Counselors can just look at their own notes, to get out of depression.
@playingweirdo47202 жыл бұрын
😂
@densedecisions45682 жыл бұрын
the sacred texts
@Drift4J2 жыл бұрын
So, my text says “Don’t be depressed!” That’s enough to cure my depression.
@Mo-nj2hp2 жыл бұрын
But also, helping people can make you really happy
@jeremylarouche9059 Жыл бұрын
They are also happy cus they don't have the same problems as their clients
@YankMyChain-12 жыл бұрын
Well as a landscaper i think its because practically everyday you get to take something and make it better and you get to see your work transform the land and beautify it and make people happy they met you and called you every single time. So it makes for a happy and confident you.
@zwimpzwimper4772 жыл бұрын
As a landscaper myself i couldn’t agree more!
@man44372 жыл бұрын
I'm kind of surprised at how happy they are, especially since electricians are apparently in the "least happy" category. Seems like kind of just your average menial blue collar job. I think considering it was like 40000 people there were just 20 really happy people. Or they're landscapers for like rich people so they make bank
@FriendlyHomie2 жыл бұрын
My dad was a landscaper and when I was a kid we'd drive past places and he'd proudly point out things that he planted or built.
@pickledpickel12802 жыл бұрын
@@FriendlyHomie exactly, it's always cool to see how years later you can still see the work u put in and see how you've improved
@Mikeg282 жыл бұрын
So do electricians but apparently we are one of the most unhappiest jobs.
@Dog_in_tree2 жыл бұрын
As a dog walker I can confirm it's pretty sweet. Dogs always put a smile on my face.
@slowlance2 жыл бұрын
Is that actually a job?! Bro thats literally free money! How much you get paid in a week?
@Dog_in_tree2 жыл бұрын
@@slowlance I'm self employed and my schedule varies quite a bit, but this year I've been making anywhere from $600 to $1,000/week. I think my average is around $3,400/mo before expenses. I charge $20 per 30 minute walk and I also do overnight sitting. Unfortunately much of my day is spent driving from one client to the next so there's only so many walks I can fit in a day, and practically everyone wants their dogs walked in the middle of the day.
@Vanilae2 жыл бұрын
@@Dog_in_tree ohh where are you from?
@itachizoro76272 жыл бұрын
@@Vanilae not india in India you will get paid 50 rs for 20 hours
@fahimhabib199 Жыл бұрын
@@itachizoro7627 😂
@rose15272 жыл бұрын
I think helping people makes you the most happy, so counselors actually makes sense. Getting to know someone and helping them grow and recover sounds incredibly fulfilling.
@samarveersingh33182 жыл бұрын
Counselor is the best job. Listening to other peoples struggles in life makes me feel better about mine.
@Snipsnop260 Жыл бұрын
Haha this is horrible
@Rashmitha348 Жыл бұрын
@@Snipsnop260 yeah
@syafiqulinnuha Жыл бұрын
"God danm, suck to be you huh"
@blade7506 Жыл бұрын
@@Snipsnop260not really, the best way to learn humility and gain gratitude is by serving others and putting the focus on them. if you think your life is bad, you can go 20 minutes down the street and see truly bad life in most places in the US at least
@Devonlui Жыл бұрын
Brutally honest
@soumaya8385 Жыл бұрын
What ? Architects 🤣
@Nethrapapa7 ай бұрын
Yes I dis agree
@Jut_Natts2 жыл бұрын
Landscaping is actually stressing but one of the best paid.
@joshuagraham18002 жыл бұрын
But I feel like it's very stress relieving when you finish it you know? You get a fat paycheck you get the feeling of satisfaction after a big job.
@AimbotThundah2 жыл бұрын
@Massimo Hack yeah you do the same thing working at mcdonalds
@joshuagraham18002 жыл бұрын
@Massimo Hack Eh, they still have to pay you.
@andy175a52 жыл бұрын
@Massimo Hack Oh, so it means dealing with the exact same stress as everyone at every job ever has
@ericknabenshue56892 жыл бұрын
15 an hour. It is probably the worse paid out of all of these
@scottwhitley33922 жыл бұрын
I used to work as a consultant for 10 years after I left uni. I got bored after 5/6 years and my brother who is a kitchen fitter said he’ll train me up in my spare time (went with him to every homer he did) Once I was fully trained I quit my consultancy job and fitted bathrooms full time. Seeing a finished product that is the result of your hard work is very satisfying and feels much better than doing an office job that in all honesty doesn’t provide anything to society.
