Love Bombing or Genuine Interest?

[@CookWithStephh]

My man prays over me while I’m Sleeping. I never felt more secure and protected .

[@deneciaanderson4267]

True blessing 🙏🎉

[@ange2122]

Fornication

[@andreamegec9836]

@@CookWithStephh so beautiful🙏🏻🕊️✨💓

[@beefaye6861]

Babeeeee ….. love it 😍

[@montricec8795]

That's so sweet!

[@cynt1908]

A key difference between a lovebomber and someone who is genuinely interested in you is that a lovebomber will tell you that they love you super early in the relationship. Someone who is sane wouldn’t tell you that 4 weeks in.

[@Mindsetolympics]

Yeah, that’s definitely one of the ways guys try to love bomb

[@destinymckay871]

I definitely felt like I was being loved bombed but we have dated for a year now and he’s asked for my hand in marriage for my mother (only living parent) and still to this day he comes to see me every day and any opportunity wants to hold my hand accompany me at every family event and wants me to accompany him 🥰I’m still getting used to his constant affection

[@yadali1381]

Some people are like that for real. My friend of almost 10 years used to love Bomb me in the beginning and yes I would be skeptical but that’s really how some people show love and the test of time never fails.

[@goldencox954]

Congratulations to you ❤️❤️🥰🥰

[@Nesha_Nati]

Thank you for sharing this experience as it translates to hope for me.

[@AscendChristianWoman]

Congratulations 🎉❤🙏🏾

[@coconuttrees]

Thank you SO much for sharing your testimony. Although I agree and understand that “love bombing” happens. I feel that ever since the term “love bombing” was popularized everyone seems to think EVERYTHING is love bombing which simply isn’t true . There are some men whom are generally like that and that’s there way of showing love . Ultimately time is the greatest teller as in your case you got a happy ending . May we all find our happy ending too. God bless you Sis . All the best ❤️

[@TrueLoveWarnings]

Pay attention to his fruit (lifestyle, words, friends). Matthew 7:18- A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.

[@RocSkater09]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can't help but laugh listening too TG. Yo man words can't express how much I appreciate this channel. Really reproofing and refining me. God bless you kind sir.

[@karenmcgee1869]

Awesome!

[@laurensmith6065]

Some Love Bomber Red Flags🚩 Sharing details of their traumatic life story immediately (trying to force emotional connection) Offering to take you on international/out of state trips immediately. Disrespecting communication boundaries (you said can’t talk during work and he continuously blows you up to talk during work anyway)

[@cynt1908]

@@laurensmith6065 that last one is spot on

[@BlessedEnergy_]

Yessssssss😮😮😮😮very not only is it live bombing its creepy

[@thehawtempress]

Literally the step by step guide right here 😂

[@EiaWea]

Every man that I’ve seen with them plaits or dangling cross earrings are suspect to me. That spirit does NOT hide very well. If you have discernment you can tell regardless.

[@najha-o9g]

I had to bust out laughing real quick cause I agree with everything you said! I used to think it's just a fashion trend, yeah right.

[@sweets8973]

It’s man buns for me

[@honeykiss9350]

Chile, yes! I been knew this. If they wearing two earrings in his ear, that's sus 😅 like my grandson says.

[@brittanycrutchfield2330]

No lies told! I was dating a down low man and I ignored the flags. When Tony said “eat the 🍑 like groceries” he hit it right on the head! Also, a lot of gay men breath stink really bad. 🤢 I have been abstinent for 1 year and I continue to pray for double discernment and to remove that spirit.

[@femaletribefitness]

@@brittanycrutchfield2330 no lies here !!!!! Had a man we were together for 3! Years living together! But he was always providing and all!!! He was a great man !!! Just I found out he had a lover on a side ! A guy !!! I could never tell… so it’s a bit tricky … now that I know it’s real I do pay attention to all the men that come into my life lol

[@Mindsetolympics]

Amen glad you got out while you could

[@olexkaymartin2364]

I love how Tony reads your life. It’s always the best

[@yolandapickettlewis9065]

Yes I like the title, it’s needed thanks

[@AlwaysBeingKayJay]

BLOCKED!!!!! You will be blocked over here!!! 👈 Let the Teacher TEACH!!!

