THIS ONE IS FOR YOU UNCLE TOM

THE NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP IS OVER. Was it your fault? This is a question we all need to get answers to. We think about this and search for the reasons the relationship ends. We need to understand many things after the relationship and this is one question of many we need the answer to. For contact information on speaking engagements or inquiries please email me here …[e-mail]. #newsupplynarcissist #narcissistnewsupply #empowerment #growth #narcissism #narcissist #healing #health #education #eggshells #tramabond #silenttreatment #stonewalling #selfworth #newsupply

[@nickroach9015]

RIP Uncle Tom.Thankyou for sharing your story.Your sincerity speaks volumes about your character.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@katiebabes57251]

Wow!! This is an incredible insight! 😢 It really puts a perspective on how mental abuse can be as traumatic as physical..you just can't see it.. Love to you Uncle Tom.❤ I've just had so many moments now where I look back on my life .& I was in a fog . & now the people in my life & how they have treated me.. really are making sense. Thank you for sharing your heart, pain, insight, & what is closest to you Andrew.. You are making a difference. I am so grateful for you.. I had tears running down my face listening to you.. 😢 Love you Andrew. ❤

[@Dee-mj3pu]

Get to a place of sanity, safety, and peace!! There is HELP!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@sandralindsay9739]

Andrew, thank you for sharing your story of your Uncle Tom. It's very touching. We often don't know people's traumas, their experience and effects to the psyche. Some isolate, crawl into a shell within themselves, block out and some choose to speak upon, educate others and spread awareness. Thank you for educating and spreading awareness of narcissistic abuse and trauma. ❤️

[@tboned1]

My wife is a dog breader. I left 9 days ago. I took one dog with me. He is a treasure. But I miss my sweet dogs that I cared for every day of their lives...sooo much. My heart breaks I miss them so much.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@NancyKelly-cu2uh]

God bless your uncle Tom .. Your amazing soul Andrew God God bless you everyday

[@KL-pq3mz]

This is just beautiful. This video. I hope NONE of us lose our ability to help others. Working hard to find my way, educate and GIVE back to someone, maybe many who have suffered.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@Ams461]

Thank you Uncle Tom for serving all of us. I am 1 week post discard today & just said to my mum, I feel like I was just released from a POW camp. yes I'm processing, yes im hurt but I am ecstatic to be free. God bless you and Uncle Tom

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@alfonsobejarano4531]

Very good example of what trauma cost, is wounds and scars that no one sees and was inflected to us from the exterior, we didn't ask for it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

We did not ask for it.. thank you Alfonso 🙌💯

[@suesanders1169]

SILENCE IS NOT ALWAYS GOLDEN. SPEAKING THE TRUTH ABOUT IT AND EDUCATING ONESELF ON IT, FREES THE SOUL. 😌

[@catherinetravelle3887]

Hi Andrew Your videos are a saving grace. You are a brave man to share your heartbreak and deep soul wound with us, who are likewise shattered and left for dead. Luckily, the people of good will can regenerate, move forward, heal and purify. I keep thinking what wasteful fools our partners were to have spent their time with us manipulating rather than loving. What a pathetic travesty of control. The worst crime of narcissists is their desecration of our gift of communion. Your channel restores our faith that community and communication are what love is about. It restores what was taken from us by these cowardly thieves of love. Thank you for your love! Much joy to you always! 💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

My Dad was like this. BTW his name was Andrew. I miss him. Everyone called him Andy. Am glad I found your channel. Thanks Andrew. Keep up the good fight, for your self, and all of us‼️🌹

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@janisimleder9509]

Dealing with a narcissist is a war without martial law in the absence of any Red Cross. Thank you so much for sharing the war of your uncle Tom.

