"Top Surgery Is For Anyone" TikTok Cringe : Trans Man & Lesbian React

[@shelkiss]

“Don’t tell your Mom or Dad” used to be an alarming statement that meant the kid is being molested or abused….. like, if someone tells you not to tell your parents… TELL YOUR PARENTS! But schools are now teaching kids otherwise, sick! It’s abuse and brain washing, no less, no less!

[@Asukasnumber1fan]

I love your profile picture lol

[@JackieOwl94]

I always told my parents if there was something someone didn’t want me to tell them about, unless it was my brother or cousins doing something positive for them that they would find out later akin to a surprise gift.

[@lightrayy]

I told my friend not to tell her parents that I was a lesbian not because I wanted her to keep it a secret from her mom but because I knew her mom was just going to tell mine and I wasn't ready for my mom to know because of how she told me id change my mind when I came out as bi at 12 ( this happened when I was 13). Her mom found out because she told her ( only reason I told her to keep it a secret is because I didn't want to come out to my mom ) her mom told me I couldn't be friends with her child anymore . That's exactly why I didn't want her mom to know

[@sassy-savvy]

Unless your parents are the crazy people who like these tiktokers and the kid is trying to be normal. 😅

[@LaceySawyerFincher]

I just had a double mastectomy because of cancer as a straight, cisgender woman. I didn’t think it would be “that big of a deal” because I wasn’t “attached” to my breasts. Man was I wrong…. The intense body dysforia I didn’t expect and I CANNOT imagine just “doing it” for the trend… it’s gonna be rough for a lot of people who regret this.

[@pen15licker]

You are so brave and strong.

[@Dpurple28]

💜

[@rdred8693]

So did I. It was unpleasant. And you're not "cisgender". You're a WOMAN.

[@Totalchaos0228]

I so sorry for the feelings and illness you have had to overcome. These people don't understand ; to those with no choice, this isn't a fashion statement!! I couldn't imagine being in your situation and watching something like this. Sending prayers and healing vibes your way.

[@sweettea1193]

So sorry for what you've gone through. I'm also not super attached to my breasts, never have been...they're just kinda, well, there...but imagining them gone is horrifying. I could never 💔

[@colleenperez5607]

As woman who lost a complete breast to cancer......I have no words

[@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver]

God I'm so sorry. This must be miserable for you to have to come to terms with. I'm so glad you're alive without a breast, than dead with both. Your strength radiates your physical beauty.

[@GenieLiz]

Ikr. Wow how nice it must be to choose to chop off ur nipples. These ppl are ,I can't even find the words. I would love to have my old breasts back. I would love to have a body that was healthy.

[@thelivingmystery.africa]

I wish those idiot ticktockers would read this one comment

[@edithbella1018]

Are u better now ? Hope so ❤

[@AshleyWilliams-xq7lj]

My heart goes out to you. It's awful when trans activists imply that women who lost female parts to illness aren't real women. You ARE a real woman and a strong one at that. It's also disturbing that young people are voluntarily doing this to themselves with no medical need.

[@Lee-yq5lq]

I agree a lot with what you guys said. I'm trans male, 17, and have been feeling dysphoria for years since puberty. I just want to feel like a guy, work out, get muscle and a girlfriend, and it's very strange to me that there are people around me identifying as trans male but not having dysphoria, wearing corsets, dresses etc. I'm not saying it's bad or wrong because it's not my life and I'm not going to disrespect them and tell them they're wrong about their identity, but it really makes you feel weird because I hate being trans and these people are sort of making it into an aesthetic. I never asked to have dysphoria, but the kids around me treat being trans as more of a clout thing, I dunno. Sorry if I offended anyone but that's just my take.

[@nuklearboysymbiote]

I think for some people, making their transness into an aesthetic is a way to cope with dysphoria. Some are successful in doing that, some aren't. Some of these aesthetic trends stick and kinda become the expectation for trans people, and I don't really like that, because it builds a monolithic norm that puts pressure on people who may already be suffering from dysphoria.

[@creatrixZBD]

Your take is valid, it doesn’t matter if anyone gets offended by it💜

[@startracker5895]

@@nuklearboysymbiote yeah I agree with this.

[@aevenova9780]

You're not trans. Get out of this cult while you still can.

[@linagreenlyfe6705]

As a bisexual woman, it rubs me the wrong way when I hear young women say that they're "bisexual lesbians" or "bisexual straights". You can't be monosexual and multisexual at the same time. And by conflating the two, you spit in the faces of bi activists who've been saying for decades "being bi isn't being gay"

[@lizardfishbird]

I wanted top surgery for the longest time because I was SO uncomfortable with my breasts. I would have done anything to get rid of them. I ended up being able to get a reduction almost a year ago, and I’m honestly glad I didn’t end up having top surgery. They managed to reduce me 4 cup sizes and I feel so much better about my breasts. Turned out I didn’t need to get rid of them. I just needed to make them smaller

[@Feliciab67]

So many of these young women would realize the same as you. Too bad they get bad advice. Doctors should make them think about this before removing perfectly healthy breasts. Terrible!!

[@valeforedark]

Your poor back .glad you got the help you needed .

[@t-shades7148]

That's amazing! It's awesome when people can make decisions about their own bodies and get interventions that help them feel comfortable!

[@michellestamper5527]

Exactly...and im a member of the itty bitty titty committee who had big breasted friends who constantly wished they could trade places...as if I didn't have body/gender problems myself.

[@reheatthepasta9545]

I feel that way about bigger breasts but I don’t want back issues, everyone I speak to with big breasts wishes they were a bit smaller. But I could probably double mine and they’d still be small. However I think more people need to work on the issues they have with themselves rather than get surgery and botch their bodies, not everyone sometimes you need the extra help but I think a lot of this is trends these days.

[@mrsekkoreigns]

I'm a 42 year old transgender woman. I came out at 39. The first thing I did was go to a psychologist. Within my first hour meeting, I was asked if I was interested in hormone replacement therapy, I was given a green light to start, and given a number to an endocrinologist. I took it up on myself to go to therapy for two more years to make CERTAIN I was making the right decision. There is NO WAY...NO WAY teens are capable of making rational choices to medically transition on their own.

[@seandoesnpcshit]

You see the thing is, you’re an adult. You’re capable of making decisions (hopefully) don’t compare your experiences to others. A psychologist won’t strap a child down and inject them with hormones immediately. I am glad you’ve waited and hopefully you are happier. I don’t think I can wait more than 2 years as I’m suffering from bone crushing dysphoria

[@sweetdreamscr]

@@seandoesnpcshit unfortunately kids are being proved after a short session,m it became a cash grab

[@JokersD0ll]

You are beautiful Bailey!

[@mrsekkoreigns]

@@JokersD0ll Thanks. 😊

[@omarra6781]

Bravo! You went about it the healthy way.

[@lijunsu5259]

This is by far the most damaging trend i've ever seen... hope it goes away.

[@thetechieangler7650]

being trans or getting top surgery isnt a trend, all the video was saying was top surgery is for any trans person , no matter if u dress fem . masc or like neither , no matter ur body shape or race u are ect. its not saying everyone should get top surgery bc top surgery is for trans ppl to help gender dysphoria

[@thelivingmystery.africa]

Unfortunately some people on ticktock are making it a trend. meaning transitioning is not a trend but it's starting to look that way and affect people the same way a trend would.

[@ascendednightingale2456]

@@thetechieangler7650 It most definitely is a trend. If it wasn’t, there wouldn’t be so many detransitioners.

[@doid4354]

@@thetechieangler7650if it wasn’t a trend then why is it almost exclusively teenagers and young adults right now? Why are entire friend groups suddenly trans when having gender dysphoria and being transsexual is an actual rare disorder?

[@kellymarbette3343]

Back when I was 13-15, and this movement was on a huge rise, I genuenly almost convinced myself that I am trans and grew to hate my breasts. I wanted to have top surgery the moment I would turn 18, and then start transition. Now, years later (I am 19, almost 20), I realize that all that was happening to me, was insane media influencing me to the point of me almost modifying my body. In reality, I just did not like being a woman due to past SA and other sexist shit in my young teens/childhood. I just thought living as a man would be easier, however, hating being your biological sex and suffering from gender dysphoria is NOT the same. Many sadly do not understand the difference, until it is too late.

[@pewpewpew1834]

Same, I disliked my feminine parts because of experiences of my youth and a sexist mother, not because I’m trans. And it takes time to figure out where this feeling comes from, that’s why we need to let people mature first so they can figure themselves out.

[@art.65367]

Same, I now turn 18 and I actually got a gender dysphoria diagnosis at 15. I even got approved for top surgery. Am I glad that I had a weird feeling with it and didn't do it. I hated my body, but what I really had was body dysmorphia due to my eating disorder and I got talked into the gender thing by psychiatrists and the LGBT movement. The "professionals" knew about my ED, depression etc. and the trans thing seemed like an easy fix for my then-treatment resistent problems...

[@mongoosecavern]

That's the issue, you thought being a man would be easier. Those who struggle with wanting medical intervention know that transitioning into a man doesn't make things easier. It just makes it different, until one can stealth/pass as cis.

[@Србомбоница86]

You are so young still ,I was like a kid at 18 ,I didn't know anything lol

[@CynthiaAllenStrawberry]

I’m very happy for you that your life became yours.

[@lex9666]

Saying top surgery is for everyone not only insults real Trans men but it insults breast Cancer survivers. In my humble opinion.

[@antares5561]

👌

[@hijinnyanimations1460]

Oh I guess so.

[@asmrplushpaws]

If you feel insulted by people doing what they want with their own bodies to be happy with themselves, that's a you problem.

[@antares5561]

@@asmrplushpaws Someday you might mature, and realize how flagrantly narcissistic your cause is. Hopefully you will be apologetic. You are not a me problem, but I won't accept delusional behavior, or inflated egos to make laws that I have to pay for. Get a job, save your money, or get a credit card. More importantly, grow some character, principals, ethics, morals and values. If you had them, your gross display of immaturity wouldn't be spilling all over this video. Wish your mental health the best, do take care 🖖

[@morganboggis03]

@@asmrplushpaws if you’re watching the video you’d know they don’t care that people are doing it. The problem is pushing on tiktok an app where the demographic is mainly young teenage girl many with body image issue that this is for everyone. It’s not.

