NXIVM is a total knock off of Scientology, except instead of a Tom Cruise they downgraded to Alison Mack.
@kerilyndesiree61884 жыл бұрын
They were grooming females, it was an abuse ring creating more abusers.
@That1grI4 жыл бұрын
@@kerilyndesiree6188 You denying these feminists their sorority stamp may have resulted in you being burned at the stake, is that a gamble you are willing to take? So noble of thee.
@ApolloVIIIYouAreGoForTLI4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I couldn't believe how similar NXIVM is to Scientolgy’s structure, Didn't even try to hide it either!..... Very American indeed
@setofreakinkaiba85534 жыл бұрын
@@That1grI what are you on about?
@NoReligion774 жыл бұрын
That1grl, that might be the best summary I have heard of this loser and his cult.
@joanrankin28274 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your sharp, dry, wit combined with your deadpan delivery. 💖💖💖
@jomarsh64493 жыл бұрын
It is awesome... and I find myself waiting for it... which is a brilliant lil’ ploy... and it works.. makes me listen so much more intently than I tend to do with other videos ... I want to sit next to this fella( Dr. Grande, not Reineri) at a dinner party with a mixture of different flamboyant types.. just to listen to what he’d say under his breathe...
@wendychennault94014 жыл бұрын
I have been fascinated with this case because it so easily could have been me. I have C-PTSD and got involved with a similar organization in my early twenties. The main idea of the teachings in the Executive Trainings I took was that you were the cause of everything good or bad that happened in your life. Early on this was very empowering to me, but as I grew older it became extremely damaging. I am so glad I found good therapists to work through all of that.
@Sacred-Heart-of-Jesus8294 жыл бұрын
Yes, the whole thing around "you are at cause for everything that happens to you" is brainwashing. While I do believe that we do have control over our immediate environment, if a tornado comes along and destroys your house, thst in itself blows that concept out of the water. We cannot control what other people do. Anyways, that's my two cents.
@lorrainekessler60182 жыл бұрын
Good for you. False gods know how to weave truth within lies - that is what is called heresy and it is extremely dangerous.
@joyrittimann98462 жыл бұрын
God is against Idol worship. If one would read othe Word of God, you would know how evil he is. We must depend on God and believe that Jesus is the Messiah and his innocent blood was shed that we, through repentance, obedience can obtain eternal life. If they had read the Bible they might have not believed in Keith as a "god" and realized what an evil manipulator he was. Making one feel that they're not enough. Breaking the women down to serve his own sick needs. God would never make you feel that way. I'm glad that I am not his judge. However, I don't think God would want someone like him in His kingdom! How sad that these beautiful intelligent women were so deceived! Turn to God His Word will tell you what God’s plan is for you. He loves all of His children and wishes that all of His children would come to repentance. He is merciful! He is a healer!! I pray that these women recover and find their way. Watching the Vow I could see what a con man he was!
@GabrielShakkori Жыл бұрын
The ol law of attraction
@KoolT Жыл бұрын
We own our mistakes BUT THEY CAN NE TRUSTING EVIL PEOPLE. 😢
@TNT011gaming4 жыл бұрын
“She believed she caused the space shuttle disaster, but something even more strange, she believed Raniere was a great man”😂😂😂 classic Dr Grande
@ijaripanju34083 жыл бұрын
I was gonna post the same ... figures someone would beat me to it, my drink 🍸 shot up in reverse out my nose . The cleverness of comedic remarks are a signature of his content, I also noticed he knows his firearms wich makes him even more awesome .👌
@woodworkingandepoxy6433 жыл бұрын
@@ijaripanju3408 it's really nice seeing an educated somewhat left leaning person refer to firearms and their parts by their proper names
@ijaripanju34083 жыл бұрын
@@woodworkingandepoxy643 lol yup
@paulbrennan82802 жыл бұрын
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@paulbrennan82802 жыл бұрын
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@laurakarcich14394 жыл бұрын
“Just needs to live JUST 74 years past his life expectancy..” 😅 keep it up, your humor is amazing
@SLITTHROAT134 жыл бұрын
He said is so straight face that I though he was serious.
@virginiacastilhos39924 жыл бұрын
Very petty, I love it
@zemaddonzo35044 жыл бұрын
I nearly choked on my food hearing that 😂
@Lionesse-z415534 жыл бұрын
The doctor should really consider doing stand up. Love the dry humor!
@beepbopboop77274 жыл бұрын
I love how dry Dr's sense of humour is.
@ChristineDaley4 жыл бұрын
So it's basically scientology with child trafficking twist
@bcvids94 жыл бұрын
And branding
@JP-wx6uh4 жыл бұрын
Plus a messed up stupid looking tattoo
@PanicattheDiscourse4 жыл бұрын
So, scientology.
@anaisabel29564 жыл бұрын
@@PanicattheDiscourse 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
@BeGlamourlicious4 жыл бұрын
That was probably the elevator pitch.
