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[@mutthead1444]

Sorry for your loss. Glad your mother in law set all that up, it makes it so much easier.

[@moosemobileautorepair]

Sorry for your loss buddy. My condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you.

[@MsFireboy2]

So sorry for your loss. In my family which works mainly in the medical field all of what you discussed is active with everyone. Thanks for posting. And everyone with older parents and relatives should have this in place.

[@vincentl5363]

Sorry for your loss and thanks for posting this. This is an important message that everyone should know. When times are good, we don't like to think or talk about this. But when times are bad, you can't get a power of attorney soon enough.

[@PaulsToolReview]

I'm sorry for your family's loss. This is definitely a good PSA for everyone.

[@daverichards190]

Condolences to you and yours. I worked in an dementia unit for a time, and it really opens your eyes.

[@strakill]

Great PSA, been through it myself. On the financial bank stuff, my wife works in the BSA dept of a bank. She is responsible for watching for fraud, investigating fraud, and monitoring bank accounts for deception. Caretakers are a HUGE problem with defrauding elderly people. Anyone that has a family member being taken care of needs to watch and monitor their accounts daily!!!! I don't care how long you've known the person, or how much you've trusted them, or what kind of BBB rating they have, whatever. Watch like a hawk.

[@orchestracelloplayer]

God bless Mike. My wife’s grandmother didn’t have serve dementia, but I in her own words “I just can make a decision anymore” so thankfully they did most of all this right before she also broke her hip at 92. She didn’t have much quality to life anymore. I was very grateful that I was laid off at the time for 7 weeks during her last 5 weeks on earth. It was very hard but I’d do it all again tomorrow. I was her favorite nurse/bedside waiter because I’m more of a light sleeper than the in-laws 😅 Please take care of yourself in this hard time. Sleep and eat well. Bourbon scotch and cigars too of course, but food groups first. ❤

[@kbproductions8387]

My family went through this when my grandmother passed. Sorry to hear Mike, prayers to you and your family

[@malibuStroker]

I’m very sorry for your loss. About a year ago we did a living trust for my father, and when he passed away in August, it made everything so much easier. I would highly recommend looking into a living trust, they take care of all the power of attorneys, finances, etc., and you don’t have to deal with probate

[@paulsmith5611]

Thank you for the difficult but important video. This is personal for me as well since I have a family member with dementia that I help care for frequently. One other topic regarding care is for those of us still working to get your FMLA (Family Medical Leave Act) paperwork filled out and turn it in to your HR department (if you have one). I haven't finished mine yet but have an account set up. Talk to your HR department if you work for a bigger company. For smaller employers talk to your boss or the owner of the shop. Most of us will have to take care of someone (parents most likely) as they get older and that probably will require taking time off from work.

[@RoRo-yk4bh]

Sorry for your lost, thanks for advice and information, my mom is 91 and living in a care facility. I'm going to consider power of attorney for her, thanks again, I'm been a auto tech for 30 yrs starting out independent mom & pa shop to vw, Toyota, and Nissan flat rate. Past 10 years I'm discontinued being a auto tech, due to lower back problems, now my new found career is janitorial it's labor work but it's a walk in the park, compared being a auto tech.

[@frankstavalo5788]

My condolences to you and your family Mike. My mom used to work in that field and it was a lot of untrustworthy people that would visit patients and try and scam them out of stuff.

[@johnmedrano9782]

Thanks for bringing that topic up. We all need to get something set up just in case. My wife and I have preplanned and paid for our burial costs. But, we still need to go in and speak to a lawyer to get a will set in place. It makes things easier for the people surrounding you to get things handled after you have passed.

[@ferrarimatt1]

Sorry for the loss. The same setup was done with my dad before he passed april 2023.

[@Dc5Knightv2]

Thank you for sharing with us, May God bless your family and help you guys get through this 🙏

[@30kendel]

Sorry for your loss! Just went through this when my father passed away last year in aug.

[@mcd636361111]

This the best PSA possible! It's hard to have those conversations but need to happen folks.

[@HipstersAndHippies]

I have a few similar stories. My 11yrs with my mother in law and grandmother in law ended about 6 months ago😢 ...so with experience, not only with them but also my mother, and my grandmother (and a few other too) i feel the need to bring this discussion up. ...watch out for anesthesia when we hit +70yrs! Ive seen a few people lose something they don't get back. It's a gamble, to say the least. And it's not a statistic that has been counted. It's not yet brought up in discussions. And it should be. At minimum to prepare the family.

[@CopCat34]

Sorry for the loss of your mother-in-law. Glad your wife was able to stop the theft. Thank you for sharing and your advice.

[@forrestkimball6477]

This video is for anyone anywhere. I’m sorry for your loss and excellent advice.

[@matthewwinn1306]

Sorry for your loss. I’ve dealt with loss from dementia. Praying for you and your family

[@TheProCut17]

Sorry for your loss. I hope you pressed charges on that nurse, that is messed up.

