Even if it is only to focus on their purpose, got to let them find that peace.
@NurseMo3373 жыл бұрын
that part!
@RoyalTeaNation3 жыл бұрын
Bay bay 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@ultimateoptimist52172 жыл бұрын
We don't revive/bring back the dead from death...once dead always dead.
@TerraNmy2cents822 жыл бұрын
Amen💯
@2cuteemari3 жыл бұрын
A man can really destroy a vulnerable innocent woman if she’s unaware of how the game work..
@honeys.95793 жыл бұрын
Even people who are well versed in life can be taken advantage of by a manipulative natured person.
@shutit40243 жыл бұрын
Yup
@AishaWhitlockEmpoweredsuccess3 жыл бұрын
Facts this woman was me 😕
@PS-xb9hc3 жыл бұрын
Don't play!🔥
@_zina90543 жыл бұрын
He's was 28 I was 22 I got destroyed but nothing is too big for God to fix my heart is in a good state now thanks to God 🙏
@TheCrisNAnissa3 жыл бұрын
Ladies please never ever tell a man how much you know about the game! Let him assume you know nothing and surprise him when you give him your butt to kiss when you pick up on his sneaky sh*t.
@freedom123-j8j3 жыл бұрын
Yeahh, i was like, how could she?!?! But i hope she's learning now🙏
@KK-bq3ns3 жыл бұрын
YESSS!!!!!
@bc12483 жыл бұрын
It don’t matter whether she tells him what she knows or not. Bcuz he is going to take her honey if she’s giving it away regardless. So she is just speaking to a wall. Talking does not register with guys. If after all her talking she is still dumb enough to give her honey away is what he’s looking for.
@VintageAfro913 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Let him think you’re clueless.
@TheCrisNAnissa3 жыл бұрын
@@bc1248 Tony exposes the game for the ladies knowledge not to go tell the player that you know his game plan. Once you tell him what you know you give away your power and no longer have the upper hand. Knowledge is power. Once he knows you know it he will ghost you(which is good) or change the plan. Of course the loosebooty901 type of woman would give it up either way though.
@cardiac7113 жыл бұрын
"Men are always looking for an upgrade." "You're 1 of 3 women." Keep your 👀 and 👂 open and your legs close. "You are a pit stop until you are not" Another great vid.
@chickwitthagoodies3 жыл бұрын
even when these men marry they are still looking for an upgrade its scary out here
@anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын
@@chickwitthagoodies That's why Tony tells us women to keep our legs closed until marriage because a man can't fake who he is for a year or two with no sex. Unless he's a psychopath.
@chrissy14483 жыл бұрын
@@anointedstilettos even in marriage still keep your eyes open. My ex switched up and I had to leave him in marriage. Always keep your standards ladies, no matter the situation!
@chrissy14483 жыл бұрын
@@chickwitthagoodies Right!
@anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын
@@chrissy1448 You're right about that. It happened to me too.
@bc12483 жыл бұрын
He comes back, basically, bcuz life does not go the way he thinks. He has this fictitious fugitive from his imagination that he thinks is out there somewhere waiting exclusively for him. And once reality busts him upside the head and he realizes that there is no fantasy woman, in fact, there is no one at all who want to be bothered with him. It turned out that she was the only somebody who bothered to give him the time of day, and he goes back to her for that reason.
@TakishaDanet3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly explained 👏🏾
@mochadumore37633 жыл бұрын
They bout to say you lying ! But this is the whole truth
@tinajones19323 жыл бұрын
And her response should be..... "BLOCKED" ....In my Mr. Gaskins voice
@iamjuvonne11303 жыл бұрын
You better speak the truth.....
@bc12483 жыл бұрын
@@tinajones1932 LOL! Word!
@s.h.u.l.a.ministriesoverco62313 жыл бұрын
He comes back to see if we're still Duuumb & Stuupid!
@josiektv16813 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! To check if you're still stupid to take him back
@kassiedoo3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@TiffanyFG3 жыл бұрын
RIGHT. If you're on your back-- he comes back to get SOME. Point blank PERIOOD.
@AmberBrooklyn243 жыл бұрын
Yup, simple as that
@Genesis-1013 жыл бұрын
There you go and when you’re not stupid anymore now they’re mad 🤪
@VintageAfro913 жыл бұрын
A man can only return into our lives if we make it easy for them to come back and have access to us. The block and delete button should be our best friends, just saying. ☕️
@keturah19803 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@lashondarochell75843 жыл бұрын
I live for the block and delete button peace of mind is everything!!!!
