Randy Struggles to Find The Perfect Dress For Non-Binary Bride | Say Yes To The Dress

[@lola-rose6809]

I love the way the lace at the bottom of the to-be made trousers was long and flared, it gave it a unique jumpsuit look buy making it formal and bridal. I hope he gets the right shoes just to put the cherry on the cake.

[@andrealoken4534]

This was a beautiful segment. Kevin deserved the bridal outfit of their dreams and Kleinfeld just nailed it!!

[@NeoPelon21]

You ever watch an episode and just wish there was an immediate follow up of the finished outfits.. Kevin, you look fabulous!

[@sapphire7424]

Yes! I want to see the finished disco outfit too 🎉

[@lorifreides5197]

Ill be tge first to say, I dont understand non binary. Kevin is happy in their life. I so appreciate seeing someone comfortable in their own skin. I liked the final idea of the gown-pant suit.

[@lizard3755]

Honestly such a W comment, I love that you're being respectful even though it's not really something you get (which is totally fine)

[@lorifreides5197]

What is a w comment?

[@asterierrantry]

@@lorifreides5197 it means a winning comment :) they're saying that you left the best or one of the best comments basically. and I agree!

[@207LW]

Kevin looked absolutely beautiful in the final dress and pantsuit. I am so happy they found what they were looking for ❤️

[@felixsarmpit]

What is worrying is how much it's going to cost 😬 it seems expensive

[@bethphillips9693]

The comments here make me sad. You don't need to understand, but you should accept that they are being their authentic self and that is not for anyone else to judge. Don't get it? Fine. Don't believe? Fine. But accept and be kind.

[@Modelscoutingwd]

And why dont you too accept that they dont understand? Peace.

[@bethphillips9693]

Accepting doesn't mean tolerating bad behavior

[@lydiapicano8806]

They can be whoever they want but, it's just not normal sorry.

[@bethphillips9693]

@@lydiapicano8806 And who determines what is normal? Live and let live.

[@lydiapicano8806]

@@bethphillips9693 I'm all about letting people live whatever life they choose. There used to be normal and abnormal behavior now everything is ok but honestly is it really. Many believe they're in the wrong bodies and mutilate themselves so their bodies align with what they believe only to regret their irreversible choice later on. This biological man refuses to accept any choice so, he believes he's non-binary. I guess if a human being walked around saying he was a dog that would be normal too. It's terribly sad and I feel sorry for them .

[@cynhanrahan4012]

Kevin looks stunning in that final outfit, and bravo to Kleinfeld's for creativity!

[@nancyforoughi5517]

That consultant is really 🔥

[@TheNordicharps]

In Swedish "he" is "han" and "she" is "hon". We have come up with an intermediate word, "hen", which is really very useful. I can't help it, they/them sounds plural to me 😢 Surely someone can come up with something better?

[@izzycusson3017]

if you don’t know someone’s gender? what do you call them? hint… it’s in the question and it grammatically makes sense

[@truthhearit1471]

You..what are you ​@@izzycusson3017

[@cynhanrahan4012]

The best thing to do is to use what you are asked to use. You may stumble, that's ok. Just apologize and correct yourself. It does get easier.

[@zFaTallz]

Actually, if you are neither man or nor woman, there is special pronoun, invented centuries ago "lunatic".

[@izzycusson3017]

@@zFaTallz so what about intersex people, if you even know what that word means?

[@sparxstreak02]

A person wants to be referred to as they/them, neither man nor woman. Yet also wants to be called a bride - a female binary term that literally translates to ‘woman just married or about to be married’. (P.S. Stating a word’s literal definition doesn’t make it ‘rude’)

[@deidrekeneally2127]

I agree, he doesnt identify as man or woman but wants to be a bride 🧐

[@auntloni]

Exactly

[@zrinkanenadic3888]

If they (Kevin) is non binary, they can mary a man or a woman, or non binary as well. I suppose they will marry a man.

[@melissayoutube]

Yes

[@obesemeloneater2783]

as an enby folk it's more about personal preference, I am okay with being called dude but someone else might not, perhaps Kevin sees themselves as a more feminine presenting person that's why they consider themselves a bride.

[@Lauren-fj2vy]

Oh, that last dress is STUNNING. It's so flattering on them, and the vision of the pantsuit is gorgeous! Congratulations to them, they look so very happy🤍

[@karleenmoorhouse1744]

Why should someone being themselves bother anybody else?

