Poor Ed, he will be looking for his wallet, keys and car forever. This has to be hard for you.
@Eshandra56 ай бұрын
I hate it has to be this way, but such is life. "My whole life, I have to sit down and watch tv"... I felt his sense of defeat. 😢
@robertcolacino73106 ай бұрын
Yes maybe defeat but he’s fortunate to have family that here for him , I mean he obviously raised them wonderfully but still some are left and discarded
@Joyfully88886 ай бұрын
My heart broke for Grandpa too at the moment. The fact that it was the 5th time he was in that room asking for his keys/car. 😔
@dar72306 ай бұрын
me too😪😪
@francenefelcher6 ай бұрын
@robertcolacino7310 He left Dan's mom Joanne when Dan was 10 years old and Dan said that he barely saw his dad after that. When Ed married Janice (Danielle's mom) he and Danielle hated each other. It was so bad between Ed and Danielle that they shipped her across the country to Tennessee to live with her grandparents. Danielle said that Ed was extremely controlling and incredibly stubborn.
@docgreggs82216 ай бұрын
@@francenefelcherno way, that would make them siblings
@glashse986 ай бұрын
Wow, Dr. Ed's skin has healed beautifully; that's what good care will do for you. 🥰
@khummitkeshinro2466 ай бұрын
It was a sucker punch in the gut when he asked then all ill do is watch TV, coming from a medical doctor to sitting around. It must be hard😢
@jAITtROtULL6 ай бұрын
They actually do things as a family and Dan seems to take him out to lunch quite often. Plus he spends days with Mark so I’m sure he does a lot more than watch tv all day.
@claudinehedam.12976 ай бұрын
I totally understand. He feels that he has become lazy of a kind😢😢, of course he can't remember all those trips with family😊
@maryshanley3296 ай бұрын
There are adult daycares where he could meet other people. He should not be wandering through the house in a fog of despair.
@khummitkeshinro2465 ай бұрын
@@maryshanley329 easier said than done. My grandmother's doctor advised to keep her home with family and not place her in assisted care
@muriel89225 ай бұрын
Danielle seems to be the only one to mention dementia. DR Ed's look on his face when he heard the word dementia. Dan calls it memory loss and Ed seems to handle it better.
@rheaceebelle81306 ай бұрын
I used to tell my dad " I wish i could fix it all for you, Dad. It worked with him to validate both his frustration and my own"
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
True
@srsriniv6 ай бұрын
Its scary to get old!
@DavidLS15 ай бұрын
Terrifying.
@jngkln6 ай бұрын
Granpa feels 30 years younger and he is bored at home watching TV. He needs a car, keys, job and wife in his mind...such a sweetheart. ❤
@maryorem64816 ай бұрын
My husband is 67 and recently diagnosed with early on-set dementia. His license was taken away last October. He hates it and doesn't understand why they took his license. He had a driving evaluation and was devastated when they told him. Frankly its been hard on us both.
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
I bet!
@wanjirunganga-gichuhi8766 ай бұрын
I feel heartbroken by his "discovery" that he has dementia. 😢
@michele21auntiem6 ай бұрын
My husband blames me and won't accept his alzheimer's diagnosis.
@michele21auntiem6 ай бұрын
@@wanjirunganga-gichuhi876 They are lucky it doesn't make him angry.
@Joyfully88886 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for the diagnosis and at 67 years of age. I think sometimes it’s harder for the caregiver because you live in reality and it’s difficult to watch the mental decline in your loved one. Everyone’s journey is different, but the heartbreak is the same. Prayers ongoing for you and your husband. 🙏
@evelynschmidt71946 ай бұрын
Poor grandpa just can’t believe that he has dementia 😢it’s so sad😔 he is such a wonderful person. You are doing a great job Danielle, Dan and family, thank you so much for that❣️God bless you all❤️
@judd4420096 ай бұрын
Grandpa's condition seems to be a daily acknowledgment of his reduced capacity. The moments are indeed hard. God bless Grandpa and his family as they help him adjust to his current reality.
@barbaraweiss31196 ай бұрын
This makes me so sad…it’s no one’s fault…but it sure is heartbreaking 💔
@ElaineSharon3586 ай бұрын
Thank you Danielle for taking such good care of Ed.
