Top 10 Red Flags That Turn Men Off Immediately

[@ElliotScottDating]

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[@ppfgwie9490]

1- LACK OF CONFIDENCE! 2- Needyness 3- Seeking validation 4- seeking approval 5- emotional dependency 6- exessive jalousy 7- not letting him hang out much with guys 8- OVERTEXTING! 9- not having femininity Excuse my english

[@suedaoudi5115]

yas yis you re amazing

[@laured.821]

Thanks you for saving me a few minutes ^^

[@jhetvelasco3761]

Thank you!

[@mayevb2998]

And attack him with a mean text after he ghosted you accusing him of been with another girl lol he blocked me so that would be a horrible thing as a red flag but he deserved it tho

[@autumncullen7599]

@@mayevb2998 fuck him sis!

[@acmbs777]

girls this is why we have to think like men and have 1-3 backup plans at all times,then your heart is never broken ..Trust me it works

[@julesharger8865]

Alex Combs I hear u girl!☺️

[@valerieduckworth6649]

seriously

[@terribrown5989]

Hell I can't even find one much less 2 or 3 back up plans

[@cozettem8226]

I can't even find one guy I like let alone back up plans. There's just nobody I find attractive I mesh with.

[@nofybn7794]

@@terribrown5989 Same.

[@TheLovely990]

Just stop responding to them, act like you don't care. If they really like you, they will be back. Only make them an option, not a priority.

[@TheLovely990]

TheXander093 This is for women only, men already play this game. I never make a man a priority, unless we clearly are in a relationship.

[@kimt8162]

Social media hasn't helped relationships---guys think they have all these options out there when they really don't. It fools these guys into thinking that they are all casanovas and hey if they want to talk/whatever--they just go online and there's all this out there. A real relationship is not online---it's right in front of you--actually in your face. You start hearing where people can't meet anyone (unless it's online)--how in the world did people get together before the internet?

[@emmalefevre7991]

I'm shy as fuck, but recently I've just had so much confidence in myself. I told the guy I like him and he likes me back. This video made me realise that somehow I did everything right😂😂 thanks bro

[@dormouse7231]

One little update for you, he is now my boyfriend and we've been together for over 3 months now. Its great :D

[@Anna133199]

TheEchoInTheWoods Daww! That's great. How did you actually tell the guy? I'm always acting like I don't like the guys I like. This time, though, I feel like I have great chemistry with someone and I'm trying to find the courage to let him know I'm into him. 😞 It's so difficult.

[@lyricswords1]

First off, don't be having sex with someone you just met! lol

[@hitink3187]

Lyric Swords what has that happended with you?

[@joanbaczek2575]

of course, now adays guys are alot smoother and will act like they really love you for a year, then when they know they got their hooks in real good thats when they start their shit. cuz they know the woman is so invested she will stay for more shit

[@666999stardust]

agree

[@DianaRoseYanni]

We broke up because I found out he was flirting with a lot of girls on fb(we are in ldr). I got so hurt, jealous and betrayed... He even lied to me even there was already evidence. Instead of saying sorry... he had the guts to fight with me and blamed me for his mistakes. I was so emotional and hurt... and he pulled away. But who cares.... I'm now trying my best to move on. I wish I did not beg him to get back together months ago. But atleast I learned my lesson now. I still love him but he changed into a different awful person...and I definitely don't like him now! He sucks! 😢👎

[@DianaRoseYanni]

there was also another girl he liked...he even asked her to be his gf...I think I had the right to be jealous and hurt...

[@ElliePar421]

he was probably a narcissist...

[@hairlosssolutions146]

Yep sure sounds like it!

[@kittyponce5998]

yup he has npd narcissist personality disorder. ...don't even try no more move on hun

[@dbedazzling1]

run like hell. relationships should be a safe haven. not a battle field. Red Flag.

[@Anabanana54321]

omg I was doing almost everything wrong, but im happy I came across this one I can still save my relationship.

