He tricked me! | Talks with Tony

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“Never turn a platonic friend into a romantic lover.” TG

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

OUCH

[@Godsonechild]

So true!

[@TheFactsofLife237]

Never use a man for a therapist. Never give away trust, it is earned. Never live in the world of fantasy. Never give away your power. Never say never but be willing to change your circumstances. Never play yourself as an option. Coach Sophie

[@bodiendominique400]

Tony taught me to never tell a man my dating/relationship history. Everything can and will be hold against you in the court of LOVE.

[@linahernandez6913]

That actually happened to me I thought I found a friend told him what I was going thru while dating then throw it in my face later. Like wow how are u giving advice one min then evil the next. So I felt when she said what she said about trying to school her about her history. Gotta be careful who u trust. He tried to also have sex with me I said no something just didn’t feel right with him. Sad lady married him tho

[@susanntillzxo3626]

It happened to me! At first I never spoke of my past, because I’ve always been the woman who says “I believe the past should stay in the past”, he kept asking for a year straight! I got sick of him asking about wanting to know about my past, so I gave him very detailed info about all my exes. As time went by and heated arguments kicked in, ol grown boy used my history against me 🤦🏽‍♀️ saying “are you gonna let go of me like you let go of ....”, “don’t be treating me like ..., because you’ll soon realize your letting go the biggest blessing of your life” etc etc... I’ve now learned my lesson after those repeated comments from him and will never utter a word about my history!!

[@okaygee4132]

Yes. Reserve your heart and let God reveal it to the man who will love you.

[@shutit4024]

@@LA-wv7gf I thought I was the only one who thought the same. 3 years ago I was “dating” this guy when I was 18 and he had asked if I was a Virgin and I said no then he said he wasn’t then he asked what age and I said I was 16 and it was to an ex ( just to make sure to let him know it wasn’t a Radom people) then this fool said to who and kinda seem like he was bragging about losing his virginity at 13 to some older girl then I replied oh ok then this fool said who is my ex then I said it didn’t matter because he moved back to the place he was born at then he pressed it saying what’s the big and why can’t I give him the name 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m like I didn’t ask you who the women you lost your virginity or ask for names i don’t care 🤦🏽‍♀️ then he said I was hiding something omg so many red flags and he also asked my body count TWICE but of course he lied about his when judging other women on theirs lol

[@shutit4024]

@@LA-wv7gf this also happened to me ( not marriage I’m only 21) when I was 18 dating a guy that was 21 at the time he’s a very bad lair he lied on his ex saying she cheated on him and he left her ,when I later found out she ended up leaving him because he was cheating on her and he was beating on her 🤦🏽‍♀️ he be asking women their body count but be judging other women and saying he’ll found out if they’re lying when he be lying about his sexual history I found out his body count was 16 when he said 4 and he sleeps with underage girls 😷

[@cocoadams1002]

Never tell a man all of your weaknesses...they will use it against you later

[@chickwitthagoodies]

Learned this all too late

[@oldsexy9425]

Sure do! My ex uses my meds against me! The fucker!

[@venda1008]

Yea they do,I learnt that from Toby early last year and it helped me a lot

[@Getitgirl816]

Everytime!

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

Facts

[@vchild]

He's trying to destroy this woman. God please deliver her from this demon. I need an update on her. I'm very concerned.

[@kristinakellogg1732]

Yes indeed I pray for her. She be ok and get out

[@sherrynelson365]

Me too satanic

[@qalayah]

I would like an update too

[@Misssixty510]

Yes. This guy is a total creep.

[@JahannamHellfire]

This man sounds like a narcissist! The husband not Tony...

[@leesteal4458]

Why on earth would a woman pay all the bills? This man is a wicked man! He is using her. Please dear God, please help this queen.

[@marilynking527]

Exactly so sad

[@RUNWAYBEAUTY]

Amen

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Absolutely Absurd Hypergamy ladies

[@elainegomillion978]

There are a lot of guys who think it's ok for the women to pay the bills. They are often called BUMS!!!!😱😱😱😱

[@gracegratitude2642]

Ohh Girl it’s out there I did it, thank you Lord for saving me I am out of there

[@reinaquisha9418]

Y'all gotta stop allowing yourselves to be mistreated. Seriously. Treat yourself the way you treat these men. Be good to yourself!!!

[@lillianpitts9853]

Amen!

