Tik Tok Toxic Boy Moms Are Concerning

[@raynerdywolf2507]

If a mom says it's ok to hit his sister's cuz he's "having a bad day" Then what's gonna stop him from hitting his future wife/girlfriend just cuz he's "having a bad day"?

[@abiholland685]

True it seems like that she is enabling him to be an abuser in future then wonder what she did wrong when he's in prison.

[@strawberriesandpeaches9816]

right thats a terrible way to raise a child hes gonna become all violent and aggressive and not realize theres anything wrong with it A child should be taught how to take care of their anger or else he could end up becoming like an abuser

[@friedfishwithdonuts]

EXACTLY. She is literally the definition of a toxic boy mom (and maybe she needs therapy as well idk)

[@swift-tead6033]

My brother did this sometimes, glad my mum told him not to do it

[@rebekkagasmi9451]

Internalized misogyny... Just SAD... 😢😢

[@Renee_4-3]

ngl i love how she said "I hate the color pink" casually as shes wearing a shirt with pink stripes. Like gurl tf??

[@1L0V3_CAT5]

YEAH FR I WAS SO CONFUSEDD

[@natalieslays.]

THATS WHAT I WAS SAYING

[@probablyprin]

She's probably saying she hates it cuz she wanna be different but got caught literally wearing it. Like if I hate a color so much that I don't want a daughter bc of it you wouldn't see me wearing that color...

[@ItsJustMe-nq1dg]

I thought the same thing. Like ahhh isn’t that pink??

[@aliya6158]

oh, thanks God for this comment, I was so confused! my brain was trying to deal with it telling me "maybe that's brown "😅

[@asiaizzard3791]

As a mom with 2 girls and 1 boy . I didnt even have to teach my son that he is his sisters protector he took the role willingly and to encourage any child to put they hands on anyone is disgusting 😢

[@thevrifiedlosr]

Right? My son naturally protects his sister. Sure, he messes with her as any sibling does, but he's the only one allowed lol. He stopped talking to our neighbors after they took her dolls (which she's very attached to) and started kicking them across the yard and made her cry. Two weeks later he was at a visit with his dad and she went to see if they neighbors could play and they shut the door in her face and ignored her existence. When he found out, needless to say, he was extremely mad and made that well known.

[@Katfall2012]

Well since he’s treated on a pedestal, he probably thinks they’re beneath him at this point … but some kids do feel bad when they get treated well and seeing the other one treated badly… I hope that turns the boy against his mom seeing that

[@IHaveNoIdea6051]

It is actually crazy how that mom thinks her daughters will allow her to pick their dresses and plan their wedding with the way she treats them

[@ferretwithastick800]

Those moms aren’t even gonna be invited

[@shortbdubs]

@@ferretwithastick800let alone actually be told that her daughters are in romantic relationships

[@Nylak-Otter]

Yup. My mother died not even knowing I had been engaged for years, and we'd been together for decades. And it was with a childhood friend who was also a woman. 😂 We did not talk. At all.

[@that_duck_quack]

If I get treated like that, the second I land at college (possibly college) I’m never seeing her again.

[@Afmedic85]

I wish my mom had wanted involvement with my wedding. All I heard from the minute I got engaged was that I was "selfish" for wanting an actual wedding, not a civil union in a court house (that I don't remember) However it was fine for my brother to have a church wedding in the middle of covid. It turned out tacky AF since they had the reception in the church basement, the original caterer got sick and the back had food that was canned and frozen.

[@bertramwinkleofficial]

I didn’t even know my English teacher had a daughter until another student brought it up. this woman only talks about her son. what her son’s doing, what her son likes. she fits all the criteria too

[@magadiendor]

sad and disgusting

[@maryjane4432]

@@magadiendor it is and her daughters are gonna need therapy! Hopefully dad has a decent relationship to them!

[@Inky_doodledoo]

Does she have other kids?

[@bertramwinkleofficial]

she was also totally fine with the boys in the class being disruptive and borderline racist / misogynistic. she was classic pick-me behavior.

[@ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas]

Sadly, motgers like this exist .And toxic fathers the same .

[@fyodorrrr]

"The last little boy... just hits different ❤" Why is she talking a living and breathing child like it's a food item 💀😭

[@YourLocalHuman68]

She prob gonna eat her son💀💀

[@sai6118]

I'd put her on some kind of watch because she talks hella weird.

[@Hordinx]

Emotional inc*st at its finest. Those woman should be held accountable somehow, cause that behaviour ain’t normal at all

[@amango8448]

What is emotional incest

[@Gigi-ey1wv]

@@amango8448your too young

[@CrimsonDawn-ou4og]

A term going hand in hand with boy moms ​@@amango8448

[@zebnemma]

The one that should hold them accountable is the fathers... If you are parents and you make tiktoks that is already a red flag in itself. How you have time to act like a teenager when you have kids to look after? And the fact that the content that these moms create are bordering on abusive behavior (towards the girls) and the dad doesn't put a stop to that??? The message these moms are sending to their daughters is going to damage them in the long run, it's not "just a tiktok" to those girls. Imagine your own mom making tiktoks where you are constantly compared to your brother and that your brother is perfect in every way etc. That is goddamn sad.

[@Gigi-ey1wv]

@@zebnemma 🥱

[@cynthianm1743]

Who are these fathers who allow their wife to abuse their daughters

[@Myexwnafom]

Father left so mother is mad and takes it out OM the daughter/s while treating the son/s as her husband.

[@magadiendor]

no wonder he left@@Myexwnafom

[@koalamud5087]

Asking the real questions here

[@cheeryberrie]

Fathers are statistically the most abusive towards their daughters wdym

[@ves6170]

@@cheeryberriewomen cause other women’s downfall.

[@juniejams3729]

😂😂 love the father daughter analogy. You're so right. We would arrest the dads, but mom's can be creepy?!?! Icky!