[@Shacolleen26]

I used to be very shy and lack confidence. After I took up swing dancing, my confidence has increased a lot. (Plus I care a lot less about getting a boyfriend/having a guy flirt with me than before.) At first, only the men were asking me to dance (I wasn't comfortable asking them) Now, I have no trouble walking up to a man (even a complete stranger) and asking him to dance.

[@luulips]

I lost attraction for a guy because he kept texting ugh so annoying

[@cleclezoe9401]

It says she is secured and he is too clingy.

[@celestialway8795]

How about just being your damn self and if he doesn't like it....then he can kick rocks! #boom 💁🏻💁🏻💁🏻

[@lisaottomann7143]

Celestial Way I agree! So many damn rules, who the hell wants a relationship, geese

[@liveyourlife5397]

Seriously !!!!!!

[@staceycurran0703]

No one is stopping you Celestial. And hows that working out for you? Why you watching these videos if you have all the answers?

[@christensmith4243]

Celestial Way lol

[@brittneymacgregor3807]

Preach girl!

[@DogLoverMiami]

if he isn't opening up because he doesn't want to take the relationship further.

[@dominoxheartsyouxnot]

All of your videos have been helpful! This one and the ways to get him obsessed with you have been the most helpful to me personally. The problem I have is getting the guy to keep initiating after a few dates, we have fun and I give them a lot of space. But it feels like they expect me to initiate or think I don't care. So annoying.

[@Jen_nifer99]

hm.. watching these kind of videos make me realize that dating is just way too complicated for someone like me... I'll stick to my food and cats

[@joanbaczek2575]

i was never really jelouse until my boyfriend would treat me like shit, but hold on to me cuz i make a good door mat, so then eventually i was suspicious of everything i think men fuck women up then blame them for being fucked up

[@latrice8835]

agree

[@Konchewy]

In nut shell its called mental stability ladies.

[@starcatcher3691]

When he started treating you bad that was your cue to ignore him and gain your self respect

[@No-uq5nr]

I'm really glad that I came across your videos man, you're tips are really good. I had two or three of these red flags myself especially confidence. I wasn't jealous or anything like that I wasn't always confident in myself. I was dating this guy I started to really like and then he started to act distant. I'm a really chill person, but sometimes my anxiety gets the best of me and my overrall confidence goes down. I feel like I can make sense of it now and I should be me no matter what. Awesome vids bro keep em up

[@ElliotScottDating]

Thank you

[@AnGie44555]

Your videos are amazing! I wrote my doctoral dissertation on romantic breakups and no contact (the dumpee doesn't contact the dumper for minimum 30 days), so I find this interesting and helpful!

[@dariapassarelli1121]

I spent my last week watching these videos and this guy is not only cool but also actually true

[@andreag9394]

KZbin fail. The opening commercial was for a different dating coach. haha Not nice, youtube. As always, Elliot, thank you for your efforts and energy, teaching us to understand the male mind and motives.

[@ILIKECEREAL51]

I'm guessing it was Matthew Hussey? I always get his commercials before Elliot's!

[@andreag9394]

yep, it was him. haha

[@ILIKECEREAL51]

Andrea G Dang it!! That Matthew giving all our secrets to nonsubscribers!!!! >.

[@andreag9394]

+ILIKECEREAL51 lol hopefully we all learn some how or another.

[@ILIKECEREAL51]

Andrea G That texting tip about the shower pic! That was perfect though!! Gotta think of another way to use it!! hahaha.

[@katerinamarkowska6113]

Shall we make some videos for guys, too? ;) I know some clingy, needy, jealous, possessive, over texting men - but when a guy does that it's romantic, when a woman does it, it's pathetic. Bloody double standards. Cheers :) Keep up the good work. Great, inspirational and funny videos. A guy broke up with me yesterday (I guess I was too needy for him being more affectionate) but I handled it like a lady for the first time in my life (I am 40...) but I came home and watched your videos till 4am crying in bed with my dog. I am better today and won't text or call. Thanks

[@pinkyi151]

Darn Elliot I may have all those red flags,,,n my boy still keeps me around...i feel for him now...!

