I’ve never felt so entertained yet informed at the same time 😂😂😂
@tyjajackson58924 жыл бұрын
No , seriously! This is why I watch him
@akua1714 жыл бұрын
Me too! Tony gaskins is legit God's blessing to us
@jaybae73154 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Gurrrllll!
@edieandy14 жыл бұрын
Hahha same!
@tyjajackson58924 жыл бұрын
Akua !!!! Like I feel like I gained so much knowledge about how to date a man. Like not get played ,at this point knowing how they think I BE DAMNEDDDDDDDD!
@uniquelondon12204 жыл бұрын
he will test sexually he will test you emotionally he will test you mentally he will test your standards he will test you spiritually he will test your insecurities he will test how you make decisions he will test your confidence or lack there of. Good stuff Tony...
@sherriecampbell69144 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your realness to the sisters!
@sadelynn22354 жыл бұрын
Yes, I love this!
@Iamchristaelaine4 жыл бұрын
I hate these test ugh.
@toriyt27144 жыл бұрын
Chrissy chriss the only reason you will hate the test is if your not ready or don’t think you are sound enough to pass. If you do the work they won’t even be any test to you because you’ll just be that person naturally and all the things will naturally be checked.
@snooty41804 жыл бұрын
Chrissy chriss Yes & when you learn how to use the tools of being a confident woman, you won’t stick around for tests...you will realize that he could be a low value man who needs to work on himself & has nothing to do with you.
@steftruth44774 жыл бұрын
The best way to a Man's heart is not to care about him so much and to chill. Trust Me it works.
@110718744 жыл бұрын
I’m learning the hard way. Thanks for this wisdom.
@jeralinsunflower73004 жыл бұрын
Yep. Very true. I’ve been learning to this with the guys I talk to now.
@steftruth44774 жыл бұрын
Hi Ladies, It took me years to figure this out too. I use to give so much and Loved so hard. Then I saw other Women who loved very minimally and chilled/ fell back from a Man and got handed the World.
@charlottestephenson17954 жыл бұрын
Does this really work?
@steftruth44774 жыл бұрын
@ Charlotte, As Women We have to learn to put Ourselves First and Stop putting the Man on an Unrealistic petal stool. I have seen that Woman who do Less Get More from Men.
@MsJay-cr1id4 жыл бұрын
This shit is exhausting. Makes you wanna stay single.
@Mindful.Movement.013 жыл бұрын
Foreal. I truly have no desire to date . Im just that tired and exhausted
@iasiagregory45583 жыл бұрын
@ Honey..lol
@Rebelle073 жыл бұрын
This.
@MsAliciadee3 жыл бұрын
Girl. Been single for three years. The men today want you test you everyday.
@lakeyshahayes33873 жыл бұрын
Forever.
@patricebrown7774 жыл бұрын
"I don't give three strikes. This is not baseball. This is my life.." - THIS ☝️👊❤️💎👑
@looplelou4 жыл бұрын
THIS ONE!!!! 💥✔️✔️✔️✔️ Mannnnn did I need this one when I was at the height of "pick-me" misery my 20's 😭😭😭😅
@blessedt5733 жыл бұрын
I agree! I had to tell my inconsistent ex to lose my number the last time he cancelled a date with me, and the next day he acted like we never had plans. I told him I’m not the ticket-I’m the prize
@vanillaicecream55513 жыл бұрын
Fr.
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
"Women never really meet a real man, he becomes a real man after he meets you" ~TG Get your standards in order ladies. Know your worth 🌹❤
@tinajones19324 жыл бұрын
Cher H, I stopped by to pick up your mic for you , well said 🎤
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@tinajones1932 thank u Queen! 💯🥰
@nashyaw39334 жыл бұрын
I’ve been telling people that for the longest! When we meet these men, we want the well put together man, where there is no work involved. We expect him to “know” to open doors, flowers, etc...but you have to teach your husband how to be YOUR husband. God gave him permission to marry you and a few pointers on how to handle you, but YOU have to teach him how to be YOURS!!! Setting boundaries etc, which makes him that man you’ve always wanted. It takes time and work, but YOU have to be willing.
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@nashyaw3933 you better say that!!! They better start people these grown boys in check life is worth living not putting up with a grown boys bullshh
@tinajones19324 жыл бұрын
@Jack Frost, nah we good over here. Thanks for the invite. We'll keep chilling where we are!!!
@StephaniesWorld74 жыл бұрын
“You gotta starve lust” Amen 🙏🏽
@agadonk4 жыл бұрын
This really shows, it's not about having a big heart, you need boundaries! A big heart don't mean be a doormat..
