Three things I learned raising daughters:

Part 2: • Three Things I Learned...

[@XclawX213]

“Also taught them how to shoot just in case” best line period XD

[@bobreams5178]

Definitely! 🏆

[@xc4945]

Other countries: I gave my daughter a pepper spray, tazer.... Americans: I taught her how to shoot, just in case 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@XclawX213]

@@xc4945 best father I’ve ever seen XD.

[@no_name_unfortunately]

father figures are so important, and to think modern women don't believe men are important enough is crazy

[@XclawX213]

@@no_name_unfortunately I mean Modern women tend to go after boys who are raised only by a single parent, mostly a mother. So the men that most likely have never had a father figure, to begin with, and worse, they are never around men who will act like it to them so the cycle continues. My father is the kindest man I know, taught me how to shoot, how to have patience, and to be a kind human being. My mom tried to teach me to be a victim, to hurt those who hurt me, and to never fully trust a person even a friend (When they both separated). I don't hate my mother, but I noticed my sister was the same with her kids, my cousin was the same with her child and it's just something I noticed. We need both parents to make a decent human being, single parents make a monster 80% of the time. That or never have a country parent marry a city parent XD

[@cjgrey9129]

"how do i protect my daughter from someone like you?" cracked the shit out of me 😭💀💀

[@donquixote3292]

But that’s literally so smart. Players lowkey make the best fathers because they know what to help their daughters avoid

[@shawnbenoit3774]

Players are masters at spotting broken/insecure women

[@DoomedFr]

@@donquixote3292 the best fathers but not mothers

[@Uhdksurvhunter]

While funny, it is absolutely true. I am 28, got a daughter that is 9 now, and i am deathly scared that she will end up hooking up with people that act like i did when i was younger. Thankfully i think i know the manwhore tips and tricks, considering i was one for many years.

[@jana731]

And the other one didn't even have that fragile of an ego to get angry. I can't believe thats the worst man he ever encountered and if he is, well this dude has very cool people around him.

[@MadaraUchihaGaming27]

Man is out here doing what most dads fail to do. tip my hat to ya sir.

[@adains8819]

I misread hat as hair

[@Arran.]

​@@adains8819LMAO

[@jediconnor9349]

Spitting out straight facts, my guy!😎

[@jkuhede]

Most mom's are failing to be role models out there, that's the problem. Not dad's lol

[@clutchpumpkin]

@@jkuhedei think it’s a reasonable variety of both. These comments having “most” is unnecessary

[@nyteshayde1197]

I raised three girls. I gave them permission to defend themselves, we talked about the facts of life early and often. My girls could come to me for anything, even if they thought it would be embarrassing. I taught them to respect their sense of self-worth and to never give any part of themselves away to anyone who didn't deserve it. I have three well balanced and independent daughters who make me proud every day.

[@user-dr7fn8sl3b]

Your daughters are definitely lucky to have you as their dad 😊

[@nana8135]

❤

[@Jen-jg4hz]

"She's a girl. Figured she might know some things. She did." This sparked joy for me.

[@chizyloitees3353]

1.9k Likes with no comments? Let me fix that.

[@7o44]

2.1k Likes with one comment? Let me fix that.

[@ralf.g]

2.3k Likes with two comments? Let me fix that.

[@Demonitized123]

2.3k now and here's your third.

[@Somyyaaa]

2.3 k with 4 comments ? lemme continue the chain!

[@gymnasticsgirlie0647]

"Tell your daughter you love her because if you don't, someone who doesn't will and she'll believe them" is one of the wisest quotes I've heard in a long time.

[@mctheobeymebunny190]

Im actually in tears from that

[@tshepiempopi.11_11]

Absolutely!

[@chanakasgalindo6229]

And it souns pretty much true

[@yamaguchi3440]

Learned from experience and that is true

[@deniellekatesbuhian5421]

My tears fell when he said that actually😭😭😭

[@user-zx9xv3zu4x]

You sound like my Dad. He taught me well. I've been married for 53 yrs. to a wonderful husband and father. I retired as a Major. Yeah, I can shoot too. Thank you for being like my Dad. He was one of the greatest fathers in the world, a member of the First Blue Angels Squadron, and a fabulous husband for sixty-seven years. 😊🎉❤

[@pierremercier4724]

"Tell your daughter you love her 'cause if you don't someone who doesn't will & she'll believe him." A simple and short sentence, full of wisdom and compassion. Sir, if all girls have had a father like you, I think our crazy world would be a much more better place. God bless you.

[@dumann9142]

protect them from @hicouples

[@x.midnight_desu.x]

"How do I protect her from someone like you? " Beautiful

[@Dk-hx2zv]

Aye w to the buddy atleast he didnt get super offensive and ignored it

[@Chad-bc9vi]

​@@Dk-hx2zv it's really hard to offend a guy friend, me and my friends say nasty things to one another and we're just laugh it off, of course there's a line that we shouldn't cross while joking with each other

[@candle_eatist]

​@@Chad-bc9vi especially a military guy

[@Chad-bc9vi]

@@candle_eatist maybe, but I think it's just guys in general

[@Bearical]

​@@Chad-bc9vi True. Especially if you know each other, you can insult him in the most terrible way possible, but he will just do something back to you and laugh it off. Don't do it with strangers though.

[@shreenidhibhatiya4595]

"Tell her you love her because if you don't some one who doesn't will and she will believe him " 💀 i need that

[@KyleJB007]

I hope the best for you and your future. I’m sorry for what you may have been through I’m life and I hope it gets much better each day❤️

[@fentyzlap]

Honestly everyone needs to be told by any type of parental figure that they are loved, and shown proper respect and care, because that shapes how they view their future relationships and gives them standards for friends or romantic partners.

[@rosemarie3416]

I am SO with you on that ❤

[@zephyruskoryami948]

I guess that would go for every guy who wants to be called 'daddy', even the ones who do love their girl.