@freedom123-j8j3 жыл бұрын
👑
@VintageAfro913 жыл бұрын
@@lashondarochell7584 girl me too! I block guys so fast they don’t even realize it right away until I’m long gone.
@natasha28773 жыл бұрын
@@lashondarochell7584 @Jessica 👏🏾👏🏾 my block list looks like a party invitation list its that long.
@Brownie_eyes3 жыл бұрын
Why do women choose to watch Tony to get a better understanding of the male species and then start disagreeing with him or judging him. Try to listen and Understand it from different perspectives. Everyone’s situation is different. I don’t always agree with everything he says... but he is genuinely trying to help us. That’s what separates him from all the other ones. I have a lot of respect for him. He earned my respect when he talked about how he handiest his last job.
@clarkclarke53213 жыл бұрын
I say the same thing myself.....LOL.... I have two brothers and many male cousins...they don't share much about relationships 😒 however the question they ask is ...are you happy??? They don't need me to answer ......they ask ust to make me think....I apprecjiate TG ....so important to hear REAL male perspective
@wowso43 жыл бұрын
True I agree with you. I don't understand too.
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
This man is WISE way beyond his years!!!!!
@JL-sv6hg3 жыл бұрын
Right
@smile_nia_3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾
@yessi41133 жыл бұрын
💯💯🙏 his experiences is what makes him wise..God bless him for sharing his knowledge with us 🙌🏽
@8lack8erry13 жыл бұрын
Trust
@coachshenamajor3 жыл бұрын
Yes he is
@JJohns19803 жыл бұрын
“Keep your legs closed” is the answer to everything. I have not been on my back in about 4 years and I promise it has been the best decision. I’m never unclear about a man’s intentions because they drop like flies when they realize it’s not going to happen. I’ve never been the type to sleep with anybody because I had a number of friends who had sex early in life who caught stuff they can never get rid of. I did NOT want that to be me. Thank God I never caught anything. The most recent guy just disappeared a little over a year ago. But I did NOT care because there was no sex and he didn’t know any of my business because I wouldn’t even talk about it. I let him lead the conversation so Tony is right, NOTHING was lost.
@ataboofamily3 жыл бұрын
Man I just messed up after all these years of not having sex messed up messed up and I’m so disappointed in myself 😤
@freedom123-j8j3 жыл бұрын
👑
@anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын
This is so true. You and Big Brother are 💯 correct. It's been 5 years for me, it feels really good and was the best decision of my life.
@pinkishdiamondz3 жыл бұрын
@@ataboofamily Don't be so hard on yourself. It's a reminder that you're human and still capable of being vulnerable... Which is important when the real man comes.
@bonafide_forever3 жыл бұрын
Purnt blank periodT🤲
@CO-jb8wj3 жыл бұрын
“The man is on a journey...Assume you’re a pit stop” was good. That’s a good approach to have.
@n.Lenice3 жыл бұрын
Yes it is. And don't let him leave with no souvenirs
@marysmith68033 жыл бұрын
@@n.Lenice ?
@n.Lenice3 жыл бұрын
@@marysmith6803 If you assume that a man is viewing you as a pitstop - making sure he doesn't leave with souvenirs means you stay off your back (no sex no soulties) I was just referencing something Tony said in the video.😊
@whatsnextsis29043 жыл бұрын
4 minutes in and that blank stare, Tony! 😭🤣 “Don’t be bringing me in this”
@KrystleLaughter3 жыл бұрын
He comes back because we haven’t learned to love ourselves yet. Wrote a whole book about it called Love Yourself First: How to Heal from Toxic People, Create Healthy Relationships & Become a Confident Woman. Ladies listen to Tony.💯
@terrysdime3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to check your book out🙌🏾💓 thx queen
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Smen when a woman know her worth a man get his self together
@talkswitTK3 жыл бұрын
The saddest part is his age... 45
@anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын
The saddest part is a lot of these grown boys are in their 30's, 40's and 50's.
@davinityt.7413 жыл бұрын
@@anointedstilettos , 60's, 70's also! It's a total mess. Those who play the games.
@anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын
@@davinityt.741 That's crazy! You would think men that old are too old to be playing games.
@davinityt.7413 жыл бұрын
@@anointedstilettos , yes you would. Think that.
@user-zx5xw4yw2e3 жыл бұрын
@@anointedstilettos All ages.. They dont grow out of it.
@elizabethschilling71783 жыл бұрын
If you are the "one" he will change for you, you will know with every fiber of your being.
