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@skylerthompson5760 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I appreciate you I would like more videos of you. I believe being honest an just be your real self. You can't love someone without trust an honesty. Thanks for sharing it's revival week at my church that's my plan tonight take care Melannie God bless you.
@RH-xs8gz Жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you the number of times I asked my ex-wife why she won’t tell me what she wants just to have her say “I shouldn’t have to tell you. You should just know.” That was the most frustrating thing in the world.
@Boudreaux641 Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say that your presentation style is truly remarkable and inspired. Being able to ‘beam’ with a genuine smile and unmistakable honesty in your delivery on camera is so refreshing. I’ve watched a few of your videos now, and your ability to give your viewers a clear and relatable understanding of the points you’re making is astonishing. I applaud your efforts to inform and educate in a fun, meaningful and insightful fashion. Cheers!
@Leandrogg685 Жыл бұрын
Just wanted to point it out, your advices are sincere and really helpful, I'm a 34 years old Brazilian man, and you are helping me understand mistakes I did in past relationships so I can move forward and find the right woman.
@mypov4343 Жыл бұрын
The real "secret" is....don't try to understand women...just appreciate them!
@dennisexplorer487 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos, I love your sense of humour.
@AlanM-z7w10 ай бұрын
Please send more videos like this. sticking up! For me, my word is trials. So pray for me!
@MichaelAlbrecht-d7z10 ай бұрын
I listen to you Melannie and I do take your advice .I know you can't solve all my problems Stay well and strong
@hamidyasamin Жыл бұрын
The last QUESTION broke my heart too, and your answer was so good, everybody is good enough,
@jeffreybusse8746 Жыл бұрын
I normally write down your lists in a small notebook, but I may have to start writing them on Sticky Notes. Great Q&A!
@yingkionglab8143 Жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊 for uploading video 👍👌
@jonathans.9713 Жыл бұрын
Hello Melannie, Thank you very much for going over frequent questions that are asked and giving good thought out answers. The words for this video are sticky note. Have an excellent day and God bless you! In Christ, Jonathan 😀
@roybeach102 Жыл бұрын
When I was younger girls use to break up with me and tell me they went with me to keep from hurting my feelings.. I'm not mad.. I just want to know why that happens..
@nwp197610 ай бұрын
Coach Melannie, I do realize it's been a year since you recorded this video. However, as always, thank you for taking time to share your thoughts from a lady's point of view, it's very helpful. In the past (1990s generation), most guys just did their best trying to figure out everything you shared about women in general, because a lot of women literally think that men are mind readers and we are not. "Sticky Notes"!
@sven_ampleforth Жыл бұрын
Hi Coach Melannie!! Thanks for answering those common questions. --------- I think is hard to ignore a written QUESTION on a STICKY NOTE.
@TheSingleTrucker10 ай бұрын
Many informative questions! Thank you Melannie!❤ 😅stick ups😅
@brianhanson9912 Жыл бұрын
I use Sticky Notes at work all the time, they're great!!
@scottgregory7683 Жыл бұрын
It opens up one's creativity when leaving questions on Sticky Notes.
@RightURKen7 Жыл бұрын
Turn the background music down. I can see what you're going for and it's good, but it should be so low as to barely hear it. Your words are the important part and should completely stand out.
@guntertorfs6486 Жыл бұрын
Glamorous hair ! Suits you perfectly. The question format works very well. You're very good at answering them in a concise manner. You're NOT talking too much !
@sven_ampleforth Жыл бұрын
Have a nice day!! and have better health this week
@CoachMelannie Жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much! I'm feeling better now. Your support truly helps! I hope you have a wonderful week! God bless 🙏
@et76039 Жыл бұрын
Sticky notes help me to keep up with great advice.
@husamalfaouri2070 Жыл бұрын
I hope you provide your followers a audio content so i can enjoy , download and listen during hiking .
@dwainevassell181 Жыл бұрын
Sticky Notes say "You Rock"
@eueygamingsinging Жыл бұрын
These are some powerful questions and I honestly have one now that I hope you may answer...or anyone for that matter. Why is it that some women uses fake names and photos to describe themselves instead of being open and honest in the beginning? This comes from experience happening to me.
@THEscatterbrainedberserker Жыл бұрын
Um, get off the 'net. Some of those women are bots. Ask the women at work (the NICE ones, the grandma's, etc) about their single friends. Bet they will even show you pics on their phone, cause they wanna play 'matchmaker ' lol
@bruceleighton4948 Жыл бұрын
Another good video you are doing good for STICKING UP with us guys thank you very much 😊😊😊😊😊
@ericschultz5434 Жыл бұрын
This was such an awesome video answering QUESTIONS from Instagram! I didn't realize you were going to make a video answering these, I should've put a lot more thought into my question, lol. Sticky Notes!
