The truth about men dating!

[@charlidavidson]

That's why it's important to date like a man. I've always done this, never take a man seriously unless he takes me seriously. He calls me 2 times a week, he doesn't get thought about until my phone rings. I don't chase, quest, thirst, or press. And I hold my little crush inside until it's appropriate to reveal. He has to earn you emotionally, he has to earn your mind space, he has to earn special consideration and treatment. It is what it is. Build your roster and be as picky as you want. Women hinder themselves from being SINGLE for the sake of a happy ending, but you must live, date, be light, and have fun! And in that freedom, and self love you'll attract someone who wants to cater to that. But when you out here giving desperate energy, men will sense that and unfortunately you will attract someone who will cater to that!

[@brandiejones_]

💯💯💯

[@aneeicha3212]

Point. Blank. Periodt!!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥

[@Newladyn09]

And let the Tribe say Amen! 🙏

[@crystalcormier9376]

Sis, You said mouth full. But it's the truth!!!

[@browneyenrs76noel34]

I'm so at peace being single!!!!!!!

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

Me too...I never knew there could b so much peace in singleness...I luv it !

[@joanas4335]

Me 3!

[@siobhanroberson5575]

Use the divine law of attraction, ladies, manifest the man Universe/God has for you, if that is truly part of your Souls’ purpose in this life! Ty for the info, Tony, it helps to know what to look for and what to avoid 😉

[@fatashvlogs6789]

ME TOO 🤣😝

[@browneyenrs76noel34]

@Star Essence i don't think too many of us wants to grow old single...BUT I really get tired of wasting my "younger" years dealing with lying, cheating, controlling manipulating men. Im 44 y.o. and I can say other than my childhood this is the first time in my life im truly happy, content and not getting "played" lol. So, I'll take singleness for 100, Alex!

[@laguilera1118]

Even homeless men juggling women, wow!

[@womanofgod2948]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're killing me, say it ain't so, Sis

[@authenticallybria]

like fr that shook me 😂😂

[@YellaRoseBliss]

😂😂😂

[@iloveangelmonroe4864]

This is for real and sad! We have to level up ladies

[@victoriahuff4953]

Why do men have babies with women and say they only married them because they didn't want to pay child support

[@tisha812]

Ladies...I know this seems exhausting. Well...actually it IS exhausting. But don't give up on what GOD has for you. Tony is giving us knowledge in order for us to date CORRECTLY and honor OURSELVES in relationships/marriage. Stop giving away your power!!! We are the daughters of the THE most high!!!

[@maureenishabor8036]

Yessssssss ma'am

[@tiffw9959]

Tish _Aglow it’s exhausting.

[@merlinsvdd]

Amen.

[@NAJErEa91]

PREACH!!! SAY THAT SISTA QUEEN!!! GOD BLESS U!

[@shiracobb3098]

Very exhausting

[@KCoopp9]

I guess I’m different if you don’t call me daily I lose interest and cut you off. Inconsistent is a turn off for me 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Nekole1]

I am the same way. I will cut an inconsistent man off quick.

[@StoniB77]

Girl yassssssss!!!! I thought I was the only one who felt like that!!!

[@angelsmile9789]

Same here

[@neya292]

Same here!

[@tammybullard4753]

Same!

[@Mindsetolympics]

One thing I’m learning in dating is.. some men are counting on your low self esteem. & then Some didn’t expect your poor boundaries but will take advantage of it.

[@ebonyflowers7599]

Whewww...I felt like I was in trigonometry class...this is depressing and mentally exhausting...it’s not fair but all I can do it keep taking Tony’s advice. 😬

[@Newladyn09]

🤣🤣..,@trigonometry class

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Gurrrrrrl Tony Gaskins !!!

[@BeingMyoshi]

😂😂😂

[@crystalsmith1025]

Exactly how I feel. I hate dating.

[@adaiyah-zerahbahtyahudah7860]

In a word sister, take the very best care of You!!!! Be Your Very Best!!!

[@pmack6977]

I hear everything you're saying, but this is why I'm not trying to be in the dating scene AT ALL! I can't even deal with these types of games!!!

[@chrisparker6249]

You shouldn't allow certain cultures and practices discourage you from trusting God to bring you your King, is it not what you deserve?!

[@feliciacarrington681]

I feel you,I'm thinking the same.

[@feliciacarrington681]

Point blank,Perioddddd😁

[@patricemurray6412]

Me too!