[@oscarbenigsen4538]

Because the way in which they are being themselves demands that everyone else acknowledge them as such. The best of us have intellectual and moral integrity. We therefore cannot join them in their delusions.

[@mrsCRD]

@@oscarbenigsen4538 ^ THIS!

[@oberaobera]

​@oscarbenigsen4538 you care an awful lot about other people and how they live their lives. Why not just move on to the next video instead of being harmful?

[@uikmnhj4me]

@@oscarbenigsen4538that’s starts with being honest about the premise. They are not being themselves.

[@85catnip]

@@oberaobera harmful? more like truthful. im sorry (kind of) then nature offends you.

[@kimberly_erin]

Kevin looked beautiful in that outfit!!! Wish we could see some pics from the wedding! what a beautiful human.

[@quinn7536]

Kevin sweetheart you did that. They brought the beautiful energy and I wish more people acknowledged your strength and grace. ❤

[@JMKPRandPromotions]

A lovely episode. I wish Kevin mountains of happiness. (and yes, beautiful dress/pants suit)

[@sarasat4801]

Should be a non binary wedding participant. Bride and Groom are binary terms. So how does that work?

[@JustAnotherPerson4U]

Well... they couldn't call themselves a Broom could they? 😂

[@rebeccaharrison2968]

Let them decide what they want to be called.

[@mrsCRD]

@@rebeccaharrison2968 true. But don't get offended when people assume they/them/it is called a man or a woman. No one has to automatically assume you're a they/them and get thoroughly abused for it.

[@OliverKitkat]

@@mrsCRDomg glad ime old 🙃😊

[@rebeccaharrison2968]

@@mrsCRD Not offended.

[@mariaferreras4369]

Treat all with dignity and respect.

[@maryswanson9982]

What about a tailored white suit and a long, beautiful veil?

[@elenagilbert887]

what about a dress because that’s what they want to wear on THEIR wedding?

[@alishadiamond7394]

@@elenagilbert887bruh calm down. he was just trying to give a suggestion, i don’t think he was trying to be mean

[@alishadiamond7394]

@@elenagilbert887second of all, they did see they wanted a pantsuit for the ceremony… pantsuits and suits are quite similar

[@elenagilbert887]

@@alishadiamond7394 my bad i didn’t mean to come off rude but i guess reading it back it did.

[@alishadiamond7394]

@@elenagilbert887 i rly think he was just trying to suggest a pantsuit for the bride because they are similar to suits but less masculine. i don’t believe he meant any harm in his comment

[@emcooper3031]

Kevin! Your yes dress & pantsuit combo is perfect for you! I'm assuming you're married by now and hope you danced the night away into the morning with your love! Thank you for allowing your bridal shopping experience to be shared. Best wishes and stay fabulously YOU! ❤

[@janetdill9599]

It’s not up to you to decide!

[@leisongivangomo4478]

They look beautiful! I wish we could see the actual wedding day look! Please consider sharing.

[@katdujka4760]

The dress Kevin chose looks so beautiful.

[@karenoshea8214]

Kevin looked amazing. I would love to see them in the finished outfits

[@Empress14680]

I hope you have a beautiful wedding!

[@ohnoohno110]

They look so nice! Wish they showed the finished look!

[@GiGiJalisa08]

Rocking them boots ! Love those boots

[@FarzanaSiddiqui-q2d]

But bride and groom are binary terms. Maybe call yourself BROOM? 🤔

[@shizuka9618]

Bro 🤣🤣

[@Lauraevoy]

Oh my!

[@eringemini7091]

People of Randy's generation are saying; ""they/them, wait, what"?🤔

[@songbirdsystem1465]

People of Randy’s generation understanding basic English?! Shocker. 😱

[@mrsCRD]

​@@songbirdsystem1465they/them is not proper English 😂

[@JustAnotherPerson4U]

​​@@mrsCRD Yes, it is. It has been used ìn the singular genderless context by authors like William Shakespeare and Jane Austen. The earliest recorded usage waa 1375. Not to mention if you just break down what a pronoun means. What would it mean? 'She' would be a person who is female. And 'he' would be a person who is male. Well, what if we wanted a pronoun that just describes a person. Irregardless of whether you believe non-binariness exists or not. It could be before we even know the gender of a person. In this context, They is the best fit for this and fills in this gap well and people do understand what you mean. So you're just plain wrong and/or you've been taught incorrectly.