[@HellenBach]

I've admired buck since I was a confused gay teenager, he helped me learn about trans people and trans issues and realise I wasn't trans, just traumatised

[@mamejoe2043]

Am glad you are safe and he is your inspiration. Stay positive always

[@RenegadeContext]

I'm glad you cut through the insanity. This ideology is dead set on erasing young gay people. Be proud you have every right to be yourself

[@smarti1809]

​@@RenegadeContextI hate this part the most. Gay and lesbian people fought so hard to be treated equally just for some random insecure person to tell them their feelings and attractions are wrong. It's ridiculous

[@microwavedsalad893]

"Trans Healthcare" the only Healthcare system where you get to self diagnose, and then create your own medical plan. Solid logic lol

[@asmrplushpaws]

Yes because we know what we want from our bodies. It's our choice to make.

[@microwavedsalad893]

@@asmrplushpaws An adult should absolutely have that choice. I never said you shouldn't, I said the system is backwards.

[@Laura-Yu]

@@asmrplushpaws You must love wasting time commenting on videos from KZbinrs you dislike without watching their video. Because it’s blatantly obvious that you’ve missed their points.

[@theadorebundy4514]

@@asmrplushpaws as a grown adult go for it....and then we can laugh at the ticktock video you make later about all the regrets you have after....

[@asmrplushpaws]

@@theadorebundy4514 I won't have regrets.

[@Draqula_loves_blood]

There was a whole group almost a year ago trying to convince my 13 year old to get top surgery with them. I out my foot down and told her he'll no and had a long talk about it, of course she hated me for awhile, and the group slandered me. Oh well. 🙄 Not even a year later people in said group are wanting their breast back and my daughter is thankful for not jumping on the band wagon.

[@mongoosecavern]

I'm guessing you mean a group online.

[@Draqula_loves_blood]

@@mongoosecavern they were an online group a few she knew personally.

[@helenkapetis8869]

I don’t understand the mentality of these people.

[@smarti1809]

I'm so glad you protected her. If she still wants top surgery, she can make that decision after she's had time to explore more and is over 18. Those people on that group are irresponsible and I hope she makes better friends

[@archeacnos]

It kind of reminds me of groups of depressed people. That's absolutely bad for their mental health to stay in those groups, because obviously, their environment is only about pessimism. As a trans male, when I see a teenager talking about that, I don't deny what they're saying, since they could really be trans. But I use the "dealing with your dysphoria" excuse, to give them advices that could help them understanding that they're not trans, in the case where they are not. Basically, what I say is "which parts of your body don't make you feel dysphoric?", "which aspect of your face do you like?". The face argument is really useful when you deal with androgynous people, because they'll mostly answer you that they like how it doesn't look like their biological sex. And based on that you can ask them if they don't just like their face this way, and if they really want it to change. Then you can make them acknowledge that they have been perceiving their body the wrong way, by focusing themselves on the feminine / masculine parts, instead of just understanding that they like to look like masculine females / feminine males.

[@Jillibeaner]

I cried watching this video. Im a breast cancer survivor and had a bilateral mastectomy. That surgery was horrific for me and I have had to have hundreds of hours of PT to help with the scarring and tightness. To see the top surgeries flaunted and shown in that way is horrible for me.

[@legoshirocha]

I found those videos extremely disturbing

[@PhoenixRising87]

I'm very sorry for you, but that doesn't give you the right to shame others for their choices.It's got nothing to do with you. So much of this outrage against TikTokers comes off like a bunch of scolding hens sticking their noses where they don't belong. Just give it a rest.

[@Jillibeaner]

@@PhoenixRising87 I purposefully used “I” statements. Please explain how anything I said was remotely shaming. It’s my reaction to the video. Thanks.

[@peppersanches412]

PhoenixRising87 I agree with you, about sticking noses where they don't belong, but it's gonna happen. I'm 51, a trans dude, and just glad I don't know any breast cancer survivors. I would not put up with the ridiculous comparison, and their feelings would in fact get hurt. The comment below this thread says it in a much more neutral way. I prefer that comment lol.

[@sweettea1193]

@@PhoenixRising87 any type of body modification can be shamed, especially when regarding young girls who can't give informed consent. Notice I didn't just say consent, but informed consent. There's a big difference. A lot of these people can't give informed consent, so yes, as a society, we absolutely have the right to shame such modifications that prey on the insecurities of young girls who aren't trans...

[@ajd8558]

To me it seems like, if you're even removing your nipples, it might be about more than gender dysphoria, given that males also have nipples. That just screams bigger issues...

[@SalivatingSteve]

Right??? Male humans have nipples too. My guess is the ones who get their nipples removed had very large aureolass, which would let everyone know they’re actually trans, but not having nipples does that too.

[@myrkflinn4331]

Maybe that's body modification. Who knows. Cos nipples are for mammals and humans are but listen, if we go that route can I complain about piercings and tattoos then too cos these arguments become redicilous... Sure it's weird, but again, as long as cosmetic surgeries are okay, then removing nipples exists. That's the consequence of us beings wanting to be who we want, whether it being valid or not

[@t-shades7148]

In my understanding, many mastectomies require the removal of nipples. If you want nipples afterward, you have to get new ones adhered or some people get tattoos. That does cost more money so many people choose to go without

[@sometimesawful]

To be fair, they're offered this because of the fact that often when a nipple is removed and sewed back on it can go black and fall off, so you can have extra pain and necrosis, and lose one or both nipples anyway. But really it's about transhumanism at its core. The aim is to modify humans to be less human.

[@valeforedark]

Males have gender dysphoria .and body dysmorphia

[@michaelt8158]

I’m so thankful that I went to ACTUAL therapy as a transgender minor. I saw multiple psychologists because unlike many people my age I wanted to be 100% certain I am transgender rather than jumping to conclusions. After seeing around 10 different psychiatrists and multiple physicians I have medically transitioned. Each step was heavily monitored by my family and medical professionals. I hate seeing kids these days going for “Informed Consent” and getting on hormones/having surgery right after coming out. When that happens all it leads to is regret.

[@jazzcabbage9370]

Yes it's so wrong. I believe transition is right for some but gender dysphoria can be caused by so much more than just being trans. Trauma, autism, ocd, depression...affirmation 'therapy' is bullshit, I am so glad I got proper help and it turns out I didn't need to transition to resolve my gender dysphoria. I found out im autistic and had PTSD, I got treatment and now the dysphoria is gone.

[@PhoenixRising87]

You're not special because you went to therapy. Every trans person, especially young ones, who's going to transition goes to therapy and has to jump through all manner of hoops to get access to hormones or puberty blockers, let alone surgical procedures. Can people stop pretending as if just because being openly transgender is more accepted than it used to be means that steps to transition get handed out like candy these days? It's so childish, and it's going to damage trans kids who see this rhetoric and start internalizing it.

[@randomunicorn1133]

Congrats!! It should be like that

[@sodaandstars4389]

You don't know their mind or bodies or how long they considered and looked into it. You also have no clue when it was even safe from them to come out.

[@sparksoflife101]

Yes !

[@cindycurry246]

My mom lost her breast too cancer at 41. It devastated her for the rest of her life. She felt less of a woman. It affected what she wore too. This is disgusting and heartless to real women with breasts.

[@numbuhilostcount]

She sounds shallow as fuck to me.

[@cherylsabol387]

I’m 58 and when I was 19 and waitressing I meant a trans woman that had previously come in as a man; she told me she had to live as a woman for a year before surgery could be done and she had years of therapy. I felt so sad for her having to wait till her parents died to live the way she wanted. The trans push going on now is making a joke out of the real people that feel their in the wrong body.

[@Jujudeze22]

Yes, I worked with a trans women that was pre surgery in the 1990’s, she had to wait a long time to get approved. She was not open or closed, if you asked her she’d tell you but mostly she was our co-worker and friend. We loved her because her sense of humor and personality was 🔥 So witty without a mean spirit. Because of her therapy she was very grounded, I’m probably not making sense but she was like Buck, very wise. The approval process included years of therapy. These poor children, their therapists dropped the ball. Yes, and Buck is correct. Straight white tweens wanting so desperately to fit in are falling pray. I’ve seen it on adolescent psych units.

[@ihateallyall]

they feel they are in the wrong body because something is wrong with the brain. they are healthy and in the right body but for some reason the brain says otherwise. I believe we have not found the psychiatric cure to treating gender dysphoria, so now the only way to “treat it” is to just give in and take harmful artificial hormones and get surgeries our healthy bodies do not need which is just dangerous. it’s like giving in to a person with anorexia and giving them liposuction to remove their every bit of body fat because their brain tells them they’re fat. it’s the same concept.

[@stefanrobert7228]

A Made believe bull shit! We are all born differently and we accept it. Changing it will not go away the real issue . No need to drastically change your body since the opposite sec 99% of the time will rekey you any way. So , what did one solve ? “ we are what we are and all the cosmetics on the world cannot change it. It is an illusion … fake inside and out !

[@TheUnhousedWanderer]

I heard that back in the day too (I'm 41). What happened to LIVING AS A WOMAN before getting irreversible treatment or surgery?

[@WhisperGray]

How did we get to a place where top and bottom surgeries are being done on demand- but it takes counciling and pause for women to have their tubes tied ?

[@d3ad_b0diez]

It’s not done on demand. If it was that simple a lot of trans people would be able to access it. Barely any doctors rush to get even trans people in emergency to get surgery. Actual trans people are completely suffering due to the hoops a lot of us have to jump to even to get hormones. I do agree that it’s stupid how many hoops people have to go through to get their tubes tied but please don’t act like trans people are getting help that they need without counseling and therapy and whatnot. We have to go through it too. So please don’t also downplay our struggles. I’m so sorry to everyone being forced to wait to get the help they need. But trans people are not “getting surgery on demand” and it’s not any easier for trans people who are suffering to get the surgery they need than it is for people with uteruses to get these operations.