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Always!
@patriciabeecher726 ай бұрын
It’s amazing how Ed still has the ability to piece certain things together. Sharp man.
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
He is
@melsingh70466 ай бұрын
I’m 32 years old . Taking care of my 94 year old grandfather with dementia. Understanding the ups and downs with taking care of someone with this disease. Seeing very similar issues and situations while comparing them to mine. Let me tell you the love , patience, and strength in both sides is at best.. ❤❤ Your during great ❤ Love from Clovis , CA. Yall take care and have a great day.
@Joyfully88886 ай бұрын
I am sure you are doing a great job with your grandfather as well. Maybe he can’t tell you thank you for what you, but I will. Thank you Sweetheart 🥰
@melsingh70466 ай бұрын
@@Joyfully8888 Thank you ☺️ I appreciate that ❤️
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Hang tough! ❤️
@sheasmith30356 ай бұрын
Wow.. 94 years of age. Keep going. You got this. 🙏
@lorisheheen21986 ай бұрын
These moment's are tough. Remember when I had to tell my Dad why he could no longer drive. Your right Danielle...you do the best you can and that's all you can do. ❤❤❤
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
❤️
@Amy-oj6lu6 ай бұрын
I go through this daily with my father-in-law now. It's not easy but you handled it great. Love you, Danielle. 😘♥️
@RachelElios6 ай бұрын
It's getting worse😢❤hang in there you'll be glad looking back🙏bless you 💕 love
@simplyme47566 ай бұрын
Danielle THANK YOU!!!!!! For showing REAL LIFE anyone that thinks this is easy has never walked one day in your shoes ....your amazing i for one see and understand ❤❤❤❤❤
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Ty
@stevensesto70956 ай бұрын
Danielle, you’re very kind and straight forward with Ed. You have a lot of patience. God bless you and Dan for taking such good care of Ed. 😊
@ankapabu28346 ай бұрын
Due to severe injury I had to stay in a nursing home for a few months, where there were also people with dementia. It was useless to tell them again and again that they were old and had dementia and could no longer do this and that. Some of the other old people would even enjoy saying hurtful things like, "no your husband will not come and pick you up because he ist dead." Instead I would say things like "you grandchild borrowed the car", or that they promised to help with little kitchen chores, or "no, your parents cannot come to pick you up before it stops raining". Most of the time it worked at least for a while. But they also needed to be occupied with something other than just TV, like folding towels or peeling potatoes, something that made them feel a little bit useful.
@DeniseSterling-k5u5 ай бұрын
That's so sad. So glad Ed is not in a facility. I know he gets bored but it's still a whole lot better where he is.
@stephaniehowes8496 ай бұрын
Plain as day.. He loves her & trusts her & accepted her logic. ❤ That has to be so hard for them both to accept. 💔 Big Hugs to you Danielle .
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Much love ❤️
@colinmunro32666 ай бұрын
You are more straight forward with him than Dan, seems to work better
@SandraMcBay6 ай бұрын
Bless you daniell❤
@Governmentdude186 ай бұрын
People need to realize that every family might handle this situation differently!! There’s no need to be nasty or send hate comments to Danielle. They’re doing what works best for their family.
@pamelasanchez4816 ай бұрын
She just sounds so mean 😢
@pattysheldon6566 ай бұрын
@@pamelasanchez481It only sounds mean because she has to shout for him to hear her. I have to do the same thing with my mom sometimes. It doesn't sound mean to him, because he doesn't hear it the same way. I often feel like I'm yelling at my mom, but she doesn't take it that way, because she doesn't hear it that way.
@brucereagan52486 ай бұрын
Very well stated. I totally agree. My mother and grandad were hearing impaired.@@pattysheldon656
@kthom45956 ай бұрын
@@pamelasanchez481It’s just the way Danielle talks to him. I don’t see a problem. I bet if this was Dan y’all wouldn’t call him mean. 🤷🏽♀️
@MNP2086 ай бұрын
Remember, most elderly people are hard of hearing. She has to talk loud to him. I don’t see this as her being mean. Why does Danielle get criticized when her husband Dan talks with exactly the same tone?