[@EXOVCDS]

My condolences Michael. Went through similar over the last 3 years. Some people are lucky and pass quickly. Nothing's worse than a sound mind in a failing body... or a failing mind in a sound body.

[@flatratemaster]

Thanks Thomas

[@Embermist69]

Heart goes out to you and your family, this is a good PSA. Personal story. After my dad passed we set up some stuff with my mom just in case. Later on it came in handy. She just passed this year. Just a year younger than your mother in law it seems. She had a mental decline as well, she also battled non- non-Hodgkin Lymphoma. I would also add to this PSA set up your own stuff, like a will and a living will and such. I have just recently. Normally it doesn’t cost much to setup that peace of mind.

[@FanaticalKilla]

Sorry for your loss. This is a good video that needs to be talked about.

[@votemikejones86]

Thank you sir for sharing this, we appreciate you so much!

[@johngonzalez1193]

Ive seen a few episodes of that chapter on yt where a caretaker would basically rob the person theyre supposed to be caring for then murder them. Good thing you caught that shit and shut it down. Sorry for your loss.

[@kristercarlson2635]

I’m so sorry for your loss. My father has congestive heart failure and prostate cancer. He has set us up exactly the same way. Power of attorney, DNR, and all of that. It only makes sense for the best care that they can get. He has even pre paid for his funeral, cremation and burial.

[@dramalifeny]

Sorry for your loss, my grandfather was in amazing health and then one day slipped in the shower, after falling and hitting his head it was less then a year his health took a major turn from one of the healthiest 92+ year olds to a shell of one of my life long legends. Its been a couple years now and he blessed us in his passing leaving our family some small wealth to be divided. My mom used her portion to help me pay for trade school and start my career in automotive.

[@josephpuchel6497]

Hey Sorry for your loss I went through a similar situation with my mother last year. She fell came back from hospital developed dementia then passed away in s short time.

[@nhra7110]

So sorry to hear of your situation - I know exactly what you went through as I did with my mother and a sister. Great video to help others!

[@Stonehands75]

Sorry to hear hope all is well I went through the same kind of stuff about 2 years ago when my mom passed and having all the i dotted and t crossed does make it much easier on the family Wishing you and the family thoughts and prayers

[@lawrencethomas645]

Thoughts and prayers for you and your family Mike. This is definitely a subject that isn’t talked about enough. My dad passed back in August in a nursing home. He wouldn’t take care of himself and didn’t see a doctor until it was too late and he had a stroke which landed him in the nursing home. He left me and my sister with a mess. There’s no one to tell you what needs to be done when these type of things happen. You have to figure it out on your own. He was 72

[@andystoolbox]

I dealt with this with my grandma awhile back first went the eyes then the ears then the guts mild dementia ect. Then a massive coronary finished her off. It was hard knowing her as a child and seeing her become this way. Sorry brotha know it suck’s. Stay strong

[@oscarquezada895]

Sorry to hear your family is going to hard times. And thank you for sharing that we all have to get our paperwork in order to make it easier for our loved ones to take care of us when our time comes.

[@jeffw.4604]

I am sorry for your loss, I lost my mother to cancer a few years ago, I know how hard hospice and that time can be. 😥

[@paredneck33]

Sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family .

[@brianwhite8615]

Sorry for your loss, Mike. RIP Ma'am. As a cancer survivor, I echo everything that Mike says in this video. This is important information. Thanks for the video. I know how hard this subject can be.

[@DaBossk]

I'm sorry you and your family went through that. that's tough

[@chrisrainville6324]

God bless u and your family,Mike!

[@mt1885]

sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family❤

[@crasher88]

watched this happen to my grandma when I was in my early teens and starting to see signs of it in both my mom and dad

[@cindyeva7454]

sorry to hear what happenned, lost my mom from the exact same thing, it was very taxing for my dad taking care of her the last couple years. We need to model something off of what they do in scandinavia when it comes to care for alziemers and dementia

[@acu112]

I'm sorry for your loss, I'll keep your family in my prayers 🙏

[@robertseguin4875]

I'm sorry to hear that.sending prayers for you and your family.

[@warrenblanchard889]

Sorry for your loss🙏🏻

[@chuckmiddaugh7908]

I feel like there has been a death wave lately. My uncle passed just before Thanksgiving. Same with a neighbor lady. Five people from church in the last month. Friends know another seven.....

[@teriyakigod2527]

Rest in peace Rosanne, I am sorry for your loss. I know grieving is not easy but time does heal. Thank you for this PSA, it made me really think.

[@20racksofficial27]

Sorry for your loss brother.

[@tracydiller9378]

Sorry for you and your family loss Mike. Will keep you and your family in my prayers.

[@Daniel-vz4fq]

Sorry for your loss. Sending prayers for you and your family.

[@mid-thumbautomotive9716]

Condolences. Going thru that with my Father in law now.

[@charlesroten937]

Condolences FRM, my grandfather just passed he was hospice as well

[@jeremydoblinger3609]

Iam sorry for your loss brother. God bless her and the family

[@ozzstars_cars]

My condolences to you Mike and your family.