@diamondjack-cooper53222 жыл бұрын
Truth
@savannahnikki36653 жыл бұрын
Just want to say as a 19 year old female you’re channel has really educated me, thank you!
@CoachLove3 жыл бұрын
Baby girl, please take heed, soak it all up, and save yourself from a lot of trauma that I know I wish that I avoided a lot sooner. Protect your peace and your temple.
@christinewarren81343 жыл бұрын
Yes Girl please soak it up. I wish I knew this info and trusted myself more in the past. I am under 40 and just now getting this info and will apply accordingly.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen I'm much older women he has help me as well
@mjatalent34263 жыл бұрын
How'd you hear about this Channel?
@lightooo9212 жыл бұрын
17 here :')
@Angel-ws4qk3 жыл бұрын
What I notice is men always want somebody to save them “I need somebody to take me put of the game” “I need somebody who gonna change me” “I need a woman to take me out of the streets.” “When I meet the right woman, they gonna change me” SAVE YOURSELF
@baddiezone3 жыл бұрын
Truth 👏🏾
@yogihoneythefitempath18133 жыл бұрын
All facts. Drop them on their ass🤣
@elle70142 жыл бұрын
Looking for a mother instead of a wife 🤦🏽♀️
@nomessnostress2 ай бұрын
They will bring you down right with them.... I used to be a fixer
@teeshort74003 жыл бұрын
He ain't half a thing. Preach Tony. Maturity is a big factor we as women have to stop allowing them back. DONE MEANS DONE LADIES
@Itchpls3 жыл бұрын
Men have options..Look for red flags to determine what you are and stop allowing him to enter your space
@AmberBrooklyn243 жыл бұрын
Women have options as well, we just need to be smart with them.
@Itchpls3 жыл бұрын
@@AmberBrooklyn24 true
@wowso43 жыл бұрын
We need to date just like them but no sleeping or giving any of them our heart until they are the one and the last man standing.
@xoaliciarose3 жыл бұрын
If you have to wonder, he’s not the one! End of story. Got it.
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
Ain't that the Truth🌹🔥🥀 Also I never understand why women bother about such idiots anyway!🙄🤦♀️ Like Why!!???🙄🤦♀️ It's not even funny anymore😒🙄🤦♀️😂
@Anonymiss-tp8ym3 жыл бұрын
Girl 😒 you’re supposed to take the FREE GAME and apply it silently. U don’t send a man these videos bc they’re not for them they’re for us 🙄. She was hoping he’d watch the video, apply it and change. Girrrrllll...
@frenchvanilla71093 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!! This is why Tony said women talk to much and share too much. Women don't understand to keep things to themselves. Why would they send these videos to men, I just don't get it. This is to apply silently like you said.
@rickimcfarland22693 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂☺️
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen you never let a man know what hand you are dealing
@anandygittens2683 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree girrrrrllll you shouldn't have
@raeofsunshine1443 жыл бұрын
Rule number one, never actually send them the video 🤦🏻♀️
@nataliellorente66193 жыл бұрын
The guy she’s talking about must be a narcississt. Oh lord, just went thru this. They never offer you nothing but want things to go back to the way they were
@TheTouchofklass3 жыл бұрын
Facts! They’ll break you down, and then want to come back as if nothing happened.
@kristijjones10873 жыл бұрын
Key point: Make people accountable for their actions.Point Blank Periooodddd!
@honeys.95793 жыл бұрын
Then if they repeatedly step over your comfort levels, distance yourself as much as possible. Even in a coparenting situation focus on the facts, that is it.
@nonikaallen20303 жыл бұрын
Never share your strategy with the Devil.
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
For REAL!!!!!
@mmmc5493 жыл бұрын
THE LOOK YOU GAVE HER 😂😂😂
@avianne3 жыл бұрын
Yes, i lost it!
@lyndapeoples81273 жыл бұрын
Wow, Tony, that's deep. "What my wife cannot give me, I am completed by God." If only more men had that kind of mindset and spiritual maturity. 💔😭
@Itchpls3 жыл бұрын
They comeback because we allow them to comeback.. Once we say enough is enough and let go of the situation it’s time to move on.. I was in a situation similar.. I started questioning my worth and had those self talks and finally convinced myself that I had nothing to lose if I walk and I did just that walked
@lasheikatucker45983 жыл бұрын
Amen sis
@ChaCha-cv7ft3 жыл бұрын
I did the same thing. I had to go off on myself one day, after that I let go. Smh jus wasted my damn time.
