Be Careful Who You Marry!

[@misskaykayRSA]

A successful billionaire once said: “The most important decision you will ever make is who you choose to marry. It affects every aspect of your life more than we’d like to admit.”

[@onetallgirl1369]

I saw that video of that successful billionaire! It's so true!

[@Bella_M26]

This 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@j-tenn226]

Do you know their name?

[@montricec8795]

My mom used to tell me to ALWAYS keep my credit good, have a couple of emergency credit cards, a good car, and some cash on hand.

[@speakyourtruth4978]

I tell my daughters the same thing

[@montricec8795]

@speakyourtruth4978 I live by that too!

[@sagba947]

No wonder my mama always kept 2 cars my whole life good credit as well

[@enaiabullard3979]

This is basic 101 kindergarten entry levell😬

[@ladynottingham89]

If there’s anything I’ll take with me forever will be those words from your grandma “want who wants you, not who you want”. I learned that the hard way, but I’ll pass it on to my daughter.

[@Whitneylaurel742]

Easier said than done. In theory we want that to be true but you can’t push/fake love--that’s how resentment creeps into a relationship.

[@kam.kam.]

Same advice my mother gave me that was passed down from her dad. It’s sooooooo hard to “just take” a man because he likes you but you would rather join a convent than lay w him in love and joyful servitude.

[@malimaterial]

@@Whitneylaurel742 I think resentment can creep in either way. It comes down to a pure heart & pure intentions.

[@pennyrs29]

@Whitneylaurel742 it's not about fake love sweetheart. It's about not chasing the affections of someone who shows they don't want you, but you desire them. Women end up chasing men all the time for this reason. Only allow suitors in your dating pool who actually prove they want you and then choose who you like from those. ❤️

[@lavichawilson3719]

Been waiting until marriage for years . Im27 now, and I don’t regret it. I’ve been saving my self since 16, and I will continue to.

[@j-tenn226]

Does it make dating more difficult

[@pennyrs29]

That's wonderful! Keep going. Sex only distorts your view when you're vetting potential suitors. I wish more women would make this the standard

[@ms.lisashelton2582]

"Nobody is above being bamboozled." You better speak sir! And it can happen to anyone. I pray more people who need this message get the opportunity to view it.

[@shereewhite4828]

●Dr. Gaskins explains what "ya'll gotta forgive me nah" means, 😂then after explaining says...."ya'll gotta forgive me nah!" 👏🏽Today 1/11/25 is my 11th year of being abstinent. I know that there are many women who have been abstinent way longer than me, but I just want to encourage ladies no matter their age, that it's ok to be abstinent until marriage. I'm two weeks away from my 56th birthday.🎂🎉🎈🎊

[@lisasmilez]

😂😂😂😂😂 I hollered after he said that

[@shereewhite4828]

@lisasmilez Ikr!😂😂😂

[@Nikita_848]

Lots of ppl marry for the wrong reasons...and then down the road, that's when the penny drops

[@AA-dc6go]

Ladies for knowledge share - in some countries you cannot proceed getting married without both partners getting a sexual health screening (which covers STI/STD’s). I really recommend taking this precaution before marriage.

[@cherylp9963]

@@AA-dc6go yep I remember wasn't too long ago........

[@j-tenn226]

What countries?

[@TheindyG]

Yes ! I've been celibate a little over a year now because I'm not into casual sex anymore, I just desire to do BETTER now... waiting on my husband ❤ pray fuh me 😂 it ain't easy but I know it's worth it ...

[@drgibson4308]

🙌🏾🙌🏾 😂 Just know that’s your test when you get that “urge” remember what Mr. Gaskins says “it’s not oxygen you don’t need it”. Keep being abstinent! It’s definitely worth the wait ♥️

[@lerhondajones-bates3324]

@@drgibson4308😂😂😂😂

[@VanSheGoes]

It's easy sis, if you feel you're worthy of the best, you'll wait for the best, I've been single since 02/2018 and dating hasn't been on mind, you invest in yourself, treat yourself the way you want to be treated, dress how you want to be addressed and your husband will find you, don't look for him, be ready for him

[@onetallgirl1369]

proud of you sis! Keep going, you are on the right track being celibate!