[@miabia6611]

P Mack yup 👍🏽 I rather just spend time with God the more

[@StephaniaDesir]

I truly enjoy Tony honesty and transparency.

[@blessedadjoa497]

Its Everything!

[@wowso4]

Me too It’s very refreshing

[@meriammedina2178]

I swear I live for these notifications!! Reporting to class 📚 🤓

[@agnespoku4993]

Yesss! I'm reporting for class too!

[@tarao4382]

Present!!!!!🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

[@venda1008]

Same here

[@MommaMia8084]

Most definitely Love reporting to class 🥰🤓🙋🏾‍♀️💪🏾

[@charniseelliott653]

Tony....they say the game is sold and not told, but you're telling it.. So amazing, helpful, informative, inspirational and more than anything, PRICELESS. Thank you for your service.😊😍

[@AshleyLu92]

“She was one snicker bar away from being too much for me” 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂 I think that’s what it is Tony about me. I’m a couple of #4’s in 🤦🏾‍♀️ This video is a gold mine! Thanks for clarity!

[@gracetracy9077]

That was too funny!! I Iike. That sis....EazyY💋 fa'real📖

[@nicolec.5938]

As a Christian woman i have many 1st dates then the guy fade away or i have a guy continue to try to date me and defile me , and im thinking you should know im not gonna sleep with you 🤷🏽‍♀️ . I have yet to meet just a normal guy who genuinely want to get to know me 😌

[@swalker3650]

They r very rare and hard to find Especially online dating I’m trying myself I’m about to give up but this video enlightens me

[@s.r.125]

Tell me about it gurl 🙄😏

[@MF-ov7kk]

It’s the same here!!

[@lemonspring6425]

Same same same

[@EvieAswiti]

When he said there's homeless men juggling women I ABSOLUTELY felt that because it is entire facts. Some women dating men that they have no clue were homeless when they met them.

[@Bre_travels]

The women in My family were trying to tell me all these things years ago but I wouldn't listen.. Them dating several woman is actually unhealthy for them and the woman.. We should not be complaisant and just accept this.. It's abusive and damaging to your health in many ways.. Again ladies don't waste your energy on waiting/looking for love from a man..Love is universal.. My love goes toward my family, making money, my hobbies and last but not least myself..

[@tisha812]

Sis, just out of curiosity...why is unhealthy and/or abusive for a person who’s NOT in a committed relationship to date more than one person?

[@Bre_travels]

@@tisha812 Because it is natural for people to have sex and bond emotionally soon..It has nothing to do with intellect it's chemical.. When you date several people you are dividing your time and detaching yourself which is counterproductive.. Also condoms and birth control aren't really good for our bodies nor is having multiple sex partners. Many of us aren't dealing with our sex addiction nor codepandcy issues either by doing this..

[@Bre_travels]

@@tisha812 When I'm done with a man and realize I'm not into HIM I cut him loose and block communication. Not in anger but for boundaries..I get a check up and give some time in between for the next man..in the meantime I spend time alone or with doing other things that make me fulfilled..I'm not perfect..I have a therapist and always thriving to be better..

[@kristamarie3856]

Sabrina Jones dating does not mean they have to be having sex. You date to have different experiences

[@tisha812]

Sabrina Jones I agree with you for the most part, but what I’m proposing is to remove the sex out of dating. I know that having multiple sex partners isn’t healthy. I asked the question because I’m trying to look at it from a point of view of strictly dating without that kind of intimacy. As far as dividing time and detaching one’s self I believe that maybe that could work to our advantage because it allows you to look at the situation from an intelligent standpoint and less of an emotional one.

[@annabelle3307]

Hey I’m so proud of myself that I prayed for help and good advice through Christ Jesus. I’m so very blessed and thank you so much for your help today. God bless your family

[@judycanales852]

Men see women.. he sees You. If he doesn't approach you, you're not the one he's looking for...🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌 Thank you for enlightening me!! 💯🙏

[@imspecial2286]

Be Bless Mr. Gaskins and your family. I was told game is to be sold and not to be told. And women you never reveal your resources. There is an old saying, don't let your right hand know what your left hand is doing.

[@prettydiamonds2343]

It's really sad and depressing. I get enough drama at work as a nurse I really don't have the energy for the bs. With that said, I'm taking another long break for my mental health. The only males ill be talking to is my son and my patients! Too much drama. I'm out!

