This Is Why GOOD Men Cheat... And What You Can Do To Avoid It!

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[@whenyouwishuponastar6643]

The man was at 10:55 kept it real! A grown up who takes accountability for his choices and chooses to do better, not blaming society or hormones. If you base your decisions off of hormones and feelings you will make most mistakes. Have the discipline to think through your decisions.

[@chloelageaux769]

I'm going to answer from a biblical perspective. I believe that every man has it in him to be monogamous. If he cheats, it's because he wanted to. Yes, there are factors that may contribute, yet we make the final decision! It's better to walk away from someone than to put them through the tragedy and pain of having to deal with your choice to cheat. Also, we really need to stop labeling ppl as "good"! We are all flawed human beings that need God. If a "good" man decides to cheat, that man is what the bible would call an unwise or foolish person! Cheating is disrespectful, foolish, and unnecessary! My advice to men before they get married is to learn to be sacrificial! If you don't tame your flesh before you enter into that covenant, then it will conquer you! Yes, we know that you have needs, but we must die to ourselves sometimes. Things aren't going to be roses all of the time, but that doesn't give you a license to willfully sin against God, yourself, and your spouse!

[@kingleyo9277]

You need to tell that same thing to women who don’t please their husbands or deny him every chance they get yet don’t want him to cheat. If the wife is denying her man, she is technically cheating the relationship therefore he isn’t cheating, he’s getting his needs met.

[@Thewaveacademy223]

It’s not cheating says you. It’s adultery says God

[@yahslovingseed4729]

Beautifully Said, you can tell you study scripture, the flesh is very ignorant, and we must learn how to tame it. Papa says in scripture, our whole FIGHT it to study his status laws and commandments and do them. HalleluYah 🙌🏾 We don't have to worry about anything if we just do what he says. 🙂

[@clairestreb]

@chloelageaux769, Great comment! People who cheat and people who refuse Christ do so simply because they want to. Until someone is mature enough to keep their vows and submit to God, they are doomed and continue to negatively affect those around them. I pray that everyone watching this video reads these comments with an open mind and considers that today is the best day to commit yourself 100% to God and others. In other words, repent and stop being selfish, realize He is the main thing, and ask Him to help you and guide you every minute of every day. 🙂

[@sicelovilane5391]

God don't want divorce

[@stinaw.454]

Protect & provide starts with protecting my heart. None of the financial support, affection, security or anything else matters if we can't trust you. And if I can financially provide myself and you can't protect my heart really, what are YOU bringing to the table?

[@chloelageaux769]

Amen!!!!

[@jadeladawn1607]

This!!!!

[@nessparadis6948]

He would be bringing community peen 😂

[@tmoneypoleductions9764]

💯

[@tmoneypoleductions9764]

💯

[@Lisa-nt7wt]

It all boils down to spiritual conviction. Some people have a conscious about cheating and some do not. All flesh is bad and is capable of falling to sin. Real Talk :)

[@sierrairick1704]

Facts

[@ladym7198]

💯

[@tamarabello]

Good men don't cheat!

[@joycewatt800]

Exactly! Period! and there’s no No room for discussion.

[@UncleSwell707]

Wrong. You just don’t understand men.

[@unapologeticallyTanya]

Sorry I disagree

[@unapologeticallyTanya]

It's not that you don't understand men but you don't understand women.

[@mactray8557]

Factory

[@thebackcommunity]

Making the decision to build & grow is important. Be faithful to God and your relationship with God will benefit your relationship with your spouse. I love that ❤

[@luciustriphocius2829]

"The Majority of Humanity Sucks......" Pastor Stephen Chandler 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Royaltybrand]

The guy in the locs had left a distaste in my mouth on several videos he can't qualify to tell me anything. Monogamy is natural lust and temptation is a strong variant in these situations

[@ms.a806]

Me too, he seems very childish and immature.

[@chloelageaux769]

Yeah, I CANNOT relate to anything that he says! Anthony wanted a panel of men from various walks of life, so that's why he's on here.

[@shenquejames7598]

He is young so I think he is reppin the younger generation. Hopefully, he grew some from the discussion.

[@Royaltybrand]

@Shenque James being young is not an excuse for ignorance wisdom is inclusive to all ages please don't make excuses for him under my comments no disrespect I just don't care for him and I don't want u to waste your time

[@mikea.4477]

I agree he does seem the most immature and inexperienced on this panel. But if you think monogamy is human nature you’re delusional. Every instinct human beings have (outside of evolved spirituality and a relationship with God) is for self-preservation and procreation. Wars were fought over this. Like it or not…it’s human history!