[@rebeccaharrison2968]

I’m 72 years old, and I am totally supportive of non-binary, etc.

[@songbirdsystem1465]

@@mrsCRD you are so blatantly incorrect and you said it with your whole chest too. Please go back to elementary school.

[@curtsmithsmullet]

nope

[@musicluvr29]

Umm so what happened to "I don't want to look like a man in a dress"?

[@1nthe1nbetween]

right 😂

[@Skyebright1]

It’s pants

[@sapphire7424]

Kevin looks amazing in that dress and the surprise party outfit underneath is pure disco baby 😍 i hope they have the wedding of their dreams 🎉

[@amilan409]

I just started watching and I'm picturing something ... in the 50's and 60's they had outfits that looked like leggings, and then with an open full skirt over the top and pushed to the sides a bit ... would be fabulous for Kevin !

[@uikmnhj4me]

My gender is not s costume you can take on and off. Stop reducing femininity to a cosplay.

[@babs_babs]

they don’t even claim to have the same gender as you…

[@Maxencedek26]

​@@babs_babsyeah but they associates a dress with being feminine, which is sexist

[@Heideberry]

I agree.

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

So we should put it on a pedastal?

[@Lightcode]

How wonderful to be living in a time where we are finally able to express ourselves!

[@redvelbeth314]

Weirdos

[@SavannahSteel]

That thumbnail 😂❤

[@peggyesquibel8353]

The last dress is perfect for them! They look stunning in it! So happy for them!

[@Donna-hz3vi]

HIM.....

[@PriestessHephzibah]

Please revisit your basic Grade 5 English Peggy .... 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@astrid3683]

@@PriestessHephzibah “oh someone left their wallet here, ill leave it up here, hopefully they will find it” an example of using non gendered pronouns to talk about someone

[@PriestessHephzibah]

@@astrid3683 are you OK? Bless your heart, I will pray for you. Take care now.

[@Ukissmyashh]

@@astrid3683that phrased is used bc we don’t know who they are lol. So maybe that’s why he wants to be called they/them he don’t know who he is. Truly sad.

[@aqin713]

Bride = female and that a man in a dress 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@merylinartist5367]

stop with the ridiculous pro nouns, why has he got female makeup on and false nails

[@sapphire7424]

Because that's who THEY are. Respect costs nothing.

[@lizard3755]

Why is makeup a female thing? There are tons of times and places throughout history and in modern day where everyone uses makeup. Even Tucker Carlson and Donald Trump wear makeup when they're on camera, and they're not the sort of people who have interest in being nonconformists. Or is there like a separate kind of makeup that's only for boys? If so I'm interested, I love breaking the rules.

[@SUL-2000]

😂😂😂 don't know whether to laugh or cry

[@kms7527]

He doesnt need a wedding dress ..he needs a psychiatrist

[@mrsCRD]

😂💀

[@Noahtells]

@@mrsCRD is that you in the profile picture ???? 😂😂🤫💀

[@mrsCRD]

@@Noahtells What do you think? 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@JustAnotherPerson4U]

And you need to learn to to keep your bigoted opinions to yourself.

[@l3xsterz298]

I agree

[@HandyHelons]

Kevin, you have such gorgeous Gorgeous GORGEOUS eyes! I feel like they are just telling the world who you are!

[@jolenedehart4315]

There are people born with both male and female genitals as well as people born XXY and XYY so not every individual fits the same cookie cutter.

[@Loveheart-er3ou]

That's like saying some people aren't born with 2 legs. Doesn't change the fact when you describe a human your gonna say they have 2 legs

[@mrsCRD]

@@Loveheart-er3ou 😂💀💀

[@uikmnhj4me]

That’s called a medical condition. Not an identity someone can “feel”

[@astrid3683]

@@uikmnhj4me its an example of why the gender binary is flawed, and how it is reductionary towards a complex part of human identity. Both biological and socially

[@Ukissmyashh]

@@astrid3683it’s literally a medical condition

[@betsydenmon1803]

He doesn’t want to look like a man in a dress…. I just don’t get it

[@mrsCRD]

He literally is a man in a dress tho 😂💀

[@differentperspective4124]

Respect pronouns, how about it

[@connieclark3562]

This was stunning, such a beautiful episode!

[@tiffanyc965]

Kevin, I hope your marriage is as beautiful as your spirit, and your wedding outfit!

