The ONE thing a Man really wants in a Woman!

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

Жыл бұрын

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@TheNisiu
@TheNisiu Жыл бұрын
“Men don’t learn by you talking. Men learn through consequences.” No….truer…words!
@S.Lee8
@S.Lee8 Жыл бұрын
I’m FINALLY at the confident stage. I don’t go around telling men I will cut them off but if I pray about it, God without a doubt shows me a man’s character. I’m not even playing. Idk what it is but I’m so in tune with God that it just falls in my lap. I don’t even have to seek it. And I know my worth so much now that I will peacefully walk away. Watching your videos has brought me such a long way
@bijoulareine
@bijoulareine Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Same here, Amen to that 🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@sungaze342
@sungaze342 Жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you mean when I pray about it he shown me CRAZY !! Especially your doing good and seek him and spiritual
@Sheherhis
@Sheherhis Жыл бұрын
Same for me when I pray about someone I'm interested in His character is revealed too me quickly.
@SensitiveSage
@SensitiveSage Жыл бұрын
Its 💯 true! The hard part is when and what kind of flaws to accept, to understand true compatibility
@ugreene1
@ugreene1 Жыл бұрын
So proud of your accomplishment! It feels good to peacefully walk away without drama and your confidence intact.
@edbl8356
@edbl8356 Жыл бұрын
“She is clothed in strength and dignity” - Proverbs 31
@kweendaisha
@kweendaisha Жыл бұрын
Soon as I hear " NOW LISTEN " I know a message is coming , come through Tony "
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@AmarisLW
@AmarisLW Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@judithj446
@judithj446 Жыл бұрын
Exactly😂😂
@cherh
@cherh Жыл бұрын
😂right!
@Ashley21138
@Ashley21138 Жыл бұрын
@@cherh even read it in his voice 😂
@charmingcharlie5211
@charmingcharlie5211 Жыл бұрын
He needs a woman that shows him that there will be consequences for his actions. She gain his respect. It may or may change his actions but he definitely knows that he can't run over her.
@scorpiocara6798
@scorpiocara6798 Жыл бұрын
They get mad that you're holding them accountable and they do it anyways.....I guess that's the grown boy
@charmingcharlie5211
@charmingcharlie5211 Жыл бұрын
@@scorpiocara6798 Exactly! He's not for you. Tell him to kick rocks. 😂
@scorpiocara6798
@scorpiocara6798 Жыл бұрын
@@charmingcharlie5211 rite
@miriamescovar9786
@miriamescovar9786 Жыл бұрын
I also think it only works on men who are willing to grow.
@janiceparkerson4727
@janiceparkerson4727 Жыл бұрын
Boom. There it is.
@xoxodejaaboo
@xoxodejaaboo Жыл бұрын
My thing is, i've come to the realization that men are actually terrified of a true genuine woman like this
@liztowers2058
@liztowers2058 Жыл бұрын
Yes..mine just told me he needs to think cause he's not sure if he can commit fully with me.... So I said ok. Take it. I understand....but don't expect me to wait around. And I haven't texted him all day. And I won't. I know what I can offer.
@b.angelic
@b.angelic Жыл бұрын
@@liztowers2058 I honestly would have left him just making a comment like that. If he have to think as a man whether or not he can fully commit to you, than you are not a man with a plan and you don’t want very much. I had a guy tell me he doesn’t know when he will mature and he was older than me in graduate school and myself in undergraduate school. The minute he said that, I stopped associating myself with him and moved on. This happen in 2013 and it is now 2022 going on 2023. I haven’t talk to him since and love it ❤!
@mspalene
@mspalene Жыл бұрын
Those are grown boys hunny, there are grown men in the world. I learned that when I met my husband.
@liztowers2058
@liztowers2058 Жыл бұрын
Immature men ... absolutely. Grown ass men know better. ...but those are a rare breed these days
@liztowers2058
@liztowers2058 Жыл бұрын
@@b.angelic I left him official cut him off attention and sex and everything as of 13days ago. He still texts and leaves me voice messages "Good morning have a good day. Hope you're well" Etc etc. My replies are like a buddy "Hey, you too enjoy your day" And done. Play stupid games win stupid prizes
@Tephiffany
@Tephiffany Жыл бұрын
Ladies, let's continue to pray for a high level of discernment.