[@agees924]

I was worried that my now husband was loveboming me when we first started dating but what set him apart from the past men in my life was the fact that he took physical contact very slowly and left sex out of the conversation completely except for our discussion on religious views. He also hadn’t dated much before me so I had more confidence that he was genuine and not a player, as well as his very strong faith!

[@reallifeexperienceforwomen461]

Yep. I had a guy we spent everyday talking on the phone. He sent me money for lunch one day. Before I ended up back in the same city he asked me for a loan. Now that I’m in the same city it’s been arguments about my priority in his life due to his lack of time. When I first moved.. he would pop up. Drop off lunch. He complained about his finances. He recently told me lost his job I still stood by him encouraging him. I found out his ex is still in the picture. And his consistency is flaky.. I said yeah that’s my Que & I left. I got hooked mentally. But I cut the cord.

[@Nesha_Nati]

When I say I prayed for this clarity this morning!!!

[@kharyzma4u]

You are so funny. I'm cleaning my house while letting the video play. Too funny 😅

[@brittanybrown5899]

No foreal be having me weak 😂😂 N he don’t even be trying 🤣💪🏽

[@Kharihs]

Cut the last guy I dated off because of love bombing. He kept saying freaky stuff even on the first date and week one was tryna meet my kids and come over my house

[@monicaivy2497]

Great call on that one!!

[@DivineGuidanceMarshae]

Yea pushy to meet kids is always a red flad specially since he is a "freak"

[@beefaye6861]

omg ….. perv for sho 😮

[@Mindsetolympics]

Yeah, a guy being a freak when its uncalled for is disrespectful

[@honeykiss9350]

That's not Love Bombing! That's just a down-low dirty behind man. Love Bombing is when they say "Good morning beautiful."

[@Dr.K.Harris]

The accuracy of this info is unbelievable! 😮

[@Lan-n6z]

The chicken story had me rolling 💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You’re hilarious

[@deegrey333]

I haven’t been able to sow back into your ministry yet but I’m looking forward to doing so. you’ve helped me + so many other women over the years.

[@Mimms-sd6wn]

NEEDED THIS WORD ! so relevant in todays society where lovebombing seems to be at an all time high !!!

[@chica212]

Tony is teaching the game 💕 the time I started to give consistent men small thoughtful gifts changed the game for me.

[@ira_herself997]

How did it change it? Are you married? I would never buy a man a gift unless he’s my husband. 👍🏻😊

[@chica212]

@@ira_herself997 the return I get on investing $15 on a candle for the third date was astronomical in my last relationship. If I mentioned something, he got it for me. If I said I’m at xyz maintenance appointment, he cashapped me the cost, flowers 💐 every week, amazing/romantic dates every week, it activated his “whatever you want energy” towards me. I’m going to continue buying small gifts but you do you though. 🤣😆 and no I’m not married, are you?

[@charityallen9667]

😂😂😂 this video was so good but man I’m cracking up!!! God spoke to me tonight through this message. Thanks Tony

[@montricec8795]

I have 😂 so hard!

[@lakeya960]

❤ Speak!!! It takes skill and the Blessing of God.

[@SheenaMarie05]

I love Tony’s transparency, and humor lol! “He has arrested development issues. I don’t quite know what that means, but it sounds good right here.” 🤣🤣🤣 This was informative and comical per usual.

[@jackieevans3309]

I stopped listening to Pastor Michael Todd after that nasty spit debacle. Spitting on someone is the most disgusting disrespectful mess you can do! Pure foolishness!

[@montricec8795]

Just nasty and perverted!

