Tik Tok bartender PUTS HER FAMILY IN DANGER… and makes fun of it.

[@nephinie]

i saw someone describe her as having a “reverse parasocial relationship” and i couldn’t agree more. she’s treating tiktok viewers like her best friends

[@woadxqueen666]

Now shes showing her babies face.. shes like doing everything possible to not be a private person

[@Ms.K305]

SERIOUSLY! Is she just trolling us now?

[@TheRibottoStudios]

​@@Ms.K305most likely

[@JustAStump]

​@Ms.K305 that or she's truly just missing common sense... either way she's in the wrong and needs to give her head a shake.

[@SjofnBM1989]

She's been showing her babies face the whole time. She made bartending videos holding the baby.

[@violetmastroeni6070]

She’s been showing her kids face this whole time

[@thecryingcryptid]

it's like she's trying to break into the whole "story time" genre but doesn't understand where the line is of "oh what a funny or weird or relatable thing that strangers will enjoy hearing about" vs "this is a complaining thing that only my close friends or therapist should hear"

[@suitdoggy4707]

Yea she should keep this with people who know her personally. I've actually heard WORSE story times than hers. The issue is her complaining about the responses and criticism afterwards. Like if your going to put a wild ass story out there then don't be surprised when you get comments from strangers who thinks your husband is a piece of shit.

[@flowergurlhippie5194]

I don’t think she truly understands how dangerous she is making her and her families life. People aren’t even really being mean to her they’re just telling her she probably shouldn’t do that and why and she acts like she’s the most hated person

[@professorwinter1232]

The way she is showing basically her entire first floor of her house, the exterior, and at which grocery store she shops is really worrying. She doesn't get it.

[@plainjane3439]

I’m starting to wonder if she’s faking everything and really lives somewhere else. I can’t fathom anyone being this stupid. Or she’s a functional drunk and therefore, not thinking clearly ever.

[@christalcavanaugh]

The negative reviews of a business that is largely unaffiliated with her is so inappropriate but I cannot believe how foolish that woman is

[@sarahg2665]

As a bartender, I would never share the name and location of my bar to millions of followers unless I was a faceless account and the content was focused on drinks only, not myself/personality and maybe not even then. I’ve run the social media for multiple restaurants/bars and I can promote them without endangering my personal safety or the livelihood of the business. The google review situation is a prime example why and I’m shocked she didn’t see that coming a mile away. I wouldn’t show my child’s face in any content either. But to do all that and then share the exact locations of all your security cameras and all the features of your home security system after an attempted/potential robbery is absolutely insane. I think she truly lacks situational awareness or just awareness in general.

[@plainjane3439]

Bartenders go through a lot every shift and normally have someone walk them to their cars after shift (when they are women at least). You would think she would understand safety. I’m wondering if she’s faking all of this for views. Or if she’s a functional alcoholic and just never thinks clearly. Something has to be really wrong if her videos are real.

[@sarawilliams7790]

We had a young girl who bartended at a late-night bar in Columbus and simply walked to her car after work and got murdered. She was abducted, r*ped, and murdered by a stranger. Now add in the fact that Michelle shares this much.... after a stranger committed this crime......she needs to open her eyes. Rest in Peace Reagan Tokes. Michelle, get a grip.

[@artstudentlife]

Hey Angelika, I think you should go back and blur her child’s face? I know she put it on there but I also don’t want you to get criticised for showing a minor’s face

[@JustAStump]

Agreed, the kids face should definitely get blurred out. I know alot of kids who look just like her kid... in one way thays a good thing as there's not many unique features to identify him if someone was targeting them... but also that puts him and others who look like him at higher risk as theres not many features to help identify them if something bad happened.... super scary that posting kids online is the norm now 😳

[@annabellecalypso]

Yuppp

[@softlymeows]

agreed!

