Did Anesthesiologist Pump Carbon Monoxide into Wife's Bedroom? | Mark & Kathy Wangler Case Analysis

[@kimberlynelson1468]

With the amount of money he made you would think that a plumber would've been called to fix the damn toilet.

[@guest6398]

Seems like his wife's overeating was too much for a normal toilet to handle.

[@johannas.l.brushane2518]

Though I think the overflow was fixed, but the stench from what previously had come up had seeped into the walls, floor so it still was smelling?

[@jeffreybrewer8649]

you must have missed the part where his wife sat around the house all day just spending money as a hobby

[@badlandskid]

I've done many bath remodels, several with long term toilet leaks. Any subflooring needs to be mitigated and replaced if the odor is to be eliminated. Maybe that's one reason they slept in different rooms besides all the other drama. Its anybody's guess at this point. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@sayhello5377]

And why sleep in the room with the stink rather than sleep on the sofa or elsewhere??

[@kleinbogen]

About 6 or 7 years ago in Hong Kong, an anesthesiologist pumped carbon monoxide into an exercise yoga ball (which he also created a slow leak) and left it in his wife's Mini Cooper. His wife drove their daughter to school in a rainy morning (so they kept the windows closed) and both daughter and wife passed out and died on the road. For the longest time, the police did not know what had happened. They suspected the Mini Copper malfunctioned and created carbon monoxide that killed the two passengers. After repeated tests on the car, they did not find anything. Then they carefully looked at everything and the deflated yoga ball turned out to be the weapon.

[@Resmith18SR]

Coroner's Report : Death by Yoga Ball. Maybe a first. 😂

[@Forgottenworlds777]

Insane 😧

[@cindynimmo]

@@kleinbogen omg. That reeks

[@andrewwhite4348]

Nah that never happened lol

[@dcviii]

@@andrewwhite4348 it is real, just Google search “yoga ball murder HK”

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[@darbyelliott2890]

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[@sondrah4642]

I’m from Lima! Thanks for covering a wide variety of cases even the lesser known ones. My mom worked with Mark.

[@AdamVest]

Did she have an opinion on his murder case?

[@sondrah4642]

@@AdamVest she was a surgery tech while he was the anesthesiologist for years. She really liked him and spoke highly of him. She really didn’t know what to make of it. She looked up to him till that point.

[@sondrah4642]

@@JC-kv1vn she always had nothing but good things to say about him. He was funny and overall made the surgery department a fun place to work. No one could have ever guessed he would be involved in anything like this.

[@ohioplayer-bl9em]

Im from a few towns south.. maybe 40 minutes away.. I was surprised to hear Lima in his story.

[@sondrah4642]

@@ohioplayer-bl9em he worked St Rita’s Hospital in Lima. I live in Dublin now but grew up in Lima.

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[@Shemha-Mephorash]

I tell you what: never keep a diary or journal.

[@cleopatra444]

i mean , i keep one but there s nothing criminal on it ….yet 👀😂😂 jk jk but totally get what you re saying 👍🏼

[@twilightgardenspresentatio6384]

You’re doing it right now

[@dextermorgan1]

Yeah but I don't think the op is going to kill us anytime soon either. 🤷​@@twilightgardenspresentatio6384

[@LilithsCosmicLounge]

You can write in one but burn it once your done. Don’t collect them.

[@PoM-MoM]

🎉 If one feels the 'NEED' to write something onto paper in order to release it's anxiety causing issues from their mind then write it down and then SHRED IT. Get a nice dice shredder to make 'release confetti' or into stripes if you want to use it for shipping/packing. Ya know, everything has a multi purpose use 😉 The physical and tension release of SHREDDING your 'issues' is actually a very 'freeing' feeling. You can use random pieces of junk mail or previously used unneeded paper and write your problem(s) onto it in whatever order or mess you like and then SHRED IT !!! Don't laugh, it works! 😇❤ TRY IT!! 😌

[@kenn1936]

if he had bothered to do research, he would have found that a dentist in Ireland pulled off the perfect murder, by killing both is wife and his lover's husband with C.M. and then put their bodies in a car inside a lock up/garage!!! It looked like they took their lives together. The only reason we know that this was a murder, was the dentist confessed years later, when his son had an accident and died. He was convinced it was karma, and confessed. His lover also went down for this murder, although they were not together after the. murders.

[@BridMhor]

Today that would be suspicious. I don't think it's possible to do that with modern cars.

