This Is Why Chrissy & Jim Jones Will NEVER Get Married

For close to two decades, Jim Jones and Chrissy Lampkin have been boo’d up. Just like any relationship, they’ve had their share of ups and downs. At one point, they proposed to each other, but they still haven’t jumped the broom. This brings us to the question: do they really need to legalize things?
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[@lionelluva]

It’s giving “special friend” in each other’s obituary

[@Lexx1192]

Omg facts 😭😭😭

[@missmelanin7066]

I'M SCREAMING! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ShanecaRene]

LMAO I'm dead azz weak 😂😆💀

[@rrg]

💀💀

[@03lisajade]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@StushgyalTV]

These men who have these weird relationships with their mom have a pattern of never treating women appropriately

[@jayc5756]

Mmm. Yeah, that is a possible red flag pattern. You might be right about that 1 sis.

[@BacDaFukUp4life]

that throws the ole phrase if treats his mamma right he'll treat you right....in the trash!!

[@NinaSimone3]

He even said that his mommy taught him to kiss and give head. Ewww

[@gorgeousfrazier5903]

💯

[@Not_yourMOM]

What’s a “weird relationship “?

[@samanthalake5011]

I will NEVER forgive Chrissy for proposing to Jim.🤣

[@teriewilliams8614]

When I watched it, I was like… #GIRLBYE

[@Chitownhomestead]

Ikr..

[@Kekeisafoodie]

Me too tbh lol 😂, that was embarrassing to watch

[@indigomoon777]

@@Kekeisafoodie It was cringe & Im not against a woman proposing to a man. I don’t care about marriage at all. But I remember closing my eyes watching it on tv.

[@vikkiholmes2515]

nd that's why he never married her and never will

[@cela9852]

IMO, Chrissy is not a case of woman who is okay not being married and has always felt at peace without it. She is a case of a woman who got tired of asking for marriage, gave up and settled because she realized it was never gonna happen.

[@jayc5756]

Exactly

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

Agreed! She cared about marriage when she kneeled on the dusty ground to propose _to him._ Legend has it, her dignity is still laying on the floor.

[@IsSalvationReal]

She use to live in the Street life. Her name is attached to Jay-Z. She’s very protected. Some of LHH stars, main jobs, real estate, foundations, music, are coverups. For others in the industry, that’s a rabbit hole. She can’t leave. Why do people not understand a lot of these people won’t date outside the industry due to the dirt on there name. So she has a mentality. When you really think & live a certain way, you keep bringing the same people near you. Hers just never left.

[@kamwilliams5541]

This! I bet if he asked her to get married tomorrow, she would jump up and damn near run down the aisle.

[@lionelluva]

Agree!!!

[@theeshavon]

When she gave him that ring! I knew they’d never walk down the aisle.

[@SpiceyKy]

Unfortunately, I thought the same thing.

[@clarisapolk7050]

I thought the same thing!!!! I'm surprised that they are still together.

[@rrg]

👀

[@joslinmartin2630]

I agree

[@cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204]

I just felt second hand embarrassment for her in that moment. Like sis get off your knees in front of the world begging a mf hand in marriage. Noooooo

[@dorothyspeaks6997]

I am 28 and have been with someone for 6 years. I waited and waited hoping he would see that I was “Wifey Material” after many conversations with God and much meditation I realized straight up this man just isn’t for me and I am wasting my time. The relationship is now ending and I am so thankful for the lessons I was taught and thankful I know what NOT to do in a relationship next time. My point of this comment and the biggest thing I learned was men are intentional… if he wanted to HE WOULD. Period.

[@jayc5756]

Exactly. And yeah, that's a fact. We are. He either doesn't want to get married At All. Or just doesn't see himself marrying you. So it is what it is

[@vturner]

Exactly, Jim claims to love her sooooo much but for some reason it seems like his desire to NOT marry her was stronger than the love he has for her.

[@4theLoveofCurls]

Good for you! It doesn't take a man years to know what or who he wants. It's better to move on than waste your time.

[@gingerwingerful]

This time you will meet someone won't date long and get married he is the one for u till death do u apart don't turn down his marriage proposal.good luck

[@Ash2beauty]

I’m so glad that there are still women who value themselves enough to not settle for a man that will not marry them. Marriage is honorable in the sight of God anything outside of that is playing house and I am too grown.

[@Waifu_Domo]

She's been in this weakened state for years basically, taking him back again and again in fear of losing him. He's not bringing anything to the table like she said out her own mouth. Low self esteem will lock you into toxic relationships like this. Ladies, learn from her situation. Love yourself and don't settle for less or nothing at all.

