This Simple Japanese Philosophy Will Change the Way You Think about the Past

[@PursuitofWonder]

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[@EpitomePax]

Great video! Read the book last year!

[@AyshRowland]

For real though, for me it was the verse HOPE MAKETH not ASHAMED because Lord knows I've known shame in my day

[@jeffbeaudoin4544]

After years of therapy to deal with trauma from childhood, war, and the death of my only child, I’ve finally accepted that I’m simply fucked up… and in that accepting have found peace.

[@amazinggrace4924]

In acceptance lies peace.

[@nataliemesbah1639]

🫶❤️‍🩹

[@gregstepien9374]

And American way. Make your fucked up miracle a way which help you to exist...

[@danryan4137]

Welcome to the club brother. The entire human species is supremely dysfunctional. Love yourself.

[@8DiegoMarchi8]

The body keeps the score is an incredible incredible book and I recommend it to everyone in my life. As someone who went through consistent trauma in childhood, it made me understand so much more about myself and others.

[@Kage-jk4pj]

Ah, yes, the pseudo-scientific book that pushes dangerous misinfo. Written by a guy who mistreated his employees.

[@8DiegoMarchi8]

@@Kage-jk4pj Can you elaborate? I have no idea of what you're talking about. (it's not sarcasm, i'm autistic)

[@kerryarrant1523]

In the vein of Master Oyama, my hands were reshaped in martial arts into stronger tools. For the courageous, the path of purpose creates desire and change.

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I hate you

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​@@Kage-jk4pj Another baseless hate comment with nothing being said or inquired. You have no basis for your opinion because your simply lying

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[@hotrox2112]

Starved for attention then,....

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bros about to watch so many times

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I love the comment section because we reveal ourselves to each other in such an honest way. We are all seeking meaning and refuge in this rat race . I’m rooting for you all !!! I may never see your face, but we are in this together ❤

[@aaronbecker5617]

I had a teacher who'd say "You're going to be broken but your scars can be gold." I wonder if he was talking about this? This is also why its important to deal with others with kindness, we dont know what they've been through and we can either make cracks or help heal cracks with gold.

[@impti]

or both the former and then the latter 😎

[@Psych2go]

Very well stated! Your exploration of ‘The Body Keeps the Score’ really resonates with how trauma impacts not only the mind but the body as well.

[@random-accessmemory9201]

Wow. Hi. Didn't expect you here.

[@RedCake-tn6fj]

Omg omg I Love ur videos sm . As a 15 ur old girl who went through so much trauma I find ur videos so helpful , reaching and comforting . Never stop making them ❤❤❤ ily

[@honor9lite1337]

Indeed

[@AutumnTheAxalotl]

As both an artist and a human I love imperfect things, abstract art. Scetches. Messy rooms. I love them, I understand that nothing can ever be perfect and so I find perfection in the imperfect. I absolutely love letting go and accepting that nothings perfect, it makes my art and life so much better then if I was trying so incredibly hard to make it perfect. Have a great day y’all :]

[@comic_food_guy]

Your insight is an incredible perspective.

[@DJ-TimeShift]

Great answer! Thank you :)

[@theFoxIwouldratherbe]

Wabi sabi ❤

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[@sistergoodstuff]

I hope this video finds me again at the very moment I need it, like it has now

[@DocBrown6832]

This channel is so underviewed. I LOVE THIS please NEVER STOP

[@Mr099660]

"The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places"

[@jimshepherd2311]

Many years ago as a boy, I was met by a clergyman outside St Mary's Church in Rye. He mentioned to me about the pottery shop opposite, where a large ceramic pot had been broken. "If you go and offer them a small sum of money, you could buy the broken pieces and use them to create something even more beautiful than the original artwork. " He carried on "sometimes in life, things are broken, but with some skill and vision, you can use the pieces to create a wonderful mosaic, often more special than the original " Very similar to Kintsugi, beauty in the broken and the art of embracing imperfection.

[@tanya4491]

It astonishes me that I have been practicing trauma recovery healthily since the age of 12. This video made me realize how much I knew as a child. damn.