[@mileyroe4877]

Exactly

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Amen I bought myself flowers for Valentine's day

[@reinaquisha9418]

@@sophisticatedmm3632 nice! I treated myself to my favorite meals❤️🤍❤️

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

@@reinaquisha9418 Yummy I went to Red Lobster & the cheesecake factory last week for my week off work

[@lovepassionpurpose3369]

Tony telling the truth. I met someone like this at 19, I got out at 24. I know this story all to well. I would rather spare people the details. I left and slept on an air mattress. Not even a month later, God blessed me with a job, place to stay and some money in my pocket. I later purchased a car. I healed so much. Learned so much. Propelled me to go deep in God and that pushed me into purpose. PLEASE LEAVE SIS! For you and those beautiful babies! You cannot change him. He needs God, deliverance and lots of prayer.

[@beverlybush5004]

Thanks for your testimony ❣️

[@Mf.bAsę]

LoVe youR teStimoNy, thaNks foR sharinG, maY GoD be thE GLoRy anD conTinuE tO showEr yoU iN bLesSinGs

[@Mf.bAsę]

@@beverlybush5004 ☝🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@lovepassionpurpose3369]

Thank you ladies!

[@emmabell1587]

No, he has to want to change. However, most of those types don't, Because it's just to easy to pick up women.

[@mahogany_black8756]

I agree with you that he is a pervert. He said the older girls “have a father” that tells me he knows he would have to answer to that man about his daughters. Get out now sis!

[@cemplygloria6261]

You're right he dont want to answer to the other daughters father. It sound like he would touch the daughter he adopted too.

[@GoodGrief101]

Yeah... he’s preying on the little girl. Hopefully, the woman that wrote in will leave. Save herself and her children. Satan is busy.

[@wandamajette5000]

He would have to deal with the father but also the older girls may understand boundaries and appropriate behavior.

[@queenofthesouth4205]

He did not PRAY for you. He PREYED on you. He is dangerous and dusty. Praying for you Sister. Plan your Exit!!!

[@danaglover6801]

You Betta Say It👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Been thru this foolishness myself. I got out and hadn’t looked back. That’s been 15 yrs ago.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

Truth

[@prettynatural1973]

This lady is not protecting her daughters Lord have Mercy! My mom never remarried after my father died. I asked why and she said to protect me! She said when I got older I would understand.

[@zek280]

That’s very noble of your mom. However I know some women they’re own dad or uncle has molested them. The devil 👿 comes in any package 📦 it’s very scary 😦.

[@disnalee]

Your mother got the right thinking of not remarrying to protect her daughter who she loved more than anything. This woman cannot see it but later her eyes will eventually opened. Its bc she was in this distressing situation that she did not see all the signs. Its really sad for mothers with daughters bc perverts.

[@tonid773]

Your mother is so amazing for that 💕.

[@walkbyfaith8557]

I say that to my kids now....❤️

[@madonatadros2041]

God bless her

[@alexisforteza_]

The passion in Tony's voice tells me where his foundation lies. In God! Preach Tony! I hope this woman sees this video.

[@ariperez1269]

Amen!

[@sherryj738]

I left when the kid's dad was at work. He had no idea we were leaving. I'm talking over 30 years ago I did this. Let me also say,thank god for family members.

[@sherrynelson365]

My friend did the same thing and moved to the west coast

[@beefaye18]

Oh honey...same here...he went out of town one weekend and came back to echos in that house....I never look back...I opened my eyes to abuse...you were lucky...I had no family to help me.

[@ericalashan1923]

My mother took a day off work and moved into a whole house (still in close proximity bc we had friends and the school system was good). I woke up in one house and my brother met me after school and we walked to the new house. I walked in with furtinure and boxes everywhere. She was smiling saying hello like it was nothing...lol. They did well with co-parenting. Sometimes u gotta do what u have to do.

[@mamat1213]

Incredible! My mom did the same in the 80s... escaped from an abusive cop in the middle of the work day. Only left with a few things and quit her job, rented an apartment from a friend, started over fresh over a thousand miles away and didn't look back😭

[@RestorativeClarity]

She sees and feels everything, yet ignores her intuition consistently. The most valuable lesson that Tony has ever given on his videos is to trust your intuition.

[@tuneaparks9529]

This is why it is so important to have discernment and seek GOD first before choosing the one to marry marry. These days are evil and many people come in your life PRETENDING until they get you where they want you

[@misguidedpearls7456]

Amen ..

[@s.r.125]

I plead the blood of Jesus Christ, that she is covered and that she finds the courage to leave. 🙌🏽 We as females gotta learn how to discern spirits! That's some ish!

[@Loyaltyisalifestyle]

Amen.

[@jehannedufresne3998]

Amen! I'm joining that prayer chain. I feel the urgency, I see the predator/pervert, and shared Tony's indignation.