@Bells_Ville3 жыл бұрын
Who else walk around feelin like they got the game on lock after they listen to Mr.Gaskins 👀💯✔😂
@raquelhenderson92952 жыл бұрын
Frfr
@chereignadixon Жыл бұрын
🤚🏽
@angelhampton4365 Жыл бұрын
Personally what he says I've been taught or I've learned through life however it feels like he's my brother and he gives a different perspective. I listen to him when I need a pep talk
@pallana3701 Жыл бұрын
Not me cause soon as opportunities present I forget and have to KIM , until I go look at my notes to make sure I know all the points and why he standing like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jcymngo Жыл бұрын
I didn't before but I do now. And every single reaction he says a man will have to the T. It happens.
@jocelynnicole66310 ай бұрын
It’s crazy how Tony literally scripted out my life by what a guy has said to me and the game he played. This man knows exactly what he is talking about.
@Carolina4809 ай бұрын
He’s a man men know exactly how men play us
@Heavenlysky894 ай бұрын
Same
@auroralondon42814 жыл бұрын
I think Tony needs a daughter lol 😂 That lil girl would be so solid!!
@tonitone6664 жыл бұрын
Fr 😂
@sarahbrewer77304 жыл бұрын
I’ve been thinking tony needs a daughter! And share would be the best girl mom!
@blessedt5733 жыл бұрын
We are his daughters...some like myself are too old to be his daughter, but I’m o.k being an auntie learning from my nephew
@franksanchez17163 жыл бұрын
Why would he daughters if anything he needs sons because ain't NOBODY raising theirs right
@pallana3701 Жыл бұрын
He’d have to take some out…😂 if a 🥷 even thank he could or would 😂😂😂😊
@sbrewington884 жыл бұрын
I just had a 59yr old grown man ask to take me out on a date then followed up with asking me if I drive. When I said yes he said “good we can take your car” I hung up and blocked that man IMMEDIATELY!!!
@katrinabrown78714 жыл бұрын
Lol....SMH! You did the right thing!
@tamjamtv4 жыл бұрын
What the hell?!! Even these old ass grown boys trying it...oh hell naw!!
@sheliaglass4844 жыл бұрын
A term a friend of mine used today that I hadn't heard in a while. That low down dirty sap sucker! He is an old fool with nothing to offer not even a car. You did the right thing. Keep it moving sis.
@DimpledNatural4 жыл бұрын
You mean grown boy lol
@teresamarks82124 жыл бұрын
As you should have!!! Girl!!!!
@mymakersdaughter60414 жыл бұрын
STOP letting a grown boy talk you of your common sense! TG
@DimpledNatural4 жыл бұрын
Grown boy
@mymakersdaughter60414 жыл бұрын
DimpledNatural My bad!
@DimpledNatural4 жыл бұрын
@@mymakersdaughter6041 lol
@Kari_Michele3 жыл бұрын
The best and fastest way to past every test with flying colors is to NOT sleep with him. AND to let him know upfront that it’s not happening until he puts a Ring on it. I know this because I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years & I’ve been drama-free & man-problem free ever since 🤣💜
@iasiagregory45583 жыл бұрын
Yasssss sis!!!! Abstinence until marriage really keeps you emotionally sound and in control making intellectual descions! Best decision I made in dating! Lord continue to give grace in this area. It's a protection all on its own.❤😇🙏🏾
@Kari_Michele3 жыл бұрын
@@iasiagregory4558 Yes, Sis! Amen 💜🙏🏾
@Kari_Michele3 жыл бұрын
@Marie Jones I don’t mind being single for life.
@nadinemartin95122 жыл бұрын
Yep
@Kari_Michele2 жыл бұрын
Popping into say that my abstinence will reach 5 years in a few months! PTL! 💃🏾🙌🏾 But I’ve healed & I’m ready to enter into marriage season 🥰🙏🏾💗
@beverlyguerrero1451 Жыл бұрын
This video is 100% correct. I failed the first few tests and i ended up getting punched and chocked out. He was a MMA fighter. Dont ignore them red flags. They are always there. He will do it to you, he will do it to someone else. Be safe ladies! Be smart!
@toniwilliams98174 жыл бұрын
I had a grown boy test me like that weeks ago. Kept saying he was going to call me and hit me up that night. I didn't hear from him that night nor the next day. I blocked him on my phone. We work at the same store together, so when I saw him the next day after blocking him, he asked me if I was good. That's it..."you good?" So smiling I said, "Yep, I'm good!" lol Well, I left him on block and haven't said a word to him about it ever since. He hasn't said a word either. Done and done. I still speak to him, and I'm always nice, but he will never get a chance to be in my world again.