[@tanya4491]

the quote on 3:09 is also something I've known, not in the exact language of course, but the concept/idea of it. Proud of myself

[@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027]

sometimes giving yourself a hug and telling younger you how much you love them helps

[@gh0stsl0ther]

3:09 Thank you very much for that quote🙏 That really made me think. It happens to be, I'm currently on a healing journey and that really helped. I've been watching your videos to step back from life and reflect once in a while. I'm really glad and truly grateful for the work you put in, it brings some light and new knowledge into things. Hope you have a great day👍

[@jmccoomber1659]

I finally stopped ignoring and began exploring the trauma I experienced as a child and it's been an enlightening journey. I had loving, caring parents who did their best, but my two much-older siblings were huge influences on my belief system and self-esteem. I now realize how much this mistreatment still affects who I am today. I've found it does, indeed, help to explore the things that happened to me in my young childhood to get a handle on and counteract automatic responses that are not helpful for me and too often hurt the people I love the most. I am not just that hurt child, I'm a high-functioning adult who's overcome major adversity and have a good life and a loving husband. But that child still lives in my emotions and beliefs about what I'm capable of, despite nearly five decades of living as a responsible and relatively successful adult. It's a work in progress but I agree that embracing your broken parts and mending them without trying to hide the scars can be a very freeing experience.

[@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T]

So what happened to you though...as a child. by your older brothers im guessing you said? You said a traumatic experience happened? Instead you need to forget about the past and move on to the future but most importantly live in the present. And enjoy your life being good now and be grateful that any traumatizing thing that happened then is many years behind you long gone. Whatever happened to you,you made it and survived. You doing better than a lot of other people. .I'm guessing you don't do drugs and have a family...and can still afford to live now adays with inflation...😢 . Thats my advice. cause when you keep thinking about negative things like trauma from years ago being a kid and negative depressing thoughts to aften always lead towards depression.

[@jmccoomber1659]

@@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T The reason it took so long to recognize childhood trauma was because "it' wasn't that bad." But this family dysfunction seriously stunted my self-esteem and led me to be a people-pleaser, allow my boundaries to be stepped all over and do way too much for people who didn't deserve it for about three decades. Now I have a great husband and life, but I find myself slipping back into the automatic thinking that makes me feel like I constantly have to prove myself and that my entire value is based on what I do instead of who I am. I'm blessed with good people in my life now, which is why I finally had the courage to look back and try to find the root of this need to take on too much and work myself to a frazzle in order to feel like I'm "enough." Now the challenge is to remember I'm no longer that child fighting for approval but instead a successful adult with a fulfilling career helping others and wonderful family and friends. My parents are dead and I haven't been in touch with my sister or brother (who are a decade older and high IQ people with absolutely NO emotional intelligence or understanding of healthy boundaries) in over 10 years, another thing I'm consciously working to stop feeling bad about or responsible for. The estrangement was mutual, so it's not like I'm hiding from them, but I still wonder how they're doing and if they're even still living. Overall, I believe I'm on the right track and just need to keep working on saying "No" (or at least "Not now" or "Maybe") when people ask for way too much from me. Thank you very much for your positive message of hope 🙂

[@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T]

@@jmccoomber1659 yeah you got the right idea. There is no need for you to be perfect you need to leave it behind..not sure why your still struggling to realize that it's not expected from anybody In your life. Actually there are quite a few people out there that admire people who stick up for themselves and don't let others walk over them. Also alot of people would rather prefer a no if you don't want to than doing something for them you don't want to at the moment especially if you do something and not say anything about it. Good relationships are about communication with each other truthfully as possible and is key for mostly all relationships.. hope this helped a little more. 😁

[@JitkaDohnalováMirka93]

I'm really intrigued by this Japanese philosophy! It’s fascinating how a different perspective on pain can impact our mindset. I’d love to learn more about how to apply these ideas in everyday life.

[@ccriztoff]

pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.

[@saladfingers.]

I'm sure that clichéd statement will help many.

[@ccriztoff]

@@saladfingers. lol someone's suffering 🤣

[@handledis]

Love these comments already

[@JustWanderingHere]

This is one of the channels that led me to create my own. Thank you for the always amazing, beautiful work.

[@Wkumar07]

I'll take a look at it.

