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[@chickwitthagoodies]

So many games seem like being single not bad at all

[@heyyashleyyy2669]

Right smh. F starting a family with one of them. I think I’m good tbh

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

I agree I don't have any business in being in a relationship.

[@DsCompilations]

Single is not a curse! 📚

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

@@DsCompilations rather be single than put up with a lot of nonsense.

[@patricemurray6412]

So true, I'm good!

[@MsKB7]

Fast and pray about a guy before getting to involved with him because 99% are liars🤷🏽‍♀️

[@dimediamond]

Yes yes yes yes yes yes. Ask God to reveal his motives. 🌹

[@LadyAngela678]

Girl bye. I aint missin no meal for a man! Lol

[@deidrajefferson]

Tony, you’re videos are awesome and you always speak the truth! Ladies you may not want to hear it ,but he speaks the truth/ times may change but men remain the same men like an old fashion lady.

[@mariagrady8425]

Yes some of them be lying when they lying. (I be thinking, I wish I could kick him with an iron boot without him knowing I did it. While I am looking at him.)

[@chloep8808]

First Name Last Name 🤣🤣 I shouldn’t have laughed. But praying and fasting WORKS!

[@Bgrace15]

As a single mother to a 5 year old little girl, this video has put even more fear in me. I felt compelled to pray as I was watching because it's actually scary out here. I pray that the spirit of desperation, loneliness and fear never overrides our discernment. My God. Help us Lord.

[@erica8657]

Same here. I have a 5yr old as well. I will continue to pray and wait ❤️

[@taylorjanay8919]

I agree with you ladies. I have a 4 year old little girl. We definitely do have to seriously keep in pray because the devil will definitely send a counterfeit in a minute to throw you off guard. May the Lord grant us contentment and discernment within our season of singleness 💛🌻🙏🏽

[@kheriphillip878]

Bless you for praying! Bless us all.❤

[@MidnightMoon88]

God Bless 🙏🏾

[@naturallyfree01krj50]

Amen sista

[@flaviafiaes747]

“MEN be looking for a excuse to cut you off BUT Woman be looking for a reason to keep YOU”... Damn so damn true!! My lace even lifted after hearing that 😅

[@tiarachiffon8131]

Lmao, not the lace sis! You have me cracking up!

[@sunflowersoul821]

Omg! 😂 Aye, and it made my kinky hair straight.

[@traumamom4338]

😂😂😭😭 not super Mario sound effects too funny yee!! I fool with tony g.!! We appreciate your help out here in these streets

[@nikkyshamz2696]

This is God's honest truth

[@jaybae7315]

😂

[@dimediamond]

Be as wise as a serpent and harmless as a dove. 🐦

[@TINAVTATUM]

One of my favorite versus!

[@bambam6231973]

Is this a Proverb...love this??

[@dimediamond]

@@bambam6231973 Matthew 10:16

[@bambam6231973]

@@dimediamond thank you!

[@ChaeThompson]

Amen

[@Iknomyworth25]

The scenarios you use are HILARIOUS...but we really do fall for the dumbest stuff🤣 idk how many times I looked back and was like WHAT IN THE WORLD was I thinking

[@alicehardy8040]

Me tooo

[@officialwatchamber]

Tisha Nicole what in the world 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@citygirl713]

I know all I have to do is look at my exes and be like wtfreakkkkkk!!! When those rose tinted glasses fall off it's like, "AGHHHHHH 🤯 what thaaaa??!!!!!!!!"

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Say it again 🤣🤣🤣, thank God for deliverance

[@TRIPLEMLUXE]

You ain’t lying girl! I can always get a good laugh from Tony, but the information is so factual! I always look back too, like I should’ve been watching these videos years ago

[@jlove3371]

“This is a grown boy. This is a man who comes to steal, kill and destroy, just like the devil cause that’s who he’s working for and that’s who he’s sent by.” 🤣🤣 absolutely! 💯

[@tyjajackson5892]

Rather be single

[@AS-br8in]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@lauramorgan27]

DEAD

[@donnajeffreys8252]

Don't let a man's church attendance fool you , the devil is in church too

[@Godislove818]

“don’t give the man more credit than he deserves” needed to hear this... Be Blessed

[@Carolyn100000]

Thank you for this information, you are a blessing.

