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@marissamonroe256611 ай бұрын
0p0pp0pp Zillow
@datingdiaries16812 жыл бұрын
It seems like the men who fell for me the hardest was due to me not liking them at all ..strangest thing
@nicoleb84442 жыл бұрын
It’s because you created a chase, and unrequited affection or love is one of the most painful things somebody could feel; so if they didn’t feel that from you they probably worked even harder to try to win you over.
@misshouda17402 жыл бұрын
Because men fall in love through the stress hormones I forget it's name
@titchkeat54272 жыл бұрын
I think it’s a mix of the comments made, plus you’re 100% yourself and not trying to “be” anyone for that person. You’re not trying to impress them or waiting around for them or seeking validation or any of that toxic shit society taught us. You’re just you.
@185_a2 жыл бұрын
Trueee
@BenRoberts122 жыл бұрын
increased scarcity equals increased value
@FEEDING_BIGFOOT2 жыл бұрын
I’ve noticed when men fall in love with me it’s always when I set clear boundaries, expectations and when I need them to do help me 🤷🏻♀️
@brittneymarshall22782 жыл бұрын
🥴🥴it’s usually when act crazy
@Urbanochismestv2 жыл бұрын
I'm backwards lmao when I act like a b**** they fall in love lmfao 🤣
@Beela2020Ай бұрын
True😊
@1lelepontes Жыл бұрын
I love when he threatens us to close the channel 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@tiffanyyisrael7989 Жыл бұрын
😂
@LonjeMarie710 ай бұрын
Hopefully he’s just being funny. He should be smart enough to know that’s bullshit will not work with us. He’s getting as much out of his channel as we are. I can tell he loves what he does. He’s not the only one on KZbin making relationship videos.
@sakura-rc3ed9 ай бұрын
@@LonjeMarie7he’s clearly joking. chill tf out
@MyrEli1117Ай бұрын
😂strategic
@youvegotmel28444 ай бұрын
This just goes to show that falling in love comes in so many different forms, something we cannot control so just embrace it and follow it
@JB7-11 ай бұрын
If people fall in love through games it’s ego love not real and won’t last trust me. Real love is steady and healthy. Save up for that steady and sure
@Jasminepsalm10 ай бұрын
Amen
@alexisrene58548 ай бұрын
I honestly believe it could be both but I could be wrong
@mylyfe43822 жыл бұрын
TIME!!! Men fall in love with time. Be friends with a guy and see what happens over time.
@xan81852 жыл бұрын
How much time lol
@sagalfarhan3999 Жыл бұрын
@@xan8185 nah don’t do that that’s stupid lol
@steph6109 Жыл бұрын
@@xan8185time allows them to build respect for you and drop some of their fantasy thinking which means they can see you as a person rather than a pump and dump trophy.
@tiffanyyisrael7989 Жыл бұрын
@@steph6109Bingo!
@LaNikiOfficial5 ай бұрын
Not at all! Thats how my husband and I started we were Bestfriends for 4 months then we fell in love! Happily married now over a decade! @@sagalfarhan3999
@jeanlemcke64582 жыл бұрын
You may not be as pure as the driven snow, but you tell us what we need to know about men that men will never tell us! Thank you!
@viktoriyaminasova61442 жыл бұрын
I was heartbroken over someone who didn't want same with me or me in his life. I couldn't find peace in anywhere, from anyone, no matter who I was talking to or which videos on it I listened to. You helped me more than anyone with your knowledge and authenticity. Fuck this man. Thank you!
@amnbvcxz8650 Жыл бұрын
I can’t find peace anywhere either. Why he consciously fucked over someone like me, who is ill and isolated
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
@@amnbvcxz8650Because you're ill and isolated, you're an easy target. Too easy.
@pixieazul192 жыл бұрын
I love that you said you're happy right now so you don't need to chase a woman... that's where I really want to be! (That I don't need a man's attention because I'm happy on my own 🙂)
@teanna45692 жыл бұрын
Men fall in love when I create distant mystery, confusion,and a chase= seduction , once I discard them they always try to come back or hard to get rid of them.. the fall in love within 90 days of attachment ..this don’t don’t apply to everyone
@coffeedates3857 Жыл бұрын
You sound like u could write a book 📖
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
@@coffeedates3857Your username gave me a rash
@3arhodes6 ай бұрын
It didn't work for me. He don't give a shit😢
@teanna45696 ай бұрын
@@coffeedates3857 Thanks no books but iam on Quora giving out advice to ppl all over the world.. in different subjects and topics iam under Gemini moon I have over 1 million views
@teanna45696 ай бұрын
@@3arhodes sorry just move on to the next
@Mahy42 жыл бұрын
It’s a choice. That’s it, most people the minute they see you have already made up their minds
@tatisalazar39102 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by that?
