Too Dumb To Level Up (Tough Love)

[@crystalseed.422.4]

Shera changed my entire vibration and goals and life entirely

[@deeluxeee]

I agree

[@jessepera2457]

Absolutely me too.

[@deeluxeee]

@@jessepera2457 Yay us!! Like seriously learned that your thoughts alone can just change your life path dramatically

[@jessepera2457]

@@deeluxeee I always wanted to level up but didn't know what it was called or even how to do it.

[@brookepeoples6197]

SAME!

[@kendraquinn5034]

I am BEYOND grateful for this Women’s existence !!!

[@jennifervillegas4442]

💯

[@empressqi1722]

Me too. I might not get a rich man due to the damage I experienced in childhood but at least I know I will never be used and abused. She opened my eyes.

[@Iamwealthyandspoiled]

Same here soo bad 🤍

[@melanievintimilla7543]

SAME❤

[@sol_di_14]

We should be grateful of the time this woman takes to remind us and repeat to us all of this information

[@firetiger2107]

Extremely grateful

[@gloriamaiga2786]

Sol Diestra I feel you deeply. Unfortunately some people only appreciate the best things when they are gone!

[@lovelyone1675]

Same here!! It’s like she gives you the permission to be great!! I’ve spent my whole life trying not to seem like l was too high on myself as not to make women feel uncomfortable around me or have men be intimidated. Such a waste of my time!!!

[@sol_di_14]

@@lovelyone1675 same! But they're mad if you don't do anything too (they call you lazy). It's like they want you to try and fail but not be lazy, not try and win. I feel this way haha

[@anitrajohnson7789]

One thing is for certain...no one stays dumb forever. Life has a way of teaching you the lessons you need. Leveling up is a process that takes time.

[@Eshabee]

Facts💯

[@bambam6231973]

So true.

[@linasandbergen4246]

You re so right!

[@hairbeauty8083]

I've seen people be dumb their entire lives

[@Eshabee]

@@hairbeauty8083 that’s really sad!!

[@jessepera2457]

It is a privilege to be a woman. Even in many cultures the woman leaves her original family and becomes a member of her husband's family. Leveling up is easier than you think.

[@sassysucculent6291]

Man I wish I would have had someone to tell me these things when I was 18-20. Such a simple concept. We make it hard. I appreciate her honesty on all subjects, so much. In a world full of lies and BS, her brutal truth is so damn refreshing

[@keepcreationprocess]

This is not a simple concept. This is genius.

[@sassysucculent6291]

@@keepcreationprocess hunny we are genius ! We have just been programmed to be dumb

[@Fireyamfooled]

I second this

[@Cinder1987]

Most of us had no idea about all of this at 18-20. That’s ok and a part of the learning process and finally leveling up. As long as we figure it all out and not allow it again in the present or future.

[@saqueradry3629]

@Tasha Easley same happened to me. Smdh. Except I didn’t have a mother at all

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

She definitely puts me up on a more strategic way of going about things.

[@channelmerchdontleavecasho4420]

OH, No; "You Got My Girl Lisa Phillips; NOooooooooooooo!!!!!! DaYuuuuuuMMMMM !!!!!!!!! OOOOOOOhhhhhh, Nooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

@@channelmerchdontleavecasho4420 hahaha. I dont focus on the money part (I've dated too many guys with money to think that's the end all), but the games men have been playing and being more feminine and strategic about it- oh yes.

[@melliGumsl]

A relationship should be 50/50: I exist, he worships

[@leyland2725]

It gets boring fast

[@leyland2725]

@@incorectulpolitic are you serious right now with that long essay you're copy pasting all over youtube? Smh

[@teeyateeyah233]

@@leyland2725 lmfao 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@faithlover123]

😍

[@user-qk2th5gr3d]

yup!

[@desireemckenneyrobinson6539]

I agree! Beauty is always acknowledged. Most museums are free, so any old bum can admire the priceless peices of Art. Forbid he try to take it off the wall. That's the same with you and your assets.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Good analogy!!!

[@charlita25]

“If they’re not jealous, something is wrong with you” 🤦🏾‍♀️😫

[@mothmama4116]

Shera, I love how you can take this negative conditioning that women receive for so long and help them turn it into something realistic and powerful. We can create so much success with just a shift in our perspective.

[@jessepera2457]

Shera is an incarnation of Venus.