[@awomanmotherw2kids393]

That's because it was in Ireland

[@Kat-s5b]

Wow

[@OkieDokieSmokie]

@@user-th6rh8zp3t Yea this one doesn’t make any sense. Two are cheating so the other two non-cheaters off themselves together? The phone data these days would prove the pair never even met. Let alone had a relationship

[@RyanAnthonyDigitalMedia]

This is just the plot for the movie Stranger On A Train lol

[@seachelllles]

CPR on an air mattress done by a physician is super sketch.

[@sylviekins]

Absolutely! Especially an anaesthesiologist.

[@nixm9093]

Unless she was too heavy for him to move her

[@curious1366]

@seachelllles Maybe the air mattress was filled with the carbon monoxide?

[@johnmcauliffe8824]

​@@curious1366how was it still inflated? It has to be a pretty significant amount of CO to kill a grown person, no way the air mattress would have held air.

[@johnmcauliffe8824]

Sketch but also potentially explainable. Heat of the moment can make a lot of training go out the window, and it's possible he could not move her easily, at the very least safely on to the ground. If there was CO still in the room he would not have been thinking straight either potentially.

[@angelagreen3642]

"The toilet had a reputation" 😂

[@Always_Thinking]

Toilets take a lot of sh*t🙄🙄

[@timhinchcliffe5372]

The toilet was _exceedingly creepy._

[@Cerbera66]

😂😁🤣🚽

[@badlandskid]

And very outgoing

[@timhinchcliffe5372]

@badlandskid they take a lot of crap too.

[@badlandskid]

@@timhinchcliffe5372 not to mention dealing with aholes every day.

[@therealdachshunddjangosmom]

​@badlandskid😂😂😂

[@enterchannelname4542]

Wow. Mark’s second wife may just want to give up, and get a few cats.

[@Koozomec]

Dr level therapist... non the less.

[@aaronbryan5095]

Kinda wild that his second wife's previous husband decided to ditch her and become a transgender woman, and then she end up getting remarried with someone who has a few screws loose. Her love life legit sucks big time, absolutely no good luck at all 😂

[@RCMahones]

For real. She has no luck 🤣😂

[@ohioplayer-bl9em]

Cats are generally better than humans.

[@glow1815]

Or dogs lol

[@lusomarga]

So his lover basically looks like his wife if she lost some weight...

[@GGiblet]

I noticed that too

[@JugglingG]

Yes same thought

[@Le_coq_sportiff]

The ol upgrade

[@nixm9093]

He definitely has a type. I wonder if the wife losing weight would actually have saved the marriage or if that was an excuse in his own mind

[@lusomarga]

@@nixm9093 saved the marriage - you mean saved her life

[@traildoggy]

Well, at least he didn't dishonor his reputation at the church with a divorce. 😇😵‍💫

[@jillturner9263]

Bahaha

[@Woozlewuzzleable]

We know it wasn't about that. Just like everything else it was about money, the root of all evil.

[@malcolmwhite6588]

I know, but the church was involved by circular reasoning as he asked for the Lord to intervene to help in his marriage and the effect that Satan was having so clearly the Lord had a bizarre or ironic sense of humour but he certainly fulfilled Marks prayers!

[@malcolmwhite6588]

@@Woozlewuzzleable how can you know it wasn’t about that? I think it was religiously motivated which to me is the root of much evil.

[@badlandskid]

Hmmmm.. which sin will get you to hell faster... murdering satan or divorcing satan? 🤔

[@Woozlewuzzleable]

No one would suspect the disgruntled anesthesiologist husband.

[@kingcosworth2643]

Or the Spanish Inquisition

[@gregbors8364]

His main weapons are fear, surprise, and fanatical devotion to the Pope

[@catwhisperer2736]

I hope that you and your wife had an amazing Christmas! 🎄 Thank you for a year’s worth of great content! I’m looking forward to what you have in store for 2025!🎉

[@gottfriedmayrock1967]

If you use exhause from a car, you get powerful odor in the rooms. The rescue would have recognition ed the typical smell. If it was the flame of a gas heater, there would be no odor at all.

[@zenawarrior7442]

The smell from the cars may have evaporated by the time they arrived.

[@johannas.l.brushane2518]

​@@zenawarrior7442 But would not it still be some smell lingering in fabrics etc?

[@badlandskid]

No way... not in that short period of time

[@SMichaelDeHart]

The natural gas in America has Mercaptan to make the gas smell like rotten cabbage.

