Why Do Men Move On So Fast?

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

Жыл бұрын

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@winning3329
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
Men move on fast because they had your replacement ready to go before you broke up.
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 Жыл бұрын
It’s called codependency! A man who doesn’t know how to be alone at least for a while is a red flag to me!
@akilahbatyah6505
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think any of them do
@chloelageaux769
@chloelageaux769 Жыл бұрын
Very well said!
@EButta71
@EButta71 Жыл бұрын
Very true and yes it should be a red flag because there usually is some overlapping!!
@richasharma1045
@richasharma1045 Жыл бұрын
I don't even deal with clingy people
@MissEbo1985
@MissEbo1985 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯💯💯
@carrolllinda2519
@carrolllinda2519 Жыл бұрын
Men very often move on quickly because they never stop " shopping" for other women during the relationship. So, by the time the relationship is over, there is a lady in waiting, ready to fill the empty slot .😊
@winning3329
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
This is so true 👍
@libra44
@libra44 Жыл бұрын
Yes 💯
@whyherrodere3784
@whyherrodere3784 Жыл бұрын
This is my situation, im so heartbroken 😞
@arikawi
@arikawi Жыл бұрын
@@whyherrodere3784 praying for your healing in Jesus name 🙏🏽
@juicysmith38235
@juicysmith38235 Жыл бұрын
"Empty slot" .... no pun intended 😂
@fancydani
@fancydani Жыл бұрын
This happened to my parents divorced at 28 years of marriage, my dad hopped into a relationship then marriage with a complete crazy lady & he’s miserable … but my mom is still single thriving & content
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 Жыл бұрын
See.....I bet he wish he could crawl back to yo mom.....but that pride is real.....po thing
@transitionsnc
@transitionsnc Жыл бұрын
This does not surprise me. Sorry (for you) that your parents got divorced.
@Mindsetolympics
@Mindsetolympics Жыл бұрын
sounds like a familiar story.
@AliceS-lp3tn
@AliceS-lp3tn 10 ай бұрын
I can definitely relate. Was married 28 years. Same scenario…. Your mom is way better off without him.
@user-mb6vt9zo5c
@user-mb6vt9zo5c 4 ай бұрын
Good for him my dad also made my mom suffer and he left her now his miserable
@truthseeker5941
@truthseeker5941 Жыл бұрын
Most of the time the men are causing the trauma and then they can't cope with the aftermath of the trauma THEY initially caused. This is sick and they need to stay alone until they go through some deep soul searching, therapy, and connection with God.
@charmingcharlie5211
@charmingcharlie5211 Жыл бұрын
Because they aren't emotionally invested like women.
@jessicascreenwritingservices
@jessicascreenwritingservices Жыл бұрын
Bingo 🎯
@victoriaxox0
@victoriaxox0 Жыл бұрын
💯🎯‼️
@hopelove1595
@hopelove1595 Жыл бұрын
They have insatiable desires which, without God, 🙏 will never be tamed. They still need intercourse so breaking up doesn't change that. They'll always seek intercourse even moreso when they are single. However, men have feelings and emotions. They're different from us but they still have emotions. They can be emotionally tied to a woman, love her, dearly, and their hearts ache like anyone else's. They're just not going to go around crying 😭 in front of people like we do. Society accepts us doing that..not men.
@carolineg2305
@carolineg2305 Жыл бұрын
He wasnt the one
@diamondjack-cooper5322
@diamondjack-cooper5322 Жыл бұрын
True
@chloelageaux769
@chloelageaux769 Жыл бұрын
I don't usually generalize but ANYONE that goes from person to person without a break is BROKEN!!! They are in DESPERATE need of healing! However, they will use another person as a placeholder instead of allowing God to work on them! Beware of ANYONE that has never been alone for an extended period of time! Also, ask them what they did during that time to heal and improve.
@winning3329
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
This is why s3x needs to be taken off the table in every relationship. Men who have a high body make lousy partners. Avoid these types of men.
