Stories like this has really made me view the world differently. I use to be in love with romantic stories and fairytales. I realise the best way to love yourself is by saturating yourself with the Word, investing in yourself (education) and healing your trauma because no one will truly love you the way you feel you need to be loved, other than yourself. Thank you Tony. I’m 20 and you’ve protected me from falling victim to my foolish heart
@mango-xorbet4 жыл бұрын
Amen! At 19 it's completely changed my outlook towards love and life
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Thank God you found him early and can avoid many pitfalls of looking at the world thru rose tinted glasses, some of us are still recovering from the traumas we incurred while we had that mindset. The world is a mean place for the unsuspecting.
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
@@mango-xorbet Thank God you found him early and can avoid many pitfalls of looking at the world thru rose tinted glasses, some of us are still recovering from the traumas we incurred while we had that mindset. The world is a mean place for the unsuspecting.
@queenofthesouth42054 жыл бұрын
Be blessed.
@tayanab95804 жыл бұрын
Do you know how blessed you are, to know this at 20!. I wish I was this knowledge at 20 years young.
@sylviasalcedo85694 жыл бұрын
Lord help her! She is worthy of love! Love yourself, sis.
@Dr.Elaine14 жыл бұрын
“You say you want to understand vices, but what you really need to understand is self-love.” TG
@chrissy14484 жыл бұрын
Real talk.... I hope she gets some therapy or coaching to help her through...
@fayesmith47514 жыл бұрын
Truth bomb!
@doreenlane23704 жыл бұрын
It is better to be alone than with bad company.
@LadyAngela6784 жыл бұрын
Doreen Lane Facts
@kikic76374 жыл бұрын
Facts💯...but IF only more women thought like this, it wouldn't be these sad emails😩
@jessitabonita2 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing as I JUST finished crying myself ugly about being lonely while living that quote for the last decade! 😫
@survivorship42904 жыл бұрын
"As long as you there, he does not NEED you...A man can't LEARN a lesson when you, are, THERE!" You betta tell it, Tony!! Spot on Truth!! 😔💯🎯
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
No lies told 🗣🗣🗣
@ellaesparza31514 жыл бұрын
I learned that with my ex. He’s still doing bad but not as bad. He was horrible when we were together.
@MirandaLee3124 жыл бұрын
Biggg facts
@Therealinvisiblecloak4 жыл бұрын
When a man has a vice he has to come to a near death experience to change.
@besetfree04734 жыл бұрын
And still...it’s not enough unimaginably
@charlinecharlostin31884 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how it takes men to that extent or so many years to want to change.
@kikic76374 жыл бұрын
These emails lately are getting sadder each time...😒 Toxic love will drive a person insane.
@fendiboots44814 жыл бұрын
"He cannot grow in your shade" That is a Word!
@abigailpennington17474 жыл бұрын
WORD!
@alexisforteza_4 жыл бұрын
The route to self-love can be seen in this scripture: Matthew 22:37-40. When you love God, He will teach you how to love yourself and what it looks like.
@Cookingmommabear4 жыл бұрын
Oh wheeee girl, Tony is telling the truth!!! I used to be this woman, but I held on for 20 years, with 3 kids. I had to love myself enough to leave & never look back. Being a single Mom is challenging but get plugged into a church where the people love you & your child. It's been 7+ years and I'm growing stronger in the Lord, in self love, in self care. My kids are thriving and we are blessed! Be encouraged my Sister, you can do it!
@tarahbruno37934 жыл бұрын
This made my heart hurt. Women deal and accept to much. Been there done that. Never again,ImGods daughter.
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Gods daughter, we say no to foolishness
@Sexycupcake094 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Sweetness0924 жыл бұрын
We really do, & because we love them we feel the need to stay but hell na. “Love yourself”
@nikkinanette88074 жыл бұрын
HalleluYah 😩💖
@kokoluv214 жыл бұрын
Same here, but the Spirit of God spoke. God gave us a name a long time ago!! I'm his covenant child. 🌈🌈 Everytime I see a rainbow, it reminds me of his promises. Nobody can live up to what he is to me 🙌🏼 his word is bond!!!