[@skootergirl22]

Mother: I want to do it with my son even though he's only a baby Father: I love my daughter Society to the Father: arrest him

[@yairehy]

My stepmother is a full on misogynistic boy mom and she was always coming up with reasons about why boys are superior including "less drama than girls"... Well her "less drama" son grew up to be a spoiled violent predator with a criminal record before he even turned 21. She covers for him and has his "less drama" visits of cops frequently at their house cos he can't behave. Women like her are literally raising their sons to be a mess and I hope they're well aware that they're either pushing their sons completely away or raising them to be incompetent life mooching little monsters like my sibling.

[@YourParentalFigureThatLeft]

Holy crap, I hope you're okay! Lots of platonic love

[@the_socialist_genZ]

Wtf ?feeling sorry for you honey

[@yairehy]

@@the_socialist_genZ It's her problem. We ain't helping her in squat cos she caused that to herself. We're outta her lives permanently. She alienated everybody and we're done with both of them as we should. 😔 I think this is a fate that awaited for awhile.

[@G.M.C2005]

She sexist against her own kind

[@pipaliveshere]

​@@yairehy as you should!! wishing you the best, i hope you will heal from this disgusting "mother" who doesn't deserve the title at all

[@abbiereynolds8016]

The fact that people are openly making tiktoks about this when it used to be a thing that narcissistic parents used to keep under wraps and do in the privacy of their homes is absolutely mind boggling.

[@dynogamergurl]

One thing that sorta a good thing is that now it’s out in the open for us to see and to mock and use as examples of what not to be. In the past this was all probably kept hush ish under the table until someone goes to therapy or no contact

[@carolinpurayidom4570]

Let them thy way we can report them.

[@abbiereynolds8016]

@dynogamergurl7142 True, but it's just crazy how they're so open with it, like they don't see what they're doing is wrong. They're not even "joking" they're deadass about it. Scary stuff😨

[@nightigal]

It's great if you're the husband's divorce lawyer

[@gunsmithcat]

They discovered they can make money out of this

[@Finnjaymakes]

My Mum called my sister her favourite when I was younger, and I couldn’t stop thinking about I just felt like a burden.

[@pyperwhite1972]

😢Awww. That is horrible. No kiddo should feel like a burden. Being a Mom is my favorite job in the whole world. I wish nothing but the best for you in your life.❤

[@kobra4422]

Even if it was just one of many "jokes" she made it's still would be bad. Misogyny isn't funny and in some countries being born a girl is a nightmare. Those priviliged dumb tiktokers don't have to add to the trauma.

[@PrazLeo]

So true Kobra

[@theniyacat]

@@PrazLeoi love ur pfp!!

[@PrazLeo]

@@theniyacat wow thanks, I like urs too! It’s rlly cute

[@amesblitz339]

Yeah, It's like they know nothing about the world history of female infanticide.

[@ItsJustMe-nq1dg]

I agree. I had no idea this was a thing. It makes me sad and angry.

[@meows_and_woof]

I have two boys and we really wanted to have more children but unfortunately i couldn’t carry to term twice so we gave up Watching parents prioritise one gender to another upsets me so much. They dont even understand how lucky they are to have healthy children Their behaviour is so toxic it’s sick

[@Pikmanx]

I'm sorry about that though:(

[@kobra4422]

It's always people having things in life they can't even appreciate and value

[@Mr_C.Bacteria]

Exactly!! I was only able to have one child (thankfully) and these women threat having kids like you can just go buy them off the shelf. They don't know how lucky they are

[@2okaycola]

That's awful. I'm so sorry. When you're ready maybe U* could consider adopting kids who would be the same age? That's one of my dreams that may comfort you too

[@MrFishateyokids]

Your boys are lucky to have you, having girls ain't for the weak.... I hear people say their biggest fear as a parent is a daughter being a hoe when they should just feel lucky their are healthy and wish nothing but happiness, society is so sick for shaming women

[@EllasBigWorld-oi6zf]

8:15 the girl looked so happy to see her mom actually being around her but the fact that she was pushed away is so sad…

[@flopcartman]

As a mom of two children (a female tortoise and a male tortoise), I treat them equally and when they misbehave, they go to the corner and think about their actions

[@cleoldbagtraallsorts3380]

Wow! I'd love to be a tortoise mother but I'm already 50 and would worry about what would happen to them after I'd passed.

[@snickerdoodles787]

You don't have children. Those are pets. If you didn't carry them it's a beast not your child

[@gigidoesthingss]

​@@snickerdoodles787 bro doesn't know what a joke is. Besides, if someone wants to say their pet is their child, that's their business. Why do you care so much?

[@gigidoesthingss]

Anyway, how does a tortoise misbehave lmaooo that's so funny

[@TypicallySami]

I’m a mother of 2 cats and one pees on everything and one poops on everything

[@justaviewer_23]

As a proud parent of my son (a gecko) and my daughter (a cat) this stuff is foul! Both of my children bite me and honestly I’m glad it keeps me in line. I’ll never be like these ‘mothers’ 🙄

[@cvntymusicera]

frl

[@poppymason-smith1051]

Same. My two boys (pigeons) are so horrid and bite all the time, i cant have a second to myself without them taking my food or drink. they make me so grateful for my girls (also pigeons)

[@zadarasimoleons1019]

My baby girl (a cat who bites and scratches me all the time) has NO toxic traits

[@Outnumberedbykidsandcats]

@@zadarasimoleons1019my baby girl bites too but only little love bites.

[@Mal_hunny]

Love bites 💀💀​@@Outnumberedbykidsandcats

[@skyina._]

This topic had always been an ick to me as a daughter who was a victim of this too. I couldn't imagine how MUCH PAIN the daughters are feeling when all they want or need is their mother's love. Watching this video hurts me more than ever to know that the daughters will grow up with hatred and resentment for their mother. How could any mother do this to their children!?? It is just sickening.