[@eileenallen1178]

Thanks for helping those of us recovering from narcissistic abuse to realize that narcissistic abuse is just that, abuse, and not just a relationship that ‘went bad’. The damage from these encounters can run very deep, and require intense healing, including recovering of self-worth, strength, and confidence. Thank you again, Andrew, and bless you always.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯🙌🙏

[@joann5465]

Thank you for sharing this. Our experiences are very similar to war. When my whole experience starting unfolding that's exactly what I called it, I said the "war has begun" because that's what it felt like. And we suffer things like C-PTSD, mental struggles of all kinds, and even all the physical ailments our bodies went through due to the strain we were under. Our enemy was disguised as a loved one.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Certainly was disguised ..💯💯

[@Shay4YourMind81]

This was beautiful, great story and experiences. Dealing with narcissists is in fact like being on a battlefield, no peace, and constant unrest. There’s nothing like escaping and being away from all the madness. Wishing you all continued peace and serenity 😌🏝

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏 for sharing 💯

[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

Yeah, like trying to find the quiet eye in the storm ‼️ that is where I am. I am surrounded by them. I see Dead people ‼️😊

[@lourdesecheverria6209]

Finally we have the "right" description of the narcissistic experience. War, battlefield. scarred for life. Yes, agree. However, our light will shine thru our pain and our wisdom and strength will remind us always to be grateful to have survived and be home. Thank you Andrew and may uncle Tom be in heaven with the rest of our loved one's that have departed! Namaste! ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@laurasmith5702]

So true. I was married for a long time to a narcissist. When he died I cant tell you how lost and traumatized I was. God Bless Tom.

[@dorothymorgan6260]

I too was married to a narcissist for a life time, he died recently and I am lost and traumatized. I felt this was unnatural, that I should feel relief, and sometimes I do, but mostly just lost. Thank you for helping me know I am not alone, someone understands.

[@ERnarcfree]

I watched this video for the first time today. Andrew you made me cry because everything you say I can entirely relate to. Thank you for opening your heart and sharing the most difficult moments of your life with all of us. Thank you 🙏.

[@eleanorreyes512]

Andrew thank you so much for sharing about your uncle Tom. He sounds like a wonderful man. I'm thankful for all the war veterans and what they did for us. Father God bless each and everyone of them. Living with a narcissist is being in a different kind of war because there is no peace living with them. Thank you to your uncle Tom and thank Andrew for helping us to fight this narcissistic war, walking on egg shells, silent treatment, etc. Thank you for your message of hope and inspiration. May Father God bless and keep us all and may he make the light he placed inside of us to shine brightly in this world. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@DocIme]

No friend of mine could understand what kind of trauma I had from this narc. And I never dared talk to my family about it. Thx to you and all the other people who post these videos.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 Doc.. 💯🙌☀️

[@naomiwest9622]

Yes, they think you should move on and we are,but they don't know what we went through, it takes time to recover, its not normal abuse, this is demonic abuse on a level you cannot understand till you go through it. It's absolutely impossible to understand it if you haven't gone through it.

[@daydreamer9316]

It’s really sad how a single person can destroy whole family just by being around, l totally agree it’s a war and every day is a new battle that no one knows about except our creator it’s a test from God and we have to pass it and be strong for our selves and for our kids .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely correct 💯🙌

[@melindalawson4484]

I've said so many times how 1 person can destroy a whole family it's just unbelievable.

[@overcomer4060]

Thank you for sharing this story, it touched my heart. It's unbelievable, the pain that some people have to endure at the hands of others. But thankfully we do have a lot more information at our fingertips now. I feel like this is a pivotal moment; a crossroads in my life, and in all our lives. It's so important to educate, learn, and heal. I want to do it well. God bless.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate your honesty and kindness.. thank you for sharing this beautiful message..🙏☀️💯🙌❤️

[@shaeholden1743]

Thank you for this. It helps me to be kinder to myself rather than to blame myself for allowing myself to be treated so despicably. Yes, it's a battle we were unknowing brought into...it wasn't our fault. Again, thank you so much!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Shae..🙌🙏💯☀️

[@wmhhealth2018]

I am daily practicing and implementing the establishment of healthy personal boundaries. The word no truly is a complete sentence.