[@badlandskid]

@ even after combustion?

[@shehaw1]

A Dr who can't see that his wife who paid for medical school was severely depressed. Shame on him

[@chaoswitch1974]

After he cheated on her.

[@anhingasnakebird9947]

He could see she was depressed; he just didn’t care.

[@GenX_jenn]

Blame the water heater, but you don’t replace it? So arrogant.

[@neilfrasersmith]

First rule of the Casual Criminalist: Never write down your crimes.

[@Graycy808]

Perfect timing!! Love to listen while I have my coffee!

[@WoodyWard]

Where are you? It was 2pm here when this video came out.

[@ProudCanadian-vv6bk]

Carbon monoxide falls, and it would need to fill entire areas and be "pushed up" to the bedroom. That's why CO detectors are put on the lowest areas of a house

[@badlandskid]

That's a very valid point

[@ss-hm6cg]

Hi, might want to check that statement. The average molar mass of dry air is 28.96 g/mol. CO has molar mass of 28.010 g·mol. CO is slightly lighter than air, but it mixes quite easily with it. If CO is in a hot state, it will rise.

[@Deploracle]

Pro tennis player Vitas Gerulaitis died when the exhaust from a pool heater on the ground floor seeped into his hotel room on the 2nd floor.

[@macknewman835]

I thought the same thing. I once owned a house in Utah that had the furnace in the basement. My kids' rooms were downstairs in the same basement. It's a common practice in Utah build homes with an open basement then to remodel and add rooms later after purchase. The previous owner had done that. Upon purchasing the home I saw the possibility of carbon monoxide building up down there as the furnace was gas. I installed CO detectors in all the bedrooms. My wife wanted to balk at the purchase because of the cost. About two years later those detectors alarmed because the furnace vent was not working as it should have been. My wife never complained about the price of those detectors again.

[@jameslovesjesus2033]

Carbon dioxide (CO₂) is heavier than oxygen (O₂). Here's why: The molecular weight of CO₂ is approximately 44 g/mol (12 for carbon + 16x2 for oxygen). The molecular weight of O₂ is approximately 32 g/mol (16x2 for oxygen). Since CO₂ has a higher molecular weight, it is denser and heavier than oxygen under the same conditions.

[@twentyrothmans7308]

Lousy evidence, but an anaesthesiologist knows a hell of a lot about resuscitation. You can be resentful of your spouse, keeping a journal of it after you've offed her is careless.

[@kingcosworth2643]

Like people who keep the murder weapon

[@twentyrothmans7308]

@@kingcosworth2643 "I might need it again".

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[@Flamsterette]

Bot.

[@katiekarakondis3348]

She worked to put him through school.Why didnt he hire a cleaning lady.

[@JugglingG]

Or man

[@lilchi721]

@katiekarakondis3348 People might choose not to hire a cleaning lady due to concerns about the cost, feeling uncomfortable with someone else cleaning their personal space, not wanting to prepare their home before the cleaner arrives, potential privacy issues, a preferance in doing their own cleaning, or a belief that it is unnecessary based on their lifestyle or living situation.

[@hopeausbyn1734]

🎯

[@Dilley_G45]

Can't keep her place clean....and gains a lot of weight AND overspends and complains about sex....I'll guess she was a nightmare

[@Kat-tr2ig]

This is why, ladies, we don't lift or support a man while he's struggling. Because he will leave you (or kill you) when he's on top. I've seen it played out time and time and time again. Sacrifice yourself for a man, and he'll sacrifice you for another woman.

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[@T91here]

Me and my wife’s sleep pattern has greatly improved since we’ve started turning on Dr. Grande videos after going to bed. Thanks Dr. and bless you and yours in 2025!

[@ItsKrma00]

That sounds odd. Yet, I suppose whatever works.

[@Forgottenworlds777]

I sleep to these videos too

[@kerprice]

He has such a calming voice

[@marjoriemorris5849]

It’s funny, I binge watch Dr. Grande and hang on every word when I’m not trying to sleep, yet I put his videos on when I’m trying to fall asleep too because his voice and delivery are so soothing. I’ll catch myself drifting off to sleep (which is the goal) and rewinding parts of the video because I missed what he said, thereby defeating the purpose of playing them at bedtime.

[@ea8269]

Mark looks unwell and sickly.