[@julialoveslife7911]

He only has to type GM Beautiful once, then copy and paste as many times as needed.

[@Pinkpanda811]

That's why I don't respond to those texts.

[@CaramelKissez]

@@Pinkpanda811 I need a conversation to reply back, effort lol! Same.

[@prettydiamonds2343]

Wow

[@quanettaanderson3079]

Tony should have been in my life last year. Thankful I'm learning now!!

[@mayasheartdesiire]

Caramel Kissez -COACH you don’t response so if he text again what do you do ignore again lol

[@Cielazul28]

I use to not watch your videos bc I thought they were too long, but now that I’ve watched them I feel like they’re not long enough! Every single word you say is facts 💯

[@CarlottaColeman]

This confirms what Daddy God has taught me about relationships. Men pursue the woman he wants. Thank you MOG. 🤔

[@SermonsSubtitled]

A man is either gonna marry you or use you as a placeholder/looking for your replacement.

[@laurajohnston8354]

I am finding guys that just want to get money rather than dating .

[@Newladyn09]

Yes. that's too much!! He have time for what he wants to have time for. and men do not say any of callers by name to make sure he doesn't say the incorrect name on that call 😒 everyone gets a call that starts out with 'Hey'.. SMH..

[@intentionalgreatness]

I see so many women commenting that its too hard. It's supposed to be a challenge but society makes us think it's a passive process that just happens magically..and it does not. We can thank disney for this mindset. When you get tired..take a break, re-evaluate, pour back into yourself and get back out there...don't take forever though...a month is good.. Tony is teaching the game..with his help we can be more equipped to win.

[@BashaerB-h2c]

Actually no. We women aren't built to exhaust ourselves that much till the point when a good man comes along, we have no energy and be looking like a mess. I don't blame us for feeling upset and defeated. Our hearts are softer and we get influenced faster than men do. We will literally have to transform into a man so we can stop being so soft and that's exactly what men don't want! Not following what God says makes everything difficult. When men are lusting left and right instead of fearing God this is how we ended up in our situation today. Yet, we women are still expected to deal with the burden and suck it up!

[@ashleybeverly7328]

Boyy, I was not ready for this video today. This hurt me to the core🤧. I came to the realization I've had two boyfriends that gave me this sort of time he speaks of, and most of the other men I've spoken to don't even care to give me the time. And for a long time, it made me feel like I wasn't apparently worth that sort of time. This video was hurtful in a good way-- having hopes that I'll meet a man in the future that will actually want to spend this sort of time with me. Thank you💯

[@vegigirl7440]

I always thought I was an intelligent woman, too smart for all of this. Then that rock comes speeding at your head, at a a rate you cant see, and BAM! you are like, "what the he## just happened?" and you spend months on an emotional rollercoaster trying to figure out what you did wrong?! NOTHING! yeah, its exhausting

[@portia547]

I was the 2-3hr face time girl w 5-6hr phone calls, but my intuition kept telling me he had other women. I just pushed him away instead of talking about it, but I'm doing self work for that. This video has given me peace that he was juggling women

[@chrisparker6249]

The process for dating/relationships that may ultimately lead to marriage is a long and tedious bout between two different yet the same souls in many ways that are not seen right away. Some get knocked out in the first round, whereas others, very few, will have success in the process due to discernment, communication, and consistency. Sure a man can juggle different women in order to choose his helpmeet or to have fun, but a real man takes his time with just one, the one God pointed out in the crowd. Choose wisely ladies and gentlemen.

[@brandonhumble3595]

I was that one man trying to get to know one woman and got ghosted so it goes both ways

[@saywhatondat]

Yes sir!

[@pamelajuniel2075]

And how long is a long time if God has pointed a woman out to you? Seriously, if you are exclusively dating a woman, how long does it take a godly man to pray and decide?

[@MissSarahGM]

I like to think there may be some men focusing on one woman and investing time to know her. But not sure where to find these special individuals.

[@chrisparker6249]

@@LilieAn1 We exist sista, and I'm certain one will find you when you're ready.

[@aishawf]

I just wanted to add I am loving your commentary (from a male perspective) on colorism because folk wanna act like it's all in a sista head lol

[@donnamitchell423]

This video has really opened my eyes . Men having 3 or more woman and choosing the process of elimination! Also the calling and texting process of multiple women . This is so true , I felt it in my gut WOW !!! Thank you this is an eye opener.