[@kam.kam.]

It gets easier. Think of how grateful you’ll be at the doctor’s office and when you see dating horror stories that you KNOW no longer bother your life, heart and health. And you save a little repentance. 😂

[@tishstripletsthenewadditio575]

I’m definitely going to stay tuned for you & your dad’s Bible study. I’m looking forward to it.

[@driaaxxo8663]

I always feel so much joy when you talk about your wife. Its so amazing seeing a man truly care for and love a woman. I didn't grow up seeing that. I hope to have that one day😊

[@sadiaforfun]

❣💛🧡

[@Blu-om]

Empathy is high emotional intelligence when paired with faith and discernment.

[@Visionary79-m2t]

Tony ain't playing this Season!! Let the Lord use you T!! Thanks for this amazing word!

[@CourtneyB]

25:28 Not the rapture coming in the middle of you lyin on the phone with the bank 🤣

[@charlisewitcher1219]

That had me lol so hard because folks do exactly what he saying 😂😂😂😂

[@JaySmith.]

I’d like the fasting challenge group. I fast myself but being able to do it with others is encouraging to push through and overcome.

[@yx5991]

Yes that’s true we have to remember we’ve all made bad decisions and just because we’ve learned the lesson and changed doesn’t change we once made a bad choice.

[@anicialugo8997]

Your advice is always Golden TONY!!!!!

[@silentdreams2415]

Brother, say it louder for the people in the back! May u succeed in every aspect of life! Amen brother! Greetings from the Netherlands..

[@deneciaanderson4267]

I always say be careful who you marry and who you have kids with. I'm glad I'm single and God got a hold of me before I made more stupid decisions because of my brokenness. Forever grateful 🙏 not the same woman I was 10 years ago 😭

[@ambermedlock9004]

Amen sis, there is a reason God has us to wait, it's better to wait on the Lord. Keep the faith it will happen in due season

[@deneciaanderson4267]

@@ambermedlock9004 that's it! He makes everything beautiful in his time. I met a lot of women and men who didn't wait so I know God is showing me to trust and wait. With that being said let's catch these flights ✈️ not feelings lol.

[@jessicalynn9563]

@deneciaanderson4267 same here sis! God is simply amazing to us for shielding 🙏🏾

[@lwarfield52]

Gurl! You said a mouth full be careful who you have kids with! That's important and valuable information. Thank you.

[@profmj7630]

Well said...

[@TamBella80]

If I don’t hear the “y’all gotta forgive me now”, how do I know it’s a TG video? OG fans already know the vibes 🎉

[@Sugarput1]

Sorry i am missing it Tony I was having phone issues

[@misguidedpearls7456]

😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@manisymone8622]

😂❤

[@divinebydesignladyrenee]

😂😂😂😂 Exactly

[@yerushalom87]

😂

[@a.a.12945]

Yes please Tony to the singles group !!! I’ve recently been struggling to keep up the body/fashion/lifestyle and working on my goals because it can be a lonely journey! When u reach the goals and then nothing outside of u changes it’s hard to stay focused. Especially as a single parent. You want to give up on yourself. Would love to see other singles and be held accountable!! Amazing idea

[@creativegemarts]

Thank you Tony , I’m Single in my 30’s and getting it together ! This is exciting 🎉

[@zilimude8759]

Watching from Zambia 🇿🇲, thank you Mr Gaskins for your daily dose of wisdom. I am addicted to your content. Your videos are the highlight of my day.. What a time to be alive. You are a blessing to mankind, keep doing the Good work 🙏🏽 God Bless.

[@dianemilitello1407]

I don't want to be disrespectful, I must say you have beautiful eyes, I have to say I was married over 30 years, I am a widow now, I am not looking for anyone I just want to say it does make a difference who you Marry, you have to be very careful of you you meet, if the man don't have God in his life you better get away from him because he don't mean you any good!

[@linw5643]

I love how TG is able to dream and come up things that will bless others. It inspires me to dream big🎉🎉

[@haleycamille]

He who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished Proverbs 17:5

[@joiagenae]

I saw a lady say online the other day that she's on the verge of being evicted but was on a dating show and still wants to date smh. It's sad how desperate ppl are

[@RFonyeaBlackmon]

I am so happy that I am celebrating 30 years of marriage and that I don't have to date in these days of time. I have only one friend from highschool that is married. I hear all about these dating issues and about their desire to be married. I sent TG videos to them all the time, but like TG said in the video they are not ready. So, I lift them up in prayer.