[@johannas.l.brushane2518]

Unfortunately Cathy look worse from a heath risk perspective, I'm thinking type 2 diabetes and heart issues. But her weight gain could perhaps be because of stress eating if she was depressed (if she was also poor in housekeeping and spent money to excess). His complaints of her weight gain may not have been from a mean-spirited place. It's sad if they drifted apart if they may have cared about eachother but failed in communicate it to eachother in a way that could be received.

[@macmcleod1188]

He looks the same as he has always looked. It's the lighting in his room. It tends towards the bluish end of the spectrum rather than towards the reddish end of the spectrum.

[@macmcleod1188]

Oh wait never mind. I got confused and thought you were talking about Todd.

[@pikespeak8669]

Creepy

[@Koozomec]

Get a lawyer. Move to a new flat too. A divorce cost a lot but Freedom is priceless. But before that talk like two adults when it's possible.

[@kingcosworth2643]

But maybe you can have the money AND your freedom.

[@deecee2174]

Anesthesiologists like Mark is why I'm scared to crap about surgeries and getting put to sleep.

[@angelicapickle5]

Just don't marry one

[@jenniferruth812]

@@angelicapickle5 Omgosh I’m cracking up at your comment🤣

[@kingcosworth2643]

There are a lot of people in the surgery. The anesthesiologists potential moral shortcomings are the least of your worries

[@gschaaf713]

dont worry his wife doesnt come to work with him.

[@deecee2174]

​@@angelicapickle5😂 In all honesty though, the lack of liability in the medical industry is what scares me. But there are others around to do the right thing

[@zenawarrior7442]

Religious people can be some of the most deceitful & evil folks, infuriating when they blame "satan"😑👿Excellent points & analysis. Thanks Dr G😊❤❤

[@kingcosworth2643]

No different to any other victim mentality, which is rife at the moment.

[@bthomson]

Happy 2025! Best wishes for a healthy happy year! You and Mrs. G are very important to us! Please continue to be as dependable and exciting as ever! We really thank you for all the hard work! 😘🙏

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I am so glad that I found your channel because I really enjoyed watching your videos. You seem very knowledgeable and use logical thinking on your opinions which is great. Blessings and thanks Nidya from Texas ❤

[@moxievintage1390]

And he does it so quickly and succinctly! Most channels beat a story to DEATH 🙃!

[@raymaharaj4502]

To me it’s pretty telling how cases like this often involve married couples who sleep in separate bedrooms.

[@ndi4926]

and kids and inheritance

[@AB-un4io]

Separate bedrooms have been a Godsend during my dance with menopause! 😂 My husband approves this comment. 😉 It’s false pride, false virtue and greed for this pos and most of the other pos people who think that they’re too good to pay child and/or spousal support. Cowardly. Morally bankrupt. Blaming others for the huge HOLES in their own psyche. This case is the result of dysfunction. Deep dysfunction. I don’t agree with Kathy’s having hidden money but..after all..she must’ve felt trapped or as though she needed to hide..money. Mark held money in much higher regard than he did his wife. More than his children, as well, I’ll bet. He’s disgusting. It’s ALL about the almighty dollar!! 💵💵 Separate bedrooms, indeed. Excuses. My guess? You’re feeling lonely. It’s just a speculation. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Take care. 🕊

[@RationalGaze216]

I'm frequently surprised how often people are convicted even when reasonable doubt clearly exists. In this case, police didn't even prove how the crime was committed, which seems like a necessary element for a conviction. No matter how reasonable doubt is explained to a jury, they usually end up using a standard much closer to a preponderance of the evidence.

[@michaelwaninger3155]

It depends how they perceive (or feel about) the defendant. If they like the defendant reasonable doubt becomes no doubt allowed. If they don't like the defendant then, we'll he might have done it becomes guilty. This man was odd, kinda creepy, and said bad things about his wife in his journal (which probably shouldn't have been allowed in) plus he had an affair, although years ago(again probably shouldn't have been allowed in). When the jury doesn't like you you have to prove your innocent.

[@clairevan4814]

Thanks for doing this story I have always been on the fence about it all!!

[@chaoswitch1974]

She put him through school, bore him two sons, forgave him of an affair, but she gained 80 lbs and refuses to be his maid, so she must go.

[@eadweard.]

Interesting framing.

[@Fnord23Gnosis]

Mostly no, but yes.

[@celtdoggy]

Concerned over what the church thinks about divorce but not what it thinks about murder?

[@Dilley_G45]

Yes...not sure what Church he went to but probably he was a bit whacky. Of course murder isn't allowed not even to end a bad marriage

[@tina-mariecrocker5687]

The irony

[@lololnope34567]

Thought it would contradict one of the Ten Commandments?