@drvren030 Жыл бұрын
that last line hits home. sitting here with my data science degree actually wondering what practical value my degree has except helping out corporate companies
@R53HoleАй бұрын
Consultant? What does that even mean? That can't be a thing on its own, consultant on what? Isn't that like saying I was an Advisor or an Information, an Encyclopedia?
@AUVRIX-fg8kf9 ай бұрын
Being a wedding photographer is happy until you realise your single💀
@averagecornenjoyer63482 жыл бұрын
the moment he put architect in there I knew this was total 🧢
@eyadselesily81642 жыл бұрын
Architecture is nice. I like designing houses online through programs
@Naranciaa Жыл бұрын
@@eyadselesily8164 dealing with entire teams to manage, trying to stay in schedule with all the site lags, changes that are needed in the projects, watching over engineers and builders, negotiating with clients and manufacturers is usually a lot less fun. Which is why I’m not sure I want to continue in my architecture degree anymore 🥲 If there were mistakes in what I wrote, please inform me, English is not my first language :)
@moe5839 ай бұрын
How's employment going
@Iamexalted7 ай бұрын
The broke field
@Chillycloth6 ай бұрын
@ermiofficial broke? I thought they make good money!
@JohnKappa2 жыл бұрын
I was a tutor and i can't say it was one of the happiest experience in my life😅😅
@user-gc7pv7ok9x2 жыл бұрын
can i ask why? it looks like pretty good job to me, last year i had to study my second year of high school at home by myself so i had some tutors to help me with subjects that were new to me, and after that i kinda felt like it's a really good job and it pays well.
@JohnKappa2 жыл бұрын
@@user-gc7pv7ok9x It's difficult when the kids don't care about the subject you try to teach them or when the parents change the dates not really caring abour your scheduale..ofcourse sometimes its really rewarding.
@thomas.thomas2 жыл бұрын
@@JohnKappa that's when you start being selective and strict about it
@RafeenaNC Жыл бұрын
I think college luctures might be happier ....all u need is to help students who came for studying unlike KG to Highschool...
@caitlynedwards44346 ай бұрын
Im a trainee counsellor and i thought it was just me that gets joy from this profession. Its a challenging discipline to learn because you learn so much about yourself in the process and it can be uncomfortable. But when the studying is applied to clients it makes it worthwhile. Its so fulfilling helping people to work through problems and seeing a new person develop in front of you. Money cant buy that feeling.
@Alphonse_Elric3252 жыл бұрын
"WHATEVER YOU DECIDE TO DO, MAKE SURE IT MAKES YOU HAPPY" ❤️
@abdulmueedsaleh20072 жыл бұрын
Bro I know this sh** doesn't say [commented 12 yrs ago]
@Hippobottomless2 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done it’s quite hard getting into the profession u love
@Jeff-ki6fz Жыл бұрын
Thanks adolf
@TrueTruthHonest Жыл бұрын
*Dentists be like:* 🤔🤔🤔
@viciousimpaler2 жыл бұрын
What I learned from this video: Landscapers are some of the biggest liars out there
@daanvw86062 жыл бұрын
I don't think so, I work as a gardener/landscaper myself and most of my colleagues are very enthusiastic about and happy with there job while it isn't particularly high paid
@behappytrek1139 Жыл бұрын
@@daanvw8606you are working as an landscaper
@gargiseth9291 Жыл бұрын
Strange how my Asian parents ask me to be a doctor and live the happiest life ever.
@zrizzy695810 ай бұрын
Web designing needs to be at least a 4 in this list if not better
@Noface67810 ай бұрын
Maybe but not for long, AI I gonna replace them here in a couple yrs lol
@zrizzy695810 ай бұрын
@@Noface678 nope, watch some blue lee doublestack to understand why. Web design isn't only the skill of html css and js. Marketing is a huge piece of that Personal training will probably get replaced though it's already starting to happen
@alejandroreyes8878 Жыл бұрын
As a former wedding photographer... WHAT THE HELL???? Definitely not my worst job, but it was miserable man Cut-throat competition with other photographers (literally got the window of my car smashed by other photographer) poorly paid (in Mexico), long hours, got harassed by some drunk a*holes during the receptions on a couple occasions, had to put up with a lot haggling AFTER the contract was signed, etc... Not even a 10% as bad as working in retail though
@halo9lady2 ай бұрын
I did 5 weddings and quit, way too much stress and pressure. Just the fact that you get one chance to get it right on princess’s most important day of her life for photos…
@sandrajones82452 жыл бұрын
Architects (which is what I am) is because you get freedom to do what you want. But don't think when you don't get no sleep it's not liberating, the only reason why architects stay up for 3 days straight (or more) is because they are doing what they love.
