what I came here to say. If this just started out of the blue I think something else is up.

[@Naylizzle]

I LOVED THIS! As a mom of 2 under 2, I couldn’t help but feel like I was doing something wrong because I had days like this. Thank you for being brave enough to be vulnerable and post this. ❤

[@dashamakhova5419]

Thanking for sharing, you are definitely not alone and being a Mom is the hardest job out there. You are doing awesome, mama!

[@MoonieNiks]

Yesterday was a hard parenting day for me, so this makes me feel way less alone ~ thanks for sharing the real stuff 🤎

[@MeganAcuna]

Of course! I hope today is better for you 💛

[@DancinChica365]

Thank you for this very real video- you have no idea how refreshing and comforting it is as a fellow mama to know I'm not alone on those hard days!! Praying these days get better but also that you're able to soak up the sweet moments in between.

[@Jonni800]

Rowan’s vocabulary is so great!!

[@ariseinsimplicity]

I can relate so much you got no idea! Sometimes it's just trying to keep your head above water and getting through the phase. But it always gets better and easier eventually 😌🙌🏼!

[@unrulyred8762]

Thanks for showing the rough times! It helps remind us we are not alone!

[@StephanieHajal]

So relatable! We are going through a toddler sleep regression right now & s-t-r-u-g-g-l-i-n-g to get through the days. Wishing all the moms & dads grace in these tough seasons💗

[@bethanysummers3377]

I loved this one, keeping it real! I had heaps of days like this when my kids were little and hey...still do, just different issues. It actually makes me not feel alone, like im not the only one who struggles and not everything is perfect for others either. BTW Rowan talks so well!

[@glitterglamour007]

This was so relatable, and comforting to know I'm not alone. I love the real vlogs, keep em coming !

[@carliemariebeal1691]

LOVED this vlog. It is so easy to think everyone has it together around you while you are struggling. I love that you kept vlogging and kept it real. Great content, Megan (and Rowan!)

[@MeganAcuna]

Totally! I fall victim to this too seeing other mamas killing it on social media. Comparison is so tough so I'm glad I could show that I definitely don't have it all together hahah!

[@harveendhother7535]

really appreciate the honesty and vulnerability in this vlog!

[@trinvandusen]

This felt so raw, real and relatable. LOVE

[@SereinaB]

I appreciate you not only sharing the wonderful moments of motherhood, but being honest that some things are just really hard. I've never delt with a nursing strike, but it seems stressful and I hope things get smoother soon. Love your vlog like always! ❤️

[@jackierj]

Thank you for this vlog! My son is 1 and half and when he was little he had a hard time feeding and my days looked like yours. I’m so glad that you showed this because new mommas out there can see it’s okay to have rough days!

[@aenger09]

OMG! Rowan's Hufflepuff sweater is killing me! SO CUTE!

[@brycedarian507]

I’m a first time Mama and we’ve had lots of nursing difficulties! It is SO exhausting. Thank you for sharing and I’m glad to hear it’s getting better. I LOVE coming here to see the beautiful and tough realness of motherhood. ❤

[@kaylaslifecaptured]

Thank you for being honest! Seeing other mom’s perfect and organized lives makes us feel like we are not good enough. Knowing that we are all in similar situations helps!

[@frankiebee2980]

Thank you for this vlog!! Thank yoooou! 👏🏽

[@laurenschox]

I'll be honest sometimes seeing the raw/struggles is actually much more comforting than seeing positive/easy days! It makes your content relatable and natural as it's nice to know we all go through it 💕 sorry you're having a hard time with your nursing strike and I hope this little season will pass soon 🤍 lots of love xxxx

[@janellknudson4573]

I really appreciate this vlog and the heart behind it! The zombie newborn days are so precious and so hard all wrapped into one 🥲

[@cbusta703]

Rowan is getting so big. He’s precious!

[@emilymunday6212]

Love the holiday goodies you got! Can’t wait for Christmas 🎄. Also can I say thank you so much for keeping it real. Hugs 🤗 praying baby sis eats well

[@theroadlesstraveled3993]

As a mom whose kiddos are now 14 and 18, I remember this season well. Keep hangin' in there through those rough days,, momma.. you are doing amazing! I look back now on this season and wonder where the time went. 😊 All my love and support from one mom to another! Lisa from Ohio♡♡♡

[@HeyGal4041]

Thank you for choosing to upload this. We all have these days and I appreciate you being honest ❤️

[@shalibakes8440]

I’m sorry to see you are having one of those tough times. “This too shall pass” Good times are always round the corner. Thank you for sharing and making us all feel human. Sending love & hugs from the UK Xxx

[@amynelson8488]

I love that you made this vlog! It is real life for sure 😊

[@sarahkrauss3329]

Don't apologize! This is real life and it is refreshing to have you share the reality of motherhood!

