Top 10 Must-have Wardrobe Essentials For Stylish Women Over 40

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

SHOP ALL LOOKS HERE: LOOK 1: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/2f44e836-65fa-11ef-a288-0242ac11002d SPANX BLACK JUMPSUIT XS P: go.shopmy.us/p-7350396 GOLD CHAIN NECKLACE SIM: go.shopmy.us/p-7350427 VALENTINO CUFF: go.shopmy.us/p-7024190 FOR LESS: go.shopmy.us/p-7023712 LEOPARD HANDBAG SIM: go.shopmy.us/p-7350597 FOR LESS: go.shopmy.us/p-7350597 METALLIC SNEAKERS SIM: go.shopmy.us/p-7350647 LOOK 2: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/f46f355e-5a52-11ef-8616-0242ac110026 CROPPED TRENCH COAT XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7350740 BLACK TOP XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7350794 JEANS 0 R: go.shopmy.us/p-7350813 BLACK KITTEN HEELS: rvlv.me/2nhzkp BLACK BELT: rvlv.me/yl9tre BLACK AUPEN HANDBAG: go.shopmy.us/p-7023615 FOR LESS: go.shopmy.us/p-7023628 BLACK BELT: rvlv.me/yl9tre GOLD BAR NECKLACE: go.shopmy.us/p-7124898 LOOK 3: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/3e1bec2a-6470-11ef-bfc2-0242ac110021 BROWN BOMBER JACKET XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7350981 AGOLDE JEANS 24: rvlv.me/5zIdW7 BLACK KNIT TANK XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351046 BLACK MULES: go.shopmy.us/p-7351074 BLACK BELT: rvlv.me/yl9tre BLACK AUPEN HANDBAG: go.shopmy.us/p-7023615 FOR LESS: go.shopmy.us/p-7023628 LOOK 4: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/ed8ba816-6615-11ef-b793-0242ac110011 BLACK FAUX LEATHER BLAZER XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351191 FOR LESS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351133 BLACK TANK XS: rvlv.me/jyHyH4 MOTHER JEANS 24: go.shopmy.us/p-7351236 BROWN SUEDE BOOTS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351268 BLACK BELT: rvlv.me/yl9tre BLACK AUPEN HANDBAG: go.shopmy.us/p-7023615 FOR LESS: go.shopmy.us/p-7023628 LOOK 5: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/3e1bec2a-6470-11ef-bfc2-0242ac110021 LEOPARD BOMBER JACKET XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351372 FOR LESS: rvlv.me/v347nm AGOLDE JEANS 24: rvlv.me/5zIdW7 BLACK KNIT TANK XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351046 BLACK MULES: go.shopmy.us/p-7351074 BLACK BELT: rvlv.me/yl9tre BLACK AUPEN HANDBAG: go.shopmy.us/p-7023615 LOOK 6: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/b81b69c3-65f8-11ef-bd67-0242ac11001d AGOLDE FADED BLACK JEANS 24: rvlv.me/X4Qbo2 MORE SIZES HERE: rvlv.me/hCiWjN TAN TUBE TOP XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7350794 BLACK MOTO JACKET XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351620 STUDDED BELT: go.shopmy.us/p-7351627 BLACK KITTEN HEELS: rvlv.me/2nhzkp CHANEL BAG SIM: go.shopmy.us/p-7351676 BLACK GUCCI SUNGLASSES: go.shopmy.us/p-7351812 LOOK 7: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/756fbdc2-5bca-11ef-b8b0-0242ac110029 BLACK QUINCE TANK XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351863 AGOLDE FADED BLACK JEANS 24: rvlv.me/X4Qbo2 MORE SIZES HERE: rvlv.me/hCiWjN CAMEL JACKET SIM: go.shopmy.us/p-7350740 BLACK MULES: go.shopmy.us/p-7351074 BLACK BELT: rvlv.me/yl9tre LOOK 8: IVORY DENIM JACKET XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351999 TAN TANK XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7351863 AGOLDE LIGHT WASH JEANS 24: rvlv.me/5jqg3k GOLD HEELS: go.shopmy.us/p-7352032 LOOK 9: BLACK SILK MAXI SKIRT XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7352084 BLACK HALTER TOP XS: rvlv.me/smqdop GOLD HEELS: go.shopmy.us/p-7352105 LOOK 10: BLACK BUTTON DOWN XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7352195 FOR LESS: go.shopmy.us/p-7352216 BROWN SKORT XS: go.shopmy.us/p-7352234 BLACK MULES: go.shopmy.us/p-7352170 LEOPARD MULES: go.shopmy.us/p-7352155 SNAKE SKIN SLIDES SIM: go.shopmy.us/p-7350504 FOR LESS: go.shopmy.us/p-7350547

[@KarenKrupsaw]

Yes, please do the video on jean fit and details. Thanks!