[@RFonyeaBlackmon]

I missed Saturday's call. I was with my daughter at a dance competition.

[@QuiteTheLady]

I always say the faithful, biblical proverb… “Houses and wealth are the inheritance of fathers but a prudent wife is a gift from the Lord”. A lot of these men that go after aesthetic can sometimes miss an actual prudent and wise woman who they would actually have a deep connection with who will truly love them. I also feel like a good woman will add years to a man’s life. My stepdaddy was diagnosed with three types of cancer plus copd but my mom took such good care of him he fought to live for her and his years were multiplied. I love my dad and he is a hard worker but had it not been for my stepmom, I don’t think my dad would be alive. She takes such good care of him. I couldn’t imagine him having a wife who cared nothing about him but just wanted his money. Choose wisely people!

[@eveshalom3534]

I’m listening while getting a pedicure. They prob think im cra cra. When Tony said, you be on the phone lying and the trumpet sounds. 😂 now you crispy 😂😂😂

[@hingreddiniz5835]

Almost walked down the aisle with who the Lord never wanted me with. If I ever heard my Savior so clearly I heard him say to me IT'S EITHER ME OR HIM! That shut the whole thing down. I'm sticking with Jesus and I thank him for sparing me from a disastrous marriage.

[@maryihezie1190]

I think Tony Gaskins will make a great pastor. I can also see him adding his sense of humor to his sermons.

[@Sunshine-r6s3w]

I’m not sure if you know this and I’m not saying it’s right but typically when black women say, “he chose her” that’s something that black men specifically have said to black women. In specific events where a man doesn’t take care of his kids, unalives the woman, etc. Men (specifically black men) say, “you chose him.” That’s just a background of where that came from. I’m not justifying anyone’s behavior but that’s what’s happening out here.

[@GingerSpices]

True a lot of those guys are very bitter so they say stuff like that to shame the women that don’t want them.

[@drgibson4308]

“You have to set your standards🎯” When you wait on the one God has prepared, and maintain Him as the foundation of the relationship growing and learning together; now you’re cultivating a recipe for success.

[@Jay-v7y8x]

I’m not afraid to say that I married the wrong man. We had 4 children together. It took me years to realize he wasn’t the man God chose for me. I’m now divorced. However, I have peace now, thank you Jesus!🙏🏽

[@manoniemoments]

💡If you don’t have 3 months worth of rent at a decent gated apartment in yo city, you not ready to go into a relationship. - Tony Gaskins Jr.💡

[@montricec8795]

💯

[@speakyourtruth4978]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@staciadavis3714]

You ain't never lied!

[@jerryrobinson8570]

I enjoy hearing Tony talk of his and Sherri's marital adventures❤

[@Theblacksuburbanchick]

“So Welcome” 😂

[@anitaeast9201]

But seek ye first the kingdom of GOD and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you (Matthew 6:33)! FATHER GOD IN JESUS NAME I COME TO YOU ASKING THAT YOU GIVE US STRENGTH AS WE NAVIGATE THROUGH THIS WORLD. HELP US TO PUT YOU FIRST IN OUR LIVES THAT WE MAY FEEL YOUR JOY and PEACE! TOUCH THOSE WHO ARE FEELING LONELY AND HURT AS A RESULT OF A BAD RELATIONSHIP/BREAK UP! PLEASE HEAL THEIR BROKEN HEARTS. PLEASE FIX THEIR MIND THAT IT BE STAYED ON YOU AND I KNOW YOU WILL KEEP THEM IN PERFECT PEACE; AS YOU PROMISED US! HELP US TO KEEP YOU FIRST IN ALL WE DO, SAY, AND THINK! THANK YOU FOR BEING A LOVING FATHER. JESUS THANK YOU FOR BEING OUR SAVIOR! In JESUS NAME! AMEN!

[@monicamayberry9313]

Those Black women that you blocked were not rejoicing in his death ..he did choose her..thus the video prompt..be careful who you marry!