[@donatsu_]

honestly 💀

[@tankyang4725]

“And I taught her how to shoot”😂😂😂 what an American thing to say.😂😂😂

[@IsabellaGoncharov]

Murica 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🦅🦅🔫🔫🔫

[@AaronAlias]

"Also taught HIM how to shoot" (like in the subtitle) sounded like the ultimate plot twist 😂❤

[@prestonpitts6886]

"How do I protect my daughter from someone like you?" 💀💀💀

[@Marth667]

His mate was on point tho, damn. 💀

[@Weed69420]

weed

[@orestisveseli1603]

That Wass actually a good person to ask like the old saying goes to catch a criminal you have to think like a criminal

[@alimctaven7417]

@@orestisveseli1603 I doubt he actually asked that. Especially before the daughters were even born or old enough to even be thinking on that level.

[@alimctaven7417]

@Monkey D Luffy Lol Oda level foreshadowing.

[@edwardburns3781]

"Tell her you love her, because if you don't, someone that doesn't will, and she'll believe him" absolutely

[@TwilitFall]

And the flipside: that after getting burned by so many partners who lied to her about loving them, she won't believe it when someone who sincerely does tells her they love her. Signed, a child of parents who only saw "love" for how much they could get from their offspring.

[@noonesaccount6675]

As someone with daddy issues this hits hard. I'm really glad there are people like you out there. Thank you for being cool and supporting your daughter.

[@Z123z]

Wow that broke my heart

[@melrye7350]

Worked on me. Now I have all kinds of trauma to rework and therapy bills.

[@melrye7350]

@@noonesaccount6675 you just remember the first word in that phrase and make sure you know it's his fault entirely. 100% his and only his fault.

[@lukarte7343]

Well done. I wish my dad would had been like you. Your daughter's will be so proud of you, and you will have their love and trust of your life, best gift ever. Good man. Congrats.

[@jedimando9258]

I want to throw in another piece of advise as well. As the daughter of a military vet and now cop father if ever you have a bad day at work and your in a bad mood, Take a long drive and difuse before coming home. Because if you go home you will explode at some point, she will be around and that will make her want to stay away from you instead of coming to you during hard times.

[@NiMareQ]

"Young woman that had a high expectation for love, respect, and honesty." That right there is the key!

[@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodb5344]

You forgot that they can shoot 😂

[@robertfuentes6226]

What respectable women truly are

[@AnimangaGirlChii]

He forgot to say that because of those high expectations they are single cuz no man is a match 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NiMareQ]

@@AnimangaGirlChii I am a match 😂👌

[@anjafrohlich1170]

@@AnimangaGirlChii You laugh but it's sad really that love, respect and honesty are too big of expectations for an adult grown man to fulfil in a relationship with an adult grown woman. Seems like we need to raise our boys to be men in stead of overgrown children, huh.

[@theodorexenophon7612]

Honestly that bit about "Tell them you love them, or if someone who doesn't will, and they'll believe them." Is good advice for any kid. How your parents treat you as a kid really sets your expectations and standards for what you deserve from others in the future.

[@Nima-ec4tr]

as a former kid i confirm this fr and the video you should teach your kids to never lie to you and tell them to stay away from people don't watch porn and all other stuff my own mother teach me a lot of these things and they all have saved but she did not teach me don't watch porn its harmful so i got into it and it was very bad for me but i did not ever use cigar even tho i was the only among my Friends but thanks to my mothers advise which she give me every day i am not addicted to cigar unlike half of my Friends there and i ask you to teach your kids to be careful about peoples kids as they might be bully as well that they might try to Assault sexually assault which they did to me but i was saved cause they not run after me and they were thinking i wont tell my Family but i did that sometime later we moved from there to Afghanistan my home country peace from Afghanistan.

[@Scuffy]

@@Nima-ec4tr 😂

[@chanelb8387]

@@Scuffy what about this is remotely funny? The internet is weird.

[@pepsy3085]

@@chanelb8387 I'm guessing the "as a former kid" line

[@Scuffy]

@@pepsy3085 bruh everything, from the a former kid to the Afghanistan

[@sambar5876]

I have identical twin girls who are still young. I hang onto every word you say about rising your daughters. Thank you for these tips. I hope to raise my girls with the sense your girls have Today.

[@eccentricJill]

I have identical twin 14 year old girls ❤❤

[@tasha_b4305]

You are one heck of a dad!😂......you are awesome!

[@fiamarasco4982]

it's the "you can always tell daddy the truth no matter what" for me, we need more parents like this man... comunication fkin matters

[@PBthesquirrel]

Open communication is EVERYTHING

[@carefreebird1617]

Trueeee😩

[@grandmasterdong8820]

When you have thoose man you leave them for Chad Thundercock....

[@blizzard1198]

You won't be seeing much of that in black households because of corporeal punishment

[@lilbomeepmeep5890]

U are so right!...... but then u have parents who say that, but will flip out and make the situation worse bc u told them instead of being supportive & helping them even with the consequences. Then the child starts to realize that being open and honest with parent(s) maybe isn't a good idea..... thus the solitary teenage life begins.

[@OmegaGummybear]

“Tell them you love them, because if you don’t. someone who doesn’t will, and they’ll believe them” Such a good line, Ima steal that

[@CoralLINE-tg5en]

1k like- but yeah

[@GreedyDrunk92]

You probably won't ever need it

[@rahilrajverma6521]

Atleast quote correctly 🤦

[@johnkula1536]

I don't need that now. I probably won't need that for a while. But someday that line will come in handy!

[@HassanAhmed-rf9xr]

@@MurakiChiyo I mean it's kinda sad even if someone else who genuinely loves them but is a stranger. Yet the parent who raised them never uttered such foul words.

[@hayliejesch6205]

Good man, great dad. The world needs more family men like you sir!!