[@vixinav1014]

I agree on neediness. It really chokes a person. Everybody needs space. I think neediness depends on anxiety or worry due to a too low confidence.

[@narons6964]

All of these 10 red flags perfectly describe the man I last dated, for only a Month of dating. It's a turn off for us women as well!

[@winniecantonese]

Thanks so much for reminding me to let him alone with himself and friends...and not to expect to receive his texts all the time in order to feel being loved.

[@SuzyASMR]

Omg i have like almost all the red flags😂its sad but😅imma have to work on my confidence Thanks brilliant video

[@mariaangeless]

You're so good!!! My God...parenthesis; I don't know why I'm doing exercises with your videos 😂But I feel so motivated so thanks, kisses from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷. (I'm laughing lonely about your hair part of video) lovesss!!!

[@nailed_sa]

Elliot you are awesome! I love your style and how sincere you are! your videos have definitely helped me out sooo much and I look forward to all your future videos!❤ thanks for all your help!😊

[@pennydesouza]

Oh dear, I subject my fiancé to each of 1 - 7. Really need to get those under control.

[@klaramika]

Things that turn me off: men bun, greasy hair, poor personal hygiene, men talking too much, empty words/ compliments (beauty, love you etc.), men thinking women should do the work, men criticizing women, men trying to turn the game around and having unrealistic expectations, men telling how women should be and behave when they should be just grateful that they even got a chance, 50-50 men, men going after 10+ younger women, fat bold men thinking they are sexy and money makes them attractive, week doormaty women who have fallen for men's tricks and arrogant attitude and contributed in a huge part that low-quality men have such an attitude towards women as most of them do and like this guy does

[@ipesina]

im asking what are we so i know if its appropriate or not to be accepting gifts and dinners from other dudes, not necessarily cause i want a relationship with you! establish your intentions!

[@theresemeggitt8455]

Yes I was needy with a Man once & he told me Look your beautiful I’m flattered by all your Attention. I need space though- he was right- it happens. At times in life we all become needy -I feel. Give him his space & freedom show him your good -it’s ok & do your thing. If he Values you sees this change in you etc..he will come back- if not then move on. Don’t look back you messed up timing may have been off too etc..

[@Lilsweetings]

I think my problem is, well, two things. 1. I'm really comfortable with myself and so when guys start talking to me I come off as aloof or "too confident" and unavailable and 2. I'm super tall so the intimidation factor added with the fact that I'm generally no nonsense makes guys tuck tail and run. I dunno what to do about it? I think I'm gonna just let romance take a back seat because all of my ventures into it have been spectacular failures 🙄☹️

[@EzoterraTarot]

these videos are so good!!!!!

[@ArunArun-ks6nm]

Krista Raisa

[@judithwallace2091]

Dear Eliot, Thank you for your channel. Your perspective is valuable and you clearly show extremely high integrity. I found that your information helps me to reflect. Thank you.

[@Avabelieve]

Can you record yourself saying "Do not overtext!!!"? I'll make it my ringtone... Am being serious :)

[@ElliotScottDating]

That's not a bad idea actually...

[@denisedeshellx]

I swear to god is use this as my ringtone, lol. I want A .mp3 recording.

[@szz4058]

Block him

[@seannecampbell7760]

Can you talk about long distance relationship particularly keeping the relationship alive before meeting which could be more and more.

[@dbico1256]

Oh yes I did 9/10 of these... more or less constantly for several months with my boyfriend of 10 months and now he's pulled away... Maybe for good...it killed all attraction... Lost a a lovely man largely because I couldn't grab hold of my insecurities... You live and hopefully learn something. Thanks for helpful videos!

[@jezabel279]

I love your advice about using the texting just to get a one on one conversation! It's a great point! Thank you!