@steph6109 Жыл бұрын
Love is a choice but Alex is talking about trauma bonding and hormonal Regulation dependency. That is completely subconscious.
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
@@steph6109It is still a choice how you REACT to it.
@Jasminepsalm10 ай бұрын
Amen very true
@SK-no2pp2 жыл бұрын
Kanye going out with Kim look -alikes. Projection at its finest
@vixenxiiiv2 жыл бұрын
Right!!!
@linaowusu54022 жыл бұрын
thats very true!!
@brownsugacinn43322 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! My mind went straight there
@Cillaggg24 күн бұрын
Breezyyyy
@solidcatink2 жыл бұрын
A resounding "yes", Alex. The man with whom I feel deeply, deeply in love with reminds me of my best friend of my entire life. He died when I was 17.
@cronu3 Жыл бұрын
My goal in life is to enjoy it as much as possible with someone who wants to have kids and treats me with respect and love and kindness.
@Googleuser-jv8fi2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think too highly of u. I think very highly of my toxic dating coach! U help me so much ❤️ - the nice girl who used to get taken advantage of a whole lot more !
@RayneDripTarot3 ай бұрын
Thank you for warning me about men like you who play with women's emotions. If a man ignores me for a day or two and then surprises me with a gift, and is doing so in order to elicit emotions from me... Why would I want to fuck around with a dude like that? I'm not a little girl. I have shit going on. And I don't have time for stupid little boy games. I mean, I totally get it.. The art of building tension. And I totally get it, don't be smothering and anxious and needy... But if you're a healthy individual, or you aiming to be healthy in your interactions and are practicing self-awareness.... games or not necessary. Playing with people's emotions in order to elicit the emotion that you want from them, is only going to work for so long. Especially if you are dating a woman who is really self aware and mature... Some of us have secure attachment styles. And some of us are doing amazing things on the planet that require a partner who is going to step up to the plate instead of playing little boy games. So thank you for warning me about little boys who think that they can play with women's emotions... because that kind of game won't last for long. Unless you're just looking to play the field for the rest of your life
@ledesalaura6793 Жыл бұрын
Couldnt two people fall in love just through chemistry and connection? If you both enhance each others lives ❤
@amnbvcxz8650 Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t happen when men are so flickery, have attention spans of a goldfish, and so many false options nowadays with garnering attention.
@jenaya_laila2442 Жыл бұрын
Yes! That's how it's supposed to be..wish this innocence would return to earth!
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
@@jenaya_laila2442Haha! Innocence return to earth? It never was innocent.
@karabomothupi9759 Жыл бұрын
Nope
@retiredbarista Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@cronu3 Жыл бұрын
I think it’s okay to help someone and not expect anything, I think expecting someone thing is the first mistake for any option
@k8c6872 жыл бұрын
Binge watching ! I like the no bs approached. May God bless you with 10,000 more subscribers
@nellyqueen63142 жыл бұрын
I don’t want no men to love me like this 😩 is insane
@staceywilliams16242 жыл бұрын
“Calm down, let’s lower the expectations for me” 😆 ❤️
@HypnotizMindZ4 ай бұрын
"I'm the toxic dating coach, lower your expectations!"😂😂😂
@jellygurl272 жыл бұрын
You can tell you happy Alex your skin glowing
@teanna45692 жыл бұрын
If there is no mental connection ain't no love PERIOD...I can't fall in love with death mute...🤦♀️🤦
@kailiedean5115 Жыл бұрын
“Babies are needy AF” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@zaynabroshdy51462 жыл бұрын
Why don’t they just fall in love normal way 😂
@185_a2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha, true :))
@growingwithmissk98012 жыл бұрын
Same question I asked myself 😂
@marte13762 жыл бұрын
You may not fall in love in a normal way too. We all like the thrill, the excitement
@blueblaze98622 жыл бұрын
What's the "normal" way?