[@PittontheMove]

That exactly describes me, “book smart but no common sense”. I’m smart but stupid when it comes to real life.

[@rahman.1339]

As were so many....

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Look at the last few years. No common sense at all. I was astonished at people 🤣

[@DestinationDionna]

Dr Myles Munroe also believed in men being sole providers and their women being pampered and spoiled....he is not a bad man to listen to

[@sistarwande6213]

Good shout girl ❤️

[@rayrayndiema]

I like him a lot!!!

[@LoveWyns]

I listen to him too!

[@Gaudyaesthetic]

There was a motherly love that exuded from her when she told that 24 year old girl to be free and have fun 💗💗💗

[@fung8978]

You truly have saved my life I want to thank you from my heart I was lost and confused and when I saw your videos it all made sense I was thinking more about him than me and that’s when he decided to mess with me I no longer care what he does this is true freedom . Thank you again

[@scurryfunge7608]

I like how Shera's lipstick complements the pink in her shirt. This is such a cohesive and sophisticated look! 🤍🌷

[@maryyybiegle8859]

I never wanted for someone to be famous as much as Shera. Her word should be teached in school

[@tany2191]

Taught* ❤

[@dchrysostom]

Thank you... My self worth and self esteem is back because of you....

[@PortugueseGirl27]

Three hours of sacred female mantra. I love it ❤️ 100% Thank you from Portugal 🇵🇹

[@Eshabee]

I been single and celibrate for 8 yrs now and I won’t break my celibacy until I start to level up and meet someone I would consider to married. But my level up game is very mental I have it down pack in my head I just have to go shopping for new clothes so I could look good for dates. Until then I will continue to learn about this leveling up game.

[@Thekingsdota]

Date meanwhile..8 years is a long time to not be interacting with men .the game changes when you take yourself out of it .

[@Eshabee]

@@Thekingsdota ok. thanks for the advice

[@TereseLeigh]

@@Thekingsdota Great advice. Gotta keep those dating/relationship skills active and sharp!

[@Thekingsdota]

@@TereseLeigh i learned the hard way .took a 2 year break and when I got back on the scene damn if I didn't adapt quick I would have been fooder !Now I date at least 3 lol!

[@TereseLeigh]

@@Thekingsdota 🙌🏾

[@angelstarxo]

I was too dumb last week, Shera!! Can't believe lol enough is enough

[@saqueradry3629]

Don’t feel bad. I’ve been dumb for the last 5 years knowing better

[@nicolespin4930]

Same here....won’t do it again but I’m dusting myself off

[@tyranmayes]

I recently started jogging in the richer neighborhoods & have had lots of head turning reactions. Can’t wait until the weather is warm to start making calculated solo dates attract myself a richer gentleman 🙃

[@Therealvashneyy]

I know this is old but what where you wearing because I run in the rich hoods too and I’m tryna get same results

[@Jeniffer61867]

Her facial expressions are so amazing and have changed.

[@DestinationDionna]

You gave some much needed tough love. I wrote down a plan ...how im going to dress, how im going to speak, where im going to go, and what i want my man to provide .....

[@rayrayndiema]

How’s it going? I hope really well

[@lifeisall488]

Being married myself i can tell you its all a game either you play or be played its never ending 😂 men are just very different then women we cant approach the same qay we will ourselves

[@ikandee1]

Sheraseven1 is right level up all the way . Mentally , physically and spiritually . For months i have watched sheraseve1 and what she says is so true .

[@breheart7510]

Hi Shera, I just wanted to reach out and thank you for the tough love. I used to wonder why I was so unhappy if I knew I was beautiful and deserved greatness in life. I was not leveled up and your videos really made me look in the mirror and change everything I knew about life. I’m finally happy and stick up for myself like never before! Sprinkle, sprinkle 😉

[@marymary-vg2ts]

It's never too late. Every right decision comes through the divine.

[@feliznavidad6958]

My challenges are that people approach me with so much prejudice and assumptions, I cannot dumb myself down (and hate stupid men which sucks because I'm starting to realize that most of them are just above the line for mentally disabled), and guys always assume I'm taken or act insecure and tell me I'm out of their league when I've barely opened my mouth (and this was before I wore makeup).