@rosestar82936 ай бұрын
I wish I had a son and sweet daughter-in-law to help me. He's very blessed to have them to take care of him
@JennyLoveTV16 ай бұрын
Bless his heart 🫶🏻💗
@TenaMiller-cr7eo6 ай бұрын
Direct . To the point. Said with authority and love.❤❤❤ ❤
@vpo36566 ай бұрын
I wish there were a cure for this disease. It's heartbreaking for everyone involved. 💔 ❤
@cremebrulee47596 ай бұрын
The look on his face in the moment that he understands his diagnosis is heartbreaking. You are such a strong woman. Thank you for taking on this extremely difficult challenge.
@MommaBird526 ай бұрын
This is so frustrating for you all. My heart hurts for you and everyone going through this 😢💔
@faithclifford58936 ай бұрын
This was very difficult to listen to. He feels he has no purpose. My heart goes out to him. I know it must be difficult to care for him, know when to seek help. Danielle you and your husband work so hard to provide for the care his needs. You have my utmost respect.
@annemariepeterhoff72616 ай бұрын
Ed is so blessed to have a loving family to care for him and I do believe he realizes it! God bless all of you❤
@Paula-zh3rm6 ай бұрын
Poor Ed. He’s such a sweet man. It must be heartbreaking for him to hear every day that he has dementia and doesn’t own anything anymore. Telling him these things must be the only way that he will understand anything. Sad thing is it only last for several minutes and then you have to tell him all over again. It must be so hard on everyone. Dan and Danielle have the patience of a saint. I’m glad you get a little respite when Ed goes to Mark‘s house. It’s nice that his kids are taking good care of him. What a horrible disease. 🙁
@ritakidney29706 ай бұрын
So so sad but it will come to us all eventually. Loss of freedom has to be worse of all.
@ycshittu54126 ай бұрын
The man is a doctor. He knows the meaning of dementia. He already interpreted his diagnosis. That's why he said.. I guess that's why I can't find my keys
@bantu79796 ай бұрын
🤣🤣I have to sit down and watch tv my whole life, he killed me. Best line I 've ever heard from the old man.
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
😉
@mrsrhicks066 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@cremebrulee47596 ай бұрын
It's very sad. Imagine how it would feel to realize that your life has been reduced to that.
@-BubbityBubs-6 ай бұрын
I think you’re right.
@vpo36566 ай бұрын
That was heartbreaking 💔
@garyfitz60386 ай бұрын
This is the interaction ive been waiting almost a year for. Thank you for making it clear to him. For once i saw him acknowledge the fact that he has dementia.
@MommaBird526 ай бұрын
Danielle tells him the truth always. Dan softens it by saying a little memory loss.
@IMadeThis1236 ай бұрын
It doesn’t matter what you say, because he won’t remember. Not that one way is better than the other, But giving him the straight up truth, does seem to settle him down a bit more quickly.
@Jessica-ml6td6 ай бұрын
@@IMadeThis123True, Ed will forget the conversation in about 15 minutes.
@janepeterson30166 ай бұрын
@@Jessica-ml6tdLess
@samanthaaniceto33666 ай бұрын
Came to say the exact same thing
@SpiritAnimal12126 ай бұрын
Excellent! Good job, Danielle! You handled it well by being honest with him and telling him he has dementia. I noticed that’s when he started to understand why he can’t remember. I think Dan should start doing that and telling Ed that he has dementia.
@shirleystarr96056 ай бұрын
I totally agree that the dementia reason should be consistent. Even if he feels he can drive, the dementia proves otherwise.
@kandisnicely406 ай бұрын
As a Doctor he knows the word dementia You are a Saint Stay strong dementia is soooo tough ❤
@jenniferquackenbush7458Ай бұрын
I totally agree! 🫶
@lorimiller14356 ай бұрын
Doesn't matter you can give him keys or a fake license and he has money in his wallet but it doesn't work they been there tried that and everything else that people recommend it's definitely sad my dad had dementia as well but I give you a lot of praise and know how hard it can be most days you're amazing god bless you all❤
@deloradeabel84876 ай бұрын
Thank you Danielle for your honesty & patients!I sure wish grandpa could find something to keep his mind occupied,God knows you have tried everything you can!Its frustrating for your followers,I can’t imagine how it must be for you!❤
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@nora.3546 ай бұрын
You are such a nice person. He always says, "I'm 92?" 😊
@sheasmith30356 ай бұрын
Yep, Granda Ed can't believe he's 92...😂. He's ready to go conquer the world some more. Bless his heart 🙏
@jodiwienkes61156 ай бұрын
Great job Danielle!! You handled the situation very well.