@a.yh.73363 жыл бұрын
Ythis video was NOTHIN SHORT OF AMAZING TONITE! AND 2ndly ...your comment jist did somethin for me! I guess..ita because the ex..caused me to leave the situation and now hes coming bk... And wants to 'talk face to face' tomorrow. Lol.yeah.. Hes gettin permanently dismissed and he doesnt know it. . He will be ahocked that in his absence since june2020..i have dropped 25 lbs. And fone from fine to fierce. Lol I have Absolutely nothing to lose with him
@katiie73 жыл бұрын
Some still come back when you say enough.. 5&9 years later for 2 exes for me.
@kiwthebeauty3 жыл бұрын
These men be looking for perfection and they are always works in progress! It’s so backwards!! I wish it was a healthy balance between both genders. I am so tired of one exhausting the other. I pray for more healthy balanced relationships for all who seek it!
@anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын
30:00-35:45 was so important. This is why I'm so happy I know that a man doesn't complete me. I am whole and complete in Jesus Christ. This is why I can be abstinent for 5 years and be satisfied without a man and sex.
@bevill72able Жыл бұрын
Amen
@dawnm74503 жыл бұрын
I’m staying single for the rest of my life after watching this. 😂 It’s not worth it.
@shantesummers57753 жыл бұрын
Am in! Where do I sign for the singles club? 🙋🏾♀️
@theehardpill2 жыл бұрын
It honestly feels like that lol 😅
@Iamirealla3 жыл бұрын
You said something So Profound, "If he gets it from someone else, he wasn't the man for you. Simple but make all the difference.
@summerdeshai3 жыл бұрын
just got done with homework!!! time to wind down and get some knowledge
@michelleatchison84243 жыл бұрын
Exactly I know what you mean
@Brooklyn_Muse3 жыл бұрын
This video has confirmed that we women are chasing our tails trying to conform to the standards these men out here 😕 I'm so tired 😔
@tarahbruno37933 жыл бұрын
I enjoy hearing what others are going through and learn from their mistakes and see where I have went wrong in the past
@lasheikatucker45983 жыл бұрын
Me 2
@pinkishdiamondz3 жыл бұрын
Same here...if your personality matches your looks, you deserve the very best 🙂
@cassandralopez11623 жыл бұрын
Amen
@destineeimani26543 жыл бұрын
it's funny how grown boys always have something there looking for or want more out of us women. When they're not even the bare minimum, like huh???? Also, do you notice how most women will stay with a guy be unhappy, or accept the things he lacks but these guys will just get up and walk away from us for the pettiest things?
@toyrealewhite3 жыл бұрын
So true
@eboogiefilms36853 жыл бұрын
too too true
@wowso43 жыл бұрын
Maybe a full time mummy who does everything for them and doesn't hold them accountable.
@destineeimani26543 жыл бұрын
@@wowso4 we have all been in that place before. It's a learning lesson.
@wowso43 жыл бұрын
@@destineeimani2654 I agree
@crystalmarcia26143 жыл бұрын
If you have to worry, wonder or question he is not the one thank you TG for your daily wisdom 🙌🏾
@cassandralopez11623 жыл бұрын
Amen ! Amen
@rachelf48833 жыл бұрын
The fact that a man had to ask Tony if it was okay for him to get “it” out of his system before he married a woman who was staying a virgin for him is disgusting. I’d rather be single.
@denisaandreea55562 жыл бұрын
As a 20 year old I have to say I AM BLESSED TO HAVE FOUND YOUR CHANNEL. AMEN
@silverestsky3 жыл бұрын
This is so much better than Jeezy vs Gucci😌 ty tony
@yljones743 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@charlottekaysworld14983 жыл бұрын
💯
@jzzsuccess3 жыл бұрын
Girl, you ain’t ever lied. Thank God for Mr. Gaskins!
@ruchellebarrett3 жыл бұрын
Agree!
@TakishaDanet3 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👏🏾😌
@breewelch59823 жыл бұрын
Tony I’m not gonna lie this video was a hard pill to swallow just realizing how many times I’ve contributed to making myself a pit stop. Still thankful for your insight. God highlighted you at a time in my life when I really needed the guidance I wasn’t getting anywhere else. I never got any of these real talks from my dad due to his older age & old fashioned Belizean ways. Not only that but if a person isn’t thriving in a certain area they really can’t guide another person. I was sheltered as a child & figured out everything I knew from the opposite sex on my own by trial & error. I’m believing God will continue working on my heart & guiding me, thank you for serving God. God bless.