[@PTSarah32]

Exactly!

[@NoOne-wt6om]

I want to get my reproductive organ removed because of extreme period pain and being sure that I don't want to have kids but doctors don't let me because I'm "healthy" and there's "no need" but these "healthy women" can get their reproductive organ removed easily and instantly by just claiming that they feel like boy :((

[@WhisperGray]

@@NoOne-wt6om I'm so sorry dear. That's horrible. I got a taste of that with a copper coil IUD and I wouldn't wish that on anyone. A progesterone based IUD fixed me up.

[@seandoesnpcshit]

That’s not true. You have to go through at least 6 months of therapy and to get properly diagnosed with dysphoria. And don’t get me started on how long HRT and surgery lists are. (1+ years)

[@jenniferwatts6534]

I cannot stand behind the "you don't need gender dysphoria " to be trans. That's the whole reason for transitioning to begin with, struggling with gender dysphoria. If gender dysphoria isn't present then they are not trans. It's going to hurt those who actually are legitimately trans. Thank you Buck and Arielle, love that you have the sense that others are lacking.

[@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver]

The attention whores will always find a way to mess it up to the extreme. It's why I believe that one day we will have to have very strict boundaries to coexist. We will never live in peace as long as we have attention whores. We can never have a perfect utopia because of them. We can never have safe kids because of them. They will always exist.

[@trailertrish2587]

They've made it difficult for people with gender dysphoria to get the appropriate care they need while making it easier for those who will ultimately regret their surgical choices. How is that possible? I don't fucking know but it's happening

[@pleasewakeupkyodai869]

People say they have gender euphoria instead,

[@MR-tn5kv]

Agree!

[@MR-tn5kv]

Spot on - it’s body modification. Great to get Buck’s perspective who went through transition when it was tough & wasn’t common like the flavor of the moment way it’s being pushed now…

[@Trendygal8]

I’m a woman w/ very large boobs& have been considering breast reduction. I have chronic back&neck pain, grooves in my shoulders from bra straps, chaffing etc. it’s infuriating that breast reduction is considered “cosmetic”🤦🏾‍♀️Meaning I have to jump through hoops to get insurance to cover it while these people can just lop of their whole breasts no questions asked

[@momof1576]

Perhaps if you tell them you identify as a non binary person with small breasts that will work better.

[@Trendygal8]

@Mom Of1 🤔hmm that might just work lol😂

[@miyuryuu7260]

@@momof1576 non binary will have free or discount surgery?

[@agnes1250]

I had the same problems, up to size 38L. Two popped vertebrea in my cervical spine on top, and still it took 3 years and 2 insurance companies (I'm in germany, where they have to pay if it's a medical problem) to get a reduction. Best decision of my life, but I would never be without breasts alltogether.

[@JackieOwl94]

Preach sister! I have to do back exercises to keep my strength up to carry my own breasts. They take up 70% of my tiny torso. It’s very annoying. But at least they are mine. 40F.

[@CBDhotdog]

2016-2018 I thought I was a transman. I convinced myself I had dysphoria, cut all my hair off, binded, threw out all my feminine clothes and makeup and bought all new masculine clothing. I changed my name and had all my friends convinced. Even my family began to sort of accept it. One day I had an epiphany. I wasn’t trans. I just hated being a woman. I hated being treated like the lesser sex and being subjected to misogyny my entire life and I was trying to escape it. People like you guys and Blaire and few other people online are part of what woke me up and helped me put my life back on track. I get choked up thinking about how I was so close to ruining my life if I had gotten on testosterone and/or gotten top surgery. I am 100% a woman and instead of trying to escape it, now I love it and will fight for the protection of women.

[@genevievec.8002]

Do you have any advice for someone around a person like that? I don't know if it's just how common it's become to identify as trans, or if I just draw certain types of people, but I have had a number of people in my life identify as trans, primarily non-binary - a lot of them with a history of sexual abuse that I think has led to them hating being a woman, like you mentioned (not all - just ....3/5) The most recent is my young cousin - female, who has become more and more feminine in gender expression, but identifies as non-binary he/they. Said cousin has not exactly been making the best choices so far in the short time they've been an adult, and has a lot of traits that makes them more culpable to hop on the trend. If they are trans, great, fine - but I don't really think they are, and wish I could just do anything to make them actually reflect on it. They are really far left on the spectrum, and are around the types of people for the most part who will happily go with it, and would probably just slowly hide and remove themselves from the relationship quietly if questioned on it. Any tips on how to encourage them to really just think on it, and not just cause immediate push back would be amazing.

[@CBDhotdog]

@@genevievec.8002 To be honest, I came to my conclusion mostly on my own. I think your #1 concern would be trying to keep your friends from taking any hormones or getting any surgery-- especially if they are young. What these hormones and surgeries do to people are actually pretty horrific sometimes. I wish you and your friends luck. Really hope whatever they choose is the right and true path for them! Sorry this advice is not very helpful also-- it's very hard to help people like this because they often take reevaluation advice as an attack ;(

[@genevievec.8002]

@@CBDhotdog I appreciate the insight! My cousin is already taking hormones, unfortunately, but they are also very determined. I've been supportive to the most minimal extent possible to not get cut out. I've told them around a couple immature choices they've made that in the end it's their life, and their choice to do whatever, and all I do is offer my advice. I don't go too far with the trans non-binary stuff though, because I've come to feel that it's something they just have to figure out themselves. It kind of sucks to have to watch them potentially cause permanent damage to themselves, but if it really is a case where nothing I say will change it, then I don't feel like there's much else I can do. Talking to trans people, or people who thought they were, is the only way I can try to determine if there's more of a role I can play and actually be helpful - so even if the advice is basically that there might not be much I can do, at least I'm not just telling myself there's no more to do when I possibly could, if that makes sense?

[@sparksoflife101]

Me too basically was called"gender fluid"

[@annar3519]

Great message, you are so right. Many young women who think they are trans need to read this!

[@emilykonradt9570]

Someone suffering from gender dysphoria transitions because we want to fit in & blend in as seamlessly as possible in society living our lives. I personally do not want to draw attention to myself by putting myself in spaces that makes others awkward: women's locker room, washroom, women's sports etc. I'd use the private stalls if I had to or simply not be there. That used to be an issue for many many years ago but not anymore. I won't ever claim I'm the same as someone born female. There are many things I can relate to or experiences I have that may overlap theirs, but that's it. And that's okay. I'm my own kind of woman being trans. Respect is earned & should never be demanded. Thank you for being the voice of reason. Keep it up Arielle. Keep bringing people like Buck, Blaire & others that are willing to see reason & facts & not just emotions & ideology.

[@Laura-Yu]

Thank you for respecting women’s spaces. Transwomen like you are the realest👍

[@makeitrainnnn]

❤️❤️❤️

[@-MaryPoppins-]

Thank you for being so kind, and empathetic enough to care for how your fellow sisters feel❤️ You may feel out of the loop sometimes, but I personally will always look to find our similarities. And I truly hope you find a beautiful group of competent, wonderful women to join into❤️ at the end of the day, you being trans is a much smaller part of who you are than you may think right now. Your kindness, generosity, your ability to put those you care for above yourself in certain moments, and being a beautiful soul, are ALL way more important. May you find peace, contentment in who you are/what you look like, and finally find a spot in your life where that dysphoria dissipates hun❤️

[@HabrenOdinsdottir]

Ideology on TikTok tends to be idiotology.

[@ariellee2329]

Thank you, we love to see a based transwoman.

[@trublgrl]

_"This whole new trans thing is different than me."_ I almost cried, I felt it in my cheeks when I heard Buck say this. I feel so lost among these "transpeople" who seem to think that being trans is an act of will when to me and people I've known for years, it's a process of coping. I can be proud and trans, but I'm not proud to BE trans. It just happened to me, it's not an achievement, it doesn't imply anything except that I am a statistical outlier. These people act like the struggle is with the world, not inside of themselves, if they have endured any struggle at all. I feel like a blueberry in a field of blue painted strawberries.

[@LizzyMarieTina]

I'm sorry for the pain you have gone through. I went through gender dysphoria but did eventually grow out of it so I know I only can partly sympathize with you. I like how you said you made the change within yourself rather than expecting the world to change for you. I think that is the problem with most people today. I also love your analogy at the end. Much love to you.

[@trublgrl]

@@LizzyMarieTina If I were the only having pain, I'd greedily accept all the sorrow on my behalf, but we all have our burdens, some so much more difficult than mine. Still, thank you so much, I'm so glad you found your truth, and appreciate your insight. Much love. ♥

[@leahshalek6144]

You have the right of it! Arielle, Buck, and Blaire are your fellow blueberries!

[@haidner]

🤗

[@kopykat6843]

@@leahshalek6144 rose of dawn too ☺️

[@hollylaws3110]

As a straight woman who had to have a medical breast reduction. Top Surgery is not for anyone!!! This makes me mad & sad for these people at the same time. Love #Buck & #Ariella for talking about this subject.

[@RenegadeContext]

It amazes me how they are pushing the notion that surgery is inconsequential and has no side effects. I was born with club feet I had loads of surgeries in the bone, muscle, tendons and fascia. I live with life long side effects but it necessary. I can't imagine the side effects of removing organs like Mammary glands or having hysterectomies. It is fucking nuts!

[@hollywoodartchick]

"It's a very male thing to feel entitled to a space." Thanks for that. I have been feeling the "overcorrection" all over the place. It's good to hear honest people speaking with sincere concern for kids rather than mugging for approval.

[@marioluigi9599]

Urmm... what exactly is that supposed to mean? How am I as a man entitled? If anything, the most entitled people are these non binaries and they're mostly girls, not guys

[@justine-wf6iv]

That’s exactly why they say they won’t use the mens rooms bc it’s “unsafe” for them but when a third space is offered to them as a solution, that isn’t enough for them. They feel entitled to womens spaces.

[@marioluigi9599]

@@justine-wf6iv 'them'. Who's them?

[@justine-wf6iv]

@@marioluigi9599 Men who call themselves women

[@marioluigi9599]

@@justine-wf6iv oh well they wanna use the women's because they wanna feel like real women That's why they also wanna compete in women's sports.