[@malebom]

Ladies never take that prayer for granted: "Lord reveal to me if this man is worthy." I'm a living testimony of that and what was revealed got me running for my life without looking back! Thank you Tony 🙏🏽💫

[@lams8415]

Listen to TG! My ex treated me like a “queen” so to speak, didn’t argue back, and let everything slid of his back, but once I got pregnant, I swear he switched over night! Was his plan all along I guess... women take your time, love yourself, being single is NOT a curse!

[@bryannatate7634]

Same thing happened to me! Plus he was a momma boy. I was angry with myself for so long, I just take the lesson & my blessing and keep going.🙏🏾

[@talyshahickerson7281]

Me too! He was so good to me while I was pregnant (catered to me, went to every appointment, etc) then after I gave birth I became an afterthought. He’s a mama’s boy too (only child) and I think it was his plan to get me pregnant because he was nearing 30 and all his friends/classmates were getting married and having babies. He’s 7 years older than me and I was a naive 20 year old when we met. Lord, if I knew then what I know now. 😅 No regrets, just lessons.

[@letsbefruitful5457]

Same thing happened to me 😐

[@nathlitakarnley7495]

Were there red flags at first though?

[@donnajeffreys8252]

Being Single is peaceful 💙 serenity

[@SonnaBean]

Say that, Tony. "You fightin' against your own intuition to appease your desperation". Wooooo. You AIN'T NEVER Lied. When you are fighting what your soul and mind knows to be true, it is like swimming up stream with one arm tied around your back. If you are receiving that much opposition against that man and your relationship, something is not right. Get off the merry-go-round then take it to the LORD in prayer.

[@janed675]

@Sonya Everhart, this entire video should be a PSA for all women! The quote you mentioned is so crucial to understand and acknowledge.

[@officialwatchamber]

Sonya Everhart lawwwwwddddd !!!

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“With this representative... You cannot take anything he shows you to the head and allow it to lull you to sleep.” TG

[@julesm.545]

Word!

[@bc1248]

Dr. Elaine Correct. The biggest weakness in women I believe, is the desire to be beautiful and be seen as beautiful. That in itself has women lulled to sleep.

[@naturallyfree01krj50]

"Before GOD send destiny the devil will send distraction " TG. Now that was POWERFUL!!!

[@josephinelamien5283]

And the when the distraction broke your heart, put confusion in you, you're sometimes not be able to dicerne your destiny

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Very profound

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

YES total truth

[@AS-br8in]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@tulip4169]

Honestly, the only way a woman can have discernment and recognize signs when a man is dishonest, is if they have a relationship with God and particularly filled with the Holy Spirit. Wisdom and discernment comes from God only. That is the only way. Otherwise, she’s blinded to the truth.

[@healed2011]

Yes, so true!

[@kareeshasimonebenjamin5706]

Singleness is a gift from God to help us become a better version of ourselves spiritually mentally & physically , the better you are at being single and elevating the better the partner God has for you

[@Jazz.Ministry]

We gotta move slower ladies we got this 🙌🏾

[@MoufAll-Mighty]

Tell the truth, the representative really does pretend and will make you think you're the best thing since sliced bread. You might think they like Chinese food in the beginning only to find they really can't stand it. "Fools Rush In" Ladies, have patience don't rush in, the game is real.

[@chickwitthagoodies]

This is so true 2 days ago a man was rushing to get to know me on fb I had to hurry and exit stage left

[@nikkyshamz2696]

👌🏽👌🏽

[@DynamicallyDC]

"Grown boys are good at playing roles." That sums it up right there! 💯 Take it slow and don't get lulled to sleep by their representative. The red flags will show!! 🙌🏾

[@janed675]

Some women ignore the red flags.

[@DynamicallyDC]

@@janed675 Many of us have, but that doesn't mean that the red flags weren't there. I know in the past when I saw red flags I've settled and gave them the benefit of the doubt not wanting to judge, or be shallow. Instead I should've followed my intuition, discernment, & common sense.