@sharonsavage55964 жыл бұрын
If you truly Love him you gotta leave him. This scenario and dialogue is like a sad script from a movie. My prayers for you sista. Self Love and go on bout your business.
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Amen
@deshaqueen7064 жыл бұрын
Not even him really. If she really love herself and child.
@sharonsavage55964 жыл бұрын
@@deshaqueen706 right now she has to put her time and energy in finding her purpose and using the time also to focus on her child’s upbringing...seek God and he will direct her path
@debraafriday4 жыл бұрын
This was unbelievable one of the most powerful sermons/ lessons ever spoken. You have to have self love...it is not your responsibility to save another grown adult. Love yourself enough to leave.
@maryphillips36864 жыл бұрын
Leave baby leave. I'm 52 year's old , Been through that. It don't get better. Leave
@Kellergirl4 жыл бұрын
I agree. I went through that. I changes who you are. I pray she gets the strength to leave soon.
@wandasanders49244 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Sister please leave, save yourself, save your life, think about your son, he deserves a whole mom, he doesn't deserve to deal with the trauma of losing his mum young to abuse from his dad or a mother that's abused raising him, traumatizing him, because all his dad is doing to you is and will definately continue to affect your mental health and outlook towards life.
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
They should hire Tony for more men coaching and conferences once the pandemic 😷 is over.
@MichElle-py8lk4 жыл бұрын
Very true sis
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Been needed it okay 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@ellaesparza31514 жыл бұрын
Men don’t listen to other men. Tony has spoken about that before. That’s why most of his audience are women.
@Dr.Elaine14 жыл бұрын
Tony says God called him to women; we, women call Tony to men. We still don’t truly understand what Tony means when he says “a woman’s influence”.
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
@@Dr.Elaine1 Trust me I do. I’ve been following him for 4 years now and watch every video. Tony was hired by many men to speak around the world at men conferences, so I’m saying they should continue to do so. That has nothing to do with me not understanding who he called by God to help. Stop reaching!
@SermonsSubtitled4 жыл бұрын
She had biblical grounds for divorce since a long time! No woman is obligated to stay loyal/faithful/"ride or die" to a man who's committing adultery!
@RoZzieAwake4 жыл бұрын
I told this to a friend of mine before (she's actually the first lady of a church and her husband is pastor). He is unfaithful. I never told her to leave him but I did share with her that God forgives divorce if the mate is unfaithful to the union and if he is abusive. I've read that in the Bible. And she told me I was wrong and that it does not say that. I knew then she wanted to stay. So I stopped listening and I honestly I detached because I was looking for a faithful man.
@cindeed44224 жыл бұрын
She is what you call an enabler. I learned that by having a alcoholic husband. I finally left him after enabling him to do what he was doing. He told me that he thought I would never leave him. I had to for my sanity. He passed away a few months later. I couldn’t help him no matter how hard I tried.
@trueabby11624 жыл бұрын
Wow that's sad
@danyelgarcia36894 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the loss. I hope you are whole or on your way.
@stevenbrown15064 жыл бұрын
Cindy you are gonna make me cry I'm in similar situation only I have left but he looks really bad but tries to make me feel bad I'm done
@marilynking5274 жыл бұрын
So sad I’m sorry for your loss.