[@gracegallimore4580]

Good fathering. It's rare to see these days, but it's good to know there's good fathers out here protecting amd caring for their daughters I'm making sure that they don't end up with the kind of men that wouldn't love or respect them as people.

[@Tiana326]

“How do i protect my daughter from someone like you?” Hilarious🤣

[@kikosawa]

"You couldn't even protect yourself!" "Draw your blade..."

[@sheriefwoodard8686]

That’s an honest relationship right there

[@henrimatisse7481]

it's very true

[@danielprovost]

It's a genuine question for sure.

[@elizabethm262]

You can't. No matter how great of a Dad you are, you will not be able to protect him/her from predators.

[@claracatlady9844]

Basically “Don’t give them Daddy Issues”

[@Imokay1695]

And teach them how to fight for themselves. ✊

[@Yassin5643]

Yup.

[@liamquirke3063]

Daddy knows daddy cares now back to work

[@jodibbmoli9319]

And daughters are lesbian 😂😂😂😂

[@makedayah9021]

Daddy so important! I selected the best dad by looking at his friends, sister and mother and how he treated his cats! Best caretaker for the animals and respectful to his sister n mother! He adores the girls 🎉

[@elizabethjones8369]

I wish I had a dad like you.

[@PriscillaCaldera-px9jf]

Its giving good dad. It makes me happy.

[@MothraMissWorld]

“Tell your daughter you love her bc if you don’t, someone who doesn’t will & she’ll believe him” oof that hit hard.

[@itsmehkm7420]

Frrr

[@losreyes2860]

Right in the heart

[@holish.t]

Its probably the most real and usefull advice ever

[@azhari7968]

that's straight up the most appropriate way to prevent your daughter to have daddy issues

[@GlennPranata]

Yep, this is the biggest advice everyone must know. Tell the ones you love that you love them.

[@antmangamer1536]

Respect man. Teaching your daughters how to find the right guy is way better than threatening any guy she brings home.

[@Jane-oz7pp]

Something my dad said when my sister brought a guy home for the first time still sticks with me. "No I'm not going to threaten him, because I respect you." Your daughter is capable if you raised her to be, she doesn't need your protection all the time, but if she gets hurt she does need your comfort and support.

[@xPhoenix_]

Ye and how to shoot, don’t forget the important part.

[@tylernielsen3319]

Amen brother. If you threaten the boyfriend it'll scare em away and mess the relationship up between guy and girl and girl and dad

[@chloe.cordeiro]

@@tylernielsen3319 can vouch for this 🥲 my parents were super non-accepting of my current boyfriend and we've been through soooooo much shit, i can't even begin to explain; just because they believe they are right and.. ?? I honestly don't know what goes through a person's mind when they think its okay or justified to threaten someone that their child has chosen to love. And yeah, it's completely ruined our relationship. I can't talk to them the same way anymore, can't fully respect any of their opinions (Im still super respectful to them, just don't have any faith in any of their beliefs/opinions anymore), and my mental health (while already pretty shitty) took a DIIIIIIIVE 😂💀📉 Love your children, parents. In an unconditional, unselfish way that allows you to see them as individuals in their own right, with their own (STRONG) thoughts and emotions. Empathize with them in every way you can, because all of what you do as a parent has a major impact on an individual coming into the world.

[@chloe.cordeiro]

Sorry for the long comment 💀😬

[@user-inthetrees]

Dad, you couldn't have done a better job. Be proud. I have this kind of father, and in my 67 years, it has and continues to serve me well!

[@-You_sure_bout_that-]

I really cried while im hearing this..

[@Darvit_Nu]

"Tell your daughter you love her 'cause if you don't someone who doesn't will & she'll believe him." The basic truth of this statement broke my heart & made me cry.

[@amandachilds5290]

Yes but he got one thing wrong, partly. You show your daughters you love them because if you just say it then when someone else says it they will believe it, too. If you SHOW them and say it then when the person only says it and doesn't show it, they will discern the truth and not waste their time on lip service. Too many parents get this wrong and then wonder why their kids end up with classical and covert narcissists and other BS, user types. The answer is they fell for it because it was familiar, their childhood idea of love that their parent.or parents portrayed.. Prioritize your kids and they will not waste time on people who cannot and will not reciprocate! Don't spoil them with praise once in a while and ignore them the majority or they will seek that in a spouse without even knowing and those types will find them so quick and get their hooks in easy. Also, It is CRUCIAL to Treat your spouse the way you want your Kid's spouses to treat them! Role model it with actions and not just words or if you can't then get out of the way for someone who can if you want your kids to have their best chance in life.

[@Mxppxt]

@@amandachilds5290 gotta hol essay

[@amandachilds5290]

@@Mxppxt is that too long? I mean most people don't click the "read more".so the first sentence is what really matters, right?.

[@Mxppxt]

@@amandachilds5290 nah I'm just making jokes it's all good lol

[@amandachilds5290]

@@Mxppxt cool. No worries

[@PressYourWayBeauty]

“Tell them you love them or someone who doesn’t will.” ❤

[@solalabell9674]

Also teach them to shoot just in case

[@angelspirit525]

I love that also. Sad that there are those wrong sort of guys to begin with. I don't know why their behavior is even tolerated by good men, but it's great when good men like this one do their best to love, protect and educate their daughters.

[@lana922011]

That's some sound advice.

[@kenv9191]

Kinda makes no sense actually. Sounds nice, but what you say to your daughter doesn’t stop someone else from saying the same thing.

[@limeentertain1066]

@@kenv9191 the idea is to teach them how to tell the difference between sincere love and insincere ones. Of course if the dad does it right and truly cares for his daughter.

[@user-zv7gt5xe5u]

Im a man and never had a dad to tell me that he loved me. Ive always wanted a father figure and im happy to know that your there for you daughters, Thank you for not being a bad dad 👍

[@Amr.M]

I have seen this multiple times, KZbin keeps recommending this great video to me!!