[@50inflannel9]

As a female who just had a double mastectomy due to cancer, i wish they were not making this look so glamorous…i want true trans to be comfy in their skin but i think they are pushing this too easily, like it’s the answer. Yes it seems more like modification and i agree many later will feel different about their choices.

[@WhatYourtold]

Idk about others but as a transman I feel humiliated by my scars, especially in todays times. I still cant go shirtless at the beach because I am so afraid of being clocked. Yes its a relief to not have breasts, but I still am uncomfortable taking my shirt off because of the stigma that's been created.

[@jayvee1387]

Its really sad to see the trans community so divisive, with so much discord, general disdain for EACH OTHER (which is fuckin wild to me) and to see so many ppl trying to portray a "societal norm" that they cancel out any validity from ppl that are truly IN the struggle. It really has devolved into a sideshow, and I'm very sorry that you have to reap the repercussions of the willfully ignorant in the community. Real trans ppl just want to be comfortable in their own skin and that's what ppl need to show. Not all these clowns just doing shit for attention and special treatment... 😕

[@rdred8693]

Whatever. As far as I'm concerned, you're part of the problem. I watched your community throw a hissy fit b/c women with *CANCER* were put ahead of the line for a mastectomy.

[@leahshalek6144]

@@jayvee1387 Beautifully said!

[@leannjent51]

@Austin I have a friend that had really darkened scars and she had a tattoo artist match her skin tone and actually tattooed the scars with it. For her, it made all the difference in the world. If that is an issue for you, it would at least be worth looking into. If they are misshapen, you could get a consult (usually free) with a plastic surgeon to see about scar revision. No matter the case, don’t let them weigh you down! Scars are just reminders of your journey! ♥️

[@kopykat6843]

@@leannjent51 oh ya that would be really smart. I've seen some serious magic happen for tattooing burn victims scars.

[@jamierguillory]

Body modification...yes! And I can actually understand it from that perspective. In my late teens/early 20's I was getting tattoos for that very reason. I felt lost in the world and was trying to brand myself as something that made me feel like me. Now, at age 35, I am having all my tattoos removed. I am so grateful that I can reverse the decisions I made and also that I didn't do more modifications that would be impossible to reverse. It makes me feel sad for the young people growing up today, and also very protective of my children. Y'all are absolutely right about "creating your own problems." I did the same and I'm so glad I'm seeing that cycle and working to break it. We are raising very unhealthy young adults as a society.

[@kellyjoevans223]

One thing that weighs on my mind...if a woman has a mastectomy for cancer they still blur her photo but a woman who has "top surgery" can show nipples. Because they are now "man" nipples? Non binary nipples? Its perplexing to me.

[@myrkflinn4331]

Well, you can argue but then you'll have to tell cis men or any topless person with a flat chest to be blurred as well to have it even and fair . Tbh this isn't a trans issue. This is the issue of society. Same as people breastfeeding. They made it sexual when its literally not.

[@t-shades7148]

I wish bare chests were desexualized and destigmatized

[@EatWave]

@@myrkflinn4331 So the excuse goes. Men's chest are not censored even when being used in a purely sexual context while women's are blurred regardless of context. Perhaps it can be called institutionalized gynomorphobia of a sort?

[@nearlystuck6947]

Shoot tiktok (where that video is from) bans women for bare chest, but "transmen" with naked female breasts are not.

[@kopykat6843]

Honestly I don't think they should be blurred I'm either sex, with or without surgery. Somewhere down the road breasts were made to be sexual. They are not. They are a secondary sex characteristic not sexual. They are for feeding babies. That's it. Hell most chics I know don't have any sex stimuli when there breasts are played with etc. They either fake it cause the dude likes it or it feels good in the same way the arm or stomach it would feel good. Honestly, dudes that are super into tits and like to kiss or suck them just scream "I'm a manlet/manbaby!!!!" And is just too creepy to me. Breasts are for babies not grown ass adults.

[@DanteKingOfSin]

Happy to see Buck in a video. I watched him and Blaire talk about trans issues, and we need more transgender people to stand up for us. This is a medical and psychological issue! Take transgenderism out of politics and back into care.

[@asmrplushpaws]

A terf sympathizer that throws other trans people under a bus is not the correct person to stand up for trans people.

[@cori7209]

Yup .. that was a great video. You can tell they genuinely care

[@briandonovan1584]

Fantastic conversation. Trans-trending is really scary. Blaire White has done numerous talks with those who are wrecked because they had their breasts removed foolishly and with encouragement. Make it stop!!!

[@silverboom0jf764]

I just dug up the man’s bio. I didn’t realize medical technology had progressed so far.

[@deedeedee9310]

Well said!

[@flora8867]

The Tavistock gender clinic in the UK has been reviewed as unsafe and will be shut down. I hope this means people are waking up and give these people the real help they need.

[@Fallen-angel2020]

That’s awesome. They also changed the description on the NHS website from saying that hormone therapy is easily reversible to now saying there’s not enough to data to know what the long term effects will be.

[@brandonweis5648]

I remember being a little kid flipping on National Geographic and seeing buck angel. I must’ve been at least 10 and I thought it was very interesting that someone could feel trapped in the wrong body. I appreciate what Buck is doing and hope he continues to be an actual voice for what is right.

[@OohTarquin]

I really like Buck , he's the first trans person I've seen on YT who actually likes and cares about women. Most of them seem to just want to inflict themselves on real women ,and when they don't get their own way ,they become abusive.

[@kopykat6843]

Mars is also one of the good ones.

[@PhoenixRising87]

Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna go ask Buck Angel's ex-wife how much he cares about women.

[@libertyprime69]

Why is she performing in so called "gay" movies as if she was a man? It's like a male transwoman performing in "lesbian" movies...

[@ericaburner7917]

Blaire White is a gem

[@TrashyQuery]

@@WNT2BLV we aren't denying biology, or chromosomes, or organs. But i reckon we as humans understand the brain is powerful. Psychologically he's male, biologically he's female. None of us anti-woke transgender people deny our biology.

[@unintrestednerd]

I'm so happy I live in a country where they demand 5 years of therapy and a diagnosis of gender dysphoria, not to forget the age of 18 to get any physical treatments. And that puberty blocker's are banned. Because of their obviously hazardous side effects. I don't understand how could any parent allow them on their kids without doing extensive research on them first.

[@thetechieangler7650]

puberty blockers have no side effects. as a trans teenagers with servre dysphoria not being able to go on puberty when i needed to , to stop this horrible thing from happening has ruined my mental health. not being able to pass or been seen as a guy by guys my own age is so fucking distressing and it hurts so much. trans teenagers who have gender dysphoria from 10-16 should be allowed on hormone blockers so dysphoria doesnt worsen anymore than it has and ofc socially transistioning can help that too

[@Runescape12345]

@@thetechieangler7650 You'd be a lot more appealing if you weren't lying about puberty blockers having no side effects. If you were honest about that your clique wouldn't have such a backlash right now. I guess we can just put everyone on a puberty blocker and they'll stay the same age as they always were! You've just found the secret to immortality, clearly.

[@yanisole1806]

@@thetechieangler7650 altering normal developing nevers end well.

[@GenXfrom75]

I had breast reduction in 2009. I was a 38GGG. I am 36C now. But I had horrifying complications on my left breast. Necrosis, loss of the whole nipple and areola complex.... It's now a tattoo with terrible scarring. That video was horrifying and traumatizing, seeing people do that to themselves on purpose. That's horrifying to me.

[@andreaberryman5354]

@@mindoablues IT IS THE JACKSON PRATT DRAIN. They get plugged and infected.

[@redraven8963]

@@mindoablues I was a size H and have some tips for anyone wanting to do a breast reduction due to massive size. Pm me if you want to talk.

[@leahshalek6144]

I'm so sorry for all you went through. Thank you for sharing. I wish you a life of health and happiness!

[@GenXfrom75]

@@mindoablues yes, my doctor told me to quit smoking. Which I did. But I used nicotine gum. It's the nicotine that caused the issues. He knew I was using nic gum to quit yet never told me it was nicotine, not just smoking. Honestly, I'm still glad I had the surgery but watching a part of your body turn black and literally fall off is traumatizing.

[@kopykat6843]

GGG?!?! Holy crap girl! That made my back hurt just thinking about GGG.... Sorry that you had such horrible complications but even with that I'm sure your back thanks you for the reduction.

[@spacekip8390]

As a trans teen, I wholeheartedly agree with so many statements said here. How can someone be trans without dysphoria? For years I couldn’t stand to look at the feminine features of my body (and I still can’t). My chest is a MAJOR source of discomfort and dysphoria for me. And though I do feel like I would like to pursue top surgery in the future, I don’t think it’s something everyone should do. Just because you’re trans doesn’t mean you have to get top surgery, and if you don’t have dysphoria, what would make top surgery necessary?

[@jamesdellaneve9005]

30 years from now, we’ll be looking at back at this as barbarism.

[@PhoenixRising87]

Hopefully in three decades, you'll have a life of your own and won't have to stick your nose in what other people do with theirs. I doubt it, but I hope so.

[@queenkoi]

Possibility but it depends on whether or not there is any cultural stabilization by then or not. That one could go either way.

[@kenzielynne7078]

@@PhoenixRising87 It's kinda ironic to say that when you commented on what they wrote...

[@thumbwitch4607]

REALLY hope it doesn't take THAT long!!

[@robertdimarzio4490]

@@PhoenixRising87 Who cares if adults mutilate themselves. But stop sanctioning the mutilation of children. They aren't allowed to enter into contracts, smoke, drink, or vote because they aren't considered mature enough to understand certain things or make decisions, but you people are okay with them mutilating and sterilizing themselves. Sick. Let them wait until they are of age.

[@TheDianhanson]

What concerns me as a sex researcher is those opting to remove their nipples. When nipples are stimulated, by a nursing baby or a lover, oxytocin is released in your brain. This hormone is responsible for establishing feelings of trust, love and attachment. Nipples are not just decorative.

[@PhoenixRising87]

Why are you concerned with what other people do to their bodies? It's none of your business. Just leave people alone; Jesus Christ...

