She tells the bride she looks fat before she even gets her in a dress! The mom's face!
@karenstieglitz34432 ай бұрын
All the consultants (even Randy) have suggested proper silhouettes for particular body shapes.
@rachelmaddowswife87132 ай бұрын
@@karenstieglitz3443 Randy won't say it like this before even pulling dresses though. It's more common that they let the bride try it on and realize she hates it, then they step in and ask if they can pull a different, more flattering silhouette. Randy has that southern charm and social awareness, this lady does not.
@RaquelCat112 ай бұрын
@@karenstieglitz3443Phrasing and timing matters though. "Expect to be disappointed" before she even got to look at the dresses was pretty tactless lol
@karenstieglitz34432 ай бұрын
@@rachelmaddowswife8713 I agree, Randy is smoother. But this girl was still learning, and I think everyone here should cut her some slack. From the comments, I learned that she sadly passed away. This is all the more reason for us all to lighten up. We've all screwed up at work -- And imagine being a newbie while being filmed. She was probably so distracted. May she rest in peace.
@karenstieglitz34432 ай бұрын
@@RaquelCat11 I agree, but she was a newbie and still had to learn what not to say, and how to say things in a sensitive way... It's always best not to introduce negativity into a sales situation (and actually in most situations in life, for that matter.)
@cbojorquez2 ай бұрын
Telling a bride she doesn't have the height or shape to pull out the silhouette she has in mind for a dress is a rather rude way to start an appointment. It is also not true that you need to be 5'10 and super slim to look good in a flowy dress.
@QueenRissa_342 ай бұрын
Well said 🎯🙌🏾
@MsJubjubbirdАй бұрын
I know. Let her find out for herself
@SamanthaWilliams-ph6nb2 ай бұрын
Claudia is so full of herself my gosh. The bride and her family were so sweet and patient. Bless them
@joywebster26782 ай бұрын
All about her and her reactions
@Anna-fm7hh2 ай бұрын
No, the mother was not sweet at all, she was sabotaging everything
@Got_That_Queen_Potato2 ай бұрын
Mentioning a brides size right off the bat...telling her you wanted to prove her wrong...as a bridal consultant I'm appalled.
@Aubz47Ай бұрын
Same! I would have NEVER said something like that to a bride. Also, I’ve never put a bride in a gown without knowing the price. What in the world🚨
@jworth7203Ай бұрын
As a mom I’m appalled!! I would have taken my daughter out of that appointment right away.
@cholman42482 ай бұрын
Claudia was very full of herself. She was not a fit for Kleinfeld. Not surprised they let her go.
@mariesmith16162 ай бұрын
The worst consultant ever at Kleinfields.
@jhmumma2 ай бұрын
Such welcome news that Claudia no longer works at Kleinfield's. Many fails as a consultant and the worst was she tried to be the center of attention instead of the bride to be.
@nate27592 ай бұрын
They sacked her? How do you know.
@CleoS-vx5pd2 ай бұрын
The blagging about "knowing" prices without admitting she'd messed up was cringeworthy.
@karenstieglitz34432 ай бұрын
@@CleoS-vx5pd She was frightened and trying to salvage. We've all been there.
@bvh941172 ай бұрын
how can a consultant pull dresses without knowing the budget?
@annika58932 ай бұрын
You heard her. She has an inner sence and she's giving them clues all along. With this consultant you have to be able to play "the price is right" wedding dress edition.
@MsJubjubbirdАй бұрын
One of the other more experienced ladies did it too. Bride fell in love with a dress twice her budget
@lori54552 ай бұрын
This Consultant very passive aggressive and when she says "I wanted to prove you wrong' to the bride, its cringe. I would have switched Consultants.
@AnoJanJan2 ай бұрын
Nothing passive about that comment, just aggressive
@heyyou98392 ай бұрын
It was supposed to be banter, I think and misfired
@graceboyce372 ай бұрын
seriously yikes
@Clawsome-Clips2 ай бұрын
I'm not a person who enjoys when people get fired, but of all the consultants who either resigned or got fired, cough-cough, I'm sort of relieved that Claudia eventually left. Not only was shen't good at her job, but she showed no improvement in wanting to be good at her job, both on a personal and professional level.
