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In this video, Jordan Peterson, Dewayne, David Goggins, John Maxwell and Greg Plitt talk about suffering and going uphill.

[@ethanxritchiex898x]

25, became paralyzed in September, I was turning my life around before it. Became a Rope Rescue Instructor & Technician, moved to Alberta for work, was working out & getting fit, but that was all taken away from me. I was in such a dark place but now I feel myself getting out of it. It does get better my friends, don't give up!

[@fordash77]

im proud of u ethan! :)

[@Left_coast_bullies]

Stay up bro let’s get it!!!

[@powerfulthinking7676]

That’s what’s up.

[@greg9069]

That’s a tough tough battle, I deal with sciatica for years and it’s very discouraging and depressing.. you’re brave.

[@mhmedzem5320]

​@@Left_coast_bulliesMay the peace, mercy, and blessings of God Almighty be upon you, my brother. It is not permissible to publish your music. It is the sin of everyone who heard it. Please delete it. It is also not permissible to show the private parts, the private parts from the navel to the knee. The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, commanded us to cover the private parts, so my brother, cover your private parts. May God reward you well. Just as backbiting is not permissible. They said, O Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, what is backbiting? The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, “Remind your brother of something that he hates. Therefore, brother, anything you mention, comment on, or speak to people or make comments, and from these words you know that none of what he hates is backbiting. This is backbiting. Therefore, it is best to ask for forgiveness and forgiveness from that person so that no retaliation is done.” From you on the Day of Resurrection, and as you know that we did not guarantee ourselves, let alone someone comes who takes good deeds coldly and without effort, so the rights must be returned to their owners. It is not permissible to publish music for you. It is the fault of everyone who heard it. It is also not permissible to publish things about infidels or wear their shirts or imitate them, whether a football player. Or a representative, because this involves glorifying them, boasting, and being loyal to them, and we as Muslims only take pride in our Prophet Muhammad, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, by following his Sunnah and spreading it, and the Companions and the Mothers of the Believers, may God be pleased with them all. It is also not permissible to qaz’a because the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, forbade us from doing so, and it is not permissible to shave the beard because the Prophet May God’s prayers and peace be upon him, we never shave it just as it is not permissible to photograph people without their permission and publish things about them without permission. You must ask for permission and then publish whatever you want. It is not permissible to expose the sinner, but rather he must be covered and not exposed. This can be either by commenting or by publishing something or publications in which the person in the video is a sinful person. Therefore, by publishing, commenting, liking, or anything that spreads more video, you contribute to exposing it more, and so on. Therefore, please delete any comment or like that you made for a video that contains sin, whatever it may be, because they are ongoing sins. It is not permissible to draw, cartoon pictures, or games that contain animate beings, because they involve imitation. For the creation of God Almighty, and it is not permissible to publish pictures or videos that contain women. Yours is the sin of everyone who looks at them, and all of this, or any sin, a person must cover himself and not expose himself by going out to people about it or telling people that he did such and such because it is openly committing sin, and the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace. He forbade that and said, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him: “All of my nation is safe except those who speak out, and we are all wrong and fall short. The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, commanded us to forbid evil and enjoin what is right. The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, said: Whoever among you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; if he is not able, then with his tongue; if he is not able, then with his heart, and that is weaker.” Faith, so you will say that you did not commit some of the sins that I spoke about, but my brother or sister, despite the presence of many sins while I was working on the phone, and God guides us all, I cannot send to someone every time because there are different sins, and therefore I collected them in complete lines, and God is your helper, so I advise you to repent and start with myself and return to God is a cover for the soul, and God is my brother, death comes suddenly. Likewise, every disobedience must be followed by repentance until we meet God. Delete these things that do not please God Almighty, and prayers and peace be upon the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace.... Peace, mercy, and blessings of God Almighty be upon you. Please delete the slogan. 1xbet Because it is gambling, and therefore when you broadcast matches that contain forbidden things, they are promoted, and thus their spread among Muslims is inevitable, God forbid.