@Mamamia3762OZ6 ай бұрын
God love him, I just love his little laugh and how he’s going to just sit and watch tv for the rest of his life 😂
@rainbow36496 ай бұрын
Becos he thinks he's still young, so he has a rest of his life. This wicked disease has a way of sending and setting them into adolescence sometimes, I do this for a living, for almost 20yrs now, one on one live-in cases, so u can just imagine the magnitude of what we caregivers are up against. Sometimes, we should only be lucky to get a case as "good" as Dr. Ed, whoisquite😂 cooperative, and a lot moreable and self supportive in certain aspects. Anytime I lose a client, i take a couple of to regain my sanity back, recharge, and off to the next unknown level of this tough adventure! Sad to watch sometimes! Good job Danielle and family, there's nothing simple or easy about this damn wicked disease!😢
@kristinamilner66546 ай бұрын
He can do other things than watching TV ,but he doesn't like activities like puzzle etc.
@andreleibee3546 ай бұрын
admirable! it is a hard pill to swallow yet it's your reality...and his, of course. bless his heart. stuck with an aging brain and his family just loves him and does the very best by him...and each other. what else can you do? getting angry the worst response so yall handle him firmly but lovingly. God bless you all!
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
True. It’s hard for sure. No easy answers ever!
@bridgettmcgivney24716 ай бұрын
@@mrsdsalnorcal it is what it is. You did g8!
@susanstancliff29376 ай бұрын
We are only human. Ed is frustrated and so is Danielle. In Ed’s mind he is saying all I can do is watch tv? He can’t at the moment remember how often they go out to lunch or the bank on outings period. Sit outside talk laugh eat together. Ed lives in the moment. Danielle does the laundry, cleans house takes care of her family plus a hundred other things. She sits down to find a moment to rest and Ed comes in and is confused and disappointed that he can’t remember. There have been a lot of videos where Danielle and Ed are laughing and doing silly things on the computer, sometimes he fold socks or laundry or change. Danielle is showing everyday life, ups and downs. It’s the disease that is the enemy not the people. I worked in dementia care for 6 months, one day my supervisor walked in the main door with one of my patients! She just walked out with another family and told my supervisor she was going to Walmart to go shopping! My boss didn’t yell at me because I can only do so much at a time. You never know what a patient may do…..walk out the door or try to bake a cake. It’s frustrating and funny, maddening and silly. Ed is lucky he has a caring family. It’s no body’s fault! It’s a shame we don’t have a cure! Thank you to this family who cares!🙏❤️🕊
@marymaher83296 ай бұрын
Wow That was a hard one, but once again you handled it perfectly. ❤
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@lisaallison71765 ай бұрын
OMG! At 92 my whole life I got to sit down and watch TV❤❤❤
@83lulube6 ай бұрын
I love how you explain it so well to him. Being a retired doctor, he seems to get it to a point which seems helpful.
@RealDustyMoon6 ай бұрын
It was the same thing with my mother. Over and over again with her car and keys. What we did was keep her car in the garage so she could open the door and see it. Even though she couldn't drive anymore and we took her keys, she seemed to find comfort in just knowing and seeing her car in the garage. I know exactly what you are going through, Danielle. Deep Breaths and count to 10...
@cleo92976 ай бұрын
Danielle is the literal backbone of this family. I can’t imagine handling that conversation
@davegraff-gu7ix6 ай бұрын
Dad is so lucky to have such a compassionate family to keep him centered. He accepts Danielle's assertions more readily than Dan's lol.
@debbiemcnabb49666 ай бұрын
You are doing a great job, Danielle. Don't ever let the trolls get you down.
@estherscholl48636 ай бұрын
That was so sad when Ed asked if that’s all he has to do for the rest of his life is watch TV?
@Cannarozzi12346 ай бұрын
This breaks my heart. I know it’s frustrating for you. It is so painful seeing him confused like that. I don’t know how you do it. ❤ When he said “all I can do is watch tv” he knows he’s more capable and in disbelief this is his reality. I hate dementia!!!!!! Cruel disease!!!!