[@PureBeauty99]

I appreciate the advice and its what I need to hear, but I swear it makes me sad that I have been so stupid when it comes to dating. Honestly, I feel exhausted and tired of the games. Especially when I'm sacrificing so much for my nursing career and my businesses. I have to do better! I will do better! Period!

[@MinnaMurphy]

If you don't know your value he's not going to give you your worth - Wow - thank you for being you and speaking the truth. Sometimes it's hard to hear but I really appreciate it and I share your video's with my daughters. Hopefully they will learn these lessons early and avoid some of my mistakes.

[@theglowynista7272]

Tony you went in on this one. Raw facts.

[@starbright2683]

My experience has been men that I worked closely with (time, intensity, frequency) for 8 hours a day, flirting with me, playing with me, texting me at inappropriate times, picking me up off the floor, making inappropriate comments, etc. But they do not usually escalate that to dating. So, the frustration/tension becomes so great eventually I crack and another line is crossed. I don't know how women are supposed to survive out here and maintain any integrity and boundaries in this mixed sex workforce. Even if you stay away from them or avoid them, the player/womanizers simply see you as more fun to target.

[@julesm.545]

This is pure gold. My guy friends can confirm this! Don’t feel hopeless or give up. This information Tony is sharing is leverage and use it to your advantage in dating. Knowledge is power ... it’s how you use it and what you do with it.💥 Continuously work on 3B ... stay busy, fill your life with volunteer work, read, keep learning and never stop. Develop so much self love, respect and worth. Your glow/ energy will attract the right man. Have discernment. Be smart. Choose wisely. He will see you from a mile away because you will stand out from them all. He will pursue to the very end. I’m proof. 💕☺️ Just happy to be here to always to learn new things and keep updated with the latest. Much Respect to one of the best teachers - Thanks Tony ✊🏻

[@sanjeshnidevi982]

I feel your words were directed to my heart. Thank you:)

[@PriyaSharma-fc9mr]

Thanks jules needed it today

[@samanthaa1584]

Here’s Tony with the facts 👌🏽🔥

[@mft7530]

I sincerely appreciate you compassionately breaking down for people why a beautiful woman May have zero self esteem. Men come at young beautiful girls as young as 8, 9, 10 or even 4 years old. That’s facts. As a young black girl with no father to protect her (as the black fathers bounce or are emotionally absent), she is left to fend for herself. If a girl has been raped by puberty, by strangers and/or relatives, she’s done for. Ruined. She can no longer value or see herself. She grows up insecure and frightened looking for a safe place outside herself. Which of course doesn’t exist. Other women & girls hate a beautiful girl on sight because they feel she has power over them. Men want to possess and control her. If she doesn’t seek and find help in a safe way and learn to love herself, it’s a life of misery. But that’s what has to be done. It’s super hard. To recover from the destruction of ones innocence is a very long hard journey. No joke. It’s like you have to re-raise yourself all over again since childhood was trash. Getting back to and living from who you REALLY are and not through the lens trauma you were subjected to is a gift. Thanks again for your compassionate explanation. Peace 🙏🏽

[@BrooklynBaby100]

💯 on the confidence factor. Women are mistreated all the time and breaks their spirit.. sometimes they no longer trust who they are and get taken advantage of over and over again.

[@Moonpiebye]

The FaceTime list.😂.Tony giving the facts 2020LADIES talking or text you will know the difference..trust your energy..📌

[@jaquaidakinney9034]

I don’t really like talking on the phone

[@MsTea-nx1br]

When the text sounds the same all the time I realized that there was not much effort being put in.....it was more like ...( Let me just text you hows your morning.....what did you eat....ECT)....just to show I'm checking on you ....but deep down they can care less... SMH....I LEARNED TO THINK WITH MY HEAD AND NOT MY FEELINGS THE OLDER I GOT💆🏾‍♀️

[@ticild4181]

"...and he is the color of 12:01 am!" 🤣😂Tony you've got me too tickled today! Blessed to be a new subscriber.