[@Shaunpeters105]

Really helpful info! keep up the good work

[@jesuschristislord9177]

i love they way you explained things very easy to understand you you talk like a woman I like that. makes me easy to understand tks elliot

[@patriciav.7151]

you have all the good points I learned in every relationship I made all these mistakes and found my self in a short term relationship ..When in the beginning of all my relationship it was so much love and support..what killed all my relationships are what you are talking about:-) now I let things go and make better choices but also what helps is depending on myself it's great to show conference to any man that is interested in courting you

[@winniecantonese]

I like texting a lot to my good frds....but he definitely does not like that!!! So I have to find alternatives instead of texting him in order to feel being cared and loved...

[@Kiwi--nk6dq]

Love your voice, so soothing to listen to

[@flyandshy00]

To me confidence is a feeling, I feel confident out of the sudden, like you wake up and the first thought in mind is "I'm so cool". Or you have a good mood and that makes you feel confident and when I feel like that I have confidence to say something to my crush or something like that.

[@stephanievance4685]

Very insightful! Thanks for another great video. Very informative.

[@ElliotScottDating]

Thank you :)

[@cwilson586]

I can get that it might be "unntractive" to ask where something is going or what we are, but I will do it. I believe it's necessary in today's world. People will literally date for fun and thats not what I'm looking for if I really like someone. I think getting overly emotional about the answer (done that before lol) might be where it gets bad?

[@ElliotScottDating]

Well, prepare to have men lie to your face just like I use to telling you they want the same thing when they don't. lol. Just let it unfold naturally. Ask too soon and it won't work out I promise you. It's probably my number one reason of pulling away right behind over texting. It just feels weird to men when it's brought up. You know the feeling when you're having a great time with a guy and he's being really sweet and then he ruins it by saying something sexual? Yea, that is how it feels with men when a woman brings that stuff up. lol. Today's world is no different than other generations. I don't know why every millennial thinks that...every generation had guys who were players, didn't want to commit, and talked to multiple women. We just think our generation is different because we read a blog post by Thought Catalog or saw a post on FB talking about it. It's no different. In fact, it's much easier than before! Dating is supposed to be fun and a GUY WILL ALWAYS COMMIT if it's the right woman. ALWAYS. So why they may be dating for fun, it's because none of the women he is talking to did a guy job on winning him over and showing him they're relationship material. Just because you want a relationship and really like someone doesn't mean you deserve to be in a relationship. I remember I got out of a really bad break up and at the time I wanted nothing to do with a relationship. I just wanted to go around, pick up women, get numbers, and so on. No intention on getting a girlfriend until one day I went to hookah bar with some friends and met a girl who would change my life. We even hooked up the night I met her! Dated for years after and she was the best gf I ever had.

[@cwilson586]

I value your opinion as a man Elliot :)If a guy lies to me.. well there is nothing I can do about that. I am open to exploring and having fun. In fact, that's the point I'm at as I'm about to graduate college and don't know where I'm headed. That said, I know what I want. I think there is a difference between "I am open to a relationship, I just don't know if you're the woman" and "I have no interest, I'm so unsure.. " right? I'm not trying to put pressure by bringing it up, and certainly wouldn't do it weirdly soon. (I've done that in the past I can admit) And I would never believe I "deserved to be with someone" lol. Mutual selection is probably key for the long-term I'm thinking of. Also, I would say today's world is a bit different as the age of adulthood is being pushed back in a way. People are getting married a bit later (educated middle class on average) if they do at all (products of divorce). So that's my opinion yes, but based on facts. I am overall grateful for the video and advice!

[@starcatcher3691]

Yes

[@starcatcher3691]

Just keep rotating with others until one claims you

[@kathleenwhite2236]

Elliot your such a tease! Pretty please let that hair down once so we can see!!!!! Thanks for your helpful advice! xoxoxoxox

[@ILIKECEREAL51]

I second this!! "Elliot, let down your hair!!!"