@Dragonfly_magictarot3 жыл бұрын
Dont s where u eat baby. A man outside of the work place is better for your health and independence. 😊🙏🏻
@laurenlocd31803 жыл бұрын
You shouldn’t have even blocked him . I would have let him keep texting and just not reply . Lol
@toniwilliams98173 жыл бұрын
@@laurenlocd3180 haha...it's still to be continued...lol
@Dragonfly_magictarot3 жыл бұрын
@@toniwilliams9817 I agree with Lauren, don't block them. That way you know if they reach out or not. And take in the pleasure of not answering back. Just look and delete
@tanitrarobinson74773 жыл бұрын
@Toni...Way to go Queen. You did right, God reveals, You remove. Queens have no time to entertain peasants.
@nataliefin90214 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how Tony gets into CHARACTER during the lesson lol
@NaturalSuee4 жыл бұрын
Natalie Fin loooooool right 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@tiarachiffon81314 жыл бұрын
Yes, that’s the best part. Lol!
@cawknee4 жыл бұрын
It’s the head pat scratch for me! 🤣
@NaturalSuee4 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo 😂😂😂
@tandrinebray81944 жыл бұрын
It makes it hilarious 🤣 with the eyelashes comment.
@yw65024 жыл бұрын
This grown boy university is the best education i have every received, and there is no student loan attached. God bless you Tony! 😂😂😂 I’m crying with laughter...
@ceejay96414 жыл бұрын
for real!!!
@hgja42504 жыл бұрын
He is the best
@siennamillerbroadcast4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@livelearnandgrow54223 жыл бұрын
Lol
@tymakaeli14802 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@tiffanys48674 жыл бұрын
I’ll never forget when this guy tried to kiss me and I said no, then all of a sudden he got busy and needed to get his life together. Boy byeeeeeeee lol
@Kari_Michele3 жыл бұрын
Yooooooo! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
@tiffanylane03 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@j-tenn2263 жыл бұрын
I'm crying lmfaooo
@judyleslie76832 жыл бұрын
I wish I found Tony 3 years ago! I would have avoided an abusive relationship. I failed every test in the beginning, he was my first boyfriend. That will never happen again!! Thanks Tony, you're doing the Lord's work!!
@kash-monei2 жыл бұрын
ms judyyyy… i feel u with the failed every test & first bf but just kno to keep studying to kno how to pass every other one tho. cant even let it get to u. gotta stay on your own path !
@paulettalove Жыл бұрын
Girl me too!!!!!!
@natashafreeman22204 жыл бұрын
I think tests and mind games are the purest form of disrespect. If they valued you, then they wouldn’t have tried it at all.
@LaTrav084 жыл бұрын
I used to feel the same way but even mature, high value men test us. My focus is to learn the tests and how to pass them because I will be 80 years old waiting for a man that never tests me.
@MissSarahGM4 жыл бұрын
lol. Yes I thought of it this way too. I am fed up of these disrespecting tests men from dating app have thrown at me. It seems even worse on there.
@natashafreeman22204 жыл бұрын
ShesaQueen19 right. And they always try to get you to come back so “they can explain”. And I’m like nope you are blocked for life
@MissSarahGM4 жыл бұрын
The last guy who was a player disguised in a nice guy, used a lot of emotional turmoil excuses, his last breakup (9months ago!) and having to process emotions, while he was in fact juggling many women from the app! And I felt we had a connection.. It's disheartening.
@marvitasteward48144 жыл бұрын
I think they need to pass the Smith and Wesson test. 🔫
@RubyRoxxie4 жыл бұрын
“Go to the lash lady with FIVE stars.” 🤣🤣🤣
@SixFootofFitness4 жыл бұрын
Ruby L 😩😩😂😂
@tandrinebray81944 жыл бұрын
Hilarious 😂 🤣🤣
@juanitacapric65054 жыл бұрын
Right 👌😂😂
@faith65754 жыл бұрын
And get the 1 eyelash to 1 eyelash. 😂😂😂
@angiedee51244 жыл бұрын
😂
@Dr.Elaine14 жыл бұрын
“The reason why grown boys test women is because they love shortcuts.” TG
@DayaTom4 жыл бұрын
100%
@15sophomore154 жыл бұрын
Love this part
@teresadavis5284 жыл бұрын
They don't want to put the work in.
@jackfrost3264 жыл бұрын
Yeah...shortcuts to knowing whether or not you're wasting your time. Men vet women out too. This guy married too 😂😂😂😂 L.
@nicolelagamo114 жыл бұрын
Truth to be told. Never give them shortcuts 😉 we women deserve a man to work for us 🙏🏽🌹💎
@MsKelly-sy7vc4 жыл бұрын
It's like having a protective brother, cousin or cool uncle that's schooling you 💙 I love it😌🙏Thank you lord
@tymakaeli14802 жыл бұрын
He so 💣 💣 💣 💣 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I feel blessed to hear his messages daily 🙏🏽
@DrTonetta4 жыл бұрын
It’s all testing boundaries and how much he can get away with.