[@dianajean3963]

Yes jealousy violent rages chrissy been a real man wants a Respectfulness of a wonderful main woman this why Jim Jones & chrissy hadn't not ever gotten marriage...any relationship rather its man to man woman to woman man to woman about growth! On a job stability its about growth bonus, raises, promotions even in the music industry about growth of making more money from beginning as a singer to banking when a women pregnant the baby growth inside stomach until 9 months then its goes from toddlers to teenager to adults its called humans growth scale no relationship remains the same unless its goes from boyfriend girlfriend mistresses concubines side chicks booty call just a familiar of been seeing in publicly that's not True Love hello

[@jayc5756]

FR

[@eboni257]

Amen.❤️🙌🏿

[@Maui_Gyrl_]

This is why I yawn when Black women tell other Black women to wait until marriage before having kids! She is waiting and waiting and now she can't biologically have a child. Let's face the facts, Black men have the LOWEST martial rates at just 28% while other groups of men in this country, are in the 70s percent. Black men have access to every group of women and still they don't marry and still back men are in other ppl communities, making those other women making them baby mamas too. So black men actions tell the world they don't value marriage, women or their own kids.

[@Maui_Gyrl_]

@@dianajean3963 This is why I yawn when Black women tell other Black women to wait until marriage before having kids! She is waiting and waiting and now she can't biologically have a child. Let's face the facts, Black men have the LOWEST martial rates at just 28% while other groups of men in this country, are in the 70s percent. Black men have access to every group of women and still they don't marry and still back men are in other ppl communities, making those other women making them baby mamas too. So black men actions tell the world they don't value marriage, women or their own kids.

[@nkolemwaba2526]

The kissing thing was weird and it wasnt a joke, he probably thought it was a cute story because that is how dysfunctional his relationship with his mum is

[@Chitownhomestead]

Exactly..like yukkkkk

[@djming101]

Nancy just refuse to cut the umbilical cord she might as well marry Jim cause ain’t nobody else gone marry him

[@thinkb4udecide6]

Yea I was like wtf did ye just say ?!

[@nkolemwaba2526]

@@thinkb4udecide6 me too

[@MJBABYPHAT]

I believe him too. And if his mom tongue kiss him what else she might have done with him hmmmmm...

[@missmelanin7066]

Now all of a sudden marriage isn't everything, it's not a priority. Girl bye... she's trying to save face. 🙄 We don't believe you. 🤷

[@rrg]

Well, after all these years it sounds like she's just over it. As long as she's happy, right?

[@missmelanin7066]

@@rrg I BEEN over it & I'm not even involved. 😫

[@SizzlaFanBenita]

Exactly

[@mekasims1981]

🙄💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@Covers-and-Commentary]

@@missmelanin7066 🤣

[@RayBirama]

Can we acknowledge how beautiful Chrissy is!!!!! ❤😍

[@Unpackyourthoughts]

Right. She’s a natural beauty 🥰😍

[@HisQueen009]

Yes, she is gorgeous😍

[@worldrenowedcasemanager]

She is absolutely beautiful and certainly would have been a wife waayy before now if she wasn't set on Jimmy. I'm sad for her

[@dreamkitty]

she would’ve had a beautiful daughter 😢 she still can ..

[@mzshanti2012]

On the outside but not her personality and she’s a Taurus like me. Naw she ain’t all the way beautiful, not with how she harassed Yandy

[@queensade1325]

She settled a long time ago and he’s comfortable with stringing her along, it’s actually really sad no matter how she tries to sugarcoat it.

[@sbrooks904]

he provides for her and dedicates himself to her. how is that stringing along?

[@sheenahammond1442]

@@sbrooks904 so him being cold distant and mean is dedication right. I never seen him look at her or be affectionate towards her

[@queensade1325]

@@sbrooks904 How is he dedicated when he 1. cheats and 2. refuses to marry her? He has strung her along for so long she convinced herself she doesn’t want marriage anymore because she know it isn’t going to happen. Who in their right mind wants to date someone forever?

[@keyawnspoor9903]

I agree with this comment it's truly sad 😔 ima pray for them

[@Chitownhomestead]

Thak u 100% facts

[@everyonedeservestogohome2949]

It's not about getting married chrissy, it a about the fact that the person who says they love you won't give you what want while always getting what they want.

[@momonique09]

❤

[@josettemarberry7159]

Glad mine was gone told him told him

[@OreliaLatrice]

I know someone who was in a situationSHIP like this & tragedy ended up striking with the man dealing with medical issues. Anyway, doctors wanted to know who was the next of Kin..she told the docs that she was the girlfriend.. (keep in mind she was with him for 15 years). The docs told her that, by law, they can not consider boyfriend/girlfriend as next of kin. When they see that a person is not married & just dating, they look to the parents or siblings to tell what is going on with the loved one. He ended up passing away at the young age of 43. He had life insurance & all of it went to his two kids (from a previous relationship) & mother. He bought the girlfriend a house & a car but unfortunately that went to his kids & mother too because there were still notes due on the house & car AND her name was not on either item. So she had to leave everything, nothing to show for the 15 years she put in. I remember this couple always saying: “Oh marriage is just a piece of paper.” I’m pretty sure they would change their minds about that, if they could.

[@Chitownhomestead]

My point exactly 💯

[@Kekeisafoodie]

I tell people this all the time

[@OreliaLatrice]

@@Chitownhomestead Yesss!

[@OreliaLatrice]

@@Kekeisafoodie That’s good! Sadly, a lot of ppl don’t know this fact. It is literally a set up for failure. Very scary to even think about.