[@asresbenayalew3092]

He has the wholesomest friendship with his military friend.

[@daveyjones9506]

Always will be a whore in your unit. My guy got penicillin prescribed so many times he was facing disciplinary actions from the higher ups lol

[@DX-d]

To the video creator. Your wife is a woman, not a girl. That’s condescending and sexist.

[@johannluspo6274]

@@DX-d wtf

[@dhve3629]

@@DX-d didnt ask

[@thatr3wangurl]

​@@DX-d uhhh what?

[@HEXLANG]

"I thought he was about to say the second person was me" - His mom

[@B0red_Fr0gz]

💀💀💀💀

[@robinemery]

🤗

[@luranetee]

Lol

[@coveredbychrist54]

Aww ..we always get left out...they seem to think we don't know...or we aren't in the know

[@oystersaucee_]

@@coveredbychrist54 I'm guessing he probably doesnt have a sister lmao

[@caleb9442]

Best advice I was ever given as a father was “they’ll treat each other and their future partners the way you treat yours, so show them what a loving husband and a good father looks like”

[@BonaFideWildLife]

Yes! I believe a good father is a good husband first and vice versa!

[@anzhelika3730]

the last one is brilliant 😂😂😂😂

[@dylansickinger545]

“The first person was my wife, Tina, cause she’s a girl.” Amazing line, love it

[@IzzyKawaiichi]

"Figured she might know some things. She did." What a shocker. XD

[@ZenitsuKunn]

​@@IzzyKawaiichi lol

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

Loved it too

[@YhwachTheAlmighty.]

Nick: How do I protect my daughter from someone like you? Army Friend: I’ve been preparing my whole life for this moment.

[@dartagnansantos5321]

666th like

[@toxictxli]

Army Friend: I've been preparing my whore life for this moment 🤣

[@hamidmusic1416]

😂

[@CC-2020]

Lol

[@user-xf5nm3dr4h]

I alway's tell my daughter I love her. Mum and daughter bond.❤

[@jeanharper2790]

I told my husband he'd damn well better start paying attention to our daughter because if HE didn't, she'd find another man who WOULD, and we might not approve of that man! She was a wonderful, smart kid, and you'd best believe that was one of the only times he listened to me. I suggested a few outings he could take her on, and it wasn't long before they were hiking the backwoods, camping in the wilderness and it was only two weeks out of the year, but I think it worked!

[@tinihovi8004]

imagine someone coming up to you like "yo how do i get my kids to stay away from people like you" lmao slay tho

[@isaacdebeila8085]

One thing about man whores is that they are pretty honest to themselves, they know they are trash for the situation they are in and are will to share trade secrets to help become like them or to avoid becoming like them lol I had 5 friends who fit that bill and they did just that (share what they know and experienced with so I can make an informed decision)

[@Helpmefindthewilltolive]

woahh

[@localxerago2660]

ong😭

[@xcalibur4376]

😭😭😭

[@BlankedOutSlate]

Honestly I'd be pissed, I know I WOULD be a bad influence to kids but still

[@papabrtrk]

You summed it up nicely! I taught mine martial arts and told them I would risk going to jail to protect them. No one was going to manhandle or abuse them. I have 4 married daughters with great husbands. It’s good to be former military. It makes the guys think twice. My wife and I set the bar pretty high. They know they are loved and respected and it is reciprocated. Nothing is more powerful than that of a great example. We are truly blessed and so are you Nick! Proud grandfather and great grandfather now .

[@2501Grace]

Love the “Taught em how to shoot”. Just in case “. lol 😂🎉❤

[@kimgraham9486]

Such a good dad. He studied BEFORE the test!

[@Mozarella_king]

Yeah, that’s how you study. Do you study during the test?💀

[@samuel_iv]

@@Mozarella_king bro delete this comment pleaseeeee for your dignity

[@ok2635]

​@@Mozarella_king not too late to delete brother

[@samuel_iv]

@@Slenderkllz you dont know how silly you're being

[@zeeshthebeastcr]

no shit are you gonna revise after?💀

[@stefonrandle9107]

The fact the Manwhore guy was so blatantly honest shows a bit of character in him that I can respect. It takes a strong character to be able to tell the honest truth even if it's negative against yourself.

[@HM4Hill]

I'm guessing he was either a marine or soldier with that mentality. Those brothas don't have many effs left to give

[@Projecttrap..]

But he'd never say it to the actual women.. it's called accountability not just honesty

[@griffincontracting]

Because he doesn't exist...

[@summertea8609]

Of course, that’s that raw uncut military mindset 💪🏽

[@ejcmaestro6520]

Men are straightforward i mean real men.

[@larsonc97]

My dad used to take me with him to kmart when he needed to go run and get something. We would take the motorcycle and get icecream after. Just by showing me the right kind of attention, it helped me spot guys with alterior motives and avoid them. My mom also told me one time, that if anything ever happened to me. The guy would be dead and my dad would be in jail. That really stuck with me too. Told me I'm valuable and loved. Real men are so needed. I wish every girl could have a man in her life to show her what real love is. I got the extra message that I had one willing to lay down his life for me because sometimes we don't see the day to day sacrifices that are made for us, but a message like that, I remembered.

[@Kh2lid.]

“Also I taught them how to shoot just in case” This is the most AMERICAN statement i’ve ever heard 🤣

[@gachalifeash1419]

Right hahahah

[@angelicsailor1st]

And for all non American dads- how to make it hurt and get away

[@ElficGuy]

We all should be able to do it. Why "only Americans" should have the good sense to do so?

[@RamiAli0821]

That’s racist

[@1t1s.what.1t1s]

@@RamiAli0821 bffr🤣

[@freshplayz0072]

Best father in the world be like: "also I taught them how to shoot, Just in case."

[@solarwolf1336]

You okay GMD?

[@ravine00612]

POV america

[@fm.9783]

Okay

[@saladnander3690]

Yeah bc that's what makes the best father in the world 🙄 get your priorities in check.