[@monicastevens2026]

+ILIKECEREAL51 omg hahha😂😂😂

[@ILIKECEREAL51]

Monica Stevens Yay!! Someone got the reference! :D

[@luulips]

I agree on letting your hair down Elliot please

[@ColoramaPix]

What is the 10 redflags for guys that makes girls pullaway?

[@olaishere]

I think everyone is different here for me, i hate show offs once the guy started talking about how much money he has. It's turns me off.. So wht urs hun? Whts ur values? Maybe how he treat others around u

[@ElliotScottDating]

+Dana Andrada im not a channel for men.

[@NowWhat480]

Man buns and tongue rings. Meatheads, clingers, no back bone, dirty nails, braggers, vapers, fedoras, face tattoos, etc etc

[@herrbrucvald6376]

wearing a topknot?........

[@TheToledoTrumpton]

I think there are a lot more than 10...

[@naenaeromack946]

so we had been dating for like four almost five months. and tbh he was the one that was clingy and everything, but that's what I wanted. I wanted attention and to be able to get away from my family he was my sanctuary, and he told me I was his paradise. I didn't believe it. I had always had self esteem problems BC I was bullied when I was veeeery young, my weight, depression, my family had just gotten over a loss, it was depressing just to listen to and more, SO all in all I had problems, he looked past all of that And loved me. I guess that's why I got soooo attached to him. I spent every ounce of my free time with him! every moment I was free i was with him or he showed up to my house and we just chilled, I swear it was like we were together for YEARS we were so close and him and my family were so close too. it honestly felt like a long term relationship. I was going though another bout of issues, then suddenly one day, two dayz away from our five months, he texted me and just flat out said, it's over. next day, I text him and ask why, he said, I kid you not! "we don't text enough," as far as I knew. was doing a great job at being a girlfriend. we had already handled the virginity thing and figured ways around sex. what else did he want from me blood???

[@heidisaucedo72]

Love ,love, love your video's! Thank you for caring enough about us ladies to tell it like it is.

[@ginkey3232]

So glad I subscribed I absolutely love your videos an advice an i think your amazing keep up the good work and I will definitely keep viewing 😊

[@timeshapeak7624]

What i don't like is the word confidence, because this is not in you as a child every one has this worry or complaint about self

[@sgayle6689]

3:00 - - Confidence comes naturally from worthwhile accomplishment. If someone hasn't accomplished anything worthwhile, then WHY WOULD THEY have any confidence ? ? Duh

[@lamaelcharif1523]

You're the man Eliot! Thanks for the info :) 👍👍

[@viktoriake8865]

LOL "Please for the love of god" :'D Ahahahaha

[@spearmint4093]

yeeeey thank you ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ you listened to my request and made a video about red flags🔖 😄

[@alyahassan6181]

plz make a video about how to have great confidence ,so the guy can feel it.

[@ElliotScottDating]

I am making a whole course on it.

[@flyandshy00]

If you want be his girlfriend, you just slept with him and he didn't say you are official? You just became his booty call. Never have sex before he tells everyone that you are his girlfriend. Easy. And the guy who has a girl best friend - probably he's into her but chose you to fill the void, happened to me too many times. So now on no guys that has the girl best friend. Or any girl that he's talking daily and is liking all her pics on fb.

[@StarEmpress222]

How bout a man's red flags... he goes all in 1rst then decides he doesn't want commitment, or to be tied down as he says, I give him space but it isnt enuf. He's said he doesn't want to ever live w a woman again, doesn't want to ever have to worry bout future things w a woman, doesn't want a family life, he's says it's too exhausting, hes set in his ways and his alone time more so than avg person... He txts me, but initates it seldomly, the sex was amazing for both of us, he opens up bout some things, hes fixed my vehicle, we actually met when I hit a deer and turns out he lives near me. He's gone outta his way to fix my car a few times, I know he likes me and cares for me at least in some ways. Cud these walls ever come down or am I just wasting my time?

[@heidelindeholtzhausen5439]

I'm vegan... is that a red flag? hahahahaha. just kidding, that's the best flag! :)

[@babymoon555]

Heidelinde Holtzhausen more like a green flag. Boom.