@MsVI-ow4vs
@MsVI-ow4vs Жыл бұрын
Facts!!!! 💯💯💯
@brendaeskridge
@brendaeskridge Жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct! My ex is a perfect example of your statement.
@carmelcapricorn7701
@carmelcapricorn7701 Жыл бұрын
IKR ...
@arikawi
@arikawi Жыл бұрын
Factual information ❤
@IndigoCosmic
@IndigoCosmic Жыл бұрын
They don't want to go through the pain of the breakup so they rush into something else to distract them.
@mileyroe4877
@mileyroe4877 Жыл бұрын
Because they already had another woman lined up to take your spot.
@deliteful1991
@deliteful1991 Жыл бұрын
That part!
@TaviaJay001
@TaviaJay001 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@saltycat662
@saltycat662 Жыл бұрын
The only men I've seen that move on fast are narcissists who never treated their wives well to begin with. The good men really suffer and grieve for their loss.
@TaviaJay001
@TaviaJay001 Жыл бұрын
They be already talking to that person behind the scenes.
@Kellypenelly
@Kellypenelly Жыл бұрын
Men will never completely be single like women can. They usually are always entertaining women
@13950
@13950 Жыл бұрын
So true men never stay single for long … but my kids father he been single for 15 years he says he doesn’t want the headache that comes with relationships
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 Жыл бұрын
For sho....they always got a piece of cookie somewhr😂
@winning3329
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
All my ex boyfriend's had back up women they were hiding at their job's. Then when they broke up with me they pretended like they miraculously found a girlfriend in a week, but I knew better. Men are slaves to their s3x drives and can't go without it.
@karenchandler4717
@karenchandler4717 Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@The1morningstar
@The1morningstar Жыл бұрын
They move on fast because they don’t intend to stay in the first place.
@Alisha_Mariiee
@Alisha_Mariiee Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t give a damn if he up graded or down graded once I’m off you! I’m off you! I could give a damn how he feel or felt about me! And he could never come back this way! Be blessed
@kimsanders8262
@kimsanders8262 2 ай бұрын
Same here
@cheried3148
@cheried3148 Жыл бұрын
The way Tony speaks about men gives me no incentive to even be with one. It’s like women are setup to live in misery with a man, unless he decides to be decent. But how often does that happen?
@tammiedixon6788
@tammiedixon6788 Жыл бұрын
It is indeed rare for a man to be true blue. I'm choosing to be single and satisfied🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@LaBrayeMcKinley
@LaBrayeMcKinley Жыл бұрын
That's why it's better to wait long then marry wrong. If marriage is what God has for us, He'll send us the man he's ordained us to be with. This person will love you as God loves the church. 💌🙏🏾
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
@user-mb9jx5tx9y Жыл бұрын
Rarely
@elianaisrael2757
@elianaisrael2757 Жыл бұрын
Tony is right. Ladies it's not the end of the World. Change your focus. There are so many wonderful hobbies to enjoy. Enjoy Life!!!!
@tiflps
@tiflps Жыл бұрын
It’s not the end of the world to be without a man. You can still “deal” with men and not love them nor give them the power to hurt you. Just live your life.
@robinlewisart_1997
@robinlewisart_1997 Жыл бұрын
They don’t realize that most of the time we don’t want them back. When you get good and tired and you have walked away and are healing . Why would you ever go back. Block them on everything and move on. Bye ✌🏾 don’t come back
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 Жыл бұрын
They move on so fast to mask that pain 😵
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
@user-mb9jx5tx9y Жыл бұрын
Sometimes when you see through their bs, they know they can’t get you so easy so they move on to the next target
@j-tenn226
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
I’ve experienced that. I feel like the sweet and innocent type and men ( specifically BM) have tried to get over me and just think I’d agree to things.
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
@user-mb9jx5tx9y Жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 yup n they seem surprised when you don’t fall for it
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
@user-mb9jx5tx9y Жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 yup n they seem surprised when you don’t fall for it
@peachysweetmusic
@peachysweetmusic Жыл бұрын
There’s no way a person can love you and cheat on you. You do NOT love a person you cheat on
@tiflps
@tiflps Жыл бұрын
Because they were never fully there and most likely was still in contact with an ex or another person. Men cannot be alone.
