'The Cheating Scandal That Outed My Perfect Christian Husband' | This Morning

It’s a dating site for married people seeking affairs. But in 2015, hackers released the personal information of Ashley Madison's 30 million users - exposing their identities to the world and their other halves. The leak had catastrophic consequences for couples across the globe - including Christian vloggers Sam and Nia Rader, who appear in the new Netflix series ‘Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies and Scandal’. After staying together following the scandal, they’re joining us from Texas to open up about the effect of the scandal on their relationship.
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[@tanyamilewski5700]

That guy will never change. He also asked out a close friend of hers. He lacks self control and boundaries

[@taylorrusso5290]

"The Lord taking the SMALL thing I've done" is all I had to hear to know he still doesn't take responsibility.

[@tinaferr]

My uncle (married to my blood-relative aunt) tried to pull this with me. Loud Christian man. Still deflecting.

[@LilFoxyCosplay]

So he only came clean because he was caught?

[@golnaz.shoush]

Yes he admitted that and I credit him for that

[@misshouda1740]

​@@golnaz.shoush goofball

[@redoksunflower]

That's how it goes. Also they don't stop cheating, they get better at hiding it

[@roserosa8276]

My guts is telling me he still is lying 🤥

[@frummel403]

​@@golnaz.shoushno..... he got outed so he had no other choice

[@zigman3105]

He is definitely still cheating. He did some other apology before this. He is a narcissist. She is way to fine to be with this guy. She has low self esteem.

[@tiffanymcintyre8375]

I agree 💯

[@Paul2377]

Agreed. They always do. My sister was in a similar position where her husband cheated on her. He acted contrite when he was caught and promised all of us he would never do it again. My sister decided to stay with him and, while we were nervous about it, we stuck by her decision and welcomed him back into the family (especially as they have two children). But of course he strayed again with the same woman - breaking my sister's heart all over again. They always do.

[@G1S2mart]

His face at 1.24 gives it away - poor gal

[@lorraineterry884]

He describes his indiscretions as struggles, I don’t know what anyone else thinks but to me that seems like a way to paint himself as a victim.

[@ELEKTRA-LUXXX]

Right!!!!!!! If Ashley Madison didn't get the leak, he wasn't gonna tell her x he was gonna take that to the grave.

[@dagmar9019]

Your husband cheats and then takes you on a world tour in attempt to keep his KZbin career alive.

[@RainbowCherries]

a man who was never going to tell you was never sorry for what he did.

[@jj-gk6rj]

Yup, only sorry he got caught 😒

[@gsl649]

It’s honest. I knows it’s shocking but some people can be transparent and hold themselves accountable to make a change for the future.

[@cuteclassi2004]

The scary thing is that he was willing to take his secrets to the grave meaning he never felt any guilt or remorse. He is a serial cheater and does it because he knows he can get away with taking her for granted.

[@bugsfunny0585]

Love how they shield themselves with religion. lol….

[@katjaxxx7353]

Girl have some self respect

[@nzkid2599]

and now they're selling their story for $$$$$$

[@MollyRuiz733]

This is sad ! so basically she is a doormat 😂

[@civilpanda9422]

Yep. That marriage ain't gonna last. Clock is ticking. Once a cheater always a cheater.

[@ravd8082]

his wife will be at it now😂😂

[@frummel403]

Yeah I think she stays and be miserable forever.

[@rsb8380]

Well yeah I get your point. But they stuck together even after he came clean about his years of cheating, so they might stick it out yet, for good or bad.

[@ElliePopsBespoke]

It happened 9 years ago and they have had 2 more kids since. They aren’t splitting up any time soon

[@dodleymortune8422]

​@@ElliePopsBespoke Hopefully never like some of these people in the comments wish. They all act like they are better. The day of judgment will put everyone mouth to silence once and for all.

[@keew7854]

It’s pathetic because she’s too scared to be alone. How sad

[@jessmynett3258]

she has 4 children, is deeply religious and obviously loves him very much. although she deserves better and imo should leave him, she is not pathetic or sad for staying with him.

[@benladin626]

​@@jessmynett3258sure she is. She's just lying to herself thinking that forgiving him is all good. Nope it's already imprinted in her brain that he slept with another woman and nothing will ever change that. She should get a divorce and move on.