@georgesnell7364 Жыл бұрын
Sticking up
@mr.goodwrench8273 Жыл бұрын
QUESTIONS and STICKING NOTES. I like that you mentioned that the ladies like guys who are mechanics and such. Gettin' greasy and dirty is my way of life as a heavy-duty truck mechanic and automotive restoration enthusiast as my hobby. I'm always working on something. I definitely have that box checked off. Such a great video. May God richly bless you. 🙏 Have a good weekend and a safe week.
@CoachMelannie Жыл бұрын
That's wonderful! Truly traits that women admire 😀 Thank you so much again for your support and kindness 🙏 God bless!
@jeffcouture9697 Жыл бұрын
Questions, Sticky note. Thank you for the answers to the questions.
@sethflix Жыл бұрын
You light my heart on fire, Coach. What should I do? Questions! Questions indeed! Although, I greatly appreciate that you've already answered so many of the questions I've had about women that was confusing me for so long already. I feel like God led me to find this video and you. I'm now feeling very eager to learn more from you, as well as about you, and God wiling, I pray that you will want to learn more about me too. I'm near he end of composing a rather long email for you now. Have a great day! STICKY NOTES! You rock too, babe!
@brittbreezy8159 Жыл бұрын
Question was wondering if you had a video of how to ask a girl out from your perspective what woman look for what they want to hear that sort of thing lol
@dejay9404 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely awesome coach Melanie..
@BlaineyM15 Жыл бұрын
Great video, Any tips for online interactions, like video calls
@waynetech10 Жыл бұрын
Problem, I know what they're thinking. I'm repulsive, and they'd be drastically lowering their standards, by looking at me twice.
@mikeanddeta Жыл бұрын
Sticky Note 😊
@aleswirt4033 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Melanie, for the new video. Waiting for more questions) Oh, yeah... stickynotes
@reneziegler8908 Жыл бұрын
Great stuff... Tanks ❤
@clarenceleyh8315 Жыл бұрын
Questions are okay, but topics are so much easier because it focuses on one subject. Questions feels more like random STICKY NOTES everywhere. Like the wall over my kitchen counter, sticky notes of Bible thoughts, several recipes or random thoughts I felt the need to write down. You had me up and down the roller coaster today, knowledge I needed to avoid the toxicity of the past… but some fun knowledge to help me stay in the lead for the future. Random fun fact, my church has about 15% marriages of greater than eight years. Largest gap I have ever personally seen is 26 years and several in the 9-16 year range.
@JChristianMueller Жыл бұрын
😂 thanks for picking my question as 1st to answer. And yes it is a bit funny, but some girls seem to expect men to read their mind… Worst: then they are TOTALLY offended if it didn’t happen 😮 Historical background: No joke, years ago a very beautiful girl would not talk to me for days and I tried EVERYTHING to find out why. Even asked her friends what could have happened. When she finally broke the silence and told me the „horrible offense“ I had committed, it was mostly a big cultural and family difference. Fortunately she was mature enough to speak her mind and we still got married. 🎉 Really would love to read women‘s mind. 😅
@SantaFe19484 Жыл бұрын
In my opinion, kissing must wait until the wedding. I would like to see videos in which you talk about how important it is for men to be spiritual leaders! Sticky notes!
@shanemcguire5347 Жыл бұрын
the age and maturity thing you're exactly right but sometimes the opposite is also true I've had offers for my older women who have wanted to date me and of course that's nothing to boast about cuz I was interested in them but and what I'm talking about 10 + years older so been my experience there's a lot of women who date even marry younger men
@howardrempel328 Жыл бұрын
Sticky notes❤❤
@Tony-DWK-56 Жыл бұрын
This vid was different and refreshing. I'll begin gathering my "Questions" by listing them on a "sticky note" I'd like to also hear more about signs of a toxic woman. This lady I adore repeatedly encouraged me to be Chivalrous. So, I was on a roll. One day I simply told her she was beautiful. Her response was "Please Stop!" Talk about devastation? I didn't know what to do or say. Ok, so my Question is: Can a Christian woman be both very High Quality but also Toxic? (50/50) (Coach Melannie, love ur vids and u rock:)
@kayaking1000 Жыл бұрын
Of course, being Christian makes no difference!
@davidmillen1453 Жыл бұрын
Great answers to some great questions Melannie 😊 Too much to write down on a sticky note 😅
@somebody7270 Жыл бұрын
Questions! Thanks for the video!
