This is probably the last thing you want to hear today, but I do not care… I do not owe you anything. #relationships #loveme #love #truelove #fairytales #lovestory #myforever #marryme #husband #wife #couples
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@divinebeing24763 ай бұрын
This guy just explained my whole life story in a minute and half lol
@carolyncampbell2912 ай бұрын
This is my story, too
@alexandrinatiganus47142 ай бұрын
@@carolyncampbell291same here
@AyyImMCC2 ай бұрын
same
@yvonnegee40133 ай бұрын
True most time they think they deserve better and end up with nothing
@debbiepeterson68293 ай бұрын
Better sometimes means having nothing; well nothing but your sanity. Im leaving and at 61 no I don't think ill find someone, at this age you only remarry because your afraid of being alone. If you can't live with you, why should anyone else. That and a bunch of devorces who blew it the first time around. Most men remarry, most women don't. Narcissist usually get married right away. Like my ex . He put it off for a year, like I didn't know about her . I never wore fake nails yet twice I found them in his work duffle bag. Get your own clean underware boy. The first one was a high dollar salon nail, the second a cheap one. We know which woman he catered to the most. 1,2,3 with me being last. You heard that song Could've Been Me. All I had to do was be ok with the cheating and spending all his money on other women. Oh and attempted murder when my money was all gone. Life insurance, dont buy it. They have to bury you, just dont claim the body.
@outofthedarknessandintothe15383 ай бұрын
You don't want to hurt over and over again. I have to protect my heart. NO one else would.
@JamesBailey-q2m2 ай бұрын
I sincerely hope so 🙏 say's Gayla I sincerely hope and pray you find the right person 💯💝
@MurphyFarm20143 ай бұрын
The more humans I meet, the more I love my dog and my livestock etc... thy give so much love and ask for nothing but feeding and scratching 😊
@carolyncampbell2912 ай бұрын
@@MurphyFarm2014 They Need Hugs And Kisses, Too !
@MurphyFarm20142 ай бұрын
@@carolyncampbell291Absolutely
@eli923 ай бұрын
Thank you for these words. I appreciate them. Sometimes it feels like we’re the only ones going through this hell. I’m so tired.🙏🏻♥️
@sohinisen30423 ай бұрын
Pearls of wisdom. Thank you for sharing it. 🙏🏻
@luminitaberian16913 ай бұрын
You know, when you choose yourself, they label you lost. It's not because you are lost, but because they lost you . And they know this, but what they didn't know is that you knew this all along, even from the beginning. Now with due respect I want you to know that your eyes are so beautiful, they can speak. Thank you! 🤍
@allergictobs82613 ай бұрын
Jesus is coming back with his angels turn to God
@maryesquilin25263 ай бұрын
It’s exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you 🙏🏼
@leigh3103 ай бұрын
I say ignore all the "thems" who hurt me, and like the song...all those "thems" never knew they loved me until they let me go.
@thewhiskeymistress3 ай бұрын
Kind wisdom. Thank you.
@sandrajune11723 ай бұрын
At 80, I've learnt that nothing in life is permanent. Out hearts are broken in so many ways, whether that's a partner leaving us for another or the death of a loved one to the loss of possessions. We have to not lose ourselves. We are the greatest love we will ever have. The only constant.
@Stevo-klo454533 ай бұрын
I’m glad you have made it to that old ripe age. Keep going strong!
@joanb84893 ай бұрын
I agree with you.
@mem1701movies2 ай бұрын
Only bad things can be permanent...
@M.Sforza2 ай бұрын
Exactly..
@Melinda81622 ай бұрын
I know that…..but right now I can’t stop crying….and where do broken hearts go, how do we heal? 😢
@karenshurley23333 ай бұрын
Excuse me for being indecisive, I have learned to accept they will leave, even if it’s just a few feet away, they’ve removed themselves so I have no one to talk to. Some days, I need to be physically pulled out of bed; others, I need that safe place to fall when I close my eyes and fall backward.