[@TheMichelex20]

No one is “wired for monogamy”. It’s always a choice . Maybe women are socialized towards monogamy is a better statement.

[@ruthhouston9860]

Yessss

[@BluDrop5]

But, we ARE wired for commitment. No athlete can play for two organizations at the same time. No person can work for two jobs at the same time. I believe people don't want to abide by the rules, then state that they are not "wired" for monogamy.

[@jmelanierenee]

That’s horse manure. As soon as you see another man trying to come at your girl, you’d be tight

[@tatianadaniel3569]

@@jmelanierenee He's saying that men AND women are naturally not monogamous. If it was so natural, no one would be tempted to cheat.

[@mactray8557]

I'm not married and I never cheated. I think if it's not in you to do it you won't regardless of any situation. It's a integrity thing honestly.

[@erind2261]

I have never cheated on any man I've been with even when I well within my right too, b/c they cheated on me constantly

[@keepingupwithmarsha5155]

If you cheat you are capable of doing a lot of things. In my opinion if you cheat then you are not a good man. And if this discussion was suppose to help men all it did was show us how most men think and feel about being faithful.

[@joycewatt800]

As the saying goes, “If you lie you’ll cheat. If you cheat you’ll steal and if you steal you’ll kill.” Or something like that.

[@mycrazyfamily3795]

I have to disagree

[@Natasha_Nisha]

Gaslighting plus its cognitive dissonance to say "good" men cheat..

[@clairestreb]

@@keepingupwithmarsha5155, I agree. I think the comments are better than the video, but at least that's something. 🙂

[@shegotstandards]

That man in the light blue jean jacket is the only one that seems to be keeping it real. He said he was a cheater but he has made a DECISION to be faithful to his wife. That's the key that I've heard most men say when it comes to being faithful it's a DECISION that they made to do that, it just doesn't come to you, you make up your mind to do that. When it came to most things we've done in life especially positive and good things, they came because we made a decision to do them, everything just didn't drop in your lap. IJS.😊

[@amaragrace94]

Exactly. Cheaters are not disciplined, honest, nor wise. I don't trust someone like that to lead me. The respect is gone.

[@marvettemiller947]

The right God sent man will not cheat!!!!!!!!

[@Sweetdee28]

Cheating is a choice ! You either going to do it or you not!

[@vazyvas4712]

If you get married it’s a contract. In any agreement/contract if the terms aren’t followed you have breached the contract. A breach of contract makes it null and void/terminated. We take breaching marital contracts way too lightly. Breach that business contract and see what happens. A contract/agreement is a contract/agreement

[@chastiana]

Marriage shouldn't be treated as a contract but as covenant. That's the first problem

[@elgrs5756]

Absolutely agree with you

[@DontaviaM]

@@chastianait can be treated as either or based on personal beliefs.

[@bettyboop3192]

@@chastiana The word covenant means contract. It typically refers specifically to a contract between a person and the divine. They are one and the same.

[@slickdawg5976]

Within many instances a breach of the marital contract results in divorce. So there are consequences.

[@playitbyearny]

Men are challenged by such high expectations and pressures open communication is critical and being vulnerable is necessary to make any relationship- I have an amazing man who I know doesn’t cheat he is solid like my rock and I celebrate who he is in my life - so grateful for the love we have

[@mattiaslp9645]

communication how? y’all love saying that but have zero concrete examples or your examples are vague.

[@clairestreb]

@@mattiaslp9645 To be open, honest, and transparent. Listen. Give and take. Do not yell. Show respect. Empathize. Consider your mate's viewpoint. Learn to compromise. Read articles on improving communication.

[@jaymorr2414]

Homeboy in the suit look guilty as a mug!

[@JazzyJaee]

If you cheat you are not a good man. There are woman out here who wants polygamy, who wants an open relationship/marriage or who wants threesomes but the problem is men claim they want monogamy, get with like minded women and then go and cheat. It’s because TRUTHFULLY they want a pure women who is all for her husband but they also want to be a man who never resist temptation. They don’t want the woman who is considered to be “out there” like they are because it’s not good for their image while not caring about ours as woman.

[@GinaSesay1]

GOOD MEN DO NOT CHEAT. As soon as a "good woman" cheats, she is no longer good and I personally as a woman will be keeping that same standard with men. H ow can men be the ones to set the standard of what a woman needs as a good man? Aren't women the ones who set their own standards for something she wants? Women we gtta stand together on these issues.