[@CandaceParker888]

Thanks for posting this video!!! I’m watching on our hour break from the masterclass!!! Im obtaining knowledge on both ends today!! See ya 2nd half of class!!!!

[@nicolebalmier]

I have been a “that’s what he gets” kind of person & I see the error in my thinking, we all deserve compassion regardless of our choices ❤

[@heather7119]

me too! But looking at it from a Godly compassionate perspective is key, something I'm praying about.

[@turklatasha191]

Yes, Sis, but we repent and now hold ourselves accountable

[@niki-mars955]

Amen to the singles group# I've been doing training for he past three to four years to prepare myself for marriage. I'm definitely joining the singles group chat! This year,I'd like to meet my hubby

[@virtuous__woman7]

Hello Tony. I am very interested in joining the group chat for singles. Please continue to keep us posted. Thank you in advance for all you do for us!

[@anicialugo8997]

The Gaskins Family means alot to me❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤fa REAL 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@chameljackson4512]

Thank you for creating something for singles

[@montricec8795]

"Anything is possible!"....T.G.

[@FaceysFitnessJourney]

Nice topic , can't wait to reach to listen 🇯🇲

[@Ms.Sipp40]

I take pop the balloon serious but it is very entertaining as well…..if I went on pop the balloon you’d light me up too…😂😂😂that’s why I’ve gotten into some of your courses for the new year. We’ve all made bad choices at one point it’s what do we do to correct it.

[@QuiteTheLady]

I personally like men of other cultures and races because Im more appreciated and my beauty is more appreciated and there are things that are understood that don’t have to be explained. And I like that.

[@simplyameeraj]

💯

[@annwideman8760]

Good evening, My Y T Son and everyone. Thank you for always bringing us up to speed and constantly. constantly reminding us of critical issues in relationships. Especially when you marry. Yes, we as women need to be careful about who we trust our hearts to.

[@ange2122]

In all honesty, lack of appreciation is a sad reason to experiment

[@karinazrzu]

Yes, same here!

[@kairosunltd130]

Please Mr. Gaskins. We singles need it. Being schooled for Marriage. I know it's going to be a great journey and experience. You're an amazing coach Mr Gaskins. Im excited already coz there's a lot of ness 😁 😅😆even in the churches, my goodness❗ A lot if delusion.🔥🔥🔥🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💯💯💯 ☺️😊💣💥💥💥

[@eagles-soar]

Thank You , man of god for sharing, what it means the little things/for nothing gifts that's another. Love Language to and to acts of service!!🎉🎉🎉 be blessed

[@trishabratton1124]

I don't think he committed suicide. His mom has spoken out about what that wife did. We are praying as family that no weapon formed against Ms. Boss's name in JESUS MIGHTY name amen. Thank you Mr. Gaskins for speaking on this. GOD BLESS SHALOM

[@devinicole1278]

Wow

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

I never believed he unalived himself. The story the wife gave when it happened didn't add up. Who walks to a hotel when they have a car 🚙 to plan to leave the earth 🌎? And he was there for awhile before being discovered, and no one heard anything. May The Most High deal with all who were involved in this development and his untimely demise.

[@Officialpriscillajackson]

Yassss help us singles mog group chat, fasting challenges…… yasssss

[@tierraherbert5454]

Can we start with me getting a date first 😂😂.

[@BlancaRosa79]

21:50 yessssss please!!!!!! Thank you 😊

[@sandeejaye7239]

Yo, you were definitely preaching on here

[@Desie380]

Yasss can’t wait for the bootcamp 😊

[@ep355]

No refund 😂😂😂

[@Visionary79-m2t]

Tony … Stop not crispy!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂🤣

[@Visionary79-m2t]

Tony this single group is about to be as big as the growth club.😂

[@AnnDonley]

Tony Gaskins please speak on men and their communication skills. My dude sucks at that big time. I am getting fed up with him. I have addressed this with him he may do good for a while then fall off again. For me I like constant communication in a relationship meaning with don’t live together so call not necessarily everyday but at least check in by a text saying just checking in saying hello. And I have been married before widowed now.