@IAmTheQueen874 жыл бұрын
My sis is an enabler. I pray she opens her eyes one day. This man will drink a whole bottle of Hennessy IN A DAY. He don’t go anywhere without going to a liquor store for bottles of alcohol. It’s sad and disgusting
@candracurryofficial4 жыл бұрын
God cover this woman and be her guide through his situation..let her make the best decision for her family according to your will. May she look to you and find the grace and mercy available to her. Keep her and love her as you done for me in Jesus name Amen. God sometimes will break your heart to save your soul. He’s done it for me and he will do it for you.Don’t be afraid to follow where the spirit leads you he’s got u❤️🙏🏽❤️
@marilynking5274 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@LadyAngela6784 жыл бұрын
My goodness. That man ain’t worth fighting for. Cut your losses, and move on quick, fast, and in a hurry sis. 🏃🏾♀️
@ulricka21314 жыл бұрын
The Spirit has spoke sister. It might look frightening to you right now because it has been so long. But this situation is slowly killing the essence of who you are. The daughter of the Most High God👸🏾. Your current husband is not the reason why you are on earth. You and your son will be fine, i promise.The joy of the Lord is your strength🙏🏾
@roja_xo55274 жыл бұрын
Please put her in your prayers, that she has the strength to leave, because I'm scared for her physically. These were the same characteristics of my stepdad. Mother stayed now she is in the ground.
@alicehardy80404 жыл бұрын
God Bless You God Loves You
@roja_xo55274 жыл бұрын
@@alicehardy8040 thank you sister, I'm practicing better habits.
@kokoluv214 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼🙏🏼🤗💜💜
@TonyaNicole74 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾😢
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
So sorry
@MsAdreaL4 жыл бұрын
You probably helped save this woman's life. She has a Lot to be thankful for, having received this message!
@kokoluv214 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. I'm sure he's reached more than just the one that wrote in...
@MsAdreaL4 жыл бұрын
@@kokoluv21 True! 🤗
@queenofthesouth42054 жыл бұрын
Self love over everything!!! Sister you have to leave him, you are allowing a lifetime of mental, emotional, financial damage to you and your child. Believe in yourself you deserve better.
@HEReIAM8294 жыл бұрын
This kinda spoke to me cuz 5yrs ago I had a brain aneurysm that I had to relearn how to walk, had to have my vocal cord replaced,was in a coma and when I saw how God gave me another chance after a year, I decided to change and serve Him❤🙏💯 I also use to be that woman that put up with so much mess from a man. I didn't know my worth. I've endured all kinds of abuse. Plus my kids saw and heard toxic stuff. God used someone else who wasn't meant in my life to get me to move. The best thing I ever did🙌
@janieh39504 жыл бұрын
The moment Tony began reading this young ladies letter, I stopped and began to lift her up in prayer. Cause she needs the Father like none other before.
@ElauntraSeoul4 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy he came at her with compassion and sympathy for her. You could tell from her letter this is a broken woman who is TRUELY hurting!! This was well delivered and you could really tell you were talking to this woman if she was on of your relatives that you really cared about. May God bless this women and her journey/healing❤️ I’m sooooo sorry Queen and I’ll be praying for you💕
@mz.didithedaughterofzion4 жыл бұрын
APTTMH...This was a WORD! Sister's, if this relates to you, please take heed. Father, restore Tony's spirit as he edifies us. HALLELUYAH!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@BeautyWithinKakra4 жыл бұрын
Happy thanksgiving Tony and everybody in the chat!🍁
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving!
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Same to you
@maryphillips36864 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving & Thank you
@crystalkuntz75754 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving sorry so late lol Be blessed
@j-tenn2263 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving!
@beckyvegalifecoach24814 жыл бұрын
Wow! Look how much God loves you sister . What a precious word spoken over you . God always leave the 99 to go after his one that so desperately needs a word from him ! ❤️ 🙏❤️🙏 I’ll be praying for you !
@dv27964 жыл бұрын
This describes my soon-to-be-ex-boyfriend to a T. He has taken from me some money and manipulated me into signing a one year lease with him, because he couldn't afford full rent. He is a drinker, gambler, possible cheater and possible drug user, liar, manipulator, and has no goals. I want to work on my own self-love so I can get him to leave our home. My landlord is willing to get him out of our house as long as I approve.. He is a father of 2 and it's hard for me to throw him into the street in the winter, because I know he cannot afford his own place alone. Tony, thank you so much for all of your videos. This one truly speaks to me. God bless you for all you do and sharing your gifts to the world. Happy Thanksgiving!