[@callen9679]

I am not sure about this but I do know several men people declared them to be good men but they have cheated on their wives . I am really shocked by the one guy.....he was my mechanic but I had to disconnect because he wanted to have a relationship with me but he said his marriage is great. ....it is puzzling

[@instrinsiclove]

I adore seeing the growth of Rico. Just the way he communicates on this platform is waaaaay better than the way he’s typically portrayed.

[@nellynell1807]

I know it sounds crazy against the odds but Trust God with your relationship easy to answer all questions..♥️👍🏾

[@callen9679]

True God makes a difference in a marriage as long as you are strong because my husband was a godly man and had an affair, he is married to that woman, said he would never do that again but he is seeking again outside that marriage. I think it is so important to be present in your marriage at all times before allowing the temptation to take over.

[@wildonez3076]

How many of these men actually take time to seek God on how to love his wife in the bedroom before they get married? Or do they carry the same carnal lustful mindset into the marriage as non christians do! No wonder there's a problem. It's sad. But I know the answer. This is a very low level conversation!!

[@slickdawg5976]

If you look at divorce statistics by religion it may be a bit surprising. While the assumption may be that people who are practicing members of a religious faith are less likely to divorce, the statistics paint a complete different picture.

[@ambitiousash]

It's that percentage that he spoke of starting at 5:37 making a great example of reality of what we see in our society! Indeed many are indulging in temporary pleasure, fulfillments, and/or filling voids outside of the commitments they are in with someone whether they are married or in a relationship. Honesty is the best policy of showing up as who you are, saying what you want (and letting your actions prove that), and when things change causing growth or wanting changes within that commitment, there should be honest conversations. It is hurtful to deal with someone and their undisciplined behavior who doesn't want to be mindful of all that is connected emotionally and physically...that's why being grounded spiritually is so important. God gives you discernment...never ignore those things that are brought forth and as hurtful as it may be to anyone discuss them...Get it out and get it out together! The goal is to become better and not better at cheating though.

[@Thisweekflows]

Man This Title Is Deep On Many Levels

[@ResilientIzShe]

I love that point about the percentages. Personally, I hate when things are generalized. The term "most" when our world is so vast, means that we cannot possibly quantify possibilities when we're only basing our judgements on the percentage of things we see & stats that are reported. I do, however, believe that ineffective communication & poor relationship with God leaves the door wide open to both physical & emotional cheating & poor money management.

[@trecyngombe750]

Not all good men cheated, cheating is a choice, not a mistake because when we say is a mistake that's where everyone makes excuses of “ yeah all men are supposed to cheat. Just like Christ say if you Love me you'll obey my commandments, In the same way, we need to have that commitment when it comes to relationships or marriage if you love the person why cheat on them? Of course, cheating is a temptation, something the devil uses to destroy a relationship or marriage that's why the Bible says “flee from fornication” because is going to lead you to cheat your partner. When Christ is not the foundation of a relationship or marriage the door is already for the devil to come and tempt both men and women.

[@jonquindiagan682]

Interesting way to break it down.

[@tjones9471]

I don't believe every man will cheat in a marriage. I think if cheating is involved, then something in the marriage is weak. Love and communication are very important.

[@jeannied7743]

I love the Christian man in the brown. He is so right! I truly hope people are listening!!

[@beckylee7238]

The fact that in a panel of 9 men, none of them immediately said, "No!" To the question, "Do all men cheat?" Was very disappointing.

[@clairestreb]

GMTA! 🙂

[@spiritkeen3521]

This video is ridiculous🫤.. You are on a panel asking Guys, who don't have relationships with God this question?! Absolutely Not!!🤨🤯🫤.. I would never believe that all or Majority of men cheat, No Sir, !!! The DEVIL IS A LIE!!!!

[@ladym7198]

💯

[@davidowusu9746]

The majority of men dont cheat. Only those cheating or wanting to cheat actually believe that

[@lobi5104]

The majority of men don't have a relationship with God, so yes! The majority of men are slaves to their flesh and will cheat🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Carramel]

Anthony do you even read and respond to comment? Anyways I’ll leave my opinion. If a man cheats he isn’t a good man because there is never no good coming out of cheating. Cheating destroys families and the children suffers the most. If a man wants to be with multiple women he should enter into a polygamous marriage, where the women are clear about the arrangement then he won’t be accused of cheating.