[@cleleoleo]

this still

[@kayleeroze2481]

She really doxxed herself , her husband , and her kid 🙄 come on now

[@christalcavanaugh]

“If I share half of my SSN you think I’m sharing too much, but there’s a part I didn’t share” Okay?? But you could share NONE of your social security number. You could show NONE of your cameras and NONE of the days yours working 🙄

[@sus4nah]

She just seems a little dumb if I’m being honest. Her eyes give “the lights are on but no one’s home”

[@JustAStump]

Truuuue 😂 not the sharpest tool in the shed that's for sure...

[@absurdum-the-artist]

Her behavior actually makes sense now that you’ve said this 😆

[@barislovescats]

Both of my parents are alcoholics, and when I was a teenager, I thought socialization was only through alcohol. I have seen alcoholism with my own two eyes since I was a child. She may has lost her rational perspective on alcohol because of her job. Over the years, I have observed the same thing in many of my friends who are bartenders. This is a pretty dangerous game.

[@alvalba__]

after watching the husband vacation tiktok i wanna add that i think she’s purposely and knowingly recording these videos because they’re def gonna bring her views and engagement and she’s gonna be talked about by other creators on the internet, be “trending” outside her bartender content and audience but it’s getting ridiculously and concernedly repetitive. she for sure needs a therapist (both may i say) to work all these issues that she loves to overshare, a friend is not enough at this point. like when did we start normalizing airing our own dirty laundry on the internet as something acceptable?

[@sarahg2665]

I truly don’t think she’s that self-aware. I’ve seen her videos on my fyp for years and she genuinely says/does things that make me seriously doubt her intelligence and general awareness of herself and the world around her.

[@alvalba__]

@@sarahg2665 you surely have a better understanding of her behavior so your probably right… it’s just hard to wrap my head around someone been so little self-award

[@justingraves8649]

Influencers: Let me tell you, a personal story. Dr Evil: HOW ABOUT NO?!

[@TheRibottoStudios]

I recently had a 🔫 pulled on me during rush hour traffic. That is something you ABSOLUTELY take seriously because in minutes your life could end. Let me tell you the amount of adrenaline that was pumping through was wild. I felt like i could take him on and kick the sht outta him even though that's obviously a bad idea. Just glad I'm safe. For her to make fun of being robbed is actually insane. Where are her brain cells?

[@projectjupiter5523]

wtf that's horrific, are you alright?? i hope you're getting any help and precautions that you need to be and feel safer - you shouldn't have to put these measures in place as people shouldn't be so awful in the first place but as they are, it's unfortunate but absolutely okay if you have to or want to

[@LouxNUH]

She drank them away

[@avasisx7075]

If she didn’t want people review bombing she shouldn’t have posted where she worked, what does she expect

[@daesgatling1345]

People to be adults.

[@tahliachapman1010]

​@@daesgatling1345well adults only make up a portion of the internet so its abit bold to assume that everyone would be able to make socially acceptable choices.

[@cailinanne]

@@daesgatling1345TikTok is not full of adults, it’s full of children and young people without impulse control. 😅😅

[@ichigoangel75]

​@daesgatling1345 she should be an adult and have basic personal awareness and internet safety

[@JustAStump]

​​@@daesgatling1345 an adult who doesn't act like an adult assumes other adults will act like adults? Lmao 😂 Edit to add... also the amount of kids online nowadays.... she's just kinda dumb to be expecting anything but bad reviews.

[@Jadaistyping]

It’s okay to keep a lot if not everything private. Social media doesn’t need to know everything.

[@nayastm]

Why do I see Gabbie Hanna in her. Face, voice, character.. it’s just Gabbie in different category of the internet

[@intothemystic5223]

I'd be afraid to be in her life. All my business would end up on the internet.

[@jameime2613]

Journalling needs to make a comeback

[@user-ix8oo6rl1p]

I think Michelle takes peoples genuine concern for her and her baby's safety as a personal attack when most of them honestly just want to get the message across that she needs to stop oversharing to millions of people on the internet.