@eboogiefilms36853 жыл бұрын
I have yet to hear when you should take him back though. every case is different @TonyGaskins you're wife took you back so there should be hope for some.
@starLaSane3 жыл бұрын
@@eboogiefilms3685 get his book “A woman’s influence” it is available on audible as well as in print on Amazon. The answer your looking for about his wife taking him back is in detail. Also will clarify if and when you should take him back.
@KL-0003 жыл бұрын
I ain’t get on my “byke” for nothing, Not even to sleep, I’m sleeping standing up from now on. I’m TIRED!!
@carmenparish3 жыл бұрын
Right lol. I don’t sleep on my back no more, I don’t get on my back for the gyn, I don’t do sit ups no more! Everything I do I gotta stand up. Won’t catch me slipping lol 😂
@cpresley453 жыл бұрын
Lol
@antoniaadams20843 жыл бұрын
@@carmenparish lololol
@carmenparish3 жыл бұрын
@@antoniaadams2084 I just can’t do it 😂
@cam4short3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@GoodGrief1013 жыл бұрын
Dealt with that mess. Men don’t care about what a woman says. You MUST show them. I don’t know about y’all, but if I get a random text or call, I block automatically (after I do a little research). Ugh!!!! Flashbacks listening to some of the questions. Be blessed and thank you!
@GoodGrief1013 жыл бұрын
@@p_tiffanii I tried that, but I was blocking people that shouldn’t be blocked (family).
@melissaanthony71753 жыл бұрын
The sad part is, those same men looking for the packaged deal, trophy woman have none of the attributes he is seeking.
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
True
@baddiezone3 жыл бұрын
Also when they realize those women are shallow and immature they go back to the one who gave them more meaning
@survivorship42903 жыл бұрын
"WHAT do I want to give, this, man, if I'm just a pitstop??" Now, that's the million dollar question there.. Well said, Tony!
@NAJErEa913 жыл бұрын
THE FACT THAT HE SENT HER "BE BLESSED {In the comments}" GOT ME WEAK! 😫🤣🤣🤣 PROVES THAT HE WATCHED TONY'S VIDEO AND "MADE IT THIS FAR" LMBO
@NAJErEa913 жыл бұрын
THE RECEIPT MEANS SHE GOT MONEY!!! LMBO TONNNYYY!!!!! I LOVE UR ILLUSTRATIONS !!!! LMBO
@NAJErEa913 жыл бұрын
@31:26 SMH MY MY MY YOU ARE DIVINELY GIFTED MR GASKINS SMH HOW U BROKE THAT ON DOWN SMH INGENIOUS WOW!!! LAWD JESUS SMH WOW!
@NAJErEa913 жыл бұрын
I LUH HUH HUHVE THAT "COMPLETED BY GOD" CONCEPT! :D AWESOME WORD PASTOR GASKINS!!!!
@NAJErEa913 жыл бұрын
I THANK GOD FOR U MR GASKINS. FOR I TRULY TRULY DID NOT KNOW HOW MEN THOUGHT ACTED AND BEHAVED. EVEN WITH U EXPLAINING ITS STILL AT TIMES HARD TO WRAP MY MIND AROUND AND SO TRYING TO UNDERSTAND THEM ON MY OWN , SMH WOULD BE AND WAS VIRTUALLY IMPOSSIBLE. SO I THANK U. I AM NO LONGER OPERATING OUT OF NAÏVETÉ. :)
@NAJErEa913 жыл бұрын
PRAISED BE TO THE LORD!!! ALLELUIA JESUS!!!
@candracurryofficial3 жыл бұрын
Never let your right hand know what your left hand is doing ***disclaimer*** when you about to leave them 😅😅😅
@dimediamond3 жыл бұрын
Keep it cute classy and exit the stage 🌷
@LadyAngela6783 жыл бұрын
If you feel the need to e-mail Tony, you just need to go on bout your business. You are not the one... And stay off ya back!!
@VJ-zw7xz3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@jewelsafire68443 жыл бұрын
If we REFUSE to take the bait, there would be no game. Until we had enough of the foolishness, they'll continue using us as pawns. Unless, you like being toyed with. Let's get back to handling our business, and leave the grown boy in the DUST.👌🏽
@chrissy14483 жыл бұрын
I wish. All I see is a lot of women with low self-esteem putting up with crap from men. It's a sad state....smh...
