Top 10 Things that Make the Covert Narcissist PANIC

[@Agheel963]

#10 they love embarrassing stories about others,yet when you try and tell an embarrassing story about them they go into defense mode and deny everything

[@jessmason2112]

🎯💯

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Oh absolutely they love to embarass you in front of others but the moment you do that to them they go into 4 year old Rage.

[@MuniShakya]

so true!

[@Mrsvragica666]

These people are incredibly dangerous and their sociopathy eventually shows up in private. They can have a criminal mindset and if you call out their false image of perfection and [insert a random lie], they will hammer you. Exiting a dispute with one of these types leaves you with severe cognitive dissonance. But as time goes on, their message becomes clear: if you speak up, you will regret it.

[@user-xu3ce9lj4k]

OMG, there are no truer words!!!!

[@bobtaylor170]

I'm a man, and I think that men are in a much better position to fight these creeps than women ever are. It has to do not just with physical strength but with quality of mind. Women are not inferior to men, but they are extremely different, and the ways in which they're different make them unsuited to fight these dreadful people. In my case, I could make considerable trouble and maybe ruin the sociopathic cousin who has caused me such trouble, but I am a Christian and am leaving him to the Lord. If he were smart, he would thank God for that. He has no notion of what I have realized I could do to bring him down.

[@andiincali.4663]

Respect is a two way street.

[@91GT347]

Many times they will want praise for the same thing numerous times. They will do a small favor without you even asking. Then mention it several times. Expecting a thank you six times for the same thing. Especially if you're not giving them the attention they want.

[@AL-op3ue]

"Don't you wanna thank me?" well i certainly dont now lol

[@jeanettecook1088]

After years of neglect, when I was 13, my narcissist female parent decided to be nice to me. I came home after school, finding a pretty dress (I was a farm girl, pretty things to me were very suspicious) laid out on my bed. No note, nothing... just the dress. I walked into the kitchen and asked her about it. I asked, "Did you make a mistake? Isn't this for Mary?" (My sister) She fumed, barely choking out the words, "No, it's for you. You should be grateful!" I thanked her. But that's all. I never worshipped her the way she wanted, for being so 'wonderful' to me. I hated the dress and never wore it. The whole thing gave me the shivers. 🎉

[@lisahead6868]

Oh my gosh. You just described my grandmother exactly.

[@LOVEISTRUTH300]

Yes..... I've seen this many times in private and everyone outside of the home thinks they're the nicest person ever. You're so lucky to have them in your life.

[@foxiefair123]

Yeah, thank you for getting me a straw from the gas station.😂

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

So true. It’s exactly how covert narcisists behave.

[@davidyardley512]

Ex wife is a covert. I was discarded 5 years ago now and we share 3 children. Envy, jealousy and resentment are at her very core. Anyone they knew achieving things, being successful created an immediate response of jealousy. I remember in the kitchen saying to her once - why can't you just be happy for someone who is doing well? Answer was well I deserve that success too. She immediately made it about her, like a jealous little girl who hadn't grown up. The mask fell a long time ago now, but she's a terrific actor, I'll give her that. Why she didn't go into acting or drama I have no idea. She completely faked a 17-year marriage extremely well. Now, she is just completely irrelevant to me.

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Bingo now all of them are completely irrelevant to me.

[@warrenbradford2597]

My narcissistic sister accused me of gossiping when I accidentally said her name while mumbling. That's one proof that gossip panics covert narcissists.

[@SherryTomlinson-r2y]

There afraid we talk to others like they do!

[@warrenbradford2597]

​@@SherryTomlinson-r2y It's spelled they're, but that could be a good reason why they fear being gossiped.

[@lc-bb6bd]

Yes they definitely will use other people to hurt you that’s for sure

[@MeelaBliss]

Wow just experienced this at work. SOOOO passive aggressive when seen as a regular person. Gaslighted me and did the silent treatment

[@wendydaniel1110]

When you have healed from your childhood trauma and wounds they can't hold any control or power over you. You are not triggered by their abusive behaviors . They look pathetic and even more delusional than ever...Walk away and never go back ❤❤

[@jfdc8432]

Thank you! This is amazing! My ex so-called-friend ticks all the boxes - every one! 😮 Confirms my suspicions. Good-bye ‘friend’😢

[@serg74ful]

Sounds like the woman im dealing with now, even though she says the opposite but i see through all the BS now

[@davidyardley512]

Leave, quickly and quietly, now. These people can't be fixed.