[@JustAStump]

Literally this though. She takes everything personally and the wrong way. Sad to see.

[@user-ix8oo6rl1p]

@@JustAStump VERY personally! Its frightening that she cant grasp how dangerous this behaviour is. She's an adult woman who should know better.

[@JustAStump]

@user-ix8oo6rl1p Exactly. The fact that she thinks this way and is raising a child is concerning. I truly feel bad for anyone being raised by parents similar to her... I hope she can wake up from this delusional mindset, I get a bad feeling about that happening anytime soon though.

[@alvalba__]

i’ve gotten to a point in this life where i truly can’t understand how people don’t have common sense specially grown ass people like how can’t you see everything you’re doing is wrong. people have definitely lost their mind on the internet and let themselves be so carefree it truly is concerning, idk how we are gonna recover from this

[@Rosy.Cusson]

If she and her husband are willing to really face his drinking problem, she could spin this into content about finding good non-alcoholic beers and making really good mocktails.

[@cailinanne]

I was a bartender and because of that, an alcoholic, for almost 12 years. It’s crazy how blind you are to it when you’re in it. Everyone around you is doing drugs, forgetting weeks of time, constantly bucking responsibilities, destroying relationships, being abusive to one another, behind on bills, getting arrested, losing jobs, failing at school, missing their family events…. everyone acts like it’s normal. _Plus you date losers over and over and expect different results every time;_ *Peter Pan was born in a bar, I swear.* It’s. Not. Normal. I still drink, but only VERY little, and my Husband doesn’t drink at all (and he has never done it). The idea of ever blacking out again terrifies me. Idk how I ever thought that was acceptable for me or anyone I cared about.

[@amesblitz339]

Thanks for posting this info. I hadn't considered that these things could be common experiences for bartenders.

[@amesblitz339]

Also happy for you that bartending is in your past and you have a teetotaling partner 😁💗

[@intothemystic5223]

6:29 She's right, I doubt anyone would do anything at the actual bar... but does she not realize someone can follow her home?!!! Edit: okay you said exactly what I just wrote lol

[@ryph3]

i feel bad almost, its easy to fall into a pattern of oversharing when you’re getting the instant gratification of views/likes. she and her husband both need rehab but for different reasons

[@elisa-beary]

Yikes!! She is the bobble head to end all bobble heads & it makes some things she’s saying come off so much more condescending. Ugh meanwhile I’m sooo private I’m trying to work on that. 😂

[@bobanoda]

There’s such an issue with toxic positivity online - no matter what a person does there will be some sort of unwavering support. Even after revealing DANGEROUS information about her family there are still so many comments telling her that she’s perfect and hasn’t done anything wrong. You can still support someone who messed up without further deluding them

[@Pencilshaving]

I figure the guy installing it didn’t say anything about the filming because he assumed she was sending it to family or someone super close. At least that’s what I’d assume because who would post that lmao

[@ayajade6683]

Probably thought she was sending it to her husband or maybe another an adult like her mom or babysitter

[@erloum1775]

As a woman, I would’ve thought she would have more COMMON SENSE on protecting her self. She is doing EVERYTHING to get stalked, abducted, etc. Since when was our views and content more important than our own personal safety.

[@OhItsNekoAgain]

Toxic internet culture has content creators not being able to decypher the difference of people really being concered about you and plain hate. You try so hard to teach this adult about internet safety and stranger danger...as a stranger yourself and all you become is one of the trolls, haters and ill-willed. That poor child's safety, privacy and life gets blasted on the internet too. If nothing happens to them and this boy grows up, he can, and might even will sue his parents for endangering him like this. Besides the fact that she's gossiping to the same strangers as if the viewer is her friend. God, someone send this woman a friend, a good and loyal friend that she can talk to.