@Adnaloy4113 ай бұрын
THERE WILL BE NOTHING LEFT FOR THEM TO CHASE!!! Greetings from Jacksonville, ARKANSAS. I resonate with this prophetic message. I know exactly who you're talking about. The person in question is a NARC.
@nancyhelmick79833 ай бұрын
I appreciate you making these videos 😊
@hesmitadave85523 ай бұрын
I am going through exactly what he explained. Thank you
@yvonnegee40133 ай бұрын
Truth sets you free
@neortik73 ай бұрын
AMEN Praise be Jesus
@BoffeLoffe-ks9wf3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much ,I really need to hear this .Now i hope i will change and not feel so guilte and sad anymore 🤗💝
@doreensmith67933 ай бұрын
Such wisdom....so kindly spoken. Life teaches all you said..... Thanks
@_Louise__3 ай бұрын
Those who chase novelty versus those who enjoy consistency. Those who don't feel, versus those who feel deeply. I know which side I choose... consistently
@fragipani81793 ай бұрын
I chose too.. And I let them know
@snowbirdspirit3 ай бұрын
Man, this might be the first thing I’ve wanted to hear. Not to be a burden and talk so much, but I have been trying to find something that resonates with my soul after a massive heartbreak from a guy who pretended to love me and be everything he’s not and it was so sudden to find out that he was a liar. I’ve been depressed for 9 months and nothing is getting me out of it. Thank you for saying this actually, because I needed it and someone finally said it. I actually feel very stupid some days for how much it hurt me, and today my own dad even told me “if you’re hanging on to someone who treated you like that then something is wrong with you” ….that hurt because I’m not hanging onto the guy. I know he’s bad for me and I know he’s not coming back, so I’m not holding onto him. I’m devastated and heartbroken, but I am not sitting here expecting he’ll come back. So thank you for saying it’s okay for me to hurt about what I’m going through. That guy will always be chasing for the next best thing and never find it again. He’s never happy with anything, even when he had a home and a little family with me, a.k.a our dog. I’m so depressed and I’m tired of it but I’m also tired of people saying it’s time to get past it. Why don’t they try being in my shoes? It’s miserable when someone made you believe they loved you but they love themselves more enough to hurt you and be complacent about it. Every day hurts even when I’m not thinking about it. I feel it everywhere man, so thank you for reminding me I’ll be happy. I’m hoping for that 💛
@ClaireQuinn5663 ай бұрын
Hello Snowbird. I had exactly the same experience. But you owe it to yourself to put it behind you & give thanks that you are free from someone who was very bad for you. "To thine own self be true". I also love the saying I found on line that says this --- "I've been on my own for some time now and I have to say, it's working out rather well - in fact, I think I'm THE ONE." 😁. Don't worry you will be fine, start enjoying life. Have hobbies & interests God is good. With love & best wishes from Ireland. 💖🇮🇪
@snowbirdspirit2 ай бұрын
@@ClaireQuinn566 Hey there Claire 🩷 thank you for your kind words. I’m not the type of person to easily go with the advice you have given, which is unfortunate because I wish I was. My heart just loves too much and I pray for him daily. Yes, it’s good that I’m free from someone that was bad for me, and maybe someday in the long run I’ll be glad, but for now, I am not. Thank you for sharing the quotes with me! They hold great wisdom as do you. I hope you are always well, Claire! 🩷 p.s. Ireland roots here! 🇮🇪❤️
@carolyncampbell2912 ай бұрын
This means you Love Deep in your Soul. I Grieved for someone 20 years! My first boyfriend and husband!