@AF-pw8il4 жыл бұрын
Man you are a lowkey comedian lol, the tracks itching and eyelashes had me rolling
@islandsmoothiequeen95824 жыл бұрын
Omg! Me too I had to watch it twice..
@virtuouswoman18464 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂
@harrietkaplan31664 жыл бұрын
😎😂
@florencedruid80093 жыл бұрын
That. WAS.HILARIOUS!
@Tokyo91NJ4 жыл бұрын
His wife obviously don't play about getting all dolled up, cause where he be getting alllllllll these examples from AND he know the prices 😂😂
@trackstar64664 жыл бұрын
Righttttt
@helena36314 жыл бұрын
It costs money to look great .... you can’t waste expensive makeup on dusty men
@nicoler22694 жыл бұрын
💯 They sometimes cancel a date and then turn around and ask you to come over the same night. 🤨 Tony keep speaking the truth because there are grown boys in their 50s still using these tests.
@110718744 жыл бұрын
Amen sista!!! Professional men with multiple degrees with grown boy tendencies. How can men be trusted these days.
@sarahscroggins27934 жыл бұрын
That’s called manipulation
@theresamarino75884 жыл бұрын
That literally happened to me and I turned that grown boy down!
@summertinch4 жыл бұрын
Yep because they like shortcuts and don’t want to have to put in all that work just to smash
@laurenlocd31803 жыл бұрын
Omg that’s the worst!!!!
@sabrinawhiting5483 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had these videos 20 years ago
@Embodied.bliss.somatics4 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO "You turned his text message into your diary" LOL too much !!
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
TG stay giving us gems. Remember when he said don't give a man a second chance if you're not sure he's changed. Look at Princess & Ray j....she filed for divorce he begged her back..she took him back and a month later he filed for divorce. The man wants the last laugh. Be careful out here. Stop allowing these dudes to be disrespectful to you. Kids nor marriage will make a man love & respect you. Peace, wealth, & wine ✌🏾💵🍷🥰
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf yes! Men can be very twisted. As TG would say, "you don't know that man" idc how long you been with him
@PrettyDreadie4 жыл бұрын
Facts i peeped that too
@glendanesmith4 жыл бұрын
Lol at peace wealth and wine 🍷 lol true stuff ❤️
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@PrettyDreadie 💯
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@glendanesmith yes ma'am. Women should let that be their focus and allow love to come in God's timing.
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne14264 жыл бұрын
“You can’t take a lion to the gazelle market - he fitna pounce” 🤦🏾♀️😂🤣😭
@sheloves36634 жыл бұрын
Tony so silly 😂🤣
@ayanareid70314 жыл бұрын
Lol
@angiedee51244 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@christineallen30034 жыл бұрын
😆🤣😂😅
@summertinch4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@kimberlycampos75914 жыл бұрын
I can’t help but think that if men today had integrity, women wouldn’t need constant coaching sessions. I’m not saying that we as women don’t get it wrong at times however, I find men are looking for a woman who has the stability they cannot provide. This is not the balance God intended and I will be single my whole life before I do for a man what he should have been planning for his whole life for me. This is my belief and I stand on it.
@tesharalaure4 жыл бұрын
Omg yes! My dad stayed on us about making sure a man has integrity. He would also preach to me over and over about keeping my dignity, which I have found a lot of young women lack. That is why these men get away with so much and I seem like a lot work to them compared to what they are used to. At this point I don’t even care anymore. My peace means too much to me.
@Kari_Michele3 жыл бұрын
Amen 💯
@mogetit59993 жыл бұрын
Yasssss!
@transitionsnc3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful comment. Thank you.
@tanitrarobinson74773 жыл бұрын
Ew chile! Say it louder!
@tifiayiti9374 жыл бұрын
When he said about being exposed too early & the body craves smh so true. The flesh is so weak. NEVER AGAIN!
@carlycoleman97214 жыл бұрын
Now I can see how desperate a woman can look in a mans eyes
@iamsadeashley4 жыл бұрын
And I was looking desperate and didn't even know it smh 🤦🏾♀️now I know
@danyelgarcia36894 жыл бұрын
@@iamsadeashley I think we all were.
@michelletiaraharris4 жыл бұрын
We all have at one point or another! I will never allow myself to do that ever again!!!
@MiaCarter73 жыл бұрын
Atleast we all got learning experiences out of this.
@DanielleStarr3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne14264 жыл бұрын
“Women never really meet a real man, he becomes a real man after he meets you”😳 Whoah. That’s deep. I love it. Correction : I WILL NOT FALL FOR IT
@jmelanierenee3 жыл бұрын
Crazy. But so true
@flaviafiaes7474 жыл бұрын
Why is this man not on 1 million subs yet? 🤔 🤦🏽♀️. He’s too too Real🙌🏽🙌🏽 well maybe that’s why ..😹
@Joycelang24954 жыл бұрын
I love this brother u women better listen God is jealous u women love God no one comes before God 🙏
@BlossomAyanaNYC4 жыл бұрын
Say that louder sis ...they can't hear you!!!