[@foureyedchick]

Vegan? That's a GREEN flag girl!

[@SwanTheQueen]

Its a big red flag to me in a guy. They are too intense and preachy. Activist are a big no for me.

[@shebasabrinakoomalsingh3140]

I have done some of them before, and I learnt my lesson..

[@ronnieb7313]

Let that hair be free!!

[@vanysommer9838]

hair freedom😆😆😆

[@sameregonzalez8089]

fucking fool!

[@babymoon555]

Let out the grease and unwind

[@MsGanoo]

Great advices! Love your videos! Thank you 😊

[@The_Codependency_Cure_PsyM]

ok I overtexted him (over emails) but not as much as I would before. Since July, he texted me 30% and I almost 70% because he is insecure and I wanted him to know that I like him. Most of my messages were short and my job is done. If he does not know that I like him, then he never will.

[@teresaolofson1377]

confidence an action in the moment neediness clingyness seeking validation you are going to give a guy a lot of power.......You dont Want That! seeking approval wants a woman who has common sense help add value the overall team dont seek his approval for anything just Do You one of the reasons a guy does not open up because of your emotional dependancy he does not want you to act more needy more insecure he does not want that drama, he feels supressed... guys need their space time with men and time with you when he is pulling away chill let him pull away he has to get away from his guys and feel loved and nurtured over texting BE FeMine Ladies

[@hitink3187]

Ugh, I guess he doesn't like me. I thought he might've but I guess not ☹️

[@ArianeMC1]

Excellent advice, brotha! Gonna implement this into action tomorrow night, with an ex!

[@budgetrebelgoals]

Can you make a video about how to meet a nice guy? Because I have done all the red flags and now I have lost my dating confidence. I am ok on my own.Idk how to be in a relationship

[@bbbluelover4272]

Seeking validation -a man did this yesterday I was - turn off full all together and he said he needed to shave and knew he wasn't look good me as a WOMEN don't see that until he show me -smh I just met him so I moved on * shurgs* oh ! and , the approval was annoying he was seeking so ( SOME) men ... have this---- issues too lol!

[@daggiedoo65]

Thanks for the insights, afraid I'm guilty of a few. A question for you, what if the guys continuously texts, endlessly and you feel like you are having the life sucked out of you. You don't even know how to respond anymore, what is he all about?

[@chisaidanny8572]

omg yes I have dat problem. he always text me every day and it's getting annoying.

[@budgetrebelgoals]

yes! so I see a pattern here because I had three bfs that did that to me....I read that a guy will do that to get you used to it and then pull away. But idk about you but I had some needy men then when you mirror them they call you needy and clingy so we can't let it wreck our flow ..If we have a life we have to keep it.Emotionally healthy men want you to have a life.

[@lalagirl211]

Man can u put the top 10 in the description list

[@IngeborgTV]

hahaha your hair comment made me laugh out loud, I feel you there mr. THanks for the video!! wow that plane!

[@margaretchristian7215]

Good talk Elliot

[@genevievereindl5537]

So only if he texts you. You can text him back. But a woman shouldn't over text?

[@frankieann1686]

I love your vids and advice ! Wish I could have had these in my 20s would have saved me learning all the hard way 😂😂 keep up the good work Elliot X

[@WhatsUpNikki]

Some men are put off by women who have confidence!! The most important aspect of being able to find - and be with - a good man, and yet not all men can 'cope' with a confident woman! Why is that? If a man has most attraction towards a woman who is confident and who does not omit red flags, then why are there so many men who shy away from a confident woman!?!?!? I'm not talking about arrogant women, as that is something else. Please, an insight into the men who actually don't like a woman with confidence would be great, too. Thanks xx

[@Svitlana_Pochatenko]

very nice video, thank you Elliot :)

[@TashChong11]

i subscribed. i love you so much. thank you for the advice. ☺😊

[@ElliotScottDating]

YIPPIE THANK YOU!!!!