@techauntie
@techauntie Жыл бұрын
It’s the dog-a-dation and dis-collation for me 😂😂😂😭😭😭
@lesliemayer5955
@lesliemayer5955 Жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣🤣😅
@journeytopointe
@journeytopointe Жыл бұрын
Same😂
@moadornedbyjesus
@moadornedbyjesus 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jessicascreenwritingservices
@jessicascreenwritingservices Жыл бұрын
Yes, the art of walking away. 💅🏾
@atomicgeisha
@atomicgeisha Жыл бұрын
If a man needs a woman to keep men accountable then he is little boy.
@madethemlook
@madethemlook Жыл бұрын
It just seems like it’s all too much. I’d rather be single if I have to do all of that.
@KM__respect
@KM__respect Жыл бұрын
@@madethemlook Anything worth having is worth working for. If he is willing to work for you he will appreciate you. Since no one is perfect, a man may mess up (not talking about cheating) so if a woman demonstrates that she won't be treated less than she deserves, a man will recognize he has to work and a good man will. A grown boy won't, so he makes it easier for a grown woman to kindly move on.
@lisalivingston7458
@lisalivingston7458 2 ай бұрын
I find this to be true in ALL relationships: You show ppl how to treat you‼️‼️ Idc who it is, ppl love to test your boundaries! What you allow, is what continues GOOD OR BAD! I’ve experienced this with women/men/children….at Church & on the JOB!!!! Sometimes we have to let folks know in a quiet & polished way--What you’re giving is unacceptable!
@judithj446
@judithj446 Жыл бұрын
Men listen from consequences. LISTEN NOW
@sisteroflovea7215
@sisteroflovea7215 Жыл бұрын
I sent this to my Daughter, She’s a gorgeous girl that accepts disrespect from a man!!
@venusisqueen8993
@venusisqueen8993 Жыл бұрын
My high value Ex thought cause he was a doctor I wasn't going to leave him or hold him accountable but guess what" I left now he misses me. I loved him but I love me too
@Mimi-xv6jm
@Mimi-xv6jm Жыл бұрын
Any man who treats me with any disrespect, means the relationship is over, because I don’t have time to be anybody’s human toy.
@elizabethhennessey6437
@elizabethhennessey6437 Жыл бұрын
Tony has convinced me I am better off without a man. I'm doing good in my life and I don't need anyone to mess it up! 🙏
@christynechellet9436
@christynechellet9436 Жыл бұрын
Love the message. But if I walk away. I’m done. Not interested in taking breaks.
@rosalyndousley
@rosalyndousley Жыл бұрын
Cause they don't understand how hard it is to really walk away. Definitely no going back.
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 Жыл бұрын
@@rosalyndousley so true
@christynechellet9436
@christynechellet9436 Жыл бұрын
💯
@brandiejones_
@brandiejones_ Жыл бұрын
Yep you explained a narcissist.. it very hard to try to have a healthy relationship and trust men after unknowingly dealing with these cold and callous grown boys
@jog.6425
@jog.6425 Жыл бұрын
We as women, hold on to that hope. That false sense of hope that if we keep working on this man, he will change for us? But the reality is, that a man won't change until he loses you... Usually by then it'll be too late, bc we are so mentally exhausted, hurt, and heart broken by this man. It's sad that it has to come to this, for him to see your true worth... But, when we finally do get the courage to walk away, we are then left to put our own selves back together. When this happens, We must Learn to VALUE ourselves. Show that piece of sh*t that we are better off w out them and just watch how he will be running back to you....but by then, is he even worth taking back..? I will leave that up to you to decide...the heart wants him back.. the mind does not...
@daphney_elaine
@daphney_elaine Жыл бұрын
I am proud to say that I have matured to this woman. I have walked away from a few. I refuse to subject myself to any form of abuse, rejection or manipulation!
@bigmanbesses
@bigmanbesses Жыл бұрын
I did the same, 46 still learning..