[@Paul2377]

@@jessmynett3258 They're also both major attention seekers. Their income depends on their Sam and Nia KZbin channel. They're basically a brand. I think if she kicked him out and it became the "Nia and family" channel, she would still do well, but that's probably not a risk she's willing to take. It'd be much harder to run on her own.

[@jessmynett3258]

@@Paul2377 yes I agree there's definitely a large element of that

[@skel760]

@@jessmynett3258Yes she is. And this is some of the harm that religion does to people.

[@Bakeroo]

Maya Angelou wrote, "when someone shows who you are, believe them". Babygirl, he's shown you he's a liar and a cheat, please believe him and have the best life you can.

[@mirjamg8274]

Sorry, they don t look happy at all. Wish you the best!

[@golnaz.shoush]

How do u & ur partner look like?!

[@Mysticalsmile777]

Yea something feels off. Body language is way off. Wouldn't be surprised if they ended up going their separate ways. The connection isn't there and it just needs to end at this point. I give it a few months. Yikes.💀

[@jj-gk6rj]

He looks INCREDIBLY guilty, shifty eyes 👀

[@tiffanymcintyre8375]

​@@Mysticalsmile777... 💯💯💯💯

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

That's because he isn't done cheating ​@@jj-gk6rj.

[@Tosca767]

He was having a great old time😳confessions? He got outed…he didn’t confess‼️He wouldn’t have said a thing if this list hadn’t come out.

[@MarthaMansbridge]

They deserve each other. Narcissism ahead of decency. If they had less of the former and more of the latter they wouldn’t even be appearing on TV.

[@user-mr9uy9gj5l]

They're both extremely shallow and they're raising very shallow children.

[@shawng1590]

Didn’t these guys fake a pregnancy and then a miscarriage for views?

[@Iloveramennoodz]

Yes I forgot about that!

[@susiesays5695]

He is trying to minimise what he did by referring to it as "my struggles". That's so unfair to his wife! Plus, he's very me, me, me and it's all about how he feels, never mind anyone else!

[@kristinashepherd3003]

He is either borderline or narcissistic.

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

​@@kristinashepherd3003or both.

[@tinaferr]

"I never felt I was able to share my struggles in the beginning of the marriage" - like it's somehow her fault for not making him feel comfortable enough to share.

[@Duizelig]

Imagine your husband cheating like this and you feel like you can't leave him because you believe in some fantasy story.

[@Ndrums2]

Imagine maturing in your relationship and not becoming another statistic because you chose not to give up thanks to your belief in a higher power? Sounds fulfilling!

[@redoksunflower]

Nia is delusional

[@successfulperson3304]

Lege nederlandse opmerking

[@deborahbaker4770]

My ex husband moved us and our two kid’s to a different state stayed for a year and left us there no car no money and no home because he wouldn’t pay the rent but the person he left me for she and her 3 kid’s didn’t have to worry about money he was supporting them. So I had 4 part time job’s until I got full time we were on welfare housing authority just until I could get off of it that was in 1989 my kid’s are in their 40’s I’m retired from working in a nursing home and unfortunately what he did feel’s like it was yesterday ‼️ This lady is living in a fairy tale in my opinion but it’s her fairy tale so who am I to judge hopefully she won’t have to go through it again but if she did we wouldn’t even know about it‼️‼️

[@annaisiomaful]

@@Ndrums2preach

[@Mary-tj5qx]

He was on the site for a month but getting to a point where you’re on a site like that is not a small decision. My bet, the marriage is over but they don’t want to lose their business.

[@ElliePopsBespoke]

It happened 9 years ago and they have had 2 more kids since. At the time it happened they quit KZbin. He moved out. She is a very devout Christian and believes god did this for a reason. She decided she wanted to forgive him, for her family.

[@Paul2377]

@@ElliePopsBespoke I think it's admirable to want to stay with your husband for the sake of your children. But I bet she's always wondering if he's being faithful. Once that trust is damaged it's very hard to ever get it back completely.