@snowbirdspirit2 ай бұрын
@@carolyncampbell291 absolutely, this is very true. I’m glad you understand it, cause a lot of people tell me to just “get over it, he’s bad for you” yes I know but I ACTUALLY loved him. First boyfriend here too. Truly loving someone isn’t just a feeling. It’s real attachment and concern and connection with that person, you can’t just “get over them”. I’m so sorry you grieved for so long. That’s what happens when you really love and your heart gets broken. I think I’ll always love this guy on some level, even when I’m past this stage. There’s a quote that seriously sums grief up and it says “grief is just love with no place to go” and it’s the most real thing I’ve ever heard. I hope you are doing better these days 💗
@grandmafrancie88002 ай бұрын
Dear snowbirdspirit, Please don't give up. I also suffer from depression, so I know what you're feeling. But something drew me to a music video that really touched my heart. I've since rediscovered the love of music in my life that I thought I had lost many years ago. Please, please, try to find that hook to grab onto that will help pull you up again. I'll pray for you. Sincerely, Fran💖💖
@evansellie34163 ай бұрын
Thank you man! I'm going through that in my life, it's nice to listen to your beautiful words from you, god bless you 🙏❤️
@annaruderman19623 ай бұрын
You make smile and laugh ,you know a lots of secrets ❤😊
@kaseykat12 ай бұрын
Ironically, this is exactly what I needed to hear today.
@AntonLaude3 ай бұрын
The worst thing I experienced in my life Was the feeling of permerntly undervaluing myself and passiveness, I had just so High Standarts how to treat others with respect and understanding for who they are but I lost myself on it. So I played a role for example when Im at school I just act sometimes like I understand why they are so disrespectfull and ugly but deep inside I just hate myself for that. Maby Im the one who acts wrong but I don't care anymore. Fitting in is just a Problem, but It feels like Im Over it now. Took me about 10 years🫠 Thank you
@kelmoc31113 ай бұрын
This was one of the most soulful messages I’ve heard on KZbin, keep going brother the people need this ❤
@TheBluEyedRogue3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I needed to hear that.
@curious_cat.empath51283 ай бұрын
have a blessed day
@catherinejoly86873 ай бұрын
Well I am to old to grow and to expect to be happy one day . I don’t feel strong any longer.
@lindamiller35393 ай бұрын
I know what you mean.
@mallorystewart61253 ай бұрын
I feel you
@julietphillips19913 ай бұрын
Just tired and angry...that's me.
@ZenfulHaze3 ай бұрын
i'm 27 next week and i feel that way for almost 10 years now, idk how to change that other than forcing myself to feel better, but, then, it'd be forced, wouldn't it? hm, idk, I just stick to feeling good because I want to feel good. How you feel ULTIMATELY Is a choice. whether it's a subconscious or a conscious choice, it is a choice. so make yours ♥
@julietphillips19913 ай бұрын
@@ZenfulHaze You make that "feeling good" business sound relatively simple...glad it works for you. I try everyday to get something done that I have on my procrastination list. If I do manage to scratch something off that list, then I feel less stressed, less depressed, less miserable and I guess you can say I feel "good."
@Rose_Arcana3 ай бұрын
YES, this is truth delivered just how it should be, with no sugar coating and and a warm smile. Thanks for that. I know that they are coming back and I AM VERY skeptical. 💔
@P9q-f1w3 ай бұрын
Man speaks the truth! Listen again❤🎉
@Earlover3 ай бұрын
The best way to live your life is to avoid all human interaction.
@bobbiemichaelsNyc863 ай бұрын
Sounds about right. The right perspective changes everything. Thank you
@kathleenwharton21393 ай бұрын
Yes! I got thrown away by a number of idiot men for the “fancy” woman. Hard to feel bad for them Now! 😊❤
@bellabookitty90143 ай бұрын
From what I've learned , most men don't give a damn about what's in a woman's heart and mind . They only care about how pretty and hot she is . Then , they end up getting hurt in so many different ways . Complete shallow dorks .