[@Casaunlynn]

Amen

[@Damiajamilmakeup]

Amen

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Amen I pray for discernment & wisdom all the time

[@lauralei4445]

Okay ladies, when you want to call out a narcissist; he is!!! They have soul ties with the devil, hate themselves, and hate their partners. They don't know how to love. He totally used God and "coaching" to take advantage of you and destroy you :(. God bless. You deserve better, not a predator!

[@zobella8392]

I was thinking the same thing, he sounds narcissistic.

[@ebony9524]

Yep, he’s that word that Tony don’t like to use. She probably needs deep therapy for her past.

[@lauralei4445]

@@ebony9524 I get why he says that. It seems to be over used these days, but this is due! I've dealt with several and there is a clear cut difference between a selfish grown boy, and a narcissist. One is ego driven and selfish, the other is of the devil and out to destroy you. Prayers for her. It definitely takes Jesus, a lot of reading and mindset work to overcome their destructive abuse.

[@zobella8392]

@@ebony9524 Yes he is and I don't use the term loosely, I recognize it because I had one and I know what they try to do emotionally and mentally to you. And he sounds just like him.

[@ebony9524]

@@lauralei4445 yes I hate that it’s so over used so much to the point where most people probably wouldn’t even understand until they truly experience it first hand

[@nadeidgedorcelus9607]

This man is her forth child. That’s sad. You pay all the bills, flip on him and kick him out. He has the audacity to give you rules, NO

[@chrissy1448]

She needs to go about her business....this dude is a straight up user....

[@nadeidgedorcelus9607]

Those women don’t see it because they are not crooks, users, abusers, or narcs. Their minds are far from evil doing , they go into relationships thinking these guys are genuine. By the time they figure it all out they are in too deep

[@nadeidgedorcelus9607]

It’s also very common in friendships. It’s not only the men who prey on women like that. Women gain their trust and fill in as a friend only to use that woman to get friendship favors

[@dawnramsey9574]

This man is a Covert Narcissist. This is exactly how they lure you in and they won’t stop mistreating you until they finish you. They steal, lie, isolate you from your significant others and they molest children. There is nothing they wouldn’t do. You better believe your dealing with the devil and run for your life. I know all of this because I was with one for 4.5 years.... Sista run. God bless you and your family. 🙏🏽

[@dawnramsey9574]

@@nadeidgedorcelus9607 your so right. Narcissists trauma bond their victims to make them stuck in the relationship. They love to tie up their victims finances, break there spirits and isolate you from others. She will need support to help her to plan her get away.

[@redeemed1352]

“A slow burn” wow. Some people get so blinded by love they don’t know which way is up. This kind of man is disgusting. Sad situation.

[@LethalWeapon73]

He's straight trash

[@letrice2892]

Do we really get blinded or simply ignore or deny things aren't for us 🤔 so many ppl are in relationships they know they shouldn't be in they see the red flags yet they still remain and ponder on how to improve their relationships or cant understand when things finally crumble and want to place all the blame on the other person when in truth we are willing participants in the nonsense and once we accept our part in things and learn from them so we dont repeat them things will be so much better

[@sherryj738]

My children didn't even know we were leaving. My mom and myself went looking at duplexes and my mom helped me money wise too. I was blessed. 💕

[@Harmannie]

he really opens my mind to how grown boys / shitty men think, and im so grateful for it. he pointed out the problems so quickly, and he recognized the mans intentions so quickly. some of the things in the email went over my head, but Tony Gaskins caught all the red flags. its hard as a woman to fully understand the intentions of these grown boys.

[@disnalee]

OMG! I cannot believe it this is my husband. Just last Sunday when we went grocery shopping. He told me to help pay for our grocery bc it went over his budget. He always tells me to pay the bill and he will later give me money but he never pays up. Yes he used to give me money to pay bill but now its been 5 months he cut giving me any money to help with bills. Its been so difficults. OMG he is exactly what Tony describe!!

[@misstiana77]

@@disnalee what are you going to do?

[@disnalee]

@@misstiana77 try to find me a lawyer bc there is really no more talking. Nothing is left just empty words and promises.

[@quicamp715]

So very true. I picked up some similarities of how my step dad treated us. I figured it out later on as an adult by the grace of God but he is not making any of this up.

[@ARS-fn6px]

@@disnalee and then when you divorce him he is going to start a YT channel telling people women are this and that and how he is such a victim of golddiggers 🥴😑

[@chandrak5126]

I am so sorry but ,these emails are teachings and lessons within itself!!!

[@elainegomillion978]

Yes you're right, but this comes from MEN not being in their homes. When you know better you do better,( talking about the woman).