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
Falling isn't normal. It never was, it never will be.
@msblanqui12 жыл бұрын
"I'm the Toxic Dating Coach. Let's lower the expectations." Lololol
@Elethia441 Жыл бұрын
I love you for talking about these thing so straightforward!!
@Mauramarci Жыл бұрын
The channel should be called toxic dating coach 🤣 this video is so funny
@ashleyprado48362 жыл бұрын
I recently found your channel and I had purchased one of your course in Spanish and omg your are so funny in Spanish 😂 love it 💕
@ghhhv20272 жыл бұрын
Damn tht ego shit is incredibly real If you are a fetish to them they can project the feelings of their fetish onto you. It's crazy I've been on both ends of tht Good shit Alex the psychology is on point
@Vd-mi1ed2 жыл бұрын
Z CBC m L
@Vd-mi1ed2 жыл бұрын
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@Brownsvillesalute6 ай бұрын
The Projection chapter is facts!!!!!💯
@solidcatink2 жыл бұрын
It's why I always adopt the same breed of dog.
@piscesfifthhouse7 ай бұрын
It also sounds like the reason people cheat. Instead of confiding and talking with your partner they would rather be vulnerable with someone else because it’s easier.
@familiaabc110 ай бұрын
I like how you say look at their ex see if they look like you.... But maybe you don't look like them but your personality reminds them of their ex. I know because i liked a guy who reminded me of my ex personality. He did not look like my ex at all.
@mariaa76922 жыл бұрын
"Why are you laughing at that little elephant"nlmaoo
@liberty-voceainimii788910 ай бұрын
😂
@IamKarryanne2 жыл бұрын
Your not toxic…your just an Aquarius 🤧🤧
@ladyowl91872 жыл бұрын
Oh feck, dealing with an aquarian now 😭
@rsgshakey9922 жыл бұрын
hold on now, there’s nothing wrong with us! we’re just misunderstood 🤣🤣
@amirayoungblood91012 жыл бұрын
We are cut from a different cloth
@petyakalvacheva28322 жыл бұрын
I need an Aquarius man to explain some things to me
@sarahsummers40932 жыл бұрын
I see no lies here! Dealing with one now.
@leilaandrade60222 жыл бұрын
“Wow they must love me for me” lol 😂
@enchantedzx2 жыл бұрын
so sad🤣🥺💀💀
@Pixiedust62 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nhletelovaloyi89912 жыл бұрын
Love from South Africa🥰🥰😍😍😍
@prettydisabled90602 жыл бұрын
♥️
@anniebootboot8 ай бұрын
Projection , bonding, ego, bad moments
@GiaGDixon2 жыл бұрын
"I'm not Mark Rosenfeld." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Lisa-ck5bm3 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@Freerangewords Жыл бұрын
When you said “when you kidnap a dog from their mama they will love you”😭
@nubiancutie59722 жыл бұрын
When I ignore them
@shansteves85842 жыл бұрын
No Tyrone,thanks for honest man's perspective with the jokes,it is good.
@Pixiedust62 жыл бұрын
Your sense of humor is fucking hilarious 😆 😂😂
@sq74712 жыл бұрын
Hi, can you tell us where looks fit into this? Guys are always ogling at unrealistic fake / unnaturally enhanced / over made up girls
@tangatawhenua1477 Жыл бұрын
When talking to people who have long term healthy relationships which are few and far between, they've all said the falling in love part was instantaneous. Go figure 🤔
@itsmadisonb Жыл бұрын
I think that falling in love part is lust and those excited butterfly feelings. Real love is actually the boring kind where you are deeply comfortable and have to work hard to commit and sacrifice and keep the fire burning with mutual respect and loads of communication
@mimi12341234567 Жыл бұрын
When both fall in love instantly, mind games are not necessary any more, they are safe to love and reciprocate
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
Yeah that's bs
@Xianne0272 жыл бұрын
I think Alex is in love with himself. Just saying...
@rosemaroon64072 жыл бұрын
Everyone should be..
@Jen-qt6eg2 жыл бұрын
Make love with ourselves
@catricehawkins49582 жыл бұрын
As we all should be
@shalalala8682 жыл бұрын
Great!! Many need a healthy dose of self-love.
