Diaspora Marriages Complexities: Ndiri kuona kunge ndakaroorwa nemurume wechikwambo

[@mandy8080]

Advice on first caller ummm... its not easy being full time single parent with a young child without any help or financial assistance and then have to work with a child all day futi... Guys if you never experienced it its easier said than done. That's how a lot of women end up having depression. Plus people are abusing children out there even Hama dzepedyo… I wish we gave mainini advice on which kind of jobs she could do instead... Hameno mawonero angu

[@lucringo6798]

Ndapaonawo. Then they say ask the sister for help meanwhile she said the sister can't even help herself 😢. They ignored all you mentioned and the fact she's didisabled. How do they know the complexity of her disability really 😢. At least they should have explored her survival options

[@Bee-833]

They treat this case as someone who is looking for help and just dismiss her.

[@imath68]

Do you have any ideas or solutions to give then

[@mnet2912]

I think, they need to ensure they have organisations they can refer people for extra support, signposting. Mumwe akazourayirwa mwana nekuda kuchengeterwa. They need to phone her back and sign post her.

[@LaizaZiwaya-s8u]

Yha haunyepe ndapaonawo ipapo l think maybe she need to come back kutotsvaka musha wekuchengeta like she said it's better than kuendesa mwana kwasis yet people are abusing childrens kunze uko l have an auntie vaitsvaka munhu wekuchengeta pamusha pavo kushurugwi maybe ndikawana number dzemukadzi uyu ka l will ask my aunt

[@angelmudzingwa6316]

Tete nhasi mandinakidza the way yu are explaining to doc 😂😂😂 kuita mai Azuka chaivo

[@heatherbooth4217]

Ini I don't understand vanhu vanoteera or kuunza munhu ari narcissistic from back home. Change of location does not change these characters at all. Zvinorwadza I know, but time will heal. Narcissists have superficial superiority and have a way of holding onto you for belittling you for their pleasure so that you feel inadequate. You will find someone else much, much better with time and you will wonder why you tolerated such nonsense for so long.

[@mavismakuwerere8526]

Mmmm sure vakadzi ndosaka tichiramba tiri muma abusive relationships...and very true chii chitsva chamunotaura hanzi ndoda titaurirane.....hamusati mati achiri kuda.murume

[@tanyamilewski5700]

First caller can go to court for maintenance. That guy does that because no one takes him to court

[@ROGUE406]

"Spiritual realm" - the most abused term in Zimbabwe.

[@dorothymtetwa3844]

100% facts

[@Afrintrepreneur]

Are you sure?

[@lilianmlambo2769]

😂😂😂😂😂 In the spiritual realm

[@AbigailNyakutumba-vq5wk]

Ummm zvakaoma Tete kupa mwana kuna Sisi hazvizoite futi zvana John zviwi shuwa hupenyu hwakaoma hawo

[@MemoryMuchakazikwa]

Ipapo ichokwadi kudai Mwari vangomupa pasa rema days ashande osiya mwana ku creshe

[@EireejoSiga]

The book title is : "Breaking Generational Curses - Overcoming The Legacy Of Sin In Your Life & Family." by Marilyn Hickey Thank you Dr - mandibetsera a clear sign we need to all be aware & beware !! ❤ Mainini thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

[@tthex6484]

Women who call from the diaspora are very emotional on the phone more than the Zimb based one. What's happening there?

[@BeePhiri-q3i]

Haa Doc apa mataura mhani aiwa ndosinzwa muchititsiura bt nhasi ka aiwa mapinda spiritual chaiko mataura Mwari vakukomborerei sekuru

[@priscillandoro4014]

Avo mainini vemurume Ari kuramba kubuda kunoda kuudzirwa bvisai hunyoro neky munhu haaregi basa okunyepera munhu iyeye haakudi be srs with your life kwete murume asina kukwana uyo.