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
Yup! They hate and block you when they know you are not the women they can get anything from! 🙄😂👊🏻 Grown boys!!😂😂😂😂😂 Good riddance😌 I say! I'm not giving the Cookie to a homeless beggar who is not my husband! 🙄😂
@allisonj97633 жыл бұрын
Yeah men do balance women. this is why for me I personally don’t pay for dates or go on “cheap” dates anymore in the beginning at least. Men will take you to a hole in the wall wing spot to save money then you notice on Instagram every week he taking pictures of food at nice establishment with the girl he really likes.
@Brooklyn_Muse3 жыл бұрын
Yup! They spend money on what they really want. No matter the price.
@CiaobellaAmour3 жыл бұрын
All facts!!
@christinewarren81343 жыл бұрын
No lies told 💅
@wowso43 жыл бұрын
So true darling, how does a woman refuse a cheap date without coming across as high maintenance?
@ena__we42053 жыл бұрын
We all wanna kw why they come back but they got to be left on GONE.
@tiarose53103 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@tonitaquetaparks33043 жыл бұрын
People do not like the truth they think it is not going to happen to them. There is nothing you can do to make someone like you. If they like you then that means that you are the one. You'll never be right for the wrong person.
@ShesGottaFastCar3 жыл бұрын
The over 40 grown boys are the worst! 😂
@tashaequeen89353 жыл бұрын
You ain't lying and it's so sad🤦🏽
@bevill72able Жыл бұрын
Yes they are!
@jacquelinewilliams65723 жыл бұрын
U are glowing Man of God! ! 😁😁🤣🤣😂😂
@bridgethampton39323 жыл бұрын
Lol😂😂😂 ok
@SimplyFitwithJay3 жыл бұрын
🤣😭🤣
@CiaobellaAmour3 жыл бұрын
💀
@crystal27633 жыл бұрын
This is too funny 🤣😂, a dude who blocked a women and then tried to shoot his shot 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️👀Tony keep on keeping it 💯 with us👏🏾"men don't like to be alone"..
@kymistryw3 жыл бұрын
Tony that's why I love you , your my true brother because you break this down with passion, trust me you always on point because I was with a man for 10 years and didn't know him 😢, I pulled out the red carpet way too soon, he threw me away like a piece of trash & went to a young lady 10 years younger sky. Ladies please 🙏 listen to tony. Thank you tony
@takeysha43 жыл бұрын
He comes back to see if he still has access to you what we allow will continue slam the door no entry 😂💪
@SleepingHarmony3 жыл бұрын
This is some bitter truth but it needs to be taught to women
@kristinbrittanysmith5353 жыл бұрын
I love your "Man on a Journey" illustration. 🤯 We are just a pit stop until we are not. 🤯
@Itismytime-Amen2 жыл бұрын
right!
@debragrimes13183 жыл бұрын
When you gave him that watch my dear sister it mean time has ran out. You gave too much of yourself. Girl listen to Tony. He never was your type. Cone on, he not in your man. Keep yourself safe .Tony great talk.
@PrettyDreadie3 жыл бұрын
Why send him that video ? He’s not gonna watch it 🤦🏽♀️ i refuse to be like this in my 30s and 40s it comes a time when we need to start looking within and seeing what we are doing wrong attracting this kind of man and entertaining this kinda man even after all the red flags.
@cpresley453 жыл бұрын
55 and I have never done a 2nd time around..though some people say its better...I'm thinking there's a reason why we broke up..what's different. What's changed..then I'm imagining what and who you may have done while we were apart..its just not for me..I'm not judging anyone who chooses to go back..I just couldn't see ahead if I'm constantly looking back..if I'm always making a u turn I will never reach my destination.
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
Same. I’m 55 and I don’t do 2nd times either! I don’t have the patience for that. I just move on.
@georgiasnell43423 жыл бұрын
Preach Tony, Thank you, Thank you, Tony I don't understand how we as women can be so Clueless when it comes to these GROWN BOYS!! HELP US LORD!!! HELP US TONY!!! PLEASE!!!
@KK-bq3ns3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU JESUS, Ladies PLEASE stop sharing our jewels with the enemy!!! Most women talk tooooo much!!!!!!🤦🏽♀️
@MegaunMonarch3 жыл бұрын
The way Tony read “I fwd him your grown boy vs grown man video” and looked at the camera had me crying tears y’all. My daughter had to come check on me I was laughing so hard 😭😭😭 whewww
@anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын
That look was priceless 🤣 🤣🤣
@MegaunMonarch3 жыл бұрын
@@anointedstilettos I literally died and came back to life lol
@anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын
@@MegaunMonarch 🤣🤣🤣
@Anonymiss-tp8ym3 жыл бұрын
😂🤣 Man...