@doriskray14302 ай бұрын
Yeah, it sure hurts to be thrown away. After a 2 year friendship with a young man, he made a mistake and threw me away….without an explanation. If only he could see me now…married 44 years to a man I’m growing old with.
@kathleenwharton21392 ай бұрын
@@doriskray1430 Good for You! I finally found out why I attracted men who threw me away. I attracted them with my feeling of unworthiness. You may have changed your feelings about yourself and got you the Best Man!
@veronicadelafe7663 ай бұрын
I just heard it loud and clear. Sadly my love story ended this way
@alexishernandez2943 ай бұрын
Thanks very much. You are very kind. Your words are comfortable. God bless you and to all of yours. Kind Regards.
@theresapringle89123 ай бұрын
Absolutely so so well put and spot on you nailed it thank you for your words of encouragement and tough times.
@anuradhagoel8563 ай бұрын
Just chanced on this, recently my marriage of 23 yrs ended with a jolt. I was told not to make a big deal out of it as he wanted to explore n it's normal nowadays. The first question to God was my trust is broken, how could I even trust myself anymore. He sent me so many beautiful souls as friend and in random. Iam still full of love, still recovering from this addiction and building myself again peice by peice. Thank you for these videos, they help
@Melva-Tjong3 ай бұрын
Many thanks for your last words. I appreciate it that you have shared the ultimate truth. The evil spirit is that they intentionally play with people’s heart/ emotions for their own game. When you associate with them, all you gonna get are betrayal trauma, chronic pain and emotional wounds at the end of the day.
@damir98783 ай бұрын
Is basically people who are narcissistic judging emotions believing they have control over another, but is just in their mind, an illusion that they do have control. A lot of people on the street believing they make you and your person feel a certain way, when they hate you for leading a life full of love and joy, can't truly come through to you but believe there is a problem for you being a certain way, when they interfere with their nose, you don't force them to. There is nothing wrong with you, you never had wrong emotions or reactions, is just that they find a problem with how you are, you don't give them a reason to have it.
@janiejohnson-hv2 ай бұрын
*Larry Burkett's book on "Giving and Tithing" drew me closer to God and helped my spirituality. 2020 was a year I literally lived it. I cashed in my life savings and gave it all away. My total giving amounted to 40,000 dollars. Everyone thought I was delusional. Today, 1 receive 85,000 dollars every two months. I have a property in Calabasas, CA, and travel a lot. God has promoted me more than once and opened doors for me to live beyond my dreams. God kept to his promises to and for me*
@HarrisWay-kc7li2 ай бұрын
There's wonder working power in following Kingdom principles on giving and tithing. Hallelujah!
@FeriaAllenkempf2 ай бұрын
But then, how do you get all that in that period of time? What is it you do please, mind sharing?
@SaraBaxter-bf4rt2 ай бұрын
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
@SaraBaxter-bf4rt2 ай бұрын
Big thanks to Ms. Chisty Fiore❤️✨💯May God bless Christy Fiore services,she have changed thousands of lives globally
@CharlesRogers-sv4in2 ай бұрын
How can I start this digital market, any guidelines and how can I reach out to her?
@loripocock95613 ай бұрын
Love from Vancouver Island….💗🏖️🐳
@DarrenW-t7u3 ай бұрын
Thanks for putting this out there.
@lejanieandalis46143 ай бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏🥰
@MasterX20243 ай бұрын
“You will change”, “you will be happy”. I know there’s other, more brutally honest stuff in here, but those particular words really helped me feel good rn. Thank you.😊
@marionswanepoel86833 ай бұрын
Thank you LS Such true words so heartfelt ❤
@gilperez41693 ай бұрын
Very good right on point
@metrysuciyanti5553 ай бұрын
What you said it happened to me. People keep judging me for no reason at all. It's hurting me a lot but I still give a smile and doing good things. But I don't to be used anymore just because I'm kind it doesn't mean people can anything to me. I must quite but make them see if they in the position of judging by society, how about that? Thank's for this wonderful quote, God Bless You, Amen, Namaste 😇🙏✝️
@Rinesmyth3 ай бұрын
Idk man, she's living her dream right now and I've never been in a lower point.