[@cosmicbeauty5682]

And this is what I kept bringing up to my ex like "I have no security here. If something happen to you, your mother is getting everything yet you two already know that. Especially her, which is why I feel you won't marry me". It's like it would go in one ear and out the other. Men like this with mothers like that know what they're doing. Don't play dumb ladies. Leave. Thank God I don't have children with my ex.

[@ILoveMyMelanin.]

It’s really sad that SHE was the one to propose to him first and he still hasn’t married her. It is sickening that his mom taught him how to tongue kiss.🤢

[@chloelincoln9095]

🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@mokiejackson818]

What ???

[@amiyahmonet3034]

@@mokiejackson818 no fr that’s weird af 😭😭

[@DrineThePoet]

It's gross

[@cosmicbeauty5682]

I discontinued my relationship over this very thing. Marriage, his mama interfering, work excuses etc. It was to the point I started to believe I no longer wanted marriage, but that's not true. Being in a relationship with the wrong person will make you accept their beliefs as your own. I could barely recognize myself when I looked in the mirror like what happen to me. If I was Chrissy I'll cut my losses and chalk it up to experiences. Your mind didn't change about marriage your circumstances did.

[@eggieelove6793]

well said! "you start to think" thats what you want

[@Tlenee5418]

Exactly what I said! It's not that she doesn't want to be married. she's just accepting the fact he doesn't and settling for that!😥

[@itinavarait]

Omg! You just hit a nerve. I wanted marriage and the guy I'm with now we have two kids and a house and I started to tell myself recently that I don't even want a marriage, but deep down I know that I do! I'm working on getting out of this relationship.

[@MuddaSikIt]

Bingo!!!!!!!!

[@CS-gh3qh]

You said a word! You really do start to settle in every which way including mentally smh

[@LunchboxLex]

Jim Jones always look like his face ain't washed! 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@stephaniemaraschino]

This is really sad y’all.. I’ve been seeing them go through this since I was 14 years old…. I am now 32. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Majority of us are probably married or with kids or both lol. This is sad because Chrissy really wanted to get married.

[@ReadLoveListen]

Girl!! I'm married with kids now. Wow. I didn't realize it's been this long.

[@angelinaoliver5587]

Bro NOOOOOOOO😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@mrsyoungdolph3755]

She could've just left him and find someone else 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@paymelove9762]

Dammm 😂😂😂 I am almost 30 now too 😮 Chrissy you is fine he ain’t aging right no way

[@stephaniemaraschino]

🤣🤣🤣😭😫❤️❤️

[@lolafairchild88]

She's the perfect example of investing TOO much into someone who expects you to settle for less until he's ready to settle down fully 💯. A lot of Black men put Black women down for being single mothers, but are ok running around creating single parent homes with no marriage or commitment in sight 🤷🏾‍♀️.....

[@stasia3029]

Preach

[@autumnmoss9474]

Nope, don’t put that on BM. BLACK WOMEN/ WOMEN are in control of what does or does not come out of their womb.

[@nichellenunya]

I don’t agree. I believe that she “grew” to accept that he didn’t want to marry her. She didn’t come to these conclusions until AFTER years of waiting. If that wasn’t the case, it wouldn’t have been a storyline on TWO of their reality shows.

[@jayc5756]

True

[@rollerbaybee4230]

Exactly, just say that's your man you gonna stick beside him😑

[@Chitownhomestead]

And ots sad...shes making excuses for him

[@stoneysoraclechannel7839]

Right. Had a whole spin off show about it lol

[@Eshabee]

BINGO you nailed it

[@SincerelyDrBurns]

6 years with my ex and I finally came to accept that he was taking up space where my husband could be. Someone who was emotionally available and reciprocated the same love and energy I did. Don't settle ladies and gents. You deserve more. ❤️

[@BallCDO]

Glad you added gents cuz sometimes we as men settle too

[@SincerelyDrBurns]

@@BallCDO Absolutely

[@Unpackyourthoughts]

Same. Best decision I made. I thought I couldn’t live without him & I honestly didn’t start living until after I let him go.

[@blackout7743]

I guess a ceremony would change things 😂

[@SincerelyDrBurns]

@@blackout7743 Not at all 😏

[@dianawilliams6700]

Chrissy is such a naturally beautiful woman! I always felt like she deserved someone who'd be faithful to her.

[@aspyn.j_]

I’m not spending years with one person only to be completely dismissed if/when something happens. Feels like I volunteered to be your partner and nobody wants to work for free if they don’t have to.

[@sbrooks904]

is marriage the payment?

[@Chitownhomestead]

Exactly 💯 don't get nothing out the deal

[@aspyn.j_]

@@sbrooks904 yes, in a sense. If you’re with someone who is healthy and financially stable it’s a bonus. Marriage alone isn’t a prize at all, don’t get me wrong because there’s a lot of women who are married with single husbands. But at the end of the day, the wife still has final say-so over what happens if he gets hurt/dies/falls ill. Not a longtime girlfriend, not a mistress, the WIFE.