@MrsBrit12 ай бұрын
Shen't? SHEN'T??! 😭
@thehungrygoldfish2 ай бұрын
She got fired and she wasn’t there for that long
@m.theresa13852 ай бұрын
@@MrsBrit1I’m finding autocorrect is doing all kinds of weirdness to my typing. I’m guessing that she was going for: not only was ‘she not’ (good at her job…)
@chanabayla18232 ай бұрын
She's also dead. Happy now?.
@thehungrygoldfish2 ай бұрын
@@chanabayla1823 She’s not dead lol.
@LemonLehon2 ай бұрын
All the talk about weight was atrocious. Slimming this and slimming that... just sad. These consultants have no idea what body image the bride wants. (Unless it was shared off camera.) Let the bride try on what they think they want, and let them draw their own conclusions before saying a particular style only suits tall size 0's. 🤔
@rachelmaddowswife87132 ай бұрын
Yeah, this girl has a great figure, most things would look pretty good on her. Idk why the consultant is acting like she has some incredibly unusual body type that will be hard to dress. If someone was actually 6'1" and a size zero like the model she described, that girl would have a much harder time shopping at Kleinfeld! I'm 5'10" and already have to order extra length for formal gowns. Not to mention that size at that height would be very underweight, you'd have to pick a gown to mask bony arms and collar bone, bony hips, lack of curves, etc.
@LemonLehon2 ай бұрын
@rachelmaddowswife8713 It was such a jarring and uncalled for comment. It came out of nowhere, too! I would've left or asked for a different consultant. Even if a specific silhouette doesn't typically suit a certain figure, they should let the Bride try it and come to that conclusion on her own; without such tasteless appraisals.
@hrhsophiathefirst40602 ай бұрын
@@rachelmaddowswife8713 Lol! As a 6ft 1 size zero person I resemble that remark! Funnily enough I have done many wedding shows including a few for Kleinfeld's and most I had to wear ballet flats as I was too tall for the dresses. And yes I do have bony hips and a lack of curves but muscular arms and a perfectly fine collar bone if I do say so myself. I am 6ft 1, have a 37 inch inseam and weigh 145lbs but most of the dresses those wedding shows push for 5-figure costs fit me fine so hence all the clips they use to fit these ladies.
@rachelmaddowswife87132 ай бұрын
@@hrhsophiathefirst4060 You must have very unusual proportions to be a size zero at that height and weight. I weigh less and am a 6/8 in jeans, so probably like a 16 in bridal, lol. Anyways, congrats on your career.
@wendytaylor21012 ай бұрын
This was awful
@ShermanCassidy2 ай бұрын
Yikes. Like Claudia ask her questions. When she says greek goddess, what does she mean? Does she mean one shoulder? Does she mean flowy? Does she mean like silk? Shape? Saying something won't look good doesn't show your expertise. If you don't think it will look good, let her put it on and let HER say she doesn't like it. I just feel like she missed the mark on everything and budget is important.
@angelbulldog49342 ай бұрын
The person who hired Claudia should never be allowed to hire another person ever. I nailed her the minute she opened her mouth, and I think many others did, too. Her ego doesn't allow for anybody else to be in the room with her.
@ManasiJindal18 минут бұрын
You said it right. I only got to see what was shown to me in an 8 minutes clip. It obviously wasn't the whole story, and I'm sure they selected portions showing the Kleinfeld staff in the best light possible. And still, her attitude was easy to judge. She might be great at other professions, being a bridal consultant however is so not for her.
@sodalitestars2 ай бұрын
I’m 4’11” and chubby and loved how every greek goddess type dress felt on me! I thought they were so flattering
@yerintaem2 ай бұрын
Wow she just totally discouraged the bride from the style she wanted. She was super disrespectful
@joralemonvirgincreche2 ай бұрын
This is the first time I've seen an episode with this designer, Melissa Sweet. A very pretty dress. The mother and sister chose well. It's nice to see a dress you've never seen before on the show.
@nancybean01012 ай бұрын
The father rolling his eyes when his wife is speaking. lol.
@ideasboutique2 ай бұрын
"I wanted to prove you wrong right away"... WTF? 😟
@rachelmaddowswife87132 ай бұрын
It might be a cultural thing. She has kind of an Eastern European accent and all the people I've known from there are incredibly blunt, and kind of intimidating tbh. In any case, she's not well suited for this kind of job.