[@TheDianhanson]

@@PhoenixRising87 I'm concerned because I see teens on Tiktok making decisions that last a lifetime baed on social media fads.

[@ajlee2168]

@@PhoenixRising87 why are you telling everybody to shut up instead of actually saying something of worth? it seems like you care a lot about what other people think, yet cant accept someone simply having a different opinion. you clearly disagree with everything thats been said here, why waste your time responding to tons of comments just repeating 'its none of your business, let people be' when you could enjoy some fresh air

[@PhoenixRising87]

@@TheDianhanson You don't know a damn thing about these people's lives. You're making assumptions based off of a few minute long videos. Get a grip.

[@hellomynameisrioo]

Keeping the nipples through a nipple graft also eliminates sensation because the nipples have to be taken off, resized, and placed in a new location. It will no longer release the oxytocin chemical or respond to stimulation. I am a trans man who opted to not keep my nipples because they would never pass as male nipples even if they were resized. Instead I will be getting realistic tattoos from a professional medical tattoo artist.

[@Ventikaze]

Man this has made me realize a lot of stuff that’s going on around my life as well. I came out as a trans man in 2017 mid October because I was following a bunch of trans white kids that told me if I felt dysphoric about my body then I must be trans. I liked going by masculine pronouns on the internet as I also liked men (being labeled as mlm) so I thought something was wrong. I was on the topic of gender dysphoria while talking to one of my friends, and I said “I don’t like my breasts, they are too big and take up alot of space” and then she replied “if you don’t like them then you should get a breast reduction, I’m sure that’ll help you” and that made me realize that I was having gender dysphoria because of how big my breasts were, not because I am “trans” so for the sake of the LGBTQ community I won’t be identifying as anything until I actually get proper therapy as to why I feel this way about myself. I will still be going by he/him, but I legit don’t know what to do because I’m just confused. I feel like I was brainwashed by alot of people on TikTok that posed as “trans advocates” that immediately give you a solution for your problems. “Oh you don’t like your boobs? You’re trans! Cut them off!” It just doesn’t work that way,, and now a lot of kids (one being myself) is going to grow up, and regret this 100 percent. I’m not getting top surgery at all anymore and I’m so glad that my mom didn’t actually go through with the procedure. I honestly feel like if I got top surgery then I would feel incomplete.. Update: I am now going by she/her pronouns and I am now identifying as the gender I was assigned with at birth, a cis woman. Tysm for the advice under this comment because it did help me a lot. I’m finally my true self and I will be saving up for a breast reduction in the future. Much love to you all

[@frederiquem6725]

Are you sure you don't mean body dysmorphia? People tend to confuse the two terms, but they are not at all the same. If you are confused, try to consult a therapist. Try to find the answer within yourself before you try to change everything around you, including your body, because if it's not gender dysphoria and you self-medicate it as such, the underlying problem will never go away, no matter what...

[@starstorm1267]

If you don’t like your breast not because they make you feel like a girl, but because they’re too big and take up a lot of space, it sounds like you’re suffering from body dysmorphia not gender dysphoria. People often get these two conditions mixed up which can be dangerous if people start getting surgical transitions if their confusing dysmorphia for dysphoria. I say that before you make any permanent changes to you’re body, go see therapy and talk throughly with professionals about this. Whatever it is your going through, I hope you find a solution to it that will make you happy

[@sparksoflife101]

Omg same i personally dont like the community anymore makes me feel unsafe even tho i am queer

[@Naturalista91]

Dear... I just had to comment. A lot of people were like you. Have you ever asked Jesus to help you out? I know many people don't like to even hear His name but I'm telling you: you will NEVER regret it. Ask the God who created heavens and the earth, and also you: Ask him to show you who you are. Many of us used to think we had a whole other identity before we were saved but truly it's the best thing to learn who you really are. God bless you

[@JoaoMarinhoSP]

First of all, I would leave TikTok if I were you. This is the most toxic social media ever, with a bunch of people posing as "enlighted" people when they actually have no idea about what they're doing or speaking of. Also, @Frédérique M gave a good advice. Find a good therapist. It's not uncommon to feel uncomfortable about a part of your body... But that doesn't you must cut it off. I have a little belly after being overweight for some years and I don't like it, either. But I don't have to cut it off because of that. Find a good therapist who can show you that you can live a happy life with your body, that your body can please a lot of people and it's completely normal to have one or two "body issues". Surgery is not the answer for everything and for everybody. It is not.

[@shannons8974]

I had a loved one die of cancer when I was young and before she passed, a double mastectomy was used as an attempt to save her life. To this day, seeing those scars on someone's chest legitimately sends me into a state of shock that, I hate to say, I can only describe as a triggering... I have no kind words for people who celebrate a double mastectomy in this way. My aunt did not celebrate her attempt to save her life. It was incredibly hard for her and watching her struggle with this was extremely hard (I was 14 at the time and I still cry when I think about it... I am 40 for the record...). "I have no kind words" but I have a lot of words I won't use here...

[@-astrangerontheinternet6687]

1:25 the one thing that we all truly share- is insane Medical bills.

[@i.cant.sleep.anymore]

I had no idea Buck Angel was so based. Thanks for standing up for women, Buck. It really means A LOT to us.

[@ca_quixote]

What does based mean?

[@EatWave]

@@ca_quixote It is a slang term meaning the opposite of Debased.

[@ca_quixote]

@@EatWave originating in popularity from Lil B The BasedGod?

[@PhoenixRising87]

Buck Angel is a twisted old man who's salty that trans kids in 2022 aren't suffering as much as he did (like that's not the whole point of social progress). There's nothing "based" about that.

[@sukamayoutube2323]

Are you trying to say bias?

[@fuzziebunnie83]

I find it really scary that it would be easier for me to get diagnosed with gender dysmorphia that it is for me to convince professionals that I am in fact ADHD.

[@sonialinsey8083]

It’s apparently easier to convince someone you need to transition than it was to convince my doctor that my meds for my autoimmune disorder were insufficient. It took several years before I gave up and switched doctors.

[@celladora31]

ADHD medication causes body dysmorphia.

[@csebesta84]

@@celladora31 no it doesn’t. I was on ADHD medicine from ages 7-18 and am now taking it as a 37 year old. Stop lying.

[@Konnordawg]

@@celladora31 wow. You are insane.

[@celladora31]

@@csebesta84 those studies must not have included you personally.

[@greybeardgamer2067]

ANYBody? I'm a 50-something straight, white man with only a normal amount of gynomastia. Is Top Surgery for ME?!? Oh, BOY! I can't wait to tell my wife.

[@sweettea1193]

I thought it was normal for girls to have at least some body dysmorphia with their chest at some point in their lives. I was told it's just part of puberty and it's nothing to worry about. Most girls go through it. It's natural. It's disgusting that a perfectly normal feeling in young girls is being twisted into making these kids believe that there's something inherently wrong with them, when there isn't I still experience occasional body dysmorphia at 25 and that's ok because it's a perfectly normal feeling. I still like my little girlies because despite everything, they're beautiful and always have been.

[@CosmicEremite]

I still have occasional dysmorphia about my boobs. Never liked the or felt totally comfortable with them. I don't feel the need to transform myself or mutilated my body. I grew out of the other stuff eventually.

[@drnobody418]

Beautiful said. Our bodies are temporary. They are the vessel that guides us through life until death. We need to learn to take care and accept that the body is beautiful, imperfect, temporary and, forever changing.

[@HabrenOdinsdottir]

Aameen. I'm 41 and I still have moments that I'm uncomfortable. (I'm also going through foot amputations right now and have gained some weight)

[@HabrenOdinsdottir]

@@drnobody418 We are Passing Travelers in this world.

[@DarkAngel2512]

I'm 42 and still have dysmorphia. That's quite normal and I guess prob common.

[@MsJimmysgirl]

The bad thing is, I would be willing to best that in less than 5 years the majority of these people are going to regret their top surgery after the gender ideology craze goes away and people come back to reality. Btw who are these crazy surgeons that will do this but women that want a hysterectomy have to jump through hoops or denied all together

[@Wormwoodification]

Thank you for calling it what it is a Body Modification. I love that. I know I've spent years and years identifying with men, with my masculine side, because I'm gay. Everyone has both male and female, yin and yang, on an energetic level, a spiritual level. But I am a woman. I am not nor will I ever be a man, no matter how much I feel connected to them inside. It is normal to connect to both genders internally.

[@yummysushipyjamas]

Feel exactly the same as you except I am straight

[@itskitty808]

Same here

[@hannahbeatestoffelen1733]

This.

[@lilangeldreams2846]

Yeah exactly ! At first too, it felt weird, cause I always been comfortable being '' masculine '' (in looks, even with long hair, with not feminine clothes, and in personnality), but everyone around me kept telling me that I was maybe trans or non-binary, and BRUH NO Everyone is so disconnected that they can't understand that people can feel like this and not being trans, sometimes it even hurts cuz that means I can't be a women if I'm not 100% a stereotype, I know they didn't want to be mean but geez...

[@HerbanMagi]

So true, I can match a lot of my females friends feminine energy. However when I’m with my boys I’m definitely just another dude. Nothing wrong with that. I’m a man and happy about it.

[@ozzuwazzoo4124]

I’m so grateful I found such knowledgeable individuals. When I came out to my parents I never told them about my gender dysphoria. I even denied it. But it’s definitely showing, I am uncomfortable with my body, And I can feel how uncomfortable I am watching these videos. Hearing a trans man who used to have gender dysphoria explain what’s wrong with these things was very enlightening and hit close to home for me. Thank you for giving actual advice instead of shoving “you are valid” in my face like all these TikToks. You make me feel like I’m not alone in this journey. :)

[@theliminalist4429]

Ive been saying this for years -- my problem with the current trans movement is because it is inherently at its foundation based on misogyny. Thank you for saying it.

[@ZanderKeig]

If school teachers, school counselors, school administrators, school social workers, or school nurses are truly concerned about the welfare of one of their students being harmed by their parents (kicked out, physically assaulted, sent to conversion therapy, etc.), because they are LGBTQ, they have the duty to report that to their State's Department of Child Welfare (Protective Services). They don't have a right to drive a wedge between that student and their parents.