[@kathrynbarnes4256]

I've been through some horrible things, but this daily truth has been worse than being robbed and kidnapped from a store I worked at. it feels like that every day.

[@Faithled]

I can't tell anyone I was given away as a child abused severely and told to be glad I was kept alive. Shocking. I still had hope even at my darkest hour.

[@zulftreerain8991]

A lot of broken people around, many among those back from wars (their face an stare change), many have broken hearts, many carry childhood traumas, inferiority complex or simply doubt themselves. That's so sad how people don't get it, we can help each other by being kind and generous. For me empaths are people with kind hearts, and Andrew is one of the kindest, thank you...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome ❤️❤️

[@angelbulldog4934]

I didnt realize it until therapy about 10 years ago, but I walked on eggshells from the start, since my mother was a narc. I've recently realized I have a mild case of PTSD. It all makes sense now. Been watching some of your older videos, even if I don't leave a message. Thanks, Andrew. I sense so much about you through these videos. You're a kind soul. 🙏♥️

[@JJ-dk1lr]

I appreciate you and the information you are providing to others. I was 55 years old when I realized what was happening. God bless you all and those who are learning much earlier in life!! Break the cycle and Take care of yourself. :)

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌🙏❤️

[@debmorgan1287]

Betrayal trauma physical emotional & spiritual warfare with a narcissist is something I will never totally get over. It’s hard for anyone to understand what I’ve been through so I suffered a lot in silence. I still do after 4 years now. We had a brief encounter a few months ago which has left me so disappointed in myself that I was triggered once again. Yes get strong & educated as they do try to come back to really destroy you. They have no remorse or compassion towards anyone. Using & taking is all they care about. Thank you for understanding & caring.

[@jorgecanizares9877]

Thank you for this insight and as usual very helpful. I personally feel like I can't get into a relationship because getting into a relationship requires that you trust and I have been abused to the point where I can not trust. I'm definitely wounded to the point that it's traumatizing. Your videos and your advice is the best.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Jorge.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty.. my hope is you are healing and growing.. 🙏🙌💯☀️

[@helenarubio3371]

Dad was a WWll vet that suffered night terrors. I believe also in this connection you have made. It is the raw fear of sometimes just being in the mere presence of the enemy- the narcissist.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@marilynlamarra5378]

Andrew, your video shares are amazing. I truly, truly sense your pain when I listen to you. I was with one for around 44 years. And I now understand how my prime years have been stolen... It is heartbreaking. The most cruel realisation... 💖

[@monicakander7999]

Your words of concern and love are healing balm to my heart. God bless you Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Monica..💯🙌☀️

[@johnmock7565]

Having a relatioship with a narcissist is like walking on minefield. You must walk carefully to dont trigger the bombs. Everyday is a new war and every silent treatment is an ambush waiting for the strike. The only thing is if you want to win against narcissist. Please dont go to war. You only fight for avoid defeat not to achieve victory.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Well said John.. 💯💯

[@marlaalbert7906]

Andrew, I have cried more because of your channel than when I went through my divorce. I was stoic then. Yes, I am much like your Uncle Tom...I, too, don’t share my experiences with the narc. This channel has changed that...but my friends have no comprehension of narcissistic abuse and even my therapist didn’t believe much of what I told him...until the end. I know the wounds were deep...the scars have faded with time BUT it was warfare on every front. It took everything I had to survive...my health, my finances, my quality of life....my belief in humanity in general. Like Uncle Tom, I am not inclined to share. Those who know, know. Those who don’t wouldn’t belief me. Cheers to you and your Uncle Tom! Thank you for your messages of hope and healing! Love them! God bless you! ♥️🙏🏻🕯🦋🌼🌸🌷🌹

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@BeTheLight624]