[@michellebarnum8465]

@@DynamicallyDC me too

[@aneshrathomas]

Yes ma’am they can only fake it for so long 👏🏾

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

This is so funny because a grown boy approached me yesterday & told me all his bad habits right off the bat. I'm like yea he a grown boy & over the age of 40. I took off so fast 😂

[@LaSultrySoul]

Go ahead girl that's even worst when they 40 and over.

[@denisedean8503]

I know that's right girlfriend run fast.

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

@@LaSultrySoul okay I'm like really well thank you for letting me know so I don't waste more than the 5 mins I talked to you 😂💪💯👌

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

@@denisedean8503 🅿👌

[@survivorship4290]

Stop lettin' a man talk you out yo' common sense!! ~TG 👏🏾👍🏽💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@siennamillerbroadcast]

This was PRICELESS👈💪!

[@elizabethsara991]

What does it mean

[@survivorship4290]

"Stop being desperate for Love. Take your Time! Be patient. The stakes are Higher today." ~TG 😔💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@thisqueeniswokenow5895]

I truly feel sorry for the girls, that had no male influence in their lives. Some men play on that, and the girl thinks he really loves her.

[@lorigray1150]

Me too sis, I had a father and three brothers and learned a lot from them

[@c.g.graygray9697]

I rebuke all evil, and negative things in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

[@angelasmith1443]

C.G.graygray Amen

[@c.g.graygray9697]

@@angelasmith1443 thank you for being in agreement with me, and God bless you my sister. Amen. 🤗❤️

[@c.g.graygray9697]

@@angelasmith1443 we can read Matthew 18:19-21, Zechariah 3:2, Matthew 4:10-11, Ephesians 6 the whole chapter, Ephesians 6:11-24, Mark 16:15-17and Mark 16: 20, James 4:7, Acts 16:16-18 , the whole chapter of Acts 16 is very interesting, and encouraging, and Mark 16:19 is awesome. Read all of these for more understanding, and encouragement. Amen.

[@sadetrelove]

Amen

[@annettesolomon1347]

Needed to hear this again ... I wish this video would have came out 10mths ago I would have out on my track shoes back then... Lesson learned I know better and I'm going to do better.

[@reggaejamgurl]

Amen! I needed this a year ago too. I was in a long emotional abusive relationship with a grown boy. I praise the Lord, that I got out of the relationship. I am not looking back and will do better next time.

[@moniquealexander9375]

Lol right. I needed to hear this like 2 weeks ago.

[@officialwatchamber]

Glad you received the message now!! God bless you 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@brooke5299]

Same here!! But I’m glad I know this channel exists now!

[@singleparentfire2363]

The real victims in these situations are the children, those poor kids being exposed to these toxic guys because their mothers are desperate for love.

[@brownsugarglamour]

That “bbbbring” sound effect has me DYING 😭😭😭💀

[@tinal6594]

I know this is a very serious subject, however when Tony Gaskins said dude was going to pull the whole Booth out I almost spit out my drink! I am laughing so hard😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@elainepjones2478]

The Whole Booth Sis🤣🤣🤣

[@kikic7637]

Yessss🤣🤣

[@officialwatchamber]

Tina L lmaaaooooo was in tears 🤣🤣🤣

[@siennamillerbroadcast]

Lol 😆 Tina...me too! I actually had a guy to DO THIS!!!

[@feleciapowell5792]

This video is so timely because this quarantine got us all seeing Smoke & Mirrors😩 Oh Tony you so petty for making the SONIC THE HEDGEHOG coins sound ! I hollered >> but these videos are influential because I swear when I finish listening to a guys foolishness I hear you say “ Oop Gotta Go .. you hear me . Bye bye “ 🤣😄😂 I’ll never forget that example u gave about jumping out the car & not being a ride or die ! God Bless The Gaskins Family ✨

[@janed675]

Yes, his examples are indeed memorable. I hear "Gotta go!" in my head all the time!😀

[@feleciapowell5792]

Jane D yass I wish he’d put it on a T-shirt ! I’m hollering 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@Erica-et4ye]

‘Oop, gotta go’ definitely should be on a t-shirt 😂🤣

[@janed675]

@@feleciapowell5792 Me, too!😂😂😂

[@myoshirobinson6153]

Girl the coin noise tickled me, I cracked up

[@warriormiss]