[@AmeenahZaid]

💔💔💔💔

[@user-br3ty9rt1m]

People who traumatize their kids for clout should have them taken away. Those poor girls. I would literally go no-contact with my mom if I knew she disliked me like this. Sickening.

[@Samurai_soup]

the way they think theyre just joking but its gonna impact their other children so much knowing that the mom ever even thought of this...

[@swimfast724]

YES Their siblings will hate him for the rest of their lives, and they will hate their mom when she takes his side. The sickening part is that she won't care if her other kids hate her she only cares about her son

[@sarahtheyayyy6324]

Yeah, the videos that the mom made will always stay on the internet (mostly TikTok) bc people will repost, talk about the vids that the mom made so when her children grows up and uses TikTok or other social medias, it’s gonna be a big problem for them 😢

[@Moony_cakes]

My mom doesn’t do this, but my grandma does, me and my younger brother always get called out for litterally nothing while my older brother could get away with murder, my older brother even noticed this and called her out for it, one time my younger brother was wearing a sweater and she got mad and yelled “why are you wearing your sweater inside?!” Or when my grandma was taking my older brother to work and my younger one asked where she was going and she said “what’s it to ya?” My older brother called her out for it, whenever I try to fix a mistake I made, like if I forgot to do a chore, she’ll just say “no, I’ll just do it” and then the next day she’ll complain about it and tell my mom, I don’t understand why, and it hurts me a lot sometimes.

[@ultravioletpisces3666]

Everyone I know who has bothers is like “my mom never helps me no matter how much I struggle but holds my brothers hands through everything

[@maryjane4432]

How disgusting! Do you know how many people wouldn’t care what gender they just want to have kids

[@KawaiiGalaxy.10]

and many of those people can’t hav kids even though they want kids , loose kids moment they’re born , kid missing Many of those people deserve kids more than those people

[@ritaakalele4801]

Exactly I can't have kids at 34 and it breaks my heart. To a comment someone posted you have kids but you can't have anymore but I'm sorry least you have kids!

[@Chillikilli]

​@ritaakalele4801 would you ever adopt?

[@ritaakalele4801]

@@Chillikilli I'd love to genuinely but it costs a lot of money. Ivf every thing. I'd love to foster but I genuinely couldn't give them back as I'd get to attached to them. It feels like it will never happen.

[@Chillikilli]

@@ritaakalele4801 I feel that it's so hard, especially nowadays

[@commanderwaddles3483]

It's crazy how the child free couples understand that this behavior is unacceptable but the people whose life goal it is to have babies be on this "Oh, my daughter is my replacement to my husband, oh my boys choose me over girls yayy, you don't do what I want? I beat you, you're not a mini me? I hate you" type shit 🤢😷

[@e_i_e_i_bro]

I'm pretty sure 99.9% of parents and people who want to be parents don't see this as normal or acceptable.

[@kobra4422]

​​@@e_i_e_i_brothis is soo common. I've read thousands of stories abt mums who neglected daughters and worshipped sons. This is part of our culture. It's actually parents who treat boys and girls equal, give them the same right and duties are rare. It's definitely not 99.9%. It's 20% -30% at best and it's only the last decade.

[@blazingstar9638]

Sounds like self aware vs narcissism 😢

[@elsiem7295]

tbh this was my life story, being neglected and looked at as worthless in the eyes of my mother because I was not a boy lmao@@kobra4422

[@salsipuedes8425]

Breeders are very weird

[@Epic_Halfblood]

5:50 “no pink clothes (I hate pink)” She says while wearing a pink pajama set

[@lizh6420]

The mother who said she hated pink, was wearing a pink & white striped shirt. I feel so sad for the girls, it's not a joke, it will screw them up for life.

[@animefangirl9006]

for real

[@ParminSedigh-pp3sk]

Fr I was saying isn’t she wearing pink

[@Swansong321]

I'm even careful not to make my pets feel like I favour one over the other..imagine doing this to your own kids!🙄

[@PrazLeo]

😂 I relate to this sm

[@satanslittleprince]

Fr 😭

[@pama1442]

Ikr, i always love them equally even give them equal treats.

[@Katiebo008]

What are pets? I only know kids and siblings.

[@heppelhopv2]

@@Katiebo008 pets are animals like dogs or cats that you take care of

[@Sammi-b5w]

0:01 WHAT DO YOU MEAN THE H IS SILENT 💀💀

[@Soul.Song_]

CUM BUCKET

[@PartypooperWithAGunOSC]

wait a min.. if the H is silent...THE CU- BUCKET... (this aint gonna ruin spongebob for me tbh)

[@KCsFunHouse]

No there’s something so disturbing about this. I have 3 daughters 1 son and I adore them equally. These poor boys are going to have so much trouble with women once they get older and their daughters are going want nothing to do with their mom once they’re adults. This is so insanely toxic it makes me sick

[@swimfast724]

Exactly their siblings will hate him for the rest of their lives, and they will hate their mom when she takes his side. The sickening part is that she won't care if her other kids hate her she only cares about her son

[@mikip282]

@@swimfast724they probably resent him right now and he’s probably very confused about why his sisters don’t seem to like him or why his mom doesn’t seem to like his sisters 😢

[@emzybenzey]

A lot of narcissistic men have mums like this, that molly coddle them and they cant do any wrong. They grow up very egotistical and selfish because its all about them. Its getting SO common.

[@kobra4422]

Yeah, that's why when I watch true crime abt violent men who unalived someone usually in the background is their mum defending them 🤦🏼‍♀️. We know who made them that way.

[@emzybenzey]

​@kobra4422 ikr!! My mum doesn't even talk to me and I'm completely innocent, then you hear of mums backing up their beloved murderous sons it makes me sick!! They are literally turning their boys into narcissistic serial killers ...and you are so right, I love reading about crime too and 9.9 times out of 10 there are 'mummy issues'

[@AD-dg3zz]

Is it getting more common? I feel like it's just getting more visible.

