This is what we HATE about each other! 😡🤬

Totoo ba na the more you hate the more you love? 😂 We always talk about lovey dovey things but this week we are tackling that things about each other that we HATE... ugh!?!
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- What will make you permanently hate or dislike someone you love?
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[@fatimahblaiselumangco9423]

I really love the fact that Mikael can easily put into words the thoughts that are running inside Megan's head. I mean, not everyone can easily tell what his or her partner is trying to convey. Good job guys! 💙

[@yescliche2025]

Same! He keeps pressing Megan in a nice way. ❣️❣️

[@gelgiron6262]

I think it is better that Megan is not responsive to arguments. I think it is her way of being humble, of trying to understand Mikael’s point of view. It would have been worse if they were both very direct. It is difficult to argue when one is not capable of understanding because he/she is not able to give way

[@fatimahblaiselumangco9423]

First take away: It is really important to have a sound conversation with your partner specially about things that affects your relationship.

[@jonahcastillo5272]

~B: I sometimes hate that you are always right! F: Because I'm manipulative - #RELATEtoFOFO 😂😜 ~"When your partner calls you out, it's okay to feel heavy, because it's real." - 💯 ~Bonez: "Ano 'to malaking tapa?" - 🤣🤣🤣 Super relate to Bonez's answer on when to permanently hate someone you love - when someone made a choice to disengage from you and made you feel no longer needed. That's exactly what I felt when a friend opted not to communicate what went wrong and discuss what needs to be fixed to restore our relationship. She suddenly ended our friendship without trying and giving any explanation. It's saddening because she's the least person I expect to lose. And yeah that hurts, but I had no choice but to accept. 💔 Anyways, love you couple! 💙

[@lylexy723]

I love the way they tell the things they hate/dislike about one another without trying to defend or explain themselves. Embracing each other's flaws at its finest. Salamat Bonez and Fofo! My wife and I are learning so much from your podcast. 💕

[@susanmilitante2606]

am watching.. started to like after viewing "Love of my life"...

[@joyannbordaje5107]

Omgee..so relatable. I laughed how Megan said that Fofo is like always "Right". I and my partner watched your podcast and his opinion towards fofo at first was like that too but if we think about it, indeed Mikael can justify well what he is saying and surely has a good point. Just WOW! Thanks for this guys! I enjoyed listening as always 💕

[@ellegipark1303]

Ellegi Park I agree with Megan’s answer, that would certainly what would make me permanently hate someone... when people just starts to disengage from you and they don’t convey the reason why they are acting that way. And all your efforts of trying to smooth out whatever is going on seems in vain... grabe hugot dito hahahaha

[@marianina5714]

Its a major growth in a relationship when both of you see each other's different side. Accepting and helping them to be better not pushing them down but giving them reasons to be better❤ i love you couple

[@chbcdealers4578]

I love this couple .full of love and wisdom

[@rumorsph8092]

But the opposite of love was never hate. It's INDIFFERENCE. Nonetheless, great video!

[@cecerenavarro9507]

This episode definitely shows strength and bravery how you can comfortably say what you hate on each other and continually see the positive impact on the efforts you put in words for you to optimistically understand what you both are trying to mean.

[@GEORGINA1013]

relate na relate talaga!! this happened for employee and employer relationship. I just felt helpless and worthless. there was so much anger and hate. nagkasagutan, nagkaiyakan. pero the important thing was, acknowledged your shortcomings and humble thyself! And you ended up forgiving that person not because you want you, but because you deserve it. you deserve to give yourself a peace of mind and a world with so much respect and self values. Thank you! saya saya ko!

[@shan6567]

I can relate to Bonezy because it's so hard for me to open up or to call out something that I don't like about this person and it's bugging me forever :(( I always feel like if I voice out my dislikes about them, our pinagsamahan will gonna drift apart :(( but alright I think that's just how life works, some people aren't meant to be in our lives and it's HARD to accept it especially if you've known each other for quite sometime and in the middle of your relationship, it would be reveal that you aren't meant to be together :( [this can be especially apply in friendship too!]