@curli-lettey43194 жыл бұрын
They're not trying to listen to Tony....they're busy listening to WAP and thinking of ways to get the bag from guys dancing to that on the ' gram!
@lakeshiawilliams86494 жыл бұрын
You better say that! I keep telling women and they look at me like I'm crazy.
@Joycelang24954 жыл бұрын
@Angel Herron God bless you
@Joycelang24954 жыл бұрын
@@lakeshiawilliams8649 God bless you
@hazeldia4 жыл бұрын
I’m only 23 and I’m dealing with a 29 year old and this helped me , he wait 10 hours to text me back, but was on social media posting,! But when he texted me I’m just not responding back to him
@joiagenae4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@gladywa57693 жыл бұрын
Good👍 wish I had learned early, would have saved a whole lot of wasted time on jokers
@nativechique75893 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@Mindful.Movement.013 жыл бұрын
Girl one did this and kept doing it then … why did he wait a whole day girl I went off and left and never looked back… he had every excuse in the world. Nobody got time for that bullshit
@lawill35592 жыл бұрын
I JUST CLOSED THE BOOK ON ONE OF THOSE. SAME EXACT THING!!!!! A clown from Kenya
@charronsfit4-u3624 жыл бұрын
I'm 46 years old... Tony is the lil brother i needed but never had... soooooo insightful!!!!
@ShesGottaFastCar4 жыл бұрын
“A real man doesn’t happen until he meets a real woman”. Tony!!!! Crack the Code please for the people!
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
Indeed!! A grown boy will test you to see what they can get away with and one test leads to the next.
@michellebarnum84654 жыл бұрын
Yep
@denisekochon74734 жыл бұрын
Truth
@themadisonmonroe4 жыл бұрын
“You got yo lil vanity that you didn’t have room for in yo house in the corner” I cannot with you!!!! Mr.Gaskins😭😂
@joanncuffee5884 жыл бұрын
I felt attacked 😂😂😂
@miraclenaddior4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Tatianarain4 жыл бұрын
A guy cancelled a day before claiming he had to travel due to family issues. Mind u the date was supposed to be an apology for ghosting me earlier this year. I texted back thanks for letting me know on time so I don't have to cut my other appointments short. And that's the last he will ever hear from me
@krystalricciardi77763 жыл бұрын
Ong the same thing happened with an ex of mine too... exact same wording how odd.
@victoriamomina80224 жыл бұрын
We can’t turn it down Ladies without a relationship with God !!! Impossible! The Lord is our Strength 💪🏽🔥🔥🔥
@fiftyfiftylifestyle4564 жыл бұрын
Every woman that feels they have been dating a narc needs to watch this as I feel most of them are very immature grown boys like Tony describes.
@tretre4u724 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@KayciazWorld3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@thedisabledanddiscarded4 жыл бұрын
"Them tracks start to itch because that tension running through your body" 🤣🤣🤣 Tony say get classic volume 💪💪💪🤣🤣🤣
@itzkaydayz54083 жыл бұрын
He wasn’t lying though Lmaoooo
@SavedbyGrace1823 жыл бұрын
😂
@tejefferson68694 жыл бұрын
Ladies, they will certainly try you. I tell them all that there is nothing they can do that hasn't already been tried and done, nothing they can say that I haven't already heard, in one way, or another. I will check them every time. Believe it or not, men appreciate a woman who does not let them disrespect her, in any way.
@SelfLovewithAT Жыл бұрын
Somebody needs to give Tony a network ASAP 😂😂🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾Thank God for Tony‼️
@kristinaherrejon71814 жыл бұрын
Words cannot express how anointed this man is.
@cindeed44224 жыл бұрын
He didn’t call...What had happened was... Who knew we had to go to school to get tested in dating and relationships Tony. Thanks for the real education.
@ginad82384 жыл бұрын
cindee D Yes! So grateful for Bro Tony!💯💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@nicoledanielle84004 жыл бұрын
“ listen here jezebel spirit” I’m dead 💀
@ArshennaHines4 жыл бұрын
lol
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne14264 жыл бұрын
Oh lord. This takes me back to my twenties when I had no wisdom around me to help me out.