Thank you for this beautiful heartfelt tribute to Uncle Tom and healing thoughts of the effects of narc trauma. This truly is one of your best. I did not ask for the narcistic scar imposed on me in return for the love I gave with good intention. I no longer allow myself to be the captive screen the narc projects his venum on. After I recover, transforming myself in the cocoon of healing I will emerge arise anew, emitting God’s brightness of love. I will not allow the narc to deminsh me. I choose to shine God’s healing light on others. God bless you Andrew, Uncle Tom and all the hurting. May you rebound healed in Hope Joy and Love. ✝️🙏🏻🕊️☀️😎🌸🦋🌳🌎❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@P4Eight]

Thank you for the time and energy it takes to share these videos. You've hit on many thoughts I've had while recovering, especially this one. For those who aren't Christian , God's word declares that we are in a war on this planet.. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. God also tells us how to prepare ourselves : Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. This is a spiritual war, we're unknowing participants. God bless

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for being here.. I appreciate your honesty and sharing this beautiful message 💯☀️🙌🙏

[@naomiwest9622]

Yes its spiritual, REVELATIONS 12:9-12, it our very life Satan wants and dose not take no for an answer, he keeps coming at us. But he and all wicked spirits have a death sentence coming up, they will pay with their very lifes to what they gave done.

[@jennydoucette2538]

truth!

[@manyhats3846]

@@naomiwest9622 agree!

[@manyhats3846]

@EXPOSED. Algerian satanic narcissist. Bilal lakama The demons work with satan, they were once angels that chose to side with satan, that also once was an angel. I don't put a capital s on satan. I don't feel he deserves that. They chose to rebel against God. They know they have a short period of time. They definitely want to drag as many as they can away from God! That is what evil, jealous beings do! They know they are going down, so that means they want everyone else too! Plus they are trying to prove to God that He doesn't have any loyal worshipers.

[@Edward-oy7ed]

Yes, the shame with the trauma is hard to explain to someone who, hasn't experienced narcissistic abuse. I also kept things to myself until I understood, what was going on. When I tried to share it, a friend unknowing put me down as well for not being strong and contributing to enabling this trauma.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@NYChill1]

I was once ‘Uncle Tom’. Andrew, you are awesome. Thank you for this video. 🙏🏾

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Mene.. I am grateful for your kindness.. sending light and positive energy to you ☀️💯🙌🙏

[@imperator4973]

I was born into abuse... didnt know anything about nothing... just wandering and wondering why people treated me like shit

[@ianandrew4368]

Love this ,sharing your connection with your uncle ,clearly someone haunted and traumatised by war .Thank you Andrew for the hope . This was very touching .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@fivestaragent3123]

Thank you for sharing Andrew, never too late, never give up, we all learned, heal and fight the battle each day.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you fivestar.. I appreciate your kindness always 🙏🙌☀️💯

[@chazbickel4518]

My silence is hard for people to understand. The same words were said over and over so many times, they lost their meaning to me. I find myself speaking as little as possible. My silence is a gift for others and a self sentence for years of speaking too much. When I found myself in fight or flight, I fought with all I had. If I could go back and relive the most depressing moments, I would not have said one word. Without fighting and just left. Every second of fighting drained me of the energy I needed to make a change, and fuled the fire to be used against me. Silence is the only thing I can control. Thanks Andrew for sharing.

[@joanneloesner1264]

Wow Andrew !!! I am almost speechless. This was so complelling and deeply emotional. It certainly also was very impactful. Your strong empathic spirit totally present and visible. I can't really find the words to tell you how helpful and meaningful this was. I am relatively new to the channel (2 weeks) and have been watching several videos each day to catch up. Each video new and fresh and special in it's own way. You are amazing Andrew! Love and peace to you. Namaste 🙏❤🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Joanne.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty 🙏💯🙌❤️

[@marissafortunato7557]

Beautiful story...Its crazy how U can really understand a person years later...Sometimes You can relate to certain peoples pain,and understand and get it.. ❤..Namaste my friend❤🤗Keep moving forward😇

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Marissa..Always 🙏💯💯🙌☀️

[@malibu90265]