[@JonasWeather]

I like that the line, "to grow you must suffer." stays on screen like is being repeated like a constant truth

[@alf3071]

suffered all my life and I don't feel it helped me grow in any way, it only stunted me

[@evethehamster3079]

Tragic Optimism.

[@cicholasnage]

​​​@@alf3071 idk what youre going through, but its all about perspective. Im not invalidating your struggle, as i understand how it feels. Maybe you need to change your strategy. Maybe you're too focused on one source of happiness. Maybe you focus too much on the setbacks. When youre skiing, you dont focus too much on the trees, all you'll see is the trees, the obstacles, you need to focus on the path, and you'll see is the path. One thing that helped me is inner peace. This sounds goofy and pretentious, but its real. Just come to peace with whatever comes in life. Cliche, but always focus on what you can control, there's no point to complain about why the weather is so hot, why its so rainy, it just is. Yeah, life is fuckin unfair. Its ignorant to say otherwise. You just gotta make do with what you can. The hardest places makes the strongest individuals. Instead of deteriorating into ashes from all the pressure, just accept all the pain and let it make you stronger, like a sledgehammer onto a sword. Let the suffering be your source of growth, instead of succumbing to be its helpless hostage. Only YOU can change your life.

[@allistertheeldritchmemegod3537]

@@alf3071 then you never overcame any of it.

[@alijoselesli84]

@@alf3071 Exactly, all of these people are a bunch of scammers, since I stopped suffering my life improved a lot

[@richardsousa2625]

Half of 2023 I was unemployed, out of money, couldn’t get a job couldn’t even get out of bed. My mother told me, “you have to be that man, so you can be THE man” and my second half of 2023 I got a job, the best job I’ve ever had. And I’m like a man on fire every day. You can come with me, to the top, but for your sake do not get in my way.

[@user-uq8vb2os5c]

You inspire me sir ❤🎉

[@dalemisa4507]

Keep it going brother! It’s not easy, it’s battle with our mind. It’s maza that we need to find ourselves and believe we can make it out. You will get to the top everyone who’s reading this! Seek onto god, he’s the only one who renew your strength to keep moving forward.

[@prakashjhugroo6001]

What job did you get bro

[@2130dar]

What job did you get?

[@brooklennbridges1087]

Congrats! It could be worse 2023 I lost my house girlfriend, I became homeless, lost my career, ended up in jail twice, my car blew up and I went to rehab for alcohol. 2024 still homeless living in my car or hotels with my daughter. I have 2 jobs, fixed my car, and hoping to find us a place soon! Things always get better you just have to work work work! Stay positive.

[@projaxton]

Without pain there can be no growth!!! 2023 was the worst year of my adult life . Im 39. Lost everything. Divorced,House, Business, 3 trucks, Lost it all. But I never stopped. It humbled me . I kept saying 2024 is my year it has to change. Now. On Jan 30 th. I just fell into the best job i could ever imagine. Better pay than I could imagine. And I prayed for a job where i could be here for my kids and travel and work. And this job is everything I wanted. Thank u God!!! Not just for the job. But thank u for the tears, the hard times as without the hard times i would never have left my comfort place. Carpe diem. Go get it!!!!

[@dopemoney23]

That great homie. . BIG CONGRATS ON FIGHTING YOUR WAY THROUGH IT

[@farinthefuture2178]

I hated myself and the world. For 7 years ive been using drugs and was playing videogames 24/7. I went into rehab 4 months ago and I finally feel like I can enjoy life. The Real life. I fucking love the pain, I love the suffering and the feeling I get after I finish doing shit I dont want to. I never felt so good in my life and these videos motivate me even more to stay sober, grind the fuck out of myself and become a man that nobody (including myself) thought was possible. I start to feel physical improvements, my mindset is completly different and I feel strong, stable, REAL.