[@Jas-qm4cg]

You are so right. As being a woman and maturing we are very complex. I can totally understand how men have a hard time understanding us as well lol

[@GOMOMEMPOWERS]

Yoooo i almost dropped my phoooonnee lol Tony said, “ Don’t get mad @ me cuz ya Daddy ain’t tell you how he chose ya Momma.” Whew Chile lemme sip some waada 🤣🤣🤣😭😭🖤✊🏾 Nothing but facctttss 💯

[@britt6880]

I was one of four! I was not put on a schedule, he called every single day, random times, made me feel so special... but slowly found out about woman 2, then woman 3, then woman 4 smh

[@s.r.125]

Not saying I am done with dating, but tbh I am. Dating men these days is such a headache. I don't wanna be in a rotating game. Men don't value a good and God-fearing woman. Men these days are soo shallow. Ugh Waiting on God for that! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@shellyedwards2875]

Life is already complex adding this on both levels men and women best to keep your Rhythm 🌻

[@noirfit9721]

My daddy told me back in his day he had the 4 f’s. Find em, fool em, f$ck em and forget em. Pretty much the same thing now

[@Silly.me2]

I never respond to good morning beautiful from new men.

[@naturalwoman605]

Lol I started this vid when it came out and couldn't take the realness 😆🙈 I just came back to finish it and am floored. Pastor Tony, preeeach

[@22karcher]

Thanks for sharing this Tony, I appreciate the honesty!!!

[@brandiejones_]

Thanks for bringing clarity on this Tony! This is so true I’ve been through it.. Going into my “next” understanding the game to win. Be blessed! 🙏🏻

[@ashleybeverly7328]

Am I the only one who cried the entire video?😪

[@esh1319]

This man is too funny with his delivery 🤣 “I don’t know what that mean but it sounds good right there” get me every time 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@beingbernice4689]

Tony thank you for your transparency!! For some of us this may of been hard to hear. Stay positive ladies be the best version of you and I believe God will bless us with the desires of our hearts 💕

[@wowso4]

This video was a eye opener! I think man are very smart! by dating this way, I think us ladies should also date multiple man also I learned that dating is a numbers games. The more people you date the more option you have of meeting someone you like. I just wish I enjoyed the process of dating I hate it so much! 😩😩

[@coachingwithp]

Thank you Tony. May God continue to Bless you Sheri and the boys. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@rikaegill]

Men are something serious...Wow! I needed that confirmation, thanks!

[@drinagaytan9663]

She didn’t shave her legs tho....😂😂😂

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

A popular Instagramer made a post with her holding a sign saying “text him first.” I replied in the comments “no thank you.” Sooo many guys called me lane and weak and told me that I’d be the single old lady with seven cats. I debated a few, but then I realized that they were living in the worldly mind frame. Plus, they seemed a bit younger (18-25). It’s frustrating and sad that this is the mindset of so many men these days. Of course not all, but mannnny. Makes me sad.

[@aisha_lovely]

Video ended abruptly lol Great info as usual and very entertaining! 😆 Thank you!!

[@suekenablack8230]

I'm not like that . I wi never be on my brother side if he's wrong. I will be true to the female because I'm a female. I know its few of me but I like all worn to be tread good. It don't matter if he is my brother. He is a man first. Even if I don't like the girl personally I would tell my brother to leave her because he would be mad if a man treated me that way. Because I'm family don't mean ill be on my brother side. That is dumb.

[@priscillapie]

Same ! Wrong is wrong related or not ...

[@danaglover6801]

I agree wholeheartedly with you both💯. I don’t lie for my brother or son. If they wrong they wrong. Be a man and tell the female how you feel. I’m not getting in the middle.

[@celiaferreira2028]

It is why doing the work is real. Meditate (emotional-clean traumas/ancestral traumas& toxins- learning of you), wellness is for self love to raise your vibrations to attract the same person doing the work. Not doing the vibrational work creates all this confusion, fear, etc. These guys fumbling all these women have unresolved traumas (because all is for a dopamine quench...think of all addictions like eating bad food, shopaholics, gamblers, domestic abuse, drugs of all type abuse, etc) Meditation/spirituality is REAL! Thanks for this view point.❤

[@zoria1942]

Man you could be a comedian you funny 😂😂😂

[@ayjaybee4893]

Very grateful for your honesty! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Sunshine-wn4eg]

Tony u giving us the whole game. I appreciate it thank you.

[@haydeejohnson8290]

Many people do this. You take them proven information and say "This is just for you, just pay attention", they go to confront the person you"re warning them about for validity. Then that person now becomes curious, feels betrayed and becomes more guarded.

[@AS-br8in]

Thank you Tony. Be blessed. You are appreciated! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@kelliemurphy3414]

Been patiently waiting all day 😊

[@naturegirl8089]

I always felt like this, colorism at its finest. Great message & explanation.