@veronika92792 жыл бұрын
So what maybe you can learn from it
@jahnvisingh46202 жыл бұрын
Where is the last video about casual sex?
@peachesncreamy96532 жыл бұрын
Not all the time sometimes all the people that you see that looks like your ex is because that ex is trying to send a telepathic message because s/he is the one that misses you when you're really trying to avoid them.
@Inanothertimeandspace2 жыл бұрын
This mentality will have you hoping for something that isn’t real. People are with people when they want to be with them. If someone is not with you it’s because they’re not into you
@CinnamonScent11 ай бұрын
Then there's also the off chance that one runs into their twin flame and the souls recognise each other and a man falls in love because his soul isn't leaving it up to choice.
@VoiceoftheProphecy2 жыл бұрын
Was he ever in love if he was just with her for help ? Thank for sharing
@Eyefarii4 ай бұрын
😂 I love elephants sooooo much! But that's some sh*t I would totally say! 😂
@deborahocampo852 Жыл бұрын
Great video Alex
@mojzivotmojput Жыл бұрын
OmG you are so funny 😂👉🏻”I’m not Mark Rosenfeld..”😅
@aliya22602 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about how to get a guy friend back who pulls away and gets a different best friend?
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
Stop it, get some help.
@VriEvolutionTarot8882 жыл бұрын
4 dates, 3-4 months
@mcm65632 жыл бұрын
Baby's are needy that part of your talking was funny actually my son was so needy I end up with my breast bitten. 😅😄
@jalyssa53532 жыл бұрын
Misssed the videos Alex!!
@How.Dare.You.2 жыл бұрын
i must be one of a kind bc none falls for me
@amnbvcxz8650 Жыл бұрын
Same😂 Actually the only times they even showed some interest (which doesn’t equate with love, can’t know what they actually felt) was by few whom i’d never like because of some serious dealbreaker. It’s like some funny joke of life. But otherwise men don’t love me, even ‘low quality’ guys and losers. I’m not even ugly. But they’d tell me about perfect girls whom it hurts to lose 10 years ago while leading me on, using me for attention and expecting to wait on them for 10 years when they may like me or not. Wish i felt appreciated for my own self, like i was special and perfect for someone too. Fed up with unrequited feelings and being an old maid.
@adejoke_moshood Жыл бұрын
@@amnbvcxz8650Wow ! I am really sorry that you feel this way. I hope you find someone who will fall head over heels in love with you very soon❤
@LaylssMei6 ай бұрын
He’s so handsome 😍
@rawfit12424 Жыл бұрын
i dont think too highly of u; in my mind u are my family.
@Show_Love_Serina Жыл бұрын
Great vid! But who’s on his hoodie? XD
@brendalee27411 ай бұрын
Love ur hair.
@Kirsten_Wicked3 ай бұрын
This Bronx Woman Has Your Back! 😂❤👍🏾💯
@softlife458 ай бұрын
Alex back in his Future era😂
@VoiceoftheProphecy2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is some difficult info to listen to but I can see some of this happening
@SaystheTruth32 жыл бұрын
Your channel is gold! Ty
@datingdiaries16812 жыл бұрын
Women definetly fall in love with good dk
@yourfav1720 Жыл бұрын
😂
@ladyowl9187 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@e.k.21262 жыл бұрын
OMG i love your vibe!!!!😂 « toxic dating coach » 😂😭😂😭😂 are you à Gemini? My best friend is telling me this too! 😂😂
@sweetness199210 ай бұрын
Love is so scary bro its not all dandy lion an roses just werid 😮
@annalaw9622 жыл бұрын
HELL YEA WE R ALL FUCKN WIRED TO BE ABLE TO ADAPTED TO ABUSE🚫THATS IT IMA BE A BUTTERFLY INSTEAD IM DONE BEING A HUMAN.🦋
@alakiahm888411 ай бұрын
I hope you're feeling somewhat better now ❤❤
@triciabaron39372 жыл бұрын
Lol you caught me off guard lol great video honey
@sarahhjak76292 жыл бұрын
Where is the last video you referred to?
@j12barron2 жыл бұрын
I’ll keep these tips in mind. Now I’m in the mood to watch The Ugly Truth 🍿😉
@songbhaskar51762 ай бұрын
Alex
@Calida23082 жыл бұрын
But wht to do if he later chooses head over heart because of fear?