[@JamekaVibes]

This is the classic case of settling. She wanted marriage but she knew she would never get it from him so she just settled. Then over time after financial issues due to him as well as issues with his mother, I think Chrissy realized he is not really husband material and didn’t want such a permanent tie such as marriage so she settled for not marrying BUT she is too comfortable and afraid of the unknown from starting over so she settles and does not leave.

[@djming101]

When she do leave he follow her and propose to her all over again and again she say yes then he go back to his old ways that last time she had some since and said no but still stayed she past motherhood yrs playing with him smh

[@AT-zl6dk]

I can’t believe she’s still with him Wow 😮 She even proposed to him then he proposed to her and all. I really thought she left him. I’m surprised she’s still with him. They still together is something else. I’m so glad Cassie left Diddy imagine her not having kids or marriage because of Diddy. So happy she’s living HER life now Hope Chrissy is happy with herself though Just wow 🙏🏼

[@cc5200]

Self love is important. The fear of being alone imprisons many people. Marriage is also a business deal, that if made with the wrong person can be devastating.

[@SizzlaFanBenita]

I feel like Chrissy knows Jim won’t marry her. Her statements are to ease her mind.

[@famu100]

Their biggest issue is Jim’s mom. She needs intensive counseling. She treats Jim like her husband

[@kennyking4554]

Chrissy & Jim Jones being engaged for over a decade and them still not jumping the broom, takes the meaning of “To lose patience is to lose the battle” to a whole other level. Happy Holidays RRG.

[@rrg]

Very interesting quote, Kenny. Thanks for watching and happy holidays to you too!

[@BklynBabe]

When you're more afraid of being alone than being with someone you barely like 🤔

[@nattyrocberry]

He’s raggedy. You think a man like that knows the value of marriage?! Come on. He walk outtta the house looking like that. That’s why I always say cheers to the ones who let you get away. Smh.

[@hquinn8635]

It's the men wanting the " wife benefits" in a GIRLFRIEND for me. If a man doesn't want to be married that's fine but expect a girlfriend and nothing more. I'm "NOT DOING WIFELY DUTIES" as a girlfriend. At this point with Chrissy I hope she got a life insurance policy on him or at least a bag coming her way if something should happen 🤷🏾 He ain't gonna marry Chrissy because the woman he really wants to marry he can't. Because it would be illegal to do so.... His mammy.

[@teriewilliams8614]

Highly doubtful 🤨!! I truly believe it’ll go to his mom & his kids!!

[@hquinn8635]

@@teriewilliams8614 Exactly! that's why she needs to get her own policy on him. And he should sign it with no problem since he claims he loves her so much. That's the least he could do. She should want for NOTHING after he's gone. Cause he's blocking her blessings. And he won't let her move on. He does narcissistic and threatening things to keep her at bay. I bet if she finally had the strength to leave she'd be pregnant in no time. He know damn well his mammy ain't sending Chrissy nothing her way should Jim pass. He didn't do right by her in life he definitely need to do it in death.

[@niax782]

Exactly! I’ll be DAMMED if I’m giving someone loyal, long term, access to my body without a _legal_ commitment.

[@Mrs_Canary]

Marriage come b4 the wedding.

[@bohammondlee7472]

That's all ya care about what am I going to get when this nigga die

[@lyricjackson8301]

“If that man don’t cuff you by noooow, he will never ever ever cuff youuu”

[@thesbianbeauty]

I was once in this situation. I was with someone for 5 years and in the beginning, we would always discuss getting married. As the years went on, all of a sudden he didn't believe in marriage, and I stayed hoping he would change his mind back. I would watch shows like Say Yes to the Dress and Four Weddings, and having feelings of anger and resentment towards him thinking I would NEVER get married. I had to wake up and realize I was giving him too much power and being foolish for staying out of comfort and familiarity (although the relationship was toxic af). He was also ok with me bearing his children but not getting married which was another sign for me to leave. It's been almost 5 years and he still hits me up saying he messed up and I was supposed to be his wife. I hope Chrissy gets out of her own way and wakes up 🙏🏾❤️

[@kimmystry1]

He so scruffy looking, never a polished look

[@goelevatewithsharessa]

His mamma had her hand, foot,head, elbow and everything else in the destiny of that relationship 😅

[@MakaykayLAMB]

I feel bad for Chrissy because regardless of if you NEED to get married, it was something she always wanted and something she (at one point) wanted with Jim. I’m SHOCKED they’re still together to this day. She should’ve left him in the 2010s.

[@ladynae5076]

If a man takes too long to marry you or even ask you, it means he has strong reservations about seeing himself with you in that realm. He can't see it. When men are certain about what they want, they don't hesitate.

[@johndannyblake6708]

Marriage is a setup!100%

[@leonardreid2911]

Part of the reason why they won’t get married is because his momma is always in their business! Another great video RRG!

[@MrsRease2011]

You’ve said it!! Now, say it again for the ones in the back!! 🗣🗣 KEEP YA MAMA OUT YOUR BUSINESS!