@banasmitabaruah Жыл бұрын
Hey where you did ur architecture from? Does it pay well? I wanna be an architect too.🥰
@sandrajones8245 Жыл бұрын
@banasmitabaruah I got my architecture degree from the University of the Arts London. Yes, it's a very well-paid and well-respected profession. Especially since even if you become a mediocre architect, you can express your designs and have it known for centuries to come. What's more, people don't look at architects with an animosity, if you're bad architect the buildings are hurt, if you're a bad lawyer, accountant, Dr, etc people are hurt. Again, architects get time to rectify any lethal designs, without much casualty, but the others can cause irreparable damage. 1. Take an apprenticeship as soon as you can, even during the summer of your 1st year in your undergraduate, honestly, architecture takes a lot more then drawing, which you'll find out. 2. Don't be fooled, architecture is hard work, more so on the mind then on the body. 3. A tip, whenever you're asked to go out to the site to collect research, talk to the people as well, since that's who you're building for. I hope this helps?
@derp24lordz Жыл бұрын
My dad does landscaping and he's always stressed, mostly because he doesn't make enough to support 4 people and his girlfriend isn't willing to pitch in
@CrusheD_SugaR2 жыл бұрын
Of course you will not see Engineers Here🤣🤣🤣
@rorisang8602 Жыл бұрын
My mother is a counselor and there's no greater happiness then when a person she helped comes back and tells her that she's copping and doing well for themselves. It makes sense.
@semp7861 Жыл бұрын
let me say when I did landscaping the work itself is not what makes you happy it's at the end when you see how different the yard looks from before and realizing that YOU did that and it's even better if you get to see the person that you did it for after you finish the work they are usually incredibly thankful because they know it's not easy work
@jackhanna74262 жыл бұрын
At 1055 the unhappiest people intheir jobs: chefs
@LaQuantayviondreTrollinDaWorld11 ай бұрын
I work at a center with with disabled people its like a daycare for grown ups I don't really have to do nothing but make sure the clients behave, sometimes feed a few of them during lunch and clean up . I be on my phone pretty much through out the day there or playing games with them like Uno or Connect 4. I love my job I will keep it forever if I could this is the only job I ever had where I actually don't hate going to work 5 days a week at all. I be having fun at work we give them daily activities for like a hour with a board we got where we like help them with math,reading, play Bingo,play family feud and good ol Karaoke on Fridays. Friday is my favorite day I don't got a singing voice at all but some of them hate when I get on that Karoke mic knowing I'm going to sing Madonna Lucky Star, Borderline or Into The Groove I be trolling by singing atleast one of the same 3 songs every Friday.
@thisgirlisoverit2 ай бұрын
as someone who wants to be a counselor AND tutor i see this to be an absolute win🤩🤩
@ricolives11662 жыл бұрын
Tennis coaches getting the boom boom. Goin balls deep daily
@deeznuts23yearsago2 жыл бұрын
They teach how to hit balls so the student won’t in bed
@mythical5311 Жыл бұрын
Comment sounds sus
@Smartcool748 ай бұрын
@@deeznuts23yearsago Al the girl tennis coaches are lesbians
@coldFire2023 Жыл бұрын
If a counselor is a sadist he'd be even happier.
@bigzubber2 жыл бұрын
Us architects aren’t that happy especially when the job starts because for some reason everything just falls apart, you have a schedule for 6 months and somehow it turns to a year🤧🤦🏽♂️
@naat75652 жыл бұрын
You're right
@Nasrinaabdikhaliq Жыл бұрын
Gosh I wanna do Architecture so bad.....any advice pls
@hama146011 ай бұрын
@Nasrinaabdikhaliq don't the payment is bad
@Nasrinaabdikhaliq11 ай бұрын
@@hama1460 which payment
@hama146010 ай бұрын
@@Nasrinaabdikhaliq architecture in general
@emilyosborn59602 жыл бұрын
Love the whispered opinion on tennis 😂
@maxklymenko2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@dumbly-stupid2 жыл бұрын
What'd he say
@devanarayans51312 жыл бұрын
What did he say ?