@girlygal0984 жыл бұрын
His claim to be the smartest person on earth was the first red flag. I marvel at his followers' willingness to accept his claims and requests without challenging them.
@moniquel62734 жыл бұрын
I also thought it strange that people join these cults that claim to have all the answers for society’s problems whilst only representing a small section of society. If I think I’m in a group that is going to change the world, the group should reflect that diversity.
@stevenponte66553 жыл бұрын
and the 2nd one that he was a concert pianist, and then he only seemed to play Moonlight Sonata, which is the piece every 4th grade student plays to show off to his/her mother's friends!! And in the doco all his followers are like OMG he's the messiah playing piano!!
@lisacurtis81623 жыл бұрын
They were brainwashed.
@wildbillslunksauce76213 жыл бұрын
Why was Keith the head guru? Like, what did the followers see in him that made him special? What exactly had he accomplished that was so life changing and awe inspiring? I don’t get it
@mattheusser13903 жыл бұрын
the most recent "little bit culty" podcast goes into how Raniere used thought limiting cliches to shut critical thinking down. Thy are interviewng Amanda Montell, who wrote the book "Cultish: The Language of Fantaticism"
@amyg24984 жыл бұрын
Can you analyze Allison Mack, victim vs perpetrator conversation as well
@bobbymcnicol98883 жыл бұрын
Yes can you please analise why Allison mac became so deep and comited really criminal offences
@autumnleaves-773 жыл бұрын
Yes Allison Mack would be really interesting
@marilynkennedy82363 жыл бұрын
@@bobbymcnicol9888 She has recently been given a three-year sentence. That means she will be out in about 18 months time. How is that a fair sentence?
@judyarmstrong33683 жыл бұрын
When there is no belief in God their is only belief in yourself .
@quigley66433 жыл бұрын
@@bobbymcnicol9888 “Actors are stupid.” - Anthony Hopkins
@Ugetsita4 жыл бұрын
"But an even more unusual belief was that she thought Raniere was incredible" 😂😂😂
@Green_Eyed_Girl_4 жыл бұрын
Love the doc's sense of humor 👍
@mrooz90654 жыл бұрын
Offer than ability to jinx Columbia. Dr. Grande throws a massive shade. LOL.
@angelabaird71354 жыл бұрын
That one got me!!! Just THE BEST! He says it with the same casual affect as all his insights so you just don’t know a zinger is coming and the unexpectedness makes it twice as funny and thrilling ! Great delivery he has!!
@5541james4 жыл бұрын
I laughed out loud
@marydalton49864 жыл бұрын
Keith comes across in his soothsaying/drivelling as a pluperfect creep and bore. A transparent snake and poseur.
@laurastrobel7184 жыл бұрын
"World of nonsense" is a good definition for a cult. Strange how a " suicide" and a disappearance? weren't red flags about this guy, but that's a testament to his gifts as a con artist. Bizarre on so many levels( no pun intended) Thanks for your in depth analysis of this case
@maristella2874 жыл бұрын
Cant wait to hear this video. I love your words, "Gifts as a con artist.." What a lovely phrase... Has man always been this depraved since earliest history? Or is this a reflection of this time in history...? What caused him to behave this way? I cant wait to learn...
@laurastrobel7184 жыл бұрын
@@maristella287 Yes, man has always been depraved... We've seen it in rulers and religious rulers throughout the ages. What's scary is that these people can be closer in our lives than that😰
@pdzombie19064 жыл бұрын
Comitting suicide, dissapearing, having cancer, getting sued until going broke (and soon going to jail)... You definitely don't want to be an ex of Rainiere...
@laurastrobel7184 жыл бұрын
@@pdzombie1906 No doubt
@CanadianMum4444 жыл бұрын
Laura Strobel Well put Laura!
@LorryHill4 жыл бұрын
Omg so happy you are doing Keith Raniere!
@sarahshon70354 жыл бұрын
I watch both of yall!
@Emxo3334 жыл бұрын
Umm two of my fave youtubers watching each other 🤪🥰 hi lorry!
@doctorajaguar4 жыл бұрын
Lorry!!! 💚
@Vivi_94 жыл бұрын
Perfect amount of likes
@ratherbenapping104 жыл бұрын
lori you’re here too!
@painteroflove4 жыл бұрын
"...when somebody NEEDS to believe something, they divorce themselves from logic and reason and take their chances in the world of nonsense." Indeed that's a real good line, Doc! Buyer beware. Thank you.
@mercychoke44752 жыл бұрын
That's assuming the person was ever married to logic & reason in the first place... ... they may have just been dating!?! 😳🤯🤣🤣😂
@joanneblack76972 жыл бұрын
@@mercychoke4475 LOL!!!
@LibertyDIY2 жыл бұрын
Abandonment of reason, that's mass media in essence
@PhillAndersonGuitarist4 жыл бұрын
One point of correction, Nancy Salzman was known as "Prefect," not proctor. Proctor was given to members when they reached a certain level of coaching.