@daphney_elaine
@daphney_elaine Жыл бұрын
@@bigmanbesses Amen! Ever learning!
@Therawbehavior
@Therawbehavior Жыл бұрын
this is very true, ever since I got closer with knowing my value I have only been attracting men that are dating with purpose and treating me with high respect. I will never chase a man like I did when I was in my early twenties. Being 28 and knowing what I want and need I get into conversation and dates with realness and nothing less, will not lay on my back or settle for less until I know he's the one and have been claimed for marriage. There were a few men I cut off in a nice matter that are still wanting to date me since I did it with respect and dignity. Realness takes you a long way wether its to family, friends dating or work keep it real people and pray for others and thank god for your learning blessing and stay strong!
@Tucker12254
@Tucker12254 Жыл бұрын
Same! I’m turning 28 in January & I refuse to even play those kinds of games!
@rhondalipkin985
@rhondalipkin985 Жыл бұрын
I started listening to Tony talk about how his wife never raised her voice or cuss at home. So when I get upset or frustrated, I take a deep breath, and say what I need to say in a calm voice. If I don't know how to talk to my fiance about something I pray for wisdom. That's what I had to do, when I talked to him three times about something, finally he listened. Lol it's a learning process I see. Change is not easy, but with good teaching, pray and God u can make the relationship work!
@Therawbehavior
@Therawbehavior Жыл бұрын
yesss ! love your message and agree
@katlynkniceley1665
@katlynkniceley1665 Ай бұрын
Yes this is for a husband and wife. If a husband really cares for his wife he will not put her in hurt emotions to tell or cuss to express the pain she feels. He will not dismiss or neglect her pain. When you are out here in the dating scene, sometimes you gotta act IN your feelings so that man DOESN’T chase you.
@KimontheWeb
@KimontheWeb Жыл бұрын
You preaching Tony! 👏🏾 I tell the ladies in my celibacy group, you know you’re ready to date when the thought of him leaving doesn’t bother you. Real talk. Took me forty years to get here but I’m here and sharing with others. Continued blessing and love brother Tony for all you do to empower women and encourage healthy relationships❤
@robinbrown3136
@robinbrown3136 Жыл бұрын
Hi Kim, are you accepting members to your celibacy group?
@KimontheWeb
@KimontheWeb Жыл бұрын
@@robinbrown3136 Yes! It’s in the description underneath any of my videos
@love4rightreasons60
@love4rightreasons60 Жыл бұрын
So true!
@rebeccarobinson2547
@rebeccarobinson2547 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with this. They want accountability from us but Women et tired of training these grown a$$ Men. Why don't they just act right so we don't have to always hold them accountable with direct communication? It feels like dog training. They want to get better at our expense.
@10kCrows
@10kCrows Жыл бұрын
Exactly, the more I learn about men the more I think I'm better off without them 🤔 smh
@aquarius72
@aquarius72 Жыл бұрын
This is confirmation that the actions I have taken this past week is correct. Your teachings are gold. I have all your books as well. You are a blessing indeed
@belvega3748
@belvega3748 Жыл бұрын
Girlll omg me too ❤
@lovingtherightone
@lovingtherightone Жыл бұрын
same
@itsbeeminet
@itsbeeminet Жыл бұрын
Y’all listen to Tony!! I had a friend of mine that would curse out her man, threaten him, punch/slap him, etc; but she would always take him back after he cheated or did something. He knew that all those theatrics were not serious because she always came back so he didn’t respect her. The only way you will get a mans respect is by having the strength and confidence to show him that the moment he switches up that you are GONEEE. All this yelling and hollering , men do not take seriously because they know that a woman who is cool, calm, and collected is dangerous.
@adaofcharles1217
@adaofcharles1217 Жыл бұрын
💯 no lies detected.
@van182
@van182 Жыл бұрын
You all are making "dating" way too complicated (thanks to social media). Men and women have been in relationships for thousands of years. This is not a new concept.