[@ameliorateepoch9917]

It’s not that it’s more common, it’s just being reported and rightfully shamed more.

[@Inky_doodledoo]

And then the son grows up not knowing to take care of himself when the mom passes away

[@queenpig]

As a sibling of 3 three brothers. I know what this is like I have been treated differently to my brothers all my life even as an adult with my own children. All my mother did was praise my brothers in front of me, picking at my flaws even things I was scared of for example I was scared to go to the local shop in case this girl and her much bigger sister were waiting to beat me or other smaller kids up. So instead of being understanding she used it against me. I could go on forever. I was however I was awesome for looking after my younger siblings...

[@K_idk]

So did you move away

[@queenpig]

@@K_idk I had to get married to escape. But still married now

[@Emarrw]

I have two older brothers, and my mother loves them more than me and she doesn't hide it. Eventually when I grew a little bit older I saw the favoritism, and when her friends started noticing it too, she took me shopping for new clothes, which I desperately needed and asked for months prior. I saw right through what she was doing, she voiced recorded me to show off her friends im okay and treated right but I mostly didn't answer any questions because I was a shy kid. She later got mad at me for it. Several years later when she started noticing I didn't talk with her much or I didn't talk to her at all she realized she fucked up. She apologized several times but I never apologized her truly and I think I never will. So my heart goes for those little girls, they will never forget it, their mother can buy them all the toys they want but it's never going to be the same

[@aubreynicolebanares1356]

My mom forgot about my birthday and stood me up for almost 3 hours at a cafe we agreed on because my brother was having an “emergency”. He needed money, that was his emergency. It really wrecked me and I felt so worthless. I have never opened up my heart to her ever since, I’ve learned to be detached. Edit: For years I’ve struggled with the fact that she loved my brother more than me and my sister, I’ve called her out on it but she would deny. She never acknowledged or believed it to be true, till this day. I just mentioned this particular event since I have seriously considered throwing myself in front of a vehicle at that very same day. I guess I equated my value to her affection to me, but now I’m just detached. But yeah, it triggered me to a deep depression that won’t just go away.

[@SukiDoesStuff1022]

as a proud owner of a cat I can confirm we do get pregnant with out cats

[@veryaverage58]

erm

[@feelingsoupy]

Exactly, i definitely gave birth to my sweet baby boy and he is definitely my biological son.

[@Strawberrysins11]

I had to birth 4, man😔🤚

[@Hunterbenx]

Here to co-sign. I have 2 biological cats.

[@theoriginalkrabbypatty]

Yup! They’re my real babies and I love them lots ❤️❤️❤️

[@milkshake_195]

3:47 This is so embarrassing💀

[@rachaelangel4334]

If you're a toxic boy mom, you're going to mess him up so badly..it's actually really sad.

[@savagesweetheart90]

Future Andrew Tates

[@aniinnrchoque1861]

Daddy issues written all over, moms seeking "unconditional love" from a male that can't (initially) refuse love to the mom.

[@Stopstalkingme862]

“Stormy this is not only fans”got me rolling down to the core of the earth

[@dianashangereyeva5976]

She doesn't want a girl cuz she hates pink but SHES LITERALLY WEARING PINK

[@Khl033]

FR I WAS WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO SAY THAT

[@mochiandturtles5642]

Excuses?

[@Naliny253]

Faster here than a toxic mom pushing her daughters out of the way to get to her crying son.

[@moonjuicex]

LMAO😭

[@FatiFleur-jn7ky]

Yoooo 😂😂😂😂

[@ABtheButterfly]

8:55 instead of teaching her son how express his feelings without being violent she just lets it go and talks about future wedding I'm pretty sure if her daughters had bad day and hit their brother she would have punished them which they should be because hitting not right but he can hit his sister and not be punished so hypocrite in parenting

[@itzskye7074]

Imagine if one day a son of a toxic boy mum comes out as trans lolz, whole identity crisis for the mum

[@e_i_e_i_bro]

That would be a crisis no matter what

[@Mr_C.Bacteria]

That ACTUALLY happened with this family! People seem to have forgotten! The middle daughter WAS their first son. Now she's acting up like this

[@probablyprin]

Lmao this actually happened to the family of 6 in this video. The younger brunette was a boy but became trans in 2020. She's 9. They get tons of hate for it on their yt channel.

[@sincerelytxffyk1tty361]

@@probablyprinthat means that both parents are horrible

[@probablyprin]

@@sincerelytxffyk1tty361 the dads kinda worse than the mom, have you seen his videos? Also I think the mom favours the youngest boy and the dad favours the trans girl. The mom usually posts about the youngest boy and the dad usually posts about the trans girl, and sometimes the eldest daughter. 3rd born child is almost never shown.

[@ChasehaWing]

"To the spa, shopping, getting nails done!" These are all activities the MOM would want to do. Why would kids under the age of 6 have that much fun at these activities? Of course the kid said "no" when asked if she had fun. Why not bring her girls to the park, or the pool, or something they could get messy with? A Macdonald's play place or whatever the girls like? Mom's not putting in effort to repair the relationship. She just wanted a day to herself for some pampering and used her girls as accessories.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who caught that and I agree 100%! I felt so bad for her daughter. This is not something I would have enjoyed doing as a kid, especially that young. Even as an adult I would never do that.

[@WobblesWattles]

Probably because she has absolutely no idea what her daughters actually like, so you picked the stereotypical things that *she* likes.

[@Chizuhablossom]

Or either she was talking to her son all them or about him all the time

[@STRAY.KISS_WOO.143]

Well I was 4 and I liked going to the nail shop with my mom?

[@ChasehaWing]

@@STRAY.KISS_WOO.143 Yes, but I'm guessing your mom had a genuine interest in you and shared what she loved with you, and did not use you for tik tok cloute. Making sure to goto the stores you also likes liked, to ensure you were both invested, like a toy store or a sweet stop. This mom just wanted a day to pamper herself, and carried her daughter around as an accessory to throw off the claims that she was an abusive monster who only loved her son. Both of which, are true.