[@wintercame]

Never understood the concept of non binary. His name is Kevin, he wears lipstick. So it looks like...cross dressing.

[@crirosa86]

Congratulations Kevin! I'm sure you looked beautiful on your weeding day

[@MaryLinton-j3s]

Sending a huge HUG!!!❤❤❤

[@lukearmstrong5152]

They look beautiful

[@ميجو-ل9ل]

🤣🤣

[@peterpumpkineater6926]

How many are there?

[@PriestessHephzibah]

A confused person who needs to stop being dilusional....

[@cynhanrahan4012]

Wow, cruel much?

[@l3xsterz298]

No we're not accepting this trend, fantasy.​@cynhanrahan4012

[@lizard3755]

If you're going to insult people, at least spell the words correctly 🙄

[@OliveNLuv]

As a non-binary person myself, this makes my day!!! The dress/pantsuit Kevin chose looks absolutely stunning on them!!!

[@Susiegmc85]

I do not understand the non binary term, i know they identify as neither male nor female yet want to identify as a bride which is a female term? Im happy they found their happiness and their forever person and they are happy with their look for their wedding and i support the LGBTQI+ community. Im guessing, like many others i just need to be educated in these terms. ❤🧡💛💚💙

[@blueskies6699]

Non binary means they can identify either as man or woman or neither. I have a non binary child. He doesn’t care about pronouns but he goes to work looking male and when he’s at home he looks more feminine. He’s beautiful

[@melindaostergren8115]

Thank you for your lovely post. I hope you continue to ask such respectful questions for as long as you wish to.

[@lizard3755]

I get the confusion, there are lots of people who have a hard time really "getting" it. Obviously I can't say for sure if this is what Kevin was meaning, but I would think it's because there isn't really a gender-neutral alternative to bride or groom. The outfit/look Kevin was wanting matches up with what we'd typically expect to see someone who identifies as a woman wear, so bride fits better than groom, at least in terms of shopping for wedding outfits.

[@SavannahSteel]

Gorgeous ❤

[@ConfusedCityMap-rx5qo]

So happy for Kevin, that last dress is perfect 👍🏼🥰

[@anacristalmuniz1644]

They are going to love no matter what❤❤

[@babs_babs]

that look is going to be sickening when it’s done. kudos to kevin, they look gorge

[@GiGiJalisa08]

Loved loved that dress and pants suite

[@Holly_Fae]

I support non-binary people, but as a grammar fanatic I can't stand using plural terms for single humans. It is too confusing. That being said, the dress turned into pants suit is amazing. Congrats on the wedding.

[@oberaobera]

A true grammar fanatic would know that the singular they dates back to the 1300's ans was even used by Shakespeare. ❤️🌈

[@melissaharrison293]

​@@oberaoberaYeah, and nobody talks like Shakespeare, so your point is moot. I won't use they/them, but I will use the hims and hers. I will choose to call the person by their name instead.

[@melissaharrison293]

​​@@oberaoberaYes, but nobody talks like that anymore, so your point is moot.

[@cynhanrahan4012]

They/Them are singular pronouns. We use them all the time. I've been called the grammar police, and I have no problem switching off to they/them because we actually use them all the time.

[@lieutenantcandlewax]

@@cynhanrahan4012 If I know that person is a man why tf would I say "they"

[@cindyfabich7309]

Man in a dress

[@shizuka9618]

Exactly.

[@ellieantar809]

If Kevin chooses to look and wear clothes as a bride..then they will look like a man in the dress so doesn't that go against what they initially said they didn't want?

[@Skyebright1]

It’s pants

[@LavenderGardenia]

In all honesty, it would have made more sense to have something specifically made for this purpose. It is somewhat disingenuous to approach a BRIDAL shop to purchase a woman's gown for a male body with a genderless intention. Then there's the worry aspect that you won't be catered for because you are not in the correct category. There is a lot of confusion in there. But this is what happens when we don't give the correct support. That being said, the team worked hard to help.

[@calypsowarrior9226]

I’ve never seen anything so ridiculous in my whole life.

[@michellewestin5202]

This was so amazing! What a wonderful way to be a bride! 🥰

[@SydSquid828]

Kevin you look STUNNING in your dress/jumper! Such a beautiful bride 😍🤍

[@angelinepieterse7103]

To all the negative people in this comment section, find something to do with your time aside from commenting on the life and identity of some random person who holds no bearing on your life and deserves just as much love and respect as Evey other living being on the planet

[@lilynorthover8378]

Kevin was so sweet and so beautiful. I'm so glad Kevin found what he is looking for 😍

[@cynhanrahan4012]

They.