@itsbeeminet
@itsbeeminet Жыл бұрын
@@van182To respect yourself isn’t complicated lol
@Queenconsciousness311
@Queenconsciousness311 Жыл бұрын
Calm, Cool, Collected is my energy. It works ✌🏽
@corissacarter9845
@corissacarter9845 Жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right. I went back to a narcissist and right away I knew I made a huge mistake. They are full of demons. It's only by the grace of God that I made it out alive. Always listen to the Holy Spirit, not toxic empathy. When God says, run..... Run!!
@Micahsophia
@Micahsophia Жыл бұрын
This a whole word, i don’t be letting up, but i told a man i hope he get a pimple on his butt today via text 😂it was immature i know but he tried to play me & i told him i ain’t like that directly & to have a nice day
@AmarisLW
@AmarisLW Жыл бұрын
Girlllllll I'm hollering at the pimple on his butt!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Micahsophia
@Micahsophia Жыл бұрын
@@AmarisLW 😂😂😂
@shanda01114
@shanda01114 Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of your video “ Be willing to leave. “ I watch that video almost everyday to keep myself motivated and on the right path. Especially when I feel I want to reach out to someone whom I had to leave. It keeps me motivated! This is a message many women don’t seem to understand. The ride or die image has been pushed in our communities for years. This message is very needed!
@Sheherhis
@Sheherhis Жыл бұрын
This is true, and qell said the ride or die image had been pushed in our communities so men can do the most awful things and she still riding to her detriment. Learn to let go. When its not what you've dreamed of.
@LarennPBel
@LarennPBel Жыл бұрын
Thank u for name dropping the title in the comment section
@j-tenn226
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
I have mastered the art of walking from a bad situation gracefully and with few words. I feel like , In every situation, it speaks volumes as opposed to just wasting my breath. “ The scariest thing is a quiet person.” From a person who is probably one of the quietest people you will ever meet, I can confirm. When you sit back and watch people, you will pick up SO much. Ladies let’s all strive to be like Sheri Gaskins.
@tstar5944
@tstar5944 Жыл бұрын
I strive to be like the best version of ME, always.
@SOTNTV44
@SOTNTV44 Жыл бұрын
Men and women will always fail.. Let's strive to be more like Jesus!
@tstar5944
@tstar5944 Жыл бұрын
@@SOTNTV44 he is a made up character by your colonizers.
@SOTNTV44
@SOTNTV44 Жыл бұрын
@@tstar5944 oh okay, I didn't know that but I love Him regardless
@kingsleybaby
@kingsleybaby Жыл бұрын
Once i walk away its forever. If a guy is a cheater, I am not taking him back. A good guy will not cheat and abuse in a first place, if I have to walk away this means he is not a quality guy.
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 Жыл бұрын
You preaching today Tony!!! I knew only grown boys cheat and not men. “Men walk away” not stay with someone who they don’t want to be with and vice versa.
@MrsLC-tp8oj
@MrsLC-tp8oj Жыл бұрын
Amen 🎉
@nationhappy3377
@nationhappy3377 Жыл бұрын
I don't have time to play. If they come like this, I don't want them anyway.....
@shereewhite4828
@shereewhite4828 Жыл бұрын
Ladies, in order to gain respect from men, we must first learn to love, respect and understand ourselves! If we don't love and respect ourselves, and a man senses that, he will disrespect you to the fullest! Demand from a man the kind of respect he'd want a man to give his mother, grandmother, sister, daughter, etc. Demand it firmly without a loud voice or cursing!
@jackiepate2533
@jackiepate2533 Жыл бұрын
The best comment up here, “demand the kind of respect he’d want a man to give his mother, grandmother, sister, daughter.”