[@BuzzyStreet]

He performed cpr while his wife was on an air mattress? As a doctor, he knows cor has to he done on a flat, hard surface. Guilty!

[@badlandskid]

Or he could have merely been guilty of lying about performing CPR 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@ickess]

Or in the throws of finding your wife like that your knowledge goes out the window.

[@BuzzyStreet]

@badlandskid That too!

[@BuzzyStreet]

@ickess I could see that if he were just some guy who took crp 10 years ago, but a doctor? Especially a doctor who stuffed a towel under his door? Nah. He's guilty AF. 😀

[@badlandskid]

@@BuzzyStreet why an air mattress? They couldn't afford a bed in the spare bedroom. That part really had me puzzled.

[@vegas9440]

That’s cold blooded

[@tripledair]

The Answer is Yes...yes he did.

[@michaelwaninger3155]

Fact is with a body temp of 94.5 she was dead and gone hours before he claimed to find her and call 911. He did not find her alive, having a seizure and he didn't do CPR.

[@tripledair]

@michaelwaninger3155 that sucks

[@jaqueitch]

I agree 100% Dr Grande!

[@cardinalncube5510]

This is a tough one honestly, the jury definitely was wrong because there's a lot of reasonable doubt in this case. Remember it is always about what you can prove!!!

[@gschaaf713]

clearly it is not always about what you can prove but by the feelings you can give the jury as this conviction proves.

[@theasianjaywalker4455]

there are a lot of places where, if an affair is revealed, then that person is definitely guilty of the murder of their spouse. the jury will only need the thinnest of evidence and its a guilty verdict. (see, most of those 48hrs dateline cases)

[@jabrowski_]

That's a haunted toilet. Great episode, Doc

[@Exar_Kun]

“The toilet had a bad reputation.” LOLOLOL!! I swear to god Dr. Grande’s low-key “dad jokes” make me laugh harder than anything else. The way they seem to come out of nowhere makes them 1000% more hilarious. Steven Wright ain’t got nothing on Dr. Todd Grande!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@WendallsNorthFaceHat]

Grande is low key comedian 😂

[@VirginiaHite]

Thanks!

[@Taco_Raider]

1:31 Looks like Andy Warhol and Liz Taylor

[@bassman8144]

Look at those cool graphics you got there! Our boy the doctor is looking slick and professional😎

[@RavenCudi]

good afternoon Dr. Grande

[@standardsarhy5319]

Thank you for your analysis as always, Dr. Grande. The Cosa Nostra have a saying - 'silence is a friend that will never betray you'. If someone's contemplating this kind of spousal separation clearly it's best not to keep a bunch of written notes describing one's thoughts regarding said separation. RIP to the wife - Mark probably could have used better legal representation - prior to reaching the end of the video, I thought for sure the jury would have found him not guilty - even though as you opine, he was likely guilty in reality.

[@CharityUniqueBlackwell]

Anesthesiologists are the best profession that's ever happened to me. So thankful when I had both my sons. But wow the snoring...I wish he didn't write that but a lot of people snore I guess. I asked an ex if i snore, I think he lied to spare my feelings. I think I snore sometimes and not all the time though. May she RIP I think he married her for practical reasons and the initial practical realities of 1. Academic mutual aspiration and interest 2. Financial burden relief while in school 3. Reaching academic and home achievement goals Felt like love at the time. I suppose there is nothing wrong with those things actually except when there was little chemistry apart from those other things the 70 lbs was just too much for him. Honestly I feel the practical remedies his match brought to the table would be worth it.. But I don't think I'd sleep with someone 70 lbs heavier. So glad I'm not married....thats too much. I think I could love them still as a friend but not romantically. Im not sure I'd even pretend to be attracted I'm more concerned as to why. I think I'd be more focused on why my spouse gained 70lbs after marrying me. Once I figured that out we could move from there I can't live with a slob. She's not able to speak for herself. I would clean but I wouldn't marry someone I felt was gross. I've dated some nice guys and I'm glad it didn't work out in hindsight because their habits were just super messy. I wouldn't have minded domestic work back then but cleaning after the two guys I'm thinking of would have been grueling work, especially with children. No, they weren't gross. It's hard to explain.. But those two would have been difficult to live with domestically.