[@aprilrainx]

Great video, thanks so much for posting. Hang in there! The hard mom days are hard!!!!

[@sierrareed11]

We love you! You’re doing the best you can with what you have ❤ always! 🥰

[@rosemariemiranda3748]

Thank you for this video, my son is a month younger than Rowan and some days are difficult. It's comforting to see that we all have those days but we get through it. When Rowan said "Hi guys, welcome to my channel" it reminds me of all the hard days we have and then my toddler will do something so cute or sweet and It makes me grateful for that day regardless.

[@VrieChica078]

Rowan is so sweet in this vlog!! I also appreciate you posting real life, even if I’m not happy that you’re going through a rough patch, I appreciate you sharing it. I’m a first time mom to a 6 and a half month old, and am taking this year off of teaching to stay with her. Sometimes I feel like I shouldn’t be having a hard time since I get to stay home with her and don’t have to worry about a career at the same time. Even though you are a work from home mom, it’s nice to know that other people have struggles and it’s not just me. Parenting really is that hard. Sending love and hugs to you though!!

[@marlajenkins5640]

Rowan is soo sweet! 🥹 He's super chatty! Bless him!

[@emilyevans7979]

You're killin' it mama!! I have a wee one whose 9 months, and she's getting into everything! I had a breakdown week too. :( Your positivity through this tough season is inspiring, but seeing these vlogs, whereby you show that you struggle just like I do (but with TWO KIDS!!), makes me feel like I'm not alone

[@xevilknievelx]

HI ROWAN! I'm so sorry it's been a rough time, mama! Stay strong, push through & it's okay. Take things a second at a time. You're doing amazing. Hopefully this nursing strike passes through quickly.

[@alexabroderick5109]

You’re doing SO great, mama! I wish I had your attitude of “it’s a bad day not a bad life” when I was going through the transition of 1 to 2 kids and just feeling like I was in a constant state of chaos/survival mode. Thank you for keeping it real and still being such a bright light and inspiration to many of us in the midst of it all! Hugs to you and your sweet fam. ❤

[@madelinemorra1160]

I'm sorry you're having a hard time! If I could go back I would tell myself that for every hard day (or week) there's 2 good ones, its just that the hard ones feel so overwhelming. Honestly I would feel so bad about myself if I thought everyone else was doing so great. It leaves me feeling like "well why is it so hard for us? What am I doing wrong?" Also Kudos on being so good with Rowan in the kitchen after a long day, you nailed it.

[@MeganAcuna]

Thank you so much!

[@minotchristine]

I never comment on KZbin videos, but I really appreciated this vlog. I only have one toddler and this is such a realistic view into family life. Especially the haze of the newborn stage. Cannot imagine doing the newborn stage over with a toddler to care for as well. You're doing great!

[@leeshae]

Megan I cannot handle Rowan's cuteness, he had me laughing the whole video! I really appreciate you posting videos like this that show the real and raw and at times chaos of everyday life, and that it's normal! I know you kept feeling like you should stop vlogging or not post this, but I know so many people are glad you did! Not a momma but it's my dream to be, thanks for keeping it real

[@ZetaSPEDucator]

Today was a tough day for me too. As a teacher, I hit my ceiling today which included me having a migraine, being bombarded with students and meetings… so you sharing this vlog was needed for me. This is so helpful to go through the decompression process while watching your vlog. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Marvillar]

I’m so sorry you had such a rough day. I really appreciate your attitude towards it though. Your not being “toxically positive” but just realistic. I hope things get better and that juniper get through the nursing strike! You got this!

[@KariVieira246]

Thank you for this video and for uploading it. Chaos is not a stage here, it's the whole story. It's tough, I love it, I struggle.. yeah.

[@hooded5501]

Oh hun I know how you feel so so so bad. I felt like I was going to go nuts! My little one would go through a nursing strike every single time I would get my period. He also had low weight and was dipping below the last centile line. It was extremely stressful! My baby boy is approaching 6 months and has just finally starting to get better. I would spend so many feeding sessions crying out of frustration. Feeding in the shower helped SO MUCH! Whenever he hadn’t fed in a long time in the shower we would go. Now I have a lot more patience because I know that while he screams at my boob this hard time will pass. ❤ You got this! You are amazing! And enough!