[@angelicher]

Tony: I DON'T KNOW HIM!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@misguidedpearls7456]

Had a very very serious convo with my kid last week on b this topic 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Extremely serious

[@mariaquiros1982]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 the rapture trumpet 😂

[@suzettecaruthers7822]

Amen! God send men the person who you have for them

[@indriadrayton1132]

Some people are straight up evil. Suicide is horrible. How can you sit back with arms folded saying a person deserved suicide? That is the same type of person who would film the act...

[@niki-mars955]

Wow, the car is driving itself while he creams his arms. Wow

[@Skylimited55]

No problem, Tony.💙💙💙💙

[@JuliaHitt-b8n]

I would love to be part of that group Tony!!!!

[@marieb6381]

38:46 😂 lol

[@kimtaylor5277]

Well I can't get in 😢 please send the link to me for the 2nd half of class thanks.

[@joiagenae]

Discord is a great option for a groupchat TG. It has so many more features than Groupme. You can stream directly in the app lol just FYI

[@TonyGaskins]

Discord is techie to me. Ooowee

[@manoniemoments]

✨He who mocks the poor reproaches his Maker; He who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished. Proverbs 17:5✨

[@chameljackson4512]

Get your monty up and then get your hunty up lol

[@casablanca6657]

Thanks

[@tiffanyRenee26]

As a half white woman I can unbiased say that when dating other races a big problem can be when there’s disagreements between u as a couple n parents. She maybe inclined to side with her family over her man n leave him to fight the battle alone,luckily I know my family isn’t the sweetest or healthiest n to always side with my other half no matter who the battle is up against

[@Nashay97]

Dudes using Mr. Toni name to smash is crazy work lol

[@j-tenn226]

I’ve never met anyone irl who knows or watches TG

[@kstayblessed]

You can easily get a divorce. That's isn't the real nightmare. The real nightmare is having a kid or kids with the nightmare. 18+ years is a whole prison sentence when you have kids with a nightmare. Don't let no one peer pressure you into having kids.

[@Rae_0234]

6:48 This is so goofy! I haven’t been following that story, but if any of the ladies said that is who he chose, then that is who he chose! It’s the truth! You all don’t have any other vocabulary other than to call people bitter when they express the truth. 🙄 Those ladies are simply saying that is who he chose and it’s no need of talking about it when that is who he chose as his wife.

[@devinicole1278]

I hurried and click on . I don't want a pop the balloon marriage lolololol

[@Skylimited55]

Yesss Amen Singles group Yayyyyy 😄✔️

[@Visionary79-m2t]

I hear you, T! Some women aren’t happy and love to throw the race card out there. People need to stop with that! Twitch's wife should be ashamed. She’s about to open up a can of worms, and she doesn’t realize how she’s about to hurt his family and kids.

[@AdamlovsEve]

Tony I would love to join that group for singles. where do I find that information when you launch it?

[@cindyharris3201]

Yes sir!! ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!!!

[@thehustleandteashow7331]

We forgive you uncle Tony 😂

[@MaryKBurch-kn1kx]

And who you have kids with

[@ripsimekhachikyan2482]

I'm in on this one

[@jeankelly3600]

Yesss Pickle 🥎‼️😁

[@lifewithJeanae]

If it doesn’t make sense in the relationship it wouldn’t make sense marrying I’m just saying marrying isn’t going to fix anything you gotta work on self and choosing to look other then your self

[@julieanne413]

Crispy 😂😂😂😂😂🤣

[@pamelacallahan6156]

😂I can't with Tiny on the whyt men... SMH 😅

[@camsteph67]

Don't mess around and come up missing...didn't think about that....👀

[@montricec8795]

"Use OPM...Other People's Money!"....T.G.

[@iliassoudiallo6146]

I like your analysis on Elon Musk hes actually broke

[@JaySmith.]

He’s wealthy people “broke” not poor people broke. The man has many businesses so his money is probably in stock value but either way, he’s not broke in the way you might be thinking.

[@Destinee36]

Checking in!

[@sherriwilcox6916]

7:16 facts. She did not love him PERIODT!

[@Nikita_848]

I don't see the issue between races, but more between different cultural and religious backgrounds.

[@BlancaRosa79]

39:10 😂😂😂😂😂