A battle of the soul.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@blessed162]

Hallo dear friends, a n d Andrew. You just mentioned "who do I turn to, who do I talk to about this" and that we must educate ourselves THIS is the punchline. We, ALL on this group, appreciate you and thank you for your continues commitment to share your wisdom to educate us. You are shining like the light sparks like of a precious diamond 💎 in our life's. Because of this my healing and growing is totally depending on listening to you every day. God bless you. My heart goes out to you, and everyone on this channel. Love you all. Keep on keeping on, your best life is just around the corner.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@chickenbiscuit4525]

Things may damage the mind or even modify or destroy our lives and those of others, yet in all respect nothing can cripple the conscience or deliberately rewrite our memories. We carry on. Each day as host is our own changing battle for which is for us to maintain as with support by ample means the opportunity in freedom to make our own relative choices and concerns, wisely and with confidence though always with due effect. 🙏 Our given course in time. We elect not to scar others with our own wounds or traumas though many would do given to the chance to do so, however consciously or not.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful insight thank you 🙏 🙌☀️

[@jjabreakerzz]

You are good, Andrew. Great! Thank you for all you continue to share with us, I am certainly grateful. You are blessed.🙏🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙌💯☀️🙏❤️

[@happyhealthyblessed]

Excellent example Andrew you are the best!! 🙏🏻💯❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@christineshaw5157]

I honestly believe that out-of every bad situation comes some good. In your case Andrew if you had not gone through what you did , you would not be here.....now.... helping many people who needed someone special , like you to help them heal, cope and move on. God works his wonders and he led you in the right direction. Thank you so very much Andrew from the 🇬🇧 uk. Xx

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🇬🇧🇨🇷🙌

[@theglobalvagabond3074]

There are many many people that are 6ft under, in jail, or in a hospital at the hands of the narc. They do drop bombs; they injure and kill people every day. Even for us survivors, I don't think we fully appreciate the mortal danger we were in during the relationship. Great Video! Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Frogman 🙏💯☀️🙌

[@NaveDelAmor]

Thanks for sharing your story of Uncle Tom. We had an extended family person who was adopted. When he found his birth mom, he found out she was a mute due to a trauma and she was unable to connect with son. He eventually committed suicide, very tragic, left us affected. It feels like a roller coaster.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@marshamarshamarshag.6800]

Hello there! What I can't get over right now is how some that I considered my friends would allow me to get caught up in a relationship with a narcissistic person. I asked about the person before I got involved and my friends were all happy to go about getting us set up?? Why would they do that?? That hurts just as bad as the abuse from the narcissistic person...if not worse. Thankfully I was saved from that abusive relationship before it really got off and running. After only 3 weeks my eyes were opened as to the kind of person that I was dealing with and your videos helped me tremendously. Thank you again! God bless you and yours!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏.. my hope is you are healing and improving 🙏🙌💯

[@thomasplacentia5201]

Usually the only people affected negatively by the narcissist are the ones who get close. Narcissist have and maintain only shallow, superficial friendships.so their friends may have no clue about the dark side of that person they won't ever get to really know the narcissist . The abuse happens to those Closest and it happens behind closed doors.

[@Vin-nx1pb]

Because Narcs are shape shifters , chameleons , demons who can change and adapt to their environment, what you experience within the 4 walls of your house is nothing like what other people experience when they engage with the Narc. They can fake kindness, charity , sympathy and empathy and fool everyone. They watch how other people behave and act (including from TV shows) and they copy that , they have no sense of self or core value system of their own , it's all fake created to serve a purpose , get them supply so they can regulate themselves.