[@Kay_nashia333]

Wow.. this message is golden! Thank you

[@NickiesNiche]

Okay TG! I’m picking up what you’re putting down! Good stuff!

[@shaniadavila2575]

Right on time 🙌 didn’t miss nothing about the way my ex acted.

[@ashleycbla]

I appreciate the date and gift giving ideas and helping us woman look at ourselves with examples.

[@YeahBelinda]

Tony you are a truth speaker and comedian.

[@Momo_carol]

@49:28 The bombastic side eye😂😂😂😭😭we are learning Tony

[@sherrynelson365]

Preach Tony and I love at the end when you blocked the lady lol 😂

[@portiawebb533]

🥳🎉Happy Birthday, Mr. Tony’s Daddy! Blessings & Continued Health. Thanks also for the gift of Tony!

[@The1morningstar]

I would love to work for you Tony. Thank you for all the wise teachings.

[@sapulene]

OMG Tony you seriously have me ROTFLMAO 🤣

[@Nesha_Nati]

You were too on point Tony! Lol but you are 100% correct

[@madelinefrank770]

This was a true learning moment. Blessings to you and yours Tony💛🙏🏽

[@Ms.Sipp40]

Happy Birthday to your pops!🎉🎉

[@tyyinspires]

Tony be spot on on a lot of things and keep me laughing man 💯💯🤣🤣 He gone say whatever comes to his mind and I love it lmaooo my suggestion to any new listener when it comes to TG is KNOW THY SELF FIRST, then take the lessons that resonate with you from him and get rid of the rest. He drop 💎💎💎 every video.

[@yumyumb0125]

I know the mind of Mrs. Gaskins is truly one of a kind. I have a question, does she listen to all of your videos? You be having me rolling in the best way and I want to know the "Mrs. Gaskins Way" when you get to talking about your past experiences. You never say anything disrespectful but I just gotta know. The flesh in me would be rolling my eyes at my mate but I have a feeling she don't give those stories one thought. Busy being in Super Mommy mode saving the day for all of y'all 😂 I love it. I told my 16 year old son that I want him to listen to you. You're definitely doing God's work. God bless 🙏🏽

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

He said she doesn’t

[@yumyumb0125]

@@thebarbieinvestor5428 i can believe that. She's a gem

[@misstab2869]

​@thebarbieinvestor5428 Yep,not longago, because she doesn't need the advice. Also, they've talked about everything. She knows all his stories and probably even more than we have, she's been with him over 17 years.😂

[@KristinEmbery]

If this isn’t the most accurate ass information i have heard at 35!!!!!!!! Wow where have you been with this!!!!

[@patriciabennett1819]

Hi Tony , you are doing great helping those who need guidance. I wish you and your family the very best. Kindest regards from England.

[@IvyElizabeth918]

Sidenote: I definitely paused the video when you said to cut it off for the kids 😂😂 my daughter will surely absorb every word

[@ruthdavis8020]

Tony said is that the Charcoochie board yall be talking about - im screaming 😂😂😂

[@montricec8795]

😂😂😂😂

[@1984RADIO]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@candy_land1301]

Love this, I’m interested!!

[@selflove6050]

Calling Pastor Todd feminine🤯 😂😂😂 now I'm with you when right. Bro why 😭😭

[@ambinodagreat]

BLOCKED ‼️‼️ I love when Tony G says that 😂

[@brookeburnett4707]

EVERY TIME !!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@CourtneyB]

The example of a feminine man 😂 thought I was the only one who noticed!