@ideasboutique2 ай бұрын
@rachelmaddowswife8713 that is true... half my family is German, the other half Italian, and nobody holds back.
@brookelynnwu801612 күн бұрын
@@ideasboutique beyond that she was just rüdé. The bride has eyes, she doesn’t need to tell her she looks fât, she can see it for herself.
@jeniferclemente12522 ай бұрын
I remember Claudia. She has a big attitude and was the absolute worst. She always put brides in dresses that are way outside their budget and ruin a lot of their wedding dress shopping experiences. I feel sorry for those brides that dealt with her…
@moonj6052 ай бұрын
clearly all she cares about is increasing her commission check, not about the brides’ satisfaction
@jeniferclemente12522 ай бұрын
@@moonj605 it was always like that with her….
@gillb97332 ай бұрын
Oh my word this consultant is so hyper, loud and opinionated. Yikes!
@chanabayla18232 ай бұрын
And dead...
@genericname90242 ай бұрын
@@chanabayla1823 ??????
@lucidbluuАй бұрын
@@chanabayla1823 what?
@graceprais98142 ай бұрын
Claudia has too much ego, the appointment was all about her.
@fossilsue2 ай бұрын
A very poor consultant.
@qossl67272 ай бұрын
"expect to be disappointed", well she did deliver...
@cards04862 ай бұрын
I remember watching Claudia and thinking,”This isn’t going to work out.” She didn’t take instruction from her bosses very seriously. She always thought her way was the right way. In one of the episodes when Consultants’ sales numbers were being reviewed it was evident Claudia needed to heed the guidance she was expected to learn from. She never did. “…at the end of the day…” REALLY drove me up a wall. I always wondered if she was more successful in a smaller salon, or maybe a different type of sales.
@user-pn9db8sm5w2 ай бұрын
Claudia doesn't seem to have learned the bridal consultant role. She's got her hair pulled into a gym style ponytail, talks as if shes hanging out in the street. She needed more training, especially in decorum.
@eryzs7284Ай бұрын
Honestly speaking, she had the perfect body type for a Greek goddess look. She would have looked amazing in a sweetheart neckline and flowy dress.
@cathyv34242 ай бұрын
WOW!! Claudia is a trip lol she’s really not listening… I would cry from being mad hahahhaa
@chanabayla18232 ай бұрын
She's now dead so have respect
@malpal12132 ай бұрын
If she wasn’t so focused on commenting the brides weight, she may have remembered to ask budget
@jeanettejeanette11992 ай бұрын
Should never make comments about clients weight. If she wants to look like a Greek Goddess, let her wear that kind of dress. She not only wasnt listening to the client, but insulting her.
@jeannemorgan87702 ай бұрын
I've seen other consultants comment the a certain type of dress can tend to make the bride look big, too small, short, etc. She should have worded her comments that way.
@susannakendsonАй бұрын
Plus has she seen Greek goddesses? They're both thic and thin. The most beautiful of them all is a thic woman. NEVER bring up weight. Aphrodite is the most beautiful of them all and she's a thic girl
@SheniceSays2142 ай бұрын
The price point is a major concern in appointment because it sets the direction of appointment.
@MadelynL-p3h2 ай бұрын
Why bother asking? Most of the time they completely ignore the budget anyway. It is such a sign of DISRESPECT to the customer. Disrespect and GREED.
@ks.makiage2 ай бұрын
The dresses aren't even cohesive, they all look so different from one another as if the consultant was just pulling whatever she saw.
@bluebonnetbunny48132 ай бұрын
Claudia is that person who will tell you exactly how she thinks you look. Might be good for your “entourage” but too direct for consultant and a bit of a know-it-all.
@reneehubbard90272 ай бұрын
Love her pick. She looks gorgeous.
@lorirogers93042 ай бұрын
Ouch! Glad I don’t work there.
@jemmaj29192 ай бұрын
This show would do anything to get views, even if the name and shame could affect someone's life and career
@heyyou98392 ай бұрын
Exactly
@karenstieglitz34432 ай бұрын
Yeah, it leaves a very bad taste.
@tulumbordon524222 күн бұрын
The manager was the rude one in my opinion. She ruined the appointment
@annehersey98952 ай бұрын
Elise!! When you said to Claudia ‘ You don’t know her price,point? ‘, when she says ‘No’, you do NOT say Oh’ and nothing else!!!! As the manager, it is YOUR JOB to teach her! You tell her that’s one of the things you must know before you start pulling dresses!!