One of the most strongest force is a woman's intuition. Your intuition is strong, but you're fighting your own intuition to appease your desperation. - Tony Gaskins

[@katrinabrown7871]

"Stop letting GROWN BOYS talk you out your common sense".... PeriodT When I was 17 my stepfather just said something to me about my shape and I told my mom and she immediately confront him and went to hitting him in the head with the handle of her gun. She react first and asked questions later because several perverted men have tried me just because I was very shapely as a teen girl and my mom didn't play the radio. It's sad some men are still the same way to this day. I don't bring no one around my 13 yr old daughter.....smh Thank you Tony for sharing your knowledge.....every sense I've been watching your videos I look at all men sideways.....lol😂 👀

[@maebeacook]

AAAALLLLL of them......sideways.

[@geegar3825]

you have a great mother & you’re a great one as well!

[@tameekaharris6425]

Mom plays no games 🤣and I don't blame her, predators will groom the women first then her child

[@naturalcurlyhair8331]

When a man and a woman don't know God, and not living anything is Very Dangerous! A lot of men are not trying to get married but they are quick to give you a baby or a disease. God gives you Grace and Mercy, but it will run out. God will give you chances and he will give you warnings. If you keep on keeping on being disobedient it's not going to end up good.

[@BreeziDeezi]

“As a woman, you have to move slower” Sir, that could’ve been the entire video for me 👏🏽

[@candaceclark9266]

The funny thing is theses guys can’t even keep it up for 6 months to a year! Give them 60 days and you will see inconsistency 🙄

[@brigitteanderson3587]

Amen He shouldn’t even be around your children for a good period of time 👏👏👏

[@erynd.9911]

Exactly!! So please don’t ask to pray over my child bc that does not impress me sir that would actually creep me out lol

[@meshacole1421]

Yes lol fs creepy

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

I've been celibate 3 years. Praise the Lord

[@helena3631]

Close to 5 year for me…not interested in sex at this point in my life just leveling up my mind and bag

[@tameekaharris6425]

"Before God send Destiny, the devil will send distraction" Now that's a word Tony!

[@talicialee]

Man that Mario Brother's analogy got me rolling 🤣. The pinching booty part did it for me too (not jokingly) because you can't fake play touching somebody daughter. Bruh don't touch my daughter in no type of way. You got me messed up. I pray that everybody who is reading this allow God to renew your mind. Everything you can't catch with your natural eye, you have to allow the spirit to lead you.

[@mariagrady8425]

Yes, I have played that game with my children an grands. I was rolling too.

[@mariagrady8425]

I do not like that but touching an thumping evil ither. That is saying are you ripe for me. Like a piece of fruit.

[@sha2408]

The video game analogy is so real! 🎮 🤾🏽🤾🏽🤾🏽😂

[@ladonnadavid9882]

It really is!!! Now, I’ll be thinking about this from now on!

[@talicialee]

Lol, this will be in head from now on too.

[@yw6502]

I’m telling you 👏🏾

[@erynd.9911]

I agree my son plays this one game where you have to jump up to collect the coins and it makes the same exact sound Tony is making 🤣😂

[@AidaRivera]

He is so correct about this.

[@nafi212]

Tony gaskins isn’t even a female but I’m telling you he understands us even more than we understand ourselves.This is exactly how women are when they find a man.They start calling everyone and saying “ sis this is the ONNNE” 😂😂😂

[@tiarachiffon8131]

Lmao. “ Sis this is the one “ I’m dying!

[@nafi212]

Tiara C lol 😂

[@Edeana98]

Tony is too much for me! "Go To SLEEP" HE IS NOT WRONG. Tony outdoes his dramatics every day! This video is so essential.

[@m.amberspivey3472]

“GO TO SLEEP” - had me rolling. Lol He is on point

[@ladyddatruthseeker]

TONY 🤣😂🤣TAAAAAALLLLLLLKKKKKK 😂🤣

[@ladyddatruthseeker]

Wait WHAT, HELL TO THE NAW TO THE NAW NAW NAW...I'M SO COOL SOLO DOLO..STR8UP

[@ladyddatruthseeker]

😂🤣TG😂WALK HEAVY 🤣TAAAAAALLLLLLLKKKKKK

[@intentionalgreatness]

He does. It gets better daily lol

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

Uncle Tony, did NOT come to play with us TUHDAY.