[@vegas9440]

How was he doing CPR on a air mattress

[@malcolmwhite6588]

Don’t call his wife that

[@maja1746-n8z]

😂​@@malcolmwhite6588

[@lololnope34567]

Unsuccessfully

[@vanessamiller9202]

@@vegas9440 the fuckery he had to even think that would work, right? 🙄🙄

[@Ricoque-u2m]

He wasn’t… that’s the point.

[@cleopatra444]

Hi Dr Grande! will you please cover the incident of the NY subway woman who was set on fire by an illegal immigrant from Guatemala .

[@RAJOHN-ke7mc]

That was a false flag. Look at the video and use your own brain

[@ickess]

@@RAJOHN-ke7mcexplain please.

[@macmcleod1188]

​@@ickessi just verified Zapeta-Calil was an illëgal migrant in the country for the last 4 years. It's not a false flåg. Do you know what a false flág is? The person calling it one above is likely a conspiracy theorist of some kind.

[@Kat-tr2ig]

No human being is illegal. Also, stop trying to push false news just to match your narrative, it's gross.

[@cleopatra444]

@@Kat-tr2ig if you go to Iran or Mexico (and not born there ) you re illegal sorry biden and harris brainwashed you thinking is ok to walk into people s homes and comite crimes and you should get a trophy 🤮

[@Bonnie-cu5hx]

I wish unhappy marriages only ended in divorce instead of murdering a spouse. He murdered his wife and lost everything his high paid job. All for his affair and unhappiness with his beautiful wife no matter how much weight she gained. RIP Beautiful Lady 🙏🦋

[@anthonyvalenti9093]

I wonder why they did not consider a divorce? It may have been costly, but that is life. I divorced my first wife. She had many problems. My 3 sons chose to live with me after the divorce. It was financially devastating for me. That was 30 years ago.

[@taylady]

lack of empathy

[@ZacharyWill]

“The toilet had a bad reputation.” 😂

[@jimc.goodfellas]

0:14 man that was like a mini jumpscare

[@MM-gd1dw]

Hello Dr. Grande! Thank you for your hard work in general, and we especially thank you for your quality research and hard work during the holidays. Wishing you and your beautiful wife a lovely new year.

[@PoM-MoM]

🎉 If one feels the 'NEED' to write something onto paper in order to release one's anxiety causing issues from their mind then write it down and then SHRED IT. Get a nice dice shredder to make 'release confetti' or into strips if you want to use it for shipping/packing. Ya know, everything has a multi purpose use 😉 The physical and tension release of SHREDDING your 'issues' is actually a very 'freeing' feeling. You can use random pieces of junk mail or previously used unneeded paper and write your problem(s) onto it in whatever order or mess you like and then SHRED IT !!! Don't laugh, it works! 😇❤ TRY IT!! 😌

[@SunShine-qk4rb]

Murder is never the best option to end a relationship.Horrific.we may never know exactly what happened but his journal entries don’t help

[@LúciaKitten]

Thank you, Dr. Grande!

[@jimmyiggy5937]

Simple solution: Married and not unhappy that you contemplate murrderr? Move on, give up half your house, bank account, etc and be free for life!

[@miryana79]

Dr Todd Grande,keep up your work through holidays time please. Have a healthy,safe and wealthy new 2025 to you and your family.🎉

[@JohnMack-f3f]

I was never interested in marriage. This story is an example for why.

[@PoM-MoM]

@@JohnMack-f3f Wise man !

[@Littlelikeme92]

Hard same

[@watermelonwishes4193]

Same.

[@WowOafus]

Why? You want to base your life off the small minority of bad things? Do you drive or ride in cars, even though you’re more likely to die from a bad driver than a spouse? Do you not eat food, since food-borne illness kills thousands a year?

[@Tinkerbell.Jumpout]

That's so sad.

[@Tamara_W]

An old gas hot water tank leaked into my dad’s home, it was not vented outside properly. We noticed it when the pilot light blew out, cold water. Soot black went through the home.

[@corneliaarendsen8215]

The toilet had a bad reputation😂😂😂😂 I wish you and your dear ones a healthy, prosperous, and happy 2025 ❤❤❤. Thank you for the interesting videos. Blessings from Spain.❤

[@WendallsNorthFaceHat]

Mr Toilet here. Hello leave my reputation alone . 🚽

[@FroggyBarnett]

Happy Monday morning Dr G!

[@Reading_the_comments]

I saw your comment and had to look at my phone to check the day because it's still Sunday evening where I'm located, I thought I lost a day when I realized Michigan isn't the only time zone in the world. lol I hope you have a wonderful Monday!

