THIS IS Why You're NOT HAPPY In Life... | Jay Shetty

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

Whoever reading this, I pray that God visit your home with healing, blessings and miracles. Amen.💕

[@steffyj192]

Thank you...

[@Arid_OasisLLC]

Same for you ❤

[@anusri2981]

Thank u

[@wizardfoxangel5300]

God bless you

[@kavyad8266]

Thanku❤️

[@Article-19_]

When Jay Shetty said “U can't always find happiness, u can't always find positivity but u can always find meaning” That hit me hard

[@mathias7777777777777]

a real psychopath message

[@cammyminott]

Same here. It made me pause.

[@jayferguson4640]

Me 2

[@user-wv9es4ms5g]

That comment really hit home for me too. Now im trying to stop judging myself for not being happy all rhe time. And I'm honoring myself for the service i give to my community and friends. L

[@RyanFila]

Who ever reads this please know: You have so much potential inside you. You are beautiful and strong. Have a wonderful day ❤️. Much love!🙏🏽

[@ashleymarcelino8329]

Thank you!!

[@RyanFila]

@@ashleymarcelino8329 You're welcome!

[@marvinyancor4587]

Thanks

[@shirleywong6019]

Thank you. It means so much to me ❤

[@RyanFila]

@@shirleywong6019 Love it! You're welcome 😊 Glad it's making a small difference ❤️

[@VerenaSatriani]

Happiness is a mindset away. It starts with a grateful heart.

[@Mini-n6l]

I agree

[@sanji4112]

Islam = happiness

[@drazendakovic]

No

[@krishnaprasad5688]

Ofcorce

[@Cobretti756]

one of the function of the heart is pump the blood...are we different now?....explain what u mean with a grateful heart....🙄

[@queenskennedy2720]

"We are wired for Generosity, but are educated for greed"true ♥️

[@RC-wx3ks]

....so true.....thanks

[@bublikstudioproductions9686]

I don't know what's true anymore honestly... I just wanna thrive BRO..

[@naigajudith5154]

This is really powerful! Jay is well wired for life

[@himal_pillay]

*GRATITUDE is the best ATTITUDE*

[@RC-wx3ks]

.....so well said....so true

[@cherishrobinson3426]

Oh I love it!!! Gratitude is the best attitude

[@MataAirDanMatahari]

"The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away." - Pablo Picasso When you serve others, you will see how your life/act making impact on others and it gives you satisfaction knowing that you have been a blessing to others. Happiness is your decision, and it's intangible. Whether serving other will make you happy it's your decision, but you will feel something positive inside you once you see yourself making positive impact/contribution to others. Thank you for this video, Jay.

[@BlackBerry-mg6kt]

Couldnt agree more brother

[@svervon7008]

Amen to that. don't let other decide your happiness

[@vandarianacarolina6097]

Love the video, and for these words

[@mifon3874]

Thank you for the encouraging words.

[@bettermanchannel770]

Service..the key to life

[@PillowCharms]

Jay this really hit me deep. I am so greatfull that i discovered you

[@sanji4112]

Discover islam bro I was like you in the past but now i changed 360° ... Discover allah 💓💓💓♥️♥️

[@helpinghand862]

He follows bhagwat gita..which is tottaly against ur islam..

[@PillowCharms]

@@helpinghand862 every religious book teaches similar things. Just the way is different

[@priyanshuchauhan3876]

@@PillowCharms exactly i am glad to see your reply to those trying to spread the hatredness among the religions.

[@PillowCharms]

@@priyanshuchauhan3876 thanks bro. The mentality of todays people have become sick mentality and they dont understand the depth and get triggered by small things

[@princessjulia5646]

This is so true. I get so much joy when I see the face of someone that I can make happy and smile. Please everyone try this today its an amazing feeling.

[@seemranhoro]

Yes its the most amazing feeling😊

[@posimsonshajan5131]

So thats y we believe god,

[@Sofiyanaviolet]

Once was i a monky mind now i enjoy my life and living the things i love with peace❤️ giving and loving people❤️

[@Moon-lo7pr]

When you will be happy that you don't care about people's opinions and I don't say never care but don't let them to control your life and if you will be the best or worst no one care you should be yourself because even some people afraid of being good personlity they think if they will be good people think that they are stupid but if you do everything for people you still can't make people love you just when you will be yourself you can be happy I alway believe that everyone is good person but they afraid to be but goodness is a fire that you can hide but you cannot turn off because your life will be dark

[@TalkieToaster4U]

Its the people who give their time and energy to you, the ones who let you be you and don't manipulate you into doing what they want, the ones you push away and are still there for you. Don't let others keep you from the people who truly love you for you!