[@anthonymartyn5590]

Staying together because they make a lot of money on KZbin, they are saying one thing but their faces were saying something different, they need to keep the brand 💯

[@jocelynn8849]

yup. ive watched them since i was a kid like LITTLE kid and i even noticed then something was off with them but now that this came out it makes sense

[@FruityHachi]

they probably sleep in different rooms but come together when the camera is rolling

[@Paul2377]

Yeah exactly. Mind you, I partly blame all their viewers and subscribers. I'm not sure why they keep watching this grifting pair.

[@FruityHachi]

@@Paul2377 they aren't getting lots of views, so you can be sure that the majority of their 2 million subs aren't watching them anymore there are plenty of channels like that their most recent videos don't exceed not even 20k views

[@z.s.7761]

Is he seriously promoting his book? Wouldn't spend even a penny on that.

[@distorbia20]

They are so unhappy and working so hard to appear united. Also he is cruel to wait till the reveal instead of informing his wife. He informed his brother but failed to inform his wife. Nasty work. Is just not about the cheating he lied and continued to lie.

[@Parky1975]

Oh hes showing what a christian life is all about all right. Cashing in, judging others and lying

[@sakurakun123]

She looks so dead inside. Like she is just smiling through it all. "Most important person" 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sb-hm2nr]

didn’t they fake a miscarriage

[@chaoticxkam7598]

Sure did

[@user-mr9uy9gj5l]

Yes, they did.

[@butterfIiess]

What?? How? Why?

[@PaladinesAngel]

Sounds like Christianity to me. Preaching the values for others to follow and hating on those briefly mentioned in the fairy book, but living the sin in secret personally. Seems legit to me

[@kerryannehogg6009]

It's all an absolute fairytale. They're both delusional.

[@successfulperson3304]

Why call yourself an angel because they first are mentioned in that ‘fairy book’

[@PaladinesAngel]

@@successfulperson3304 why not? It’s also in the dictionary

[@itsdanielaa5035]

What he did is the complete opposite of Christianity. Read the Bible, God does not condone adultery (Exodus 20:14 & Hebrews 13:4) or hypocrisy. In Matthew 23: 27-28 Jesus Rebuked the religious leaders for being hypocrites.

[@tinaferr]

Unfortunately it can be an easy way to project and deflect. Vicarious atonement does that. Get out of jail free card. The old testament is so much more real and gangster imo. You do something wrong, you have to repent and atone to be forgiven. Much more universal law typa stuff

[@jonriley8342]

Typical of people who preach, most of people who preach are always hypocritical.

[@ELEKTRA-LUXXX]

Yuuuuppp

[@GomemG]

Extra tea: They both faked pregnancy and miscarriage for social attention. 🤣 Guy both of them are grifters.

[@emmaloux2820]

These make me howl 😂 gave into that old temptation didn't you Sam..

[@headron66]

I have a husband who unlike me doesn’t believe in God, I’ve been married 40 years this year and he has never hurt me, a beautiful kind human, much better than I. Her husband doesn’t love her enough because if he did he would treasure her! A man of God, Mmm…

[@Bakeroo]

He's such a fake and she sounds sweet (but delusional).

[@zigman3105]

He loves talking about the lord. Usually the biggest and fakest people

[@abulfazal7420]

These two will do anything for publicity

[@redoksunflower]

And money!

[@GomemG]

Remember the fake pregnancy and miscarriage 5 years ago. Can’t believe people are still following them.😂

[@deee1776]

‘Small thing’????!!!

[@vivianopoku1976]

Absolutely ridiculous!!!

[@katerose3558]

He was having his cake & eating it.... until his wife found out. She deserves better where she can continue to follow & respect her faith whilst being happier with someone who truly loves her. This guy is all about money & 'likes' for his youtube, he wasn't thinking of his dear wife when he was sleeping with others!

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

He's still cheating on her.

[@janinemaxwell4297]

He lies still

[@maartjegoede9330]

They seem really happ......... 😅 Just divorce already.

[@JamesChatting]

"Till boredom does us part". Marriage isn't supposed to be exciting 100% of the way.