[@priitimaebandril-overos6416]

Can I just say... your podcasts are really authentic! We can feel it. I like how you dig deeper into topics like these because this is part of the reality. I'm currently entering into a new relationship and I loved how you influenced us.. we can talk about anything! Our foundation is transparency 💯 Thank you for staying real to your audience! You're such an inspiration. 🌻

[@tuburanlovelyjanet.5358]

I super love your relationship. It's something that I wanna have someday. Yung you help each other grow🤗👏

[@nimfaannbana8460]

Thank God that you are different. You just need to accept that you two are different and you are a gift and a blessing to each other.

[@Danielle-ti9zb]

Can you also share your thoughts and ideas about your language of love?☺

[@elok3]

Open open na

[@barbwired10]

I love this conversation you’re having. It shows how real u are as a couple. My first time to watch you guys in full! Keep it up! Funny that loud Mikael bit lol

[@talitz5885]

LOVE listening to your podcasts!

[@trishj6402]

29:00 this one struck me that made me reflect. thank you to both of you! more podcasts to come!

[@danielinsarmiento3075]

I found myself in the shoes of Fofo while my bf in Bonez’ #superrelate 🤣🤣🤣 I shared this podcast to my bf so he can relate as well and maybe affect him to improve his conversational skills 💛 Btw, I discovered this podcast during quarantine lang and by then I binge watch/listen na most of your podcast. You too are so cute and soooo inspiring! 🤗 Thanks for bringing us into your #relationshipgoals world! 💛

[@lengtdr]

Been curious about this. Behind every relationship goals talaga to 😍

[@ladymiakalaig7952]

The podcast I super like 👌😍 Learned a lot from Megan and Mikael. ❤️

[@aubreyjaynepadilla9418]

Super relate! Thank you so much, this taught me a lot on how to deal with the things he and I "hate" about each other.

[@lolitafrancia1193]

Love your podcasts. Honest and interesting.

[@johndanielgomez3628]

calling out someone is actually giving them the opportunity to grow. (in a nice way as much as possible) ❤️

[@johndanielgomez3628]

ANG CUTE NUNG “EEEHHH” 🥺❤️

[@angeljanson5682]

every podcast talaga ang daming learnings 😊❤️ keep safe both and more blessings 🙏🏻

[@daphnepapa9267]

Love this episode!! Laughed a lot!! ❤️😂

[@maureencabrera7029]

Megan-you are so pretty even without makeup.

[@itsajanyway2843]

My answer to the question is when the people you love stopped listening on you and just kept on listening to himself.

[@Yndaimagz90]

Hello love birds 😘😘😘😘 thanks for the new upload😍😍 so much love and inspiration. God bless fav couple 😍🥰

[@allyzonmaesabio4362]

I enjoyed this podcast! Have some few laughs about some of the things you hate about each other. I agree that this is the reality of every relationship, there will always be highs and lows and of course honesty is a must! Please make a vlog on fast talk with Megan and Mikael.

[@beckas.5518]

Really love this couple ♥

[@lemiamagan4303]

Your relationship will go deeper with that open communication. I came to realize so many things with your topic. Thank you for sharing your experience. It is a learning experience.

[@ginecastillo6993]

another reason to stan this couple 😍✨

[@yollyhernandez5782]

There are things na we hate or dislike about a person na we are finding some hard time to bluntly tell them. It is helpful that you, in a way, encouraged me to be upfront coz definitely telling them would make them aware for after all, it would help them. I love your podcasts 💗

[@besprenbrian]

Because you commit to be honest and truthful you discuss a very delicate matter with ease and it shows that it's hard to hear fr the person you love the things they hate about urself it stings. Because it pinpoints to the trait or habit you need to change to take action to be better and it takes tenacity and acceptance to let your inferior self die and be reborn by being a new person a better one.

[@charoaguila181]

I love this couple. I always watch your vlog and learn so much . Keep it up 👍. Stay safe, stay healthy. God bless you both.