[@kalandriawalters934]

Some of the most beautiful women have the lowest self esteem inward likely because of Mommy or Daddy issues or both, not being validated as a child, being emotionally neglected or abandoned in childhood, having no guidance from Mom or Dad, having strict or controlling parents, being bullied or sexually violated young or in adolescence without ever having been protected, growing up with struggles in social life through school, or being ostracized or abandoned by siblings. So... she still has all her good sustenance, but it is tainted by the inner wounded parts of her so she cannot fully see her worth (distorted view of self) and she doesn't 100% behave according to her worth (self sabotage and repeatedly playing out on herself the past hurt inflicted on her). Instead, she settles in relationships for the poor treatment she grew up familiar with because her brain is conditioned to see this poor version of familiar as "SAFE". Her inner wounds, if left unprocessed and unhealed (hasn't received holistic trauma-based therapy), will perpetuate her low self worth and ruin her mental & physical health and block her best discernment in relationships. She sabotages good opportunities and healthy relationships out of fear of the unfamiliar and not feeling worthy or deserving of good things. She stuggles to believe any of the validation she may get, until she realizes she deserved better from those who originally hurt her in her youth. She may put on a cover up by appearing outwardly well put together and successful in her education and or career (in denial, distracted & not self aware). By the time she realizes that her issues with men and other relationships and areas of her life stem from all her wounds, she has to take herself off the market to read self help books, realize and grieve all her wounds, mistakes and distortions that held her in bondage, heal & repair, then pick herself up with what's left of her dignity. But with a broken wing, she will still fly by God's grace. Because her original conditioning from childhood was not her fault, God will elevate her to her rightful place in the world once she allows God to work on her. Ladies if you find yourself in this terrible cycle of pain, pray specifically for God to open your eyes so you can see your truest and purest self, to lead and guide you in your relationships and be prepared for the journey because it will not be easy but will be worth it. God bless❤

[@brittanybrown9084]

Because of my lack of knowledge on dating men, red flags and etc. I was in love with a man who manipulated, lied to me and strung me along. Fast forward 1year later We were living together , I paid for an apartment in his name and all hell broke loose. He put me out at 8 months pregnant and had another woman living with him the following day. Had I known better it would’ve saved me a lot of traumatic experiences with him. I’m 9 months pregnant an feel so hurt alone and stupid for my decisions. I feel like I had done everything right but it all blew up in my face. I’m 25 years old and I don’t know where to start from here. Any encouraging words would be greatly appreciated.

[@gigibrown_wright]

You are still so young and have a wonderful life ahead of you. Watch Tony’s video from yesterday about rejection. Focus on taking care of you and your baby. Any man that can kick a woman out who is carrying his child is sorry and clearly is dealing with his own demons. Seek God and let him guide you so that you can be the best mother to your child. You will get through this 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@wavyblkqueen]

@LBC Ulrica I want a son so bad because I wish he WOULD be out here treating women like this. It's the way he was raised and or not raised. I'm so sorry this happened to you. The blessed tribe is here for you 💜💜💜

[@kaoshi_kutie]

@ Brittany Brown What a cruel and senseless excuse of a man!! Pray you get support for you and your baby. That must be your main priority ♥️♥️

[@MissSarahGM]

My heart goes out to you. I hope you are in a safe place and have a good support system. This man has shown you his true colors and you need to keep that in mind, when he will come back in the future. He's unhealthy and lacking human decency. Focus on yourself and your baby and creating a peaceful environment for you both.

[@Hillsong2013fan1]

Hi Brittany, my sincerest condolences to you and the baby. I pray that the Lord will show you his mercies and love even in this difficult time. Although you made a mistake, just know your baby is not a mistake. The Lord can use even your situation to bless you in numerous ways. Please find the right church community and surround yourself with people who will support you. You are not alone in this time, pray, make new changes in your life and do not go back to your abusive situation. Hugs to you 💕

[@brendakite6611]

"It might not be the same for women", is an understatement!😔

[@KA6647]

Another powerful message Bro . Tony! Luved the props, keep breaking it down.

[@prettydiamonds2343]

Home Economics class baking a different type of cookie 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kimberlycarter5317]

Tony, you're so on target w/this video,,it's hard for people to face the truth sometimes because it hurts! I'm so glad God has changed me to like my complexion. I used to feel inferior to people especially woman lighter than me because society misinformed me to see Caucasian as better than my Race.🌷But, I thank God for His Word that reinformed and renewed my mind to the Truth! God don't make bad color it's the fear of man that's afraid of it😊 Stay bless my brother in Christ!