[@angelanicoletti3330]

Thank you Andrew, This is a Fantastic Analogy of what we have been through and are going through. The main thing is we are going through! We can choose to sit and wallow in Self Pity or stop Blaming Ourselves and get on the path of Love, Healing, Purpose and Educating ourselves. We had no idea they were like this! This too shall pass. Psalm 55:22 `Cast your Cares on The Lord and HE will sustain you`. Amen

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Angela.. beautiful insight 🙌🙏💯☀️

[@lisavansant961]

Beautiful parallel... Thank you Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome ❤️❤️

[@nvbccjarbohum]

Thank you so much for this video. I am similar to your uncle Tom. I have no words to express myself how to describe how I feel and how you have touched my soul. I am so very grateful for what you are doing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome ❤️❤️

[@paulineEirefairygirl5067]

💯 correct you can't justify with words the experience only others who were through it can understand

[@robertc8176]

Truly powerful

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@carahill3622]

I love this video as I love all of your videos but this one was in such depth and I can so relate to what your uncle was going through because yes we were in a battlefield everyday fighting and not knowing what was going to happen each and every day what kind of battle we were going to have to fight but it's almost like we won the war and we're still standing and sometimes when I reflect back and I wonder how did I make it through it lets me know that I'm stronger than I thought I was if we can make it through that we can make it through anything thank you for sharing this Andrew yep this one's for you Uncle Tom

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@Lorraine6330]

Andrew thank you I understand totally. My dad is Thonas and he went through his battles big time . This video said it all. Universal healing 💕

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome ❤️❤️

[@jodie3671]

This only ended for me 2 month ago. Thank God for good friends that He have surrounded me with. The battle is real but the victory will be so much better. God is holding my hand through all of this and I will be more victorious and more resilient after my ordeal but I will NOT remain a victim! I will survive! I will live my best life yet! Thank you, Andrew. You rock!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Jodie..🙌🙏💯

[@ninamarie2035]

OMG I FEEL THE SANE WAY !!!! One word answers and wanting to just leave

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@sanjmalik6282]

Thank you Andrew for sharing this information with us. It really makes sense to what trauma issues. I needed to hear this. You have really helped me Andrew to stop drowning and I am feeling so low but your videos give me strength to heal. Thank you for everything ❤.

[@mysteriousone5649]

Andrew I’ve been watching your channel for a while now but haven’t seen all of them. Just watched this one today and it made me cry. You are so right about everything you said. Bless your Uncle Tom and you too.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@karinsandifort5375]

Thank you for sharing Andrew,you are a beautiful child of God! God bless you!🙌🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

You are too Karin ☀️🙏🙌💯

[@donnaparks1919]

The Narcissist don't know they at war with themselves u so right the average person don't understand they think ur crazy

[@lindastrehlow295]

Thank you Andrew!💜💜💜 What a sad, but beautiful story. A true hero 💜💜💜 I am so grateful to have survived this hell, pretty much intact. Having to deal with my NARC right now is causing PTSD attacks. Which he takes full advantage of. Smug jerk! I am healing slowly, but until this human 🗑 is totally gone, the divorce is over, and I can go no contact, I will not be able to fully heal.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Linda… we continue to move forward everyday becoming empowered and educated.. 🙏🙌☀️

[@julesditirro1715]

I understand his silence,fear and unknown reasoning why these events happened. One in a narcissist situation trains ourselves to accept and move on quietly. It’s our armor,uncomfortable as it is,blaming oneself out of frustration to understand??? There is a way out,a need to get out,once one accepts realization of occurring patterns of blame,… Wrongful blame of oneself,seeking a true vision which is so difficult when in a narcissistic situation,convinced it’s you! Once you look at yourself,which hasn’t occurred for awhile,the truth is there. Always has been,but avoided,numbed by someone, don’t allow another person’s control of you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight Jules..🙌💯💪☀️

[@maried7776]

This is beautiful. I had an uncle like that also, but he could talk. Quiet man & giving man. He always talked about his two horses he used in the war. Don't suffer in silence~TY

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙏

[@elizabethhenderson5339]

Thank You Angel Andrew for all your love and hard work to help us through our trauma on earth x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@ERnarcfree]

I never thought of my marriage and my childhood before that as living and surviving in a war zone, but it was.