[@flatratemaster]

Thanks Glen

[@garymullins6939]

Sorry for your loss😢

[@jamesyoung151]

I'm sorry for your loss FRM. I took care of my mom for years. Fortunately, we were able to get her a 24/7 home health aide. She since passed. To the rest of you, this is NOT an easy thing to deal with.

[@chethaynes5802]

Thank you

[@jlw1985]

Sorry for your loss sir, I just lost my own mother in August,

[@stashoski2675]

Sorry to hear about your lose. This is a good info video my paper are in order when recently to a estate planning to ck my paperwork in order / just talk to my daughter to remind her to make her paperwork in order

[@nbates723]

Sorry for your loss!

[@matthosterman4669]

Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

[@hjc0706]

It's difficult to see love ones go through dementia, it doesn't run through my family but my the stories I hear from my sister's mother in law are difficult to listen too.

[@1970chevelle396]

My stepdad was the same way. Near the end he started drinking lots of alcohol and smoking dope. My mom was so mad.

[@aleskyfinis1025]

I like this video thank you for making that I’ll make sure I share it

[@MrCook-kl2qe]

Sorry for your loss.

[@markferraro5250]

Very important video Mike I’m sorry for your loss. My condolences all the best to you and family.

[@BigCatChuck]

We're humans and will all have the same ending. Been through this multiple times and hope I have lived right that when my time is near someone can help.

[@meblake7359]

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

[@milkyperformance]

My dad is starting to show signs. Breaks my heart.

[@nightdipper5178]

The medical power of attorney is not just about getting information, you do not want the hospital to make the decisions on care, you want family to make those. Don't wait until you are old to get a medical power of attorney, my wife and I have had them for each other for a long time.

[@joelgraves8739]

thank you frm..got me to thinking

[@darwindropmazda]

Condolences to you and your family 🙏🏾

[@SaerTurner-wn2qh]

Sorry for you loss .... Friend ..just remember do not morn her passing but Celebrate her Life she lived Celebrate the memories and take Peace in knowing she is ia place that is well its truly is heaven and is now Eternal ........ and well I pray I pass before my Dementia gets bad as I do not want my Daughter or family Burdened Currently with the help of my partner close Friends I manage fairly well sofar with my diagnosis of MCI ....a very early stage and precursor to Full Dementia and its sucks I write lots of notes reminders and also make videos on my phone with alarms attached to them ...... your and your wife are where good kids ..cheers

[@Liazon098]

Hey this is a great service to society. Like I am a major consumer of KZbin and I've always liked the random of brand material people post. I don't have to buy when you think you get your KZbinrs approach to the first impression of a video specifically off-brand or when it happens its such a service to the public to be together and understand there's more to life than watching edited content. Thanks for sharing I hope this video serves me well when I get older . ❤

[@nickl3872]

Sorry for you and your family's loss mike

[@RobCarstuff9112]

OK That explains it. God Bless

[@ericjano318]

Sorry for your loss

[@Countryboy350Camaro]

Sorry for your and your family’s loss.

[@jwboilermaker]

Nothing worse than seeing a loved one go through Alzheimer’s.

[@chuckmiddaugh7908]

God bless your families.

[@DEmechanic2000]

Sorry for you and your wife’s loss FRM

[@PelicanPoopof72]

I'm so sorry Mike and Family. Your friend from the South... ....63 Gator.

[@christopherprado6890]

So sorry for your loss FRM. Losing a parent is not fun, prayers for you and your family.

[@freedomkingfilms]

sorry for your loss

[@SawyerSmoak]

My condolences to you and your family.

[@Ken-wu6hr]

I'm Sorry Bud. I went Through That With My Father.

[@Toolaholic7]

My grandmother Rose whom is 95 has hers set up not to recessitate her when something goes bad with her.

[@BIG_CHEVY_BOWSKIE_MIKE]

My mom is developing dimentia very quickly she is 68 IT is so hard to see Iv taking over her bills and she is living alone in her mone still but i still do daily checkins to make sure things are going ok. I dunno what im going to do here in the future. This Sucks.. Thanks for the family share, RESPECT!

[@redneckbr8693]

Must love yours.

[@waterloo123100]

I’ve lost more people in the last 5 years then ever before. Just had to put my cat down yesterday. Sorry for your loss. Life is shorter then you expect it to be

[@alexginlu]

Mike I’m sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to your family. Please plan your retirement asap. Life has an end, working for someone else doesn’t. We need to cherish what we still have.

[@firstlast---]

Dementia is scary. Sorry for your loss frm. This is a good psa

[@nytrortx5224]

Lost many a family member to this awful disease. Sorry for your loss.

[@615isme]

🙏

[@stephenzies8867]

I Am Sorry For You And Your Family's Loss Mike. R .I .P. Roseanne

[@Beefsnorkel1337]

1947. Wow

[@aleskyfinis1025]

Wow man that's sad that sad man that is sad

[@josephespinoza9354]

Sucks getting old