[@leonardreid2911]

@@MrsRease2011 PREACH!

[@Nina513]

The unfortunate thing is that Jim will probably get married years from now to another woman after stringing Chrissie along for all of these years. His mother and most of his friends never liked her, yet, she still stayed around probably to prove some type of point. Their union is so weird and creepy.

[@djming101]

And there it is that’s what Chrissy is scared of her leaving and two days later he married to another woman and she’s been playing for centuries at the marriage game and Jim’s mother is the author of that game cause she’s the one pulling all the strings she been told Jim not to marry Chrissy or she gone stop talking to him and he been put everything in his mama name only thing Chrissy getting out that relationship after he dead and gone is her freedom and that’s priceless cause even money can’t buy that !

[@HighDesign31]

Low self esteem will lock you into toxic relationships like this.

[@Kekeisafoodie]

This is why having boundaries and requires and stating them upfront is necessary because if not you’ll waste your youth on a guy like this……..I’m glad I took my granny’s advice and she gave me growing up to make sure before I get in a relationship to know what I want and then let that person know what I want before anything serious takes place so they and I both know what to expect from things, and I’m glad I took her advice I’m now engaged and getting married in less than three weeks and couldn’t be happier 😊😊

[@ataa69120]

Lol she played herself big time 🙄 That man made it crystal clear that he wasn’t going to marry you Instead of walking away she stayed and took a big L And you can tell she is very bitter and unhappy About All these years wasted 18 years girlfriend😳😳 good lord, this is embarrassing 🙊🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@daromeburrell]

She doesn’t care anymore because she knows that he does not want to get married and it’s sad because she really wanted to marry him she 50 with no kids and no ring 😫 happy holidays everyone ❤

[@jayc5756]

Exactly

[@paulettekeel6318]

Exactly and he has a son.

[@Earlene-kf6vu]

That's the sad part no kids she will regret it as she ages no grand kids maybe one day they will get married naw

[@Tlenee5418]

Never accept someone else's truth as your own! Chrissy wants to be married and she shouldn't settle for the fact Jim doesn't. Life is too short!

[@rudolphmcneill515]

Well she has been settling and apparently continues to do so. Now at this point she should just deal with it and stop letting it be a part of any storyline on any platform. I'm definitely tired of hearing about it.

[@cadillacdeville5828]

I do not think women shout propose to men at all. Marriage when taken SERIOUSLY and with the proper foundation as well right person makes a HUGE DIFFERENCE and great. Plus the right reasons...you get who you MARRIED. The issues before will be there afterwards.

[@BelovedofYah]

I agree. I wasn’t there but that clip was VERY embarrassing 😣😣

[@Chitownhomestead]

Should not.. quite embarrassing 😳

[@bilqiscampbell219]

When he said his mom taught him how to tongue kiss.....🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@HoneeyBeezSweet]

I hope she knows anything happens to him before her Nancy and his kids gets it all. She don't think she's ready becuz she knows that he won't marry her.

[@vturner]

yup & nancy doesnt even like her , i hope he has a will

[@ladimu1]

Trust me, they have that handled. Common law is a thing .

[@vturner]

@@ladimu1 not in new jersey, florida and new york where jim & chrissy are living or have lived. She needs to be on his will or shes screwed

[@tashahall1855]

I doubt Jim has awhole lot prob more debt than anything.

[@vturner]

@@tashahall1855 He really does, he was in the hole so bad that he had to go makeup with Jay Z to get a cash flow again. Love & HipHop producers were harassing him back then before the show became a thing. If he negotiated his contract correctly & ask for royalties for any spinoff (hollywood,atl & miami) he wouldn’t even had to work today, supreme also reached out to him & juelz before they blew up & instead of asking for a small % of the company they took a 20,000$ check for promo 🤦🏿‍♀️ Il

[@mandiegordon9826]

They're just wasting each other's time.... just saying. Who dates for 2 decades , give each other engagement rings and no long term commitment ?🙄. Not saying that 2 people should rush to get married right away but don't walk around acting like it and giving 'husband/wife benefits' to your significant other. And I somewhat blame his mom for interfering the relationship and I think it's disgusting that she kissed him also.

[@SLa-pb1gg]

Another example of Emotional Incest. Where these Black mothers think their son is their man and won’t let him have a significant other without getting jealous and possessive. They both need therapy, separated and together. They have a very unhealthy mother/son relationship. I see it all the time in single mother/ son relationships.

[@missmelanin7066]

Babbby this tom foolery right here! 😫 I feel like Jim was born old...he's NEVER looked young. 😭😭😭 Chrissie's a whole clown period. 🤦

[@hoodrat279]

She truly is 🤣🤣🤣

[@yolandam4138]

Short and to the point…can’t wait for 2023 RRG

[@rrg]

We have longer videos coming next year. Happy Holidays, bestie!

[@blakkdiamonds2915]

I've been waiting for this one ever since that clip of her saying she doesn't wanna get married

[@SpamNeggs23]

I’m just glad that she didn’t get pregnant….You don’t realize how smart this lady is.