[@lc-bb6bd]

They don’t include YOU in the conversations behind your back but they want to know every word that comes out of your mouth though

[@gkennedy2998]

Guy at work listened at the Ladies Room door and had taken notes of what he heard me say. I found his notes while cleaning out his desk (he was fired). He listened at the Ladies Room door! True.

[@shelleyrwhalen]

Thank you. Another 🎤 drop. I’ve listened four times

[@tammylea]

Very, very accurate!!

[@emilwilczewski]

Jill is very Wise.

[@matilda1505]

There don’t need true friends. The need worshipers.

[@matilda1505]

They and They… sorry

[@patharris5130]

❤❤❤❤❤ABSOLUTE 💯 TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@matilda1505]

Short and sweet as always. Thx Jill.

[@victordevonshire807]

I can only give so much feedback because it's impossible for me to keep it simple. ❤

[@victordevonshire807]

They are dangerous when you are on to them. ❤

[@BigNoe-u7u]

All the disrespect these narcs shell out other people's direction and they can't take an ounce of it back 😂 you're getting these jokes buddy

[@zaylinstar8883]

Lmao “you’re going to get cooked my guy!” 😂 they can’t take a minuscule amount of their own bitterness.

[@JKDVIPER]

I’ll tell ya what, when I drop evidence of what I’m seeing into the light. He and his flying monkeys have been so covert. The only way you’d know is if you had a hurt person (feelings wise) ❤or else, if people just take it, these guys get away with it. It baffles me why certain individuals just can’t see the big picture.” ☺️💯2:54 other points of view and differing opinions are an absolute threat to them. 😎🙏

[@SherryTomlinson-r2y]

It took me awhile but I figured she was a covert. My friend had knitted me a bird the same type of bird the c narc had. I got permission to give it to the narc t her birthday party. Everybody loved the gift! The c narc actually got jealous that the gift was getting more attention than she was. She even asked me for 4:34 another one! 😢😮

[@Babeatrice]

I realize there’s myriad of behaviors, but not sure about this video.. I don’t like personal questions (5:45) because I’ve nearly been killed by jealous people, and they were like that wanting to know every detail because they were predators. I’m extremely hypervigilant and vet absolutely everyone after what I survived.. I don’t owe anyone anything about my personal life except people I know who are safe.

[@justmichael6628]

The one word that defines what most narcissist's want and expects from other's is : ( Deify ) 1 a : to make a god of . b : to take as an object of worship . 2 : to glorify as of supreme worth . PS . I will not be giving any such tributes of the word ( Deify ) to anyone . Not happening on my watch ' as the Observer of Narcissism .

[@ChristinaLabruzzo]

Wow 🤯

[@hunsbuns...]

Biggest hypocrites going around! 1 minute he doesn't want to hang out with his friends as hes more smarter than them and they're dumb, but as soon as he's devaluing me, discarded found God knows who now, his friends are everything!

[@peterharris6604]

Thanks

[@dazpearce2096]

how did i miss this Jill? Must have been a covert video or something. Thanks as always - in many ways coverts are more dangerous, these are the people who do a loada work for charidee but don't like to talk about it 😂

[@JustineSpider]

Narcissistic people varies in intelligence. You need them to make you sharper. Delt with so many some are not to sharp. couple had high I.Q. But to make you sharper . I can see better on earth now .Everything has a positive out come .

[@vanessamorey3812]

Miss Jill!! You are absolutely gorgeous boo boo! Keep rocking your glow up game!!! 🙌 HALLELUJAH 💪 🙏 🕊 ♥ 🦋

[@theenlightenedtarget]

Thank you so much!!

[@victordevonshire807]

I identify with everything thing you say. I had no chance. The most cunning, manipulative, devious, evil person I have ever met and a liar and thief too. I wish I could correspond with you?

[@irenebienek3864]

👏🏼👍🏻🤣

[@justinchrist4910]

You sure are great at casting stones. Every human exhibits some sort of narcissistic behavior to a certain extent and it’s not a one size fits all. No one likes being called out in front of a group…..most decent people care about their image…..and anyone with a brain WILL care what others think about them…..within reason. And no one should be the butt of a joke…..