@missyadams3542
@missyadams3542 Жыл бұрын
LORD..... HEAL THESE MEN IS ALL I'LL PRAY!
@jessicascreenwritingservices
@jessicascreenwritingservices Жыл бұрын
So true! The best decision I made after my last relationship ended was to pause on dating & relationships and focus on healing. Thanks for putting everything in perspective Tony.
@MiraclesHappen777
@MiraclesHappen777 Жыл бұрын
Yes this!! For me too! 👏🏾💯
@kiaracouch9315
@kiaracouch9315 Жыл бұрын
I can answer this because they dont give a dam! Tony these men dont care, thats why they rarely ever apologize to women, they want you move on from their foolery in 24 hours 😂......Tony ya boys just a HOT ASHY MESS!!! 😂
@Ashlee_504
@Ashlee_504 4 ай бұрын
Glad somebody said it
@islandpunch9465
@islandpunch9465 3 ай бұрын
Lmfao yes girl. They so damn lame
@acd1168
@acd1168 Жыл бұрын
I had an ex that left me when he thought he found a new girl. And they got a divorce because he is psychotic. For the streets 😂
@MichelleNagir
@MichelleNagir Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@deneciaanderson4267
@deneciaanderson4267 Жыл бұрын
😂😅
@KL33O100
@KL33O100 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Micahsophia
@Micahsophia Жыл бұрын
Idk why ladies ask this question, you should move on too & not worry about what man doing, move on to a new hobby, new makeup, new clothes, new business, new home, new car, new career, it’s so many things to focus on
@knightyknight5399
@knightyknight5399 Жыл бұрын
Because they don't like being on their own ..
@RaquelJoYT
@RaquelJoYT Жыл бұрын
🎯. And they probably got what they needed. It’s not just that they’re not enjoying it enough they’ll like to have someone to be around. Men are simple.
@elizabethschilling7402
@elizabethschilling7402 Жыл бұрын
Most men don't know how to be alone, unless he has a relationship with Jesus Christ that's normally the only way a man can be alone.
@RoyalTeaNation
@RoyalTeaNation Жыл бұрын
Men don’t move on because they always return if you allow them to.
@Zohra-lu5tg
@Zohra-lu5tg Жыл бұрын
So true
@Zohra-lu5tg
@Zohra-lu5tg Жыл бұрын
So true
@j-tenn226
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
I used to be that girl who would have my door open for any ex to come back and flirt with me for companionship. So embarrassing
@FatimaLuv
@FatimaLuv Жыл бұрын
Men cry in the middle of the night 😂
@learningalot231
@learningalot231 Жыл бұрын
I know that they are crying, those reprobate mindsets, bc they’re plans of destruction towards another human being backfired. Don’t they know God is watching?
@Sunshann
@Sunshann Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@veinswithglitter1937
@veinswithglitter1937 Жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo I just bust out laughing at that too 😅😅😅😅
@IAMAmberJeNay
@IAMAmberJeNay Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the laugh 😅
@patriciacampbell7296
@patriciacampbell7296 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just can't picture that one.
@libra44
@libra44 Жыл бұрын
Women are Queens ... we can go through so much & heal, then turn around give love another chance... 💯 Powerful.. great video
@marysizemore191
@marysizemore191 Жыл бұрын
Yes we are very powerful and men don't understand that. They call us weak when really they're the weak ones.
@ems4202
@ems4202 Жыл бұрын
I love this and I agree. We are real Queens 👑
@gianelogan9841
@gianelogan9841 Жыл бұрын
Brother Tony is NOT explaining what SOME men do he’s explaining the nature of men. I think we are struggling with accepting how men really are. If we accept what Tony is saying we can move differently and avoid hurt and danger. It hurts to hear these things. Yes. But knowledge is power. Luv ya Sis.
@thechic-chat
@thechic-chat Жыл бұрын
Big FACTS!!