[@maddie19]

Michelle clearly lacks critical thinking skills and to me that explains everything

[@kaishax6145]

Side note: your lashes look STUNNING, i can’t stop looking at them😍

[@skelelizzi]

There are no such thing as alcoholic tendencies. You can either drink responsibly or you cant control yourself. Addiction can be sneaky and show itself lightly (With people always having a drink around them, being a 'fun drunk') but its still an addiction and downplaying it will only cause more harm. This tictoker obviously knows her husband has a problem but she refuses to let up to save her own graces.

[@AlissenUnderland]

Opened KZbin and 1 minute ago angelika posted its fate. 💗

[@LikeHellIfIKnow]

"catching a lot of fire on the internet" Yes ma'am you are and for good reason. Your possible alcoholic husband brought home an intruder that you witnessed scoping your place out. Got confirmation the next day from the bartender that you would likely have been robbed. THEN you get a security system you show your entire following. like at least fucking worry about your kids safety if your too dumb to worry about your own. Don't even get me started that she then shows her child's face. The girl isn't the brightest, her husband clearly has issues he needs to work on and now their child's face is on the internet. gg I hope your child is okay.

[@rissab7105]

Why is it the way she is putting down the viewers reminds me of Gabby Hana

[@JustAStump]

Thank you. I couldn't think of who this was reminding me of but that's spot on!

[@jwmtlmb]

She gives serious Gabbie Hanna vibes with the way she won’t just let things be 😭

[@P.eac.h]

All it takes is money and some people will show every single one of their Ls

[@toriandtilly]

I feel like they may have hired her hoping for some exposure (not that shes not a great bartender, I am sure she is). I live close to the bar and I have never heard of it... like 20 minutes or so away! I know I don't get out much but they definitely needed to promote more

[@BimboCommentary]

It really hurts my heart. Because she's close to me. I just wish her well.

[@JustAStump]

Oh damn.. you know her personally???

[@chelseathibodeaux7029]

One starring a small business you've never visited is gross.

[@duz_machines_8429]

I live when people say stuff like "I got 300,000 views, I'm famous" or "my location was going to be leaked anyway, might as well be the one to do it", or "you guys act like I show you everything". No one cares about you until you decide to make yourself a target.

[@TheCatsofVanRaptor]

5:54 the most British thing I have ever heard. Health benefits in the service industry? 😂😅😢

[@brynalaplante1502]

12:47 when she is showing off her family but her kid is glued to a screen🤧🤔

[@GhostBirds]

8:00 "michelle *will be* a solid part of the team" ok but false GOOD reviews are just as bad as false bad ones! bloat in either direction isnt useful when none of it is genuine. i think she needs a diary. or like, personal vlogs that are stored offline and not uploaded to a public platform, early 2000s style. are the businesses she works at aware of her online presence? cause like, if she never tells them ahead of time "hey i vlog about my jobs and talk about the location" i would be really stressed with the influx of attention to my business. or if theyre actively seeking her out for her publicity, then its different. but it doesn't seem like that's the case.

[@brynalaplante1502]

Wow!!! I’ve watched a few of her videos before and I can’t fathom that this is happening…. Like so messy

[@katielynch9740]

The thing is, I’m perfectly okay with someone coming online and ranting about whatever- it’s the fact that when she does and people agree that the person is bad/the situation is bad, she turns it back on them after not giving them context. THATS what’s annoying. “My husband did this really bad thing” “Wow we agree that was really bad” “YEAH WELL HES NOT THAT BAD YOU DONT UNDERSTAND” She’ll play the victim if people agree with her. She’ll play the victim if people disagree with her. She is a martyr in her own life.