[@Doodlebob-uq6vq]

9:34 girl if you keep being a “toxic boy mom” you won’t be invited to their wedding 😭

[@maryjane4432]

I have 2 daughters, step daughter, daughter in law, granddaughter, 15 nieces, 7 great nieces plus many friends of all those girls and I never once made any of them feel less for being a girl!

[@Cloudkirb]

wow that's a very big family!

[@maryjane4432]

@@Cloudkirb I have two older brothers and an older sister. Some of those nieces are step nieces/great nieces but are definitely all treated with love and kindness! I only have one nephew out of the bunch

[@unityforcharity]

​@@maryjane4432how old are you ? Miss

[@maryjane4432]

@@unityforcharity 43

[@unityforcharity]

@@maryjane4432 43 I'm shocked miss

[@justiceforallnotjustsome]

I’m 53 and my mother to this day chooses preference to my brother and it actually goes further than that.. she even prefers my brothers son over my girls and she prefers my brothers grandkids who are boys over my granddaughters….it used to hurt me and I would cry and wonder why she didn’t love or treat me like she does him but after I turned 50 I just stoped caring I don’t go out of my way for her now because I’ve cried enough and I’m not giving her anymore of my time.. she claims I’m crazy but even my daughters have pointed it out and it does hurt me for their sake but I can’t make my mother treat them like she does my brothers but here is a ironic twist .. growing up she always accused my grandmother of loving her sister and brothers and their kids more than her or us so it kinda is crazy how she is caring on the same behavior that her mother did to her and she knows how much it hurts 🤷‍♀️but oh well nothing I can do about it

[@Inky_doodledoo]

Example of "hurt people hurts people" and extreme jealous

[@green_eye_gossip]

Im in the same boat as you with my mom (I’m now 37) and yes it grapevines into grandkids. It tore us apart and I will never speak to my brother again and will cut my mom out if she mentions him to me anymore

[@nyx6360]

7:36 if this was an actual scenario imagine the mothers reaction if she did have a bi kid and she finds out the bi flag has pink on it😭🤚

[@br3wskii0327]

As a woman due to have my first son literally any day now, this behavior disgusts me and I WOULD NEVER

[@toril2160]

I just had my son a few months ago and same. I adore him. But this is wrong

[@HopelessDreamersClub]

Literally same

[@KitKat10281]

I'm 24 weeks with my son and SAME! ❤

[@dorteloffel7794]

I have a daughter and a son and I feel so bad that he gets more attention from me because he is the younger one. She was my first baby and I sometimes miss the time alone with just her. The behaviour of those "boy moms" is so strange to me, like wtf, you birthed the girls too, remember? 👀

[@Hampsteryys]

“ i hate the color pink” she says while WEARING PINK

[@TwizzlerGirl]

10:17 I love how he always resorts to violence in his acting 😂 like he’s wouldn’t even hurt a lady bug irl but when the camera is rolling he puts in a good show! 💖

[@Cogimyun.Ebichan]

Fun fact boys actually use to be represented with the color pink and girls used to be represented as the color blue. You can just tell these moms are burdens in the family-🙄

[@adelia988]

Yep it was because it was a lighter version of red

[@Cogimyun.Ebichan]

@@adelia988 yep!

[@winniethepooht5776]

​@@adelia988 it was also seen as a much stronger color. Blue was for girls because it was delicate. And it's true, blue is easier on the eyes than pink.

[@shekinah3041]

It's all fun and games until she gets old and wonder why her daughters don't call or visit home. And her favorite child (son) finds it hard to be independent and end up living in her basement. Hopefully this is just for content (even if I don't find it funny when parents use their kids for fame) because I see a very lonely and depressing old age. Wish her the best.

[@DelicateDecay]

I agree or it could be the opposite. Her son doesn’t give her any attention when he’s grown.

[@coocaa9091]

I know someone’s son that goes exactly with what you said…

[@shekinah3041]

@@coocaa9091 spill the tea!!!!!!!

[@FBI.Open.Up.]

@@DelicateDecay and her daughter in law doesn't want her son to give her attention, when he's grown

[@magiv4205]

Even better, she's gonna end up expecting her daughters to be the ones to take care of her when she gets old, while her spoiled brat of a son won't lift a finger to help.

[@swimfast724]

Emotional incest has exploded in the past decade. It's absolutely sickening. Has anyone ever seen the tlc show "in dating a mama's boy"? It literally makes me want to puke.

[@Beeperoni]

I’m the daughter of a “boy mom” now she complains about how I never visit her while she sends my brother money to fund his lazy lifestyle on his 3rd wife cause no one wants to put up with his entitlement. Good job, mom.

[@IL0UHV_SF]

Is she okay Why the hell would you visit her..

[@Beeperoni]

@@IL0UHV_SF lol I don’t

[@IL0UHV_SF]

@@Beeperoni Good lmao

[@mechanical_chaos]

I wonder if these husbands have any clue that their wives are online showing endless strangers everyday how vacant of emotional connection their marriage is. I'd be embarrassed.

[@fakebot-gt6ol]

The woman with the four kids originally had two boys but her first son became trans at a young age and they have a separate channel but people say that the dad raised edie to be trans and it wasn't her choice it was her father who told her to be trans

[@DumDum420]

Bro imagine fostering a future domestic abuser because you let the excuse, “he’s just having a bad day” be acceptable for violent behavior

[@amom6511]

As a mom of a daughter and son, I couldn’t imagine being like this. I never knew there was a toxic boy mom thing. What is wrong with people?

[@aubreynicolebanares1356]

I envy your daughter. I was raised to be my brother’s maid, and I’m also always at fault even though it was blatantly his.