[@joycewatt800]

Is this a rhetorical question 🙋🏽‍♀️ Don’t even have to listen to the video.. Just based on the thumbnail the answer is a resounding NO. Or if a “good man” does cheat Does that then make him a “bad man?” Better question 🙋🏽‍♀️ Do God fearing men cheat? There’s a difference between being good and God fearing. Not many people fear God these days. The Bible tells us no one is good so then we have to dig deeper and examine the character of a man and the heart of a man. We ALL have fallen but to intentionally cheat on a spouse is a decision of the heart that starts in the mind (you have to think 🤔 it before you do it. David was considered a man after God’s own heart because he repented. He was sorrowful for the sin he committed. He failed but still had to suffer the consequences of his decision. Joseph on the other hand made a different decision. Why? Because it wasn’t about his flesh or Potiphar’s wife tempting him. It was about God FIRST so he chose to run 🏃🏾 to flee fornication which the Bible instructs us to.

[@cherylmcphearson4356]

Sadly, I have spoken to a great number of men and NOT has said they haven’t Cheated 😢

[@theydontknowmeson007]

Please thumbs up this so AO might see it! AO please get the rights to print your books from when you were with Ramsey or come out with new versions including that entrepreneur box for teens! I would love to buy your books to support you!!

[@mercedeshutch9553]

Only one grown man on the stage!Doc

[@ebony5114]

When you've cheated, you've lost a spiritual battle, we can all sit here and say oh she he made me because..... but at the end of the day we don't need to be making decisions based of of what our flesh desire but through a God like decision. Satan comes to still kill and destroy and him sending his lustful spirit to cause many to cheat and breakup homes is one of his big tactics. Wake-up!

[@jaymorr2414]

Get and keep your money right. Put God and your lady first. Make your wants and needs secondary at all times makes it easier to not stray. Open honest real communication with your lady always helps.

[@minfamous5841]

Ayooooo I hooped with Stephen in highschool 😂😂😂🤣 that’s wild

[@Coreyb55]

You changed the title lol

[@leroymckenziejr.jnfenterpr567]

Here is my question to the Pastor that sd that he is not faithful to his wife, but is faithful to God. Pastor, are u faithful to God? Have u ever cheated on God, since u dnt want to be faithful to your wife but God.

[@BluDrop5]

Rico, before the war of monogamy, there was the Bible in which God established that one man should be with one woman in Genesis. Sin entered the earth (Genesis 3) and corrupted God's intentions.

[@nicolesingleton2160]

God instituted monogamy with creation of Adam & Eve. When anyone cheats its a choice. Just like Adam chose to eat the forbidden fruit and look at the consequences! When one cheats there is real spiritual, emotional, and possibly physical consequences. Quit making excuses, if it is a weakness ask God to help you deliver as with any temptation, but please quit making excuses!

[@ronaldnichols9945]

I never cheated but she did.

[@divinedynasty222]

The MAN WHO SAID HE FAITHFUL TO GOD💐💐💐💐💐🌺🌻🥀🌼🥀🌷🌺🌸🌹🌼🌹GLADD I STAYEDDD

[@mikebrown9521]

Unfortunately at some point in a long term marriage a man and or a woman will cheat in the marriage.

[@sandrasmith6207]

Amen

[@marcuskingz6203]

Title throws me.. there's NO GOOD MEN.. JESUS ONLY IS GOOD! and we must be born again and submit to the Lord Jesus Most High so that He can help us walk in love and truth and His grace and power to do RIGHT by one another.. a godly man won't cheat a man SUBMITTED to Christ the Lord Jesus will give grace and courage to be faithful and we as men through Christ Jesus DONT HAVE TO CHEAT EVEN IN OUR THOUGHTS.. we just have to be willing to learn of His love and embrace it. Instead of trying to sound cool to man.. Jesus teaches love does NO HARM.. men that love.. WILL NOT CHEAT..

[@TeachingLiberty]

The history lesson on monogamy is so hilariously wrong. There was a war over monogamy 🤣🤣🤣

[@Iamkrystamarie]

Ok not all but most meaning %80 to %90

[@ddeblanc9363]

I believe that the respondents were splitting hairs over a bald headed man

[@conshedaashley]

In this time and age we are in, the word is cheat, but according to scripture, it's adultery. If you "cheat" you are not good according to what "good" is to The Almighty Elohim in His Word. Adultery is sin. Cheating is sin. Why does it seem as if even in this conversation adultery is looked at too lightly because you are using the word cheat. No matter who or how many do it, cheating depict the opposite of good. Today we live with the excuse, "evolving" to negate the TRUE statue we are to live, according to the scriptures. I am very grateful for the grace and mercy of Yah because of this sinful world and how it has infiltrated all of our minds. However, in the end, no matter how much this world has "evolved", Yah wants no spot and no wrinkle, wants us to humble ourselves and pray, seek His face and turn from our wicked ways. I see it this way, if we are dating and we "cheat" then we are indulging in fornication; but if we are married and we cheat then we are committing adultery. Either way they both are sin. Keeping it real

[@debrawilliams2781]

IT ABOUT MATURITY LEVELS NOT CULTURE! IF YOU CHOSE A MATE WORK OUT YOUR DIFFERENCES BETWEEN YOU TWO ONLY, IF IT DOESN'T WORK SIMPLY MOVE ON!!!!