@rainbow36496 ай бұрын
Wicked wicked disease!! U said everything I'm thinking. I do this for a living, about 20yrs now, one on one, live-in, 24/7, uuuuu, I could tell u stories. I know im a patient person by nature, thank God for this gift I got from mom, but to be able to take this on, for this long, I never ever thought I could survive it, from client to client! I always need a few months to recharge, after I lose a client, before I can go back to work, with a completely different situation. Hard!😢
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
So hard 😉
@marycreagh97866 ай бұрын
Maybe she wouldn’t find it so easy to be direct if he was HER father.. I find her too harsh that’s just my opinion!.. I minded both my parents I know it’s not easy..
@leabrowning82566 ай бұрын
He always asked who's jacket that is..God bless u. ❤it's got to be hard cause I get so erated when someone says what u say? This disease is no joke. It's tough on everyone who loves Ed. The caregivers I feel for you. Much love ❤️
@laurafleming74086 ай бұрын
It must be devastating to hear people constantly telling you that you have demsntia. I pray my family never treats me this way. It is just not necessary to keep hitting him over the head with the dementia word.
@marycreagh97866 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree 100%
@DeniseSterling-k5u5 ай бұрын
He is confused and wants to know why?? It would be more cruel to let him be in his confusion. Besides that he understands somewhat, what that means. Relax some 😊
@BelindaShanle6 ай бұрын
That made me sad when he said that's all I have to do the rest of my life. I am in my 60s and look forward to being able to just sit at some point, I am constantly doing. But when you're in the midst of it after being so active and having things to take care of and then to think that's all there is to the rest of my life😢 Danielle you do such a great job with patience and helping navigate through it. God bless you guys, and I am going to be grateful for what I GET to do❤
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
I wld also love to sit haha 😉
@valeriemccoy22986 ай бұрын
YOU DID A GREAT JOB TELLING ED THE TRUTH!!! PERFECT, DANIELLE, keep it up, he might just get it after YOU repeat that truth every time. Bless you, that was a very difficulr conversation!! ❤❤❤❤
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@valeriemccoy22986 ай бұрын
DAN....please, please take some ideas from Danielle and tell your Dad the truth! Play Danielle's response to Ed and you will see how terrific her response was to Ed. Even for 5 minutes Ed KNEW Danielle was telling the truth.
@jenniferquackenbush7458Ай бұрын
I notice that Ed trusts what Danielle tells him more than what Dan tells him. Dealing with dementia is definitely a learning experience.
@luiiseshiinda21206 ай бұрын
I actually feel him when he said “ I can watch tv for the rest of my life” oh shame🙆♀️
@gailward33086 ай бұрын
Keep your chin up Danielle. My mother is 99-1/2 and I talk to her almost everyday. She tells me the same thing every single day. I know she has told me the same story one million times. Just gotta go with the flow. Luv ya.
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Ty❤️
@lauriehoffman81876 ай бұрын
God’s blessings to Ed and to you and Dan. I’ve been there and I truly understand.🙏🏻
@meallday47986 ай бұрын
Aww, poor grandpa...hearing the brutal honesty...it's just so heartbreaking and hard to watch 😢 Prayers to everyone going through this, caregivers and all! God Bless 🙌🏾 ❤
@mikemartin50736 ай бұрын
I appreciate you showing another side to these videos. People need to understand how hard being a fulltime caregiver is and the balancing act it becomes managing one's own mental health along with another's. I admire your resilience
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Ty
@OneWithTheUniverse556 ай бұрын
"For my whole life, I have to sit down and watch TV?"...this made me laugh out loud. He cuts right to the chase. God bless you all. I know it must be challenging. You and Dan are angels on earth.
@mink25366 ай бұрын
It made me cry😢
@trixiegirlism6 ай бұрын
@@mink2536 Yes, that was a sad moment, but at least he won't remember it which in this case is a good thing.
@valentinapatnaude42196 ай бұрын
It's sad
@DeniseSterling-k5u6 ай бұрын
I guess we all see things different. This made me sad 😢😢😢 I can't imagine how he feels having no control of his life anymore.