@catcat9582
@catcat9582 Жыл бұрын
I feel so devastated learning the nature of men... I have a hard time liking them. They want us to play all of these games to show our value and do all of these backflips
@thechic-chat
@thechic-chat Жыл бұрын
@@catcat9582 listening to Tony has really enlightened me and I thought I knew all there was to know having been raised by my father and having a lot of male friends who were like brothers. I have still at times been totally dumbfounded by what I thought versus how things really are!
@jewelsafire6844
@jewelsafire6844 Жыл бұрын
A man moving on fast after a breakup is one thing, it's cheating while in the relationship that hurts me to my core.🙏🏽😩😢💔💔💔
@13950
@13950 Жыл бұрын
That’s why women should always have a side dude … when in a relationship also when dating she should date multiple men cuz trust these men are sure dating multiple women
@jazzythoughts-maat-ra
@jazzythoughts-maat-ra Жыл бұрын
It's best to just move on if a person does not understand your intentions or your heart🙏🏾💚🌱
@kammie4553
@kammie4553 11 ай бұрын
This happened to me as I dated a man for 4 years and I wanted to be married he said no-we broke up and year later he got married to another woman -i was devastated
@thechic-chat
@thechic-chat Жыл бұрын
It's so many headlines here in FL lately with men taking their girlfriends/baby moma & KIDS lives...it reminds me when you talk about how much of a beast a man can truly be & the things men can be capable of...
@winning3329
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
This is why I'm scared of dating men. I've been 3 years celibate going on 4 and I'm happy.
@thechic-chat
@thechic-chat Жыл бұрын
@@winning3329 It's definitely scary out here not knowing what you may get in a partner. People present one way & turn out to do & say some unimaginable things..
@zero1188
@zero1188 Жыл бұрын
They loss interest during the course of the relationship. Probably try to fix whatever issue in it, but got tired and emotionally checked out. They didnt move on fast, they was over the relationship before it ended
@Clicka85
@Clicka85 Жыл бұрын
Y’all really just out here tryna spread nonsense? Y’all really need to go to the Creator so y’all can heal, grow and mature. Cause lord 🤦🏾‍♀️
@tammiedixon6788
@tammiedixon6788 Жыл бұрын
Laughing u have the right name because you are what you are (a zero)
@angiepeace4830
@angiepeace4830 Жыл бұрын
if they were “over” the relationship, why not just leave? Smells like a broken man to me 🤷🏽‍♀️
@arikawi
@arikawi Жыл бұрын
Okay Sir zero I can see your comment history. Play nice, Sir. The majority of the women here are actively healing, some from pretty hurtful things. Please be positive, because remember the good Lord is watching all of us. Thank you, and good night. 🙏🏽
@andreahoward2683
@andreahoward2683 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this is true, we just want to be in denial about it due to ego.
@13950
@13950 Жыл бұрын
I think it’s more women then men so it’s easier for men to find a decent woman then a woman to find a decent man
@Sunshann
@Sunshann Жыл бұрын
This the ☝🏼
@moniquedavis3583
@moniquedavis3583 Жыл бұрын
This is An ABSOLUTE FACT 💯
@winning3329
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
Men will settle with any woman because vag!na has no face to them. Men don't date for love they only date for s3x.
@arikawi
@arikawi Жыл бұрын
Truth
@lauramapani3627
@lauramapani3627 Жыл бұрын
If you check the stats that's not actually true. They are usually fairly equal and any time there's a sex that is more its men
@BrittanyCaprice86
@BrittanyCaprice86 Жыл бұрын
Most men can’t be alone. Women were made for men. On the other hand man was not created for woman so standing alone for us is easier!
@linalina22277
@linalina22277 Жыл бұрын
That’s what my ex did to me he already had a replacement as soon as he dumped me. He is needy and a selfish person who can’t be alone. I’m good now as long as have God in my life. I have survived this 6 month break up without looking for him because I miss. No more I’m much stronger now then I was last year. I hope he is truly happy with his new down grade lover 😅
@chowbay-la4248
@chowbay-la4248 Жыл бұрын
The mind of man completely baffles me. So much so that it makes me fall more in love with being single. Lol. I don't understand how a man is in so much pain and agony over a relationship he chose to leave. Him being left makes more sense. But to choose to leave and be sad and crying, sounds like a mental illness. Lbs!