[@Melissa-td6ln]

I couldnt believe my ears. This man DOESNT care. Lmfaaaooooo

[@thehawtempress]

The name drop was necessary and unapologetic 😂

[@inkonp-Able]

I needed this today ❤

[@undercovernewsnetwork]

Your advice is spot on

[@nebitnoprezime9871]

Wow! I just ended situationship after 7 month. He was love bombing me for so long time. Last time I saw him he asked me : do you have a million for me.?? But as a good student of TG , I knew that this 🤡was finally showing his true intentions- I said a man who asks for money is not welcome in my life. You are not going to get a cent from me! I never saw him or heard from him again ! Btw every time he said I love you- I answered no you don’t ! You are lying.” To be clear, i will take a bullet for my husband. Husband that God has for me. But no 🤡 ever more in my life. Thanks for teaching T 🙏🏻 Give hug to your precious wife 🌷from her sister in humanity 🧕🏻

[@LayersOfLex]

Confirmation I did all the right things for the wrong man 50:02 God will send my husband in his will and timing ❤

[@nyanisamajavu4508]

Red wine, white wine loooooool! Tony you are killing me.

[@LadyAngela678]

My aunt has been married to a man almost 20 years that has to stand on her neck to feel like a man. Before her he was and had nothing. I could never.

[@jessicatobias9371]

38 years my mom and dad ! She still has hope😅😢

[@alexandriaray8079]

Thank You Tony

[@tracychromes7155]

I felt the same about Mike Todd.

[@janetmcnish-counsellor3712]

Happy birthday Mr Gaskins Snr. Abundant blessings to you sir for the years to come.

[@breannn]

This was very needed! Thank you!!

[@UrbanFitMom]

I’m so glad you said, it takes time

[@DeniseM4698]

I needed to see this

[@bdiana690]

Well I do so appreciate your sharing "The Truth" still learning don't know all "Da Game." While mature age some things are obvious. God bless you, biz and family as you're doing The Lord's Work. 🙏🏽

[@justbnme2574]

Your explanation on recognizing a closeted gay man made me feel that my intuition was on point regarding a couple of men I was once in relationship with. One of the individuals used to make a point of pointing out other men that he perceived to be gay. Like, why is that important to me, and more so, why are you concerned??? 🤔 I really appreciate all the game you share about men.❤

[@ow82734]

Hey, “Blessed Tribe” Don’t Forget 2 Hit The 👍🏾Up😇🥳

[@sheilaisaacs4360]

Thank you so much for speaking on this topic.🙏🏾

[@trose3070]

Lol.. I had to get my kid out the room 😂😂

[@wanjikukariuki285]

Tony please remind me not to mess with you 😂

[@Annbunn7]

Right. On. Time. 👏🏽

[@meiyaslaughter4944]

Literally just broke up with someone it was month 2. Please keep your legs closed it’s easier to cut them off. Now everything I was asking him for in the relationship he’s doing ie sending scriptures and prayers every morning. I don’t even read the messages. It’s been a week and he’s still at it. Imma see how long he go for with NO CONTACT.

[@CocoaBananas23]

BLOCKED! 😂 iktr! We don’t care how you come with that sermon of the day Tony just come with it. People have some nerve lol smh

[@apparentlybfb7754]

No, I pray the Holy Spirit allows us to discern between love bombing and natural attraction. I’m a reformed lesson learner from the bricks God threw against my head! Game these guys running I can laugh at them now! 🙏🏾😇

[@BBChar]

😂😂😂I literally listen receive & apply if applicable but TG is hilarious like I be cracking up because he be so honest but his examples took me out in this video😂

[@susblackcat]

Thank you for this video 🙏🏼

[@nivanisadhai2476]

It’s best to allow a man to fall in love with you when you know he’s true and faithful to you rather than sleeping with him on the first date or early on in the relationship.

[@sherriwilcox6916]

😂😂😂😂 no brown liquor in the sun!!!

[@BlancaRosa79]

lol 😂 ooohhhh man!!!! They did Tony dirty with the fried chicken lol

[@CoreLabb]

I saw some crazy stuff coming out about "gay thugs" in the music industry since PD arrested. Talking about buff, masculine, well known men.