[@Afflictamine]

just lift weights

[@anthonygoreil5568]

well done bro im glad to hear that keep pushing brother

[@splash-qi5kn]

What do you do if you're homeless without money? Where do I start? Working out doesn't work no place to shower or rest after... What's my next step?

[@Afflictamine]

there are machines you can use for free in public at parks, you can go for a swim and a shower at the beach too, for free. shocker I know@@splash-qi5kn

[@SItgix]

im on a similar journey buddy, much power and best of luck to you.

[@oneman4412]

Struggle, suffer, die to self, but keep going, stay on track. If your desire is to be a Saint an exemplary person, then you will succeed if you stay the course.

[@AMG-316]

Yes, "Self" must be smashed to be a true warrior! An asset to your community, the defenseless, and most importantly, a God of your understanding!

[@abby999]

@@AMG-316 ayo…God says to lean not on your own understanding but instead to acknowledge His grace, His presence, His unchanging eternal nature - in ALL ways, and He’ll make your paths straight.

[@dt4886]

I have to say that its been great seeing the evolution of this trend of self improvement over the last years. How we went from really loud edits to just pure motivetional talk . It only reflects how the audience matured along with the content. Its been a journey to all of us but its not over yet. I dont know how many people are gonna read this ,but if you do ,dont stop . The road that stretches in front of you is tough....but you are tougher.

[@SerFondue]

I typically loop these videos while I’m running my daily 5 miles or doing calisthenics. It helps a lot during those last few reps that I struggle through

[@bartekl75]

Once you're ready stop doing this. Your discipline will grow exponentially every time you continue despite the struggle while listening only to your mind.

[@archetypekilla8364]

You should listen to Teddy Atlas speech on being prepared to die. Or Mike Tysons "Hurting is beautiful"

[@ryangrout2427]

@@archetypekilla8364”hurting is beautiful” helped me get through a dark time, God bless

[@MalikRamires]

Same her,i start with videos like this and then listen to my running playlist afterwards.

[@splash-qi5kn]

​@@archetypekilla8364 Teddy Atlas is a clown I'd rather listen to bozo while I run

[@christophervasquez3317]

27, been going down a dark road ever since my Old man passed I can’t seem to find myself. My anxiety and depression been killing me for years feels like about to self destruct. As a strong man weighing 180 benching 315 pounds. I wonder to myself how can I deteriorate to this sickness. Depression and anxiety kicks my ass but I make sure I keep fighting every day in the gym life etc.. I need to see the light at the end of the tunnel, and for that I wake up every day.

[@miguelangelsotofuentes6537]

Hope you doing well pal, we been through a similar road. My old man died ( I was 26) and everything crumbled he was THE man holding the entire family together. I’m a tad bit older, 30s are around the corner. But it got better I kept the values that he taught me, close to heart, words to live by. The tought of giving up crossed my mind many times but I refused to. Now I’m having a baby boy in a couple of weeks and I felt like a fire that have been reignited. Gym also helped a lot, Powerlifting,a lot of intensity to burn your thought’s away. It do get better brother, but you have to put the work on it

[@brunoburgos2816]

You have be THAT light, make him proud

[@SurfMastery-kz6je]

JP said "were here to live, not to sleep". Were not here to make our lives as comfortable and cozy as possible. Where not here just so that we can retire and avoid discomfort and uncertainty. Life is to be experienced fully, the good and the bad. Theres really nothing else to do but to become the best version of yourself, and well, that is fulfilling. That is a worthy pursuit..

[@M0hh_]

Nothing changes if nothing changes. Now, get up, and do what you need to do.