[@susanelrawi7080]

​@@cynhanrahan4012 Can't you just accept the sentiment and leave it at that ??? SMH

[@crumpetpiss3420]

@@cynhanrahan4012shut up

[@carolsmith8482]

have a his- tory of

[@nyny9598]

💀💀💀

[@joant1629]

that will make an awesome pantsuit

[@catherinekershaw903]

Looks ridiculous.

[@itravisoni]

Your just either male or female!!!!!!!!!

[@lizard3755]

What about people who are intersex?

[@Pidatha]

​@@lizard3755 They're still male or female 🤡

[@janiceeteme5536]

Confusion

[@MihibOmar]

Disgusting 🤢

[@lizmcphee2966]

I can't even watch this

[@Witchfoot.Incorporated]

But you did

[@user-lk3zu2di2e]

Confused person no one is a they or them you are one person mental illness this is done for attention

[@Adelaide672]

@@Witchfoot.Incorporated She probably clicked, paused the ad, and came to the comments to laugh at the delusional people

[@Nad-o6h]

Should go for custom made ....

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

I disagree. I think a custom gown can be really intimidating. Starting with a base and seeing what works can be a lot more helpful

[@missnaomi613]

This makes my mama-heart so happy! 💛🤍💜🖤

[@jolenedehart4315]

The first dress is very nice.

[@Me-fo1kk]

Very interesting to see. Pity the pantsuit wasnt shown as a P.S.

[@itravisoni]

Just please be who you are at birth

[@aratof18]

a baby?

[@l3xsterz298]

Exaclty a man!. Never be a woman!. Only q man.

[@The_froggy_one]

​​yea be a baby I am a baby 😂

[@l3xsterz298]

@@The_froggy_one my goodness 😳

[@HiThere619]

This dude needs extreme psychological help.

[@SulemanAli-t6o]

Please don't ruin this show for us that is for brides (biologically women). idc about what other ppl beliefs are. Just take your gender fluidity and drama elsewhere maybe to another show that is specifically for ppl like them.

[@lizard3755]

Does that mean you want trans men to be on the show?? I don't think a bearded man looking for a suit would really fit in.

[@Pidatha]

​@@lizard3755 Bearded woman*

[@monicakruczaj2244]

I’m all about love is love. They look like a guy in a dress. They don’t pull off the right body for a dress. To me it’s just not flattering. It isn’t my place to say. But if I was their friend I’d be 100% with them. I personally rather be told the truth rather than looking a fool

[@amilan409]

Kevin is beautiful !

[@ritaalways-alone4618]

What a crazy world this has become! Enough!

[@kathleenpapaleo2720]

Happy Pride Month!

[@CatherineMunro-ht8nh]

How ridiculous this person is. For gods sake

[@anacristalmuniz1644]

6:16 that's a beautiful dress

[@CathyDoherty-hr4mx]

Doesn't make sense.

[@ElainaKendal]

Get educated

[@ميجو-ل9ل]

@@ElainaKendalu r braindead

[@mythicmadness679]

The fact I'm watching this I pride month is so fitting 🏳️‍🌈

[@dianeblake2527]

Really

[@birgitbaltersen1904]

Hold nu op , det sku for åndsvagt 😏

[@oberaobera]

They look amazing and I'm so happy they were able to see their vision realized. So many haters here. :(

[@e.rinnooi4603]

Authentic is the word...❤

[@songbirds3712]

All of this gets my eyes twitching! And Kevin wants the look to be fluid. Someone explain please WTH does fluid look like? I really want to run and lock myself in my house.

[@mrsCRD]

Yeahhh... he basically wants to look like a woman. That's what 'fluid' means. Lol.

[@lunargraph]

stay in there then. the world will continue to spin with or without you.

[@pasadena8546]

Pura pluma en este show. Cuack-Cuack!

[@missvianney4198]

What a veil? What happened to the crown and veil.

[@IrishMystic]

I would love to see the finished look!

[@Whatadorkyouare]

Kevin is very confused.

[@Muttonchop57]

I doubt that. If he met you in person he'd know you're a troll.

[@alecrim888]

@@Muttonchop57 Why? Just because he/she is giving an opinion? When did disagreeing become trolling?

[@Faith-3094]

Ew just ew