[@DoseofDoriJ]

I feel like them NOT getting married keeps them somewhat relevant at this point, it’s their brand.🤷🏾‍♀️

[@talenciabonner7655]

Struggle love at it's finest

[@downtownon7thavenue]

DMX's "fiancé" thought she didn't need to get married either until he passed away unexpectedly and his ex wife got access to any wealth he had. It's more than just having a title as wife. Marriage is a business. If he doesn't trust her with his wealth, or trust her to make important decisions in an event he can't what are they doing? Great video as always.

[@allrealeverything]

If life long fiancé was a person.

[@josalynshanellsanders5121]

I believe that deep down inside Chrissy still wants to be a wife. She's at a point that a lot of women get to when the man Isn't "ready".......acceptance. She's internalized and accepted the fact that Jim isn't going to do it, therefore making excuses and "acting " like She's ok with it. She's afraid of letting go therefore he will continue to be comfortable in how things are. Two whole decades.........she should've left and stayed GONE. It's all fun and games until someone passes and you're fighting with family because you have no say so or rights to anything and put on the obituary as a "close friend". A close friend holds no weight with Judges, in courtrooms and in estate hearings. Better ask DMX girlfriend. Although she was with him for 10 years until his death, she was totally overshadowed in court and publicly by his EX WIFE Tashera. So marriage is more than just a piece of paper. 💅🏽

[@SLa-pb1gg]

You betta tell em! I immediately started thinking about all the examples of ppl who have passed and their longtime partner had no say. While my uncle is still with us, thank goodness, he has been with his partner 13yrs and still haven’t married her. My mom told him he needs to do right by her and marry her, especially because of legal say. God forbid something happens to him and she would have no say despite them having a life together for 13yrs.

[@josalynshanellsanders5121]

@S La Yes!! You are absolutely right. This has happened in my family as well to one of my aunts. Her partner passed and she found out that he was still legally married to a woman that he never divorced. He and his wife just separated in the 80s and never remarried anyone else, just dated other people. He met my aunt in 1996 and dated her up until 3 years ago. 23 YEARS......When he died, my aunt was FLOORED. His adult children moved her out of the house they shared for years because her name was nowhere on it. AND the adult kids mother whom was his LEGAL wife, took everything and draws his social security to this day!!! My aunt was so hurt and wasn't even invited to the funeral. Ladies, let this be a cautionary tale. Stop letting this men trick you into thinking marriage means Nothing. You'll be devastated in the end.

[@taewhatyoudoin8438]

I’m so sorry but who on earth “jokes” about tongue kissing their mother. 🤢

[@rozziec.3197]

That part Nasty

[@shaylah2725]

seems like his mother thinks hes her man and when he said that she taught him how to literally tongue kiss it explains alot... 👀

[@RAJOHN-ke7mc]

This right here. A lot of women (all races) create surrogate boyfriends Its absolutely horrifying and sad that jim was sexually abused by his mother.

[@LucaB1030]

Chrissy said “we’re fine the way we are” amongst other things only because she knows he’ll never marry her🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@vickie_v4483]

This about to be messy messy, I'm here for it 😂😂😂

[@Tooexcessive]

I bet if she left him and had a kid with somebody else and got married that’s when he would’ve wanted to get married to her and settle down 😅

[@annwilson90]

Chrissy has apparently *convinced* herself that marriage isn't necessary, and that's her choice. 🤷🏾‍♀️ If she's truly happy, so be it.

[@rebels42wynn83]

After watching this piece, I want to say that being single is so beautiful. This JIM JONES brother is a classic case of '" I am who I am take me or just leave!" Also, he just wants to have his cake (whenever) and eat it, too. And she is willing to accept that if not already she has. Toxicity must be the new norm, huh. #reserved&happy

[@youknowyoulikeit1000]

This was me 2004-2009🤣 I had to learn the hard way but babyyyy I’m glad I saw the light 🙌🏽 That boy ain’t want me🤣🤣🤣

[@rrg]

😭😭

[@youknowyoulikeit1000]

@@rrg 🤣

[@DivaDivaFashionista]

I remember I called her engagement ring a “shut up ring” this girl had the nerve to argue me down. How many years later and they still aren’t married. They should have a commitment ceremony and call it a day.

[@norah4892]

Remember when Mama Jones dropped a diss track on Chrissy? That woman was wild😂😂

[@rrg]

LMAO she's a mess

[@Laurina5152]

Lol… I know that’s right! The irony of “Alexa please play”, Make it Last Forever! Hysterical 😩

[@faymelanin5063]

I bet you even jim is like "why tf is she still here?" 🤣

[@MoDavI-sl7iy]

My sister was with her partner for 30+ years. They had 4 kids together. He wanted to get married, but she didn't. When he was diagnosed with Cancer, & passed away, my sister said, she should've married him.🙄.. Me on the other hand, I was with my kids father (& husband) for 5 years, before we got married. Because, I'm just not doing THAT!