[@letrice2892]

@@elainegomillion978 thats not always the case bcuz a father can be in the home when growing up yet the women make unhealthy decisions some fathers are in the home yet arent present show no affection or love they only see their father as a provider nothing more so they seek every thing else from men so its not fair to be one sided in this bcuz I think it truly stems from lack of self worth more than anything

[@elainegomillion978]

@@letrice2892 you bring up a good point, you do have dad's that are in the home, but don't contribute emotionally, but whatever this lady's case is, I hope she gets help, and fast.

[@Timwinful]

You can say that again! I am learning.

[@GoodGrief101]

I know that I wouldn’t be able to stay with someone that’s selfish and treats my kids as if they’re second class citizens. He sold her a dream and now she’s in a nightmare. Thank you Tony and be blessed and safe everyone! After Tony broke this all the way down, I felt sick to my stomach. There’s so much to look for. I dated someone like this, but I saw the red flags early. She needs to go ASAP! Tony wasn’t lying. A man like him would ruin your life.

[@MzSoulll]

he won't. she needs to leave.

[@GoodGrief101]

@@MzSoulll I know that he won’t figure it out because that’s just the way he is. I need to take that out of my comment.

[@GoodGrief101]

@A BCD I agree with you! After I had kids, I chose not to stay friends with a few women that would go out all the time and had randoms. I would end up in jail if someone touched one of my children.

[@GoodGrief101]

@A BCD you’re right! My mom was “over protective” and still couldn’t protect me. I thank God that I wanted better for my children and they didn’t have to deal with all of the trauma that I dealt with. It definitely alters a mind of a child and affects them well into adulthood. I love my mom and I still have moments of resentment. In my twenties, most of the girls I hung out with would leave their kids. One so-called friend I had, her 9 year old daughter would beg her to stay home. I chose to have kids and chose to grow with them. I understand you. Stay blessed and please take care.

[@joannadziokan3267]

Yup, sounds like my mother who married my stepfather 35 years ago. Never liked him. She was so blinded by his 5-min BS. He's been bullying her all these years. I left when I was 19yo. She settled for him because she wanted material things. Also, she focused on him and not on me and my brother. We remind her of that all the time. She has all the illnesses in the world and he is healthy. They are the same age but she looks 20 years older than him. She is too weak to leave him now and still wants material stuff. I will never get this. I hope I will never end up like this. This was a good video, Tony. Thank you.

[@meljolly1213]

A true wake up call for us women with children trying to enter into the "dating scene".

[@jacquelenefrison9923]

God is certainly gonna hold him accountable!

[@KeeKiddy]

Jacquelene can ask where you are from ? Your last name is familiar with family

[@jacquelenefrison9923]

@@KeeKiddy yes mam, my family is from Chicago IL and St Louis MO, my dad owned the Frison indoor flea market, it's no longer as of a few years ago, I was born and raised Los Angeles ca

[@MsColetha]

God says she need to handle her husband see Tamar from the Bible.

[@cairas.6142]

I just hope he isn’t grooming her younger daughter. See, the older daughters are too wise. Women open your eyes and ears and protect your children!!

[@kilimanjaro5537]

I hope not, too. I’ll be praying for her to get out of this situation 🙏🏾.

[@BreeziDeezi]

Come on now🙌🏽 I pray not. Yes , older daughters take the advice Mom gave us and try to avoid Mom’s mistakes. The funny part is Mom still making the same mistakes and not being an example - ever.

[@mamat1213]

YES! This is what I thought... Even what he said about the other girls having a dad tell me that the youngest's dad isn't around. UNPROTECTED!!! Lord PLEASE keep these children safe 🙏🏾

[@tulip4169]

Him picking the youngest daughter is predatory and almost animalistic. It’s very evil and reminds me of the scripture that talks about how the devil walks around like a roaring lion, seeking who he can devour. I feel like he’s that lion.

[@breannn8238]

This is honestly my biggest fear! Falling in love with someone, then one day they change into a whole new person. These marriages on talks with Tony is very heartbreaking.

[@Glamrocs]

Happened to me and it broke me down. God was my strength and I left.

[@christinewarren8134]

Girl you are not alone in that feeling. I have unfortunately already experienced it.

[@pattygeee2298]

I’ve been there. That’s why 10 years later I am unable to trust anyone.

[@okaygee4132]

The Messiah said His flock doesn't have to fear. So, I stay close to God and I will wait for the one He sends me.

[@andreawright3829]

Love is scary because people with ulterior motives. So sad 😞

[@sandrav82]

This was similar to my story, please leave!! I left pregnant and with other children.. hardly working and no where to go.. God Will Provide!!! Trust him. Now I'm doing better than I ever have. You can do better and you deserve so much better 🙏💖Praying for you💖

[@yvonnehutson6676]

God Bless you Sis💕❤💞you are a testimony to Other Women🙏🙏

[@Jorneytoloveme]

I did too ☝🏾💕💕

[@jolynnmarie725]

So Glad to hear this!!! God will provide!!! In Jesus Name!!