@moonwater79852 ай бұрын
Claudia had been there for 3 months.... I think the "oh" was referring to disappointment after realising she wasn't willing to learn within that period of time.
@jodievukmir31872 ай бұрын
Girl should have known that...she was there three months...face it she suxed at her job
@MissGBinFranceАй бұрын
Don't agree. Elise at this point is just done with Claudia's attitude which is a refusal to listen and learn ! V frustrating
@spacey_gracie2 ай бұрын
I bought my Melissa Sweet wedding dress at Davids Bridal for $250.. I didnt know they sold her gorgeous dresses at Kleinfelds as well..
@audreaelliot95492 ай бұрын
Pretty sure David's Bridal bought the rights to Melissa Sweet when Priscillas of Boston went out of business in 2011.
@RebaWood-w9eАй бұрын
The daughter will not always aim to please her mom. Mine didn't. I loved her dress, but she would have loved it even if I hadn't.
@absatwell81632 ай бұрын
Many of your consultants don’t ask for price points.
@thehungrygoldfish2 ай бұрын
They almost always ask. Whether they listen to it is another thing lol
@LadyJemma2 ай бұрын
@@thehungrygoldfish That's what I was going to write. Great minds think alike.😺👍
@lct71920002 ай бұрын
Unless they ask off camera
@BasicYTHandle2 ай бұрын
@@thehungrygoldfish These SYTTD brides are extensively vetted online and their likes/dislikes AND budget should be known in advance.
@somaniradhika2 ай бұрын
Exactly it's mostly either fake or bride/ family deliberately ignore and try on a gown out of budget @@BasicYTHandle
@Anna17006Ай бұрын
Let me just say this: Claudia needs to sit down and rethink her entire approach. Like, how is this even acceptable? These girls have dreamed about this day for years, and now it’s getting ruined because of her lack of professionalism. If Kleinfeld wants to keep their reputation intact, they better get her a supervisor who actually knows what they’re doing. People come here to find the dress, not to deal with someone who clearly can’t handle the pressure. Do better, Claudia. Do better, Kleinfeld.
@katscotty2 ай бұрын
Planning her wedding since she was 4 years old!!!
@Sylkimami2 ай бұрын
Exactly... what???
@sandrak.robbins63052 ай бұрын
Wow, not a fan of Claudia. She doesn't want to listen to anyone. She's pulling random styles all over the place. Glad the boss checked in.
@YaYaPaBla2 ай бұрын
Someone said she passed away suddenly.
@Salsagirl662 ай бұрын
I remember Claudia. Her episodes were clearly edited to make her look bad. After her they did the same to the tall consultant with the short black hair (I forget her name). The way Elise stepped in and criticized Claudia both in front of the client and then on camera shows her to be a bad people manager.
@PaddyPawsRescue2 ай бұрын
She fat shamed her before she even got in the dress
@mariesmith16162 ай бұрын
No, Claudia was really a bad consultant.
@karenstieglitz34432 ай бұрын
@@mariesmith1616 Not after three months she wasn't. She was learning.
@chanabayla18232 ай бұрын
@@mariesmith1616now shes dead
@hn42062 ай бұрын
I remember her, she told them "she only worked with high end brides" and didn't like getting stuck with the cheaper brides,
@jandavis15232 ай бұрын
“Her whole life has been focused on weddings.” Seriously. 🙄
@CS-ys4syАй бұрын
That consultant makes me so happy I found my dress at a bridal expo.
@wendiewhitneydeprisco36632 ай бұрын
While I can appreciate opinions, and I do, I think negative opinions should be kept to themselves. It’s how the bride feels in it. It is the consultant who would know what looks best. That’s their job. It’s funny that neither the sales manager nor the consultant got the right idea.
@susanhennig93682 ай бұрын
Consultant needs a different profession
@chanabayla18232 ай бұрын
Considering that she's dead that won't happen. Maybe u need to learn respect
@578482 ай бұрын
Claudia you're In the wrong field! Kleinfeld is Not for you!