@utopua4all3 жыл бұрын
Um, at my job you only get fired after getting so much/too much "coaching" - and yes, I hate how they use that kind of language to soften what equates to "getting bitched at"
@icannotpretend58344 жыл бұрын
7:19 "This is why it's important to KNOW word definitions." Dr. G Casting shade like a mighty oak.
@nejm6124 жыл бұрын
I love your screen-name
@gjh92994 жыл бұрын
yikes. The women who were in on this were scary as well
@wiseowlTex4 жыл бұрын
I am horrified and disgusted that women would be willing to hurt others of their own sex for this (expletive) repugnant man.
@joycemarie97024 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! So horrifying to find out that his “inner circle “ of women were hurting so many young women! Nancy Saltzman and her daughter Lauren should be in jail right next to their Guru Keith!
@teresathomley37034 жыл бұрын
@@joycemarie9702 I believe they will be in jail.
@thedarknessunderneathpodca63664 жыл бұрын
@@wiseowlTex why is it worse to hurt your own sex than it is to hurt the other sex?
@wiseowlTex4 жыл бұрын
@@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 Because you are willing to betray your own kind: your sisters who understand all too well sexual intimidation and abuse.
@denniswilson53844 жыл бұрын
Oh man, I love the level of snark in Dr. Grande's videos lately and over the past several months. I'm sure that 'Vanguard' will surely live to 160+.
@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki4 жыл бұрын
What exactly was "Vanguard" actually convicted of at the end of the day??? Grande never said.
@kaorii104 жыл бұрын
@@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki just sentenced last week to 120yrs in prison
@watcherwlc534 жыл бұрын
@@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki Racketeering, sex trafficking, wire fraud, forced labor.
@watcherwlc534 жыл бұрын
@@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki at 8:40 he discussed the charges against him.
@DustyMayT2 жыл бұрын
"To avoid manipulation, all boundaries must be maintained."
@ilyem9994 жыл бұрын
Why watch the Netflix series when I could just wait for Dr. Grande to deliver a more factual video with much less filler
@S_8-3 жыл бұрын
it's not a netflix but a HBO série... ;-) i enjoy a lot Dr Grande's analyse but i wouldn't tell it's better or enought.. i think once should watch HBO serie in order to apreciate ( or don't) Grande's point of view
@lisbethsalander17232 жыл бұрын
Also watch "Seduced"
@davidroper7264 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande’s burns cut like an acetylene torch.
@morganmorse20863 жыл бұрын
That’s very specific and very accurate.
@joycemarie97024 жыл бұрын
I have been waiting for this one!!! I would enjoy hearing your thoughts on Allie Mack...or Nancy Saltzman ( not sure of the spelling) and her daughter Lauren.... I am appalled that these women harmed so many young women!!!! I have been watching the documentary about India Oxenberg concerning her time with NXIVM and DOS....she is a survivor of this terrible cult! It is worth watching! Thank you Dr Grande for your video !!!
@shellyp_va40474 жыл бұрын
Yes, I left a similar comment. I’m very curious about the workings of the minds of the women that supported Keith in his crimes against woman. Would love an analysis on what was going on with these woman!
@helenk434 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Stable_Genius3 жыл бұрын
@Joyce - you're hot as hell.
@londonunderground7904 жыл бұрын
You are the king of deadpan delivery. I sometimes have to listen again haha! :)
@pdzombie19064 жыл бұрын
HBO: Takes over nine hours and two season to tell the story barely scraping the surface of the case.... Dr. Grande: takes less than 25 minutes to tell the story and do a deep analysis... Thanx, Dr. Grande. I probably haven't seen all videos, but I'll say this one is the best of the year!!!!
@sharmoutha4 жыл бұрын
Watch Seduced on Starz
@jenniferz.12542 жыл бұрын
I’m watching the HBO series right now and TOTALLY agree. Full disclosure, I’m watching it while multitasking, but that’s how I usually watch TV and have never had a problem understanding the show. The HBO doc jumps around in the timeline and is so hard to follow unless you’re glued to the screen paying 100% attention.
@johnandersson82585 ай бұрын
If you call this a deep analysis I wonder what your reference material is, if any.
@brittneebrice4 жыл бұрын
My parents were apart of a company that branched off of Amway. I have many stories if your ever interested. I wish you would do a video on its 2 leaders. I know many who have followed them through many business ventures that have failed and ruined so many lives. I dont yet understand how they are still able to run their business and not in jail. They are 100% MLM. Always have been and always will be. They definitely use all these tactics you talked about.
@PanicattheDiscourse4 жыл бұрын
You could reach out to Illuminaughti, she does great deep dives on MLMs.
@katieoberst4904 жыл бұрын
Ahh...the DeVos and Van Andel families...yeah, their story is messed up, but Grand Rapids forgave a lot to build up its downtown area.
@alyssaschwartz28624 жыл бұрын
Message Kiki channel!!