@Sweetness0924 жыл бұрын
You’ve got to do it or else he gonna keep you sucked in there & you’re always going to feel bad for his ass and want to let him stay
@trurabbit78144 жыл бұрын
You need to be honest with yourself why you don't want to throw him out. If a man was doing all of these things you described to your mom or sister or your best friend, you wouldn't hesitate for a second. Wishing you strength. I kicked out a man like that two years ago, it was painful for over a year and now I cannot believe I would let someone treat me like that. Just do it and deal with the pain one day at a time. A year from now you'll thank yourself.
@tonyasherrod86884 жыл бұрын
Tony that was a blessing for that woman. I truly wish I could have shared it with my cousin who has been married to a man for 28 years. Since this pandemic I had to go see her in ATL because she basically had a nervous breakdown. She has two handsome sons 14 & 16 and her husband is a want to be actor. She is the bread winner. I have come to a conclusion that she is going thru a Stockholm Syndrome, this message was for her. I will continue to pray for her and her sons
@helenlovell85874 жыл бұрын
The best thing you can do is get her into therapy to gain the strength to help herself 🙏
@chrissy14484 жыл бұрын
This woman’s story is that if a number of married women. I have a relative who is in year 40 of being married to a man with vices. She looks twice her age, with bags under her eyes. She has no self worth and is so broken, she doesn’t even care about his mistress. Sad!! This woman better get the courage and run, because she will end up in jail or the crazy house w a loser husband like this...
@alanerogers71774 жыл бұрын
Smh. Have mercy. May she muster up the strength to escape before it's too late.
@takeauthority304 жыл бұрын
Praying for her ....Lord work in leaps and bounds of strength and love. Please provide her a way out and shower her with grace. Open her eyes to see and be obedience when you speak. In Jesus holy name Amen
@cher3614 жыл бұрын
Amen
@abigailpennington17474 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@sabrinalibakari14 жыл бұрын
Amen
@abigailpennington17474 жыл бұрын
"Your presence sanctions the behavior, you gotta remove yourself" TRUTH! I wish more women would hear this! Thank you Tony for caring, I could feel the "come to Jesus," call as you spoke!
@breannn82384 жыл бұрын
This man is going to drive her crazy! She definitely needs to divorce him. It’s certain things that married men should not do! Staying out all night is definitely not cool.
@roja_xo55274 жыл бұрын
"I'm drained" AKA he smell that food. 😂
@yvette-yourfavoriteauntie2474 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@SistahJay274 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@veronicapalomo31224 жыл бұрын
That person that was booked for 3 sessions that he never followed through with was my ex boyfriend....when you say a man will do ANYTHING to keep access to his addiction, you were so right! I'm glad you got the blessings regardless! Thank you for allowing God to use you in this ministry.
@brendamagallanes76214 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony. I've already terminated my marriage with my husband and his "vices" since early July but I still needed to hear this. I listened 3 times in a row!
@danyelgarcia36894 жыл бұрын
Self love =loving God in the fullness thereof. Understanding God and knowing who you are in HIM. Letting God do all He wants in you.
@je399814 жыл бұрын
Amen. This spoke to me and I'm glad I changed my life around and chose Jesus and a peaceful life.
@iamsadeashley4 жыл бұрын
I didn't send in the question but I'm leaving feeling like this was for me. I felt this. Please take heed
@pooh40254 жыл бұрын
I pray this woman gets the strength to leave.
@tamjamtv4 жыл бұрын
Leave baby girl....and just know that there's better out there. You have to believe it!! Your situation will NEVER get better and your son does not need to & should not be living in this toxic environment. I really hope you get this message before it's too late!