[@cathyteixeira5420]

How about a GRWM! Your dating get ready from makeup hair to outfit. Also your nighttime routine ❤

[@MichelleDailey-p4n]

I think you're sweet for giving us an explanation on the number of first dates when you don't owe us anything. You're smart to listen to how you feel and trust your intuition. Your sense of style is always super cute too.💕

[@cherieroberts3502]

I had a similar marriage and afterwards remained single for 17 years. Working on yourself and dating lots of men helps narrow down the pack. You may not always know everything you want in a man, but you will certainly learn what you don’t want. Enjoy your growth and life…you are so full of love and goodness!

[@amymcginty6634]

Love the leopard heels! You definitely deserve the man you’re seeking, with the same high standards that you have & you need. Thanks for a great video & have a wonderful weekend!

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

@@amymcginty6634 Hi Amy! Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@katherinebaer6798]

I’m so glad you have dealt with your childhood issues. I, too, had a childhood filled with drinking and arguments. It takes a toll. You are absolutely right in not settling! Keep doing what you’re doing! Good luck to you! ❤

[@georgiaroberts3039]

Heather, I LOVE your channel. Please don't listen to negative chatter. It is extremely hard to be single and mingle. The dating pool gets smaller and smaller and so does the quality. I commend you for putting yourself out there! Listening to you is motivating.

[@floridanativelh568]

You're turning into one of my fave fashion and lifestyle KZbinrs simply because of how vulnerable you've become and, frankly, it's endearing. For many reasons. As for the man. ...Yes! Do. Not. Settle. You are a valuable and beautiful child of God and His timing is perfect. Ours, not so much. ❤

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

@@floridanativelh568 awwww that is so sweet and means a lot to me!! Thank you for saying that!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@lepeicious]

Love the Steve Madden leopard shoes! You worked hard on your inner self you go girl you deserve another who matches with you!

[@annlatham]

I love the jumpsuit!!! 🖤

[@SusanH4626]

Would love a video on how to buy the most flattering jean for your body type…rise, back pockets and leg style.

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

YES WILL DO SOON!!!

[@carolinesaunders8603]

Hi Heather Fabulous Blog (as usual!) Yes please can we have a choosing the right denim fit blog ....As a 5ft 7 1/2 inches inverted triangle with a high waist, short torso and long legs (believe me it's not all it's cracked up to be, trying to get 32 inch inside leg trousers isn't the easiest!🥺) But it's easier now than in the past 😊. Regarding your dating journey... yes I think you are doing it right! You deserve the best as there is only one you! And you are worth it 🤗 When we are young, we grow up fast and think we know best...but most of the time we don't! We make mistakes ...then grow up a bit ...still think we know best...but we don't ...Finally... we work on ourselves, we grow emotionally, spiritually and become wise... That's where I believe you are now..... you know where you are going, know what you want, and are wise enough to take your time to find it. YES I think you are doing it the right way....Keep doing what you are doing hun xxx P.s. The leopard mules look gorgeous!

[@amygerges6974]

Yes, I would love a video on choosing the right gene for my body type

[@louisefenech7657]

Heather you said it in one, don't settle! I hope that you have an amazing time! Please keep us posted.

[@victoriagreene6259]

Because of you, I bought a black blazer. It is a little warm yet to wear it, but I will soon!