@rosanilebron15664 жыл бұрын
Excellent analysis Dr.Grande. I'm a survivor(spiritual survivor) of a cult like spiritual group that I was part of 21 years of my life. I joined the group when I was very young (19) and didn't have much experience in life. I'm one of those lucky ones that left the group in a healthy mind frame and emotionally balanced. I attribute that to my stubborn and skeptical overall personality, that helped me to not give my mental or emotional intimacy to anyone in the group. Of course, I went through a long process of self reflection, healing and reclaiming my own persona, rebuilding my personality in an authentic non polluted way. It was painful, but I'm grateful to life that I was able to overcome a truly deep level of manipulation, gaslighting and identity shaming that in a very subtle way happened for 21 years. Thanks and to all people out there, listen, learn and never underestimate your gut feelings.
@erikparent81764 жыл бұрын
Congrates to you! I have no doubt you have a relatively high state of awareness, that is to say self reflection! Without this state a person is basically a robot! It's a product of evolution and in particular " individual" spiritual evolution! In physics it's called the observer. It should be called pure observation beyond any transient personality or preferences! Some refer to this as the oversoul!
@sonnycook53464 жыл бұрын
Been waiting for this!
@leMignonne4 жыл бұрын
ME TOO!!!
@sonnycook53464 жыл бұрын
Having people work or do chores is a method that cults have people invest in the brainwashing. People hold on to circumstances that they have a hand in building.
@anxious_and_avoidant4 жыл бұрын
Omg yes, been horrified and fascinated by this case for years
@cozmo8404 жыл бұрын
I've been following this case for a while and am excited to see your take on it!
@zachsaroo31364 жыл бұрын
What I really love about Dr Grande is that he's very informative and funny. When I first started watching these 'insight' videos it was more for the background and psychology part but now it's for the little sarcastic and very funny comments that are just dropped in from time to time. I have autism and I struggle a lot with understanding people and sarcasm so watching these videos is helping me with both and giving very valuable information. Thank you for putting these videos together. :)
@lessismore12524 жыл бұрын
And I thought Nexium was for Gerd.
@lilafeldman86304 жыл бұрын
LOL! yeah I thought that too.
@watcherwlc534 жыл бұрын
it may well be... bad coincidence
@briancrawford87514 жыл бұрын
It is. For those who don't know GERD is "gastroesophageal reflux disease."
@alyssaschwartz28624 жыл бұрын
Omg 😂 that’s literally what my husband said during the documentary 😂💀
@tanjagrafin63994 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@brigittebeltran67012 жыл бұрын
The subtle humor is utterly hysterical, while continuing to accurately analyzing the individual's behavior! Love it!
@tenthousanddaysofgratitude4 жыл бұрын
Such a great analysis. I will refer back to this on my series on skepticism in the quest for life advice. I notice that if you look at most cults - even several famous self development seminars, the word salad, jargon, and crunchy grammar, creates a cognitive dissonance that normally compels a person to fill in the gaps to make sense of things. It grooms people to get used to filling in the gaps and not questioning the nonsense anymore. Before this, Raniere seems to make the subject feel special using NLP mirroring and pacing and an eye lock hypnotic induction, he’s broken down their beliefs and their self-esteem by using their words against them. Then he comes in with The Promise/Salvation. It’s classical brainwashing. Control is maintained with control over their body, social inclusion/exclusion, recruitment mandates and rank, as you, Dr Grande, say, and also with shame or what you call humiliation. . (Collateral in this case). I guess this creates the byproduct of fear. I think shame goes through it all, beyond this singular humiliation. Controlling a woman’s weight works because she comes with a lifetime conditioning of body shame. And oh those flying monkeys! Classic. Same formula, different place: Manson, Jim Jones, and many many self-development seminar systems and many many people with cluster B disorders that we meet ever day. Vulnerable people are candy for these predators. I hope people will be very very wary. The world is facing global trauma. Everyone is more vulnerable. I hope this will help viewers be skeptics of anyone offering life advice or training, right now. Great point about maintaining boundaries and needing to believe. I haven’t seen the Vow but many interviews with Raniere. I’ve seen several smart people fall prey to these kind of situations. Be aware.
@emmamlis9274 жыл бұрын
I AM SO GLAD YOU DID THIS! I love your perspective Todd!! I’m a psych major but don’t plan on pursuing therapy as a career but you make psychology fun! Your videos have seriously helped me with my classes, thank you
@valleygirl25303 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure that psychology is supposed to be “fun”.
@skeletontoes4774 жыл бұрын
Best youtube recommendation I've ever recieved was one of your videos. I can't get enough. Glad that you have so much content to quell my need.
@sun_buddy4 жыл бұрын
I AUDIBLY GASPED WHEN I SAW THIS THANK YOU SO MUCH. got a whole bunch of people who were waiting for this one. it's like an early christmas present
@milesbeler39744 жыл бұрын
This channel is an all you can eat Cluster-B buffet! I'll always be fascinated by their unusual behaviors and unsavory legacies. Thanks for the uploads Dr. Grande!