[@rosemarie3416]

@@saladnander3690 boo hoo

[@sandrabermudez7511]

This video made me cry so much and made me understand myself much better. Thank you

[@user-qx7hj2ih2i]

Honey, it sounds like you’re a great dad spend as much time as you can with them because we don’t know if we have tomorrow I’m 70 and 13 years ago. My son is taken away from me due to murder we think our children were out with us, but we’re not promised tomorrow. No one is spending time with those girls and they’ll always remember what you’ve taught them and that’s a lot of love. You’re a great dad.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@fuzzybunny3235]

A girl went to a party where she was having a good time until everyone started using drugs. She told her friend she needs to leave immediately. Her friend said: “Why? Are you scared your Dad’s gonna hurt you if he finds out?” She replied: “No. I’m scared I’m gonna hurt my dad if he finds out”. 💔

[@michaelsalazar1665]

God bless you!

[@duzzitmatter8679]

Based reply.

[@slapper360]

That took balls for her to say that. Hat’s off

[@theultimatep1e40]

Family is the best bond you can have, and to destroy that over some temporary feeling good drug bs then you seriously have some problem

[@mo.ka.9661]

but she wasn't against taking them if jer dad wasn't a factor, she doesn't have internal motivation

[@bruhboi6736]

"How do I protect my daughter from people like u" 💀💀💀

[@nickmurray7703]

Take away their phones

[@zahraalhussein1912]

Frrrr 💀💀💀

[@gojotard9364]

@@nickmurray7703 do y’all people don’t talk irl anymore💀💀💀

[@SheynChan]

​@@nickmurray7703 lol no

[@Ahmad-eh9kk]

💀💀💀

[@cameinyourface1351]

“I must make this video in my truck wearing sunglasses. I must not forget to deepen my voice while I’m at it “

[@jackhschaefer2652]

Good advice Nick! My daughter is 33 & a day doesn't go by without me telling her that I love her!

[@nn47301]

As a girl who didn't have a dad around and also as a person who was looking for love in all the wrong places...this is true!!!

[@delsol__]

yeah exactly true😓

[@Drax_DBZ]

I'm sorry. I know how it feels. I had abusive parents. I hope you are doing better now.

[@aprillove292]

So many of us have trauma from our father's not being there to protect & love on us in a non-sexual weirdo way! Your not alone. God bless you 🙏 ❤️ 🙌

[@ginblossom70]

Yeah. Me too. I had a narcissist, drunken man child for a father who never moved out of his mother's house. He was never in my life and all of my relationships were based on his dysfunctional perspective of love and life. May God bless you and help you find peace, self forgiveness and warm love.

[@shhsneakykitty]

Damn I felt that

[@virginiabrooks7549]

There’s a real man. A good Dad.

[@esefo909]

Idk why you dont have more likes

[@KingRastaj]

You're right that is a real man. But with all due respect you're a woman and you don't get to talk about what makes a man a man as if you know what it's like. You don't see me calling girls who don't get abortions real women because that is their choice. I believe in gender equality and you clearly believe yourself to be superior to men based off of your statement assuming what it is like to be one. You are clearly a misandrist and I find it disgusting.

[@jaq51907]

And a good husband.

[@ultimatebishoujo29]

Definitely

[@crazywarp36]

@@esefo909 wish granted but he should still have more

[@audioamz]

The wisdom in this video deserves more than 2.7 million likes, but I'm so glad at least 2.7 million people heard it. You and your wife are blessed to have each other and your daughters will be better off because of it. God bless yall

[@2nd.hand.wisdom]

I shared this message in church today as as way to remind people we need to be accepting of the Saviors love so we aren’t lead astray by the world

[@deijix]

I got chills at the “tell your daughter you love them, because if you don’t, someone else who doesn’t will and she’ll believe them”. If more fathers heard those words there’d be way less women who live for the validation from men that they never got from their fathers because their fathers didn’t know how to be emotionally available towards their daughters since their fathers probably weren’t that way with them.

[@kinda_cold_in_the_closet]

That was literally the best parenting advice I've ever heard

[@stevispevisclips4429]

damn, what a weakness. that sucks :/

[@kinda_cold_in_the_closet]

@@stevispevisclips4429 what the fuck

[@stevispevisclips4429]

@piztah *thats* what im saying. dont get me wrong. im being empathetic to the cause.

[@LizaBMarie]

Or your dad just ghosted your ass when you were 4 months old and died in your 20s before you ever got to meet him, like me.

[@edenmarble8048]

What a great dad, seriously hope my future kids have a dad just like this.

[@biology9810]

Can you read You're comment again for me real quick I'm doing homework right now

[@biology9810]

Just realized you're a girl

[@aryann9558]

💀💀

[@tabzanimations8472]

@@biology9810 you're not the only one who thought 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kantoumanjigang]

I am... So when we having kids-

[@MaryBethKissel]

This is a thinking person.....good dad !

[@patientzero5685]

I told my daughter “nobody will ever love you as much as I do, but someday, someone else’s love will mean more to you”

[@jaclynrachellec]

Awe, that actually made me cry. My father's love still means more to me though. 💙

[@bmw123ck]

What a beauty of a phrase!! 🔥🔥

[@jodymajanil]

I cried reading this

[@Melanie-ro6pl]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@maiahilden1998]

I just cried omg

[@chyu22]

this goes to show how impactful a parent’s role can affect their child’s life. i’m glad your daughters have a dad like you, everyone deserves to have this connection.

[@kashviruparelia9464]

Yess ✨✨, so lucky to have such father , btw childhood trauma is a very big thing , it is a very big cause for bipolar disorder!

[@Synphss]

​@@kashviruparelia9464 I have bpd and I was loved and influenced by not very good people that found me during a rough time when I was younger, so I'm glad this guy actually knows what to do haha.