@shereewhite4828
@shereewhite4828 Жыл бұрын
@@jackiepate2533 Thank you😊
@ms.j.w.4208
@ms.j.w.4208 Жыл бұрын
On the real...THIS **IS** TRUE....It REALLY is....Confidence IS POWER...I've done it with a few...and it was not overly hard...HOWEVER there have been some that I have had to REALLY face that challenge..and it was PAINFUL.... So yes..TONY is right. One right now always "checking" on me. I don't think he got the "memo" but I think it's because I've rejected HIS DISRESPECT...HIS GROWN-BOY behavior ..but try to act like he's not. I got tired of the "checkin in" bc I know it wasn't "genuine".. And...along with the check-in it was always on the slick trying to invite me out. Which I also told him I'm building my relationship in CHRIST even more...so I told him I can't "do everything" and be "everywhere". He likes to do petty stuff like that then not show up like basically trying to invite me "out"...with no real intentions on "goin out" but I told him I was okay with us just saying hello but all the previous is over. So now he's still "licking" his wound...and trying to be faceous or "messy" SMH Soooo I called him out on ALL of it...and he had no choice but to admit yeah I was being petty...and etc etc. I told him and this is why I stopped looking at you in that way, bc I study ur behavior ur lies, your insecurities..your "attempt to get that "last lick"...SMH.... And...bc I really gave him ALL of that he SUFFOCATING bc he has no recourse but to accept it. I told him the next time u say u want to meet up for lunch u will reach a VM that will be null and void.. He was trying to tell me how to go about my relationship with Christ..saying God knows our heart and all this..I'm like u know what HE DOES..BUT at some point as loving as OUR HEAVENLY FATHER IS....HE can and does grow tired of going outside of HIS WILL. .especially when WE know better. Don't PLAY WITH GOD. I know HE is patient and kind...but he also has rules HE wants us to follow by. And although it's never condemnation...it's conviction and accountability..... Ppl will tell u anything just to get u to "be at ease" with sinning... I'm just trying to do so much better. I know we "fall short", we ALL do...but at what point do we say....enuff..We DONT WANT GOD TO SAY OKAY...ENUFF...BC we know that isn't good...So I CHOOSE 2strive for Godliness...Jehovah Jirah....anything that makes me more like HIM....I'm comfortable with that...
@ellehajj5137
@ellehajj5137 4 ай бұрын
I respect how after you dropped some gems for us, you focused on putting 30 minutes apart for daily exercise.
@Womeninspiringnationsministry
@Womeninspiringnationsministry Жыл бұрын
im telling you this 100 works on any man in your life including your teenage sons, because sons disrespect their mamas too. they learn when u walk away and refuse to tolerate that nonsense. you are helping your sons too and blessing them when you hold them accountable as opposed to enabling them. enabling your teenage sons will land them in prison. trust me on that!!
@ONLYLOVEIZATION
@ONLYLOVEIZATION Жыл бұрын
Good mum. Good advice 👍🏼 thank you.
@kara4454
@kara4454 Жыл бұрын
AMEN !! Exactly the Intuitive discernment that God has blessed me with that is why I listen to the voice of truth always …. I don’t wish no harm anyone I walked away because I deserve the best that GOD has for me great things in store . A woman with morals and standards knows there worth and no man will disrespect or dishonor me as a woman of integrity. A real man will not put you in the position to loose you Ladies …. Know your worth !
@cindeed4422
@cindeed4422 Жыл бұрын
“Dogalation!” Love that word!
@touchpoint4christministries444
@touchpoint4christministries444 Жыл бұрын
The loudest 1in the room is always the weakest 1 Liiam Neeson an actor I appreciate his talent! Blessings Tony and thank you for sharing these points ❣️
@camuyana
@camuyana Жыл бұрын
When a woman shuts up and doesn't complain anymore, be ready to receive what's coming and if you regret later what is coming, mainly when there is no more love and trust from whoever caused the damage whether man or woman, the pain will be like no other. I'm talking from first-hand experience from my soon-to-be ex. Make sure you're ready to leave if those are the circumstances that will come to you.
@hymnodyhands
@hymnodyhands Жыл бұрын
Many men do not understand that when we stop talking and trying, he is as good as dead to us ... what happens next is him finding out what that means...
@doriscrumpton7887
@doriscrumpton7887 Жыл бұрын
U need 💯 real talk 👄 confidence and self-esteem control. U gotta be willing to walk way 💯 😌 from that man.
@healthandwellness6312
@healthandwellness6312 Жыл бұрын
I held my ex accountable in the relationship by trying to get him to do better and he said I was nagging. I wasn’t playing with him so I left the relationship after 18 months and he ran to the new supply.