[@K_idk]

@@aubreynicolebanares1356just move away the chance you get than she will see who is the problem

[@freya33]

The toxicity of these moms! When women don't support women it's bad. But when mothers don't support daughters it's just evil. Kids are not mature enough to understand these jokes and laugh at them, this will stay with them in some form of trauma (for example "don't wanna be a girl cause mom loves only my brother").

[@NeoLegend9094]

5:48 Girl what chu mean? I got lice as a kid and we just shaved my head and I’m a gurl probably. Like, I’m just assuming it has something to do with short hair being ‘boyish’ or something which I think shows that there seems to be a lot of um, ideals(I guess)going into these kinds of people. Like it’s not just one specific toxic thing it’s a whole list of toxicity.

[@elsiem7295]

Lmao the way these tik toks reflect the way my mom prioritized her 3 boys over me every single time without fail is incredible. To the point i literally had a stillbirth, surgery, she NEVER CAME, NEVER SHOWED UP FOR ME IN THE SLIGHTEST because i got pregnant. Yet years later here she is taking care of my brothers son. Its incredible how much a parent could sit and disregard you when you’ve gone out of your way for them but praise the child who’s done nothing in the slightest. Btw I WAS 16 years old. My brother had his son at 18.

[@anaishealy5073]

My goodness! I'm so sorry you went through that on your own. I hope you're doing alright and you were able to somehow move past that. That's absolutely horrible ❤

[@DrawMorQuest]

Wow. Our female parent must be related. I had my baby (the first grandkid) and heard nothing from her. Couldn't even visit until 10 months after he was born because his grandmother came up with every excuse she could until she ran out of excuses. A little while later my brother had his first kid and she was at the hospital before my nephew was born and granny keeps him any time my brother calls her to babysit. Just normal life with a toxic mother.

[@elsiem7295]

@@anaishealy5073 thank you so much, there so little healing from a parent who’s like this because they always double down on their behaviors and never acknowledge their faults. It’s sad

[@elsiem7295]

@@DrawMorQuest that is absolutely disgusting and disturbing. I cut my mother completely off lmao like a bad break up honestly, we speak if it is absolutely necessary, I would never even allow her to meet my child and traumatize them too. Especially after seeing the way she treats my nephew, I think I made the right decisions. Definitely just a normal life with a toxic ass mother

[@DrawMorQuest]

@@elsiem7295 you're completely right. My son doesn't even remember her at all. We have our own life in a different state and we're not missing out on anything. Whoever said that blood is thicker than water never grew up in a toxic environment.

[@ArushiSingh004]

"I don't know why my daughter don't talk to me" " They are so ungrateful " Also them:

[@Preppy_queen3333]

5:53 she said she hates pink when she's literally wearing pink

[@shiningstqrs]

YEAH😭

[@_S.D._]

I'm convinced most of these boy moms are narcs. My mom is a narc and apparently a classic 'boy mom'. My brother is the golden child. He can no wrong in our moms eyes. Things that my sister and I catch h3ll for she forgives in him. My brother says it's because he stands up to her. That's exactly my point! The last time I stood up to her, she called CPS, my landlord, and showed up at my fiancés work and threatened/promised to set him on fire.

[@Lalaland666-k3x]

Wait are our moms the same?? My moms a narc too!!

[@YVPSC]

The fu-

[@Etherealzyo]

I don’t get toxic boy moms like that’s your daughter that you’re just neglecting for what? I thought women were supposed to stick together, it’s sad some moms really will show their favoritism so much like I feel like this is a form of incest

[@burmessafox3939]

Boy moms are usually pick mes. That's why they act the way they do with their daughters

[@katelyn-qi1ej]

My mom is like the biggest feminist but she still loves my brother more than me

[@IL0UHV_SF]

@@katelyn-qi1ejI’m so sorry :(

[@Mo55y984]

5:53 “i hate pink” has a pink shirt on

[@victoriasalcido2099]

6:06 i bet that this tiktok mom doesn't realize that the nutcracker was first created by men when women were finally get to practice ballet.

[@iminyouroven]

10:02 shes gonna be real sad when her son goes to jail for domestic assault cuz she didnt teach him not to beat people up when ever he wants

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

He will lie about the incidents and she'll believe him then make excuses for him. She'll probably bail him out anytime she can and say that everyone is out to get him and no one don't understand him like she does.

[@AR-gc7dr]

I can’t wait for these kids and the van kids to grow up and get better and then spill the beans on these parents

[@Sabber_shark]

For real ✨💀✨

[@Vannatype]

i feel so bad that these sweet little girls are going to grow up and start to relize how left out they are and neglected and grow up and not have a mother there for them or to talk to about periods or their problems and it really does affect them my mom grew up like that and she forever hates her mom and remebers things and gets sad and its sad that thats how its gonna be for them.

[@heatherwhite1594]

This is disgustingly sad. That is child abuse. I couldn't ever treat my 2 girls 2 boys like that. They're each unique individuals who are blessings. They will grow up and create their own paths in the world with my support, not hold them down because "mommy was emotionally damaging". I can not wrap my mind around parents like this. Those poor kids deserve unconditional love.

[@F0undy0ux]

That’s so right at the woman said she doesn’t want a girl because she hates the color pink while she is wearing ping and white striped shirts 😅

[@IL0UHV_SF]

@@F0undy0uxnot every girl likes pink, she does realise that, right?

[@laylay_bae]

My aunt on my mom’s side is a toxic boy mom. She HATES girls for some reason even though SHE is a woman. She was horrible to my mom and her daughters and every other girl in the family but she was great to her sons and she used to love my uncles but now she hates them. Hearing that toxic boy moms actually EXIST just shocks me.

[@DrawMorQuest]

This is nothing new! My mother is definitely a "boy mom". My brothers and I are now in our 40s. My mother told me 30+yrs ago that she only wanted boys and I was thrown in the middle so she just had to deal with it (meaning me). I left before I even graduated high school and never looked back. She better hope those boys are taking care of her old a$$ now 😂😂😂. Doubtful.... Good luck with that.