[@bunny.ribbit]

late but i need the tea 😭💅

[@absurdum-the-artist]

The way she’s endangering herself and her family is abhorrent but there’s just a little part of me that really feels bad for her. Her crappy husband and stepparents, no one helping her with her kid, moving to a new place…I wish she uses her resources to get the hell out and learns boundaries

[@furygeist]

That is one HELL of a martyr complex on this lady. All while drowning in denial. Ma'am, you got money, GO. TO. THERAPY. Please. For your kid's sake if not for yours. 😩

[@projectjupiter5523]

14:20 is she explaining and defending her husband's alcoholism in a grocery store??? i hope her kid never finds any of her videos when they grow up and finds out that so much about their early life and family is public knowledge

[@colossalstrawberry]

3:46 maybe he assumed she was filming for a family member, not his responsibility rlly

[@emmahaus9080]

Imagine you’re just at the grocery store, have no idea who this woman is but see her casually recording herself airing her own messy business while casually shopping.

[@AskMiko]

Watched the video from last week and to learn there’s more to this bartender’s wild online persona… whoa!

[@louise8219]

She needs to watch more true crime…

[@JadeBlakeVideos]

She's being totally irresponsible and it's one thing to risk your own safety but she's putting her baby at risk, she's a fool. Then she acts like everyone is being mean when they are telling her to stop 😅

[@crenner07]

Wow. What an incredibly angry cry for help in her life.

[@rkiveofmyown]

we don’t really know that the security guy didn’t tell her not to film. She may not have put it in the video or he may have told her before or after she started filming

[@christinasciabarra1216]

Somebody slap the phone out of her hand, please.

[@rkiveofmyown]

Also I just don’t understand why she’s being so cavalier about her safety and that of her very young child :/

[@ryguy56]

i’m sorry but this is so caucasian😭 “it’s a public place guys??!??” WHAT. WHAT....WHAT.........i cant IMAGINE i only have 1k followers & work at a small business, i always block it out. i’m a kid LOL. i can understand bc i was raised w internet safety, but the camera stuff feels like common sense?

[@randigaleandtk]

I know how her security system works, what city she lives/works in, and now I know what her kid looks like? Super smart and safe of her.

[@thesensationaladventuresof1150]

-TS 20:34 - That is a lot of comparison that we don't need to make right now. ANGELIKA I AM DECEASED💀

[@ossswin]

I don't even post pictures of myself in my work uniform on my instagrwm stories just in case (and i have like 200 followers lmao) and people are posting their work place, home, children's faces and house security measures on a tiktok followed by 4m people!?!?!? WHAT

[@christiegrant408]

I beg adults on the internet to take an internet safety course

[@eliseg0001]

Homemade from scratch… chicken?

[@alexandra5430]

She’s right though that it would get out, someone would see her and post a and then people would know where she works

[@molliemulvey]

The condescending energy and facial expressions reminds me of Gabbie Hanna 🥴

[@monalisasssmile]

really really not trying to be rude. but… why does she have 4.3 million followers?

[@madeliennepohl-schissel5796]

Showing your entire security system, revealing the area you work, saying your exact work schedule, explaining your husbands vulnerability to alcohol, showing your sons face. She’s literally begging to have something terrible occur

[@dotcom3015]

There’s something so meta about this. Of course the lady is doing her husband dirty and it’s true that her actions are risky. But it’s like bizarre to watch people express concern that she’s over sharing, then proceed to show exactly how she overshared. Not just angelika, but I wouldn’t really know all this about bartender lady since I don’t follow Michelle. I think Michelle is still wrong, but I don’t follow her, or interact with her, so it’s not my place to force her to realize she’s wrong. There’s no convincing someone who doesn’t want to listen. Michelle is the person most responsible but It kind of contributes to the danger to spread that information outside of the her following. Which I doubt is intentional. But if you consider the information she’s sharing dangerous, wouldn’t you take measures to blur the baby’s face, or censor the place she works at, etc?