[@user-yd8ww5mn4y]

True that. I'm almost 29 years old. Male. Grew up without a dad and the differences between someone raised by a man and myself is drastic. I'm pretty much comparable to a 22 year old. Behind on so much.

[@julyol119]

So, I'm not American, but this is what a good American father looks like in my imagination 😊 Well done. My Ukrainian father took me to Sports Karate classes for years. It gave me the posture and fearless attitude, that probably prevented people from harassing me in the first place and I actually only ever threw hands in fun semi-serious battles. Only guy to ever try anything was a 50yo man, at who's business I was a trainee for a short while. I didn't stay a trainee there.

[@chicken]

Such a wise and caring father, truly admirable. Great advice for all parents out there.

[@kirabozeridahsarah]

As a girl who's father never told he loved her this hits real hard. Thank you

[@notyourmommy]

i agree

[@marymusau1662]

Same here. I wish my dad valued me when I was growing up but instead he beat me up till I was 20

[@kirabozeridahsarah]

@@marymusau1662 Sending you cyber hugs, I can't imagine thew damage that did to you. I hope you work through it, sending you love and light

[@marymusau1662]

@@kirabozeridahsarah thanks. Much appreciated. I have moved on from that toxic life.

[@judiumstead5484]

agreed knowing they love you does not ease the pain of never hearing the words. words unspoken are just as painful.

[@Not_Kaz_here]

“I gave them wisdom and love. And also a gun.” Dad of the year award 🥇

[@XeneoTheToxicHunter]

american dad of the year*

[@heyfragrance2695]

@@XeneoTheToxicHunter Can’t disagree.

[@Klaaism]

"Stab and twist."

[@fullfradi95]

americans... only they think that gun is the solution... terrible nation

[@XeneoTheToxicHunter]

@@fullfradi95 ikr

[@jesse-ef6hh]

I have an old friend with a daughter. She told her something like, "If you ever feel uncomfortable at a party, for ANY reason, including if you get drunk, or if a boy is getting a little too frisky, you just call me. I will come and get you, no questions asked." I think thats good parenting...Most important things first. The mom was saying, in effect ,"I would rather have you home undamaged, neither raped and damaged for life, nor dead in a car accident.

[@ladyjane68]

What an insightful man you are!! Hats off to you!! Too many fathers just don't care and their daughters suffer greatly. Spread the word.

[@oscaryikes9822]

I know a lot of girls who's father's were the exact opposite and one of the most important stories I could tell is this one friend I had in middle school. We were around the same age(probably 15) and had similar interests so I went over to her house for the first time and the conversation led to talking about our families, she started crying after I told her that she deserves better and I asked if she wanted a hug, she proceeded to cling to me the whole time until I had to leave. She was so amazed that I actually listened to her and didn't get annoyed at her for being emotional and I'm 100% sure she would have done anything I asked her to if I had ulterior motives. So many girls don't know how to react when a guy is actually interested in their personal life or touches them in a non sexual manner (like a genuine hug) because they've never experienced it before and it makes them vulnerable to getting hurt or manipulated.

[@bsferguson1]

Thank you for being a genuine person and man, I hope many young and old men learn how to treat others like this and teach their children and brothers the same!

[@abbytheredwolf174]

Oh ya as a kid growing up I was taught you only go to a guys house or hang out in a non public place is sexual. So now meeting new people and trying to have good relationships with guys I feel weird and literally don’t know how to act. Even tho We are both not interested there’s always that feeling that it can’t just be a friend ship. I will never do that to my daughter.

[@gama5942]

A message to those who read this, and to you: please, if you find these people, make sure to not only support them emotionally, but to bring their personality up so that they don't continue with this mentality.

[@novadust6195]

Hugs are the bessttttt. Why has No one caught onto to the fact that hugs make everyone happy!

[@Luna-mx7fi]

Your comment is honestly so true and I absolutely love your comment honestly. 💯🙌🏼

[@random_dragon]

"How do I protect my daughters from guys like you" Lmao, that's a good friendship Edit: idk what's going on with people, in the replies. I just thought it's funny that his friend was a good sport, and gave him some advice People keep saying that the other guy manipulates women or whatever, but we don't know that- don't check the replies, it's all just arguing Edit2: If you actually *watch* the dang video- he says, "tell your girls that you love them. Because if you don't, someone who doesn't(...)" this dude never said anything about what he does- if you're gonna leave a comment and say he's a horrible person, just shut up and leave

[@wayverleesoulsong]

Boys will be boys 😂

[@PlanetHouston]

I mean, just the fact that the dude actually gave him solid advice.

[@zukoHD]

@@PlanetHouston he is bad guy, but he is not “bad, guy.”

[@rpmstudios]

@@zukoHD lol

[@DIGITALGH05T]

it takes a big man to know he is not a good man, but unfortunately it takes a bigger man to change

[@TheRomanDonut]

Good on you dude especially with the last part

[@xochitlduran4650]

This man is truly blessed because his way of thinking is unique and one of a kind. In this world you have followers and leaders . Which one are you ?? When you play your role in life to the best of your ability then your conscience is clear for a good night's rest. 🙏💜

[@izzyolsson5269]

Whenever I see dads who genuinely care about their daughters like this and actively make sure they're being a good father... It makes me tear up a little 🥺

[@LottieTottieWasTaken]

Makes me wish I had one like that

[@CharlieCabralos]

It’s sad that it seems to be uncommon lol. Pisses me off there a people having children and NOT thinking about how they can be a good parent.

[@ceterisparibus8966]

"genuinely care"

[@kintsugikame]

@@CharlieCabralos I’ve always said there should be a licensing procedure to become a parent

[@meatspin.]