[@FroggyBarnett]

@ 😂😂😂 have an awesome evening!

[@timnoble1385]

I always find it funny when an adult keeps a journal. Was the cover marked “evidence?”

[@quinnpaton8852]

Why?

[@jmarie8618]

@@quinnpaton8852ummmm because a safer and easier place to keep your private thoughts and feelings would be a journal on your phone.

[@ickess]

Haha Private, do not read

[@BobbiGail]

If I don't journal, I verbally vomit my life concerns onto the nearest unsuspecting adult. Yikes. Journaling is quicker and more effective than therapy for some ppl. That being said, murder ous thoughts require more than a journal!😮

[@Le_coq_sportiff]

My journal is internal

[@TheSarah730]

What a bizarre case 😮

[@poindextertunes]

Mark used a tank of CO or CO2. They are and have been easily available to the public. Every fastfood/restuarant with a soda fountain has one. I cant believe the prosecution didn’t think of that seeing how the guy used gases all the time 😒 Very shoddy police work. They got lucky with the jury’s verdict

[@robertjones8598]

A tank of CO seems plausible if available to the public as you say. They use CO for soda fountains? I can’t think of a practical use for carbon monoxide outside perhaps a laboratory or as calibration gas for instruments?

[@ohioplayer-bl9em]

To be fair in Lima most deaths are shootings. They have drug and gang issue in that town. Its nickname is little Detroit as it started decaying when the automotive manufacturers all moved out leaving a large percentage of the population jobless and depressed.

[@Tryp-j9d]

It is IMPOSSIBLE for a tank of CO2 to kill someone via CO poisoning, DUMBBELL!!!

[@marycramer2650]

​@@robertjones8598 I have heard that it is used for bug control. Either way it is quite easy to purchase from a gas supplier.

[@jamesnapier955]

Dr grande best analysis

[@jimcronin2043]

I don't believe that the prosecution case covers the 'beyond reasonable doubt' threshold. Allowing the government to get by with flimsy evidence to put someone away for life is a slippery slope.

[@kurticeberg4566]

Dr. Grande are you from New Jersey? I can hear some accent, but the comments you make about living in NJ are hilarious.

[@219cem]

I THINK he's from Delaware.

[@Throatzillaaa]

​@@219cem yes I am pretty certain you are correct.

[@ItsKrma00]

​@@219cem Yes, I think he lives in Del or Vermont but not sure that's where he's from??

[@219cem]

@@ItsKrma00 Ahh yeah you’re right, I was thinking about where he mentioned he currently lives, but that’s not necessarily where his accent is from. His accent does sound like it’s from the New England area, maybe New Jersey? Idk though 🤷‍♀️ I grew up in the south so I have a little more trouble accurately placing northern accents.

[@davidherrera1643]

What a jerk!!

[@malcolmwhite6588]

Well, he had to be a jerk off - because he was sleeping in a separate room and his wife said he was boring in bed😮😂

[@sydneyspecialistperioperat5605]

You should do the anaesthetist who used the yoga ball in HK.

[@OkieDokieSmokie]

4:45 is the biggest twist in youtube history 😂

[@shehaw1]

Happy New Year

[@jimdandy8996]

The journal contents don't convince me of his guilt at all.

[@derek04151]

He only had to leave a door open to the garage for the exhaust to make it's way into the house and be sucked up by the return air vents on the furnace. That's why the fan and towel. He filled the whole house with exhaust.

[@dews3340]

Thanks for sharing today

[@codemiesterbeats]

I remember this case... I vacillated about his guilt. Basically I thought the journal keeping wouldn't make sense if he was guilty, at least to me. Why would you document your extreme displeasure about your wife if you made a conscious decision to off her? Also like you mentioned there was reasonable doubt. The "soot" thing was silly because a relatively modern car doesn't generate soot... At least not to the degree that it would leave a "soot" on a wall. They didn't do a great job of explaining HOW this would be possible. Also as an anesthesiologist, it would seem, he would be privy to less convoluted means of offing her. Hopefully he was actually guilty but idk. This reminds me of a story I heard where a guy was leaving for work, as he is about to leave he realizes there is heavy snow on the road and decides to take the 4x4... He ended up mistakingly leaving the car running and remotely closed the garage door and went off to work and it took out his wife and kids. This may or may not be an actual story but because of it, I wouldn't want an attached garage (that isn't VERY thoughtfully ventilated) 🤔 Which makes me wonder if anyone checked the gasoline levels of the cars or the engine temperatures etc...