[@jayani6584]

Find "meaning" in life than trying to find happinesses and positivity during times of difficulty. Truly a powerful reminder! 🙏

[@PracticalInspiration]

Learning to let go of ego and understanding how to view yourself with objectivity is one of the most valuable things you can achieve, as it's a truly productive way to see life.

[@truongtruong817]

What is the key of your happiness?

[@sujilama6429]

I really appreciate and love whatever you say and suggest

[@lindsayh.8503]

Bullet points -we live too much in the Ego state of mind, (egotistical vs victim mentality) -self honesty & awareness will balance Ego. -self confidence comes from serving others -stop comparing yourself to others -find meaning in what you are doing right now. We can’t always find happiness or positivity, but we can always find meaning. - don’t rush through the healing process in our life trials, we need to reflect & grow instead of repress and rush.

[@MissionHumanExcellence_]

I'm not tearing up, you are! OK I totally am...

[@rainbow_world89]

Anyone reading this: May you heal soon. It too shall paas 💞 just wait for the right time to get anything you want .

[@debrathorpecoaching3232]

A great reminder that finding your super power is the key to confidence

[@ZeroBloodGaming]

The hardest thing a small youtuber can feel is when you wake up in the morning and nothing has changed on your channel. its always been my childhood dream to become a youtuber. the videoes uploaded by this creators makes me strong and gives me motivation to make my own videos. Sadly enough i had a really hard time and ran away from home with nothing anymore . i have nothing left.I Had to build it all up again and after 5 years im back and so much more motivated.Trying to Work very hard to have my own house my own computer and a editing software and play games... I am a casual gamer.. Just being able to edit makes me feel so satisfyed and proud. Even tho i got no viewers and very low subscribers .but watching my work makes me so happy And hopefully i can make so much more people happy with my videos ! I hope one day miracle happens? I will do anything to make my childhood dream a reality ! THANKS BROTHERS

[@aggarwald2002]

Wish you all the happiness and strength to achieve what you want

[@ZeroBloodGaming]

@@aggarwald2002 thanks

[@nurkihass4780]

Hey Jay am from mandera whenever I feel sad, anger I watch ur videos and feel happy it's really helping me God bless u nd help you two while am keep watching your video

[@tigertgf888]

I really love your point about how life demands that we are unable to rush through a wound-healing process, that we should instead, take the time and reflect through the process instead of merely trying to dismiss or mask it, in our bid to get over with the unpleasantness. Thank you for your video, you remind us that we are always in the works and that all of us can become better individuals. Beautiful.

[@BeyondResist]

“They laugh at me because I'm different; I laugh at them because they're all the same.” ― Kurt Cobain

[@brockennation2756]

That’s how I feel when I’m with my friends

[@brockennation2756]

@Adrian De Leon I mean not the real friends

[@R73949]

That's what I feel..

[@Anna_Sharma]

@@brockennation2756 Oh well ! That’s why I have none left ! 😂

[@brockennation2756]

@@Anna_Sharma what do you learn then ?

[@lookabird6169]

Lowkey cried when I’m hearing this video..idk I just felt listened to without even saying a word, or moving a muscle. Idk why I just started crying but I do know is that I feel.. somethings hitting my heart listening to this. Relief maybe?

[@irisdabre9030]

Hey Jay I m from India ur really an amazing motivational speaker I love you. You inspired me a lot . You will be always in my prayer 💞

[@SuperRiya16]

God guided me here & Finding meaning is so true .. just that we need to realise this life needs to be celebrated with his grace 😇

[@vishwaashah1464]

12 mins .. 273 likes and 0 dislikes...Jay we love you❤️❤️❤️

[@gangarawat7329]

This is so beautiful! ❤ This line is going to stay with me, "You can't find positivity or happiness everytime. But you can find meaning " This is inspiring! Healing takes time! ❤

[@aboody7818]

Thanks for the message,because I didn't know what to do who I am what I love and now I know what to do and what to love, thank you

[@777blueray]

JAY...when I express my Authentic self is when those around me go out of their way to physically hurt or kill me especially my family.I've had to hide my light to just survive and now ,I'm at the point where I will rip apart those who try to destroy me because I can see what they fear most which is who i am.I 've had enough of those who want to silence me.I am willing to remove these people from my life no matter the cost.I remember my life before I incarnated in this life and have had clear vision of who I am and knowing that that body I had before I took on the human body has no decay,death or suffering.I am a type 3 Indigo who over the last 19 incarnations has accumulated so much light the people I meet hate me and want to see me fail and when I run into problems is when they express their "joy " at seeing me struggle.This is just the tip of the iceberg.What do you think?