[@Michikohira]

Loving all your podcast episodes ❤️❤️❤️ Where is the link though for your podcast externally?

[@frankndirangu4340]

😂😂wooow.....this podcast is lit.....the courage of being truthful to each other is so strong....Big up you two...... Big fan from Nairobi Kenya

[@maigertos4194]

Very interesting and enlightening! Keep it up guys ❤

[@hairanaandalani2131]

I really love this couple so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@alphaemarfa4941]

OMG super relatable. Thank you for this podcast

[@kringkring6264]

Love you both ♥️

[@megboiser9157]

i love you guys so much 🥺💛

[@leylahsawal32]

Love you Bonez & Fofo....very smart & podcasts so informative. God bless you both, keep safe & healthy.🙏❤️🙏❤️

[@melfiesaldonido5339]

Ugh! All i can say is.. with all episodes that i have watched for rhe past 3 days since i discovered your podcast (after liking Nikolai in Love of My Life 😁)... WALANG TAPON! As in! All topics were absolutely interesting and you two are superb!

[@makenakarimi6385]

i love love this topic..am so megan when she said that she felt that the other partner(boyfriend)is always right& know how to explain and stand firm in their decisions while her(now me) is the the quiet one doesnt know how to express their feelings thats so me but have improved over the couple of years and also the other part of your parner always leaving things where they at instead of the right place that is so my boyfriend,i always confront him cause of that and he still forgets every now &then,the other part of being a little spontaneous is so me but i have toned it down hehehe...i've learnt alot from this..i little critic though that part of ''jolong vibes'' i didnt get anything at all cause you guys spoke philipines throughout so advice is you should try as much as possible to speak English cause us from kenya(Africa) cant understand philipinos...much much love from kenya

[@xDcrimson2906]

Can’t help but get distracted by your cute sneaker home slippers! 😭😂 I was wondering where u guys got it hehe love you both! 💓

[@berrycloud3340]

thank you for this podcast

[@giocarlolozano8499]

We also did this before, it felt offensive at first but as the lists goes on its starting to become funny and healthy for the both of us. Keep this kind of topic up! Good job mikael and meg!

[@issamaecabaltera6455]

this podcast is not only for couples but for everyone

[@alfarehenry6341]

This podcast episode has a lot of humor and so funny!

[@marisgalinea8740]

that hate or dislike feelings usually makes the relationships stronger if treated in a positive way rather than take it as something against you. I'm so glad that you two were able to discuss your differences and accept each other's flaws. Keep loving each other and may GOD bless you more! ❤

[@cassierabe9112]

You guys are cute together!!! ❤

[@alphalarong4187]

New subscriber here. 😊😁 Thanks for this vid. Andami kong mga narealize and natutunan from your podcast. Stay strong!!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@noriakahar1102]

they’re a saying “The more hate the more you love” HAHA loveyouboth❤️

[@megandavid4942]

It's my first time watching ur podcast. ❤❤❤😍

[@isatotz341]

This podcast is very relatable.

[@GEORGINA1013]

cute ni fofo, wahahahah... low point of myself~!!! how dare you??? hahahaha #BehindRelationshipGoals click na clicm to ha. other side of these 2 amazing people!

[@ivonyoandasan2945]

Eto lang siguro yung napagtiyagaan kong pakinggan na podcast for the first time kasi sobra akong nakakarelate at some situations or scenario is napagdaan ko i mean namin ng partner ko.. haha so i send this video to him para matauhan din siya.. haha nakakatuwa lang is parang ako si mikael at yung jowa ko si megan haha vice versa lang! 😂😂😂 Anywaysss thanks guys for sharing this to us! I love you both naaa ☺️😍

[@travelwithgelloren]

I love how they spoke.