@fanfiction4thewin149Ай бұрын
3 months in and she thinks she has a right to tell a bride a certain shape will not suit her
@nancyweakley2070Ай бұрын
I have been setting wondering why I haven’t heard a price! That should be ONE of the first steps you need to know! Sorry but that is a big part of pulling gowns. 🥰🐾
@soofia_s89772 ай бұрын
We didn't see the part where she said yes
@naowright93082 ай бұрын
As soon as Claudia started talking I said, "No, no, no, no." I have never worked in retail, but I KNOW that is the wrong approach.
@notrlybad2 ай бұрын
5:01 omg i would never make excuses to my mgr like that, especially excuses that make bad matters worse. Admit you lost control. Far better to lose control, get help, and make the sale than lose control, undermine your help, and lose a sale. So many things are going wrong w this consultant.
@firlin.5978Ай бұрын
Poor girl, she was probably excited about being in kleinfield + tv but got the worst consultant that day 😅
@monikagupta77052 ай бұрын
Inner sense!!
@puretoni2 ай бұрын
Oh Claudia! I’m surprised she lasted as long as she did
@Blondiegirl-g2e2 ай бұрын
Neither consultant has a clue as to what they are doing. Of course the Mom knows what the bride is looking for. She has known her daughter her whole life.
@harleyjade7236Ай бұрын
“I had to prove her wrong right away” eww
@whammy3323Ай бұрын
I'm so glad Claudia didn't last long and can easily see why...
@donnabuttery93162 ай бұрын
I actually liked her...I think shes a Brooklyn Gal I maybe wrong but to me she's trying to please...working hard...and hey she seemed friendly and genuine...❤ Ps don't forget this is edited 😊
@puretoni2 ай бұрын
I wonder how the owners and management felt after watching these episodes
@hollywarehouse46062 ай бұрын
Umm, can you request a new consultant? Wonder if Claudia still works there? Lol-My INNER SENSE says NO!
@BlondeSparkles2 ай бұрын
I think she passed away
@elisabethjansen54182 ай бұрын
Why should she have to ask her budget? It's not like this store has EVER respected anyone's budget on this show.
@CostaMalini2 ай бұрын
Gosh, so much hate, ok, everyone makes mistakes as a trainee.
@carolynrose45252 ай бұрын
Consultant doesnt know what she is doing. She is tooo flighty!!
@Gigichew2 ай бұрын
Claudia doesn’t seen very humble. It’s almost like a young bird too eager to fly. The feathers aren’t even dry yet
@renatacfАй бұрын
Hahahaha a claudia erra em tudo! Procurando os episódios com ela. Com certeza, já foi demitida
@EmuCosmo2 ай бұрын
Her tact on calling her fat was awful. I’d ask for a new consultant
@QueenRissa_342 ай бұрын
First off the bride is super skinny, so her saying that made no sense….🫤🤦🏾♀️ And I agree that let the bride pick what dress she wants and not what you think as a consultant suits her body better…🥴😩
@jodievukmir31872 ай бұрын
She even mentions "slimming" when the girl is admiring the i e she picked...wow
@lesliegreen99442 ай бұрын
Claudia is a narcissist. I’ve seen her in other episodes and she’s nothing but trouble. I’m surprised she lasted that long.
@OliverKitkat2 ай бұрын
A 4 year old was planning her wedding come on 😢
@caroldavis71692 ай бұрын
None of those dresses had any wow factor at all
@FloralConcerto2 ай бұрын
Is it weird that I thought Claudia was fun to watch? Yes she forgot to ask for the budget (big no no!) and tried a little to hard to work solo to prove herself, but she was friendly and had more of a bestie type of vibe giving direct feedbacks like "this isn't going to look as good as you think" which actually works for me. Lots of clients went and looked for the dresses by themselves, why are we surprised that they did that too?
@singingcovers232 ай бұрын
i really hope she finds a new job
@KateBraun-j8u2 ай бұрын
We could all cut Claudia some slack. It was, after all, one of her first days being a consultant and everybody is allowed a couple of mistakes. What bothers me more, though, is her manager's behavior and attitude toward her new employee: she (the manager) was being passive aggressive and obnoxious (and no, the manager didn't pull the right gown, either).
@vickiegibbons87652 ай бұрын
i hope they let that consultant go, she was terrible, not listening and deliberately dismissed clients wishes.