[@reneedavis7248]

Trying so hard not to beat myself up over the choices I made. It’s just so unbelievable. I just wanna hide and never be seen.

[@magneticfavor9500]

we shall Overcome 🙏🏾🦅💪🏼

[@binspired3117]

Ms. Renee Davis imagine the most cunning devils approaching an innocent Angel. Imagine that! These grown boys are so cunning and we have to forgive ourselves because we thought they were like us kind, honest and caring. It hurts when deceived but remember our pain is not ours. We share are pain in the stories of our life so that others can learn. Pick yourself up be proud that you are a good human being. Like Tony says work on the 3 Bs brain, body and brand. You and the Holy Spirit got this. God has NEVER lost a battle. Be Blessed 😇🌞🌈💕

[@ShaBoh88]

SELF LOVE SELF LOVE SELF LOVE

[@Kellergirl]

Listen to Tony. I just got out of a 5 1/2 year situationship with a man who told me he wasn't like the rest, he'll never hurt me, he'll never leave me. He gave me "toys". He tried to get me to go to the strip club with him. All the while, he had no intention of being with me. I was a friend with benefits for 5 1/2 years. He wore the mask well, and fooled me good. Don't make the same mistake I did.

[@marciathomas1868]

I'm in a similar situation

[@Kellergirl]

@@marciathomas1868 As Tony says, put your track shoes on and run. Please. Don't waste 5 1/2 years of your life on a grown boy like I did.

[@marciathomas1868]

Its so hard to let him go.. I'm making appointment for therapy.

[@Kellergirl]

@@marciathomas1868 I know it's hard. I know. I'm glad you're getting therapy. That will help.

[@Kellergirl]

@@Miss.Melody83 I've definitely learned my lesson. Never again.

[@lams8415]

“He understands if he can seduce the people you introduce him to, then he got you, because they got your ear, and it’s easy for him to do thats because he’s not around them all the time” OMG when I said this is true as light and day!!! They will have your mama thinking they a angel.

[@jaybae7315]

Yup! Finessin' at its BEST!

[@mytargetedindividuallifeav3745]

I am so glad that I am single, have not dated or anything since my divorce over 6 yrs ago. After listening to this I am in no rush to date I will continue to wait on the Lord. These Grownboys ain't no joke. My heart goes out to the young ladies and older one that fall into this trap deception by Satan's representative's. This is so real and applicable.

[@harmonydriven7622]

Ain't missing Nuting... nada smh

[@toniwilliams9817]

Dating and marriage are scary nowadays, so we need to stay single, celibate, and wait on God to bring our mates....these people will kill you nowadays...

[@mariadaskalakis9317]

“Stop letting grown boys talk you out your common sense.” (I’m going to add: common sense - AND what you saw with your own two eyes) Coach coming in with a difficult topic and just 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 TRU TH

[@tamjamtv]

If men/grown boys are going through all these lengths just to lie & create a fascade. It validates why I won't be investing my emotions & that men will have to majorly invest. Makes no sense otherwise. I love myself enough, I don't need love from anyone else. If I have a child that's where I'll invest some love. In a man, hell no. The most a man can get from me is respect and that will be earned over lengthy periods of time.

[@Juju-gf3iq]

The title alone “Grown Boy” university!! 😩 this is so true “the representative” often women stay just hoping for the “representative” will come back but baby you have to charge it to the game. We gotta stop staying because of the “potential” we think someone has..

[@PrettyDreadie]

Grown boy university 🤣🤣🤣

[@brigitteanderson3587]

ROTFL 😂 you’re describing a man who has forgotten his identity in Christ - and not walking in the spirit, haven’t learn who Christ is Or his identity in Christ

[@brigitteanderson3587]

That’s exactly right Tony it’s about those kids it doesn’t make any sense having these men around your young under age children. You are on point 👏👏👏👏 Ladies listen 👂 up

[@brigitteanderson3587]

I agree put the toy down ....lol call your friends & gather a midnight prayer 🙏🏼 meeting

[@justme_lo]

Amen 🙌

[@brigitteanderson3587]

ROTFL 😂

[@MoufAll-Mighty]

Which is most men.