[@lauramapani3627]

Wow 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. You are AMAZING!!!

[@joeannwhite8746]

Yes Tony these men still exist at age 55. He hide all his stuff for 10yrs. Because I was financially stable I told him to kick rocks with open toe sandlels

[@wechwech695]

“Kick rocks with open toe sandals” 🤣🤣

[@beefaye18]

Get down...👍👋

[@reginastevens7673]

Totally demonic .. dressed as the most beautiful angel you’ve ever seen! .. father of every lie ever told💯

[@reginastevens7673]

@A BCD God’s pretty specific when it comes to our enemies.. he says we have to bless those who persecute and mistreat us. When we release them to God by blessing them and forgiving them, then God says “vengeance is mine sayest the Lord”!

[@zek280]

@@reginastevens7673 amen 🙏🏽

[@stilljocelyn4166]

God please cover this lady and her girls. 🙏🏾❤️

[@luisalesmes1870]

I love how Tony's face lights up when his kids or wife pop up while he is shooting the videos. This is one of the reasons I follow him. I can see very clear he is all about what he preaches. I would love to have some counseling with his Queen. I remember they spoke about it on a video that maybe one day she will...

[@brittanyb5942]

I was in a relationship like this for 10 yrs ☹️ and how you're describing the sitting in the car, staying out at night by 3 yrs was exactly what he did. I was so weak and beat down, I had no more fight in me. Thankfully I left the relationship in November 2020.

[@yvonnehutson6676]

🙏Glad you got out of 1p year's. Brittany you are A blessing to other's who think they can't leave🙏

[@bridgetjones6819]

🙌🙌🙌So glad you were strong enough to leave 👑👑❤️

[@yolamayo2689]

My story.... I finally left with our two kids in 2017 from a 10 year marriage similar to this... doing awesome now😊

[@Getitgirl816]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾❤

[@ShiaGirl18]

Amen!

[@DaintyDré]

Sweet Little Tayden always popping in before night-night 😇

[@chrissy1448]

Tayden probably is a Life Coach in training.. :-)

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

I love how Tony puts his family first. That’s the way it should be and his boys are learning how’s it done!

[@thankful_elg]

I love when Tayden comes in! It never bothers me & I greatly appreciate Tony putting his family 1st!💯❤

[@s.r.125]

🤗🤗

[@zek280]

@@thankful_elg yes he sounds so cute 🥰

[@rocko5928]

LOL @ your son turning your light out and coming to put you to bed!!! LOL

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Keep your secrets and past to yourself it’s NO ONE’S BUSINESS when your in a new relationship...TG 🙏

[@magnolia2]

My favorite part of this video was when your son came in. We needed that relief.😅

[@fulfillmentsfoundinservice2051]

Right! Lol I was stressed out 😅

[@VeeShan14]

Lol right. I think I was holding my breath until his son came in whoo 🤣🤣. He sounded so cute...”Are you still coaching?” 🤗

[@cocowhits6629]

Women with children must understand that they have to protect their children until the children can protect them selves, children grow quicker than you know and you’ll soon be on your own and you’ll be able to go out and have a romantic life again, but don’t jeopardize your children I know I went through it my mother married a man who married her because she had children and he molested my sisters and my brother and myself and then when he got tired he went on to another woman with children so it’s very important that if you’re a single mom you hold out until they are out on their own !God will always help you through these hard times, he did it for me to do it for you🙏🏼

[@lauramapani3627]

I'm so sorry for what you had to go through

[@lsmith6718]

God I thank you, for your protection🙌. A year ago, I was distraught. The red flags I didn’t see, I’ve seen since listening to Tony. My heartache was just for a season, instead of a lifetime. Hours, and hours of videos helped me heal. Lord, provide a way of escape for this woman. Sister, praying for you🙏.

[@Glamrocs]

Amen! I did it 5 years ago and if she finds her strength she can do it too. I’m concerned for her children.

[@deaudrey85]

Tony really serious in this video. He going in on this video. I don’t blame Tony for how he feels about this woman’s situation. It’s awful 😢 how this man treated her. This makes me think about a wolf 🐺 in sheep’s 🐑 clothing.

[@sherylleelee]

Dang! That's a mess. Some men play christian and play church. I'm so very happy we women can learn to dodge bullets and bombs. (Messed up relationships with grown boys and grown men monsters).

[@lourdesbru2115]

Sad to say, I’m married to one. Right now, I feel broken spiritually and mentally. Emotionally exhausted and Financial drained.