[@petronellachiyangwa6766]

Mainini kutsika nedivi muchitofamba .tsvagai basa stayout mwana kucresh imi kubasa or mwanawangu kunasisi imi staying basa every month Mari kumwana.hakuna murume anobhadhara rent paasiri kugara imi rent iye food yemwana

[@NonhlanhlaVundhla]

Imi mai muchapondwa musingakwanisi kuita hutsinye, gindagoria iroro richiri kukupima richaita uverengwe mumapepa.

[@dorothymtetwa3844]

Taura zvako

[@paullchick]

Chokwadi kupondwa chaiko UK inebasa

[@NonhlanhlaVundhla]

@@paullchick Aizve umwe anotenda abviswa ziso chairo kuti chokwadi zvaipa kkkkkkkk. Dzvinyangwe irori hapana kwaririkuenda trust me

[@paullchick]

​@@NonhlanhlaVundhlaapa ma cases evarume varikuuraya vakadzi Ku UK akuwanda zvakaoma

[@NonhlanhlaVundhla]

@@paullchick ipapa munhu anenge achizviwona oti it can't happen to me shuwa unganzi ndanzwa nemudumbu vhura door newe womanya manya kusvika munhu ati gon'gon'go kugara.

[@natashachibanda8767]

Mainini bemurume vemudumbu munobhowa...ifai netress yenyu mukuida kwazvo

[@nenaniphiri9760]

Mainini vakunyepa vachiri kuda the guy ,kadei vanga vasingamude akabuda kare ,azvina sense

[@CelestineMeza]

Batsirai munhu tete na doc first caller uyu,inga munobatsira vanhu vasina kana disability wani

[@rumbidzaimamhungo4332]

Uuuuh ndasviona zvine ropa veduwe

[@ROGUE406]

the guy who lies for no reason at all - 😅😅😅

[@makandioneipasipanodya460]

Varoyi variko, asi chinopedza zvese ndiMwari. And its true zviri kutaurwa naDoc mai vakagadzira mwana wavo. Ooh finish idangwe? Tete Tilda!! kunamata unomata asi kana zvine mubereki mukati zvakaoma

[@annietarisirodzapasi5978]

Choga zvausingazivi dai wayarara 😂

[@gambizagambiza8022]

Imba dziri kurema idzi nhai Mwari😢 especially in diaspora Mwari tibatsirei

[@godfreychanza3275]

Doctor Choga well explained pathird caller

[@priscasibanda9340]

Nyaya yacaller uyo ane murume anonyepa zvakaoma,i can relate ini zvakaramba zvichindirwisa kusvika ndasiya imba ndiine vana4 my ex anga akutoti ndaida kukuuraya wakarara.He was not violent asi aita kunge agarwa atondidzipa ozoita kunge adzoka asisatozive zvaaita saka it continued kusvika ndatiza nehupenyu.Right now he doesn't even understands what brought our separation.Huroyi huruki zvekurevesa kunge hwaana mwene umm ma1 ndakachiona hangu apa i was married very young

[@omegagovero9199]

So sorry dear

[@dorothymtetwa3844]

Miyari ndikuudzeyi regayi kupa vanhu mazano asiriwo, zvenyu zvekuda kubatira chirungu padenga izvi siyanayi nazvo. Kuna avo sisi vari kuteera zvisingapera vane murume wekunyeba tereresayi. Dzokerayi kumusha munorapwa, endayi kuchivanhu chedu zvinopera. Ini zvakatomboitika kwandiri asi zvenyu zviri nani pane zvandakapindana nazvo. Ndakagara muchipatara mwedzi 8 yese anachiremba vachishaya kuti chii chirwere chandiinacho. Ndikatombopenga futi ndikagara muchipatara chemapedzi four good months ku Selly Oak Birmingham kunevanochiziva. Mumwe nurse wekwedu kumusha ndiye akazonditi iwe imbodzokera kumusha ufambe. Ndakadzokera ndikanogara kumusha kwemwedzi miviri ndikarapwa ndikadzoka ndavanani. Nanhasi handina kuzombobvira ndarwara nekutevera zvisingapere. Zvenyu zvekuti zvese namatatyi izvi hazvibatsire izvi tiri vanhu vatema isu. Saka kana kuine mari imbodzokerayi kumusha asi musaudze kana ani zvake ingoitayi muchinyararire ndizvo zvandakaitawo inini.