[@joestar6194]

"Man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor." Alexis Carrel

[@TheSoprah]

Did a nightshift because I was too lazy. It's 1pm and I am still working. Two things are heavily motivating me and boosting me with energy. 1) Others have worse conditions than you. Just think of the japanese working ethic. 2) The more disciplined you are, the close you are to your goals. Life is short. Don't sleep all your life

[@Kawaiithar]

i cried, thank u so much for this, i felt like they were talking to me personally, i didnt fell like studying but after i watched this video im gonna get up and start studying with a purpose!!!

[@Punisher0890]

I wake up everyday chasing after my dream, and your videos(this one in particular) helps drive me to push harder. So thank you!

[@BayStarBaby]

It’s tough guys, especially do it every day but coming from an recovering alcoholic. I have achieved more then I’ll ever expected in 11 months from just getting up at 4 these videos are reminders but you have to take action

[@trig9er97]

Good blueprint and foundation setting for the right kind of minded individuals out there. I think it goes without saying that the correct person has to hear this. The main theme is that you can have everything you need, if you don't have yourself though then you've already lost.

[@sammm51773]

I subscribed when Dewayne Noel popped up on this video. It is good to see his wisdom being spread. The other speakers are also some of my favorites.

[@victormentalityco]

appreciate the support! Thanks.

[@mysteriousguy4708]

Bro, You nailed this video ❤. The best part is the monotone calm music in the background. I could focus on all what has been said. Can't finish a motivational video on KZbin because of the loud background music.

[@fobbitoperator3620]

This is life giving wisdom!

[@DiaryCourage-pg8ex]

Thank you for sharing, if we want to be successful, we need to discipline ourselves well

[@firstlast2386]

We all feel pain. But dont let it destroy you. Persevere and strive despite the pain, or in spite of it. Let it fuel you on your worst days and best days. Its that simple but its not easy. It is possible!

[@angeloz6897]

Excellent advice!!

[@apachetamizha]

Highly experienced and it has a special flavour 😊

[@SonofWoman-hx5bd]

thanks for the edit

[@Vigi11]

Great videos! Please post more 😊

[@tem_vremenem_v_kanade]

Love the vibe you create in your vids man. Very unique and gripping 👍 I sense a lil hint of “blade runner” in them, not sure of intentional or not.

[@abhishekwankhede1602]

friends we need to watch this over and over until its rooted deep inside..............great speech ever.

[@ronaldholloway5258]

I was told in 2014 that I could never be a Cop. Fast forward and two police academies later

[@WisamAlezzii]

great video man

[@rwyatt3019]

This is outstanding 🔥

[@I_Drank_WHAT_TTV]

Thank you for this video Victor, I needed to see this. I am both honored and humbled to have come across your video.

[@kk47119]

Wow the last clip was my favorite. Like do it for yourself, to be better not tomorrow but in five or 10 years. For a better life

[@user-xo7xi4qx9f]

good massage thanks you

[@crlpxz]

I yearned for a profound change and an opportunity to experience true happiness. I yearned for something deeper, something untouched by materialism or deception and untainted by wealth or societal expectations. I long for the day when I awaken with some joy, grateful for the gift of life and the opportunity to embrace the day as my heart desires. It's already 2024, and I can't help but feel so disheartened that none of this seems like it will ever come true. I'm overwhelmed by this constant feeling of despair, as if the world around me will forever remain stagnant. It seems that I am destined to carry this heavy burden of emotions indefinitely, unable to escape its suffocating grip. Now, I've been foolishly denying myself the gift of hope because I can't help but feel like I'm destined to remain in this state of despair. I can't help but feel that happiness is simply not meant for me. I feel so empty, like a hollow vessel, yearning for something that never seems to come. I'm tired.