[@ChaiWonders]

i totally relate from the start... he sounds like he's always right and i'm just quiet... then it drives him insane when i dont respond... totally on the same boat 😂😂😂 ❤❤❤ always love listening to your podcast... very real and lots of diff scenarios that we most can relate with. ❤ watching you guys from Dublin 🍀

[@rubyc.n.7089]

What would make me dislike my partner is in a way similar to Mikael..it frustrates me if my partner does not respond. I don't have to always be right, but responding for me meant you actually care about the relationship, me and most especially..yourself. ❤

[@kaedellosa619]

Love you both. Keep safe. ❤❤❤ Idk why I don't receive notifications of new vids even though, nakasubscribe naman ako. Is there something wrong na nakalimutan kong i-set? ☹

[@minggirl5128]

Baka pag nag comment ako dito mag kajowa na ko! Hahahahah. Chor. 🤣😂

[@alexskyla1551]

Wow!! Naka relate aqo Doon sa super loud voice haha, coz aqo din ganun masyado daw malakas boses ko hahaha!! I love that they are so open to each other about everything! As for me what makes me hates someone permanently was when I tried my best to be honest but the other person just keep on and continue lying to me! For me being lied on specially when I am trying to fix something however the other party is not helping out, that's the time I can say that, that's it!! I'm done! I enjoyed your podcast @megan @mikael keep going!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@michelletagudin6360]

😭😭😭 soooooooo me na super quiet lang in every discusssions/ disagreements!😅 and 101% of the time, I'D JUST CRY!!!🤣 tina-try ko naman din magsabi ng sa side ko but pag itry ko, wala na, hagulgol na lol

[@jarynubla]

Relate much. On my end, sinabihan kasi akong nagger o palaaway ng family so I try to avoid arguments in my relationships, partly dahil takot akong mag-away at magkahiwalay. Well, as the saying goes, pagsasabi ng tapat, pagsasama ng maluwat

[@leneasuncionofficial]

I am inspired and remember my partner how we undergo in this process ✨

[@ruedigergrosch8651]

Parang matalino si Mik👶🤗Nakakainloves ❤️..relate much🤦,they are cute 🤗❤️🌻

[@helloimjae]

so happy i found out u guys have podcast ;m;

[@belynndaCA]

Yayyy I'm early for this one. Love you both!! ❤️❤️

[@cherry-annevilla1532]

Binge watching your podcast 😀

[@jude7130]

tough question “how will you permanently hate the person you love?” if that person will keep on disappointing you ...or maybe same with bonez if nag dis-engage na that person ...nice topic again ❤️

[@heymiwmiw6646]

It's so funny seeing Fofo blush every time Bonez mentions what she hates about him hahahahaha. I can feel secondhand embarrassment!

[@GEORGINA1013]

everytime I do that, I would end up crying kasi I'm totally hurt, nanginginig ako. pero, thank you for this #Lovers, this apply not just bf/gf relationship. 👏👏👏

[@nypavlog]

Wow im learning.... hehehehe i love you both..... i will recommend my partner to listen/watch to you guys, he love podcast, you guys my 1st to listen podcast.... i really enjoy watching n listening your topic so much of learning and realization.... more to come, keep safe guys... naifa here living in barcelona.... thank you.....

[@titacruz4368]

Still my favorite couple.😍

[@alsuropia4960]

I don't usually feel kilig sa mga romantic relationship and i've been trying to reach out sa ganoong feeling but i don't understand why this two makes me smile out of nowhere.I mean,dude there are times na they're not even doing anything pero ngiting ngiti ako.

[@marinelrecomanta6778]

