This is How Men Build Confidence And Masculinity (Deceptively Simple)

Most men struggle to build confidence with women, constantly feeling like they are taking beating after beating. But the solution is one that almost nobody ever speaks about, and it's deceptively simple.
Your integrity and your confidence is intimately linked, as is your integrity and your sense of masculinity.
If you are able to approach women and bring integrity with you, this can absolutely change EVERYTHING overnight.
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[@aymaneeljahrani2280]

Had this same thought about alignement today, interesting to hear you talk about this

[@notgaryoldman1178]

Very informative. Making a note of this, I'm definitely going to strive to act with integrity once I get out of theory stage and into approaching very soon. Your advice is always very helpful, thanks a lot for providing it!

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Thanks mate, and good luck!

[@aroyals339]

Love the username

[@dandaman9009]

Have to be able to take the rejection and negative feedback from women, when you never get a positive response you just give up

[@Straga_Severa_]

Yep. The problem is not in the presence of negative, but in abscence of positive.

[@dunderkuken1475]

I think you're on to something big here. The next step might be to define this integrity-concept, that is still very vague to me, and show how to find where this is lacking in one's life and how to change that.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Yeah it was a very big part of my men's work self development journey - It's much harder than it initially sounds to live in more integrity with yourself, I wasn't sure how well the topic would resonate with guys on initial contact but I think guys are liking it - I may make a more detailed video about it soon.

[@Straga_Severa_]

Hmm. I might disagree with you on this one. When I'm being unashamedly myself - like in your example, nerding out about philosophy and meaning - I repulse pretty much all girls, even those that are nerds themselves. And when I'm controlling myself and not letting my inner stuff out so easily, then I repulse them less. Of course, you can claim that this is polarization, and the few select girls will be really attracted to it, but there is a point when "polarization" becomes just game of chance.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

This is complicated - it's complicated because, there could be many other things happening concurrently when you are "unashamedly yourself" that aren't being accounted for. For example, not reading a woman's body language to see she doesn't want to stay on that topic... Her not feeling that you are interested to actually get to know her... Perhaps you aren't good at sharing your passion... as in.. I can speak about any phillosophical topic in a way that will get most women roped in, but other guys can't without practice. There are still social skills which need to be honed. The simple answer I'd give you would be "Why can I discuss philosophy consistently and get great results, and you're pushing women away?" I dont' ask the question to attack you, but more to get you thinking that there can be many other issues arising outside of the topic of conversation. This sort of attribution error happens a lot ot guys, and it prevents them moving forwards and getting better results, something goes badly, and they attribute the wrong reasoning.

[@ceeIoc]

So how do you put this into action? Sounds like a deep inner game issue that needs therapy over a long period of time.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

This is a good question, and I'd love to make this video - I'd argue it starts with small things possible far removed from women.. With friends we also act out of integrity for example... Friend asks you out for a drink and you say you're busy, when really, you're just feeling antisocial and tired. Starting to make lifestyle habits of acting in more integrity with yourself is how I coach men to start embracing this.

[@vinidestiny3112]

How can u talk about that if u dont have the balls to finally go bald 🤦🏼

[@kevbcn]

why rush the process?

[@ceeIoc]

He would look good with smp

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

You do realise going on public forum with thinning hair, not hiding it or shaving it off is acting in complete integrity right? I actually did go bald for 6 months (this was 6 years ago now) - it wasn't a look that worked very well for me to be honest, a LOT less attention from women than I normally get. I'm with my girlfriend now for 18 months, I've raised it with her, and she was adamant that she'd rather I leave my hair as it is.. Me personally, I don't much care - If having present but thinning hair works better for me in dating, I'll roll with it. I'm just not so vain that I'm going to make a deal of it. I think a lot of guys seem to want to make thinning hair a personal issue - like you attempted a personal attack here - I'm not 100% sure what that's about, but it's not about me, I know that much .