@Fr3sHTiNa3 жыл бұрын
That took me outtt 🤣🤣🤣
@abbiecd163 жыл бұрын
This video is the golden ticket. If women only watch one TG video it should be this one! 👏🏾 Thank you Tony
@soniaspicer20503 жыл бұрын
The perfect woman that's in a man's head does not exist. God gave the man this image of the perfect woman so he will have a vantage point of what he needs to pour into that woman to make what he envisions. So if a man is not happy with his wife he should not be happy with himself.
@baddiezone3 жыл бұрын
That’s true!! I also believe in spiritual warfare and when god!gives a men a woman she is a complementary to him . In this life no one is perfect, that’s what all makes us so special that is why god gives a men a women that is complementary to him , also when he goes and search for another one he doesn’t find her because for one it’s wrong that he is doing so and the “ universal “ law don’t work like that, you reap what you sow.
@CoachAmeliaAdair3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong ladies! Your never wrong for moving on! God has better for you!
@394saci3 жыл бұрын
Thank you once again for all you do and the Queen Mrs. Gaskins. May God continue to bless you, your family and loved ones.
@3D3LIA3 жыл бұрын
Once he started to read the email, I’m like oh man, here we go. And she said she had discernment...no you don’t sis... because if she did she wouldnt have written this email.
@starLaSane3 жыл бұрын
Didn’t the letter also start off with a statement that she watched and rewatched @TonyGaskins videos?? I had the same reaction as you...”no you didn’t sis”... because if you had even just watched some of them once, there would of been no reason for this question!! IJS
@tiarose53103 жыл бұрын
Tapped on this video & hit the Like button so QUICK🔥. "Hey Hey Tony Gaskins here."✨💎✨.
@cozettem82263 жыл бұрын
I can't find any guy even in his 40's and 50's who thinks like this man. He is describing all the men you find online too lol.
@tiarawilliams43703 жыл бұрын
This video was so insightful. When I broke up with my ex (which he pushed me to do so; he switched up on me) He asked could we still be friends. I told him no, I don't know how to be your friend. Just found out after 3 months he was still listening to my pandora acct. I forgot that I signed into the app n his phone because we were 2gether at the time. I instantly changed my account info so he could stop using it. To me it was lazy and rude, like he wanted a part of me around. Just thought that was wack and trifling on his part.
@cheekscheeks58403 жыл бұрын
This video was everything “ LEGS CLOSE “ ..... TG
@ShesGottaFastCar3 жыл бұрын
“Hungry and Content at the same time” ! You betta preach Tony!! That’s it!!
@vchild3 жыл бұрын
Assume you're a pit stop. I'm writing that down. 📝 📝
@deegiimijiddorj7203 жыл бұрын
I have never had a good male figure in my life and also have no knowledge about grown boy mind games too. Thank God that we have Tony Gaskins!
@PTSession3 жыл бұрын
I laugh so heartily at his method of delivery. He's so funny! He's wise too.
@JG-iy9ut3 жыл бұрын
Tony you are absolutely right!Learned the hard way about my “long distance situationship” that I Thought was a relationship
@manoniemoments11 ай бұрын
This by far is one of the 🔥BEST🔥messages!!!!💯 He really dives deep into the psyche of men and helps us understand how they generally think. This helps us successfully navigate as we date, foster a climate of ease, & protect ourselves from unnecessary roughness, confusion, & continuous disappointment!!!!! He touches on the importance of knowing God, so that we can be content in our marriage. God’s wisdom is flowing through this man. LISTEN y’all!!!😇 Thank you, Tony.🙌🏾
@evocentricpodcast16433 жыл бұрын
It’s more than just mimicking Tony but finding your revelations through these videos and actually practicing the knowledge you gained. You’ll never keep/receive a grown man by mirroring Mr. Gaskins ... make it your own truth and follow through organically.
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
"IF A MAN THAT RETURN BACK INTO YR LIFE AND " U LET HIM BACK IN !"THAT MAN IS LIKE A CLOSED CHAPTER OF A BOOK IT HAS ENDED!"TIME FOR A NEW CHAPTER OF A NEW BOOK TO BEGIN! THANK U! TONY LOOKIN FORWARD TO MORE VIDEOS! GOD BLESS U AND YR FAMILY! 😊🙏
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
" STRONG, REAL WOMAN KNOWS HOW THE GAME IS AND CAN'T BE DESTROYED!"SHE IS REAL AND TRUE! THANK U! TONY LOOKIN FORWARD TO MORE! GOD BLESS U AND YR FAMILY!😊🙏
@malikitamartin47593 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony I have to watch this over and over to remind me of why I need to stay away from my ex thank you and God Bless
@nicolesalter27263 жыл бұрын
It took me 10 years to learn my husband because I ignored the red flags until things got really crazy. Didn't know any better and learned the hard way where he was really operating from. Thank you Tony for educating me on a daily basis so the next 10 years will be very different.