@jAITtROtULL6 ай бұрын
@OneWithTheUniverse55- I understand what you mean because it seems to me that he always had a sense of humor even before his dementia and It comes out often when he is speaking. Dan seems to have a very similar personality to his dad’s, including that same sense of humor.
@lovewins6996 ай бұрын
This is a very sad thing to witness of anyone. He will never forget that he had a car and a house. This will forever be apart of him. Thanks for being straight forward and honest with him.....I love your eye brows. They look really nice!
@heleenglazenburg14056 ай бұрын
This is hard for both of you.But the reality gives him more peace than the wonderng where the carkeys are.It is a repeditive thing he asks.You do the best you can to help him and that to is not easy.Stay strong,this is what needs to be done.
@AnnetteB88066 ай бұрын
Danielle, this must be so difficult for you, having to say this over and over and see the expressions on his face as he's trying to process it. I can't imagine how painful this is for you both. ❤
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Especially when u need a minute 😉
@nancydavis11156 ай бұрын
Please know that you and Dan are doing a wonderful job taking care of Ed. He is 92 years old and is doing very well and he always wants to help and have conversations with everyone in your family. My dad was 94 and he had Dementia for about 12 years until he passed away two weeks ago from pneumonia. Don’t let inconsiderate people on the internet get you down as this is a hard disease and it affects the people suffering and their families in very different ways. All the best to you Dan and Ed. ❤ from Toronto Canada.
@darwinfield1366 ай бұрын
He's #1 on my favorite person list keep on rocking it pops ❤ u forever no matter what hi Danielle hi Dan do the best u can that's right❤❤❤❤❤❤
@stacichipman46866 ай бұрын
I had a client like Dr. Ed, tied keys , his license & a stick( he liked to measure things) to a gait belt so they were always with him, made him happy.
@joflem29092 ай бұрын
Awe bless him. Hes.just heard that, and still said thank you. Hes amazing, and so are you.❤ prob stll ask you again tomorrow Joan, Manchester Uk
@kimmoak20556 ай бұрын
That jacket hanging there drives him crazy. Any little thing that looks out of place gets Ed's attention. I appreciate you and Dan sharing to better educate people like me.
@laurelnelson3546 ай бұрын
My mothers license was taken away at 83. My brother asked her doctor to call the dmv. The next 3 years before she passed she would say several times a day that she could not understand why they would take her license when she drove the city buses for 17 years. She was driving about 20 mi an hour towards the end and turning the wrong way at traffic circles and stopping in the middle of the road. She also called me Mom for 2 years. My son and I took care of her for the last 8 years of her life. It was very sad😢 but I would do it all over again
@Michelebell746 ай бұрын
I love this family ❤
@carolynsears17106 ай бұрын
No don’t crush his spirit!
@brendaduplock86816 ай бұрын
Hugs & Prayers To Ed & Danielle & Dan💛💛💛
@sherrycallaway65786 ай бұрын
All you can do is go with the flow and enjoy the good times... much love to y'all, with heartfelt hugs... ❤
@paulastafford16426 ай бұрын
I love you Danielle. That has to be so tiring, but I love your straight talk with him. I can only pray for a peaceful day for all of you.
@Claire-2776 ай бұрын
Great job my girl what I’m always impressed by is that he trusts your telling him the truth where as Dan he thinks he is joking with him. I love you both for trying your best xx love to you both from England uk 🇬🇧 xx
@heatherjunker9676 ай бұрын
I hate this disease. I am losing my dad day by day...kidney disease, Alzheimer's, and now possible liver cancer. I tell my son to ask him questions about when he was growing up, places he has been too, what his grandparents were like..conversations that my dad can actually still take part in. You did well with Ed. It is so hard for them to lose everything but then not remember and to them it seems like they are losing everything again.
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry. It is a hard journey. Sad. And frustrating. Hang tough.
@marykautz16445 ай бұрын
Little hard on him 😮 , it’s difficult I know because I care for a lady with dementia…
@jAITtROtULL6 ай бұрын
I read how when dealing with someone with dementia, there are times where you have to be straightforward with them because not doing this can be dangerous. Also, it is important to keep them grounded with factual knowledge and events surrounding them. I see you and Dan doing this all the time, no matter how frustrated he gets.