[@MissMolly3377]

Same with my mom. My dad wanted a girl, I have three older brothers, and she said she would have had ten children if that is what it took to get me. I knew my mom favored my brothers, even though I am the one who did things for her, not them, when they became adults. She was good to me, but I knew she favored her boys.

[@FunFactswithAmani]

@@MissMolly3377well why did she favor her boys? You ever asked why?

[@DianaDonineaux]

​@@MissMolly3377 why did she favors her boys if she was ready to have a girl .

[@hardshell9236]

Same thing my grandma said to my mom😢she gave birth to her sister for her and she had a son for her dad but my mom was a mistake that came in the middle. She always favored my cousin instead of me. Never called my mom. When my aunt died suddenly my mom became very important and now she calls her everyday.

[@willowingwhispers2612]

There are people out there who legit get jealous when it feels like their kid is getting more attention from the other parent over them. Unfortunately, these people are now using their disturbing issues for clout.

[@Mr_C.Bacteria]

My ex, he literally told me he was jealous of my son, ugh. He wanted more of my time but he wouldn't participate in any family activities. Some people don't realise that once you have kids, your time always involves them. This sh1t is weird

[@tomboyraider1015]

@Mr_C.Bacteria I get that kids take your up time and attention but sometimes you need to give your partner one-on-one attention and time WITHOUT the kid(s).

[@SDS-ee9js]

I can still remember this time when I was maybe 6 years old my dad was playing with me or reading me a book or something and I was having a lot of fun, but my mom got jealous and said something to my dad a long the lines of “if only you’d have this much fun with me, you’re wife!” She said it like she was joking but looking back now I think she was serious because whenever I would hug my dad she would always say “you’re a daddy’s girl” and I could see that she was upset. Definitely disturbing and toxic as hell looking back, but fortunately my mom was still very loving to me the majority of the time.

[@IL0UHV_SF]

@@Mr_C.Bacteriasorry, but your time doesn’t always have to involve your kid. If you have a date, your kid SHOULD NOT be there. If you’re having alone time, your kid SHOULD NOT be there. Sometimes you need to spend alone time with your partner.

[@Skz.and.nj.]

Ngl I love how that mom said “did you have fun” and the kid laughed and said “no”

[@savagesweetheart90]

These parents need therapy, not children. Fix your own traumas instead of piling it on to your children and then wonder why your children distance themselves completely and to be honest I'm ALWAYS going to be on the child's side in these scenarios.

[@animefangirl9006]

they really do

[@danigirl2854]

5:40 the lady says she doesn't like the color pink but is wearing pink. what a weirdo lmao

[@michellecurfiss461]

Yeah almost instantly noticed that lol

[@LaMara-vv2wq]

Not weirdo, hypercritical.

[@swimfast724]

Their siblings will hate him for the rest of their lives, and they will hate their mom when she takes his side. The sickening part is that she won't care if her other kids hate her she only cares about her son

[@Elissa_Marie]

Boy moms are so creepy. It’s very concerning. I feel so bad for their daughters. They’re already being neglected by their mom and then their mom thinks it’s funny to post it online for everyone and tries to play it all off as a joke or something when it’s clearly not a joke. They’re really just rubbing it in their daughter’s faces.

[@JennyFB1281]

I'm happy to see that toxic women are being called out. No one is entitled to a free pass to abuse others, especially their own kids.

[@urlocalstarbucks27]

12:01 OMG my poor boy, he doesn’t have anyone to punch!😭😱

[@janellejeremie5308]

lol 😂😂😂😂

[@iluvame]

Those moms just think that their children are their partners or something that's crazy💀

[@FBI.Open.Up.]

Sweeeeèeeet hooomèeeeeèe Alabamaaaaaaaa

[@TRUMPWILLMAGA]

Disgusting

[@pinkky_cherrish]

6:00 the mom is literally wearing pink

[@NaomiEdits212]

LIKE MAKE UP YOUR MIND DUDE-

[@MsSHINeeTVXQSuju]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@PawberryTocaOfficial]

I was just abt to comment this but I found it alr!

[@aliciabalansa4397]

YES FR

[@Katfall2012]

Ewwww that mom being jealous of the dad spending time with his daughter and saying it’s a mini her like it’s a mini new wife and so she got herself a mini husband??🤮 what a freak! What a freak!!!

[@loujew8973]

I have a boy and a girl and i love them both the same, they once asked me who was my favourite I told them i have a favourite son and a favourite daughter, id never want my kids to feel i favoured one over the other. Im also not a girly girl in the slightest but i have no issue with my daughter having girly stuff she is her own person with her own likes just because i dont like something doesnt mean she cant or cant have it.

[@lemons0da848]

“No pink clothes, I hate pink” she says, as she’s literally wearing pink

[@Cyyberrzenoo]

Toxic boy moms should just put their girls up for adoption if they can’t handle being around them 😭😭

[@aliya6158]

and boys too, boys also should have chance to be raised normal

[@RealTimeCuriousity]

Right, I would rather be aborted then be raised by a toxic boy mom.

[@lemontea.mp3579]

wow those toxic boy mums piss me off so much. those parents don't deserve to be parents, that 'mother" 'enabling her son(s) to hit her daughter(s) is the same as teaching that abuse is ok. it's gonna fuck up both the son and daughter when they grow up and find partners/build any form of relationships

[@YoonieKim-o3j]

"I hate pink" "wears pink"😂

[@keeja760]

So this is my mom's story. There are four of them, and the youngest is the only boy, my uncle. My mom came from a poor family, she and her sisters had to work in a farm, or as maids to help with living expenses, and also to pay for their studies. While my uncle never even lifted a finger. Even at home, mom and my aunties are the ones required to do the chores since they are the "daughters". And guess what? Their salaries also include my uncle's tuitions. My grandma would even ask them for their money because uncle needed to buy something. Yeah, rn. Uncle still lives with my grandma. He has two baby mamas (separated from the first one), has 7 total kids. Doesn't have a stable job because he dropped out from college since he got his first baby momma pregnant. Yes, my mom and aunt gave him tuition money for naught. My mom on the other hand finished college and now has a stable job.