[@DA-kg9lm]

You’re so pretty 😊

[@DonnaScharff]

Good Morning Heather, I'm so glad to hear that you won't "settle" when it comes to choosing Mr. Right! There is never a need to settle for less than you want in a partner. You stick to your guns girl and don't let anyone who thinks you're too picky to get under your skin. I was married at 18 to my high school sweetheart but was divorced 3 years later. I spent a good deal of time working on my self and focused on raising my twins and Mr. Right came along for me 10 years later. And, after 38 years together, we are still very happily married! You deserve the best, so please take your time dating as Mr. Right will surely find you! Love from Menifee, CA. 💖💖💖

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

oh i love this story it inspires me!!! You are evidence that there are good men out there!!!

[@DonnaScharff]

@@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40 Yes there really are good men out there! Just don't give up! ❤

[@teriwills5876]

Curious: How do you tuck in a voluminous button down, like the black one you demonstrated, without fabric lines? I noticed a completely smooth bottom after you tucked it in. Thanks for any tips. 😊

[@annlatham]

Heather have fun! ☀️ Lord knows you deserve it! I think you are brave and beautiful and you’ll be just fine when it comes to dating and living your best life 🤍🏝️⛪️ 💕🙏🏼

[@lolakathol4109]

Hi heather, first off, I love your channel! Love how you dress and put outfits together. You always look so beautiful! Most important you are a caring person. Thank you ! For helping all of us ladies dress better. I need to get that short trench coat. I have long one, but swallows me up as well. Yes please do a Jean fit video!❤️

[@melishamcalister1570]

Love Vince! Yes to a video on rise. The smallest part of my waist is a little too close to the girls which kinda throws off proportions. And, I agree... Standards are important. It is wise to be patient, selective and discerning in the dating world.

[@tonjajezina1049]

Heather, I’m sorry to hear you were in a similar marriage as I was for 18 years. I’m looking for the same qualities. After about 4 months I’m finding men who say/act like they have these qualities fail to be who they say they are in one way or another 😢I wish you all the best. I hope you can find a man as great as you are! Also thank you for being so authentic and giving us such great advice both in fashion and life! I must go to that center you went to! I’ve been in therapy with an excellent therapist after my divorce but seem to still attract men that are not good for me. My Dad was very violent in front of me to my Mother and step Mother. Also he is very Narcissistic, still to this day. We ladies need to stick together and support one another, you are a great representation of this! God bless you! Thanks again. ❤

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

Hi thank you for your kind words! I went to the Hoffman Process and here is the link: www.hoffmaninstitute.org/the-process/

[@tonjajezina1049]

Thank you! ❤

[@marthamleynek2187]

Make a video about what to wear at work in the winter. Formal work wear. .

[@katherinebaer6798]

Darling jumpsuit!!!

[@lindaoconnor9060]

I bought the cropped trench coat in camel and I love it!! So cute!! I also bought the necklace from Nordstrom and it just got delivered. I can't wait to wear it. I also bought the leopard mules and the bomber jacket. Thanks for all the great tips. Would love a video on choosing denim for your body type.

[@bronzefox9035]

I like the crop trench but In not sure how long the trend will last. So I went to a thrift store, got a regular length trench and cut it to where I wanted it. I took out the sewing machine and did a nice seam to seal it.

[@amygerges6974]

Heather, what chain belts do you recommend?

[@DaWahine79]

The jumpsuit reminds me of an outfit Angela Lansbury wore but in pink with a collared blouse underneath. Nope, I'm not 65 (40..ok, I guess it's ancient🫣), I'm watching "Murder, she wrote" reruns on Prime 😉

[@racheli2598]

Hey Heather! Great video! I’m a little behind your videos on dating. Is this great man still the Austin guy?! Also my sister went to Hoffman institute during her divorce and loved it!

[@Divinenubian]

My favorite item was the shoes, always interested in jean fit. 17 is a long time to be in a toxic relationship, that alone is a huge waste of time. However, having high standards is important. Being 50 is very difficult to find a good partner online time is not on our side anymore, and younger women seem to be more sought after. Just enjoy meeting new people. Eventually, you will meet someone that is serious about settling down with you for the next 30 years. 😊 These days it won't be easy as it was before 30. Most men don't respect older ladies still on the dating apps

[@camilleizzo2811]

Heather, let me first start by saying what a breath of fresh air to hear a woman speak the way you did about yourself Unless you’re willing to put the work in to finally realize what it is, you want and deserve It just won’t happen. There are good men out there and yes, they are in a group of (less than 1%) I’ve been there I’ve done that and I met the man of my dreams after a horrible 30 year abusive marriage I’m living my best life! I want to wish you all the best. Good luck to you. You’re beautiful.!!!!! And I love your videos !🤗🩷

[@camiari04]

Girl just do you, life is to short, we have to do what makes us happy and who cares what others think or say!!!!