[@CaramelKissez]

👋🏼Happy Wednesday luvs🤗🤎

[@julielapointe8184]

Thanks for keeping it real. Much appreciated.

[@shante2018]

Can you talk about men who are married and cheat? Are they looking for replacement or? And what should women do in that situation?

[@elizabethjones4325]

What do you think you deserve?

[@camilledbrown]

He was cheating before the marriage most likely. She’s gotta know her worth and go. CleanER break if no kids

[@missmarymack3457]

Tony giving them gems 💎!!!! Ha, sorry guys! We tired of y’all playing us

[@03klarie]

Tony, thank you for this video. What are we supposed to do with this information that men date multiple women at a time? Are we supposed to not deal with them? If all men do it and it can't be avoided, are we supposed to just wait to be "chosen" in silence?

[@lemonspring6425]

Good question! I wish he shares his thoughts on this

[@mbalintobela4060]

I'm that 100 always getting 30...need to watch this about 2 more times until it sinks in...

[@staceys1028]

“It’s homeless men that’s juggling homeless women” 😂😂😂😂

[@warriorstalk1]

I truly love your honesty.

[@gene3636]

At my age you would think I know this...it took a ghost after three years from a player to find you and thank god I am woke...

[@carolinekimani3696]

Very informative message

[@Th3lite]

One point that may be overlooked is, just because you like a man, does not mean that you lock down on him. That man has to choose you back. In order for you not to be out here looking desperate, you need to date around and see who's choosing you and putting in the effort for your heart ❤️ not you parties and other benefits. Because if you allow it, he will do it. Then he leave to be with the woman he truly loves when he's done. Men don't have a time clock, we do. Pay attention and value your own time.

[@hmblf687]

Another great message. I'm waiting for the day when God calls Tony to go over an hour, lol.

[@CoolVNess]

Straight up facts!! Nothing but the truth!

[@Gfamily4]

One snicker bar away. Boy Tony is funny 😂😂

[@TellyJTV]

The mocking sarcasm at 16:20 killed me 😂 Wait… not cut one foot off just to sleep with a woman. LOL What always gets me is that Tony always have the most straightest faces yet we be cracking up. “One snicker bar away” 😭😭

[@thechoniclesofkratos]

I now start talking to a new guy a week now. We talk daily and hang out in public twice so far . It's so new to me . I on KZbin trying to learn quickly what the hell to do, and do it right.

[@toptiernessa]

You are hilarious lol 😂 I’m guilty of taking it to the men and asking them stuff that’s only ment for me lol 😂

[@LisaGemini]

I hate to be called generic things like beautiful or honey!

[@daniellem578]

Tony you are so funny 😂. Pretentious🤣🤣. But you are right in point! Very good video!

[@gemisepettit6526]

I like the props you used to make your point.

[@rparris27]

Idk man its all overwhelming 😓

[@nannetteriveraa]

“It’s stressful” 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Mayo201991]

Oh my God!!! I'm hearing this now? I'm 29!! Female! There was this dude I liked back in college when I was 18. And he asked for my number etc....and I noticed he used to text me every Thursday and/or Tuesday night at around 7pm/7:30pm. That happened for a few months....If i texted another day he would get back to me a day or two later. Back then I lived with strict religious parents so They didn't really let me go out at night. He asked me to watch a movie and they didn't let me go. By the time he asked mo on a date he was talking to more more via text. I wanted to hold on to the chat still because I developed feelings. Come to realise he was dating someone in college and he cheated on her.I also heard he was a player but that was 10 years ago and I had already been through an 8 year relationship after. So yeah now that you point that out I will watch out for those time specific signs when talking to a guy.

[@ivla871]

Another awesome video by the great Tony

[@damianapizarro7573]

Thanks for your speech they very comfortable

[@anajulien6067]

Tony, thank you. Dating games....omg Yes I need some ice for my head!

[@swayze2403]

Needy, creepy, call it what you want but I NEED a man in my face ALL DAY EVERYDAY or his energy/effort (gifts, calls, his friends saying hi or giving me messages via HIM) ALL DAY EVERYDAY because the minute he’s physically or energetically OUT OF SIGHT, he’s OUT OF MY MIND! PERIOD!

[@dswannbeautyartist]

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