LOL I love you both. Love your cute ways. I also love this topic of kinds of relationships. I really like what Fofo said that you have to feel ok to yourself doing favors or whatever for people. My example is my older sister right now who is 80 years old and recovering from gall bladder surgery. When she finally came home from the hospital, she needed a whole lot of help, physically and psychologically. She is in a lot of pain to a point that she becomes unreasonable in asking for help on anything like asking to be stood up so she can try and walk with the use of a walker (mind you, she is much smaller than I am but gosh!!! she is heavy). I have a hard time making her sit up first considering the pain she is going through, then making her stand up? Wow. I exert all of my energy to do that. I usually catch my breath after all that. Finally, after a few steps with the walker, she will ask to be seated on the couch and start asking for a glass of water, juice, coffee, tea and use the washroom which is the hardest of all (one after the other every 10 to 15 minutes). Mind you, these requests drove me nuts. Anyway, these are just moments occurring on a daily basis. Her husband ( who gets "pikon" at times) and I take turns doing all that. She is "old school" and didn't want anyone outside the family to look after her but I was able to explain and talk her into it. To date, there is a nurse and a physical therapist coming in to check up on her and a caregiver to attend to all her needs. To make me feel "ok" like what Fofo said is I take breaks and go home to my own place every now and then so that when I'm ready to face my situation with my sister, I will feel ok to do whatever especially now that she's getting the help professionally. Thanks, Bonez and Fofo for discussing all those that happened and are happening to both of you. It validates my idea and what I do on how to feel "ok".

[@camillecatu7969]

Super relaaaaaate to Bonez! Huhuhaha Yung alam mong may point ka pero di mo madefend. 😅

[@redefinedliving5974]

omg love this couple hehe. i was like mikael in my previous relationship and i liked tackling issues. my ex-bf didn't. so yeah we didn't last :(

[@isoprophillip]

I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING WHEN BONEEZY WENT BONKERS ON 17:56 HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA

[@vadarod]

I can relate to this on so many levels!

[@jude7130]

Megan just saw your guesting innondonesia back in 2014 or 2013??it’s soo funny, i feel you 😊

[@angelami9814]

Communication is the key 🔑

[@JhannaKatryce]

Waaaahhh same thoughts with megan!!!

[@auuisthename]

Love language topic plith!!! ♥️

[@cellibuna3313]

Nakarelate ako kay Bonez, ung i just listen and i have thoughts sa mind ko and i want to say it but i ended up being quiet and not to voice out anything. Ang hirap magexpress. i guess ung kausap ko eh magaling lang magplace ng arguement or POV which sounded beneficial sa akin. So i tend to agree to it even i have something in my mind. Eventually, slowly i'm now voicing out my thoughts to any conversation (in respectful and good manner) and i feel good about it. 😃

[@ariannieclerosaldo6893]

Ang simple ni ate megan kahit babae ako naiinlove ako sa kanya 😍❤

[@cristelandres8223]

Same here girl. I just love her simplicity.

[@beatomelden1536]

It’s true when they say that everything, including how to freely open up to one another, is a process. It’s a thing that must be worked on everyday until it becomes part of your healthy routine as partners ❤️

[@elok3]

Buka bukaan open open na

[@joanna18lira]

Hi Bonez and Fofo! May I request for an episode about trust issues/building trust? #BehindRelationshipGoals Thank you in advance!! :)

[@marnellysimmons8017]

I’m Watching while we are not busy at work.

[@zmaeramirez7477]

27:21 SOOO TRUEEEE!!!!

[@alyrivera2118]

I have the same struggle as Megan's, yes, for me it's a struggle to be able not to speak up specially in an argument, it's not just easy for me and it's really frustrating. Coz sometimes I tried to speak up and doesn't go well and does not deliver the exact opinions/ideas that I have inside me. Maybe it is also the reason why I like guys who can speak their heart up coz it makes me want to improve myself in that issue/ struggle. I love you guys! I'm just so relate!

[@alyrivera2118]

Plus, this is one the best podcast I've watched coz this is not just good for couples out there but it is super helpful for us all on how we could improve our relationship with others be it your partner, family, friends or even to someone you just met.

[@faithluvdupo4070]

cutieeee couple

[@zmaeramirez7477]

30:37 HAHAHAHA CUTE!

[@annamayor6866]

I admire you both. Now, time to check Decenaputo😁

[@tezmarisdiaries2565]

I was curious about Mikael's birthday. I am somehow like him, like to justify my point and stand by it and I hate people when they just keep quiet and accept things... and... I found out that we have the same birthday January 6... ahahaha... omg. I hate also my husband when he just keep quiet and ignore the issues and tend to lambing me without really talking about it.