It takes courage to be MYSELF in a world constantly trying to convince me that as a Black woman there's something wrong with me. It takes courage for me to not "go along to get along." It takes courage for me to embrace the things that bring me joy like solo hiking, nature photography, butterflies, moths, insects, mushrooms, edible plants, and more. It took courage for me to walk away from toxic jobs and choose myself!! I am courageously choosing things that elevate my life.
@KheperMAAT17 күн бұрын
Love this for you
@kitkatbar387115 күн бұрын
57:47 I'm so tired of men getting on these platforms with all there bravado trying to educated someone on something they have no idea about.
@JajaApples19 күн бұрын
How I wish I caught this live!!! You’re having the difficult conversations. You’re a courageous woman Tonya ❤
@kathrynhall113619 күн бұрын
My thoughts exactly
@TonyaTko19 күн бұрын
I appreciate that. 😘
@Christin-n2p18 күн бұрын
I notice, they alway call in to challenge, rather than to get counsel. The others call in to get counsel.
@TonyaTko18 күн бұрын
Chileeeeee
@Tricksterssong17 күн бұрын
Who are they?
@Christin-n2p17 күн бұрын
@@Tricksterssong Broken x holders...😑
@Tricksterssong17 күн бұрын
@@Christin-n2p A.Maslow would disagree, in order to be self actualized you must be challenged. Meaning, You say your an aspect of God, so prove it.
@Christin-n2p17 күн бұрын
@Tricksterssong Oh, you went deeper than it is. Do you want to debate, needing others to ... challenge self? I have an opinion and possibly just some little things to consider. However, lets tackle the surface: Did Tonya ask to be challenged? What were her reasons for opening the phone lines? Go back and watch, if you must and tell me what you see and hear. Lets do that first. Okay. No rush its the holidays.
@TaylorJohnson119 күн бұрын
My SLL from this live is never let these men get me upset when they are off topic.
@TonyaTko18 күн бұрын
😃 Remember your SLL is stated from the positive affirmative.
@Tricksterssong17 күн бұрын
Your response seems to indicate that at one time, they did get you upset? ( would that be true)
@Tricksterssong17 күн бұрын
I once spoke to a woman that ran from a family in trauma into a marriage with trauma,( to divorce) and ultimately leave a boyfriend with trauma. Looking at the world thru the lense of survival, while carrying her trauma from relationship to relationship, she was a microcosm of society. The genesis of her condition( trauma)began with family and blossomed from there, not getting to the root of the problem won't fix the problem.
@leodegoddess2558Күн бұрын
@@Tricksterssong I agree
@kathrynhall113619 күн бұрын
This is a difficult subject matter, to have to discuss. However it’s important one, must be discussed at any light
@tammygarrett842718 күн бұрын
I so agree
@andrearoyal274417 күн бұрын
I read 4 books of conversations with god after you mentioned it months ago. It hit home especially I lost my son to Sid’s at 6 months so the books showed up at the perfect time 😏
@moniqueking477118 күн бұрын
This is you!!!!!! This look becomes you so much ❤
@tripleb196016 күн бұрын
Dare I say 90% of the people in the world have been hurt and abused but perhaps not even half that proportion is abusive themselves. No excuse to be cowardly, we're all responsible for our decisions as functional adults.
@kayleefredenburg18 күн бұрын
Love the tarot look! Worked a half day so catching the replay now
@tammygarrett842718 күн бұрын
SLL It is okay to say No I will not hit my kids or grandkids the abuse stops with me.
@brendaking853219 күн бұрын
I missed this but am watching right now ❤
@tammygarrett842718 күн бұрын
Even if you watched the live reviewing it again is helpful. Tonya is dropping some truth
@lasantisima644619 күн бұрын
Thank you Beautiful 💖🪶
@TonyaTko19 күн бұрын
You're welcome. 💖🪶 thanks for watching and commenting
@iRiseTouchEats909419 күн бұрын
GODDESS 🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️❤❤😊
@DoelowDaPilotman18 күн бұрын
Why wasn't I at This resort 😁✈️ #NationsFlightz
@TonyaTko18 күн бұрын
What resort are you referring to?
@titubamoon19 күн бұрын
Very true
@chocolateme773118 күн бұрын
You look absolutely beautiful Tonya
@TonyaTko18 күн бұрын
I appreciate that. Thank you. 🙏🏾 What are your thoughts on the subject/ lessons?
@teatal181115 күн бұрын
@tonyatko I love this look on you.
@tammygarrett842718 күн бұрын
Happy Holidays to you all 💝💖💗❤🩹❤🧡💛💚💙
@TonyaTko18 күн бұрын
You too. 💝💖💗❤🩹❤🧡💛💚💙
@tylergood377318 күн бұрын
❤❤❤🎉🎉
@nkmloveful18 күн бұрын
@tonyatko can you please do a retreat during tax season so I can afford it. I'm intelligent, but I'm not paid.
@TonyaTko17 күн бұрын
This is an affirmation. You stating your “I Am” statement manifests more of that. I will announce the next retreat in January. So you have time to save. There were payment plans available for the past retreat. Those who were truly interested put themselves in position to get what they knew they needed.