[@theamazingdoubleA]

You propose to a MAN you wanted to be married. Especially because they keep talking about it. Sometimes we confuse bonding for being in love. It's not quite the same. She doesnt have to want marriage but I think she should be mindful of who she let's keep her a gf. Be a gf to a faithful, considerate, caring man. Not ANY man just to say you have one.

[@chelseagarwe469]

I don't feel sorry for her because she had 2 decades to leave and get marriage and children if that was part of her plan if you go more that 10 years being engaged just know that you're not getting married because it shouldn't take a decade plus to know if you want to legally be united with one another at this point if you've being sharing a home with someone you're not married you're now somewhat now regarded as being spouses legally well in some countries that is

[@honeylamour1]

She was 35 when she started dated Jim I don’t think she wanted kids because it should’ve clicked real fast for her

[@Martini829]

If you go more than 1 year of being engaged with no date… exit left

[@niax782]

@@Martini829 🎯 that part.

[@SLa-pb1gg]

Not even 10. Id say 5. 5yrs in, I should have an engagement ring, even if that means we’re saving for the wedding, because they are expensive. But finances aren’t an issue for them like a lot of ppl. That’s how I knew Jhud wasn’t getting married, when like 3yrs passed and it was still “we’re still finishing things up”, blah blah blah. She was stalling. They wasn’t gettin married. They both had money and time.

[@adiaslife]

I remember watching their reality show when I was a teenager & I felt like they definitely weren’t gonna get married at all .

[@lorenzomalone3105]

My dad and his live in girlfriend were together for over 30 years and never got married. It worked for them but when it was time to pull the plug on his lifesupport machine she wasn't allowed to make the decision. Me being his only child had to make that call. That decision has haunted me for the past 6 years. Every time I see my father in my dreams he has the look of hate for me on his face.

[@lindagithaiga1974]

Oh no love,I am sorry that you have to carry that guilt 😢 hope you find healing and realize that nothing is your fault 🙏

[@hoodrat279]

Yo goofy ass should have included her and gave him more time 🤡🤦🏾‍♂️

[@lorenzomalone3105]

@@lindagithaiga1974 Thank you.

[@lorenzomalone3105]

@@lindagithaiga1974 I shared my sorry because I know Jim has at least one son and if Jim ever found himself on lifesupport the burden of pulling the plug would fall on his son. Its just another reason to get married if you're going to be in a long term relationship.

[@lindagithaiga1974]

@@lorenzomalone3105 yeah sure I hear you.I didn't know that by the way, thanks for educating us

[@loyaldior2950]

Chrissy was so good at giving Emily advice in season 1 about Fabulous when her situation wasn't that much different.

[@Chitownhomestead]

But emily a whole wife out here...

[@hoodrat279]

I said the same thing and I couldn't understand that goofy shit 🤡🤡🤡🤣🤣

[@loyaldior2950]

@@Chitownhomestead where 🤣 she ain't fab wife

[@Chitownhomestead]

@@loyaldior2950 I thought after he knocked out her front tooth and fought her dad he married her right after that

[@loyaldior2950]

@@hoodrat279 lmao

[@Modish25]

It might be the momma boy thing. It’s still cringy to marry someone who publicly said his mom showed him how to tongue kiss 😷

[@chhenz9017]

The fact when he said his mama Taught him how to kiss goes crazyyy omg 🤮

[@vonablack2698]

This should have been apart of the red flag series! Thanks for the video bestie

[@michellelee5538]

RRG…..Y’all ROCK‼️🙌🏾

[@rrg]

We love you, bestie! Thanks for tuning in.

[@nichellenunya]

Woooooowww! I’m impressed RRG! Y’all listen to the people in your comments and also trending couples.. well done!! 👏🏽👏🏽

[@rrg]

Always ❤️😘

[@tasiawco]

Marriage is just too big of a commitment that I will never be ready for.

[@GanjaxMan]

RRG Spilling That Hot Tea ☕🍵

[@Ilove2teach52]

So me and my man have been both been married twice and we will never marry. And that is ok with the both of us. Now I can say i am glad I had the experience of being married. I do believe that’s an experience I needed to have. Just never again💯

[@meekam5083]

As I watch Chrissy go into her "fuxk it" phase wit Jim, I really wouldn't be surprised if she one day be completely done with him and be married to her new dude in less then 2 yrs. Just wait on it 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 Happy holidays RRG 💕💕💕

[@thecurator2626]

We can hope. She deserves better. Sheesh.

[@dianajean3963]

Its has to hurt chrissy deeply to see all the other females relationships that has grown with babies & some with marriages ! Such as fabulous, ciara, yandy, Kimberly & many more!

[@honeylamour1]

I don’t think Chrissy meshes well with anyone around Jimmy I remember her saying she didn’t know Yandy however Yandy was close to everyone in Jim’s life: Jim ex/Son’s mom of Jim III, Camron , Camron ex JuJu, Juelz, Juelz’s wife Kimbella , and Mama Jones. And Jim was in Juelz wedding Chrissy doesn’t appear to have been invited

[@starfire9328]

Fabolous ?????? Lol I knw rrg spilt tea on how he embarrassed Emily for yrs n they not even together as of now

[@jasmineartis5754]

You shouldn’t have said fabulous. He’s knocking his woman’s teeth out and threatening to kill his gf’s relatives.