@joyjackson662
@joyjackson662 Жыл бұрын
That sounds like my story. Best decision I made 4 years ago when separating from him. I'm am at my lifetime best! Divorce is next month, December.
@reginadavis1028
@reginadavis1028 Жыл бұрын
Talk about multitasking!! Dropping GEMS while simultaneously staying in shape. GREAT WAY to utilize your time Tony and THANK YOU!!
@ONLYLOVEIZATION
@ONLYLOVEIZATION Жыл бұрын
The teddy bear analogy gave me goosebumps. And not in a good way. Amen I concur with this excellent message. The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when the abused leaves the abuser - be careful out here in these end times. Thank you. God Bless.
@shansteves8584
@shansteves8584 Ай бұрын
Yep, exactly he is spot on. Here is why from what I've learned concerning men. Men only understand and respect 3 things concerning women. #1 strength #2 accountability by holding him responsible #3 responsibility for his actions,only comes from holding him responsible and accountable for his actions. Make everything crystal clear to the man. Then have no problem leaving ever. All men take women's kindness for weakness until you show them that strength. All they understand is strength,it's a woman's job to show it clearly and consistently for any man who wishes to find out by testing you. What they see as strength is accountability. You are not accepting or tolerating any disrespect, or bad behaviors period.
@MiniMausTruckerKee
@MiniMausTruckerKee Жыл бұрын
Some of these men will speak out their @$$ about this is my “ride or die” and be out here cheating. He’s not happy and looking for a way out🤦🏽‍♀️
@stephaniejackson1391
@stephaniejackson1391 Жыл бұрын
Men need you to be REAL AUTHENTIC AND DIRECT. Tony Gaskins has a good heart and he really heals us as women. A man don't cheat a grown boy cheats reminds me of Melody Holt on Love & Marriage Huntsville. Her husband Martell cheated got another woman pregnant and now he on to another woman. He doesn't respect her and she needs to get that and cut him off completely she too beautiful and strong for that. Love you Tony Gaskins you your beautiful wife and kids truly blessed and highly favored🙏❤️🙏
@ladyrcreation4702
@ladyrcreation4702 Жыл бұрын
Great job on the workout.. so many black men with big stomachs and all kinds of ailments. Keep it up and of course, another great video.
@doriscrumpton7887
@doriscrumpton7887 Жыл бұрын
Men love to chase you. That's a challenge for them that draws them close to you.j 6
@NurseMo337
@NurseMo337 Жыл бұрын
whew! took me long enough but i got it finally thank God
@Mindsetolympics
@Mindsetolympics Жыл бұрын
Hold him accountable. But also women we have a strong intuition and have a strong sense of the holy spirit if we are Christian, so listening and following the holy spirit will 100% always work in our favor as believers. I always told myself “leave them respecting you” you gotta do it smoothly letting them know you’re not about the games and it’s serious.
@daisymichele9783
@daisymichele9783 Жыл бұрын
"Liam Neeson energy" love it!! 💖💖
@yr_girl_jade
@yr_girl_jade Жыл бұрын
Tony be like "The only Super Bowl I’m finna eat is chipotle" I hollered so loud 😩😂😂😂😂
@akilahbatyah6505
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
I ain't never seen a red flag turn green. I'm setting boundaries and looking tho. "Ride or Die." should be changed to "Die or Die." Ain't the man supposed to be the one that gives his life for his wife? Oh and the recession. The recession is like a long winter and grown boys are gonna be looking for a place to stay. Beware ladies. And yep, I wanted to sign up for the life coaching course, but my account wasn't ready.
@tantig5923
@tantig5923 Жыл бұрын
The Long Winter is coming 😂❤❤ Why did I have an image of GOT oh yeah because it is a game 😂😂😂
@akilahbatyah6505
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
@@tantig5923 🤣🤣🤣, yes them grown boys is them white walkers lol
@tantig5923
@tantig5923 Жыл бұрын
@@akilahbatyah6505 I just spit out my water 😂😂😂
@akilahbatyah6505
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
@@tantig5923 🤣🤣🤣
@marcellousmcilwain6079
@marcellousmcilwain6079 Жыл бұрын
TONY.. I am watching this 2 more times. This is fire!!!