@raylane7056 Жыл бұрын
Love your content. Would your advice differ for older retired men who are looking for love/companionship in their 60’s?
@josephcrafa2694 Жыл бұрын
Loved this !
@mr.aquarius Жыл бұрын
Sticky Notes ❤️
@georgew.5639 Жыл бұрын
Sticky note. 📝😊
@justincooper6340 Жыл бұрын
Great channel. I’m divorced about 3 years ago. I’m Christian and married a non believer so looking back it would never go well. My question is do you think Christian women are different in terms of the usual rules of attractiveness? Example, a recent study showed 80% of women only find the top 20% of men attractive.
@hamidyasamin Жыл бұрын
no one thinks you sound like a broken record 😊. Melannie sounds like good heated kind girl🌹
@MMAengineer Жыл бұрын
can you do a video about "restoring" attraction? Like there was attraction at first, then I fked up, and now I want to work my way back up again. Point is I dont want to drop a girl that fast
@RetroCaptain Жыл бұрын
All I have ever learned (even from our beloved coach Melannie) points to it being a one shot opportunity. My experience also (unfortunately). Only one woman who I see sometimes in passing seems to be consistent in seeing me as possibly desirable. All the rest went back to acting like strangers.
@leonardm472 Жыл бұрын
Sticky note💞
@cedricburkhart3738 Жыл бұрын
Sticky-note. How do you figure out if your a good match for someone? I think you can only tulley love who you know. Don't you have to be realistic sometimes if you can't provide what a woman might need in a relationship?
@lloyddsmithjr17 күн бұрын
Well, girls that ask you time cards
@jatbatman Жыл бұрын
I don't know, Melannie I think "schue schue schue schue" is a pretty good word of the day. It's a lot harder to spell, and definitely not something you'll typically see on a sticky note though. 😂😂 That said, apparently some of these guys have only experienced toxic females. I'd ask something more like "why is choosing where to eat so difficult?" This can be true for females across the age spectrum by the way, my daughters can get pretty indecisive about food. 🤷♂️
@edmoran869 Жыл бұрын
I'm a new viewer, so I'm clueless about what's been previously covered, so I'll just ask hoping for an answer: How does a guy distinguish the difference between a woman that is really into him and a woman that treats every other person like one of her best friends? I've personally encountered a few of them over the years that would be so excited to see me, I thought she was about to lose her bladder control, but then I saw she was that way with others too (genuinely). Then there was times I didn't see others being treated similarly, so I made my move thinking I had the green light. It got awkward really fast. Is there a way to distinguish the difference? I think I'm in that situation again. Nothing wrong with knowing a real "people person", but it would be nice to know that someone out there is really into me
@leeostendorf4696 Жыл бұрын
Sticky notes!
@hamidyasamin Жыл бұрын
*good Hearted*
@rachelandrew6846 Жыл бұрын
On the Job Site. I Work in Food Service
@roccogarzione841011 ай бұрын
You should make an academy or something to answer these questions in a more in depth way 😂
@simonchowkwchow5083 Жыл бұрын
What if I am only interested in healthy platonic friendships with women stopping short of romance etc. Could women handle that?
@jeffcouture9697 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@CoachMelannie Жыл бұрын
I'm SO glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for your support!
@alaalfa8839 Жыл бұрын
Well the woman who politely refuses the guy just by giving him a number, is probably thinking, What I would do if my father would sit near her. Basically, none of the guys realize that the girl also has parents who care about her. One day he will probably also have a son or daughter. Therefore there are so many selfish people who think humans are just some property. But normal people understand it.
@tomdanielsVO Жыл бұрын
Sticking up, or sticking out, 🤔
@Hockeytown-so4forever Жыл бұрын
Sticky note
@georgekatsinis522411 ай бұрын
Sticky Note
@johnrushing5437 Жыл бұрын
im a loser when it comes to finding a girlfriend i feel like im to short or ugly
@THEscatterbrainedberserker Жыл бұрын
Believe in your self confidence (you could shoot a charging bear right?), Believe you are handsome (good with your hands at least right?), Smile slyly like James Bond (watch Casino Royale asap), and then go bar-hopping with one wingman maximum. I tried that once and the BARTENDER took ME home!!!😅
@7felixm Жыл бұрын
Sticky Notes.
@dcvariousvids8082 Жыл бұрын
Question, oh those many questions. Just look to the sticky notes and some of the answers will be there.