@SkadiandNjord2 ай бұрын
I always worry when a Consultant looks trashy. The traditional black top and bottom without trimmings to draw attention to your bust as "It is not your day"
@mariacherrington619202 ай бұрын
Cant belive she told the bride you can only wear greek goddess if youre tall n skinny how rude
@skylove-e5d2 ай бұрын
just checked an update on Claudia and unfortunately she has passed away on 2019
@jenniferbond7073Ай бұрын
Oh no! That is sad.
@TPaigeRobbyАй бұрын
Ugh i hate that for the bride. Shes on tv for probs the first time. Shes anxious anyway. And im one of those ppl EVERYONE has to constantly make sure they know that theyre fat. I cant imagine being on tv and having a consultant call attention to my weight. And she did it like twice! Even at the end where she said it hides the tummy. Who says that?!?! Ofc the bride laughed it off. What else is she supposed to do? Id be very close to cussing her ass out. Tv or no tv.
@leiaclark83882 ай бұрын
When a customer is going to be shopping for such a special (and expensive) item, ask tons of questions: White? Winter white, cream, blush , cool white, other, etc? Bling? Big bling? Little bling? Where do you want bling? No bling? Beading? Victorian? Art deco? 80s ? Venue? Time of day? Season of year? General dress code? What fabric? What waist? What skirt? What neck? What sleeves? Any other details, like family heirlooms that will be worn? Jewelry, veil, etc? Did you bring pictures for inspiration? How will you wear your hair? ------ Seriously, a consultant should be doing a full CIA interrogation before pulling the first dress.
@BasicYTHandle2 ай бұрын
While I don't disagree generally, the brides on SYTTD are extensively vetted online and all of this AND the budget would (should?) have already been known.
@CarinaCatLove3Ай бұрын
Keasha is also not one of my favorite consultants
@heatherbeach46962 ай бұрын
Yeah, there is REASON this consultant "Claudia" didn't stay at Kleinfelds... this must be an older episode but I've never seen her b4
@chanabayla18232 ай бұрын
You know where she is now? Heaven if that's where u think we go after death so wonder what your reason is to be rude
@joyceprice48112 ай бұрын
Not a good match for Kleinfeld at all. Insulting and didn't learn anything from training.
@kays39562 ай бұрын
she needs more training, more experience. off hand, she needs a lot of work
@YaYaPaBla2 ай бұрын
Claudia passed away.
@kays39562 ай бұрын
@@YaYaPaBla was she ill? she was young and beautiful.
@YaYaPaBla2 ай бұрын
@@kays3956 other comments didn’t go into detail
@blueice0112 ай бұрын
@@kays3956Google her name Claudia Ghetu. May she rest in peace.
@lesliesosnowski31662 ай бұрын
Here comes the police chief
@9094nancyj2 ай бұрын
So, has she been fired yet?
@snakebitepellehue2 ай бұрын
This episode is 15 years old. She didn't last, LOL.
@viryuh13132 ай бұрын
she is dead
@carmenmiranda89632 ай бұрын
Claudia died.
@snakebitepellehue2 ай бұрын
@@carmenmiranda8963 I read something about that, but not from a credible source. Are we sure?
@samanthahylton53482 ай бұрын
I would’ve preferred The consultant, pulled the right dress, come on. They’re all looking in the store. Give me a break. You got a sale. I’m sorry I don’t agree with whatever everybody else is saying about the consultant who by the way passed away, and they’re still showing this. That’s disrespectful of Kleinfeld.
@jworth7203Ай бұрын
Claudia is a problem but that mom was awful. The girl really liked that one dress and her mom was just cruel.
@CindyandRicoTheCoonhoundCross2 ай бұрын
Wtf? "Unless you're 6'1 and a size 0 it won't work." Seriously? I'm 5'1 and 145 lbs, definitely not a 0 but I found a dress (not wedfing) that I was told made me look like a Greek Goddess. So, get $%^&ed
@GinaStant2 ай бұрын
SHE IS THE WORST CONSULTANT
@kathconserv2 ай бұрын
Claudia died so I guess she won’t be hurting anyone’s feelings anymore. Let it go.
@moonj6052 ай бұрын
and how do u know that
@Seasoned._.3eef-2 ай бұрын
She died of cancer in 2019@@moonj605
@maryannfelice1482 ай бұрын
Claudia, you have no clue what the bride does or doesn't like for one reason. YOU DON'T LISTEN! You care too much about impressing everyone instead of listening. You are not the world's answer to bridal consulting. The world would like you much more if you had an ounce of humility.