@deltadaze68363 ай бұрын
Well, there's a time for that...but change is coming for EVERYONE, and faster than you think. Day by day deal with each circumstance bird by bird.
@angelrose91173 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!
@david.s.53363 ай бұрын
Thank you! Youre right!...i love u!
@LauraJG4God3 ай бұрын
Nailed it 👌 ❤
@ChristineMeland3 ай бұрын
Always Always speaking from the ❤️ I so appreciate your “realness”& raw messages that mean so much..Stay Strong.. I hear you,I see you ..Have a beautiful day
@fxulla3 ай бұрын
Accept Jesus.
@bevreid29463 ай бұрын
So true thank you bless
@aleksanderwhite99463 ай бұрын
Exactly! So stop getting so upset when you hear the truth. Or stop applying rules to everyone else that you don't apply to yourself
@lydiaveldhuizen31573 ай бұрын
This is what a lot of people do.
@sumaiyahakoojee57183 ай бұрын
Thanks beautiful soul..so true seek yea the kingdom and his righteous and all this things shall be added unto you... Repent and forgive and seek spiritual knowledge and ask to be guided in faith.. spiritual love Rules no pain no gain from darkness to light... God bless...
@ShatyiDavis3 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@TheCollective873 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to hear !
@hemalakshmanan81903 ай бұрын
Your message is very genuine 👌
@victoriabonnell73 ай бұрын
You’re right. I don’t take advice from men. So yes. It IS the last thing I want to hear.
@shellylavigne59133 ай бұрын
Funny… a wise BOY got it
@victoriabonnell73 ай бұрын
@@shellylavigne5913 I’m not a fucking boy sir.
@victoriabonnell73 ай бұрын
@@shellylavigne5913 I fucking told you to stop misgendering me SIR. I am a FEMALE. I MENSTRUATE. Now STAY THR FUCK out of my newsfeed.
@amandaterral53663 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@zuleilasalie98793 ай бұрын
"I've turned my pain into power yeah. I took my power back yeah and I'm a stronger person than before. Not looking back again yeah. Super reading 100 %yeah. Thanks for sharing yeah.!! 💐🤗🙏🙏👍
@Blessed-tf5yw3 ай бұрын
I needed to hear it! Thank you❣️ Thank you Universe🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻
@TresaMoreno-Vigil3 ай бұрын
Such a great message..wow.😮
@sharonadams88553 ай бұрын
That was Beautiful healing medicine..... Please! Continue......
@lionsjourney293 ай бұрын
The universe will one day make them experience it? Eh....i sure as hell hope not. Tem years recovering from severe PTSD after dad unalived himself infront of us basically. Severe under treated bipolar disorder. 30 years of isolation and friendlessness/romancesless. Mood instability to a terrible degree. 2 suicide attempts. Deconstructing, redefining concepts and ideas associated with "making it in life", "success" "getting better" into something more workable. Finding a way to daily keep going with no self esteem bordering on no self love and autoginy or self loathing. I do NOT wish that on anyone, not even enemies or the person that caused my father to die. I am not strong, i just dont think there are do overs or an afterlife to die for. I am not strong. Its all ive known thats why i can endure it.
@Psychicblonde672 ай бұрын
Of course, that's why all my ex's want me back. Don't work that way. The one true love died in front of me. Nothing the same after that. I was impressed by your life story. Life deals a very difficult hand often. May you find all that you wish and even more of what you need. ❤
@nikkijooste-strombeck50452 ай бұрын
I don't know why you popped up here or why I clicked on the video to watch but I felt like you were speaking directly to me in my current situation!! Thank you.