[@calicomcgee]

Thank you. Accepting the scars and trying to move forward.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes 🙌

[@Linda-gs3cx]

Bless your sweet soul Andrew. I feel blessed to have found your videos. I have been watching them for months and have finally found my voice today to share and become apart of this wonderful community. Hope comes in many forms....thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate you taking the time to post a comment.. you are amazing and blessed ❤️❤️

[@8bit_paul]

It's difficult to compare the horrors of war with trauma from a relationship but you did a good job, thanks Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome ❤️❤️

[@debbiethomas3080]

Thank you Andrew. I was fun loving, silly, and now I struggle with bitterness. I have PTSD from the screaming, mentally beating me down. No one, except maybe a lot of people on here, do not understand how I struggle to get out of bed. Extreme anxiety, depression, and nausea. I will never understand why this happened. My psychiatrist say he was an abuser but some days I wake up and hate myself. I ask myself what's wrong with me that I wasn't good enough. Others on here are farther along than me. You mentioned you are better after a year. I'm 2 years since and still cry like a baby on one day and the next day I feel better and the next day crying again💔

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯

[@thebigh9635]

Best line I ever used against my ex narc was ' So ,..can you explain just HOW all these nasty comments and remarks are supposed to work for me ..?? Glad I don't have to say that anymore , THAT war is OVER 😂 😎😎🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate this.. thank you for sharing 🙏💯🙌☀️

[@roslynmiles5544]

You are such a great help to me in this time of turmoil. Thank you so much for the knowledge,it has given me so much strength. An I m healing with all the knowledge you are providing me....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@soundmind1705]

Some of us did survive narcissists who physically, brutally abused is, and our kids, and held guns to our heads. I got PTSD and CPTSD and had to just go on without stopping to process anything, because of having a child with severe autism. It has taken me years, and I am still healing. It was a war, which almost took the like of a police officer that came to help when I had to call 911. For some of us, Uncle Tom is more familiar than just a symbol. God bless him, and you, God bless all person's working on recovering from the damage of Narcissistic abuse.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful message 🙏🙏💯❤️❤️

[@janetsmith9958]

🎉I feel my battle is over 🎉😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏

[@Faithled]

I have this mentality. To go back for every last narcissistic person. Like a suicide mission. Knowing the outcome. Foe each trauma I created a person to take it. There are alot of us inhere. Im a work in progress. Respect you Uncle Tom. At least I made it out sane.

[@Wild-Cat]

Andrew, you are such a beautiful person and man sitting in your empty house in beautiful Costa Rica... I hope you'll be doing private sessions so one can jump on a plane just to be able to sit next to you! :-). It would help me heal for sure. I've blocked my cheating narcissist hopefully for good this time.. Thanks for being there. Xoxo

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Hi Wild Cat I appreciate your kindness and sharing.. I am currently doing one on one sessions via Zoom.. 🙏🙌💯☀️.. Thank you for this beautiful message..🙌☀️

[@Wild-Cat]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Okay I've got zoom now. What's your adress on zoom?

[@annamaria1929]

I have been 5 years no contact, totally and completely no contact. It is the ONLY way to separate from this trauma. In my humble opinion and as a survivor, you have to take responsibility for the part you played in the relationship within a toxic relationship with a toxic person. You will simply never gain the radical acceptance and the closure you seek without taking responsibility. If you look at these individuals as parasites, vampires if you like, they have to be invited in. They have to be sustained by your supply. So, again, in my experience we play a part in sustaining their existence. At least with us. I was like you my friend. I tried to make sense of what actually had happened. I binge watched narc videos and was discerning in which were out for their own gain here on KZbin. I educated myself and I was a 55 year old professional woman when I ended the trauma. I am not a victim and I never was. I am a survivor of a relationship that I willingly took part in. God bless Andrew and greetings from Ireland, Anna

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@kathybradshaw3722]

Yes I am sure I had PDS. Thanks for sharing. Now that I am full educated. I am at peace. Staying in my own lane. Something a N can never do. It is a sick disorder.