[@hamidahbakali1017]

I checked all these faminine channels and I can tell most of them copy from shera and most don't give game like shera

[@bonvivant3704]

The one and only 💯

[@imbrakingthrough2152]

%100 !!! 💯

[@cookie4uc]

You can learn the easy way or the hard way!. I am so grateful for Shera . Change your mind....change your life.

[@JamrockRose]

You look preppy and studious in that top and back ground. Love it!

[@Maimmarei]

Shera you’re smart and way developed for our generation, i hope society comes back to their mind ❤

[@jewelshine2187]

The what if questions is mental barriers already in place...ask what if I level up and do this..most of it is mental, we all struggle but speak positive first...think positive first..tell yourself what you would tell a young child you want to great..its a daily chore, which then turns to habit..read positive affirmations get a vision board, write goals down, start small and build your mind to match how you want to be perceived...

[@jewelshine2187]

her best video yet,,listening AGAIN yall

[@LadyAngela678]

Men also marry just for eye candy.

[@monicaharrison7795]

“make up an ex stick him in the picture and kill him, no one had to know if he was real or not” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the best!!!!!

[@praisehonorfaith7293]

Facts!!!!!!

[@shanabishop6798]

Thank you so much I just enjoy listening to you talk in the background I wish I could’ve found this channel years ago

[@Cinder1987]

Whole lot of Dusty’s are good in the bed. But, that’s all they have. No good for long term.

[@Cinder1987]

@Tasha Easley 👀very true.

[@realpristine]

Lmaooo facts!!

[@Thekingsdota]

Better to get a vibrator and leave dusties out of the equation permanently

[@chillchill1711]

what a lovely message to all women

[@adaofcharles1217]

God bless the day I came across your video Shera, I have so much work to do.

[@jessicaeve2169]

Read "Why Men Love Bitches" it will answer ALL the questions about men and engagement.

[@Diamondbstyles]

This video is everything. Leveling up is a must 😃

[@praisehonorfaith7293]

Shera is the mother I wish I had..... my KZbin mother

[@BeeBeeisDaTruCupcakeFace]

I wish she was my mother. I'd be a Rockefeller wife by now....

[@aruguladestroyer]

This is just overflowing with gems

[@stellakamau6994]

I really enjoyed this live Shera. You dropped some major knowledge and the group chat was lit 😁😛

[@honeydove_4844]

It’s been 4 years thus far transitioning my mind to obtain a certain lifestyle..still not there but still going

[@amilllion1]

Was wondering why all the guys my age are dusty!!! Too young 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@jessepera2457]

Her Tough love videos are my faaaavvv♥️♥️👌🏾

[@ashyboo24ify]

I was brought to this video at the right time 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 and I am beyond grateful 😇 😇 thank you for helping me fix my crown 👑

[@easoteric]

she has risen

[@Marmae02]

This is some top tier advice. Thank you shera! My KZbin mom🥰 Im only 18 but Im learning so much!

[@naomiarcega8426]

This is my first time watching one of your videos and it has already changed my perspective on how I view things and setting up what I want to do in life. And I am starting to learn about what you’ve been saying. Thank you!

[@valeriethebeautifulsoultv4179]

“I’m calling to see if your dental work is okay”😂🤣

[@CandyPinkcake]

I don’t think love exists anyways. No guy ever showed me they loved me

[@shebacynn1320]

I'm crying😂 Shera you have a lie for everything and a cover up too!

[@universallove3038]

You're so cute been a fan for about a year now I use different emails but anywho I'm grateful 🙏 to have found such a wonderful mentor .. 💗

[@charlita25]

“Backward thinking 💭 “ has tricked me out want I really want. Hopefully 🤞🏾 it’s not too late to try again 🙏🏾

[@TT-jg8ju]

Sprinkle sprinkle🙃

[@tequilabumbum4373]

Im so grateful that Shera takes time to answer ALL of our questions she gets, and in dept, no metter how dumb 😂❤️

[@charityredd9302]

I respect you

[@daniellegates1354]

Thanks for the words of wisdom

[@therealist9853]

I love you, is an understatement.. These words are facts👌Thank you Shera💜

[@soldier_of_love]

How I get schooled in the first 5 mins more than I have in my whole life. Thanks for the confirmation. I was just saying I need courage to follow my goddess given common sense. Can we get a video at starting back at square one?😥😆🙌🏽🙏🏾🌹

[@femininelounge9240]

Just start girl. Stop waiting . You are the God over your life.