@DD-mg2se4 жыл бұрын
Self love is the highest form of love..love yourself first, for if you don't, no one else can and will because you're going to allow someone to not love you...and you can't give what you don't have.
@misst724 жыл бұрын
Wow. This lady's husband sounds exactly like my ex boyfriend. Im so thankful he decided I didn't have enough money for him to keep me around. That rejection has set my feet upon the path to self value and self knowledge. Thank you, Mr. Gaskins!!! I praise God for this knowledge!! 🙌
@mileyroe48774 жыл бұрын
The rejection of man is the protection of God.
@misst724 жыл бұрын
@@mileyroe4877 yes ma'am!!! I'm crying and so thankful right now. God loves me so much!
@Destinee364 жыл бұрын
I really love the “you missed his signs” video that really went in depth about vices that is my go to video!
@avianne4 жыл бұрын
Whoa, Tony was in THE Spirit this evening!! 🤍
@abigailpennington17474 жыл бұрын
Yes! He was, I felt the vision!
@janelleaskew75344 жыл бұрын
Oh...you preached this thing, Tony🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 "He can't grow in your shade."! Come on!!!
@MauGrace2474 жыл бұрын
Self love is key. It took me several years to figure this out. It's so easy to have high self esteem and not self love. Self love takes inner work. I learnt this the hard way and wish women would get it sooner. I speak a lot about self love and even wrote a guide to support women on their journey.
@elainepjones24784 жыл бұрын
You deserve to love yourself Sis! I wish there had been a Tony Gaskins when I was in my 20's and 30's!!! I stayed too long even though I divorced him 21 yrs ago! You will be just fine Sis!
@stacysmith44474 жыл бұрын
He cannot grow in your shade! My Lord, what a word! Thanks Tony! Be Blessed!
@mylesbracey30464 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness Brother Tony you preached that word not only for her but for all the other women who heard this strong advise and REAL TALK with no chaser that needed to have confirmation that they’ve done the right thing in leaving or they needed to hear for the final straw for confidence to leave. God bless you and yours!
@towinamjones4 жыл бұрын
Help her Father 🙏🏽♥️
@EagleEyedEnlightenment4 жыл бұрын
We in here deep for the marathon! 🤩💯🙌🏾 Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
@WrightFashions2 жыл бұрын
This message brought me to tears 🙏🏾 I’ve seen my father fight his vice of drinking all my life. Seeing the enablement and feeling helpless. No more 🥹 God I’m praying for guidance and protection as I cry these tears.
@mattiematthews93424 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video ! Honestly this sounds so much like my situation. I left my Husband after 4.5 yrs of marriage and 9years in total of being together . He had vices and you don’t know how many people condone you staying together and saying that if you pray for him he could change . I finally left because I felt like he was not going to change for me . I also have a son and I could not bare to have my son be raised around someone who will talk and treat his mom that way . I had to show my son this is not a way a man do his family . I also recommend for this lady to listen to your video “ is it time to leave”. That video also confirmed that I was doing the right thing by leaving . Thank you for all you do !
@Unajanay4 жыл бұрын
Tony, you preached a sermon! Amen.
@sheloves36634 жыл бұрын
Keep these back to back videos coming Tony 👏🏽❤️
@ebonicharles43244 жыл бұрын
Oohwee Tony you on the roll today! I'm spending TG alone this year, but your videos will definitely keep me occupied. Much love!
@MsLuvlee304 жыл бұрын
Tony this one made me cry, I've moved out, 7 mths ago but changing all of my defaults is like going against what's natural to me. This is uncharted waters but I treading for my LIFE!!!!!
@AliciaExploresLife4 жыл бұрын
Keep going, I pray God gives you strength to make it over..I promise life gets better👑
@tinajones19324 жыл бұрын
Happy Safe Thanksgiving to the blessed tribe.
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving!
@b.tabati9114 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Sista
@kokoluv214 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving 😊
@Dr.Elaine14 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving!