[@Glamrocs]

@@lourdesbru2115 Ask God for clear guidance and direction. You can leave at anytime. Just plan quietly and leave.

[@BreeziDeezi]

They sure do and when the act stops women need to leave 🚩

[@3D3LIA]

That’s a dangerous man! God bless and heal this woman and the women who has came across a man like this. And vice versa!

[@marilynking527]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@ericalashan1923]

The sad part is that she is not his first victim.

[@3D3LIA]

@@ericalashan1923 she’s not and I’m sure she won’t be his last. But like I always say and just so happened that Tony said the same thing as I was thinking it.. “ he’s gonna have to answer to God at the end” . People think they can get away with the things they do here on earth not remembering we still have to answer to someone when we die. I hope he repents, heals and asks for forgiveness before his time.

[@Golden_Cloudz]

Tony's whole face changed when he was talking to his son! 🥰 That made my day.

[@mal6780]

It was ☺️

[@Glamrocs]

So sorry that you’re going through this. He definitely played on her vulnerability. He was looking for a mother to take care of him. He pays noooo household bills.

[@biancam2327]

This is the reason why women need to take time for themselves when get out of a relationship before jumping into a new one, just becuase the new man is talking right. I know its hard, but the time by yourself allows you to think, review past situations and develop a strong discernment for BS.

[@VOTE2025]

Realest ish I never wrote 😉

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

my ex used to "HELP" other women a lot took me years and years to realize --no one else's husbands do that....but then the women he helped would HATE me for putting a stop to it.

[@ashleyhenderson3856]

He’s a user he knew what he was doing to her!!!!!smh 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@bluemoon3710]

Exactly

[@lifeinspirationcoachleanne3159]

Mr. G Your discernment was spot on for this one ✔✔

[@stephtrader4662]

She could lookup "victim resources" for her city. There’s emergency housing and other help.

[@rozinaarif6580]

This woman is lucky enough to have our support group to pray for her. All prayers for her and her daughters and may our Lord protect them from any future harm, pray for their healing and may she grow strong enough to never meet a man like this again. Amen.

[@yourfantasy9218]

Amen! 🙏🏽 ❤️

[@prkzoomin6994]

Good Quote, Strong People rarely have an easy Past.

[@zek280]

Facts

[@gabrielagarza5811]

These kids are all girls 😭 what’s wrong with this woman!! She needs to leave and stop allowing her wanting “closure” control her!!! Prayers 😥

[@jacquelinewilliams6572]

My heart was saddened hearing this story. I pray that she takes heed and runs. I’ve had to do it 3 kids and all. The blood of Jesus!

[@kristinakellogg1732]

Thank God you had the strength to go especially with 3 kids. Your a strong woman . It takes courage

[@jacquelinewilliams6572]

@@kristinakellogg1732 I was scared and angry the entire time. But the Holy Spirit protected me and kept me moving forward. He wouldn’t let the devil sift me as wheat.

[@Glamrocs]

I did it with 4 children and she can do it too. I pray God gives her the strength.

[@kristinakellogg1732]

@@jacquelinewilliams6572 Amen! God always is with you and you are blessed!!

[@kristinakellogg1732]

@@Glamrocs God is your strength 🌺🌷🌸🌼 God always watches over us to protect and heal

[@cheekscheeks5840]

These men don’t want to treat women like a QUEEN but they want to be treated like a KING 🤮

[@misspeacelove7395]

He groomed her. Telling her: "I give you what you need not what you want....". Not to mention the longterm effects it´ll have on her children. Lady, run now you might not get another chance to leave with a sane mind.

[@Tracey1sWorthy]

Be hyper vigilant when your kids are small.

[@PeaceBeStill-]

@LBC Ulrica You have an awesome mom! Most mothers don't have that amount of care and discipline for their children!

[@helena3631]

even if they are big utill they 18 you have to be carefull with dating once they in their 20's then its a different story.

[@MichElle-py8lk]

Just about to sleep 3.37am here in UK but here for another lesson! Sleep can wait! 📝😃

[@businessgrowthwithloon]

😂

[@deliteful1991]

🤣🤣🤣

[@DunstanW]

I know that's the truth... Taking 🗒️🖋️and missing home🇬🇧

[@misskarren539]

^^^^^ Haha, the same thing ran through my mind a minute ago too. Sleep can wait 😃

[@kristinbrittanysmith535]

Girl, you might as well stay up and get ready for the day!! 😂😂😂😂

[@KrystleLaughter]

I love Tony always puts his family first.💕

[@shontaypinder3852]

I believe he sent the mother out to get more groceries is because it was an opportunity to be alone with her baby daughter, probably coxing her to come to their room or something like he’s so close to her and the two older girls are in another room unsuspecting because they were used to him showing her favoritism and didn’t think much of it😒..very scary 😟

[@cemplygloria6261]

Exactly my thoughts!