[@CatsandJp]

There is no perfect husband or a person…and no Christian is without sin…but Christians often ask for forgiveness thinking that’s going to set things right….but that is often only temporary…and they often do the same thing again or worse….the only judge of your sins is your own conscience…and that’s where you seek forgiveness.

[@donnamo1954]

Once a cheater always a cheater

[@cuteyeke65]

I didn't want to believe that but IT THE THRUTH

[@gianpaolosacchetti4077]

Males or females once cheat always will....

[@winros]

That's all she wrote!

[@kenfaganjr.7357]

People cheat for a reason. Communication is the key to ANY relationship.

[@cuteyeke65]

@@kenfaganjr.7357 of course they do and the problem lies with the cheater

[@jenpw1525]

She’s wasting the best years of her life with him. He will up and leave her after 40 years of marriage and not give an F about her feelings. Starting over is easier when you’re younger l and she should get out now.

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

There is no such thing as ''best years of life'' because every person has best years of their life at different age.

[@Mysticalsmile777]

Well, according to the body language in this video. They don't really have much connection here. So if I base my judgement off of that video, they won't last long together. Wouldn't be surprised if they called it quits. I can already see the woman leaving him and going her separate way. I can feel it happening already....

[@kristinashepherd3003]

She will end up sick , broke and used up because that’s what a narcissist does

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

Yep. Governor Edwin Edwards did this to Elaine Edwards, married her in 1949, had four children with her, cheated on her the entire marriage while she advanced his career, then asked for a divorce in 1989, after 40 years of matrimony when his wife was 60.

[@cuteclassi2004]

Probably will leave her for a younger woman. That seems like the type of man he is 😢

[@shobnagooding4973]

Um yeah it’s over. He’s got problems

[@jjkatz]

They are together to make money from a book.

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

At this point, they've probably settled on an open marriage.

[@chrisr1056]

You don’t make a documentary like that and still stay successful. I’m sorry you guys are whack. I feel overwhelmingly sorry for your children.

[@tiffanymcintyre8375]

Why do they act like they can't stand each other? Actions speak louder than words 💯

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

They both probably have other people.

[@desireeking5894]

Ugh man... please don't use and abuse the name of the lord to condemn your cheating actions... once a cheater always a cheater ... Move on woman... He is using his cheating, lying, manipulative, skills to make money. Let's not also forget, he is using the Lord as well....

[@amandajackson6714]

For a religious man who believes in god he has broken a lot of the commandments 🤔

[@user-mr9uy9gj5l]

He is not religious and he does not believe in God, unless he considers himself God.

[@annstrahlendorf2879]

BS

[@Zee-mu1zj]

...smells like it

[@myavonworld]

I wonder how many more subscribers they got after this ‘scandal’? 🤔

[@carmelshepherd6739]

Pack your bags Sam 👋

[@joesullivan8861]

She will, in time, find out again that he cheated on her. And like a naive little girl that she is will be devastated. Question is, will she forgive him again??

[@kendelpaulsen1821]

🤢

[@rhondag6635]

We all know there’s two sides to really everything and a documentary for a couple hours that doesn’t do justice and yeah it’s not just your husband cheating wives too and so do girlfriend and so do mistresses

[@Might45666]

I feel sorry for her. She has to watch her friends around her husband

[@butterfIiess]

I really cannot believe that she forgave him AND took him back. It’s horrid enough to go on a website and cheat with strangers, but even worse and sleazier to flirt with and make advances to her friends!! I dont know how her family and friends feel about him but I would NEVERRRR trust him again. I feel bad for her because I don’t believe he will ever change.

[@skel760]

Agree. I would have been horrified if my husband was making passes at my friends. She didn’t even call her best friend to say hey, I’m so sorry he put you in that terrible position etc. nope. She just drops her. She’s says “we’re married. Marriage is a solid thing”. Did he not know ‘he’ was married? Two grifters making money off of his skeevy behavior. I don’t know which one I loathe more.