@mythical5311 Жыл бұрын
@@dumbly-stupid he said tennis is the best sport
@mythical5311 Жыл бұрын
@@devanarayans5131 ⬆️
@anuragnathyal58892 жыл бұрын
Jhonny sins is almost all of them that explains it.
@farjadkhan30402 жыл бұрын
Architects are happy because they don't have to deal with the shit they build for Civil Engineers to analyze.
@thetechkid.2 жыл бұрын
“tutors which makes sense.” 💀 edit: 🪂 🕳 edit: 🛩 🕳
@Ryne4S2 жыл бұрын
@CJJK yeah the sample's not taken around the world, no way tutors make $100/hr in my country.
@Ryne4S2 жыл бұрын
@CJJK define equivalent in this context
@Ryne4S2 жыл бұрын
@CJJK what do you mean google purchasing?
@Ryne4S2 жыл бұрын
@CJJK In my country average private lesson tutors make about less than $5/hr
@Ryne4S2 жыл бұрын
@CJJK could be food for 1-2 days if you stretch it, but only that, daily accomodation excluded
@samthekashman2 жыл бұрын
Landscapers because at the end of each day you get to turn around and see something that was ugly but you made beautiful. Don’t get much more satisfying
@Emmanuel-sw7ob9 ай бұрын
I thought the number one happiest profession is the adult industry😂😂
@TheSoldiergirl7 ай бұрын
Your mind is far away from Earth 😂 but I think those people are miserable,most of them only do it for the money
@Janessa370 Жыл бұрын
There is a job we’re you can burb baby snow leopards and it’s so cute it’s definitely way happier
@MuralChain2 жыл бұрын
When the wedding photographer is a lonely doomer: _Looks at all the married couples_ Wtf have I done with my life
@skillpat18272 жыл бұрын
Cool PB can you send me the link to the Photo?
@No_One_07072 жыл бұрын
LMFGHAO
@thetorontogirl4 ай бұрын
Coaching is something that naturally has come to me since childhood and coaches can help themselves first and foremost. It's nice to see people taking the knowledge and tools you give them and use it to improve their lives. The result may not be instant but it's rewarding knowing that you might've helped them out just by talking and asking about their aspirations. There's an epidemic of loneliness and people are shocked even if I say hello to them while walking down the street. Some people need more or less help depending on their issue at hand and most people were never taught self regulation or self awareness to even know what they want out of life.
@jr135022 жыл бұрын
Counsellors being happy does make sense as I'm sure it can be very rewarding
@Corruptedkiwi2 жыл бұрын
I’m sure it can also be very soul crushing with some of the things they have to hear
@someasiankid63235 ай бұрын
this guy is funnier than most netflix specials
@BoomGuys.2 жыл бұрын
Nice so wanting to be an architect might work
@vaibhaviagale79046 ай бұрын
I did not at all except architects in this list😅 .... Any architects here? Please share your story.
@lifeoftennis12855 ай бұрын
Horrible. Architecture is horrible. Too much stress. Its not art. It's 90% technical and 10% art. It's so miserable that it makes the part about art miserable. Don't become an architect unless you are willing to loose friends, chug on a litre of coffee every day and destroy any sense of a lifestyle schedule
@iqramizzuddin43084 ай бұрын
@@lifeoftennis1285can you tell me more about it. Why is it horrible, i just want to convince myself that the architect is not good.
@GrimLife66618 күн бұрын
@@iqramizzuddin4308 There are plenty videos on why architecture is hor**ble. Just look at it. I am an architect myself, and jeez I have started hating it.
@OnyxTiger Жыл бұрын
Counsellors make sense if you heal people.
@Mich-jk2ze2 жыл бұрын
Counselors are good with knowing how the brain works in a lot of cases. They have fulfillment from helping other people out of wholes and are aware of how to live a better life.
@xyz-pg3zd3 ай бұрын
Any advice? Seems like you might be a counselor yourself?