@Earlybird864 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande: Alex Jones is a crank Nexium cult: "hold my beer"
@mrsapplez20074 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Green_Eyed_Girl_4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@robinross51024 жыл бұрын
🤪
@babygloriagetsomesleep38264 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@briancrawford87514 жыл бұрын
It's NXIVM. "Nexium" is a proton pump inhibitor drug used for acid reflux.
@MattEdwards14 жыл бұрын
"he was hiding in the closet"... Splendid stuff 😂🤣
@ottomechanic13704 жыл бұрын
It goes to show you when you really don't have an high IQ.
@stevenponte66553 жыл бұрын
he probably thought it worked on Narcos - Mexico!!
@MattEdwards13 жыл бұрын
@Steven Ponte Love that show😂
@leannewalker50614 жыл бұрын
Who else comes to the comment section whilst the adverts/commercials are on? Dr Grande deserves that KZbin coin. Another great video! 😊
@soniakentaro83914 жыл бұрын
“They seemed to target people who were gullible, successful and attractive- an unusual combination.” 😂😂😂
@ladyy90853 жыл бұрын
The sessions were very expensive, for people who needed reassurance their self esteem. But what about women who allowed having sex with him and beeing burned? Dr. Grande didn't analized this misbehavior.
@lolodee35283 жыл бұрын
I’m with Grande. Gullible, along with the other 2, is unusual.
@matthewb.71723 жыл бұрын
Actually, that’s not so unusual…
@Patsanford2202 жыл бұрын
Many successful creative people struggle with Imposter Syndrome, feeling like they secretly aren't good enough or don't belong, in spite of their success. That could explain in part why NXIVM did so well at recruiting wealthy, successful yet insecure people.
@singinbluekitty4 жыл бұрын
This was everything I wanted for this topic! You clarified some of the things I noticed while watching the series but couldn't quite say. Thank you, Dr. Grande!
@jockospillink73184 жыл бұрын
Keith Allen Raniere rearranged is “Healer Trainee Link” , “Heal Alien Tinkerer”, “Thank Leerier Alien” , “Reek Inhale Latrine” ,
@jockospillink73184 жыл бұрын
@@orangewarm1 Keith Allen Raniere
@madelainewinger70144 жыл бұрын
I got Roman Castevet and Steven Marcato....:)
@kokujin84 жыл бұрын
I'm still gonna watch but I thought this was featuring INXS...
@Green_Eyed_Girl_4 жыл бұрын
🤣👍
@yoclark27234 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@tserotas-adulthealth44274 жыл бұрын
Hilarious
@mcd54784 жыл бұрын
too funny 🙊😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 (INXS would be interesting too, esp Michael Hutchence)
@helenk434 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@MJubecki19844 жыл бұрын
I watched the Vow on monday and thought “Dr. Grande beeds to do this dude” then BAM here it is. Great episode.
@eduardocesmac8673 ай бұрын
I'm a Brazilian psychologist. I am delighted that your analyzes help me and research new topics.
@eugefederico11784 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr Grande! ❤ This was my request 🙌
@nottabot38434 жыл бұрын
Great analysis! Watching The Vow I found it so unbelievable that people went along with this--branding and other horrid things-- voluntarily. You mention gullibility but I wonder if their own narcissism and psychopathy didn't play a bigger factor.
@KodiJaxAdventures4 жыл бұрын
Doc would you ever be interested in examine the Susan Powell case? And also what happened with her husband and children a few years later? Thank you for the awesome content Sir!
@deemariedubois49164 жыл бұрын
Heart breaking case brought about by a truly evil man.
@StrahhbreeFox4 жыл бұрын
UK here and work in mental health, love watching your analysis of different people, personality types and backgrounds ♥️ Thanks for all the videos, Dr Grande ❤️
@lebrown1134 жыл бұрын
I watched The Vow over the weekend. Very well done.
@janelleyharris50423 жыл бұрын
I love the wrap up at the end about boundaries and self deception. Also Dr. Grande's clever and subtle humor! So fun to listen to, thank you for your insightful and entertaining analysis!!
@nicolem25764 жыл бұрын
“If he could do that, he could live to 162” I’m dying lol omg
@Sonjalynn974 жыл бұрын
I just ❤️ your dry, sarcastic humor. I can’t even get enough of it!!! Keep it coming. 🙏🏻
@AngelsVoiceASMR4 жыл бұрын
Nancy’s “name” in the cult was “prefect” and the proctors are people that went up the ranks inside the cult. Sarah Edmonson was a proctor and so was Mark Vicente I believe the two main people in the VOW
@danieladeutsch17084 жыл бұрын
Wow, dear doctor, this was such a detailed analysis, great job! The idea of adding "What lessons we can learn from this" is brilliant! Thank you very much. You are amazing! Chapeau!