[@lizzylewis5793]

I'm so glad I ran into Tony Gaskins 2 years ago on youtube, my life has been forever changed. Listen to this man and be careful out there ladies. Let God lead you, not your flesh.

[@brit9134]

I'm reporting for class.

[@tinabouris1844]

me 2🙂

[@jaybae7315]

Mmmmmh! You betta!!

[@mskaityb2879]

Sooooo true a met a pastor that smokes weed 😂😂😂 talking about the scriptures then rolling up the Mary Jane 😂😂😂make it make sense

[@mariadaskalakis9317]

Wow

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

Huhhhhhh???? The world is over 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ayessacamara3995]

🙄... Ladies we just have to converse with God directly and pray to Him that he sent us someone right for us....

[@Lifeofalishaa]

💀

[@stephaniebrown9105]

@@valeriea.8332 You asked God for guidance. He answered your prayer, and now it sounds like you are ignoring the answer God has given you. Either you will trust God and His love, protection and guidance for what is best in your life, or you are not, and possibly have to deal with unnecessary pain and heartache down the line.

[@janeljones9817]

You speaking truth. Just ask Tamar Braxton. Her boyfriend used her for a come up. Women when y'all gon learn to stop fornicating.

[@sheloves3663]

This took me way too long to figure out in my dating life. But thankful I understand it now 🙏🏽 Men will adjust their mask based on what will get them access/your trust. Also, we tend to give out passes when you’re so fixated on the ideal of what you think you see vs the reality of what he’s showing you. Be cautious ladies and let men earn your heart and love 💗

[@kathylofton4530]

Teach lady!

[@olivet5885]

Nobody: Not one soul: Tony: Ring RInG rINg 😂😂 You are one of a kind God Bless you 😭

[@lisademure9372]

Lol at Connor McGregor 🤣🤣🤣. Moral of the story is Time tells all...pay attention

[@moniquealexander9375]

Thanks for providing this information to us in such a humorous way. Some women are really hurt by their actions but when you make it funny, it also provides laughter instead of tears. So can we have a video about hitting the reset button lol. After, we made the mistakes of being fooled by the representative and we learned our lesson.

[@nicolelagamo11]

Ladies meditation is the answer. It will get you out of your head and into your body (in tune with your emotions and intuition) to eventually loving yourself so much that you will never accept disrespect ❤❤

[@sharonkeggins290]

Not 31 days 6hrs and 12 seconds 😂😂😂😂😂

[@angiedee5124]

😂😂

[@ahzhane10]

This is crazy. Can't believe woman be that damn desperate to allow a man to do what you mentioned. Not even a damn family member. Tragic. Ladies we really have to do better and open your eyes. There is alot of con-artist out here. That comes in all ages young and old. Pleasssssseeee respect yourself and children better.

[@janed675]

Tony is exactly right! When younger, I allowed myself to be duped several times. These are the kind of tricks they'd use. By the time the mask fell, I was too in love to leave. I finally learned my lesson. You have to learn to truly love yourself first and to be content on your own. Then, maybe you're ready for a relationship. At this point, I'd rather not be in one. ( Sidenote- my father died when I was 8, and my mother never remarried. So I had no male role models.)

[@Mandy4JC]

This.was.an.EXCELLENT.breakdown. Tony you are the real MVP

[@christineporter9914]

Ikr , Bro Tony is the real MVP

[@officialwatchamber]

Amanda I big facts 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@tejefferson6869]

The devil is a liar, but Brother Tony tells the truth! I had a family member tell me that they were so "distraught", after hearing that I had ended a relationship with a grown boy, because he was "so nice". I told her he was also a selfish, inconsiderate, financially irresponsible, unreliable, gambling addicted, drug using, lying, cheater.

[@portiadenise3728]

You always come with that HEAT..you be burning us up!!! But boy do we need it! I pray God continues to bless you and your beautiful family!!!!

[@janieh3950]

Straight 🔥

[@eviegirlfl]

He is right letting kids on any man's lap ! My mom let a man sit me on his lap and that when he touched me. So please listen to him he knows what he saying. It was awful. 😔

[@Bgrace15]

😂😂😂😂 this entire video 🤣🤣 the conversation with the First lady took me out 😭😭😭😭

[@peacefulbliss323]

Those "friends" will get you in trouble. Be careful who you friend. Tony this is very true. Also Tony tell them to drink Chamomile Tea if the are scared of Melatonin. Lol! Thank you for the information and knowledge.