[@gardengal87]

I agree with his assessment. I do not see how a jury convicted this.

[@katie0303]

I agree with Dr. Grande. He likely did it, but the evidence is sketchy

[@carolyndavison6095]

The way he threw rocks at Kathy about her inadequacies was very cruel and certainly unchristian. He wasn't a prize himself. If he hadn't been a doctor, he would have to pay someone to marry him. Pretty creepy looking to me.

[@Rebecca-hc5ju]

How is that "unchristian"? I wouldn't want my spouse to stay home and do *nothing* while I worked 40+ hours a week. Especially as a Dr!! Add overspending and overeating (both of which are sins, by the way)?! Heck no!

[@chaoswitch1974]

​@@Rebecca-hc5jui think I missed the part that said she didn't work

[@debbimiller9585]

She worked and paid for their living expenses and medical school for him. Takes 8-10 years to be a doctor. They should have worked together about her weight. She probably overate when he cheated. Idk. He could have divorced her and moved on. He probably thought he could outsmart the police. Idk how he pulled it off.

[@phylliswurm9473]

This was just a miserable relationship.

[@srsusansummers3070]

Why can't people just get a divorce?

[@maureenmartini5094]

Because she would've gotten a ton of alimony and probably most of their assets. He also didn't want to lose status in his church 🙄

[@lololnope34567]

@@maureenmartini5094 fair enough after she paid to put him through medical school!

[@damienluxford4480]

'Doctoral level psychotherapist' 😂😂😂

[@mirrlamp]

Another spouse who would rather commit murder than ''lose face" by getting divorced.

[@chadb9270]

4:53 everything that was her husband died. For all ententes and purposes, she is a widow.

[@tuvia4082]

Thanks Dr. Grande.

[@Tryp-j9d]

So he kept living in the house AFTER “the water heater” killed her?

[@troyevitt2437]

While automotive CO has a distinctive odor, most H/V/AC-adjacent industries introduce a chemical agent which adds an artificial and very unplesant "CO-smell" to the gas for safety purposes. The smell is close to automotive exhaust so that people make the correct association and get the hell outta there.

[@219cem]

Some of this is correct, but a lot of it is incorrect, and I think it’s super important to give correct information on this. CO is the byproduct of combustion in both cars and gas utilities, but it has no smell. There is something called mercaptan added to natural gas to give it a very distinct smell; it is specifically designed to smell like literally nothing else so that people associate that smell specifically with a gas leak. The mercaptan is only in there to help someone detect a gas leak so you don’t blow your house or block up, but this is totally separate and has nothing to do with combustion or the formation of CO. The ONLY way to detect CO is with a CO detector since it is completely odorless and undetectable otherwise. Also, the smell of natural gas smells nothing like auto exhaust.

[@forgiven5919]

To divorce is better than murder. Its not easy but at least you dont go to the pen.

[@basswars7060]

I hate it when my carbon monoxide alarm goes off when I'm using the BBQ inside the house.

[@macmcleod1188]

Yes and the carbon monoxide monitor is even more annoying than the noise from my generator.

[@McGeeification]

Once again, dear reader, we have come to that the difficult portal that sends our loved ones and ourselves to another "place." As was noted earlier in these reflections, "the bright light that was Kathy Wangler has dimmed in this Earthly realm." As Dayle Haddon (Max Factor, L'Oreal, Estee Lauder, Revlon), a wonderful bright light in this dank, dark realm provides a message for us. We must believe in the hidden glory that was framed by Kathy Wangler and all the good buying she did to support the American economy. Always trust the timing of these things, as Haddon taught. "Our coming, as our going, remain shrouded in mystery." Thank you.

[@ChrisLeonard-np7lh]

When I worked in a hospital they called the anesthesiologists gas passers 😅

[@malcolmwhite6588]

Interesting that the state didn’t carry out surface swabs. I’m fairly confident that they would’ve highlighted aromatic hydrocarbons residue that would not be present in natural gas combustion by products but would be if it was from automobile fuel -that would’ve been a smoking gun if you excuse the pun that would have confirmed his guilt further and removed, any doubters?

[@Diogenes1360]

"What did the Anesthesiologist say to the Nervous Patient ??" . . . "Don't worry, I'm gas-ing you up for a smooth ride."

[@Taco_Raider]

Thanks, Doc!

[@martinwhite418]

I really liked thier jeans.