[@dearbrave4183]

Divorce is allowed in the Bible for the case of infidelity. If a woman chooses to stay it's her choice, misleading would be an implication that it's a commandment or an obligation to do so. And if a woman is not staying because he changed and it can be confirmed, but instead staying to keep the marital status, then it's more about the ego, than Godliness Because the marital covenant is already broken with infidelity even in the eyes of God. And it can only be reinstated if the person has truly repented and changed and the other has forgiven them. Otherwise all that is happening is a man repetitively betraying his wife and his wife who repetitively shows him he can, by staying to give him the good man status which definitely helps to lure in more women. And apart from it being a bad example for a relationship dynamic, this behaviour and its tolerance is also an opening door for demonic spirits into their children's lives.

[@G1S2mart]

His face at 1.24 - doubt anything’s changed 😅

[@MrWatshisface]

Last time I checked his name is Sam Rader.

[@lilbixy]

Not yall bashing them for fixing their marriage when some of yall are not even married to yalls toxic baby daddies and take them back every time

[@user-mr9uy9gj5l]

Learn to speak English. You'll go far(ther) in life.

[@DinamicMCGaming]

Absolutely crazy.She deserves better and they believe in jesus.The trust has gone

[@bequia86]

Only in America folks. 🤣🤣🤣

[@KatTheTruth]

This is embarrassing.

[@thebrummierailenthusiasts5329]

Well she can’t go back with him Because if she goes back with him Hes gonna end up cheating on her again And she will leave him and go with someone else and leaving him to go with the woman he had cheated on

[@roserosa8276]

I ain’t buy that 🤫

[@ELEKTRA-LUXXX]

This is so awk ! If you nervous , dont make the decision to go on tv???? 😂😂🤣

[@hopolang99]

So what did he do and what is the list?🤔

[@melanierenshaw7228]

People can change. I think he will remain true to her now.

[@peeg09]

Bet the brother's HOT too. Why was he watching the leaks lol....

[@janinemaxwell4297]

That’s what I want to know as well

[@FookinIrishman187]

Annunaki saved This Marrige!! 😂😂

[@jewelssunsun9450]

I believe it's very rare that people don't cheat.

[@verum117]

I will never understand getting married with someone then proceed to cheat maybe I am to loyal because my dad did this to my mom when I was like 10 so I seen how much damage it can do but yeah

[@OrangeCurtains]

It’s good they are still together. Cringe couples should never part. 😂

[@MagdaNortje]

Disgusting

[@missygraceful]

These two are so cringe

[@XAVIWANTHEFLY]

Joker and Harley.

[@saraneuss4089]

Most man r bored with 1 partner

[@Santiago-5107]

All men are. We are biologically program to spread our seed.

[@elizabethrobertson4542]

So weird to see Sam & Nia on here. Josie should have done some research first, this is such old news.

[@CatsandJp]

That is not up to Josie…it is the producers … they pick the topic.

[@lisaainsworth3]

It’s new to Netflix though..that’s why they are on the show ..not everyone knew about it till it was added to Netflix recently..the producers of the show know what they’re doing lol

[@CatsandJp]

@@lisaainsworth3That is nothing new..FTA channels like ITV…promote streaming services..it helps boost their commercial dollars.

[@DaishasDigest]

It is back to being current news as they now have a documentary about it on Netflix. So then being on this show at this time makes sense.

[@nandez4]

Media Hores 😅

[@tracystreet8338]

Jehovah has the final say Hallelujah and Amen 🙏 🙌 👏

[@andyroo9381]

I have never heard of this couple and I live in Arizona. I guess they are religious KZbinrs???

[@yevgeniyaleshchenko849]

Well, it's right in the title and description...

[@xolilehlomphosegokgo2224]

​@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849😂

[@golnaz.shoush]

I like them both , they should be proud of the union they managed to maintain

[@All_that_glitters_]

You can't be serious

[@SharonRader-g2w]

I believe this was a great video. Sam and Nia got their message out there. God can do anything including forgiving and redeeming. I have witnessed Sam go through a transformation. People can and do change.

[@user-mr9uy9gj5l]

Say what you want. He still is NOT going to sleep with you.

[@peeg09]

As long as they're happy. He's HOT.

[@Mysticalsmile777]

Smh🙄🤦

[@shazali7489]

He looks so creepy

[@aglaisio]

Sin 6 days per week, then repent on the 7th day. How narcissistic and ironically so unchristian to put their shallow desires to become wealthy over living with integrity and truth.