[@christinesinclair6938]

I am so glad I graduated when I did. People would have called my tomboy ass "trans" were I just ten years younger.

[@uyoebyik]

I was able to be boyish when I was younger without any issues. I became a teenager in the 80s and my 20s started in the early 90s. It was perfectly ok to have short hair and wear jeans and hoodies back then. Now they would make assumptions

[@rozlynedwards2551]

You guys are amazing! I am Australian and was a nurse and our country is starting to follow the USA (as usual) with this whole ‘situation’. It is really great to hear you emphasise that the true trans people have a mental health issue and need help before surgery! Thank you for your voice of reason.

[@stefanielieb5258]

Mental health is real and needs to be recognized more

[@Cappurniggas]

The sad reality is that a bunch of them will end up killing themselves.

[@asmrplushpaws]

Transphobes fault

[@asmrplushpaws]

And I doubt that makes you sad. It's what you want to happen to us

[@Cappurniggas]

@@asmrplushpaws The truth shall set you free

[@fey__3919]

@@asmrplushpaws You write that under the video containing a trans person... someone Ariel fans appreciate and respect for speaking his truth against this "everyone can be trans"-agenda/movement. Also you're probably 5 years old, stop watching videos you don't understand plzzzz

[@jayvee1387]

@@fey__3919 Literally this! Also I just LOOOOVE the "its always someone elses fault" argument.... Don't you? 🙄🤦🏽‍♀🤮

[@Callumdevan17]

I'm struggling with my dysphoria, these people are making a mockery of people with genuine dysphoria. I am really offended by these people.

[@brookelee9745]

Did you not hear that Buck has been dealing with gender dysphoria his whole life? Dysphoria doesn’t change that facts of biology and that school employees are manipulating children with an agenda.

[@Callumdevan17]

@@brookelee9745 I'm completely aware of that, and I do not agree with what schools are doing with kids in relation to sexuality and gender ideologies. I haven't lost my sanity because of my dysphoria.

[@randomunicorn1133]

@@Callumdevan17 Good because kids shouldn't be put on puberty blockers

[@Callumdevan17]

@@randomunicorn1133 good becuase I'm struggling?

[@randomunicorn1133]

@@Callumdevan17 No hell no not because us struggling about what u said

[@BuilderLee72]

I'm one of the ppl who remembers Buck when he first transitioned and the heartache and torment this beautiful man walked tall through and came out of the other side of still in control of his faculties! I've got to, being a cos (HATE that word) male, give Buck Angel total credit and Kudos for being true to himself and for constantly standing up for genuine transexual ppl... Blessings be upon you Buck, and you too Arielle x

[@squirrelchaser2651]

Oh my gosh WHY are your voices not heard from every rooftop?! Thank you for saying what the rest of us think. Love you.

[@davidprince1138]

The cult has instilled fear into every corner of where spineless politicians sit.

[@tophat7735]

Because buck Angel is generally not supported by the lgbtq community for being quite conservative and dismissing many trans people as not trans because they don’t meet what he considers to be the requirements(which is bs, given everyone experiences gender identity disorder slightly differently).

[@AsheDuran]

I have had friends who regret their top surgery because they thought they would feel better about their bodies because they hated being sexualized as a "woman" and I always told them that is not the right reason to even consider top surgery. As for me, to me, I never was a woman...I never felt comfortable with breasts. So I am happy with my decision years after. Because to me, it was correcting my body...not changing it. I think thats the best way to describe it

[@ihateallyall]

we need to find a psychological cure for gender dysphoria. I just do not believe that removing or mutilating crucial body parts to make the brain happy is just so wrong. it’s like giving an anorexic person liposuction. and taking lab made hormones when your body is trying to naturally produce the opposite hormone… it’s just not right. I hope there are advancements toward how to fix the brain instead of damaging the body on behalf of the brain.

[@AsheDuran]

@@ihateallyall You can't really cure any mental issue at all unless you destroy memories and feelings which is honestly not ideal at all for a human to cope in society. The skin outside at least can heal, I personally think the brain is more important than a skin suit. And that depends on people too, I already had my body naturally produce huge amounts of testosterone so when I transitioned it helped my body be better for ME, it sucked having both hormone levels sky rocketing nonstop, never had period, had a lof of acne problems and a lot of mood swings cause my body naturally had both hormone levels fighting off. I chose for me whats best to live happier in my life. But not everyone's story and experience is the same

[@zumurudlilit]

@@AsheDuran so if your brain tells you you are a toddler? It is ok? If your brain tells you that everybody is spying on you? Or that your leg is dead and not a part of you? Or that you are cleopatra ?

[@amandalogan89]

I definitely think a lot of the young women jumping into these surgeries are doing so to escape how hyper sexual and super feminine the current beauty standards and cultural expectations are. From porn to movies to any media, even things like that Euphoria show that was supposed to be high school has women all super glamorous and sexed up. Theres little room for teen girls to just be. To see themselves as they are naturally. To live without their body being treated as for men or their body hair as disgusting on them but normal for a man

[@9395gb]

​@@amandalogan89agreed, which is why women who grew up in the 80s and 90s need to start speaking up and out on this.

[@Msmollylinhanhthai]

I agree 100% with buck. I am different then those people. I'm still trying to save up for my surgery because of how bad my dysphoria is. This is a necessity for those with gender dysphoria. These people are just body modifying. I don't even think they want to transition. This makes me sad because why would you go through that if you don't have to? Why do this to your body if you don't have to. Arielle and Buck. I love you both. Thank you for standing up for what is sane and honest and true. But From one Transsexual to another thank you for being a voice for our community.

[@wade2bosh]

they are non binary not trans binary

[@mitchellcrane9809]

Work to heal you mind rather than go under the knife to modify your body

[@moommoom6915]

Good luck overcoming your dysphoria and getting ur surgery so you can be yourself ❤️❤️

[@Billybloop]

I mean people have boob jobs. How is that really any different?

[@iiiiiiiiiiii90000000]

It's insane how much the comment section has changed it's tune on Arielle's videos. Go back a few years and you get tons of extremely loud and angry voices and now people are finding Arielle's space as refreshingly rational and logical in a strange time. I too went through the phase of thinking labels and identity was so damn important. And it is important.. to a certain extent but that should be more something internal and doesn't need to be shouted to the world. This whole identity thing, with the help of social media of course, has become such a focus to the youth that the youth are becoming raging narcissists who only care about themselves, their image, and their "oppression".. The truth is, your body is simply a flesh prison- a vessel which allows your soul to experience life. Modern western thought is so preoccupied with the "individual" that it has made our society sick. And I'm talking about both "sides" (woke radicals and trumpers are both afflicted). In reality YOU as an individual means nothing in the broader picture. YOU as an individual cannot exist without the whole. You cannot exist without society, without the ecosystems and without mother earth. Just watch the show Alone if you think you're so damn great as an individual. Because you're not and you wouldn't actually survive alone. And that's OK. If you feel hurt from this statement, it's even more obvious that your ego has been inflated to such ridiculous limits that you cannot even fathom this. We need to tear down the idolization of the self and come to the realization that we need each other and we need the planet to be who we are. I say drop the labels and the identity problem, because there are actual REAL problems this world faces that are more worth fighting for. We don't even have universal healthcare or free college or good public transport in the U.S.. There are countless people losing their homes adding to the already crazy amount of homeless people. Most young people aren't making a living wage, can't afford a family, can't afford a home, can hardly afford rent. Can you imagine if we as a collective decided to put identity aside and used the same energy for these things that would actually be life-changing and life-saving for millions in this country? The individual's plight needs to shut up and take a backseat for a while to make way for the masses who are in desperate need of support, which includes the individual anyway.

[@robertmiller5735]

The problem is the good normal, calm LGBQ (97%), do NOT get all the attention. Only the - I can think of a nice name/label for them - get all the attention. This is why I love, adore you and Blaire White-Black. The world needs you two as leaders of the sane.

[@ajlee2168]

sometimes i feel like the good, normal people dont hold any power and it honestly scares me

[@CajunGators]

@@ajlee2168 I tried. A decade ago. And I was harassed by the local mob and people did nothing but message privately. When I first heard the “no one is 100% it’s a spectrum” but I said that’s a lie. It’s ridiculous today

[@DarknessIsThePath]

I call them the Woke Cult.

[@llCoupDEtatll]

As a Trans man, when I spoke with my Trans care doctor even he admitted that the system is flawed. They don't want to be viewed as gate keepers for people doing what makes them happy with their own bodies, but that in turn means that they can't properly regulate who is getting these procedures done. It's a slippery slope. I am not bothered by people doing what makes them happy, but I am bothered by it when it takes away resources from the people who actually need it in order to feel mentally and emotionally stable. People without dysphoria taking up the time of the doctors that people with dysphoria need to see is just beyond frustrating considering how long it can take to even get in to such a doctor.

[@starmom4497]

I am 100% in agreement.

[@toshiyaar7885]

That bothers me too, taking away the resources of people who need them. Xxx

[@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894]

Masculinised woman please use right term makes things easier

[@boogiecats]

In a world without the social media beast and seeking validation from others online, NOBODY would be cutting off parts of themselves to feel like they fit into society... it's obvious.. whether it's right or not is something else.

[@sincerely-b]

I agree.

[@amandalogan89]

I mean there are a few noted historical cases I think (the infamous “Danish girl” for one pre social media) but it was very very rare and seems recognizable as some sort of mental issue and not something to be validated. That or like the Danish case, something that unethical and probably homophobic surgeons used as an excuse for experimenting on desperate men.

[@Darthdoodoo]

The body mod community part is spot on. All the teenage girls that had emotional problems in school were piercing and tatting up to feel good about themselves and now its this shit

[@flailsafe5094]

Can we also discuss the brutality of these top surgery procedures. It's brutalizing to either put a patient under anesthesia and mutilate their body while they are are asleep, or have them take an ativan and they are awake but relaxed while you take off their body parts (as is the case in liposuction). When you are in the room watching it, you see it as profit, but you also can't help see but someone wanting to see their ideal self with the use brutal human medical capability. It's just kinda....wrong. It's one thing to inject painful lidocaine in someone to cut out something like a skin cancer, it's another to pump loads of it into them to cut out something that was meant to be there.