@daverr4234 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, you could almost "brand" someone with that searing sarcasm 🤣🤣🤣💙💙💙
@bcvids94 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@Marcelube4 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Living in Brazil, I had never heard of this man. And it's amazing how many successful and unsuccessful ones like him and people to follow there are around here, too. Thank you , Dr Grande. This was an exceptional video, so full of details and learning.
@volitionVX4 жыл бұрын
I thought Nancy was called "Prefect" ? At least that's what they indicated on The Vow, the HBO miniseries going over this whole thing.
@PhillAndersonGuitarist4 жыл бұрын
You're correct. Proctor was given to members when they reached a certain level of coaching
@angelabaird71354 жыл бұрын
YES!!!
@rachelraquel7584 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you’re right because I thought of Harry Potter when I heard that.
@DMR10104 жыл бұрын
Me too. I’m dying to see what happens to her. Her involvement with the criminal stuff was left out the documentary. Her daughter needs to rot in jail for the rest of her life
@cbisabelle3 жыл бұрын
Excellent and thorough analysis of this case. Very enlightening and helpful too. We need this kind of information out there to protect people from people like him in the future. Thank you Dr Grande. ❤️
@hubertfarnsworth85064 жыл бұрын
Damn dude! Dr. Grande just worked the guy up with a side of crispy bacon. I don’t ever want to get roasted by a mental health expert.
@amyneil55733 жыл бұрын
I know this comment is late, and I’ve wanted to commend Dr.Grande’s thorough research for some time, I came across this assessment, and decided it was time! This case has fascinated me since I first learned of it, so I tend to read/watch anything I find about it. I thought there was nothing I didn’t already know. However, I should have known that Dr. Grande would find out a few things I hadn’t heard about! I also appreciated the timeline provided. I have one tiny issue, Nancy S was referred to as “Prefect. “Proctor” was a level a student had achieved. It came with a sash color and a payout of thousands of dollars. Thanks for all the fascinating information! Amy
@Jeanne902754 жыл бұрын
It never ceases to amaze me how many adults are wiling to suspend disbelief and voluntarily hand over their autonomy to a someone like Raniere. In a totalitarian society, where dissent can have dire, even fatal consequences, it's understandable; in a free society it beggars belief.
@erikparent81764 жыл бұрын
Use me,abuse me........thankyou may I have another! Some of them want to abuse you Some of them want to be abused
@Woodman-Spare-that-tree Жыл бұрын
Life is tough. It’s a relief if you can find someone else to take charge of your life, like a parent would. Somebody you can trust to look after you. Somebody to take all the pain and stress away. Somebody to take all the life decisions from you and tell you what to do and what to say, what to eat and where to sleep. That sounds like a very attractive proposition to me. EDIT. Now I think of it, it sounds just like being in the Army.
@JustTazzdk2 жыл бұрын
I listen to you when I make dinner, clean the bathroom and when I sew. I really appreciate how you make me feel like i'm in a world of benevolent people. Ironic, really, since you cover mostly horrible people. Anyways, I'm always just a little bit nicer, after having listened to you. That's why I subscribed. That and your humor - it really always makes me laugh. Congratulations again on your upcomming birthday and on your first million subscribers. 💚
@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT4 жыл бұрын
Scientology, NLP, AND AMWAY? WOW! This guy explored the cream of the crop of manipulators of gullible people! I am amazed how easy it is to recruit fools into cults.
@mrooz90654 жыл бұрын
They flow from one fraudulent act to another. I don’t thing they would commit themselves to any legit business even if it was profitable.
@bigthonk49044 жыл бұрын
It almost makes you feel like you could make a cult yourself. If it’s that easy then why not
@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki4 жыл бұрын
anyone looking to simplistic answers to the complex questions of life???
@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT4 жыл бұрын
@@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki Everyone who goes to church on Sunday. It's the KING of simplistic WRONG answers to complex problems" "It's God's will!"
@maristella2874 жыл бұрын
YES, And Evil people gravitate toward religious groups and use them for their own motivations. I am not targeting any particular religion, especially not targeting Catholics ( if which I am)or mainline religions or any clergy, I am talking about a special case or two I know of.. in religious groups I joined and I also know that many students of the study of the disciplines psychology are very messed up, sick people who desire to get control over other people. I have seen that close at hand as well. Be careful out there. I have studied Social Work and saw the persons in school beside me who seemed to have evil motivations and were very suspicious in their way of navigating everything in their life, knowing they would gain control over someone somewhere after graduation. Be careful... but trust your gut. Other people have been hurt by Doctors, judges and psychiatrists.I have a collection of books. I have read a few books on those situations and lived through a few incidents dodging most of them. Some people are power seeking, not just attention seeking. Some are blatantly status seeking, and all of this can harm others in their pathway. Some of these people form a hierarchical ranking and store opinions about everyone they know in order to maintain their illusion of superiority, even with their so called friends with whom they regularly meet and rub shoulders. And when it all hits the fan to be systematically shredded in perfectly cut pieces of shit .....you are left there absorbing each piece of flying excrement as it comes your way and soils you temporarily until you pick yourself up and keep moving forward to step into a warm and loving cleansing bath and shower of cleansing and healing.....Healing does happen.