[@delvinalozano7427]

Having endured from 15-53; married 34. Three daughters and six grandchildren. I don’t think I can heal. I don’t believe in anyone or life; the excruciating trauma is beyond repair and hope. I am numb at times and weak. At my age no one hires. I am ashamed of investing myself to this monstrosity. I am lost.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Delvina.. you are strong and loved.. you can do this.. continue to move forward 💯🙏☀️🙌❤️

[@frankdavf4599]

Thanks for sharing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@Jessecraft1954]

Two brothers. One is an attorney, the other a murderer. How much is genetics and how much is environment? How much of either contributed? Interesting testimony. Sad that the good brother feels responsible for anything concerning his brother. False guilt. Coming from a toxic environment isn't the end of one's life. Nor are you responsible for being born in a hurricane. The past is not an excuse for the future. You can't save someone from them self. You do your best regardless of the choices of the family one comes from. Sometimes DNA doesn't spell family. It doesn't spell Little House on the Prairie or the Waltons. It is what it is and you have to make the best choices for yourself. Even if your siblings hate you for succeeding, while they intentionally make bad choices and still do. You may choose to finish school, go to college and work for a living. They chose a life of crime and criminal records. Many of us can relate to this. Remember, you're not the blame for being born in a hurricane. You can't always save others. Save yourself!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌☀️☀️

[@Jessecraft1954]

I watched the KZbin video of Jimmy Roger's brother.

[@donnaparks1919]

I much relate I ? Many times how sister's live in same house and I never knew her till I let her move to another state it's been a nightmare that doesn't end when u wake up DNA don't spell family got that so right

[@daniellfourie]

"War behind closed doors..." So true. Mine lasted 40 years.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉💯💯

[@kaycaringi8851]

💝Uncle Tom.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

❤️💯

[@btlfilmmedia9514]

The trauma you experienced is part of the intentional bind they leave you with .Its not an easy experience to put into words ,especially not with someone who has no real insight into the human condition . Evil does exist thats one thing I’ve learnt from it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely correct.. thank you for sharing this BLT..🙏🙌☀️🍁💯

[@naomiwest9622]

Yes,REVELATIONS 12:9-12, evil exists.

[@soliel8999]

My Dad's grandpa fought in WW1. When he got back home he would just sit under a tree all the time and couldn't talk about it. So heartbreaking.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

❤️❤️

[@jom6320]

My grandpa Ben fought trench warfare WW1 gassed with mustard gas nearly killed him. Came home to farm very kind man but his and grandmas marriage was a constant war she having been broken as well. He began having flash backs in 60s when sonic booms were occurring. I appreciate you so much we hv our triggers too at 64 still learning this. Great video

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you ❤️❤️

[@ladyoftheveil8342]

I carry battle scars from my relationship but people usually dismiss my pain . Fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue are invisible to most people except my doctor and therapist

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

I feel like I am not the same person I was. It is like going through a terrible shock. It set me back some, and that causes me fear and anxiety. I never felt like I do now. I was always confident and carefree. Where did I go? So sad. 😔 I try and try to get to the person I was.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Pamela you are on the healing path.. you are amazing and beautiful.. this will take time… 🙏🙌💯☀️

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 😊 Thank you for all you do.

[@janetsmith9958]

💚🙏Andrew your a beautiful soul 🌷

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

❤️❤️

[@suesanders1169]

NOV 21ST was my Dad's birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY! MISS U. ( 1-1-1988)

[@Tatjana.B]

True, this is in medicine categorised as disease PTSD ( posttraumatic stress disorder ) and after war we had in Croatia a lot of people with this disorder. Experience with narcissists are totaly comparable with war experience. Narc survivors are some kind of "war" survivors.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌☀️

[@noracharles9366]

Savage Fan ⚜ Your editorials are touchingly real 🖤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏 ☀️💯

[@yolandabush5077]

Ty for your understanding

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