@xodierra3 жыл бұрын
Now Tony how did you have that much information on lash extensions?! I’m screaming!!! 😂😂😂
@ARighteousLife2 жыл бұрын
Tony, you said in your video that Grown boys love shortcuts. As soon as you said that i received a word in my spirit. It goes as follows; The shortcuts will please his flesh, but the Work will please his spirit. This is where we as women can make a big impact‼️ His flesh might not understand the work he has to put in, but on a subconscious level, his spirit is being impacted positively. This brings about real change in a man's heart, when our words and action feeds his spirit first. Thank you Tony. This is confirmation to me that you are indeed anointed by the Holy Spirit. I'd also like to add, that this proves that when we lay on our backs/ fornicate with the man, we bypass the opportunity to feed his spirit. So he continues to operate in lust. Makes complete sense‼️‼️
@blackbutterfye2 жыл бұрын
This is such a great comment. Like I feel like I’m going through this right now with my now ex boyfriend. He was my 1st bf ever and I had no clue what I was doing but I knew that these “tests” that I definitely failed were to teach me a lesson. He wants to get back together but presses sex and I absolutely refuse. I don’t want a man operating in lust but have been positively feeding his spirit from a distance
@Truebeauty_989 ай бұрын
A word God is so good ❤
@2LoveJones4 жыл бұрын
The test about men asking their woman to go to the strip club is also a test to see if she will be down for a ménage a Trois.
@110718744 жыл бұрын
You are sooooooo right about it!
@toriyt27144 жыл бұрын
Yep
@yeahthatsme9214 жыл бұрын
No its a test of truth .... He's messing with other woman and with one of the dancers that he been spending money on to make her jealous😂 dumb but truth. If you have a three and the relationship didn't go anywhere you played yourself
@2LoveJones4 жыл бұрын
@@yeahthatsme921 I never said any of this happened to me personally ...but I’ve heard several different stories from other women, where that was the males intentions.
@wandamajette50004 жыл бұрын
That's what I thought he was going to say.
@laneys20304 жыл бұрын
I like the way he gets into character and you get the message clearly . If a man cancel 2 times ladies don't let him waste your time , time is precious and once its gone you can never get it back.
@SixFootofFitness4 жыл бұрын
“You got your little vanity that you didn’t have room for in your house but you found room in the corner “💀😩😂😂😂😂TG!! I can’t with you ...
@moniquegarrett48763 жыл бұрын
😂 he funny
@aleksandrabenedict21354 жыл бұрын
"You've got to have your belief and support system in place" so much gold!
@53c30002 жыл бұрын
This is golden bible for dealing with players 😂😂😂😂😂
@Princesscocos4 жыл бұрын
You must of been in a good mood for this one this is hilarious 😆
@IshanaeS4 жыл бұрын
courtney king the last 2 videos took me outtt😭😭
@janetdriskell97264 жыл бұрын
The Award for the Truthful, Honest and Most Need Conversation that All Women Need to hear goes to winner Tony Gaskins. This is your Oscar moment.
@lifegoeson15454 жыл бұрын
I can honestly say I failed some of these tests
@ayanaresellerqueen16854 жыл бұрын
Same...and did a few days ago. Chasing after a grown boy.
@nellelove48994 жыл бұрын
I did last week after a horrible experience and it’s like I don’t learn. I just want to be in a good relationship but I just feel like I lack confidence in saying no. So I end up doing things I regret then it doesn’t work out. Dude wasn’t even over his ex and now I feel stupid. After about a month....I just left him alone but still
@nicolegodspower50184 жыл бұрын
@@nellelove4899 pray and grow sis pray and grow. We all have fallen for nonsense. So grow from here.
@janicesmiley34844 жыл бұрын
Don't feel bad. But now you know
@MoniqueD3054 жыл бұрын
We all have. Gotta just take the L and learn from it lol. No worries.
@pangvidal Жыл бұрын
Omg Tony is a comedian I am dying laughing 😅😅😅😅
@makeupmypitbull4 жыл бұрын
when you said his text messages became your diary.. That made me hollered!!! 100000% facts!!
@lerinnenatalia4 жыл бұрын
who else be rolling on the floor laughing while also getting some good information?? Tony be cracking me UUUUUUUP. 😂😂
@patriciastarchia47122 жыл бұрын
Chile me , I’m freaking dying!!
@misskaykayRSA2 жыл бұрын
My eyes so damn teary 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@3333olive4 жыл бұрын
“You faking like you not picky, cause you want a husband” 😂😂😭😭😭
@Luuve4 жыл бұрын
that whole segment took me out! i instantly liked the video and commented hahahahahaha
@3333olive4 жыл бұрын
@@Luuve lol omg me too 😂😂😭😂
@nikkyluv22444 жыл бұрын
Whole truth n nothing but...I tell ppl... you better off waiting 2 husband's in and I'm still about to be single...