[@dianamedley3456]

Rowan’s voice… he’s so adorable! And you are not alone; when my husband went back to work and I had our 3 year old and a newborn at home (he’s same age as Juniper!), it was rough! It gets easier… you get more into routine and find little things that help. But in the meantime, the days feel crazy long and exhausting 💕

[@connielarson4410]

You’ve got this mama!!! The hard times make us thankful for the easy times!

[@haydeehuerta9798]

I loved this video so much I think is real and I love real. Mom life is hard is not always a good day. ❤ you are an great mom!

[@haleyobremski7016]

Hey! I don’t usually comment, but I just wanted to let you know I love watching videos like this. We’ve been going through a tough/ chaotic season of life as well; and it helps to know you’re not alone. You’re doing amazing!! 😊

[@sarahgustafson123]

Hi doll, I loved the kitchen table update!!! That's original, you should really put that in. Much luv

[@cbusta703]

I’m glad you posted this video bc today I had a rough morning with our toddler.

[@Maryyycat]

Omg I bought that same gingerbread house door mat last weekend. It’s so cute!

[@yessicaescamilla6444]

Oh my God, thank you for this! We are struggling with pacifier withdrawl with our 2yo and it’s been HELL! Every day gets worse than the day before, Im so tired. Thank you for sharing that it’s hard work and we’re Not alone ❤

[@victoriasinger4171]

It's so important. Thanks for letting us in.

[@britneylorraine1]

Nursing strikes are hard mama!! We tried Camilla teething drops or gripe water right before nursing with our little girl who is now almost 9 months - even when the strike wasn’t due to teething. It got us through some days and others were just rough. Hoping you find something that works for you both! Hang in there mama ❤️

[@torielmore7471]

I'm so sorry you're going through a rough time. I've never heard of a nursing strike like that and I can't imagine juggling the stress of sleeplessness and her being fussy but also that she's not eating enough! I really hope she's gotten better since this video was filmed! I HATE when people tell me this, but everything really is a phase. I rarely ever internalize that in the moment, but then the rough time is over and I look back and realize that we got through it okay and that we'll get through the next thing too. I love seeing the realness when it's great but also when it's not. Because both are just as 'real'. I feel like sometimes online mothers can get flack for sharing when everything is going well (like you have), but that's just as true as these times. So thankful for you and how you are honest either way. Love to you and your family!

[@Naturalrnmom]

Also thank you so much for sharing this!!!!

[@kellyjf990]

Hi Megan! So sorry you and Juniper are going through the nursing strike. I can imagine that must be so stressful! A couple tips I have are to keep offering the breast, even if it's just for comfort or if she's not "due" for another feed, nursing in a dark, quiet room (if you haven't tried that already), wearing necklaces or have something clipped to your shirt that she can play with as a distraction, nurse skin-to-skin, and hand express before nursing. Also, definitely reach out to a lactation consultant or your local La Leche League- they are great resources! Good luck!

[@HelloSpoonful]

Rowan makes me look forward to these next stages with my 19-month-old. So so SO precious!

[@lizaleonhardt8837]

Thank you for showing how real life can be with 2 young kids! I can definitely relate. I have a 2-week old and almost 2 year old.

[@Daymickey]

“It’s a bad day, not a bad life.” That’s so good! I’m keeping that one in my back pocket for sure.

[@manoukvanderstelt]

Thank you Megan for showing what motherhood is like some days! I’m currently pregnant with our second baby and this pregnancy is kicking my butt. That combined with a little boy who just turned two.. man some days are really hard!!

[@JimenezB385]

Thank you so much for sharing your little slice of chaos ❤just had my second and my first is 19 months and everything feels like pure chaos right now 😅

[@susanconners440]

Hi Megan hang in there and please let up on yourself .Remember you're only human and you're not alone we have all been there. Better days ahead Love from Canada

[@Maya6108]

Currently in the newborn stage with a 2 year old and I feel this so much. My husband is in Police Academy so my Monday-Fridays are literally just me and the babies so I often feel like I’m failing and SO tired. I just want to say you are SO rocking motherhood even on a bad day/week. I wouldn’t even be able to consider cooking while that tired! I truly hope things start getting better with the nursing. Have you tried pumping and feeding a bottle and having her nurse when she’s not as hungry/fussy? Hope you figure it out soon and get some rest!