@catcat9582
@catcat9582 Жыл бұрын
Me too :(
@juicysmith38235
@juicysmith38235 Жыл бұрын
Men usually only want one thing, and it isn't love.... 🍑
@starbright2683
@starbright2683 4 ай бұрын
I was heavily involved with a man for six years. When I expressed I wanted more: "I was clear. Goodbye." I was shocked to say the least. When they don't love you, THEY DON'T LOVE YOU.
@DD-mg2se
@DD-mg2se Жыл бұрын
On behalf of myself, those who are scared to say it, forgot to say it and may be ashame to say it... we'd like to thank you wholeheartedly for extending the date on the courses. We do appreciate you and all your hard work. Thanks again for everything. Be blessed.
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 Жыл бұрын
“Does he regret it? Only if she’s not an upgrade.” TG
@mbrook4983
@mbrook4983 Жыл бұрын
Listen Ladies!!!! This is so true I’ve taken myself through this twice. Listening to cousin Tony over the last 3 years he broke it all down what I knew but made it confirmed that men do this because they are not emotionally stable
@queensun6059
@queensun6059 Жыл бұрын
👸yes.this!👏agreed. the beyond despicable things bm males do is psycho evil👹! lying🤥, cheating, using beating, low-down, toxic, abusive, degenerates, colorist all while smiling in ur face & want to s-ex u, then treating u like trash behind ur back (& to ur face) like ur not human, w/o feelings, they don't care about u nor treatn u horrible? most black men have incurable mental disorders🤮, devoid of ever being a king🤴providing & protecting bw (& kids). i've given up ever dating another bm 🙄esp. from a broken home (like most of them are), with no strong marriage, loyalty, integrity, faith, family & God first character, morals & values. 😌good luck & my condolences🤣 (metaphorically only!) to whomever he's with & thank u Lord it ain't 🙏me.
@nictawandaful
@nictawandaful Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this as a man. I feel this. Men do struggle & are sensitive. As women we have way more endurance and show more of unconditional love. Lord knows we have our flaws, but we carry so much forgiveness, favor and grace; we love deeply & are not so easy to let go especially towards our men. As a single woman missing someone, I know too I have to be strong enough not to break. I still pray for him & love him regardless. I don't know what my future holds. I simply pray my strength🙏🏽
@brownshugakale2410
@brownshugakale2410 Жыл бұрын
Cultivate individual relationship with GOD - only He knows the road ahead 🙏🏾... Heal and be WHOLE. All of the mind games, the web of lies, the triple lives folks trying to sustain...sheesh ! Idk why its so hard to do the right thing and stop being a fraud. That's self-hate at its best...."let love be without hypocrisy" Romans 12:9
@thechic-chat
@thechic-chat Жыл бұрын
This just helped me rid some anger with understanding 💪🏾
@MeeMeeG
@MeeMeeG Жыл бұрын
Yup
@kittenmayz611
@kittenmayz611 Жыл бұрын
Because they don’t invest as much into a relationship like women do
@deliabass5214
@deliabass5214 Жыл бұрын
That will always be a million dollar question …. Seen it first hand myself. Had many male family members bury their wives. Next thing you know they’ve already have a lady friend/about to tie the knot. I’m thinking to myself, “Damn, your other lady is still lukewarm” in the ground. Even if a death hasn’t occurred; you look up and the guy is already with someone else. Some folks holler about women being needy, etc. I don’t know about that….because some men move real quick…they don’t even have to be over the last person. Low key, some still trying to “get back”….but yeah, I would like a valid answer to this question….not really sure why if it’ll ever be one though…
@pamelabrown1708
@pamelabrown1708 Жыл бұрын
This happened to me recently about a month ago, I was pursued for months and then just blocked! I wish him nothing but the best. I know he wasn't supposed in my life in the first place. I was nothing but patience and kind to this person. I wasn't enough for him and I'm ok with that! What I'm not ok with is the nerve of him thinking that's it ok to keep injection himself into my life when he's in a new relationship and tell me he's my soul mate!