[@thelaw2348]

I felt that

[@DanielCaldwell-qu2ze]

I'm telling you idk exactly what you're going through or if you'll even read this msg but I do know one thing anyone looking to experience true happiness and true peace and contentment with life and life's trils and tribulations you must look into Jesus and who he really is that Noone can deny his existence he is very real and he loves you and have a beautiful plan for your life if you'll only sit down and talk with him and just give it a chance and see if he real and I promise you by just simply asking Jesus to come into your life and make himself known to you that you will never be the same again he is God and he loves you before the foundations of the earth where even lain he knew you he number the very hairs on ur head and he intimately formed every feature of you he's just waiting for his children to truly realize the truth and that the world has lied to us our whole lives Satan is real and every beautiful Soul he can get to deny their creator he already has in his grasp I pleed that you come to know Jesus

[@broly7850]

You can do something for one day and just take it one day at a time you got it brothers 💪

[@titusjames4912]

Listening to this in a nice warm shower. I have to tell you. I heard Goggins speak and the shower got real cold real fast.

[@1mightyant]

“Self discipline enables you to go uphill.” 👏

"Everything worthwhile is uphill." -John C. Maxwell

[@redsol3629]

The weak suffer, The strong recognise the change occurring.

[@safarsafarov2206]

Amazing!

[@BertTsonchoke]

Well said

[@ARPorganics]

Push yourself, discipline yourself, motivate yourself, believe in yourself, and fully accept yourself so that you can become the best version of yourself.

[@margaretdoliet1630]

🙌🙌👏🙏

[@zahinaslam6496]

Here because i see Drycreek fam in thumbnail hes amazing guy

[@wonkygustav4457]

Growth need not be painful, pain comes from resistance, acceptance is the path of least resistance. Enjoy ❤

[@sergiolandz6056]

so it is true the soul comes here to experience suffering, it all makes sense now.

[@Erebus2075]

100% said by someone who never actually felt struggle and suffering

[@leehowson440]

Nothing good comes easy! Nothing easy comes good!

[@VinesGrapesAndWines]

very true

[@ross3205]

That David Goggins one hits very hard

[@user-by3ux5ou3y]

Your OWN personal transition from one state to another from the mental anguish of suffering

[@sonu5002]

I heard someone saying that "It's not yours until you experience it "

[@jackdavis6492]

The Drycreek Wrangler is such a w

[@cereal_qilla]

Discipline = the haste vs presence. My life is on the other side of my haste

[@carter3215]

shoutout to goggins cameraman for running with him every step of the way and keeping up. stay hard

[@holinshedian5019]

Looks like the cameraman’s in a car

[@mikeyed1297]

3 months ago I lost my job because I made a choice that I really shouldn’t have, the wrong choice and I still haven’t found a new job and I’m out of money and living off of my mom, I feel like a parasite, it seems I’ve made every wrong turn when I could make the right turn, I’m so full of regret of a lot of things in life and it feels like I’ll never climb out of this hole but I have to, for my sake and the sake of my family, I’ve lost so much and a good chunk of that is because of my choices, I used to believe that I was the one in the right in almost any situation but now I’ve realized I am the one in the wrong in a lot of things, I’ve been very selfish and took advantage of things that only hurt me in the long run because I didn’t just stop and think about the consequences, I can’t go back to the past and change what I’ve done but I can do better from now on.

[@road2success4]

“Patients is bitter but it fruit is sweet” - Aristotle

[@rosharma7443]

Patience not patients

[@road2success4]

@@rosharma7443 thanks that how I know people are actually reading message

[@joshluna1956]

Im back at the corner where my indulgence and comfortableness is annoying. Things need to change and it's scary as hell.

[@Herberberber]

So change it. Today. No excuses, no waiting

[@cereal_qilla]

What dry creek wrangler school video is that at 2:42? I wanna watch the whole thing g

[@papi5377]

Samodoskonalenie to mistrzostwo w świadomości -

[@Jiujitsuspecialist]

What is that backround noise??

[@TheGreatExperimentofLove]

Stratosphere by Duster

[@christiandoupe9495]

Love dwayne from dry creek wrangler school. No one ever throws him in these videos good to see someone throw him in there.

[@erik_star4386]

Song?