[@officiallyKES]

This video is a blessing. I literally was scrolling but everything said in this video touched my heart. I'm so grateful I clicked on it.

[@JustmeSEVEN]

Woww I watch this accidentally. I was just scrolling in Facebook and I don't know how on earth I got here, but all I know I really need this...thank you💙

[@girishva3823]

Many of us just notice what we are best at and other set of people who just notice what they are worst at and based on that generalise everything...Jay rightly identied that as EGO. Because of EGO we think we are the best or we are the worst..once we break this EGO of being worst, we'll be happy n stress free.

[@poleensilaha3546]

This man really talks sense...he is wise...i get strength whenever i see his videos

[@WebbVentureTV]

All of this is SO in line with living an authentic life which is about being true to ourselves which allows us to help and serve others and be "free" of the Ego. Don't let the Ego drive your life. Validate it, but then put it in the backseat while you realign yourself with who you are meant to be. Thank, Jay! Great stuff as always!

[@NCHILAKAPATISUVARNASREE]

Iam the biggest fan of u Jay and Radhi...love from INDIA...😍

[@rohitraut7519]

How can one talk so well and so fluently like jay talks?

[@07sushy]

He was born and brought up in UK

[@isabellakarner7403]

soon there will be a beautiful world :) no comparison, no competition only appreciation and being ... Thank You for Your light!!! Everyone is great, everyone has a superpower!! Know Your strength!!!! I believe in You all!!

[@jaspreetsaini7779]

U r a god's Messenger for me Jay Shetty Sir.. 🙌

[@radicakissoon9316]

Always believe in your self first ..self confidence in your life make you for who you are.

[@cherishrobinson3426]

Wow the comments are just as impactful as this message I deeply suggest that you read through the comments it's still amazing people in our world

[@ronniesarkar]

Even putting food for my child is meaningful....thanks this says even small task like looking after your family and the pain we go through while doing it is also having a purpose.💕

[@sanu8316]

1)Anticipation about the future 2)Family probems 3)Money related problems 4) Facing Humiliations from society

[@joshthomas_1696]

I love this mans content. He literally always knows what to say. Keep doing what you’re doing Jay! Thank you.

[@ShondaiNspires]

Happiness is our birth right. I hope everyone understands how amazing you are regardless of your circumstances. Find your happy, it’s worth more than it’s weight in gold!! Have a tremendous day! 😊❤️🎶🙏🏽

[@ms.sunshine88]

Don't measure yourself with numbers. Love it 😍 thank you! 🥰🥰🥰

[@dicksonotieno6267]

Your words is the most wonderful thing that is going to make be happy the rest of my life

[@fundemort]

I think it's the effects of the education systems. We got used to be "scored" and "ranked". Hence even after we finished schools, we score and rank ourselves.

[@sheilagarrett7540]

Just read your book “Think Like A Monk”. I have never been so inspired by a book in my life. Which is saying something because I read an average of 75 books a year. I learned so much about thinking differently and to change myself, not others to make my life what it could/should be. Other books have wrote about similar subjects but not with the depth and knowledge you have. Please write another book, this one blew me away!

[@AllThingsSoul]

Oh my God, Jay is a genius! Where has he been all my life? He just gave me an Aha Moment that brought me to tears. It was this: You can't always find happiness; you can't always find positivity; but you can ALWAYS find meaning. If you lost a loved one. You can't be positive about that. But, you can find meaning in it. You can make a list of every lesson they taught you and make a plan to try and live every one of those lessons. If you're in a tough situation, don't look for positivity, look for meaning. You can't rush healing. When you cut yourself, you can't rush the healing process. You've gotta sit through that healing. We try to rush through pain in life rather than reflect through the pain. Healing is meant to be slow because it buys you time to slow down and reflect. Jay's eyes just light up when he talks about this. What is the name of this guest? He's good, too.

[@sillylilhippiechick]

@jayshetty this video took my breath away. I am truly struggling internally and with my marriage emotionally. Your words struck the cord of the note I needed to hear. Thank you ❣ This is the beginning, of a better tomorrow.

[@p_2879]

You changed my life today.... Thank you so much 😌

[@vinaypatel430]

Ya...😊

[@p_2879]

Thanks ......

[@sarvgrover]

Self awareness to have faith on yourself

[@dancingnachos3634]

The questions are as important as the answers. Great questions

[@mixermes809]

When i watch this, i think i can breathe again. You just took my anxiety away. Thank you!