@karentrevino69042 жыл бұрын
It's not your job convincing anyone of your value, if they don't see your value someone else will. Just let them go...
@aselyne56312 жыл бұрын
You do nothing.
@missa10952 жыл бұрын
Whatttt? So u have to give away yourself?? What if you're the type of person who will not have sex with someone who's not your boyfriend?
@emily_rose_elyse2 жыл бұрын
I think he means that’s one way a connection could potentially develop, definitely don’t have sex unless you want to and not because you want to keep anyone interested!💕
@user-iv1my2tp5b6 ай бұрын
Can you make a video about how to drive away creepy men in the work place or school? I somehow keep being in situations where a teacher or boss/manager is acting selectively super inappropriate and strange toward me and it makes me feel nauseous even when I’m at home away from these places. I don’t want jeopardize my good grades or a job that could go on my resume by lashing out but I want to make it very clear that I’m disgusted and uncomfortable by their behavior
@cristinasanchez79142 жыл бұрын
Alex, no está el link para acceder a tí para obtener coaching
@saragarcia88192 жыл бұрын
I don’t see a link for coaching
@miss-F922 жыл бұрын
I’m over 3 years in and my man has still not told me he loves me. I’d say he shows it a lot. But if I would have heard after 3 months that’s all He has to offer…….I would have saved myself a lot of pain.
@DaniiMarie333 Жыл бұрын
Take sex off the table to lower his testosterone and allow oxytocin to connect u while having fun doing different stuff.
@ashajeremiahqw877511 ай бұрын
Updates ?
@miss-F9211 ай бұрын
@@ashajeremiahqw8775 Shortly after this I left. What I didn’t state was his constant physical and emotional abuse. it took over three years to get out and took extremes to make it happen. Noticed the red flags early don’t expect people change or grow. I’m not saying they don’t. I’m just saying this mindset will keep you in bad situations.
@umrilifenChrist2 ай бұрын
You look so handsome.
@safiyamezouuari41742 жыл бұрын
What about if you date without sex like if your religious
@karenalba60572 жыл бұрын
Exactly what if you don’t like casual sex
@ivyaquila91362 жыл бұрын
Pray, your prayers will be answered especially if it’s Gods will for you to be together, you’ll be together no games needed
@melissae72192 жыл бұрын
Its much better so that you wont be open to be used
@BrooklynBaby1002 жыл бұрын
You can still build attraction without sleeping with them.
@classy942 жыл бұрын
Men will bond with you by spending quality time together, sharing same interests, having your own life/hobbies and knowing your worth
@lolelyn1 Жыл бұрын
Ok wow, these points may be true but, actually those are no beautiful reasons to fall in love, i don't get how you speak about it as these were the only reasons one could fall in love, i think yoi could fall in live for several other reasons like heart connection, energy compatability, or trauma bonding.
@aishanoorsheikh1052 жыл бұрын
I agree
@sarrixthedesigner6509 Жыл бұрын
What about the saying... a man doesn't want a girl he can't get... a man wants a girl nobody can get... so hurting his ego... didn't sit well with me.
@angelinasamson69962 жыл бұрын
I love your videos ❤️ Thank you 🙏
@staceygodbee084 ай бұрын
Omg let me take care of and love that bb elephant 😭
@Lanafox10202 жыл бұрын
Is trauma bonding the same as hurting their ego?
@empressmagneta2 жыл бұрын
Right?!?
@starrhall81602 жыл бұрын
Trauma Bonding is exactly that: bonding thru shared trauma, like being strangled..both the aggressor and victim become bonded. It's utterly sick!
@treeseer15732 жыл бұрын
No trauma bonding is not healthy and is based on your past trauma.
@babycabbage220 Жыл бұрын
Damn Alex that smile tho 😮💨
@BenRoberts122 жыл бұрын
that what happened with tom cruise in the last samurai (2003)
@BenRoberts122 жыл бұрын
*that's
@liztowers2058 Жыл бұрын
I know within 5mins if he's the one or not. They're the same.
@DaniiMarie333 Жыл бұрын
Ove changed my mind a few times
@veemarie24882 жыл бұрын
Go mexicanas 🇲🇽 😽 💚🤍❤️🥰
@raeshaunholt26122 жыл бұрын
I learn better from realistic people. Stay flawwed baby