[@contrinadurant9846]

Wow I never thought of that sis but I believe you are right

[@zek280]

Wow 😳

[@jaebyrd4608]

Especially when you consider he wants to play “daddy” to her daughter but based on her letter he isn’t that involved with his own kids

[@ShiaGirl18]

I never thought of that, but I believe it is a high possibility.

[@mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165]

Shout out to uncle Tony for keeping it all the way real while giving us a chuckle at the same time lol. We appreciate you and your time!

[@zek280]

Yes sis that’s what I was saying the comments he could definitely have a comedy platform

[@mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165]

@@zek280 yes lol!

[@Godsonechild]

My goodness...this was definitely on point. We women must be careful when these men appear perfect. This is truly wisdom.

[@janelleriggers3276]

This man you read about in the email is a low down dirty shame! How can you call yourself a man and don't pay any bills or buy groceries? I hope she gets rid of this dead weight. She can do bad all by herself. Appreciate you uncle Tony. 🙏🏾

[@lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207]

YES...don't teach me with my history (That's Powerful) Glory...be blessed!!

[@reinaquisha9418]

Your face when you say, "I gotta answer to God!" 🤣🤣🤣 This video made my night. Bless you and your FABULOUS FAMILY 💯

[@maryn7721]

Tony of you say at least you have an iPhone one more time! Lol 😂

[@ginad8238]

😂😂

[@TARLEASE02]

Lol that's him saying at least you've got something going for your self. Lol. I've got an Android and proud!! Lol

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

after telling my story to a few, a few would always say stuff like "He's gonna answer to God someday." like music to my ears....

[@VintageAfro91]

Lol your little boy came in to lighten the mood and the energy. God bless him 💕✨

[@cherylanglin-thompson3255]

I am literally crying for this woman's situation. Listen to Tony's advice and run for your and your daughter's lives

[@helenlovell8587]

We need more REAL Godly men like Tony to stand up to these grown boys that take advantage of women. But women also need to take accountability and not let these men into our lives until they're true colours are shown. Thank you Tony. God bless from Australia 🇦🇺🙏

[@lisasmilez]

1st of all the dedication to stop video and go play with your son. Soo sweet! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 it doest matter if you left the video still going for those 2 min. I would have been here just watching the screen listening to the background noise cuz I’m nosy 😂

[@s.r.125]

😂😂😂😊

[@LifeCoachLi]

I’m liking the “likes” y’all! We’re doing better at hitting that button before we start watching, keep it up. TG deserves it!! 👏🏼

[@significantlyintentional]

That slow burn.. That's so messed up. What people that do that to others seem to not understand is that they are creating their own downfall by knocking others down. The vigilante group part.. 😬 😆 Yep. Father in heaven, please allow this woman to get up.. & 'Go on bout her business !!' 🙏

[@r.e45]

The Moment She Said “He Was Originally Her Mentor” & “His Mind Was Extraordinary From The Rest” I knew This Was Going Left ....Eventually 😩

[@talicialee]

Yep and that's what trapped her. He knew exactly what he was doing.

[@sheilaking2051]

Fruits and veggies ain't a necessity???Run Fast!!

[@jenniferthompson5146]

😄😄😄 Right, the grocery part of the story got me

[@Glamrocs]

He’s just trying to get her out the house so he can be alone with the little girl. Lord protect these children.

[@terib5467]

He's just buying what he wants and tells her to go buy for her and her children...it's all about him

[@stasiabanto6055]

All I thought was he didnt pick them up and give her the reciept so if she goes to the shop thats time with the daughter 🙃🙃

[@777Angeleyz]

I agree they are in danger. Prayerfully youngest child has been spared. Hopefully he hasn’t touched the oldest two because they are more likely to speak up and tell their father. I will definitely keep them in prayer. Hopefully she’s smart enough to move in silence because this man is dangerous.

[@brittanyb5942]

Good Lord the more I hear these stories, it makes me SO THANKFUL that I'm single!!!!

[@Starswithmagik]

My mom married a man like this however he was an alcoholic and violent ... he attacked me w a crow bar one day and I now have a restraining order and we are free somewhat.. my mom helped him get into the sober living home at her church that she makes sure to never miss a service.... she is still with him and still holding onto him.. pray that we are finally free of him soon in the MIGHTY NAME OF YAHUSHUA/ jesus !