[@nathanmikangi9756]

Having sat with an ailing uncle in a cancer ward, I can relate with these.... He never made it out alive. Nowadays I don't see things the same way as I used to. I'm kinda dead inside but utterly functional enough to appear normal

[@redcherry8137]

Most men and women feel this way, that's why rising above it is special. It doesn't just happen, it's like a muscle you must work out everyday. Caring does not come naturally for everyone. And that's ok

[@HashemMasoud]

10:08 وَ لَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ بِشَيْ‏ءٍ مِنَ الْخَوْفِ وَ الْجُوعِ وَ نَقْصٍ مِنَ الْأَمْوالِ وَ الْأَنْفُسِ وَ الثَّمَراتِ وَ بَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ (١٥٥) الَّذِينَ إِذا أَصابَتْهُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ قالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّـهِ وَ إِنَّا إِلَيْهِ راجِعُونَ (١٥٦) البقرة [١٥٥-١٥٦]

[@lulumoon6942]

The concept of Wabi Sabi strongly impacted this Survivor decades ago, never to be the same. 🙏🕊️

[@pericheri]

I really want this channel to be turned into a podcast as well because his voice and the way he explains these topics is just so calming.

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[@TheThoughtCompass-vnm]

I love how this video blends philosophy with real-life examples. It makes the concepts so much easier to understand!

[@ws43]

Arguably, the abundance of knowledge, wisdom and means to learn in today's world is helping us all become better. Your content is a pillar in many lives. Thank you.

[@tinnnyz]

'Beauty in the eye of the beholder' I often think about people’s “standards” and how we are always striving to be “better” people. What about being “enough”. Everyone wants what’s best for them and wants more and more to be happy. Every time we get what we wanted, we think about what we want next and next. Does it ever end? Personally, I don’t know what I want or what I need. I never have. But I’m alive. as J Cole said “it’s beauty in the struggle (ugliness in the success)”

[@ForeverDyingRainbow]

I have alot of trauma and i dont think you understand how much you just helped me… i have been spiritually tortured for about 9 years now…. Alot of the trauma has been healed but the desire to be perfect so that i can feel accepted and by myself and others has been exhausting to say the least. This video has helped me to see that my inability to be perfect doesnt mean that i deserve constant hate and pain….. and its not even that im doing anything majorly wrong its that im not perfect and no one is. But i get treated like crap for not being and its exhausting and all i know is that the person doing that to me is not a good person and i refuse to abide by that trauma anymore

[@MrSoothsayer]

Buddy, cut off communication with that person. Don't interact with him/her. I stand by you. 👍

[@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T]

​@@MrSoothsayeryeah he need to remove his self from that bad situation...that person, who is the problem and not having to do with dude being perfect at all. Cause that expection out of him or any body is unreasonable.

[@MrSoothsayer]

@@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T I tell concisely a piece of my life, my elder bro has been abusive and supremacist over me, he belittled me in front of other people, he tried to take control of my life, I was even beaten Black and blue by him. I stopped talking with him. I feel way better now, although in life there are other challenges to deal with. Sometimes, we cannot remove people physically but at least can stop our interactions.

[@E.a.Z.S.e.n.T]

@@MrSoothsayer yup exactly... Nicely said to.. just one out of many hardships life will throw at ya. You just gotta deal with it and brave it through.

[@warrenbradford2597]

I deal with pain by creating artworks. Kintsugi could help me create artworks to heal myself of pain.

[@AyshRowland]

Not good enough... just joking

[@evanwakelin7944]

I read "The Mind-Body Connection" which is based on the same things as body keeps the score, and it saved me from years of pain.

[@philosense]

The way this philosophy reframes our relationship with the past is so refreshing

[@djwerd831]

“perhaps this view is broken…” great show!!

[@SillyButWise]

Your voice is a comfort to listen to

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Bro I’m so happy for u, this channel is a blessing to u mr pursuit of wonder as well for us that’s wild

[@charlestaylor3195]

I wrote a book in your comments and deleted it, who wants to read that shit. My point was I refinished some old tables in my living room that were dinged up pretty good. Instead of repairing the "dings" I made more, a lot more, and then I finished them. Nobody focuses on the blemishes, just compliments and where did I get them. The tables had been chewed on by puppies, carved on by new knives, danced on, used for a barricade, plus things I can't mention, and I got them used. They're beautiful, and I forgot where I was going with this. Why hide, great video.

[@simonw1252]

You never do a bad quality, rushed or badly produced video. Its always superb. Well done.

[@Nex41354]

Ephesians 6:12 "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places."