@MWisdomWisdom
@MWisdomWisdom Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS BECAUSE THAT JUST MEANS HE WASN'T FOR ME 🙌🤞.
@decoratingwithrochelle2101
@decoratingwithrochelle2101 Жыл бұрын
Great message
@Msbee5289
@Msbee5289 Жыл бұрын
This is excellent!!
@cianiregina1342
@cianiregina1342 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is exactly what I needed to hear
@tansz8092
@tansz8092 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Mr. Gaskins 👍🏾
@Indigothemamii
@Indigothemamii Жыл бұрын
Aww you a real one for this fr
@DeniseM4698
@DeniseM4698 Жыл бұрын
GAME!!! Thank you Tony!
@mangoesnbreadfruit01
@mangoesnbreadfruit01 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this information, Tony 🙏🏽
@szz6629
@szz6629 Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Thanks for not making it too long but just right length and detailed.
@bridgettebianca2318
@bridgettebianca2318 Жыл бұрын
My dad did this with a woman who just wanted his life insurance policy and she gave him something to exasperate a heart attack, where he died…had only been with her 4 months, was married to my mother for 30+ years 🤦🏼‍♀️
@mzyotruthnlove8263
@mzyotruthnlove8263 Жыл бұрын
@Tony this is very insightful.
@PinkHypatia
@PinkHypatia Жыл бұрын
This was powerful insight.
@qscott888
@qscott888 Жыл бұрын
🙌🏽 We def need to take the time to heal
@myjunior0109
@myjunior0109 Жыл бұрын
You put it all together for me. You are 100!percent correct!
@Ovlelord
@Ovlelord Жыл бұрын
Thank you tony the world truly needs you
@ednaidatipote5602
@ednaidatipote5602 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony, I learnt a few things
@dlove7646
@dlove7646 Жыл бұрын
Tony gaskins i love ur videos you the truth 💯👌
@Ms.Chapp3y
@Ms.Chapp3y Жыл бұрын
☝🏿☝🏿💯💯. Thank you Universe.
@MsChristianr
@MsChristianr Жыл бұрын
Haven't watched yet just wanted to say loving the background. You're place it really coming along looks very nice.
@SylviaLoveJones
@SylviaLoveJones 9 ай бұрын
This is good info. 💯 The comments are 🔥 too.
@abigailkamara2675
@abigailkamara2675 Жыл бұрын
My son dad did me so dirt when I was in the hospital 😭 he was sleeping around and said I was canceled while in labor now he in jail I changed my number before I did he was talking about starting all over again and he said I should trust myself so I changed my number we haven't spoke since January 14 up to now our son is about to be one it's hard but I'm doing my best every time to stay strong his about to walk. I be thinking why did he do me like he did
@dianamadison1623
@dianamadison1623 Жыл бұрын
😂❤❤ it. Much needed info.
@Gonegonegonee
@Gonegonegonee Жыл бұрын
First 🎉thank you for your work
@Nikkiole84
@Nikkiole84 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for this.
@savvyAKAgyrl
@savvyAKAgyrl Жыл бұрын
This is good!
@emaf.
@emaf. 10 ай бұрын
I enjoy these talks. Even if it’s hard to hear it. Thank you Tony!
@Itsnurselo2you
@Itsnurselo2you Жыл бұрын
@TonyGaskins in one of your videos I watched last year you said woman should not play with men and cheat on them because they respond so differently I tell you boy Tubi TV has a movie on there called “GoodMan” that movie is a movie that should be in theaters to show individuals why we should not be out here playing with each others emotions and feelings great movie and a lesson as well
@pearl-leegates9812
@pearl-leegates9812 Жыл бұрын
Yes a good movie
@whit9560
@whit9560 Жыл бұрын
I seen that movie too, and yes he right ! that movie was a real example of what happens and or what can happen in real life
@djeque1200
@djeque1200 Жыл бұрын
THANKS TONY
@kimberlybarry8357
@kimberlybarry8357 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Very informative
@ericahenderson2425
@ericahenderson2425 8 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much!