@RoZzieAwake4 жыл бұрын
This is almost my FAVORITE video. And I watch you EVERYDAY... Okayyy, gotta go!.
@erickalivinglife88974 жыл бұрын
Jesus, help all the women in yhe world going thru these sort of situations (similar), help each and everyone of them they can, they will and they shall overcome. Give these women 💪 and get angry enough (to not sin) but get angry at their situation and realize their worth to walk away and to encounter a peace of mind and spirit. You got this lady! "Just know God is for you and no one can be against you, " greater is HE that is in you" Thanks tony for your sincerity toward this lady ...i enjoyed reading a few comments. 😇🙏
@breewelch59823 жыл бұрын
My heart hurts for this woman. Praying for her. Lord guide her, Lord give her strength, Lord heal her heart, God restore her life in Jesus Name.
@VintageAfro914 жыл бұрын
The fact that he pawned your wedding ring, which is supposed to be a symbol of your union speaks volumes. I hope you find the strength & courage to leave. He’s not going to change unless it truly hurts him. Save yourself and remove yourself from this toxic situation. 🙏🏾💕
@mariantaylor52774 жыл бұрын
Happy thanksgiving to Tony and family and blessings to everyone on here from UK
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💞💞
@Dr.Elaine14 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving!
@Erica-et4ye4 жыл бұрын
This teaching is powerful...thank you, Tony!
@mariw21854 жыл бұрын
I wish i would’ve left, but he ended up leaving me after we had a child to be with someone else. Now i know it was a blessing in disguise.
@terrybrown75103 жыл бұрын
"Your presence sanctions the environment" TG.....now that's a word for life!
@mnorwo24 жыл бұрын
This message was straight from HEAVEN Tony! Thank God for you.
@maxinethomas73584 жыл бұрын
Thank You! What I'm Grateful for are YOU AND YOUR FAMILY! God allowing you to speak to us with the upmost truth! I'm thankful for Mrs. Gaskins for giving you the time necessary to show your gifts and compassion for the love of your calling. You've made so many messages for us to gain the knowledge on Thanksgiving Day. As a conclusion, my family and I are elated. Enjoy your family. Much gratitude 🙏 to you.
@constancegreen5654 жыл бұрын
I just want to BLESS THE MOST HIGH for Using you to bring forth this message! HalleluYah, HalleluYah!! Tony Gaskins and Family, Bless you. You just saved my Life. Your Message is ALL the confirmation that I have been needing to hear these past 3 to 4 days and The Most High seen it fit for you to relay his message. I watch your videos in Respect and subjection for the message. Thank you for the Conviction and the support for your sisters in the battle 🙌🏽 Ahkoti ( sister ) and Ahki ( brother ) I humbly appreciate you.
@SandraSpeaks184 жыл бұрын
He literally broke it down... thank you for the question and thank you for the answer!!!!! I am healing.
@cristinanobrega94004 жыл бұрын
Happy thanksgiving to you Mr. Gaskin and your family! Thank you for your hard work. You are truly appreciated 🙏🏼 God bless you all
@lioness60954 жыл бұрын
Jesus.. Amen ✝️
@apriljohnson24414 жыл бұрын
Tony you are a blessing and you preaching the truth 🗣🗣🗣 I pray woman take heed. Your life is not a joke.
@jadajordanward4 жыл бұрын
THIS MESSAGE IS PURE WISDOM!
@juicyvic054 жыл бұрын
Alone & cooking everything on my own with my son being grateful in these hard times this lady’s story sounds familiar, but having a good time with the videos today and this has really helped me ! Ty blessings 🙏🏽 Happy Thanksgiving
@selinacuffee11454 жыл бұрын
U preach tht thang Tony,I felt tht ,Bless u man if GOD!A real man of GOD!!!!!