[@TheGreatExperimentofLove]

Stratosphere by Duster

[@akhill7952]

I'm putting 99% on the table to prove you wrong

[@b374f15h]

Suffering needlessly is what I read when I see these. Suffer as Christ did. As Christlike as you can be.

[@millionmilestothesun]

suffering is goals realized. but perhaps uninvited, we don't know what suffering is or what causes it it might be the solution to life, it is trying to teach you you're doing something wrong.. if youre suffering youre fighting and fighting is possibly the wrong thing to do if nature has a way its tryign to teach you the answer and the answer is light and should bel iterally that term the lightness of life is the way of life..

[@timmy9332]

lol …. No , you don’t have to suffer , change your mindset and just get comfortable being uncomfortable Develop the vision to see stepping stones instead of stumbling blocks Your perceptions is your reality 👍

[@TheEggroll4321]

Just wait

[@WilliamKalagayan]

lets do this

[@_strife]

More of this. Reminds me of Gravemind

[@TheGreatExperimentofLove]

Song is Stratosphere by Duster. Stay resilient, everyone. Let's clean ourselves up and give people a better world.

[@DaximusRavenStrong]

The suffering rn is making me want to give up. I know what to do but I don't want to anymore.

[@kacythomas1327]

That's all I ever get to do here but not anymore

[@joannboyd8855]

Done that

[@66lawbar20]

Do the opposite of what you don’t feel like doing. Life will be perfected as you go . And others can see ur potential worthiness.

[@Quotes_Authority]

To everyone struggling: You're going places. Believe in yourself and keep going. You're stronger than you think.

[@braydenhardcastle9425]

You. You are always the purpose. If you wake up in the morning and don’t do anything, you don’t think highly of yourself.

[@daianacazon5324]

"you're here to live, not to sleep"

[@tgleds]

Damn

[@tomahgoings9075]

I suffer but I'm not in madness like some

[@Abdullahxtasy]

True

[@GameG-me3sx]

Is unrequited love a goal I can never attain

[@Slidehhy]

💯💯💯

[@evethehamster3079]

A book I recommend for anyone who is interested in this is "Mans Search for Meaning" by, Viktor E. Frankl.

[@Luna10101]

fire

[@joshnasreet48]

2:35 onwards🔥

[@LebowskiUrbanAchievers]

Whats that background drums building track my dawg?

[@TheGreatExperimentofLove]

Stratosphere by Duster

[@jason_Galan]

Without actions listening to these words are meaningless 🎉

[@tedvandell]

Life is a comedy to a man who can laugh at his foibles and life's challenges. Only a half empty glass suffers. Keep smiling. Accept the challenge. It's all a matter of perspective. You can do it.

[@Geronimo7thson]

What about when get out of that void people call headspace just fall into another endless void called love or unwanted loneliness

[@xaviergarcia8274]

Popular sentiment that either indicates people exaggerate "suffer" or forget the "joy" of watching a baby learn under a parent's watchful eye. I doubt a subconscious to conscious sense of "guilt" is involved - attempting to soothe "feelings" of guilt.

[@user-hk8mq3tp7q]

What’s the song in the background?

[@TheGreatExperimentofLove]

Stratosphere by Duster

[@jayson2121]

why cant i add this to my playlist

[@zgamer9466]

I'm told this when someone vandalizes the things I work hard for

[@carlmarc3877]

📈

[@rekt7986]

Hi, what's the name of the backround music? Ty

[@TheGreatExperimentofLove]

Stratosphere by Duster

[@SelectiveFreeTime]

Drycreek Wrangler lessgooi

[@user-zj1kz6mh6g]

I am safe never suffering what I have suffered here in michigan ever again. me and my decendents will be safe from the machinations that influenced these people to seek destruction of a soul's wellbeing

[@devangpatil2080]

Got my final exams tomorrow, wish me luck

[@Slidehhy]

💯💯💯💯

[@justintapp4925]

Who’s the body builder at 5:40?