[@sweetkelllz]

Yup, my friend encouraged me to work things out with my crazy baby daddy. Telling me that I have issues as well. Smh, I eventually cut her off as well.

[@liveforothers6598]

This man is blessed! his wife is his biggest supporter too, you can tell that they're ONE team. He never forgets to mention her, God bless you Tony! You're a good man, stay blessed.

[@lekeshiacole9065]

I met my ex spouse Representative.. But when I got my common sense back. I was gone. Thank you Tony for giving us Wisdom about the foolish behavior of men. I’m glad I realized I was dealing with a Grown boy with a addiction.

[@michaelamarcia2336]

🗣🗣 These boys playing games on a whole NEW level!! Say it loud for the people in the back

[@mindmoneyandsoul]

Not the Garlic bread 😂😂😂😂 I swear you are a comedian

[@bambam6231973]

My ex waited to act a fool after 3 years I left and he got mad it was crazy people want you to stay after they misuse you..smh!

[@singlemotherfoundation_]

"Get 2 pounds of crab legs" 😭😭😭 Ball out then 😜😜😜

[@jerushab9091]

“God heard you, but the devil heard you too. Before God sends destiny, the devil will send distraction.” This is so true. Wow!

[@roxannecrowder2007]

Again, you have said a mouthful. The LORD is really using you and the world needs to hear this. 💯💯 Thank you for your knowledge.

[@demetraglenn7079]

It took me 4mos before I even let my ex come over to my house. Something told me not to get involve with him. I didn't listen, I guess bc he was someone I knew from my past. Worst mistake.. He's a narcissists/ptsd/ boy in a grown man's body. Now I'm trying to pick up my pieces and get myself bck together. Lying, cheating, selfish, manipulation, you name it...smmfh

[@naturallyfree01krj50]

And another one " men look for a reason to cut you off and women look for a reason to keep you" TG , how true smh.

[@erynd.9911]

You know what tony I’m not about to do this with you today 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 why is the First Lady having a fantasy about the deacon..i almost pissed my pants on that part ! Also you’re NOT meeting my child inside of 6 months and you’re most definitely not laying hands on him while he’s asleep 🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂😂 Ladies please tell me we ain’t out here falling for this mess! We have got to wake up and do better I am rooting for us we have the discernment and intuition that God has given us so we MUST do better we can not be desperate for love ! If you’re feeling desperate i urge you to stop dating for a season , go to therapy , get a life coach/mentor and stay in the word! Pray Hard !! I have to edit my comment for the last time bc if i man pinched my child on the butt i swear I will stab him or use my taser that is NEVER ok !! I don’t play about my child !!

[@mschat8776]

1Lady & your lustful conversation got people ready 🤣😂🤣

[@erynd.9911]

MsChat • 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@akua171]

Sad that he was from Ghana, it doesn't matter the culture a grown boy is a grown boy it is IMPERATIVE that you take your time and get to know people before you let them into your life

[@akua171]

@TheThinker04 girl yes you sound like you were dealing with a true Ghanaian man. I'm happy you left him.

[@akua171]

@TheThinker04it may not seem like it but the culture is way too different Ghanaians are soo religious that they be doing some crazy stuff in the name of the Lord. I am a first generation Canadian-ghanaian and I would never date a true Ghanaian because they be trippin. I'm learning from Mr gaskins a man, is a man, is a man.

[@betelihemtizazu2206]

No matter which culture you are a part of, that is true. I am Ethiopian and have seen successful and unsuccessful relationships in my ethnic community. I was born in Ethiopia, and raised here in the states, and 28 years old. All your skin folk is not your kin folk. I have heard and witnessed toxicity inside and outside of the ethnic community. Crazy is crazy, independent of the skin color, tribe, etc. I have learned to judge by character and integrity instead.

[@samanthaadkins5551]

Yep, my ex would put in a relationship. Not with who though, but all possessive with me. It's straight embarrassing ladies. I let him meet my friends exc.. I was so ashamed when it ended, that I cut them all off during the time I was slap crazy & needing support.