@guadaluperodriguez78983 жыл бұрын
Don't be the pit stop, be the destination.
@doriscrumpton29803 жыл бұрын
Learn to appreciate what you have because the grass isn't always Greener on the other side. You won't ever have a perfect match but what counts is their good character
@TakishaDanet3 жыл бұрын
There are so many gems in this conversation I can’t even count. 🙏🏾😌 All I see is Gods hands on your shoulders in every video Tony. “ You are a PIT STOP until your not. “ My God 👏🏾👏🏾😌😓
@ssyynnn3 жыл бұрын
Love the way you love your wife Tony! I can’t wait to find that. Been celibate for a year and a half and I’m definitely trusting God!
@mstijuni3 жыл бұрын
I love the pit stop analogy. It makes since. Don't give you absolute all till the ring and still reserve til the I do. Thank n Tony
@aliciarodgers87763 жыл бұрын
I have a ? What if u already married and hes going to girl to girl and the wife gives him her all and more but he keeps leaving her and coming back and then had a baby on her left that one and with another one
@mstijuni3 жыл бұрын
@@aliciarodgers8776 my reply to that is he is a dirty dog. He should not have gotten married. He does not love his wife in the slightest. He does not want his wife. The wife can be the closest thing to God and do all the above and beyond, but it wont make him act right. He is a grown boy. From the top of his head to the bottom of his feet.
@reneedavis72483 жыл бұрын
How is it that men don’t have to be abstinence prior to finding a wife? I’m just confused how that works. Like they get blessed with someone, when we could be getting cheated on when saving ourselves.
@pinkishdiamondz3 жыл бұрын
I hate to say it but that is the likely scenario. And sadly, that could spiral into him having a child with a woman he doesn't love because he just wanted that occasional release. Of course we can say he should have discipline and use condoms, but he human and he's a man. I'm a realist over everything...I believe in waiting a while, but not complete abstinence. BUT that's just my sinning behind 😭🤣🤣
@nbpaige69012 жыл бұрын
After watching some of these- needing my own sense of "closure", I have to say... thank you for your service. The truth hurts, but its so much more valuable.
@mayasheartdesiire3 жыл бұрын
Men are soo damn selfish. They are doing the one thing they shouldn’t do finding someone who has it all and then a woman is always told he could be the man for you but he’s not perfect. Ofcourse nobody is. So men should know it’s always going to be something a woman doesn’t have but she can obtain one day eventually. Just a thought 🤷🏽♀️
@CiaobellaAmour3 жыл бұрын
So true
@tashaequeen89353 жыл бұрын
Very selfish dam jerks
@andthnwat3 жыл бұрын
Leave me out of it face ...🤣😅
@maliahp.90203 жыл бұрын
Hahaha so funny
@nettmcdonald3 жыл бұрын
That was definitely soul food and needed at this Time. Thank you so much for staying true to your calling. God bless
@AishaWhitlockEmpoweredsuccess3 жыл бұрын
Wow I really needed to hear that. Treat these men like they just passing through. Stay off your back... cause that’s really when we are hurting is when we give our body up 💯💯‼️‼️
@ellaesparza31513 жыл бұрын
She was just as immature as he was. Let’s be honest. After he left, she starts sending him videos. This is just a snippet of the situation but when I did things like this, it was because I was immature. This screams young minded. She claims that she watched and rewatched his videos and still sent this email. It means she’s not paying attention and she wants an answer tailored directly to her situation. We don’t need answers for our specific situations. The man she was dealing with knew she wasn’t his wife. That’s why he never attempted to take their relationship to the next level. She’s in her forties as well.
@DopeNoLye3 жыл бұрын
@@GlendaLove it’s soaking she just wants to hear something different
@stargoldqueen58943 жыл бұрын
Great insight concerning "pitstops". Too many will do that.
@tinatlc333 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all you do Tony
@whatsnextsis29043 жыл бұрын
You’re such a blessing Tony!!!!!
@aquarislov793 жыл бұрын
That turn of the face🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