[@astorytoldhere]

Love your content! I am wondering if you have a source for us tall girls for a jean like the Mother Skinny Straight? I am 5’ 9” but my inseam is 36”…very long legs. The longest inseam Mother is showing is 27” which would be way too short for me. For a cropped jean like that I am looking for at least a 29” inseam. Thank you!😊

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

Have you tried Abercombie and Fitch denim - you can order a long length.

[@astorytoldhere]

I have not tried them! Just ordered a pair tho! Thank you!

[@noplatelikehome5006]

I love your fashion advice and good for you to move on in your life in a healthy way. It took me 10 years to find a good man to marry and have kids with and I’m glad I didn’t settle for familiarity. Good luck!

[@vivalafrance9547]

Studded belt looks like mine from Harley Davidson

[@susannesilber3077]

The best of luck sweetheart

[@roniisablake]

I feel like that comment that somebody made about a lot of first dates was just dumb! Clearly that person hasn't been in the dating scene for a while I haven't been in the dating scene either. My husband and I met over 20 years ago, I but even then it was like trying to find a pair of Mother jeans at Ross! Keep shopping for the perfect partner girl!

[@marialabayen1692]

Hi! Which size are you wearing the ABERCROMBI jeans? I’m 5’2. Do you think the jeans will fit me?

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

@@marialabayen1692 hi! I’m a size 24 regular and I’m 5’4…I would get the short length if you’re 5’2.💜💜 and yes they will fit you and you will love them!

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

24 regular- thanks for watching!

[@melaniesimpson6322]

Take as many first dates as you need to find the right guy. I’m on the other end of the spectrum. I did find the right guy and we were together almost 20 years before he passed. Took me awhile to decide to date again and it’s hard out there.Doing the online thing as well. I’ve had a lot of first dates as well, but I’d rather be alone, than in a relationship that isn’t right. I have also met someone recently that I think may be the one. :-) Going away together next week. Yayyyy…Good luck with this guy Heather!!❤

[@lesann1896]

Walmart has an awesome faux leather bomber for $34

[@marieoliphant8305]

Like hearing your dating stuff. I still just can’t imagine “wanting” any guy. It would be so intrusive to my currently very happy single life. There was a time I’d want to date someone. That time is long gone. You go! 😅

[@melodybestman3951]

❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@karolinagorska255]

This trench coat is sold pout 😢😢😢 can you link something similar

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

@@karolinagorska255 - sure how’s this rstyle.me/+HxHiz9fiLpTOPslT8rrVgA

[@karolinagorska255]

@@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40 it’s the same one that is sold out in xs 😓

[@doriscistrelli9560]

You deserve a great guy and you go on as many dates as you have too to find him!

[@rebecavalera9325]

Hello Heather, I don't think there's anything wrong with you I think it's the problem are the men. I too am a one hit wonder, many first dates . I have met some nice guys, but not the right fit for me. Don't lower your standards, I know I won't and I am 61. I know there has to be someone out there special for me.

[@sd0198]

What happened to Mr Ausrtin?

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

I broke it off because of the long distance thing. This Austin guy can come more often and stay longer and I can go see him as well.

[@AC-ux3fv]

Curious: Where are you meeting these men? Dating app? If so, which one?🥰

[@melishamcalister1570]

She has answered this many times in former videos.

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

Facebook dating app

[@sandysandy1937]

Girl night 😢😢😊😊 out would be fun to folloe.pppppppppppppp

[@sandysandy1937]

Fun to.follow with dating wardrobe. 😊

[@user-cs1xz]

heather did you meet him on fb dating? i am using hinge and bumble and made a fb just to try the dating part! i have to wait for my account to be 30 days old to start :) have a blast w your new beau this weekend!

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

Yes I met him on the facebook dating app. Thanks for watching!

[@user-cs1xz]

@@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40 amazing tysm for sharing this stuff gives me so much hope and makes me feel less alone. xoxo