@aneshrathomas
@aneshrathomas Жыл бұрын
Plz go viral, society teach us to be a ride or die man that’s bs! Ain’t nothing wrong with being a solid female but don’t ever reward him for bad behavior check it and if he can’t correct it go on about ya business fr💯
@ShaunaShai
@ShaunaShai Жыл бұрын
Very true. Stealth mode from now on ladies. Don’t be predictable 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@shekirarogers5578
@shekirarogers5578 Жыл бұрын
I will not be disrespected I will not be unappreciated I will not be talked down to At ALL . I Demand My Respect! Period
@scorpiocara6798
@scorpiocara6798 Жыл бұрын
U fixing to motivate me on my workouts every morning....you out here literally getting it
@jcoates375
@jcoates375 Жыл бұрын
Preach Tony
@nkechionyinye1219
@nkechionyinye1219 Жыл бұрын
@@jcoates375 It's a scam!
@ayeeda7891
@ayeeda7891 Жыл бұрын
You changed my mindset Tony, I’m thankful for you for life. ❤️
@courtneyjohnson5529
@courtneyjohnson5529 Жыл бұрын
“I don’t like to feel too uncomfortable” 😂😂😅 that’s me! Love TG
@mbrook9228
@mbrook9228 Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend learned a big mistake that could of cost his life and made me leave him but told me to come back. That's when I knew he realized his actions and outcome of things. I'm always wanting him to be safe and protected always!
@shamayim2001
@shamayim2001 Жыл бұрын
That's me! I walk away if it's not right but than I'm single most of the time lol
@teagirl411
@teagirl411 Жыл бұрын
Love this! At least I've been doing something right with all these men. Never chase a man. Actions over words, walk away when he's not treating you how you deserve and never look back. There is so much power in holding others accountable and holding your self-worth high. Men should never feel like you are just a done deal. Confidence over everything!
@rossegold6656
@rossegold6656 Жыл бұрын
I was doubting my decision but then I came across this video. Such perfect timing♥️
@gabriellamagar5114
@gabriellamagar5114 Жыл бұрын
This was mega confirmation for me today!! I have to make a decision today and this video confirmed for me that it's the right one to make. Tony thank you for these messages God bless you!! 🙏🙏
@breakingthru
@breakingthru Жыл бұрын
So many women learn this way of love which is all about being unconditional and not setting standards and being self sacrificing and a martyr. Liam Neeson energy! Haha love it! So true. Men don't learn from nagging and repeating a lecture. "Calm down little Johnny" hahaha
@phyllisdickerson9071
@phyllisdickerson9071 Жыл бұрын
I'm going to share this video on my fb. A lot of women need to hear this!
@ladyfox7762
@ladyfox7762 Жыл бұрын
SHOW HIM DONT TELL HIM
@BmoreBetterNOW
@BmoreBetterNOW Жыл бұрын
I think women need to focus on what we want in a man first & foremost; make sure he meets our standards of propriety, and can at least contribute something positive to our lives without adding mess. Then we can slowly begin to shift into thinking about what he wants but only to the degree of his commitment.
@simplymekia1563
@simplymekia1563 Жыл бұрын
Snatch Johnny up 💪🏾😂
@antoinettej2495
@antoinettej2495 Жыл бұрын
You are right about everything-including the part that about running from a man-who will cost you everything. That was and still is my father-even in his old age-which is absolutely narcissistic. I now know that I am not alone in these regards. Thank you! Stay Blessed.
@ladycsays7526
@ladycsays7526 Жыл бұрын
OMG! I need help with this. I have always spoken my mind with my husband of 14 years but it has always been yelling or screaming. I think I'm so frustrated for not getting what I need. I always thought being quiet was me showing I'm weak and letting him run over me. I am seeing things different now. Change is so hard. I'm such an overly emotional person
@thobekamvimbi3041
@thobekamvimbi3041 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I've passed the test🤗🙏🙌🙏
@loveli_anne
@loveli_anne Жыл бұрын
Was talking to this guy for almost a month. Seen some things about him that I questioned, however, I never said anything. I asked God “how should I proceed with this man?” Then I felt an intense feeling of having Faith and Patience; I listened. A few days later, he changed his profile picture with a woman, his dog, and himself in it; God answered me. I texted him “I am going to bow out of this situation gracefully. Thank you.” He texted back and I never answered. Deleted his number, and yes, I was sad for a moment, but then I got up and continued with my beautiful and magical life. The power in me to walk away is deeply rooted in every existence of my being that as soon as he planted that seed of an image in my head, I knew I couldn’t go backwards. Thank you.