[@asmrplushpaws]

But we consent to it so it's none of your business.

[@windycityliz7711]

@@asmrplushpaws It's Medical Malpractice

[@asmrplushpaws]

@@windycityliz7711 No it's not.

[@windycityliz7711]

@@asmrplushpaws Check out the lawsuits re: genital surgery for religious reasons. Then in European countries re: trans treatments for children. Then in some medical associations re: trans "treatments", e.g. endocrinology. Then re: other medical "fads". It's coming.

[@jayvee1387]

@@asmrplushpaws You can consent to a lot of things that you would absolutely regret if you stopped long enough to think about what is happening. And you can hardly say something thats being constantly and consistently being thrown in ppls faces is "none of anyone's business" 🙄🤷🏽‍♂

[@Ashley-WatchmanStudios2.0]

WOW.. As a Breast Cancer Patient, who has now undergone 2 mastectomies accompanied by a full hysterectomy, I wish I would have had a choice. I had no skin-saving, no nipple saving, and 4 emergency surgeries after to help save my life. They literally took out more than just my breasts, they took out meat from my sides and under my arms. My scars look horrendous, and I feel completely BUTCHERED from head to toe. I'll never feel like a real woman again. I would give ANYTHING to have breasts again!! But, in order to even consider reconstructive surgery--I would have to undergo several painful processes that involved fillers to help stretch my skin with weekly injections into my chest, to help stretch my skin. Then they would have to swap out the fillers for actual implants. I may never be able to get them, in all honesty. Where was my choice?? MUST BE NICE!!! I'm sincerely appalled by these horrible people who appropriate actual physical and medical disabilities. There's a special place for them.

[@AshleyCarewArt]

❤️

[@Andy-yj5mj]

❤️

[@iISwhatiIS]

Sorry, that sounds awful. I hope you can have a successful relatively painless process back to feeling good in your body…whatever path that may be for you! All the best! ❤

[@merrickwylde5154]

A body modification movement. That's it in a nutshell. I feel for genuine trans-sexual men and women whose experiences are being invalidated by this nonsense.

[@JenAmazed42]

You guys are blowing my mind in the best possible way. Thank you so much for being bold and standing strong for our children!! Thank you! In the last few days I've discovered so many new people on KZbin and I've gained so much knowledge and understanding that I did not have before. I think I have a different perspective in comparison to many people who are in my "demographics." I'm a cis, straight (mostly lol, played in the minors, never went pro with women) white, married to a man, Christian woman from the South. Appalachian hillbilly, with a decent education, very little exposure to the rest of the world in terms of travel, raised in a place that wasn't and isn't very diverse. But I was raised by loving (albeit dysfunctional) people. I wasn't exposed to a lot of people who were very different than my family and myself. But I was brought up to know that people are people and to treat everyone with respect. I would love love love to have a conversation with Buck.

[@nunyabizniz1983]

My daughter has gender dysphoria. She’s 17 this year. She’s uncomfortable in her body but she knows she’s still growing and maturing. She’s under mental health care etc. it’s sad this has become so ‘fashionable’ makes it harder for the people who are literally struggling in their own skin. I’ll be there for whatever she needs in life. X

[@silverysnowfox]

I was a tomboy growing up and hated my breasts during my teen years. I'd wear tight sports bras to compress them and wear loose boys clothing. It didn't help that my self esteem was shit and I was getting picked on in school. 10+ years later, I love my body and I'm glad i didn't do anything to change it. I'm comfortable being a woman now. Don't let teens make these decisionsa

[@nunyabizniz1983]

@@silverysnowfox I totally agree.

[@mave7236]

It makes me so sad to see how disillusioned they are about thinking that they love their body when in fact they hate it. I’m so sorry so many people have to go through such a harsh life lesson.

[@puffdaddy69]

Society is backwards and people in control are letting it happen. Rules/laws need to be made and enforced

[@asmrplushpaws]

Nothing wrong with hating parts that dont belong to us.

[@cv-cq9ry]

@@asmrplushpaws Whatever happened to just love and accept yourself the way you are? Why do you have to change everything to be your authentic self. Newsflash, changing things is NOT AUTHENTIC. Get a clue.

[@cv-cq9ry]

@what? Normalizing the removal of healthy body parts is not the answer in the majority of cases of dysphoria and not necessary at all with those that think they are trans but are probably not really trans.. Proper counselling however is key. Most teens resolve their dysphoria by adulthood and a growing number of individuals are detransitioning and SUING those shrinks and doctors that have needlessly conned them into surgery, and taking cross sex hormones or puberty blockers which are NOT reversible after a period of time. As usual, follow the money trail and never forget that Big Pharma are very powerful lobbyists, as are the military industrial complex, big oil and big tech.

[@thetechieangler7650]

@@cv-cq9ry here are the actual facts. u cant out grow dysphoria but a few ppl do mix up the feelings of body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria. less than 1% of ppl detransitions and detranstioning normally happens from not being accepted , some trans ppl detransition to keep thier family , friends , house ,job ect. hormone blockers are always reverseable. whenever u decide u want ur purberty to carry on/begin u stop taking them and then it carrys on ur puberty

[@matthewtylergee]

I’m Christian and I grew up in a very Christian conservative household (And I MEAN VERY). I’m disgusted and disappointed that there are parents out there that still would throw their kids out for being trans or gay. It’s sad! I could never do that to my kid and I had this discussion with my folks. They could never do that either. Still loved unconditionally!

[@mongoosecavern]

💛

[@ikarria4161]

I wanted to be a boy when I was a teen. I lived mens t-shirts and jeans. I did grow out of it when I realized WHY I wanted to be a guy so bad and that I had a very skewd life view. Now I am happy with who I am. A woman who likes all kinds of things and still would be considered a "Tom boy" the hard lines of what's girly and what is not is old fashioned. I am grateful that I didn't grow in an environment like today. I would have been so confused and eventually pushed to make a decision that could have destroyed me.

[@startracker5895]

Society makes girls and women hate who they are because of misogyny. Sad but true.

[@CorgiAvenger]

Same.

[@MrJustonemorevoice]

Pretty much every man and woman I know has gone through a phase of dysmorphia, particularly around puberty. This is a plot to reap medical bucks

[@rosehannah4845]

Just imagine having to be dependent on hormones the rest of your life $$$$$

[@MrJustonemorevoice]

@@rosehannah4845 The popular term for that is 'lifelong medical patient'

[@drayuh192]

Big pharma always have their hand out to take money. There is so much money to be made on hormone therapy and surgery right now.

[@jadefire2817]

This isn't body modification. This is straight up body *mutilation.*

[@lindagarvey7868]

I agree with buck, as a mother of 3 I always had an open door for conversation, a safe non judgemental space and my kids always came to me and never trusted school workers.

[@TheBlaizeEneri]

Ex-‘pan’…love your channel…the narcissism is the real pandemic! Keep rockin’ it!!! 💕

[@mslissacrenshaw]

It's crazy. All of this identity obsession is leading society towards stripping our individuality and making everyone the same. Ironic but that is where this goes.

[@evang6919]

Yes, you’re spot on with calling it a body modification movement .

[@tfromt.o.9774]

This is sooooo refreshing to hear… TRUTH & TRANSPARENCY! THANK YOU TO YOU BOTH!!! I also was around the body modification community in the 2000s and yes this is reminiscent of that culture, pattern and desire to be unique and stand out while still becoming like your peers in your community. And as a Bio Woman I appreciate the recognition that women are losing so many rights and recognitions that the long line of woman before us who were TRULY OPPRESSED fought so hard and so long for! ❤️✌️

[@shoutatthesky]

Buck is still pretending to be a man so thats hardly "truth"!

[@tfromt.o.9774]

@@shoutatthesky he’s been truthful about how it’s not as easy and without longterm health consequences as the media is selling it to be. That’s the truth I referenced.

[@shoutatthesky]

@@tfromt.o.9774 It is good that she is not presenting it all as positive but she is still living as a man which is pretty dishonest.

[@cosette999]

My daughter insists that she wants to have me a part of her life and she wants to love me but to do that I have accept her as my son, use her preferred pronouns, and the name she wants to go by. She is 20 years old. I told her that I would be willing to readdress the topic if she still feels this way after she has turned 25. I don’t believe she has gender dysphoria. She’s like me, a bipolar masculine female with borderline personality disorder. She hadn’t spoken to me for 15 months because I won’t acknowledge her trans identity. I have a feeling I am going to lose her again. I don’t want to but I can’t feel okay feeding in to any type of delusional thinking. Life becomes too confusing if everything is subjective and just based on one’s current feelings. That type of mindset allows for no consistency and where there’s no consistency there’s no self discipline and accountability. The one difference between us is that she is a lesbian. However, I have also been told to never refer to her as a lesbian again. According to her she is bisexual man. I asked if she was attracted to men with penises. She actually looked nauseous while emphatically telling that under no circumstances was she wanting to be with a person who has a penis. Can someone please explain to me how the hell a lesbian can be considered bisexual when the only people she wants to have sex with are the same sex as her? Did I miss some type of seminar that explained the absolutely insane thinking that the younger generations are using so it could at least make some type of sense? Am I going insane or is my daughter going insane?

[@shannonelledge1313]

I'm not in your position with my children but I resonated with your "bipolar masculine female w/ bpd" because that is so me too. I think its your daughter going through one of our infamous "phases" as I like to refer to them now. It took me getting to 30 before I really knew what I wanted in life. Hopefully she knows before she makes a decision she'll regret. Keeping you two in my thoughts and prayers.