[@TafaraBhebhe]

Kufurira tooooooooo much Choga vaka vanhu

[@ganyaz]

caller yekutanga iyo ngaidzoke kumusha iyo ex wacho aive murume akaroora here or zvanga zviri zvemujolo ??

[@gracekhoza5289]

Taura hako kumusha anogona kutobatsirika nyore, I just hope havasi vevamwe vanomira pama robot nevana 😌

[@nyashabuwerimwe-sw6qu]

Ma Spirits ariko both kuvarume nekuvakadzi paya pemunoti vakadzi vasingaroorwi kutorinewo varume vasingatotenderwi kuroora

[@MukaiSengwayoSithole]

Mainini avo muchauraiwa nemoyo wenyu iwowo go report that man kick him out

[@lucksondewah3543]

Ava mainini vekubleeder vavakutoda Zvinoyera Zvinotyisa neZvinoda kufumurwa. Vakatakura shem🤔

[@pettymasedza2418]

Bamunini havade kuudza mukadzi kuti ngatiite open relationship sevaya vekuzonwa 80 tablets

[@portiashava3023]

Marylin Brooklyn

[@portiashava3023]

Breaking the generational curses

[@ottiliam9790]

This is so painful 😢

[@RejoiceMlambo-g7c]

Number 1st pacomment section 🎉

[@rumbidzaimamhungo4332]

Yeah kune vamwe vanhu vanonyepa zvekuti unotoshaya chikonzero chekunyepera kwacho

[@BeePhiri-q3i]

Anamai kurara nevana spiritual zvikunyanya kanhi

[@brendaziyenge207]

Last caller vamwene avo mukuda ko kutaura kunge mukuda kuchema or ihasha

[@ElizabethMarusimba]

Tirimo wena

[@godfreychanza3275]

Third nhasiwo mucomment section

[@mishacaela3189]

Caller wekuita mapaper evana nemurume uyo Ndini chaiye. Apa can’t even help with childcare anoda kungorara pamba zvake ini busy running around

[@charlenemariga6753]

Not cyst, molar pregnancy

[@josiemadziwa]

Haa revoke them papers haa

[@rumbidzaimamhungo4332]

Uuun kunadzviwa kupedzisira wakufeeler kuti inyoka yakuuta basa

[@lorrainemazhawidza6790]

Hesi tetez na Doc

[@nyashabuwerimwe-sw6qu]

Ende vanhu voramba kuti varume havaiswi zvikwambo

[@dorothychihuri1928]

Ngavaende kune zvechivanhu kana vaenda ku Zimbabwe bcz izvi zvaakuda zvechivanhu

[@MafirakurevaMafirakureva]

First caller ndosaka uchisiiwa nemurume, mwana mudiki akadaro ungasoroti Kurobwa. Stupid yemwana

[@godfreychanza3275]

Third caller run away with your life siyana nazvo

[@tmaktmak1464]

Avo baba avo ngavashandise Butiro, hunhu rudzii?

[@LaizaZiwaya-s8u]

Amainini vanaamwene anetsa uyo l don't know if l could help you to give ypu a group randiri remadzimai haa munopupura because l know very well kut ini ndaitombonstswa nespiritual husband kwenguva but through that group l'm now free but l'm still fighting my family's spirits akabatwa zvinongoda kushinga nekunamata without ceasing chete

[@miriamnindi3964]

Kkkkkkkk Doc mbwende yemunhu kkkk haar ndapera power ,

[@agnesmariba3942]

Chasara kudima akakuurayi

[@crispendzvene6711]

Anoda munhu wake doc natete stop it kurambanisa vanhu

[@brendaziyenge207]

Aaaah so akutsvagei kana achimuda,pane pamwe paunonyatsoona kuti marriage hapasisina.

[@godfreychanza3275]

First caller siyana nechumirume icho hapana hapana

[@godfreychanza3275]

Vamwe varume so 🤔