@kulaspiro7240 Жыл бұрын
My question is if the girl are more in making money investment but you as guy had no enough money to connect to do the same with your crush, probably you cant mixed yourself and make chemistry with her, so you may not get beside her all the time.. she said shes not into material thing but the way she shows she prioritized the earthly thing rathen than the love that she seeing it as expectation i mean material thing and love..
@donaldbadeIII Жыл бұрын
Sticky notes.
@funkyx486 Жыл бұрын
sticky notes make me happy
@vincentbosso4364 Жыл бұрын
wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@greatness3554 Жыл бұрын
Questions!!!
@calvintait3869 Жыл бұрын
What if she keeps sending mixed signals constantly hot/cold because she was widowed and still mourning. I have no idea if I wait years or pass on someone that seems otherwise wonderful? Very difficult situation. Don’t know if I should wait long term or move on.
@THEscatterbrainedberserker Жыл бұрын
If she's worth it, be patient and she'll appreciate that gesture I'm sure. The worst that can happen is another man's better timing. At least you're getting the hot WITH the cold to start, right? My similar situation: just cold, but I tried anyway 2.5 yrs after he passed. Nicely told me she was nowhere near ready for anything and slam back to cold but she's been cold to everyone for 10 yrs I've worked there anyway, I just really admired her while I was married, now I'm separated so I went for it...
@steveharvey6159 Жыл бұрын
Sticky Notes
@rachelandrew6846 Жыл бұрын
What If You Get Sexually harassed Against you and Put In The Friend zone?
@7felixm Жыл бұрын
Hey Coach. It's different for an introvert. I'm not into nor on social media. When I tell a young lady that, I can tell she is not interested. Do you have any suggestions?
@kulaspiro7240 Жыл бұрын
Introvert is not vibes to anyone and thats really hard
@THEscatterbrainedberserker Жыл бұрын
@@kulaspiro7240yeah, except maybe other introverts, which is double hard, I would know.
@THEscatterbrainedberserker Жыл бұрын
'Young' ladies lives revolve around social media, they are social animals. Even grandma's I work with post trout-pouts on f-book and such. Get used to it guys this will never change. Besides, you're on here so that's a start. Anyway, if she lost interest based on that, I think Melannie would say "toxic!!"...😅
@kriseikenbery1127 ай бұрын
Sticky note- a year late!😊
@rickyguitarman3839 Жыл бұрын
so tell me, how do i approach a beautiful woman like you?
@mflorenc1 Жыл бұрын
Questions
@SouthernGospelMusic Жыл бұрын
You remind me of a younger version of Delilah
@DaveStoner-w4e8 ай бұрын
Do you think to elderly people could be great together put you don't want marriage
@xplore_alappuzha Жыл бұрын
Hi, what do u mean when u say u are a Christian dating coach?
@mhill88ify Жыл бұрын
Its a pretty simple concept, dude
@joshsteidle Жыл бұрын
Sticky notes
@knguyen4c Жыл бұрын
honestly, all these videos rationalize women, but how do you rationalize the irrational?
@NotoriousRichie Жыл бұрын
You need to pick better.
@knguyen4c Жыл бұрын
@@NotoriousRichie beggars can't be choosers mayne
@NotoriousRichie Жыл бұрын
@@knguyen4c so make yourself more than a beggar. Perhaps try and become a man of value.
@musicplus9601 Жыл бұрын
Questions 😊😉
@andrewmckinley6571 Жыл бұрын
Sticky bananas notes
@leeostendorf4696 Жыл бұрын
Questions!
@rickkillian2378 Жыл бұрын
Sticky Notes with Questions
@bernardwinn1817 Жыл бұрын
Hi Melanie I do enjoy your videos. I met a wonderful woman one month ago. As far as kisses. We had a good time we went dancing on the first date. It was online date. And I asked her let’s go dancing. She said yes. I will make a bold move and do that. At the end of the day, give each other pecs not a kiss. And ended the date. We’re getting to know each other we’re very happy. I went through at least a lot of online dates before I met her. And we talk a lot and we see each other often. Mainly because we both just retired and we’re in our mid 60s. And she’s beautiful. I do enjoy listening to you. But, you do mention the Academy A whole lot. Maybe just one in the beginning and at the end. But not in the middle. Thank you
@mhill88ify Жыл бұрын
Lol cool story bro
@byronlewis9217 Жыл бұрын
Questions??❤
@dcvariousvids8082 Жыл бұрын
Ah yes, sticky notes can often answer questions or remind one to ask questions or maybe just prompt a question. Just remember to recycle the paper afterwards.
@letsgetitthen4507 Жыл бұрын
I would’ve a Christian. But I know Jesus isn’t real bc slavery happened. No way a good god that deserves praise would allow that 🤦♂️