@iloveangelmonroe4864
@iloveangelmonroe4864 Жыл бұрын
It's been a while since I've watched your video ❤ I've strayed away to the city life but I am happy to be back to my inner woman power 😂😢
@vanillaconover3484
@vanillaconover3484 Жыл бұрын
Great content explaining a man🇵🇦
@KhaliahAli
@KhaliahAli Жыл бұрын
So much wisdom Brother! Let the Lord use you! Not taken for granted.
@jamein545
@jamein545 Жыл бұрын
One person I like to listen to wen it comes to advice
@battstiff
@battstiff Жыл бұрын
I listened to this four times a true wisdom message. Thank you, Tony
@rubies012
@rubies012 Жыл бұрын
Hello Mr. Gaskins, thank you for sharing! I can sleep better now that I got some answers to healing. So thank you sir🙂🤩
@naureenwalji485
@naureenwalji485 2 ай бұрын
this video has healed me alot. thank you so very much
@IAMAmberJeNay
@IAMAmberJeNay Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video and thank you for always showing up for us! You have taught me SO much since subscribing to you in 2020! Your videos on relationships and business (really all of them) and your entrepreneurship to purpose course has taught me a lot and has motivated me to follow my purpose! I know you say don’t praise you but I just wanted to sincerely thank you and your family because y’all are a beautiful representative of what we all can obtain! GOD (YAHWEH) bless you TG!
@naomibrown8133
@naomibrown8133 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Tony🙌🏽 after putting my foot down and wanting better for myself. He goes and gets somebody 10 yrs younger than me. He’s 42 she just turned 25. Not gonna lie I def took a blow on this one. But im standing my ground I’ve completely blocked him and I’ll just focus on healing and starving out this soul tie. I REFUSE to go back 😩😩😩
@la6136
@la6136 Жыл бұрын
I really want to know what these young women are thinking when they waste their youth on old men. When I was 18-25 I had tons of older men hit on me and I thought they were disgusting. You didn't lose anything special don't even sweat it. He sounds like a dirty old pervert.
@missede96
@missede96 Жыл бұрын
That’s why you date older men. I’m 26 and 42 is on the low range for me.
@naomibrown8133
@naomibrown8133 Жыл бұрын
@@la6136 thank you.🙌🏽 I’m equally disgusted and all he did was as make the breakup even more solid.
@naomibrown8133
@naomibrown8133 Жыл бұрын
@@missede96 men interested in dating you at this age….major red flags and you are in a for a treat. They are looking for someone they can control and manipulate while you’re oblivious to it thinking you hit gold. This poor young lady has no idea what she is in for. I barley escaped with my mental health in tact. There are things you won’t even understand ay your age.
@n.Lenice
@n.Lenice Жыл бұрын
​@Naomi Brown Very well said. 😊 People who only want to date those who are _significantly_ younger than them wants someone they can parade around and prey on. Yes, there are exceptions as Tony states, but once that age gap widens to where he/she could be the parent of the people they seek to date that's lunacy. I can't even look at men 20 years younger than me and think they are anything other than cute. So much perversion in this world.
@soblessed_21
@soblessed_21 Жыл бұрын
These videos are extremely helpful🙏🏾
@kimberlymay9497
@kimberlymay9497 Жыл бұрын
They really are, a lot we know but these videos be the confirmation we really need ❤ can’t talk with everybody.
@fishstickbio594
@fishstickbio594 Жыл бұрын
Yes ….for this reason only ….forever I don’t TRUST no man .🤷🏻‍♀️ thank you for this validation from you ….stalking anyone is a CRIME . DV and coercive control is a CRIME as well .