[@ivylindia5963]

Hello I can introduce you to someone who can help you

[@ivylindia5963]

Whatssap him now

[@mixermes809]

@@ivylindia5963 Thank you. I'm doing fine now ! I need to pick myself up to go on 🤗

[@ivylindia5963]

Ok

[@ivylindia5963]

@@mixermes809 how you interested on having any protection to protect yourself from any evil or your realationship ,I can also help you recommend someone who can help you

[@VVylt]

Jay is literally amazing I’m not very interested for motivational speakers but there’s something in Jay and I trust him... 🙏🏻❤️

[@AnshullGupta]

You're the best! Love from Indiaa!

[@lifesy3604]

@Vansh Barleja wtf?

[@PillowCharms]

@Vansh Barleja please just leave don't spread hate

[@AnshullGupta]

@Vansh Barleja Keep your negativity with yourself :)

[@MicheleCervantez]

I really needed to hear this right now. Trying to stay positive, but having a hard time today. Thank you so much!

[@user-wv9es4ms5g]

Hi Michelle I hope things improve for you. Hugs Lisa

[@MicheleCervantez]

L they have! Thank you! I hope you are having a great day!

[@user-wv9es4ms5g]

@@MicheleCervantez yay ! :)

[@riyachandel8269]

Thank you, Sir...for letting me believe in me. Much love and power to you 🧡

[@anupamakumar6152]

I am thankful for the question about how the people who struggle to make ends meet find happiness. Whenever I listened to life lessons and motivational speech by various people I used to wonder why all advices are directed towards people who can afford to take life slow and easy. The answer from Mr. Jay Shetty is also a helpful guide to lead a contented life through ones struggles.🙏🙏

[@TalkwithHeshitha]

නියමයි jay 🤟🏻 දිගටම මේ වගේ වැදගත් විඩියෝස් ඕනේ ❤️ ආදරෙයි බොක්කෙන්ම බ්‍රො 🤘🏻

[@shashikamadushan204]

♥️

[@mperera8016]

🙄🤭😁

[@malkifernando5867]

Therennema athi kiyapu de

[@MsRichagoel]

¹

[@nimaliweeraratna8880]

😂😂😂🤔🤔🤔

[@diyadeshmukh7675]

I recently read you fabulous book Think like a monk and also heard the audiobook in your voice. It made a big difference in me, my thinking and also my behaviour...believe me , your book is the best which covers all the aspects of life and also some of the verses from Bhagvad Gita. I really thank you for this...

[@SIMRAN_2307]

Hey where can I find the audio book?

[@diyadeshmukh7675]

@@SIMRAN_2307 you will get the audiobook on youtube in Jay Shetty's voice

[@SIMRAN_2307]

@@diyadeshmukh7675 okay thankyou

[@gerrimiller3491]

Since God led me to serve people with compassion, life is less selfish and happier and I'm more grateful for everything even the afflictions of life

[@getyourfeelgoodbackbjones1576]

Great video! I believe in myself. I also believe that you can do anything you put your mind to.

[@fridaygemefya9157]

Life is not easy,but let's stay positive, thanks Jay

[@cecilsimitara6127]

LOOK FOR MEANING 💪

[@shahdrashtee8539]

Someone said to me today that I m selfish person & that hurt me & this video made me cry. May be m not giving myself enough cheer & self-love

[@madhuriveampaty268]

Today after seeing this video I got an answer - I was thinking I’m able to touch only 20-30 people stopping from (depression , illness, divorce ) n I receive blessings that point of time I feel so good but later I feel am I doing right ? Why shud I do n why I’m not able to reach many .... but now I’m clear

[@IzzatLamborghini-cj9cf]

Happiness will exist when the right time are took place.

[@priscillasolanki6390]

Acts of kindness is rewarded in God's kingdom! Acts of blindness is unforgivable! Helping others is what HUMANITY is all about being kind & caring for others in need. We must reflect look at ourselves and change for the better. Find purpose in ones life do what makes you happier. We all have fear but don't let fear control & prevent us from moving forward in a positive way. Great video Jay love your insightful mind ❤from New Zealand

[@officiallyKES]

Jay this video needs to teach every soul. That is how powerful this message is!

[@talkwithtyson1949]

I loved all the deep reflections. This is what we live for. Meaning and purpose to life. Do serve our inner calling.

[@mabokangmolaoa5943]

My motivation, my inspiration think like a monk, loosing yourself in the service is other's! Wow, but I was pissed off by someone I offered the opportunity to come work with me in the same company as she changed me in a manner that she labelled me as a monster! No worries I'm still walking tall.