@rullmourn11424 жыл бұрын
Not surprised that he was interested in Scientology.
@jawhussain53884 жыл бұрын
I CLICKED SOOOO FASTTTT! I requested this a week ago 👏🏻
@miraclenichols75914 жыл бұрын
Oh Wow! Thanks for doing this Dr G!!
@spatchmo69384 жыл бұрын
I was hoping Dr. Grande would cover this topic! Hoorah
@polly63364 жыл бұрын
Thanks for covering this so comprehensibly, Dr. Grande. I heard of this on UK news but had no idea of his background and found little on KZbin. You can always be trusted to be very timely in your analyses. No surprise that he was involved with both MLM and NLP. Oh and Scientology, the cherry on the poisoned cake.
@erikparent81764 жыл бұрын
A very general overview of some of these relationships can be understood by listening to a song by the~Eurythmics~ (1983) " Sweet dreams" Sweet dreams are made of these Who am I to disagree? I've traveled the world and the seven seas Everybody's lookin' for something ************************************ Some of them want to use you Some of them want to get used by you Some of them want to abuse you Some of them want to be abused ............................................................ This song played in my mind when watching Dr. Grande's video! Play this song while watching the video :-).
@mrooz90654 жыл бұрын
One of my top tens.
@erikparent81764 жыл бұрын
@@mrooz9065 you have excellent taste in fabulous 80"s music! As time goes by we all seem to appreciate what a wonderful decade it was for tunes!
@violetlove18934 жыл бұрын
Dr Grande i like all your videos. Your content satisfies and intrigues my mind concerning psychology. Love it.. P.s. that shirt is a great color for you.
@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT4 жыл бұрын
GREAT subject for analysis!
@ruthpearsall26183 жыл бұрын
Thanks for leavening all these videos about disturbing personality disorders with your sudden, unexpected flashes of humour. It probably helps you retain your sanity, it certainly helps me retain mine.
@mary-chrisstaples97672 жыл бұрын
Great analysis. I appreciate the explanation of how the ‘vagueness’ of the methods was so powerful - I kept thinking that the techniques ‘seemed’ impressive but couldn’t really understand what they actually were. I’m curious to know your thoughts on Landmark Education.
@basically29564 жыл бұрын
Yay!! I needed a dose of Dr G.
@fritzidler98714 жыл бұрын
Wow. I don't remember this case at all. Great video Dr. Grande. In the end, it seems most cults turn out to be all about the sex. Especially on the founder's part.
@evelynwaugh40534 жыл бұрын
Or power or money. Frequently all three.
@erikparent81764 жыл бұрын
Control is the name of the game with a side order of sensory delight!
@VeeLondon14494 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for this.. Brilliantly put together with your phenomenal witt . Thank you.
@istateyourname47104 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dr. Grande! You were so prompt w/ this one!👍
@lightseeker1344 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video with many words of wisdom. Dr. Grande is his usual segacious self🙂
@abeltesfaye_4 жыл бұрын
"An even more unusual belief was that she believed Keith Ranierie was incredible" 😂 love your subtle humor, Dr. Grande!!
@HavatseletHasharon72 жыл бұрын
Brilliant, amazing, profound and very accurate analysis of Keith R’s personality, his techniques and well described profile of his believers !! Bravo 👏
@rejaneoliveira50194 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, you did an excellent job with this story. The 9 manipulation strategies was quite interesting. This man is absolutely repugnant! And the name NXIVM reminded me of the medication Nexium. 😑 Thank you as always!❤️
@valeriegriner56442 жыл бұрын
Your sense of humor really cracks me up! Love your videos!
@Xanadu20254 жыл бұрын
While Keith’s ability to manipulate is fascinating, I also wonder about his victims. How can people be so gullible and easily lead to do things against their own conscience?
@katherinetaylor52584 жыл бұрын
Vulnerability. Cults often target the weak and vulnerable. People down on their luck, recently divorced, alone/isolated, financially struggling, already struggling with mental illness/prior trauma, etc.
@katherinetaylor52584 жыл бұрын
@@judylee1860 I understand where you are coming from. I was not implying that everyone involved is innocent, but you cannot deny that there are certainly victims when it comes to manipulators like Keith Raniere. History is full of instances where people are brainwashed/manipulated into believing things that don’t align with their prior values/reality. Don’t underestimate the power of hypnosis/NLP. It’s a scary thought, but you don’t always have as much control over your mind as you’d like to believe. Past trauma isn’t an excuse, but it helps explain why some people would be more vulnerable to manipulation.
@katherinetaylor52584 жыл бұрын
@@judylee1860 I think I wasn’t clear enough about what I meant, I’m not talking about women like Maxwell and the women who helped Raniere. I’m talking about the victims. I was referring to cult members in general as well, not just those involved with Raniere. If it helps clarify, I have been traumatized by someone like Raniere as well, that’s more where I’m coming from. Apologies, I should have been more articulate/specific in my original post.