@lovingmy2boys365
@lovingmy2boys365 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had this video about a year ago before I reconciled with my ex. He definitely made me pay for "the old and the new" as you say lol.
@terranesha5784
@terranesha5784 Жыл бұрын
If this wasn't taught to a woman it's hard to get to..it took me nearly losing my life trying to save a relationship to understand the power of walking away.
@patriciahetherington1709
@patriciahetherington1709 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir , So may women need to hear this because we are scared to let the go in fear of completely losing the man .
@tanitrarobinson7477
@tanitrarobinson7477 Жыл бұрын
Losing a man or losing a boy?
@DorothyEHines
@DorothyEHines Жыл бұрын
I sooooo much appreciate Tony's videos. I wish all women could hear this one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@LOADING...o.o.o
@LOADING...o.o.o Жыл бұрын
Omg you are so correct about him making people against me. And also talk down on me. Sometimes he said I’m not that smart.
@millicentstollenwerck5239
@millicentstollenwerck5239 Жыл бұрын
In my opinion, accountability and control is the same to some men, those that don't want to do right. To us women it's hard to separate the two when we are emotional or mad.
@hn8032
@hn8032 Жыл бұрын
Lord this just spoke to me and let me know I did the right thing. I texted a guy the truth about my thoughts and what I won't tolerate. Im good now👏🏾
@thefacetsofdee8291
@thefacetsofdee8291 Жыл бұрын
Amen, “as long as you’re going the right way”
@alisachaise3
@alisachaise3 Жыл бұрын
He will cost ya everything… mind, body, soul, & your money!!! Thanks Tony!!
@royliechaVb
@royliechaVb Жыл бұрын
I’m quiet then surprise em outta nowhere 😂don’t play with me😅
@tiabarring
@tiabarring Жыл бұрын
Be UNAFRAID!!!
@stormyv.8890
@stormyv.8890 Жыл бұрын
I had a man that was just like that... just wanted to hurt me..I'm so glad that I dropped kicked him out... it's been 2 months of not being in his presence... he ..will take everything you got and laugh at you when you cry about it... this man proposed to me and 8 days later I caught him cheating and he said it was my fault he was cheating...and told me to shut up.
@Desertvibes234
@Desertvibes234 Жыл бұрын
A whole sermon 🙏🏼
@alycer.8158
@alycer.8158 Жыл бұрын
"When you shut down the furniture moving" 🤣
@joiagenae
@joiagenae Жыл бұрын
Lil johnny demonstration 😂😂😂😂😂
@lolo8288
@lolo8288 Жыл бұрын
They want a MOMMY
@scorpiocara6798
@scorpiocara6798 Жыл бұрын
Y'all are neat freaks ....y'all house spotless. I love to see it. Very very nice gym too
@erikabyard2241
@erikabyard2241 Жыл бұрын
I soooo needed to hear this. Thank you!!
@ms.sharpe8820
@ms.sharpe8820 Жыл бұрын
This is good! Appreciate that lil pep talk
@GLiaH5
@GLiaH5 Жыл бұрын
Tony is on here talking like a BCBA 😂 LOVE IT 🙌🏾
@_GabrielleDenise
@_GabrielleDenise Жыл бұрын
He ain’t lying lol I have to be very direct with my 3year old son, and put base on it for him to stop, look and listen
@gloriarobinson6820
@gloriarobinson6820 Жыл бұрын
Truly noted !! Thank you 💞
@nattywho
@nattywho Жыл бұрын
Such a good message!
@egyptanderson9434
@egyptanderson9434 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I found your content 🙏🏾💯
@Hairlovebydesirae
@Hairlovebydesirae Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the wisdom brother.
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