@iulia41473 ай бұрын
That morning is coming - by unsided relationship, especially when our partner fooled us, hiding from us the fact that he left us already secretly behind long ago. But keeping the appearance that he is in contact with us in certain form...still. Unfortunatelly, the story is real . ⁉️
@patsydesrochers30872 ай бұрын
I haven't cried in over 15 years. I refuse to let my narsasisst husband know how his behavior and words cut me open. This, your touching into the part I hide...made me cry.
@user-gd4ri4pt8j2 ай бұрын
What a calming voice you have. I feel that because I'm getting older I will not have the opportunity to meet someone. EVERY man I went out with has hurt me and all I heard from them was "Your so nice" and that's because I do not like to bring anyone hurt and your right you get use to the hurt. I always felt when I was with someone they were always chasing something better and I love what you said that they will become to realize there's nothing left to chase. Funny thing is more than one of those men wanted me back and it was a big "NO" for me. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. I do hope I meet a nice man who will appreciate me.
@tradingtanamera3 ай бұрын
Wise words...Hurt has the power to heal if you allow it.
@GhTr-dz3fh3 ай бұрын
If ever I didn't come across this video today...I would have ended up broken heart forever....Thank you so much for reviving me in fresh thoughts from the next moment onwards...tomorrow I would be stronger than ever before...Stay Blessed dear..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔💯💯💯💯💯
@annaruderman19623 ай бұрын
Who are you?❤😊
@kathyjankovic60573 ай бұрын
Thank you. You are an encourager, you are so kind and speak from experience and you soothe the hurt. ❤
@sharonmerritt62983 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right! Kudos to you!
@titasghosh33503 ай бұрын
To the one I love, I can let my heart be broken to pieces if you like. I can let you play with those pieces if you like. Just I pray to God every day, don't leave me.
@gavinelliot35642 ай бұрын
Humans are crap/that's why I avoid em.
@daphannerobbins42853 ай бұрын
Do I know you?
@monkeyhoe48153 ай бұрын
This is amazing. Thank you for posting❤
@margaretvannieuwenhuizen32053 ай бұрын
Thank you yes being hurt and judge is not nice I love that you are so honest thank you are so inspiring love listening to as always take care ❤❤🤗
@veronicadelafe7663 ай бұрын
Wow this hit hard. Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this.
@ambigordi3 ай бұрын
Truth is meant to be told ..when u long enough into someone n we try to make it work no matter wat the cost we always consider wat everyone thinks of us n y people belittle our actions let people see it from their perspective n then they will understand yyy.. who..n how
@NathanStephens-ee9be3 ай бұрын
Damn bro. That's awesome! Thank you!
@heartofpuregold3 ай бұрын
Good
@ayeshaleephotography3 ай бұрын
Thank you. That the best thing I’ve heard this year so far. ❤
@archieolmstead66882 ай бұрын
He's SADFISHING YOU FOLKS.😂
@sr07163 ай бұрын
People really need to learn to heal and not live in the past this is how it gets better. It takes time but you will feel better
@daphnerodriguez99803 ай бұрын
THANKS YOU GOODNESS 🌟 DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜,REAL WISDOM
@annaruderman19623 ай бұрын
I love and i forgive, ❤😊
@davidbushby25573 ай бұрын
You took the words right out of my mouth reference my ex
@dannybiddinger2 ай бұрын
Very well said I love it 👍. I totally agree
@marybotha21323 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@AhMonie13 ай бұрын
👀 I love his speaking voice... His voice and face just scream wisdom 🔥💯💯
@carolyncampbell2912 ай бұрын
He has very kind eyes
@susangribble68302 ай бұрын
VOTE TRUMP TO STOP THE MADNESS❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Divinelove5553 ай бұрын
❤
@cecilia93793 ай бұрын
🌞
@Tasuke3 ай бұрын
Thanks, I appreciate it
@annaruderman19623 ай бұрын
The truth shall set me free, in Jesus name amen 🙏 🙌 ❤😊