@naureenwalji485
@naureenwalji485 2 ай бұрын
this is the video I needed to understand what happened thank u so much. there is peace in my heart
@bibletlk
@bibletlk Жыл бұрын
So many nuggets! So much wisdom . Thank you, Tony! “Someone once told me sometimes you are the lesson someone needs to go through to change who they are” .. and this doesn’t mean they’ll come back when they do- that’s the hardest part about losing/walking away from someone you love. enduring the pain of healing from the heartbreak, seeing them move on, and then seeing them finally change & treat someone better than how they treated you; hard pill to swallow but the most rewarding because it teaches us lessons & prepares us for hopefully a better relationship (if we do the work we need to do in ourselves, of course) 🙏🏽 be blessed!
@Sunshann
@Sunshann Жыл бұрын
Because that’s easier than working on their effed up characters Because they look to women to heal them and make them happy Because they need someone to ma$turbat3 in Because they like to convince themselves you were the problem
@deliteful1991
@deliteful1991 Жыл бұрын
All of these!
@bridgetteteapp
@bridgetteteapp Жыл бұрын
I left my ex and about 4 weeks later he came into my work ( I was off this day) on a date lol. Thankfully we were only together a month and had basically no soul tie. A few days after we broke up he followed about 60 new accounts on Instagram. All women. Yes I stalked him just a tad 😅 I don’t know if he was entertaining anyone else while we were together but he sure is trying to prove a point lol smh.
@Sunshann
@Sunshann Жыл бұрын
The only point he’s proving is that he is very broken
@catalinascloset5808
@catalinascloset5808 Жыл бұрын
This is really good
@therestorationcircleintlps760
@therestorationcircleintlps760 Жыл бұрын
@Tony thank you. This help me by sending this to my daughter after her questions about her Father's choices. Also I'm not understanding why others seem to have the answers in the comments but the questions are posed to you. Its not good to assume.
@Fay1106
@Fay1106 Жыл бұрын
So glad to see you on MTV Couple's Retreat you did your thanggggg Tony 👏🏽
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 Жыл бұрын
Yo name is cool....like mine 😅
@carolynmeadows422
@carolynmeadows422 Жыл бұрын
I would have loved to see it. When was he on there, thank you❤
@Fay1106
@Fay1106 Жыл бұрын
@@beefaye6861 yess haha 😂
@Fay1106
@Fay1106 Жыл бұрын
@@carolynmeadows422 this first episode you will see him on there but the second episode he does more speaking
@joiagenae
@joiagenae Жыл бұрын
​@@donnalevier5210 it's on MTV
@carmelcapricorn7701
@carmelcapricorn7701 Жыл бұрын
Because they chose 2. Been tired of the relationship.... One way to get over relationship quick and fast. 2 each their own..
@learningalot231
@learningalot231 Жыл бұрын
But they don’t really get over the relationship bc they don’t give themselves time to reflect and heal, they continue to do the same in the next relationship, all that baggage, and want to put all the blame on women past/present. Then when they get older and that certain thing/health declines on their bodies then they say/pretend to want to settle down but really they are looking for a nursemaid, hopefully with her own bag that they can siphon off of pretending, still carrying that baggage, future faking, etc. till the end of their time with most not having insurance or a positive legacy for their children.
@-glitch-8195
@-glitch-8195 Жыл бұрын
Honey they don't ever get over the relationship. They bury it and one day it will come to surface. They get "tired" even if nothing is happening. They rationalize their behavior by claiming they have to get hurt to "build character" and "get it out of their system". But one day it will come to surface. They will call their ex and ask her to take him back. Turns out other females are not checking for them they way they thought they would. Their rush to get into another relationship or become hypers*xual was just a coping mechanism. Honestly, most of them should've married a woman they knew a long time ago, but they didn't. God forbid a woman does the same thing to them, all hell breaks loose and his manhood is under attack 😂😂😂😂 They're hella emotional and conflicted. I'm not even Christian, but as someone who does follow an Abrahamic faith, I can tell you, someone can tell themselves that they've "moved on", but God won't let you "move on". And they seem to forget that. They be telling you women hit the wall, meanwhile these men out here are hitting the great wall of China 😂😂😂😂
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