@soothingtemples93934 жыл бұрын
I thought I was mature enough to handle the relationship/marriage. But you can not send a little lamb into a wolf's den and not expect to be on the menu. At 19 yrs old, I met my spouse. He was a 27 yrs old, experienced, world traveled, war weary military man. Looking back having my TG street game tool box, and life experience wisdom there were fully exposed landmines everywhere that gave signs of the trauma ahead. Now I know..listen to Mr Gaskins ladies. "Coach Francesca"
@TaKyraMoonlight4 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard all this. Guys will make you feel so bad about not sleeping with them or “We should know what it’s like together before we get married” omg I’ve heard this a lot lately. The dumbest excuse. Being sexually assaulted and thinking it’s your fault because “you look so good”. It’s terrible.
@logic8883 жыл бұрын
it really is, i feel u Sestra. 💛
@jazminecarson Жыл бұрын
I know this video isn't new but I'm over here crying because this is accurately hilarious 🤣
@takeauthority304 жыл бұрын
So much truth ladies. Listen to understand, stop debating....it's best to know about these test than to experience it and fail. Trust yourself....God will keep you but you have to listen to the lil "wait a minute now" moments and block immediately....you're worth it JUST WAIT
@sadyabouraima7234 жыл бұрын
Tony you make my day
@wenbig57774 жыл бұрын
This has got to be the best Tony Gaskins' video yet!! Point, blank, per-i-odddt.
@love7loyalty-MHA4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂Ahhahahaahahahahaahahahhahahahaahhahaahahahahahahahaha Uncle Tony, demonstrating the phone call and patting his head for the tracks had me dying laughing. Almost tripped up the steps laughing so damnnnn HARD! WE the people appreciate you, Uncle Tony
@beverlyjohnson825110 ай бұрын
Tony knows what he is talking about. He often makes me laugh, but its reality ! Help the people keep up the good work 😅
@Gods_girl10005 ай бұрын
Im not even going to tell yawl how many times I have watched this video for a refresher. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Tony gives all the games away
@TARLEASE024 жыл бұрын
Tony you say your wife is the jokester and you are more even keel and don't like all the pranks and jokes, but I don't think that's the case. I've been watching you for about 2 years and you are too funny!!! This by far is the funniest one. Love it! You crack me up. I'm sure you two are the perfect match and be cutting up together. Coming to the stage relationship comedian TG The Truth 😆😆😆😆
@mymakersdaughter60414 жыл бұрын
He's hilarious! But, I really don't think he thinks he's being funny because he is so serious. This is real to him! God Bless TG!
@TARLEASE024 жыл бұрын
@@mymakersdaughter6041 I know. I still be thinking...this dude Really doesn't think he's funny!? Gotta love em'😁😆🤷🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️😊❤
@Bgrace154 жыл бұрын
He definitely is 😂🤣🤣🤣 always crying laughing
@KrystleLaughter4 жыл бұрын
If you take a lion to a gazelle market, he’s gonna want to pounce. -TG Translation: You can’t play into these grown boy games. We women have to learn to think with our heads, not our emotions. We would win more on relationships if we listened to our intuition. If something doesn’t feel right never let a grown boy talk you into it.
@danid18923 жыл бұрын
Omg this man got me literally crying on here from laughing so darn hard, but the message and delivery was outstanding!
@kenishalperkins4 жыл бұрын
Ladies we are in for a ride with this series 😂😂 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@DahBeezKneez4 жыл бұрын
Yes I love it !!! Ahahah everyday I'm looking for a grown boy video
@annwideman87604 жыл бұрын
Tony, man you just blew my mind. I feel right now like I am at a truth serum night club. I am 71 and live in senior housing. A beautiful little place. I hope I don't get complaints about comedy club laughing. Man you are 10,000 percent so right. I'm repenting right now. The half and half friend that I have had for the last six years, I am to done. I will do a complete work on myself for me. Thank you Tony. No my pastor can't talk to me like you do. Anyway I am old enough to know better. I am closer to 100 than 40 years of age. I will take care of myself so that I can make it to 100. My morals, standards and standing on the Word will get me there.
@brighteyez1026 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this sooner. This is absolutely the game! And Tony has the playbook. I may not have passed every test, but now I’m restago. Tony is like the Uncle that’s going to get you together! We need someone to talk candidly like this. Gems 💎
@Heartandmind224 жыл бұрын
Video request: How not to hate men/hate yourself after learning about the games guys play and subsequently, how you've been played?
@michelletiaraharris4 жыл бұрын
I agree!!!!
@naledims90824 жыл бұрын
I’ll say just take it as an experience, you had to experience something different that hurt you but that also show you something you didn’t know , so now you know how to protect yourself when someone will come with the same behavior. Not that you’ll stay guarded but open and careful
@DandyDuh3 жыл бұрын
Oooooookay, Dang it feels like every single one.
@n.Lenice4 жыл бұрын
Like Tony said, not every women would have experienced every grown boy test he mentioned, but most if not all have experienced and (probably)failed at least one. I'm no exception. I'd just like to comment that when we as women say things like, 'well I've never done that or I don't understand how some women this - okay ladies we get it, BUT you did fall and fail something. A 'f" is a 'f", right? When we know better, we do better. Blessings to us all to do better moving forward.