[@susanevans3865]

How is this relevant to this video?

[@jimwalshonline9346]

Like a blend of Zen and classic Stoicism...fascinating.

[@Rattus-Norvegicus]

Sounds like Taoism.

[@ccriztoff]

By choosing how you respond to pain, suffering becomes a tool for growth rather than something to be avoided. It’s beautiful because it shapes you, makes you stronger, and teaches you resilience. The beauty lies in your ability to rise above, to evolve, and to emerge sharper from then on. When you choose to suffer well, it forces introspection. You’re pushed to examine your values, your priorities, and what truly matters. That’s where real self-awareness and enlightenment come from. Without suffering, that deeper understanding of yourself might never come to light. The ability to control your mind and emotions in the face of pain is empowering. Mastery over suffering is beautiful because it reveals a strength not dependent on external circumstances. It shows a calm, unshakable center, which is rare and admirable. There’s something inherently noble about enduring hardship with grace. It reveals a kind of quiet heroism. Anyone can be happy when things are easy, but to maintain dignity and purpose in adversity is a higher form of strength. That’s why suffering, when faced well, is often admired-it’s beautiful in its demonstration of human resilience and spirit. By facing suffering, you begin to appreciate joy, peace, and simplicity in a deeper way. The beauty of suffering is that it enhances your capacity to find meaning and fulfillment in both the highs and lows of life. It opens you up to a fuller, more nuanced experience of the world

[@MScott-e8x]

An immature perspective that could only be written by someone who has not suffered much. How much pain/suffering does one have to endure before being unable to endure more? yet for you this is somehow heroic or a means to “personal growth”?? Lol. As Seneca said “Why weep over parts of life when the whole of it calls for tears. New miseries assail us before we have managed to get rid of the old”. Come back in twenty years and tell us if you still believe this nonsense.

[@Nappr]

Wow, what a great video! We should practice kintsugi on ourselves to become a beautiful bowl.

[@jameswolfe4594]

I've had so much trauma in my life because of the emotional abuse my father put me and my brother through. I've had several attempts and been in a ward over 5 times. Been on antipsych meds and did therapy for 7+ years. I still feel the trauma in my body and mind. I feel how it effects my day to day life. The suffering I went through taught me to let go however. Now, I get to live life in a more happy manner. I still have a long way to go though. I wish I could pick something out to do in life that provides me strength without my dad subtly manipulating me into doing the things he wants me to do. One day at a time though, I suppose.

[@nipaparekh1678]

Yes one day at the time … I wish you all the best ❤🙏🏽❤️

[@chrismuratore4451]

On more than one occasion, the timbre, rhythm, tempo and language you use has been such a healing force. I'd be willing to wager that I'm not the only one you've helped to overcome even the deepest moments of despair. Thank you from the absolute bottom of my heart, friend.

[@igi-risu]

The Body Keeps the Score is such a great book so I’m always surprised to find that there are people who dislike it. I remember first reading the title last year and joining a book club broadcasted here on KZbin by the author himself. That was *my* intro to understanding various types of trauma.

[@anthonykology1728]

Something to think about...imperfections...become perfection

[@shanicejoseph170]

I would also recommend Gabor Mate's The Myth Of Normal. I've read both that and The Body Keeps The Score and found Dr. Mate's a bit easier to understand. and relate to. It speaks about how trauma affects us and manifests throughout our life in phsyical ways that result in illnesses and diseases and it also speaks about how trauma can affect our lives & relationships, how we communicate and behavior. How it forms us and how we can work on deconstructing. I found Dr. Van Der Kolk's book good but I read somewhere that the people that find it most helpful are medical health professionals and I agree, it was very clinical. EDIT: After reading The Body Keeps The Score I understood more about trauma. After reading The Myth of Normal I understood trauma in my own context and I got a lot of useful information for deconstructing. Kolk's is scientific & clinical, Mate's is more human and warm

[@luciousmathers2640]

I hate you

[@hajikhan-rq4oz]

Indeed, some books are for that field's knowledgeable ones, but are difficult to understand by newbies of that field. Anyhow, any guess about Nicolas Taleb's books? They are being quoted in philosophical realms but it it seems they are more technical.

[@shanicejoseph170]

@@hajikhan-rq4oz I've never heard of Nicholas Taleb before

[@hajikhan-rq4oz]

@@shanicejoseph170 ..... alright, as i have also red the The Myth of Normal, worth a read.

[@hajikhan-rq4oz]

@@shanicejoseph170 in the middle of this video Nicolas Taleb is mentioned.

[@craigestory6230]

Thank you so much for this! I’ve actually been studying Wabisabi and it is along these lines that I am learning every but everything in my life has a magical pure quality to it. That helps me navigate this day.🎉🎉🎉 you keep creating. Ok ? 💙

[@Markle_B]

This channel is incredible, everything from the editing to the narration. Amazing!❤

[@bingobango9932]

That’s why- all we need is Love

[@Mannsy83]

Life is too painful for me. Im just trying to find a peaceful way out

[@ryanchristopher2810]

Having been at that point myself, many many times, I understand that there are no words that even touches pure hopelessness. All I can say is that was the past. I am now in the future and I'm still here. I am forever grateful, that I did not go through with it. We all have the capacity to live and live well. I've seen it in so many types of people and I've seen it in me.

[@Mannsy83]

​@@ryanchristopher2810thank you I appreciate it but I just don't know how to feel ok

[@MrSoothsayer]

Failures and irritant elements living next to us exacerbate our suffering

[@GreatDecider]

gets better, been there. trust me

[@katblehm2119]

I’m also where you are… 🤔 🙏🏼 😓

[@sbaltor]

In the cracks spring forth creativity and life.

[@sarahcox1197]

I've been at this strange crossroads lately. I've been assessing and feeling the weight of my personal traumas, and have felt stuck. I'm realizing that healing never ends, and nothing I do can undo the damage I've sustained or inflicted. I've been stuck in despair, wondering what the point of anything is, losing sight of hope, losing a sense of impetus. I guess I've been sitting with my brokenness, and it really hurts. But I'm reaching a point in which I am finally ready to let it go and open myself up to the rest of what life has to offer. I know there will be a mixed bag, I know there is no escape until death, but I feel more ready to accept these things now that every belief I've ever had has been shattered. I couldn't quite explain this process that I've been undergoing, but I think this video helps to put it into better context. I don't want to live in pain anymore, but the only way to move past it is to move with it and accept the brokenness this life afflicts us all with. It feels akin to an ego death. I pray I'll reemerge stronger, not to carry me to my death but to help carry my loved ones and to allow them to carry me.

[@justyouraveragehumanbeing7411]

trauma is weird. You can't beat it, you need to more so.. Absorb it??? Accept it as part of yourself, so it stops haunting you

[@carolorber6009]

The darkest hour is just before Dawn. I hope you can keep the faith.

[@derasor]

So, in a given state in the flow of being, focus, with patience and effort, on artistically mending imperfections and incompleteness, so that the vessel's shape shows those imperfections as part of a harmonious whole, which still endures... After all, the cherished tea bowl did transcend its impermanence.

[@DJGive1]

Man you are so deep in all your discussions. I sincerely appreciate you. You seen to always have impeccable timing covering interesting and painful occurrences in life that I'm usually experiencing or have. Thanks for all you do and for your perspective. God bless 🙏

[@piehound]

Good summarization. Thanks. Other religions and philosophies also address the concept of human brokenness. But the Japanese forms are very artsy and unique.

[@hyaena23]

It's funny how this came out today, and i finally today i made peace with knowing what i have known for years. Love from México ❤

[@celestialenigma]

Love the videos, you make amazing videos and books, amazing content

[@SecretsOfASage]

💛 The mind carries the wounds.

[@kartelbambam9799]

I need more of these videos to pop on my feed

[@Icemanr85]

im a broken vase and cpnstabtly need mending but i have a lot tp give and have a massive heart. o grt the feeling you do too

[@rami.j805]

Bessel Van der Kolk is phenomenal, amazing job on juxtaposing his work with the concept of Wabi-sabi.

[@Atomchild]

Life is not just extraordinary. It is so extraordinary that it hurts. Against the backdrop of a universe that kills life in its default state, life still exists, and it exists so abnormally compared to everything else in the cosmos that we experience this stark difference to the universe as suffering. When we suffer, we are feeling the direct result of our rarity. Suffering is the mark of extraordinarity.

[@titnesovic4522]

Wonderful video, thank you. Will probably be reading the book.

[@artman2oo3]

I really love the concepts in this video. The beauty in imperfections!

[@susanstevenson9619]

I’ve read The Body Keeps the Score. Very interesting and helped me in many ways x

[@CosmicGuiltTrip]

You just offset the destructive seed my mom planted in my head last night. I sincerely thank you.

[@gregduran6844]

This book is great. This plus nietsche helped me understand my reality more and nor wonder the whys so much

[@Finnish_guy]

Funny I see this video. Today I quit almost 2 years of psychotherapy because I did't get anything out of it, at least not anymore. Antidepressants did not really help either. I think I just need to accept the every day reality and our self brokenness. World is a dark place but there's still light among darkness, like there are stars in space. Life is a journey and it will be unperfect and includes lots of pain and suffering, just gotta deal with it somehow.

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Excellent. Again.

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[@Wonderwut]

The first bong I ever broke wasnt mine. Already anxous I was mortified in that moment and was terrified of what the owners reaction would be. He said "glass is meant to be broken, no worries" I wish I knew him still to send this video

[@Bailemos888]

One must want to be repaired, some effort must go into repair/healing. Some people do everything to help someone heal in turn breaking in the process too.

[@camswar]

Very helpful Thank you

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Please how ?

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[@Bombs-Away-LeMay]

Damage is accumulative and pain has no bottom. It is a bottomless pit. You can always feel more pain than you are experiencing at any given moment.

[@hotrox2112]

Referred to as the serving of 2 masters, known as Pain & Fear...

[@raminrouchi202]

When a person that does not face life head on and resil from setbacks and pretend everything is so perfect, your entire ego and image of yourself gets wrapped up in an image, a very fragile image that isnt real; this not only damages you but trying to preserve that image will tear your family apart because you put that image before everything. Any type of introspection and the slightest bit of loving criticism will put the person into a rage. This condition is called narcissism. To heal from wounds you have to be humble, you have to be willing to acknowledge vulnerability ( to yourself or someone you really trust only). Failure to do this will rip you and your family apart.

[@devinininin]

Love the insights shared

[@koufanking2703]

Wonderful video. Thank you: at each one I understand things more.

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[@katblehm2119]

I’ve thought this as well… 🙏🏼

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Things I learned in this video: 1. Accept your suffering, bad memories and traumatic events with compassion, SELF COMPASSION cuz, trauma can leave deep impression even after the events happened and can deeply screw us even in our present and future 2. Be Antifragile 3. Try to read the book, "the body keeps the score"

[@HeartHomePodcast]

The opening is impressing me

[@B.I.B.L.E.]

Love the music. If anything be knows what it is, I’d much appreciate it.

[@user-ep3ck5re4o]

Brilliant 🙏🙏🙏

[@kasperchristensen8416]

"Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars." ~ Khalil Gibran

[@wendyfarmer3573]

Brilliant thanks

[@EndlessAmount]

Best channel for this

[@jameswaldon5837]

Well said. Very intelligent.

[@walterhayley7252]

I gave you a "like" for this video lesson. It was well done. My only suggestion would be that, since kintsugi is a Japanese art and now rests in the warm lap of Zen, it may have been even better if you had referenced philosophical/psychological writings of some Japanese authors. There are many available in translation, and some are probably available through your sponsor...

[@David-hj6en]

Saying the book can be intense is an understatement considering how the book starts out and the stories from the first person

[@abhimanyusalunkhe1221]

8:07 - 10:10 What’s the music? Please reply if you know. It’s wonderful! I appreciate your efforts in advance.

[@vegansydmost1345]

AA steps have us face the "character defects", state them to another and make amends wherever possible. I read that Ayahuasca achieves another transformation in the addictive personality.

[@micahjorgenson8057]

Really thought there was gonna be another sponsorship at 8:50

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BetterHelp! Haha That service is such garbage but was advertised everywhere on KZbin for a while there

[@micahjorgenson8057]

That’s exactly what I was thinking.

[@giovaneguaitoli1655]

Thank you

[@ianbrett3276]

I love this channel 😊

[@skullywise]

i love ur content man

[@___Q___]

This was awesome

[@FunnyFlix11835]

When a pursuit of wonder video is out, my day always gets better

[@lambwolves]

thank you

[@detucalosso229]

Masterpiece 🫶🏻

[@mindgame_sw]

Where one road ends another begins