[@mekasims1981]

@@starfire9328 oh really she finally left🙄

[@honeylamour1]

She left but it seems as if the reason behind her leaving is that the red head ginger carrot top ambiguous daughter he fetishized and was hoping for during pregnancy came out dark eyes with dark hair. Whereas both his sons are red haired ginger carrot tops. And he doesn’t engage with her or share her in social media. It’s also rumored she is special needs ,but I can’t confirm

[@dreadams3207]

Marriage doesn’t damage relationships, the issue is lots of ppl get married with the hopes of fixing a failing relationship. If it’s strong before the marriage, it will be strong after. If it’s struggling before the marriage, it’s gonna struggle after the marriage. The status of marriage on a struggling marriage is added pressure because ppl think it’s gonna change something when it doesn’t.

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

I don't think Chrissy ever wants to marry Jim

[@rrg]

Doesn't look like it

[@perdybirdie]

This makes me happy I finally walked away from a toxic on and off again 4 year relationship. Been single and not mingling all this year and its been great. I want my next relationship to lead to marriage, and will wait until it happens.

[@beautydiore3428]

When Chrissy tried to leave Jim the last time on Love n Hip Hop, he seemed very angry and scary. He seems very abusive and aggressive behind closed doors. He was harassing her when she tried to leave him. I feel Chrissy would come up missing if she really left Jim and stayed gone.

[@natoshataylor544]

Forget why they'll never marry, can we give Chrissy's hair the 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 it deserves!?

[@cinnamonspice4389]

My girl been in this relationship because she's loyal to the fullest. We're fifty-five years old with no time to waste. We're in our Golden Years of the good things to come.

[@wandaprice808]

Crissy is a smart woman. I love her because she keeps it real and love Jim and Jim loves her. They both enjoy each other and she realize she's worth everything no matter Jim will be hurt behind her if Crissy was to leave Jim he would run to marriage. I respect Crissy how she see their relationship and how she is deal with Jim and his bs!

[@kathleenbluestein6025]

I'd been gone ..after his, "my momma taught me how to tongue kiss" 💋 that wasn't no joke

[@BlackStarlet]

Chrissy is such a beautiful , articulate,but loyal to a fault . Jim is out of his glory days, yet he refuses to let that rapper lifestyle go. We all know the industry is smoke and mirrors. Marrying a rapper who be the ultimate status symbol for some women, but Chrissy saw them going nowhere and fast. And what would have really changed anyway except her stress levels. That had many of houses foreclosed on because Jim wasn’t paying the bills. She deserves soo much better, so good for her.

[@IsSalvationReal]

I’m glad that this is randomly being spoken about. If you actually go digging into Chrissy life. She has been gang affiliated back in NYC, linked to Jay Z. She ended up leaving NYC because she got caught up with some people. They found her, beat her and she ended up missing some teeth. She had goons of her own so they went after them. So what I’m trying to say… This rabbit hole is deeper. This isn’t about self-esteem. This is about somebody living two lives and understanding why some people really do not date outside of their industry because of the type of dirt that they have on their name and the person across from them in on the dirt as well. Some people are really here to mislead us. Ever heard of those women who are trafficked but end up with those top jobs because there master put them on? Some of the people on the screen have cover up jobs, to move things around for there masters.

[@hoodrat279]

I believe this. There's something very sinister and dark behind the two of them 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

Joke or not…that tongue kissing story with his mom is disturbing as h3ll

[@singuensful]

There’s a discrepancy between her strong character and the fact she’s publicly humiliated by Jim since over a decade. She might have low self esteem issues she never adressed. Christie is a beautiful woman who could have moved on and find happiness years ago with a more mentally healthy man. She’s damaged and so is their relationship. Now in her 50s it looks like she settled cause she can’t find better. It’s a sad story. I recall in one episode Mama Jones saying she resented Chrissie because she didn’t even give his son a child.

[@marriejames01]

She wasted her prime yrs waiting around for a Dusty. He never wanted to marry her, he just wanted to keep her hanging around while she got older. All of a sudden he’s “interested” in marriage. Now the ladies aren’t chasing him, career isn’t thriving and certain parts may not be working. Hopefully a few young ladies will learn from her mistakes.

[@danavixen6274]

Continue to have a blessed holiday season RRG! 🎇❤️❄️

[@rrg]

Happy Holidays, bestie!

[@pameladesuero527]

I hate that blood-sucking tick she calls a mole. other than that she's so beautiful and I have always loved her hair, it is so thick.

[@pringles0111]

This what I been waiting on 🤦🏾‍♀️ Lawd I couldn’t even imagine being with someone that long without a ring 💍 after 4 years if I don’t see the relationship moving to the next level ✌🏽 Marriage is not for everyone and not everybody wants to get married but I’m not bout to be in my 40’s calling a man my boyfriend no ma’am

[@avgolden1974]

If she likes it, I love it. It couldn't be me.