@CUBETechie2 жыл бұрын
Architecture is very interesting and in the last month my interest in Architecture rises well I have also a technical background iam a metalworker/ locksmith with welding knowledge
@travisshanahan74582 жыл бұрын
Dog walker hell no I can’t stand walking one dog
@UrbanKapre2 жыл бұрын
I actually wanted to be a landscaper before I realized I dont know sh*t about plants and their maintenance 😅😅
@thomas.thomas2 жыл бұрын
that's why you first learn about it, don't give up, there is plenty of information online
@HamCraft2 жыл бұрын
Me: What about KZbinrs?
@XMickleXx2 жыл бұрын
40,000 worker among 7 billion human, kinda meaningless study tbh lol
@thedailyjoke35682 жыл бұрын
NasDaily showed four of these, including landscaping, in his most depressing jobs video...
@G17x2 жыл бұрын
NasDaily....IDK if I fully believe in the guy
@just_izzy9592 жыл бұрын
Primary teachers should be their, that’s my mums job and every morning she gets a hug from 21 little five year olds! How happier could u be
@0Architectdude02 жыл бұрын
They obv didn’t ask Arizona landscapers lmao
@tabletenn1s_trickshots4082 жыл бұрын
“Number 9 a little less happy than number 10”
@MrChilili2 жыл бұрын
Landscaping is really fun :)
@XFadedXSunX Жыл бұрын
Lol Yk that panda nanny’s,video game testers,ice cream testers and water slide testers get paid well
@khyzerhicera11872 жыл бұрын
Trainers will be happy helping their student gets better everyday
@00Snek007 ай бұрын
Architects? All i have heard is that its very stressful, work load is immense and the pay is really bad...
@lifeoftennis12855 ай бұрын
I'm an architecture student. Just completed my first semester. Thinking of quitting.
@V.GTestar Жыл бұрын
The dog sound on 2 sounds so real so i got scared
@61854425 Жыл бұрын
Dude what about the musical instrument Instructor. 🤨
@jonaldgavina40579 ай бұрын
Architect? Lmao HAHA
@Ninon__2 жыл бұрын
Gardeners and landscapers.
@Ninon__2 жыл бұрын
@찯 타고 Matte 짓 받🇰🇷 go away bot
@tesstrader59082 жыл бұрын
"Tutors". That makes sense
@shemshem99982 жыл бұрын
I think it's very obvious because all of these jobs tend to be jobs that you choose because it's your passion. No personal trainer, ski instructor, landscaper etc is going to even be able to teach at that level if it isn't interest them in the first place, you get to do your hobby while helping others fall in love with your own passion. And things. And others involve helping others and making others happy
@n9s3nse102 жыл бұрын
And then there are asian parents forcing you to become what they want and they couldn't
@ColourfulXO6 ай бұрын
If I didn't fry within 5mins of being in the sun, I'd love to do landscaping. Or something outdoors.
@liammcgowan352 жыл бұрын
You know teachers dead last 💀
@garrydhamot85312 жыл бұрын
Source : trust me bro Where’s the article, should at least give the link to that shit ass article
@spikegaming38252 жыл бұрын
Yeha and I know people are going to disagree but someone who works in this business a gardener and landscaper 100% do the same things
@crabby66032 жыл бұрын
relax lmfao
@Acer118182 жыл бұрын
dude what’s your fucking problem literally why are you angry
@drm.himself2 жыл бұрын
Ok weeb
@G17x2 жыл бұрын
"Oooh.... you're hard!" - David Brent
@MattCD552 жыл бұрын
“Best sport” 😂👍
@cartr4236Ай бұрын
Landscapers is very true! I'm working twoards accountancy but did garden work in my teen years- wish i could make a living from it
@slicklad2 жыл бұрын
It all depends on the person. I would hate doing any of those jobs and I’ve been a landscaper and ski instructor. Most fun job I’ve done and continue to do is cowboying. Nothing like riding through the mountains on an animal that can kill you chasing cattle that can kill you.