[@downthemedicoway]

Jay Shetty just knows how to put things forward ❤️

[@waheedsubhani3329]

Keep up the great work Jay. You're helping people live better lives and this is the greatest gift of all. Many thanks, I'm a true fan.

[@MT-yx7vw]

Something about the tune in the background is very relaxing If anyone knows something about it let me know please But overall love what was said i resonated 100% especially with both ways of thinking extreme good or extreme bad I've been telling myself lately that I'm different from everyone else and I don't know how to deal with my mental struggles I find it very hard to be in the middle when it comes to my thoughts anyways ty very much for giving me more awareness 🙌❤

[@Storytellerr1575]

Me ... Loved that relaxing music ❤

[@MT-yx7vw]

@@Storytellerr1575 it's amazing

[@raymondtendau2749]

For success like happiness cannot be pursued it must ensue.And it only does so as the unintended side effect of ones personal dedication to a cause greater than one's self. ‐Victor E. Frankl.

[@patrinesiu2065]

Thank you both :) You, your life experiences and meaningful words are a gift for me.

[@atomendoza1229]

Seriously?

[@kazfor3769]

Wow thankyou so much for this,I am in a really tough situation right now, and, yes struggling to find a way to find the happy positive side, to look for meaning instead is such an amazing way to think, I really needed that statement right now 🕊️🙏

[@concesi8877]

For me, what makes me happy is wiping out debt. Financial freedom (not owing anyone a dime) gives me great happiness.

[@Gulnar2805]

Hey, Jay, I am so glad that I got to know your channel and every time you speaks it touches my heart so much❤. I get so motivated by you and today mentioned one of my favourite person Mother Teresa, who had one the most important thing to share, her time and her love 😍 for people. Thank you so much. And yeah The Forbes must mention the ones who are generous and happy😝. The best thing you give someone is your time.😇

[@bknelagoyapeter6867]

Jay you are the best...bless you always🙏

[@sylviaserrano3315]

Golden nuggets, you are both so precious! For sure start with the new Forbes records. We all need that! 🙏❤

[@untoldtales5789]

Jay, I don’t know if you’ll ever read this, but you’re a god’s gift to this planet.

[@andriannaadamou9443]

I hope everyone is getting together no seporation

[@jessagalpo5076]

This is my situation rn. Thank you so much for this Mr. Shetty ❤️

[@mirjammbacoaching4432]

This is so powerful. We are wired for giving. 💫💫🙏

[@praisejehovah52]

Great video..you're such a blessing and God sent..glad I have the opportunity to be inspired by you, may God Almighty Bless you and your family. 🙏🏾😊

[@panimootam]

I'm blown away!

[@cinziaadannaebonine222]

You are gifted Jay Shetty.

[@lyc3343]

Thank you both so much (Jay Shetty and Lewis Howes). Can't express how this video is currently helping me through this time❤‍🔥

[@mishajwriter]

I really needed this today.

[@ForexTradeMinds]

He always use Bhagavat gita word while he talking.. So I decided to read... Then I realized real life mean what krishna said to this world... Thank you jai shetty

[@matangidesai3437]

Amazing discussion every time I hear you wisdom bank opens up . Thank you so much for what you do it's making my work more rewarding !

[@atomendoza1229]

Am..he's a fraud

[@angiesalgar]

🙌 Thank you Jay for enlighten us with great brain food ❤️ You and your wife are awesome ✨ “Small actions equal to amazing blessings “

[@andriannaadamou9443]

I am praying for this story 🙏🙏

[@fitwigebrehiwet3129]

Learn How to be honest (clean all that toxic out)n still live normal n happy live, from the happiest

[@ansharora4734]

Heyyy Beautiful Soul! Yea you the one reading this I'm here to tell you that God loves you so muchhh please stop thinking about anything that's stressing you live every moment in life it's a beautiful gift we only get once thank God for everything that happened in your life because it happened for some really Good reason that you may never know only thing you have to do is trust God May God bless you Hope you have a Great day!!! 💜

[@dolly.jindal_kd]

Read a quote by James Baldwin : “Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within”- What does it mean ? Specially the last line * “ and know we cannot live within” ❤

[@scottieholland8028]

Good morning from Texas Jay, That was a awesome video, Thank you for the insight on this topic. I needed it because I fill like I'm drowning right now because everything going on in my life at this time. Well you and your wife have a great day and stay safe & healthy. And as always I look forward to your next video brother.

[@paulharris1384]

All the best from England Scottie ❤️