[@cosette999]

@@shannonelledge1313 thank you

[@asmrplushpaws]

@@cosette999 You don't deserve to see your son ever again and I hope you stay mad about it ❤

[@cosette999]

@@asmrplushpaws I see my son regularly. My daughter is not my son. I deserve to keep the memory of the nurse handing me my swaddled daughter while smiling and congratulating me that “it’s a girl” after we barely made it through the birth. Do not tell me what I do and don’t deserve because you’re one of those that needs to strap into a delusion simply because you don’t feel like you’re enough. I can promise you that you just as you are is enough for this world. Stop convincing yourself that it’s not. If you have BPD life never feels comfortable except during those rare moments you can distract yourself from feeling how uncomfortable it is. Learn to accept yourself before trying to change yourself.

[@gregkava1276]

@@cosette999 okay i have bpd along with bipolar type 2, and i am trans.... are you saying that because of my bpd i wouldn't be able to know im trans? part of my issue with what youre saying is because i sorta did that already.... i've waited 23 entire years because since my earliest memories i wanted to be born a girl and prior to puberty didnt understand that i wouldn't grow into one and had people in my life similar to you telling me to wait because i was a child and couldn't possibly know... yet that entire time i was stuffing my shirt while "oovooing" friends (YES OOVOO DAYS IF ANYONE REMEMBERS THAT), i would be a woman in my dreams, i would play video games always picking the girl character, like do i think that along shouldve made me been transitioning before being 10 years old? noooooo not all, but i should've been put in therapy because i was already having situations trigger me in school, like when they would separate us by girls vs boys, which in therapy i would've been able to work through and see if it was tied to my gender dysphoria or if because of my abandonment issues were they triggering me and making me feel soooo uncomfortable on the boys side because my friends were all girls and the mere idea that i could be vsing my friends equated to me abandoning them or them abandoning me, and then see what i would be able to do about it in the future and what my options were for that moment..... getting older it only got worse tho, i was seeing pregnant women in my family and thinking how badly i wanted that experience, i would actually get annoyed when my female friends would complain about their periods because while yes i was empathetic and caring to them and like would def just take the pain so my friends who i loved so deeply couldnt be in the pain anymore it was also because i wanted the experience myself, i wanted the pain, the cramps, the period, the ability for pregnancy, all of it........ im 23 and i still think of myself as a woman (i personally don't need society to refer to me with specific pronouns because while yes id like to be referred to as she/her im also aware that i fuck up pronouns so others will too and that shouldn't affect the way i view myself) i say this all because i dont mean to be disrespectful when i say this and i am really really sorry if it comes off that way but i think you need to sit with the "pick your battles" thing because realistically tomorrow is not something any single person has guarenteed and i would really hate to see you lose tomorrow and your child end up having to grieve you while also dealing with their own issues, and i would also really hate to see them lose tomorrow and you have to mourn your child while also thinking about the wasted negativity yanno??? like if you can refer to them as your son now can they be okay with you referring to them as your daughter when they werent transitioning? some trans people are okay with that so long as you understand the past is where the past pronouns belong............ also about the whole lesbian vs bisexual thing, i think referring to them as bi is more tied to their gender identity because if they did transition to a man they would say they were a guy that likes girls and is therefore straight but because they are in the inbetween area of not transitioning but also not being confident in their own gender its like half being a girl who likes girls and a guy who likes guys..... (they may also identify with bisexual because they dont wanna date biological males but since some biological females identify as nonbinary they wanna say that cis females and non binary females are the two genders they would be attracted to thus making them bisexual while still being like no penis like a lesbian would)

[@SundayMourningLove]

If I had school-aged children, I would without a doubt homeschool them! Idc how much I worked or how tired I was or what the heck ever, I would figure out a way to homeschool my child(ren)! Just the fact that schools are giving kids puberty blockers behind the parents backs is all I need to absolutely never send my kid(s) there! I saw a thing on some father who received a call from the school saying his child hadn't picked up his antidepressants. Turns out the school had a therapist come in some months back and put some of the kids on antidepressants without ever informing the parents. Obviously he was furious, but there was nothing he could do about it, what they did was apparently legal. Schools have far too many liberties with children that do not belong to them! First the school system was dumbing down it's students, the next generations to lead and rule. Now they're straight-up indoctrinating them; confusing them and turning against their parents and against basic morals and anything pure & good. The public school system has become the enemy.

[@ShayShayChardonnay]

"IM SICK AND TIRED OF THEM TALKING OVER WOMEN" ❤

[@luc716]

I‘m glad that I’m from Germany. It is obligatory to go to therapy (to a trans specialist) in a special institution. You have to go there for about 1.5years (longer if you are a minor like I was) and I had to do normal psychotherapy (that is common requirement for many trans people) bc I had depression and anorexia. One have to proof they lived as a opposite sex for 2 years, before I got approval for hormontherapy. Then I needed more therapy to get operation. And to get operation on your genitalia is exhausting and long process. When I changed my sex and name legally I needed 2 different legal opinions from psychiatrists ordered by court office and I needed to proof that I live as a man, and they had to examine if there is a possibility that I will detransition. They asked me everything: from sex life to childhood like everything (but now they changed the law regarding the legal sex and name change). It was long and exhausting process of many years, at least for a real transsexuals who are suffering, but it is obviously necessary.

[@mariaf4396]

women who have had breast cancer and had mastectomies must be absolutely appalled at this self mutilation

[@sleepy_koko]

Wait till you hear of some videos of trans kids saying they are jealous of their mothers with cancer because "they get top surgery before I do"

[@mariaf4396]

@@sleepy_koko yes, i have seen those. these kids need slapping

[@PhoenixRising87]

I'm no expert, but I think most cancer survivors feel so blessed to be alive that they have no inclination to stick their noses in other people's buisness.

[@kenzielynne7078]

@@PhoenixRising87 You haven't been reading the comments then. Every one of them has taken offense. I'm not surprised you didn't realize. You have 289 comments on this channel, and they're all hate filled. Maybe take your own advice and mind your own business. If you don't like a channel and what they stand for...don't be here.

[@SarahTea]

@@PhoenixRising87 yeah I wouldn’t waist my time on these people. It’s all weirdos obsessed with others life’s, same internet shit. IRL no ones saying this shit to anyone. Go outside , feel the sun, enjoy ur peace you deserve.

[@wesside-333]

I need top surgery for my Coca Cola fueled man-boobs.

[@jessicavalley9211]

😢😂😭

[@Laura-Yu]

Oh noooo😂🙈

[@Returntonature145]

I had them on my teenage years.Nipples were large and puffy.I had breast tissues which did not grow which i am thankful.Now after years of working out,i reduced a bit of my breast tissues.I needed to do surgery to reduce the nipples and lost at least 30% sensitivity.But i am happy because for man,nipple sensitivity is not necessary.

[@avann2006]

I needed this years ago when I was being shut out of women's spaces as a woman for DARING to question if transwomen had a undeniable right to them in any circumstance.

[@noturcis]

This is socially accepted cutting. It's a pervasive problem with young females. Now cutting is done by doctor.

[@JaneDoe-rj4jn]

The guy at 5:45 looks like someone you would hide your children from.

[@erikafreeze5721]

I believe your work is much needed. Thank you for standing up for the true trans community and for working towards protecting our children and society from false ideologies.

[@murtithinker7660]

Buck still maintains her/his female gestures. That's nice.

[@chellib3533]

We need to get these two and their friends to testify in front of Congress 👏👍🇺🇸

[@musicaismylovica]

I agree there needs to be a middle ground. Especially when children are involved. I personally don’t really mind 16 & 17 y/o transitions but anything before that is unacceptable (outside of puberty blockers). I think we just need to give children the acceptance to be able to explore who they are but balance that with skepticism and push back. Look for insistence, persistence, and consistence.

[@soelvfaks1]

as a mother and grandmother, I am sooooo grateful that you are doing these videos!! Thank you.

[@TaylorsOdyssey]

I don’t necessarily agree with the message that top surgery is for anybody, but it does make me think about the choice some women make to enlarge their breasts in order to feel more feminine and sexy. Is it so wrong for an adult to want to remove their breasts in order to feel more androgynous or masculine or whatever? I think adults should have the freedom to alter their bodies however they please as long as they don’t push it onto anyone else.

[@threatlevelworldwide1544]

That person on the right is a real life example of a horror movie character. "They have seared their consciousness with a hot iron"

[@gilldey636]

Bible quote right on

[@TEM14411]

God loves him. Matthew 7. Judge not lest ye be judged. Luke 6:38....May we apply scripture in our life and remove the log from thine own eye. Scripture is to help us and guide us. Not a tool to condemn and judge.

[@emmanuelking9988]

Interesting how they say there's "no gender" but one of the first things they want to get rid of is their male or female anatomy 🤔 Sad and beyond disturbing what's happening.

[@marioluigi9599]

That's because according to them, their anatomy is not part of your gender. It's just bodily organs. Nothing to do with gender at all ...but if they annoy you, you can just cut them off. Easy!

[@emmanuelking9988]

@@marioluigi9599 I'm not annoyed by them Mario, it saddens me to see this distortion promoted. And one's biological anatomy determines one's sex, it's fine if you disagree...easy 😐

[@seandoesnpcshit]

Gender exists

[@marioluigi9599]

@@emmanuelking9988 well removing organs doesn't change your anatomy. It's still gendered through and through

[@maggiehopkins8945]

I think kids that have more freedom, without ethics, will do crazy things to get attention and love. I've seen it myself growing up, and now I see my kids' friends acting out. This whole "trans" thing with kids is "but will you love me now that I've done xyz?" And what the kids NEED is for you, as a parent, to stay "stop it, you're hurting yourself."

[@kaidenreading7152]

That hypnotic voice..."top surgery is for everyone..." Right out of a horror movie. Advertising it as if it were some kind of a harmless top shop crap. "This mop is for everyone...if you get one now you'll get another one for freeeee, yayyyy". It sounds totally stupid and terrible. Now we all do it or what??! Crazy.

[@cameoglass2147]

A double mastectomy is freeing? These women will find that not having breasts will solve very few of their problems. Surgery, and impulsivity, are not without a new set of issues. Treating unhappiness with a scalpel is poorly thought out.

[@kristydurdin2880]

This conversation is wayyyy too mature and logical for the internet. This is a breath of fresh air. The main thing I can't stand about the whole movement is the hypocrisy and the blatant disregard for logic.