[@soldier_of_love]

@@femininelounge9240 agreed. Thanks🌹

[@dbsk06]

Common sense > book smart. 2:43 marriage was traditionally to join two families for wealth. Poor people only married for what they *thought* was love 3:58 romance movies created to appeal to people with no wealth/ poverty

[@MaraMarieBeauty]

I’ve already watched this one 3 times I love the clipboard!

[@jeniod-6534]

for real tho... idk why I can listen to Shera for hours but when I watch others who talk about manifestations and level up, I'd just lose interest for the first few seconds 😝

[@cUser691]

“Book Smarts” and “Common Sense” aren’t mutually exclusive, Shera. That means one can have both [or neither]lol

[@100XPercentX]

Just listening and learning from you I felt like I was leveling up. You put what I already know into perfect words lol. I'm glad this came to me which is no coincidence. Thank you. Although I have no intentions to marry or any of that other stuff

[@whitneygraham7138]

2hrs 33mins in shera so damn funny without even trying 😂😂😂

[@mikapettigrew5675]

Thank you 🙏🏾 shera

[@dbsk06]

31:25 think outside of the box to create what you want in this world. You have been PROGRAMMED Emotions are temporary, decisions are permanent

[@anabelelizalde0926]

U are amazing im soo happy i came along ur channel 💕💕💕👌👌👌

[@givenchymuse5444]

Where to freestyle during covid most fancy restaurant bars are closed😭 Covid making me stuggle $ wise. Any suggestions😩💋

[@keepcreationprocess]

No

[@claudiaenlightened3672]

Restaraunts with outside seating, boats, golf, go shopping, take a mini weekend trip w him

[@WelcometoAshLand]

High end grocery store, department store jewelery fragrance and accessories section, high end sporting goods (Patagonia, North Face), car wash, etc. Think outside the box but high end.

[@praisehonorfaith7293]

Wherever the rich are

[@rachelga75]

Shira you are smart thank you ! I broke up from a dusty and still havent find the second husband i hoop i mit him

[@blessedchildofgod9112]

I love shera she is very helpful ❤️❤️❤️

[@maisontalayi]

my siri’s a man 😂😂😂

[@fluermor..]

This is what my grandma called me because she had Alzheimer’s 😅💀😂😂😂😂😂

[@charlita25]

The solution is not always “don’t eat” some women have fibroids or thyroid issues that effect the glands and metabolism

[@dayinibatrisyia5424]

Listening Shera in commuting to work

[@samantha8343]

“Wait til his phone pop up with the u spent this much money then delete it” LMFAOO that’s exactly what I used to do with my SD😂🤣

[@MsTwilightSpeaks]

This title is sending Me 😂😂😂😂

[@lc-il6wr]

I don't lust..I LUV!

[@niam185]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 the title made my day

[@Spicegal44]

This describes one of my friend girls🥺😬 I just let her be🤷🏾‍♀️

[@vivi268614]

Great Advice like always!

[@zellaqueen]

Shera for president!! Encarcerate the dusties & pickmeshas🤣

[@dchrysostom]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙂🙂🙂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you are too funny...I need a friend like you ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I’m laughing so hard... “eat less” who got money “ old men”” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@AshaMaat]

This video is so relaxing

[@missarmiller78]

I love u more and more as I find more of your videos that speak to me. LoL

[@LL-sf3cv]

i had an annoying date and i felt like i wasted my time (date #2) because he didn't take me shopping but this inspired me to try the grandma thing and look for another one. i am taking notes lol

[@TheSuzieChicTV]

This woman is a national treasure.

[@Tampatsmi]

Cash in hand = Reaction 👍🏽💓

[@dank12able]

The BEST video! 💛🌻🔑🧚🏾

[@Princessm2025]

44:45 LMAO 😭😂😂😂

[@aliinwonderland656]

I choked 😆😆

[@carolynwilliams4926]

He has no plans to marry her.

[@melawieeinapfel8594]

to have a degree and not use it is absolutely normal in India (where I have relatives since my dad is from there). They have it to raise their dating market value 😄

[@kalimistakidou9103]

Same in china

[@JP-dc6fu]

Sprinkle them jewels 💎

[@starridiamond]

Such a good video 👍❣

[@DestinationDionna]

Church of Ascension has a nice ring to it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!