[@livvilloyd7740]

During particularly hard times of life I try to live by this mantra 'every day that you make it from morning to evening, is a successful day' you are definitely succeeding

[@CandleTusk]

Those world market hunts are hard! I did one with my sister a couple years back and it was so fun :) we ended up finding one, it's such a fun idea

[@kelly-annegray2614]

Oh my gosh, that soup looks DELICIOUS! Please share the recipe, Megan! I loved this vlog...super relatable. I have one little boy...he's almost ten months old, and most days are really rough. He also went through a nursing strike, and we are currently going through the nine month sleep regression. Sleep has been our biggest issue! 8 times a night was normal for us for a long time! Thnk you for sharing!

[@FINDINGWHOCRYSTALIS]

I love that you keep it real. Being a Wife,Mom,Daughter is a tough role, always remember God doesn’t give us what we can’t handle!!

[@MerinovaA]

For the nursing strike all I can say is hang on! I found out that my son was upset only when I attempted to feed him from both sides as a result of torticollis. Once I figured that out I switched to only feeding on the side that wasn't impacted. I also remember feeding while standing and while he's sleeping just like you. We had a 2 week long nursing strike! But I'm so glad I kept on with it and figured out why he was doing it. One other suggestion is if your baby takes a bottle take a couple days break. Sometimes they miss it and come back to it happily - that helped us with a couple of the shorter strikes. Good luck ❤️

[@cayliedaniels2258]

Omg was the preschool wondergarten?! I just found them too, jealous you guys had something like that close to you, I’m from Portland hahah

[@carmenharbin]

The days are long but the years are short. I have a precious 8 week old girl, our first, she got her tongue and lip tie released yesterday (so thankful we could get this done but wow aftercare is so intense) so yeah, you’re definitely not alone in the hard season🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽.

[@terrif.3126]

I'm sorry you had a bad day. It will only make tomorrow that much sweeter when things get back to normal. At least you and Rowan made memories . Just remember these days happen to most everyone.

[@bettyfoster3102]

Your babies are adorable!

[@naomibusana5956]

"A bad day, not a bad life." I like that. Good to remind ourselves of that once in a while

[@Cinderellaraye]

My little girl went on a nursing strike too. I decided to switch primarily to pumping (make sure to invest in an elvie or willow its life changing) I was able to get her to nurse at night and it worked so well! I was able to get the bonding and skin contract at night and pumping made it easier to store milk and also allow daddy to feed the baby as well.

[@shirleyjjohnston5469]

Don’t you dare sweet mom think your negative. We all, me a few decades ago, had days where I felt so crappy with the stress of the .k I D S. 🤪🤪 Watching your little one. Could your baby have acid indigestion? Brest milk might cause pain and gas and well all of above? She really struggles to get her body up.. or teething? Maybe your due for a check up? Your doctor will help. The patience you have!! Your husband loves you and understands you. What a gem he is! Pure gold! Your a great mom. It’s going to be ok. Give yourself grace. 🙏❤

[@lindseys9986]

Thank you for uploading this. This is exactly our life right now too. (From a fellow momma of a 4 month old)

[@RachelC813]

Yes! I'm right there in the chaos too!

[@gloriapena-reyes5449]

Thanks for sharing and being so real. Motherhood is very hard. I have a baby girl who turned 4 months on November 2nd.

[@mary4fun02]

Girl, I needed this though. I have a 2 month old and hubby just went to full time this week 😭

[@MeganAcuna]

hang in there! I'm sure you're doing great!

[@Suebearish]

You do so many outings and projects for having such a young baby!

[@jessicaglasson5845]

My daughter is the same age almost to the day and she’s been doing nursing strikes on and off as well. It’s so exhausting. Nursing while asleep and walking is what we also resort to at the worst times. Side lying nursing is what I can get her to do usually. Hang in there ❤ In terms of tips we’ve had luck with… starting with a bottle then switch to nursing, nursing on a ball, nursing mid nap or when just waking up, rock to sleep with paci then switch to nursing, offering feedings only when clearly hungry, and nursing in a new spot like outdoors

[@MsYoungky]

I think it’s so important to not be fearful to show your reality. There’s nothing shameful about having a “normal day” that happens to be challenging. My aunt always says to be thankful for a normal day- even if it’s a hard one. Thanks for sharing! These days will pass, mama!

[@equinegirl369]

Remember Megan. You are a strong independent young woman. And you can do anything you set your mind to. Keep being awesome Megan. ❤️💗