@alonsomonge5105Ай бұрын
You will never find a corporate job in the top 100 😂😂
@早川-FWRTD52022 жыл бұрын
As someone who previously work as a Gardener, it used to be one of my favorite job but... i hate the smell of a plant being cut, it made me almost threw up. Now i work as a server administrator
@bigboyconor2 жыл бұрын
nah bro dog walking is top tier
@henrycollins24782 жыл бұрын
“Landscapers” yeah that’s why
@howudoinbo33792 жыл бұрын
Tennis is cracked u da best
@dynajustus18222 жыл бұрын
When it said architect I knew something was wrong (architect btw)
@_aris.p_2 жыл бұрын
A study among 40000 people showed that 100% of dog walkers are happy with their job! There was 1 dog walker... My mom who takes her children to the school
@manelthegreek2 жыл бұрын
Teachers are always an extreme... Here on a list of the happiest jobs but at the same time the amount of teachers with burnouts and depressions are really high compared with others professions
@noobmaster3682 жыл бұрын
The ski instructor motion he made
@med_ayhem_benabda5 ай бұрын
I rememberd GTV when you said tennis coach
@ironjam85722 жыл бұрын
POV: the five. Landscapers that voted lol
@rand5042 жыл бұрын
He answered our prayers
@nithyapandiyan69142 жыл бұрын
Asian: Of course not Doctor is the happiest job for me. I made my child to study medical.
@Iluvbasketball896 Жыл бұрын
Bro, the short for me right before this was top 10 unhappiness jobs, and he made that video too lol😂
@darkcorner20152 жыл бұрын
Bro what was that motion on skiing instructors😂😂😂
@Tethanol2 жыл бұрын
Seems like theres a lot of landscapers in denial lmao
@wizgud11 ай бұрын
Landscaping cause of the jokes we be cracking everytime at work😂 especially if you're a paisa
@tanalsonАй бұрын
These are the 5 jobs that you want your customers to be unhappy so that you could make money 1) divorce attorney 2) doctors 3) policeman 4) robber/thieves 5) undertaker
@whitepinedronescapes247421 күн бұрын
Robber/thieves 😂
@iaintdoinallat2 жыл бұрын
Ain't nobody gonna tell why tennis instructors are happy
@thomas.thomas2 жыл бұрын
short skirts
@flightless84026 ай бұрын
That's weird. I figured landscapers would be under a lot of pressure. But I guess if it isn't private property, business owners probably don't obsess?
@insid34932 жыл бұрын
As being an ex wedding photographer at 15 years old I can say it was making me super happy to see all of the weddings and the happy couples. It was also extremely good pay too, the only reason I quit was cause I got too stressed out. I'll occasionally do a gig for my mom's friends but not really on a large scale like I was doing before
@venomantihero33062 ай бұрын
Gardener looks like a peaceful job, I wanna do it for real😢
@himanganapanwar3832 Жыл бұрын
I dont think single wedding photographers will be the happy clicking photos of people getting married........
@imsleepy43104 ай бұрын
being an architect is not as easy as it may seem. my mom is an architect and she almost never has free time for herself or for the family, she always has to study for some structures and she has overall more problems. she loves her job, but it is very tiring, both mentally and phisically.
@vincentolivieri44687 ай бұрын
Counselors enjoy helping others. Or enjoy their pain😂
@lawaomer9802 ай бұрын
As a table tennis player i can confirm even for table tennis coaches it’s still fun
@FOHguy3 ай бұрын
I'm happy being in the road crew of touring entertainment acts.
@murphdog9506Ай бұрын
Landscaping was my first job ever. My back hurt like hell after I was done, even using good form and after like a month, the plants would die from weather changes. My boss even had life long back issues from it.
@abhiudai2 жыл бұрын
i expected cornstar to be no.1 💀
@man44372 жыл бұрын
Not to get too serious on a fun video about job satisfaction, but it's actually one of the most depressing jobs. Most people (men and women) make virtually no money and have to do some things they wouldn't normally just to make any kind of cash. I would wager to guess there's probably less than 1% of men who make more than minimum wage/week just from work in that industry, and most women get burnt out and/or traumatized within a year. Maybe 1% of people ever make huge money
@t1m0rp2 жыл бұрын
I expected no.1 to be plumbers.......😏😏
@puppiesgacha29482 жыл бұрын
Counselors make sense. They get to help and watch someone else's mental health improve (if they're good at their job and a right fit for their... Patients? Clients? Guests? Idk) due to their guidance. Idk it seems like a fulfilling career. Like I'd feel like I've made a difference if I helped someone overcome hurdles in their life