@@CharlieCabralos rightt fr tho, a father/parent who cares and is active in their kids lives should NOT be noteworthy. That should be standard and bare minimum

[@bearbear2568]

As a teenager who's father is only present physically and very little emotionally, thank you. Your daughters will never know the pain of not being able to talk to or do stuff with their dad Edit: I am so very sorry to everyone who has similar experiences with one or both of their parents. I sincerely appreciate the kind words too. I know my relationship with my parents will likely not improve due to certain circumstances, but I hope all of you are able to improve your relationships with your parent(s), and if not then I hope you can find a father/mother figure to be there for you and show you what love from that certain missing person feels like. Thankfully I have a father figure in my life, he and his wife have taken me under their wings and treat me like blood, allowing me to stay over sometimes, work for them, babysit their biological daughters, have dinners with them, etc. I am extremely lucky to have found someone like that, and I hope all of you do as well. If anyone ever wants to talk, I'm always here 😊❤️

[@I_like_maths]

I feel you. My father was the same way my entire life till he finally just left when I was 14. Which was the best since he was a narcissistic abusive ass but I’m getting away from my point. My point is even if he’s not there emotionally still just having a father even if he isn’t fully present is better than not having one at all. Trust me I know it sucks but it really is better than nothing. I really don’t like my father but honestly just knowing I had one even if I couldn’t come to him for anything it still helped.

[@arnavshukla2887]

Aye bruh ever need someone to talk to we got you

[@madphatdopeyo742]

Maybe you can help me understand something. A bit of a story so bear with me. I have a niece who will be turning 16 in a couple months. Her father, my brother, committed suicide when she was an infant. She was adopted by a woman who was single so no father figure her whole life except my parents who could visit her a number of times over the years. My wife and I finally saw her this year twice. I was very happy to see her and I'm pretty sure she was happy to see me. I suspect and correct me if I'm wrong but I believe she very much wants to know me and is happy when I'm around because I'm the closest thing she has to her father. My wife told me she told her I'm more normal than my parents so I guess that's good lol

[@I_like_maths]

@@madphatdopeyo742 i know for me it’s always nice having a male role model in my life and does make me happy because it makes me feel like for even a moment that I do have a dad. Whenever I see anything about a dad being happy with his kids it’s like a stab in the heart cause I know I never or will ever have that. So I’m sure when she sees you especially being the uncle it’s kinda like she is drawn more to you because you’re the closest thing she’ll ever have to a dad. If I could give you advice just please try to always be in her life as much as you possibly can. With everything I went through with my own father both before and after he left made me suffer really really bad depression even a few years later. So it’s made me push away the only father figure I have.

[@rocketta.chique5761]

Not the same situation, but my dad passed when I was a teenager. Absence (of any kind) of a father in his daughter’s life can be a hard wound to heal. I pray you find healthy and good hearted father figures to encourage you and speak truth to you when you need it, and that your father wakes up to how precious you are. Hang in there, it does get better ❤️

[@NL-rj9uk]

Wonderful Tips! I really hope your daughters know how much you love them. 😊

[@denisescalera6613]

You are really an awesome husband and dad. May the Lord continue to bless you.

[@JEX9000]

That last part was hilarious… “and I taught them to shoot…”

[@ThePresentation010]

That was dumb. But I guess it entertained the kids

[@rantz6732]

@@ThePresentation010 goobegarblegord

[@wanderingmercurymarauder761]

It’s funny until you realize they’re most likely to be hurt by someone they trust. That’s why the first part is more important.

[@rantz6732]

@@wanderingmercurymarauder761 oh would you just shut it?

[@PlaydoughLizard]

“also taught them how to shoot” M u r i c a

[@shmorfdeforf5515]

'Murica!

[@TheBoyBanditKing1911]

Fuck yeah

[@iconica9516]

I thought it was always murica

[@mmrzkva]

😆🤣

[@tacitus_]

God bless America

[@GTX4747]

This guy is a legend... Golden words bro

[@fijeta]

Yasss sir hahaha, and seriously this is how my dad is, that's why I'm still single but happy. I don't accept anything or anyone less than what my dad has showed me how a man should treat me. My happiness, piece of mind, and values are not negotiable. Thank you dad. ❤

[@I.do_exist]

"I wish I had a dad like you growing up" I wish I had a dad in general

[@marlenaetheridge244]

It’s sad but I’d rather have had no father than alcoholic one I grew up with

[@pep_king]

having a shitty dad vs having no dad should not be a competition

[@marlenaetheridge244]

@@pep_king I just wish I never met him, but true both aren’t good

[@swis_cheez2399]

DUDE SAME

[@s.a565]

You may not had a dad on earth, neither did I. But you have the most powerful lovin' Father in Heaven and he hears you.

[@NoxDolore]

This hit home. If my dad told me he loved me and meant it, we would be talking.

[@abhaypatel4292]

Go talk before it's too late

[@lemonsqueeze5877]

@@abhaypatel4292 💯

[@endynunez8079]

Go talk to him before it's too late some people wish they knew there dad and have him around but won't ever get that

[@ArmaganSalman]

Do you tell him that you love him? If not, start with that. It is going to be magical. Or hug him every day. Pick whichever comes easier to you.

[@sandypuentes866]

If you've tried to fix things and he hasn't done his part, then be at peace because you've done your part and thats all you can do. If not, then do your part and see what happens. Either way, you'll be blessed and have an answer whether than be in limbo. Hang in there and God bless you.

[@jliz6435]

We need More men like this

[@AxolotlAC]

My dad is a dad of two girls, me and my little sister. He has told me countless times that he doesn’t think he could ever be a boy dad. He means the world to me and he always tells me that I mean more to him than life itself… He means the same to me and always will… I am his girl and NO ONE AND NOTHING will ever change that!❤❤ (He’s in Colorado right now for work and seeing this reminds me of how much I love him!) Edit: All of us girls need to ALWAYS remind our dads that we will always be their little girls! Thank you to every girl dad for being awesome!