[@mothershipexe2242]

Nooooo, i just ordered two days ago. Luckily I skipped on the shower gel and only got 3 refills to test the scent. So I will definitely use that code once they arrive and I can sniff which ones I enjoy

[@illi6378]

There was a comment on that donut tiktoker (idk her name, saint honoré or sth)...anywhore, the commenter stated that she traveled from washington to vegas to go visit her at her store and she wishes she could have met the store owner's small daughters and dad. I said she's weird for that and the sheer amount of ppl defending going to a woman's workplace was WIIIILD!! People are delulu

[@ayajade6683]

Those donuts aren't even worth it they're stale and overpriced it's not worth the drive at all but that's still weird

[@illi6378]

@@ayajade6683 that's a pity, it always looks delicious. I'd get my mind examined if i ever pay a month's mortgage on a box of donuts and them turning out to be mid 🤣 for that price, eating 1 should be a religious experience and I'm gonna wanna walk out there a changed woman

[@ayajade6683]

@@illi6378 yeah they're like $30 for 6 basic donuts I have higher standards if you're charging me what I can get 3+ dozen at the local bakery for

[@illi6378]

@@ayajade6683 my toxic trait is thinking I can make them for cheaper and more delicious. And then never do it. 🤣😭

[@kayleeroze2481]

they deleted all the negative reviews lol

[@torib34r27]

The way she talks and complains on a PUBLIC PLATFORM is like the same way I talk to myself in the mrror. She needs friends or smth

[@charlottecurling-kedward8444]

but like why is she filming whist doing her food shop like in public not taking it seriously at all

[@21joey]

for some reason i think she reminds me of gabbie hanna, but i havent seen what she looks like recently

[@wickedcanine69]

if her husband does 100% of the grocery shopping how come she keeps vlogging at the grocery store 🤨

[@calspiracys5822]

For engagement sis.

[@kirkymaus6261]

Touching on filming in public again tho - her replying to that comment and talking her husband being an alcoholic while walking around in the super market is fucking wild

[@uribove]

some ppl shouldnt be on the internet

[@athirherra8963]

🙈🙈🙈🙈 I don t think she calculates things that much before talking..

[@violetmastroeni6070]

Hey. She has been showing her kid’s face before that in her skits. Don’t like them but not the first time it has happened

[@longlivebeans]

If consenting adults wanna cosplay as reality stars that’s not my business but the second minors enter the picture, it’s time to cut the shit. What’s gonna happen in 10 years when that kid wants to stop filming? Is she gonna respect that or is she gonna be a clout demon?

[@bbwbutt]

did no one ever call her out for rocking up at the place her husband was drinking? thats weird

[@kate-ly9fp]

I stopped watching her when she claimed to know someone who had gotten 17 abortions and used it as a form of birth control like that just isn’t true

[@gabrielamartinez1102]

Also, I think that she doesn't understand what it means having so so so many followers and people watching her

[@Rainbowofthefallen]

Just commenting for the algorithm 🖤

[@Screenfunfacts]

She is just creating these controversies so she gets views and can become one of these toxic child exploitative family channel.

[@mrfredbasset]

If it doesn't interrupt other people, put you or anyone else in danger, cause anyone mental or emotional distress.... overshare! My life is boring and I wanna hear all the unhinged drama and shit people are going through 🤣

[@nusaibaahmed7472]

is she seriously grocery shopping and recording a tiktok

[@Lalilola1000]

Hey Angelika! I like your commentary, but I think you ought to/ should go back and blur the child’s face. This is not meant as an «attack» towards you, but the child has not consented to being online, and should be anonymized/spared as much as possible. I think the parents should blur also, but they don’t really have good judgment it seems, so they would probably not I guess

[@angelikasmolinska5336]

❤

[@darolynbarber199]

By the way she acts I can see why he drinks… not trying to make an excuse for him, but he’s not being supported in the issue. He’s basically being made fun of in front of the entire world by his own wife. I’de drink too

[@katherinelyon3564]

Is it just me that thinks none of the stories are true and she makes them up for shock factor?

[@kelseyontheinternet]

🖤🙌🏻✨

[@nutellanebula]

Get a journal, not a tiktok/ig.

[@User-rm7ir]

Please blur the babys' face!!