@misolyssa5644 жыл бұрын
@@judylee1860 i’m confused, are you saying that people who are forced to do something against their own will are not victims? i think that 100% a victim as they do not have a choice in their actions. it’s not like they can just disappear or do something else. i’m sure so many of them would rather choose any other options but they are forced. there’s plenty of ways to force someone to do something that they do not want to do, by force, by gaslighting, by threatening, plus so much more. if someone said “join my cult or i’m gonna blow up ur family” well slap my knee but i’ll join the cult
@misolyssa5644 жыл бұрын
@@5O4evr uh no one wants to be raped ? all sex is not consensual unless all parties say clearly yes
@lynnt28274 жыл бұрын
This was fascinating! Thank you so much for all the time and knowledge you've shared with us! ❤️
@tphipps76654 жыл бұрын
I believe she wanted to be called "Prefect".
@sarahsparks38184 жыл бұрын
Yes, and the instructors under her were called proctors.
@Lilysmum4 жыл бұрын
Yep you got it
@billhildebrand50534 жыл бұрын
*a bridge too far* was my favourite comment. *small violations*. Thanks so much Dr. Grande.🌺❤️🌺
@JessHull4 жыл бұрын
This is one I was wondering if you would cover. I mentioned it in a comment in your last video, but incase you didn't see it a video on Jimmy Savile would be really interesting I'm sure.
@PaganღHeart4 жыл бұрын
Yes, as a Brit I would be really interested in that!!
@bcvids94 жыл бұрын
Yes please!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@omdthe93824 жыл бұрын
Great content, as always. Please make a video about RSD (Real Social Dynamics), there's a ton of things to be said about it..
@carolnahigian95184 жыл бұрын
Dear Dr G Please study DR LARRY NASSEr,.why did he molest hundred little Gymnastics girl
@danilincks58094 жыл бұрын
Carol Nahigian, a KZbin channel called Matt Orchard Crime and Society has a great video about that monster
@stevewelson73184 жыл бұрын
Woah, the info and analysis in this video is amazing! I had never even heard of this guy.
@Susemimj4 жыл бұрын
Could you do Tony Robbins next? I heard his conventions are crazy!
@caraOB4 жыл бұрын
Incredible video Dr. Grande. And important!
@ethnasanmartin4 жыл бұрын
OMG! Love this topic. Every time I hear about cults makes me feel a little kinda peace because I used to be in one. I'd love if you talk about cults in general, there's a lot of them and with no religious purposes like you said in this video, most of them are disguised as self-personal growth trainings. In Mexico we had our own NXIVM 🙄 and it is because here those trainigs are so normalized. Anyways, I love your humor 🤣, you kept me laughing during the video! And I loved that you talked about Tony Robbins. Send you a big hug!
@priscila8882 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Brilliant analysis! I’ve been just fascinated with this case and so impressed with his ability to completely twist the beliefs and values of so many intelligent and successful people. Thanks for the vid!
@jockospillink73184 жыл бұрын
Ernest Miller Hemingway anagram is “Hymeneal Writer Mingles”, “Writing heal Mere Sly Men”
@yvonne29653 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Dr Grande .. wish this analysis would have been much longer because I just got done watching The Vow
@finosuilleabhain77814 жыл бұрын
Lot of evil people in the world, but one by one, day by day, Dr Grande is getting through them all.
@erikparent81764 жыл бұрын
We must remember a famous quote, I'm paraphrasing; Why do you point out the sliver in your brother's eye when you can't see the log in your own eye! Every one must strive to become self aware! Then we can be the whole centered humans we are designed to be! A "finished" product!
@finosuilleabhain77814 жыл бұрын
@@erikparent8176 Is that a reply to me?
@erikparent81764 жыл бұрын
@@finosuilleabhain7781 it's general words of wisdom for whom ever reads this post! I Ethier drop a joke or wisdom and sometimes both. I look for any excuse to pontificate! I really dig this group I have alot of fun and i dont make anything personal!
@finosuilleabhain77814 жыл бұрын
@@erikparent8176 Just to be clear, being a kind of buddhist I wasn't judging anyone, just speculating on what might be going on in a series of cases like this. ;o)
@erikparent81764 жыл бұрын
@@finosuilleabhain7781 man your good!
@doctorajaguar4 жыл бұрын
Dr. Todd, yesterday I was searching for this video from you 🤣 cant wait to watch!!
@elleblue073 жыл бұрын
What’s really scary about this case is the involvement of extremely wealthy people who completely committed themselves to Raniere i.e. the Bronfman sisters. They spent around $150 million dollars on NXIVM, and used their wealth to persecute and punish NXIVM’s perceived enemies. And they’re not remorseful, either. 😨
@piachavez53503 жыл бұрын
the dry humor and the takeaways! Could listen to you all day