@Mindful.Movement.013 жыл бұрын
Im so glad you brought this up. I stay away from women like this. Not the type of energy I need around me simply because I need and like authenticity and people who are not afraid to grow by learning from and admitting their mistakes
@n.Lenice3 жыл бұрын
@@Mindful.Movement.01 I stay away from them too! Judgemental people will drag your mental health down to nil! How the pots and the kettles gonna debate who's lighter black??? Lol Makes no sense.
@Mindful.Movement.013 жыл бұрын
@@n.Lenice 💯
@vaindoingit3524 жыл бұрын
When he started patting the back of his hat “them tracks start to itch” I am hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯🤣💯
@DahBeezKneez4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@wandamajette50004 жыл бұрын
That and the those extreme eyelashes. I was weak.
@Karim.7113 жыл бұрын
I’m crying with that and taking off the lashes 😂😂
@ceritacarter4337 Жыл бұрын
I’ve just witnessed Tony the Actor Comedian & Truth Teller. I’m showing this to the Single ladies & men at the Church. These tests are real & have consequences as well. Thank you Tony for identifying them. 🙏🏽
@Aisha_babii11 ай бұрын
“If you waitin to meet him…. You’ll be dead first!” 😅😂
@gracefulhumble72484 жыл бұрын
I can tell how much you love our Lord, by how much you are helping us. This was probably your best video or one of the best you have ever done. If the world had school teachers like you teaching math and science every child would pass with flying colors, you are hysterical and educational at the exact same time, I could not stop laughing. I can really feel your passion and pray that when I do start dating again that I absorb all of this wisdom and apply it directly. God Bless you and the Family
@beckyandrus39774 жыл бұрын
HE and people like him should be teaching this stuff in the schools! The dating coaches are now stepping in and taking over and teaching and that is commendable. It is what should be taught in the schools, in childhood! God bless them!
@Marie346944 жыл бұрын
“Must have been bit by a Cockroach!” 😂😂😂😂
@LaSultrySoul4 жыл бұрын
Right with a nanny though lol.
@curli-lettey43194 жыл бұрын
That had me cracking up!!!
@SimplyFitwithJay4 жыл бұрын
😂😭😭😭😂😂😂
@siennamillerbroadcast4 жыл бұрын
LOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!
@jacquenderitu37794 жыл бұрын
I died and ressurected 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 this is pure comedy
@mechelleharvey52654 жыл бұрын
Ever since I found you on u-tube I've beem getting stronger and stronger by the day ! Your lady voice makes my day ! Omg i love it ! Thanks for putting us up on game !
@inesmith843110 ай бұрын
My younger self thanks you for sharing this insight with her. Better late than never🙌🏿🙌🏿
@yasemins13134 жыл бұрын
I’m 50 and learning so much from you. Thank you and may God bless you 🙏🏼
@nicoledanielle84004 жыл бұрын
Sooooo I guess ima be single forever cuz soon as dem games start 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
@jessepera24574 жыл бұрын
A man can test all he wants. I trust myself to pass them.
@toriyt27144 жыл бұрын
That’s the best way too look at it
@jessepera24574 жыл бұрын
@@toriyt2714 there's no way around it. Just because he holds out a hoop doesn't mean u have to jump thru it.
@Sugarsugar4u4 жыл бұрын
That "GOTTOGO" spirit will keep you safe!!! Proverbs 4:23...above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Tony's delivery may differ but also thus saith the LORD. I hope we're listening!!
@bigflyness174 жыл бұрын
Ooh I like that
@tasharriel Жыл бұрын
These re-enactments are hilariously accurate 🤣
@nadia49994 жыл бұрын
"Well what about 9 o'clock...voice cracks...well what about 10'o clock." Too funny! crying tears.
@samanthaadkins55514 жыл бұрын
Give him an inch. He will take a mile & the more attention you give. He will give rejection & reach back out when he pleases, if you teach him he can.
@Mindful.Movement.013 жыл бұрын
This is not always the case. Some men are genuinely interested and if you act uninterested he’s gone
@dezerismith75294 жыл бұрын
Tony took me out cold when he pretended to blot his face and put his makeup on then patting his weave 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but I’m so thankful he is keeping us ladies well informed.
@shannonmatthews67074 жыл бұрын
this is great tony.. thousands are being affected :-) by listening to you.
@missarabia18754 жыл бұрын
Coach Tony is taking us from depression to laughter and providing us wisdom and guidance all at the same time!!!
@misskaykayRSA2 жыл бұрын
I am laughing all the way in South Africa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 thank God for the internet and you Tony for sharing these teachings with us. So informative and so funny …. Love it ❤️❤️🙏🏾