@elenap22154 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my uncle who has a great family had 3 kids and a wife but because of his alcoholism and not having a purpose on his life he ruined and suffered his life because of it... then suddenly he became so ill while he was suffering through his condition his wife was still there but no longer care about him anymore, until he passed away because of a cancer he regret all of it but it was too late. Blessed his soul and I know God taking him for a greatest purpose on the other side 🙏🏼
@ataboofamily4 жыл бұрын
Man this message made me cry!
@bridgethampton39324 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving to the Gaskins family💯🕊
@silentdreams24152 жыл бұрын
Mr, Gaskins! I love "Talks with Tony" Thank u so much for all that u do Sir. May God continue to bless u Sir. May He guide u through and ease everything for u. It's hard work Sir! Be blessed.
@KimoraBlaqueDiaries4 жыл бұрын
Omg I did this for 8 yrs straight with a man and you hit this right on the head it’s all about self love . When you love you more you will not stick around for foolishness . Go so you can give yourself and your child love you can’t do it with dead weight holding you. I had to leave even though I was scared . I trusted god this time and took that man off the Thrown of my heart , I decided I would no longer serve him I took my life back and it takes work my sister . But you can do it you deserve to be happy no sucked dry of it . Peace and love to you I pray you find your way 🤎
@babybjew4444 жыл бұрын
God bless everyone 🙂
@vy7374 жыл бұрын
Wow! Mr.Tony, you really blessed us with the Black Friday Life Coaching course!!!🙏🏿❤GOD bless you!!
@sheilazimmerman39053 жыл бұрын
Sis, I pray you are on the road to healing and truly Loving yourself. You have value and worth, please understand that you matter. God will help you, and let you see yourself as he does. Speak life to YOURSELF....and be Blessed🌸
@nedramitchell61164 жыл бұрын
Whew!! Who ever this woman is; I hope she listens to this again, and begins to learn her worth. Leaving a toxic relationship can be a hard thing to do, I understand. Staying in one though; is even harder, stressful and draining. Not to mention, you forfeit your blessing of peace.
@Kim-vs4vb4 жыл бұрын
My ex narc's vice is paying for prostitutes so he can feel better about himself, self loathing, toxic self sacrifice for all the wrong reasons, medication addictions, smoking, laziness, , lost, no direction, yep he always feels less than, extreme mummy's boy syndrome...... one day he asked me, you always have money and you can get manifest/ anything you want, im like yeah well I'm not paying to put my head in someone's dumb ass, My head is up high educating myself and making money, improving my life step by step, I respect my money, my hard work and struggle, I love myself , he was just silent. Toxic man I so happily left him, god didn't sanction that relationship and so glad I saw it for what it was and I left. God saved me! Everything you say, is 2000% correct, men have to come to a near death experience to actually change, right on the money 👍
@Sweetness0924 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@georgiasnell43424 жыл бұрын
WE ARE THANKFUL FOR YOU TONY, GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!
@ycam93164 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone! ❤️
@b.tabati9114 жыл бұрын
Yo you as well Sista
@viviangutierrez57124 жыл бұрын
Very one watching sending you blessesing 😇🙏🙏🙏 tony & wife family.
@brittanyjohnson21844 жыл бұрын
This was an awesome message, very deep and spiritual.
@candidlycamille2 жыл бұрын
This was a word uncle Tony.
@tryingtotameandcontrolwhoi44794 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed! You are appreciated!
@lekeshiacole90654 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Queens and Kings
@b.tabati9114 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Sista🤗
@kimberlyyoung48434 жыл бұрын
You know what you have to do Sis. I'm praying for you to find strength 💪 🙏.
@christinapatterson41794 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone 🦃
@malikahword2454 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message! Thank you!
@b.tabati9114 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Tony and your family!!! May you be blessed beyond what your imagination has ever been. I am Thankful to Jesus for coming across your vids somehow! You are a blessing and bringing understanding and healing to so many. It is by knowledge that we gain understanding and in understanding we gain wisdom. Thank you to you, your wife and kids for putting yourselves out there to bring healing and empowerment to many!!! God Bless you!!!