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
With some for sure. Others maybe not so much. 😉
@EileenGarcia-o4g6 ай бұрын
Danielle and Dan your the best, this is so hard to explain over and over again things. He seemed surprised that he has the disease, couldn't he read or do a puzzle, just food for thought when I think he felt that now all I do is sit and watch TV. 92 yrs, your allowed. Have a good week folks.
@lisaadams7806 ай бұрын
I’m going to visit my mother and brother for 3 weeks to give my brother a break. It is something we never prepared for but, here we are. You are wonderful Danielle❣️
@DeniseSterling-k5u6 ай бұрын
Wow good for you. It must be hard going back and forth so much. But so worth it.
@cynthiabarnhill42046 ай бұрын
Good job Danielle you are wonderful with Ed bless you!
@marilynmorris67116 ай бұрын
Yes that was hard for Ed. I wish different for him but as u say there u have it.❤😢
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
It is what it is.
@jeanniemayer21745 ай бұрын
You handled that well Danielle. Very sad. I understand because my mom is almost 89 and has dementia too. All the things she loved to do are not possible for her anymore, just like Grandpa. Hugs❤
@mrsdsalnorcal5 ай бұрын
You too xoxo
@nancy-hv8wf6 ай бұрын
I know a lot about dementia. I've worked with dementia patients most of my life, and I took care of my stepfather, who had been my father since I was 6 years old. He was a doctor also. I took care of my husband for almost 11 years with similar but different illnesses from my stepfather. I lived a very stressful life for quite some time. My husband was on hospice the last 5 years of his life and he passed 12/30/2022 12 days before our 32 year anniversary. I was very grateful for the medical support part of it. My stepfather had a V.A.medical support team, and I was very grateful for them as well. I took care of my stepfather for 5 years and when the day came I just could'nt get him to walk because it was'nt registering in his brain, and I could'nt lift him from one place to another mainly he was so long he was 6"4, so I had to do what I tried so hard not to have to do, and that was have him placed in the veterans home, and he lived a little over 3 months.
@RussellStarling-ky1qw6 ай бұрын
Bless his ❤️ Heart...getting old is hard.💜
@rebeccasmith87156 ай бұрын
Breaks my heart. I have been taking care of the elderly for almost 30 yrs. We still were not prepared when my grandma was diagnosed with alzheimer's 20ish yrs ago. She always wanted to know where my uncle was every time he was out of her sight. He was her 1st born. Grandma is in heaven now. My Uncle is still with us thankfully. He is 80 and if she was still here she would be 100.
@carolgimenez51696 ай бұрын
That was sad😢
@tdgreer6 ай бұрын
I cracked up when he said “for my whole life I have to sit down and watch TV!” Awwww, Dr. Ed! You are awesome!!! ❤
@patperlee69896 ай бұрын
So sad awful dementia is so cruel. I wish they could find a cure or something to help . You and Dan are saving him from nursing home were he wouldn't be treated as good as you both taking care of him. I say a pray for you both when I see Ed .❤ stay strong and get enough sleep.❤
@hollybiegel43456 ай бұрын
This is heartbreaking…not just for Ed. But to his family, that continually have to repeat the same things over and over. No one wins with this terrible disease 😢
@IreneDingey6 ай бұрын
Danielle, Darling I’ve said it befit you are brilliant. I don’t mean the following is any disrespect, but better times are coming for you and Dan and family 👍👍❤️❤️. From Irene in Australia “Hugs”
@mrsdsalnorcal6 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@pamn92066 ай бұрын
Ohhhh Danielle... grandpa needs a job ...all my life l have to sit down and watch TV ohhhh .As much as grand pa is my favourite But today l am team Danielle...Have a nice strong cup of tea Danielle.❤
@FriskyhortonАй бұрын
Im glad to hear Danielle tell Ed he has dementia.
@sonyahill4996 ай бұрын
At least he say thank you !! Thank You friend 🎉🎉🎉
@marilynmonroe5885 ай бұрын
OMG THIS VIDEO BROKE MY HEART ❤️ 😢😢😢😢😢😢 I LOVE HIM SO MUCH ❤
@cdmc9656 ай бұрын
Heartbreaking
@lindabasden65586 ай бұрын
It's great that at 92 he is still mobile and can do for himself 🎉🎉