[@ro_the_garden_hoe]

I cannot beleive the irony of the one mom going “i hate pink” while having a beigey pink striped shirt on

[@Whatd01kn0w_13]

4:36 him trying to figure out the number 💀💀💀

[@pomegranteappleson1628]

😂😂

[@gela_du_art]

My mother used to be so possesive over me since I met my current boyfriend who I met when both of us were 16, even though he was her friend's son, she would threat him very bad. Once I turned 18 years old I couldn't tolerate it anymore, so I asked for help from the rest of my family because the issue went to a point where she aisle me from everyone. I went to terapy because I got depression as a result of all that shit and my mom too, she used to say that "I was the only love of her life and she would die if I ever left her alone" ;_; I'm glad all of that stopped and we are ok now, but I don't want to let this happen again so I took some distance since then. I'm 20 now, studying a career that I love (my boyfriend's mom stopped being friends with my mother of course) so everything is good :,) Love u layze 💕

[@IL0UHV_SF]

Sorry if this sounds offensive, but your mother was being a bit of a weirdo.. I’m sure she’s nice, but doesn’t she understand that that is really weird behaviour? I’m sorry that you had to get therapy. Parents need to stop being so obsessive over their children and let them live their own lives.

[@gela_du_art]

@IL0UHV_TWDG Not at all. In fact, now she started trying to do the same thing, so I just ignored her. She really needs help but doesn't want to cooperate.

[@IL0UHV_SF]

@@gela_du_art oh my god.. BOUNDARIES?! HELLO?😭😭

[@IL0UHV_SF]

@@gela_du_art you’re twenty, she needs to leave you tf alone😭

[@heathersobsessions5247]

I feel so grateful that my mom wanted daughters. These millennial moms need to spend time in therapy, not social media.

[@ivy-gp5to]

Well I am women I want and I want only daughters

[@katelyn-qi1ej]

ikr, it’s sad though because my mom really wanted a daughter but now she loves my brother way more than me

[@winniethepooht5776]

​@@katelyn-qi1ej I'm so sorry, I can't imagine how that hurts. I hope you know you're important, you are needed, and you matter.❤

[@katelyn-qi1ej]

@@winniethepooht5776 thank you so much, I really needed that. You made my day :)

[@imTiah-i19]

​@katelyn-qi1ej my family did not favour any gender but mostly girls got the most love... because throughout our family lines females were be more responsible, successful and multitasker...😂😂 than the men.

[@defnotcrybaby-l7h]

5:54 When the mom said that she doesn’t want girls cuz she doesn’t like the Color pink I SWEAR SHE IS LITERALLY WEARING PINK IN THE VIDEO MISS GURL-🤚😭👁️👄👁️

[@mytruthmylife8725]

I dislike the color pink & so when i had my daughter we avoided it of course it worked its way in some things are too cute to say no too. But my daughter was a purple baby 💜 & i have 4 boys including identical twins & theyre all equally loved & special to me. I just feel like with my daughter she has no sisters so she is my heart and soul. So are my boys but because she doesn't have a sister i try to talk to her and let her know she always has mom even though she didn't get the sister she wished for.❤ My kids are such a blessing 😭

[@aledore22]

I also dont like pink...but why is it so hard to get your Kids sth pink if they like this color? It's not for you but if it makes them happy just get it for them

[@princessaroyale]

Your child isn't a mini you they're their own person so just because you don't like something especially something as simple as a color they don't have to not like it and vice versa no hate tho you seem like a wonderful mom

[@maryjane4432]

@@aledore22I have two daughters, a step daughter, daughter in law, 15 nieces, 5 great nieces and a granddaughter and I hate pink. But I never kept any of them from getting pink. I just don’t get it

[@tinaunderwood7766]

Ditto my daughters gravitated towards purple and one of them black. Lol

[@TheJulithegreat]

I have 3 sons and one daughter. I do the same thing. They're all special, but she's like my broke bestie. She's 15.

[@bundan1554]

My theory was this toxic boys was once a pick me girl who just never grow up from that phase

[@bilbybloom]

I'm pregnant with a boy now and everyone keeps telling me boys are so much more loving and I'll never know love like my baby boy and no man will ever love me like my boy does.... Idk I'm struggling with the fact I'm going to be a 'boy mom' lol I always wanted a girl but this trend of toxic boy moms is making it even harder to get excited about having a boy.

[@misty9084]

I say you love your boy unconditionally because he is your child. You will not be a toxic boy mom for having a boy but for discriminating or not properly treating your girls.

[@kobra4422]

I barely remember having pink clothes as a child 😂. They are definition of dumb. Those women are possessed, I just can't 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@sunseraph1919]

As a daughter of a girl dad, I can confirm that he absolutely did the “I was your first love” bullsh!t and it was very, very icky. He tried to guilt-trip me, saying that he fed me, clothed me and took care of me when I showed my mom a picture of my crush, Leonardo DiCaprio (look, he was a young heartthrob in 1997, okay?). My dad stormed away with hugging me or wishing me well when I went to visit my ex-fiancé in another state. It is definitely a weird feeling.

[@NadineWilliamsNadege]

Just lost our 21 yr old cat last week. I still cry thinking of him. 😢 And my eulogy to him I called myself Mommy. 😂 My Great Grama used to tell her kids (there were five) that she loved them equally. Like the fingers on her hand. Individual. All part of her. Loved equally.

[@Mud.lemons]

6:25, waiting for the day her son wants to go see nutcracker on ice ❤️ And pretty bold of her to assume her daughter would like pink 💀