[@diamondeyez91]

Blah, blah, blah. Why do we continue to have these conversations year after year?!?! People will be people. If you want to be monogamous fine, if not, that's fine too.

[@mikebrown9521]

No, No. not faithful to your wife, but faithful to GOD? I’m confused. If you are faithful to GOD, you will be faithful to your wife and family. However we must remember that no of us are perfect.

[@Ashley08888]

If you can serve 1 God, you can be with 1 woman. Period.

[@Wardawg-]

This panel is wierd. Not all these panelists are equally yoked in terms of maturity. Ill just say that.

[@susanakaan810]

Not every man cheats

[@cynthiaspencer9994]

If you want to cheat or be unfaithful Don't get married. Also you need to get your identity in Christ and love yourself or you will not be able to rightly love your spouse properly. The Holy Spirit will guide you. Marriage is defined in the bible. Clearly. If a man wants more than one wife then move to where it's legal.

[@MelissaLona]

Good men don’t cheat.

[@anonymoususer8031]

Good men cheat, l understand your concern

[@halfblindstation8285]

You see it doesn't matter if you have money ao to steal someone's idea. What's bad is when you try to discredit them. And another thing is once ppl know you are a thief of innovation, they know you will always run back to the real once your ideas run out. And I say that to say because we know you're new in the block, we know you are a government agent...... Bruh it's only one real AAO and that's 8.0. how you go from Anthony to ao in one year? SMH

[@dj_ilabash9705]

Ofcourse good men cheat what kinda question is that? Cheating doesnt define if a man is good or not, more over i know some real devil people that apparently dont cheat , 💯

[@clairestreb]

Why GOOD Men Cheat? They don't. Good men do not cheat. Be real. "Good" men strive to follow God's commandments. Good men wear the armor of God and deny temptation. What You Can Do To Avoid It? That's a tough one. It is not up to the wife, it is up to the husband. Surround yourself with "good" men in your inner circle. Promise Keepers is still alive and well.

[@roserees3333]

Mrs Sonia is legit and her method works like magic I keep on earning every single week with her new strategy.

[@moniquejanel]

I dealt with plenty of married men, they all cheat 😂

[@tatianadaniel3569]

Did u know they were married??

[@mattiaslp9645]

women cheat more. there are articles on this. i dont do committed relationships anyways so it’s whatever to me.

[@ladym7198]

It’s been proven💯you right it’s just not as vocalized on the womens side

[@tatianadaniel3569]

can you link the articles?

[@tatianadaniel3569]

@@ladym7198 can you provide the links. I responded to the other guy but he never sent them to me.

[@janae7769]

Saying your Faithful to God - is the bigger joke - the entire bible talks so much about the Unfaithfulness of Man (ppl) from Exodus / Will a man rob God / why we had judges/ etc .. the sad part is that it came from a so call Pastor - Men - own your ish & GROW UP - Woman just try harder not to cheat so it is possible

[@Dscussion]

Lets be real the Bible is full of Polygyny, which is condoned. It's a choice. The word cheating annoys me because it's wrongly applied and widely accepted inspite of what the Bible says and portrays. What is the biblical meaning of adultery? It's not when a man sleeps with another woman, it's when a man sleeps with another man's wife. It's not if a single woman sleeps with a married man, that's nowhere in the Bible. God's law permits a man to have another wife as saying if a man has two wives he shall not diminish the rights of the first.

[@JM-yf5rt]

Yes and no....Adam only had Eve. Noah had one going on the Ark. Please look up fornication and Adultery. Two different things but the Bible says God will judge both. In fact, fornication is stated to be the only sin done literally USING the body which is supposed to be the temple of God's Holy Spirit.

[@Dscussion]

I said polygny Is a choice. God never condemned any one for having another and I ķnow the difference between adultery and fornication. People tend to overlook the fact that even The Most High had two spouse's Isreal and Judah and the messiah in his parables has many virgins.

[@lukeskywalker2834]

They are all black,WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT???