this video will change your perspective on regret.

[@nolyyn]

I feel like, in my life, I have a fairly consistent pattern of being able to recognize that I'm not necessarily in a good head space about something or realizing that I'm developing habits that aren't necessarily healthy buy ultimately not knowing what to do about it. For example, I've realized that I can be unnecessarily intolerant of people I've had some sort of conflict with which causes me to burn a bridge that I shouldn't. I think a problem I'm running into though, is how do I learn to be less confrontational and more tolerant and less resentful without sacrificing my values and my individuality. It's difficult for me to find balances in things like that some times, but I guess we learn as we go.

[@nessvu]

I totally agree with you Nolyn. I’ve totally been recognizing my flaws more too, specifically how I do have an ego and I am also quick to burn bridges when something doesn’t satisfy me. I’m so glad you’re sharing this bc it seems like we share a lot of perspectives. Also thank you for being a real one, ever since the Minecraft days. You don’t know how much it means to me 😭❤️❤️