[@jamiesatterwhite8398]

Brutal. True. Thank you.

[@budgetrebelgoals]

it's crazy because with my last bf he texted liked crazy idk if it was because he didn't trust me but then he slowed down and I ended up thinking wow you texted me last week back to back,what happened?? men, they say are simple, confuse the hell out of me

[@moxie96]

friends new gf is regularly doing 8 red flags from the first week they started going out 2 mos ago. She'd also now goes by his last name after a fake fb marriage announcement three weeks ago she then said the same day they didn't do it. He's so mentally pushed down by her that he lets her get away with all the abuses she pulls and says it's him "unconditionally loving her fully like he should and always will". She also not at all his type nor did he want kids in any form but got hers now too. So what is this that happened to him?

[@mist__4974]

moxie96 interesting

[@julesharger8865]

I like these videos! He is so right! Relationships r physical and mental!!!

[@spearmint4093]

it's true I always lose guys when I over texted ! thought it made connection stronger but it's making it weaker ! it gets boring and too much to a point where the guy starts backing away.. especially if I'm also seeking validation/approval in the texts. (is that same thing as showing him a picture of a cake I baked as if I'm thinking he will say it looks delicious? or not?)

[@karenwatson8411]

My relationship is fairly new, 3 months. But my man is an "over the road' truck driver...we rarely see one another so how do I keep his interest? Keep it fresh and exciting for him? He's worth the "education"..

[@wintervg]

my guy friend works 2 jobs and I font get to see him on my own terms and I feel like sometimes he doesn't like me or moved on from me . something is telling me to keep trying with this guy but I do worry I am wasting time

[@HoroscopodelGranPig]

Actually in other blogs they said it is important to know if the relationship is serious or not from the beggining...

[@juliewoodhead969]

Very true spot on with that x

[@lawrenciaspooner2327]

thank you great advice.

[@ekspresija101]

You should add ''That's what a said naaa'' between the sentences. Like that 90's song :)

[@michellemann9106]

Dang, watching this I’m kinda nervous I’ve already displayed most of these red flags to the guy I’m seeing...but we’ve been seeing each other for almost 10 months and he doesn’t seem to be going anywhere

[@Sorryscene]

I'm a girl, but in relationships with anyone, of any kind...if the other person shows me they're jealous, well that means that deep down they know they have reasons to be, because they're a "fraud" hahah. As in, they are lacking something. Or they bring something to the table that is too much. So that's when I'm out!

[@colelawton4901]

Sorryscene whenever I meet a chick that's judgemental of guys, it shows how petty if a human they are and I drop her immediately.

[@moniqued9715]

this guy is adorable

[@blackrabbit6670]

Elliott you're a hot mess with your hair but I luv you man😂😂😂 Thx for your brilliant advices which has kept me one step ahead of the game. Thanks a million!

[@ElliotScottDating]

I am a hot mess in general haha

[@Lauren-ds3vw]

Is it too needy to ask how he feels after a certain amount of time? It seems like a fair question.

[@ElliotScottDating]

it has to be a while later on. I made a video on it.

[@teresaolofson1377]

Elliot Why do mean tease? I just heard something that said by teasing a man you draw him closer, All of my life i have not known this and wanted to "talk" to be close....tell us ....do men tease us because thats how they feel close to us and deep down they want us to tease them because they want to be close and thats how they do become close to us...

[@DinaStrange]

Have you noticed, that we are not ALLOWED to be WOMEN? Clingy, emotional, needy - those are all emotions. And we women FEEL them.

[@butterflyprincess2177]

What does a healthy relationship look like and what are the rules that a man needs to follow? I feel like us woman have to follow all of these steps and rules or God forbid the man loses interest.

[@Jesswiththetattooedhands]

#WeirdShapedHeadSquad ❤️

[@FuzzYKittens777]

How do you be feminine???

[@lindaallie5333]

If a guy has the flu and all you do is text maybe every other day as to how he is doing, is this wrong?