[@tyneriarowe7390]

Tony done walked out without the purse 😂🤣

[@joeannwhite8746]

😅😅

[@ginad8238]

😂😂

[@adventurouspeach9043]

oh my Lord. father please show her the way, give her the strength to walk away with her daughter, get them to safe ground..Give her every resouce she needs, in the mighty name of Jesus..Amen..God bless you sister, stay stronger and trust God..He will do it❤🙏🥳🥳

[@ladyboss38]

Lol!

[@ShesGottaFastCar]

"never turn a platonic friend into a romantic lover" FACTS!!!!!! it never works! never. if it's working now... just wait.

[@tashasparxxx1910]

I know how she feels. I was tricked too. Married a covert narcissist. That’s what this man IS. Lots of similarities in this story that played out in my life. I had two boys with the monster 👹 And he fights me for my boys. They are professional con artist. She better run...and NEVER look back! His ultimate goal is to DESTROY her. 🥺

[@ladyb3796]

Also another reason he wanted to “adopt” the younger daughter is because she has no male protection. The other 2 girls have fathers and he may loose his life by their fathers if he touches them. That’s what narcs do. Look for fatherless women without strong men in their corner.

[@selflov3me371]

Oh boy he got tony fired up tonight🔥🔥 But I understand why this is soo soo sad..the nerve of him

[@nyny1042]

Never tell a man your past trauma. Alot of men do not have a best interest and its sad....

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony you were on point with that man calling him out to the T and I agree he was sent by the devil and on assignment to destroy .Amen preach it 🙌👏👏

[@fantashaclay3943]

I'm lost on the daughter still baby girl man I will be in in in jail right now for mines. No sir if he touching on that little girl she better get going right now. Smh this just upset my spirit!

[@tramelparker2085]

I love how you light 💡 up when your son walks in 🤗🌸

[@LEXZAYful]

I was just saying “ dang Tony didnt post today” and boop here he goes 😂😂

[@khocolateable]

Same

[@kishoflife]

I know, i was feeling some type of way

[@angelb2412]

Tony said grown, stank AND musty!!!!! 🤣😂😂😂

[@onlyonekiney]

Tony I married my platonic friend 11 years ago and partnered with him almost 29 years ago! What a french toast mistake, lol! I wish I knew you Tony then and told me this. I would make better choices for the rest of my life!

[@khocolateable]

So he goes to the groceries store and comes back to tell her to get the kids snacks and produce 😳 like Sir u jus went to the store smh jus terrible

[@Arizona_lilly]

Right ...

[@disnalee]

He is the description of my husband. OMG I am married to a satanic husband!

[@tarao4382]

I'm soooo annoyed by this man🥴

[@zobella8392]

I was thinking the same thing😒😒

[@beverlybush5004]

Why couldn'tthey both had went to the store at the same time seems like he's trying to hide her ... It's called devaluing

[@conversationswithanna9452]

Omg, that’s his game,!! Think how many other woman does he have? How many women has he done this too. Yes, leave him!! Protect your girls!! I would ask them if he has ever touched them. Also what type of man does not buy food for the whole family especially a family full of girls. He’s a looser and sicko.

[@latricesullivan6613]

Point Blank Periodt / Get Gone 👏🏽👏🏽 you saving lives TG and I pray this woman listen and take heed before it’s too late 🙏🏾

[@Ms.Haleyy]

Sad part is that what he is describing may be like sweet tea compared to the actual situation. I’ve seen it with my own two eyes. Please get out of there right now Sis. Plz

[@ChanaBee1]

Your son intuitively knew his Daddy/ Tony needed an intermission after reading that letter. Lil son is a therapist, I sure am glad he asked you to play keep up the balloon, we used to call it pitty pat. If only we could of seen that (father & son) intermission, it would help alleviate the stress of the day to day monotony. Ok, back to your video. 🤗

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

my ex of 37 years, made "candles, lip balm, shampoo bars, soap," it was quite the act to sell this stuff to women....he would practically give it away in front of me and this one woman practically ran from me with her "good deal" as he just watched and kept busy....he knew what he was doing....thats part of my earned money too...he would talk to women as he was selling it and it would do sexual inuendos rarely but it was all good and fun to him. I said, I'm gonna go make soap and sell it to MEN!!! he didn't like that!

[@Mariah-ol4vw]

That baby came in and turned off that light, u done for today daddy 🤣 ❤️ Tay-G 😂

[@terrybrown7510]

Here for the knowledge!

[@trueessence2362]

The scammery smdh sounds like a typical narcissist. I’ve been there too, I can totally relate. Sorry to say he’s not the only so called man like this and scamming unsuspecting women. thts why like you said “ I’m doing better by myself “ 💯❤️💪🏼

[@ladyb3796]

Yes ma’am, and will happily stay that way to avoid the foolery.