[@Officialpriscillajackson]

Happy birthday Pops 🎉

[@KJ-gz2vi]

when you talk about a man stealing your light…that’s what I feel offset did to cardi. he put all them babies in her to sit her down and steal her light

[@staciadavis3714]

You ain't never lied!

[@Beautybycaraballo]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@reginad.tucker-musicminist6198]

Blessed Tribe!🔥❤️

[@iamchanel_b]

yooooo! I been saying Mike Todd suspect.... lol omg! Tony you ARE FUNNYYYYYYY 😂

[@Annda.Allenn]

“ HE SAID; IT AINT NUN HE CAN DO TO SCARE YOU!!!” I just can not! 🤣🤣🤣🤣.. He said: HE CAN GET A AK 47!! “ Look at sweetems over here mad” 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[@thebadasscoder298]

@31:30 I have not been able to tell if this current experience I am in is love bombing or a genuine interest but I definitely agree with Tony about some men looking to steal things away from women on a spiritual level. Lately, I've noticed much has been taken away from me and it's been a nightmare especially due to it being my second rodeo and past traumas keeping the lines blurred.

[@sabrinawhiting5140]

Thanks tony

[@eloisewarren9908]

Right On!!!

[@cjrddic3548]

Yup ! Only. He. Know also tells you What he think u want too. Hear

[@Sue212]

I went on a first date and when I got home he sent me a picture of a car seat he had ready for my son 🤐

[@TrishC5280]

Wat 🤦🏽‍♀️ nope!

[@BlancaRosa79]

What in the world!!

[@kristenpearis2830]

😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

[@deneciaanderson4267]

Very eerie

[@TanequaJohnson]

It’s a no…he’s definitely crazy and moving wayyy too fast

[@tiffanywilliams4850]

I had a man to tuck himself after he came out the shower. It blew my mind I told him men don’t do that you just messed my thoughts up about you and he was like I’m just playing. I can’t never unsee that

[@ange2122]

Fornication

[@wellwateredwoman897]

TONY WAS TALKING TO ME IN THIS VIDEO!! 💯

[@OccuringNow]

23:56 I typed him in and immediately gave him my side eye 😂😂😂I don’t need to see the video

[@8806Erika]

Ok i looked up Mike Todd and yes lol hes definitely the type 👀

[@AllThingsLove.]

Thats why I am single right now and not doing NOTHING with the opposite sex....too many of those conversations with the lil nasties 😂 like do I give off that energy smh Ima work on my 3B's while yall get yallself together.

[@andreamegec9836]

We are friends one year and he told me few times that I am so special to him, and that he loves me with love of Christ. What does it mean. Other day he sends me thank God for everything and specialy for you my dear sister. Is he hiding feelings 😮

[@MahoganyGlaze]

@@andreamegec9836 girl just ask. I’m under the impression that if you have to ask or question “then I caution to the side of nahhh he just sees you as a sister like he’s been saying!” But it can’t hurt to ask and be clear because what you don’t want to happen is you are confused about every nice thing he does or says!

[@GoldenGraham25]

Ask him! Establish the environment that you’re comfortable in having a potentially awkward comment. He must be clear and so should you. Beating around the bush is for the romantic comedies but in real life, a year of being unsure is wasting time.

[@GoldenGraham25]

I’ll add, as an late blooming, slightly awkward Apostolic churched girl, lifelong church men are a little awkward too…. And that’s okay too. Just as long as there’s a genuine connection.

[@Themis103]

It’s true.

[@DeniseM4698]

45:44 Popeyes and red Fanta 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Maxine_Dazzles]

Look at sweetums 😂 over here mad. Lol 😆.

[@damarish.torres145]

Oh this is the chatuchi they be talmabout 😂😂😂

[@ladylinton22]

“Little work”….not too much on Mrs. Gaskins

[@AikoFilms]

This man is so funny I can't "BLOCKED" LOLLLL

[@God-Essence]

46:47 couldn’t do nun but laugh😂😂😂