[@sunnyday3117]

What did he do

[@raymelshepard7984]

Thank you Tony. I really appreciate you for giving us all this knowledge in dealing with these men. It has helped me a lot

[@lekeshiacole9065]

Me too..

[@heyyashleyyy2669]

Facts. Opens your eyes to a lot

[@ccbaker3644]

And the men probably mad somewhere... thank you Tony Gaskins

[@erynd.9911]

Yes we have common sense and we will not de desperate for love missing all of the signs !!

[@valgal36]

Thanks for the reminder Tony! Was listening to a soulmate video a friend sent me by R.C. Blakes the other day and he gave you a shout out!! 😊

[@aletricefort9723]

I saw that too!

[@BeBeautifullyYou]

Tony, you need to write a screenplay! 😂😂😂 I really enjoyed today’s video, especially the part about bringing new people around children and into intimate settings.

[@kelisawhite7393]

So many women fall for this game including me but now that I’m married and so so happy with my life god blessed me I’m in his hands and I’ll never stop listening to his voice he get me

[@sispeepgame]

😂😂😂 Not a British accent! Unfortunately, that is VERY real.

[@janed675]

My ex had a fake Jamaican accent. I was in my early 20s and fell for it, until his family told me the truth. It started as a long distance relationship.

[@MissTracy-Ann]

@Ocean Flower @ 37:00

[@ariellenats]

I've known and been talking to a guy for 2 years but I realized he wasn't being consistent. So I stopped texting him. Today this man sent me pictures and a video of his engagement to a woman he's been involved with for 10 years. The audacity. I am over these grown boys. Great video as always Tony. I love this message 💖.

[@indyTyson]

Wowwww!! Smh you dodged a bullet! 🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@ayessacamara3995]

Good luck to his wife. She gonna need it. she had to wait 10 years for an engagement only. Lawdd🙄As Tony would say he did not find anything else better so he settled with her. A Life of sorrow on the horizon 😕😑

[@kathylofton4530]

This hurt me just reading it. I am so sorry.

[@ultimateoptimist5217]

Pray for the woman he is marrying. She is in it for a very rude awakening.

[@sharonkeggins290]

Lord I wish I heard this years ago! It’s never to late for knowledge though 🙏💕

[@denisedean8503]

You and me both sharon God Bless you 🙏

[@madamec2304]

Gurllllllll the truth ! God bless Tony Gaskins

[@jaybae7315]

Yup!

[@intentionalgreatness]

"He can GET IT"!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😂😂😂. Man i been there in the worst way. Thank you for knowing and understanding us women tony lol!

[@Dr.Elaine1]

And, got the 1st Lady lusting after Deacon Johnson! 🤣🤣🤣

[@intentionalgreatness]

@@Dr.Elaine1 😂😂😂

[@AidaRivera]

“It’s always gonna be one sentence that will set you free” 💯

[@annaadams86ful]

I just started listening to these videos... it takes a sensible woman to realize you are giving TRUTH about worldly men.

[@yvette9305]

He’s grown & he has made a choice. You still have a choice!

[@AshleyOra]

A lot of us women had gave or has given a man to much of our time when he is sitting at the throne of Grown Boy chair. I will say this and Tony already said it pray to ask God to expose the man for you know what yoy have come across. But please to do not ask for such if you are the type of woman who would debate the truth or pray to ask God to remove that spirit from him so he can be a good man for you. Please don't be that type. What God expose to you that that man is no good make your cut off game strong and go about your business. That's it

[@Michelelondon78]

OMG one of the best videos. The pr-ding pr-ding, pr- ding 🛎🛎🛎🛎 . Stay off your back ladies, focus on yourself. Let the man chase you for as long as possible, you'll soon see his true colours. ❤

[@RubyRoxxie]

“Now he got a British accent.” 🧐🤣🤣

[@macc1178]

Tony😅🤣😂😆 Forgiveness isn't for them Forgiveness is for yourself

[@arianams6710]

Can’t wait to watch this! This Grown boy university video will give me all the game

[@tiffanys.4250]

Tony you are wrong for that first lady joke!!!! 😂

[@DATGURL565]

T. S. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