[@ayannac6990]

As a girl who has a dad like you, know this: 1) We're more thankful than all the "thank you's" we give💕 2) You will ALWAYS have a home with us, and we will give you dessert first when you're old- because the rule is "just don't tell Mom".🤷🏾‍♀️ 3) It doesn't matter who we said our best friend is- you're the best friend. 👨‍👧

[@peacelovetennis10]

I love this!!

[@NephiylusBaphson]

I'm barely 20 years old but reading this really inspired me to become the best dad possible when the time comes. I mean I had already thought about it, giving someone what I never had, but reading this made me realize that yeah, I want that someone to be my baby girl or boy someday

[@ayannac6990]

@@NephiylusBaphson When your time comes, I'm rooting for you sweetheart.💝

[@xavierblitz5647]

maybe having kids ain't that bad

[@normanmccollum6082]

HAHAHA I'm sorry! I'm sorry! But as an erotica writer, a daughter having the rule "Just don't tell mom" with her father has an ENTIRELY different meaning when I read it lmao I'm still laughing! Very sweet though, very sweet, when I become a father I'll do my best to be one that is truthful, honest, and supportive.

[@mango-harmony2810]

“Tell your daughter you love her, because if you don’t, someone who doesn’t will and she’ll believe it…” why’d this hurt so much 😂💀😅

[@LordUptheIrons]

So much truth though.

[@sunday87]

Cause it's true...

[@grayclo3234]

I miss my dad. He always make sure that i always feel loved. It balanced with my mom who makes sure i'm unworthy lol. He passed away, and i'm thankfull for him cause if i have a one more parent like my mom i'd be desperate for love

[@04bittbitt]

🫡🫡🫡🫡 salute to you dad. those lessons will be with them forever....even when they have little girls of their own Daddy's girl here who is 31 raising her own daughter and trying to teach her the good way, the right way.

[@katepro5451]

having a worthy father is one of the biggest blessings anyone can have .

[@ImperiumRomanum476]

Odd Balance of comments to likes

[@omarfatthy4893]

I lost my father 3 weeks ago

[@major_kukri2430]

@@ImperiumRomanum476 no reply needed. Everyone just agrees.

[@major_kukri2430]

@@omarfatthy4893 sorry to hear, bro. Hope you have better days.

[@oofydoom]

Seriously. Without them, we'll likely go down a darker path. God bless every father, including mine.

[@latanianickleford7448]

"Show and tell your daughter you love her because if you don't, someone who DOESN'T will and she'll believe him".- could not have said anything more truthful.

[@playertherapper]

Honestly sounds good on paper, but has anyone thought of it like this? If you grow up around liars, you tend to know what to avoid.

[@user-lc5bu9bm7v]

@@playertherapper Thats not really true. If you dont have a baseline to refer to, how do you know whats truth and what isnt?

[@playertherapper]

@@user-lc5bu9bm7v Did you seriously just ask me how to recognize a liar without first encountering someone who told you the truth? God damn, how do you recognize the sun without first encountering the moon???

[@darkwhispersstories47]

​@@playertherapper what he meant is that you need a reference for someone to tell you the truth so you could tell who is the liar. If you got no baseline to determine it then you can fall of on any trick. Essentially the "Clueless people are the easiest to fool"

[@jeldouvanderheide8853]

I understand the point you’re trying to make, you’d think that if you grow up in a dangerous situation, you would know what to avoid. But considering that children tend to consider their parents a rolemodel, don’t you think that what this guy is saying is a more realistic situation? Realistically, the first few years of your childs life they will be mostly with you and your family, so before they even get a chance or the capability to compare their situation to someone else’s, the way you treat them is what they know. And if it’s bad bad, it might be what they look for later on in friends or a partner because in their mind, that’s what makes them feel loved.

[@GraceDaisy]

“Tell your daughter you love her, because if you don’t, someone who doesn’t will and she’ll believe him.” Best line ever said❤

[@glorytothealmightycreator9548]

This can be applicable God being the Father who is telling His daughters that He loves them and also He helps them to be united with their rib mates - husbands sent by Him to them and not with counterfeits.

[@rickykozak58]

@@glorytothealmightycreator9548 wtf?

[@echeverria1674]

@@glorytothealmightycreator9548 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@glorytothealmightycreator9548]

@@rickykozak58 , first, please speak civilised. Secondly, yes, spiritually, this can be a message from the Heavenly Father through Ruah ha'Kodesh- Holy Spirit, but obviously it's not for you. Shalom and have a blessed day ( P.S. learn to see and hear with Holy Spirit's help beyond natural images and words 🙂)

[@Yassin5643]

@@glorytothealmightycreator9548 bruh🤦

[@courtneylatshaw6931]

"and I taught them how to shoot" 😂😂😂 but I love the message and the thing about loving your daughter so someone who doesn't says so was so sweet and beautiful

[@deekane8200]

My dad also taught me how to shoot and also how to box. ❤

[@midnight2600]

That guy friend's advice was premium. Like actually, genuinely such good advice

[@gsp4prez]

You need someone else to know that you should tell your daughter you love her? Yikes dude

[@gsp4prez]

@@Francia-cv9wtit’s most of the video, did you watch it?

[@gsp4prez]

⁠@@Francia-cv9wtare you okay? Can this man speak for himself? Bye!

[@abocadopit]

⁠​⁠@@gsp4prezit’s not exactly telling her that he loves her, but getting advice to know how to keep his daughter away from men who fool around, the advice being “don’t neglect her and she’ll know who actually loves her.”

[@acetrainerarcane1755]

@@gsp4prez My brother is christ you missed the point

[@tam_pow2092]

I immediately started crying after "tell her you love her, because if you don't then someone who doesn't will and she'll believe him." This is painfully true. You're a great dad.

[@toaninh9120]

I mean, the man whore got a point. Gotta write this down

[@Tiabliaj1989]

NGL, the man-whore would probably also make a good dad one day (if that rubber ever breaks). Know the enemy? Know thyself.

[@scottend5239]

I love you